#men are subhuman

[brilliant-belladonna]

If I see one more “femmine and masculine energy” post I’m going to LOSE IT.

Men are not “divine” or spiritual in any way. They are subhuman.

To be divine is to create, something only a woman can do

[spitblaze]

I guess Chilchuck has brought us right back to 'adults who are short are child-coded and if you like them you're a pedophile' discourse huh

[she-is-ovarit]

I see straight and bisexual women suffer so much from male partners in the smaller ways.

When he doesn't put the time in for you and misses events that you would never miss for him—such as your birthday—or maybe you always schedule birthday parties for him and he has never returned the favor.

When you take a ton of photos of him on your phone and he has maybe four or five of you and you've been together for years.

When you've spent nearly every holiday with his family and he's only gone over to your family's place with you for the holidays once or twice (just enough to argue that he has) and you've been together for years. And maybe he argues that it's because of the distance because, surprise surprise, you have moved to a closer location to his family rather than the other way around.

When he has fathered a child from another woman yet you frequently find yourself stepping in to protect the wellbeing of this child because he doesn't put much effort into bonding with them and gradually you find yourself assuming a lot of the emotional and logistical parenting duties.

When he's hyperfocused on his job and money and seems to consider whatever job or career you have as more of a "hobby". Or, the reverse, you have a well paying and meaningful career and make more of an income than him and he becomes incredibly resentful of you and insecure in himself.

When you put in effort to cook decent and healthy meals for both of you for lunch or dinner and he puts in no effort to learn how to cook or intention to nutritionally take care of you.

When every show or movie you watch, or any game you play, seems to always depend on his preferences and he's unwilling to try anything new that you're interested in.

When he always drives and is rarely if ever the passenger, and if you express you'd like to drive (and be more in control of where you go and the safety of your lives) he becomes reactive in some way.

I can really go on, but the point is, when he is the main character in both of your lives and doesn't practice even a basic standard of consideration and respect for you (except for a short time after you've had an argument maybe), don't ignore this and don't let this go. Forget how he seems to know exactly the right things to say and how to say them to you to smooth things over and pay more attention instead to his actions and behaviors. Would you do these same neglectful things to him?

[tigercomplex]

fully predicting that the hostility towards trans men on this site is going to blow up even more within the next two years. like the popular position is that trans men need to shut the fuck up and quit being so hysterical already so what exactly is stopping it from going further. if you can't even criticize a deeply transphobic and gender-essentialist cult from like 10 years ago we might just be fucked on that front

[chapst1ckmcdyke]

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[simptasia]

"women suffer due to misogyny" is not the same as "being a woman means inherently suffering". the first thing acknowledges that there is a problem that needs to be solved. the second mentality doesn't motivate towards change. saying that women inherently suffer implies that that's the way it will always be. that's fucked

[grim-echoes]

i know this is a thing that gets joked about but every so often i'm reminded of how there are genuinely people out there who are so utterly slack-jawed, eyes-glazed-over addicted to unnecessary difficulty/frustration in video games that it becomes the centerpoint of their self-worth and of their opinions of others and if they so much as catch a whiff of you criticizing a game's design for feeling frustrating they'll drop an entire sociopathic screed on you about how you're morally and genetically inferior to them, and i really think we need to bully these kinds of people more because i can't imagine having such an obvious complex over something so fucking blitheringly stupid and worthless

[worldend]

the way men are so obsessed with trying to 'humble' women specially talented ones on their attractiveness so they can feel better about not being good at anything is so insane. sydney sweeney is not 'mid' and you KNOW this

[subconsciousmysteries]

Nothing feels quite as good as rubbing love in the face of men who don't deserve it.

[scriptlgbt]

I'm writing a story with a Black trans man mc, I want to subvert the "angry, aggressive Black man" trope so he's fairly shy and awkward but becomes more confident as the story progresses. However, I'm worried this falls into a trope of trans men being weak or "girly". Any tips on still being able to subvert the first trope without falling into the second one?

@writingwithcolor has covered the intersection of Blackness and gender before, and may have some posts that can help as a jumping off point.

[dilfenthusiast]

If you get on tumblr and go “damn some of y’all hate men :(“ and think it’s comparable in ANY WAY to men’s real life constant enacted hatred of women, you have scrambled eggs for brains. Women posting “men’s loneliness is not our problem” and “I do not care about incels” is not even remotely close to the violence, cruelty, and dehumanization women face on a daily basis. “Oooooooh some of you are mean to men” they’ll be fine. Society upholds everything men have created, some online misandrists saying they hate men is not going to topple civilization, it’s not going to drive up male suicide rates, and it’s not going to make men think any less of women than they already do.

[liebgirl]

there’s no way you just got annoying merlin hate oh my god head in hands 😔

I HATE IT SO MUCH WHEN MY ARTHUR BBC MERLIN POSTS BREACH CONTAINMENT LIKE. THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW I WANT TO EAT THAT MAN LIKE A LION FEASTING ON A GAZELLE 😐😐😐😐😐. like i guess i can see how that person interpreted what i said to be like mean or whatever because they reblogged it from someone else who also doesn’t know me so it’s like three degrees away from my original post. but in what world is “ugly hot” an insult like read the second word…. and women calling men ugly isn’t even an insult anyway like i’m not attacking anyone’s fucking character or worth as a human being i’m just saying he’s funny looking damn….

[gnawing-pain]

being in the presence of my male relatives and university colleagues have led me to believe that men should only exist in fiction

[87dvhnk]

Friendly reminder that women are disgusting subhuman whores who look for any any every opportunity to abuse other women. ❤️ "can i get away with it" the whore asks? if yes, she does! boy howdy, you bet she does! ❤️

[marshmellowtea]

god. the way a lot of y'all talk about men is Bad