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relnicht · 3 months ago

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why do i always get hyperfixated on D-list celebrities that are barely googleable and you'll have seen everything that you can find on them online in an hour (including their personal facebook which they haven't updated since 2019)

#ig it's bc I'm not actually attracted to real celebrities and i like people who are a bit unreachable and i don't really know so i can #admire and obsess over them from a distance #whether that's my hot colleague or a guy in a fringe show or someone in her breakout role as a side character in some minor tv drama #i just don't like major celebrities bc i suppose i don't find the Hollywood beauty ideal hot and people need to be a bit flawed and ugly or #mean or whatever to be attractive #not saying this like I'm not like other girls. like. im the sort of autistic who wants to be like other people #this is about a guy in a fringe show #obsessed #idk why but i saw him in the opening number and was like awh he's not the main character:( i want him he's so cute. but then he was the main #character yay:)

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forcedhesitation · 1 year ago

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huge ew at all the people who erase the bisexuality of the bg3 companions. they aren't "playersexual," they aren't "gay coded" or "lesbian coded," there are MANY instances of them expressing romantic and/or sexual interest in other characters of varying genders. and not just your tav. it's not a suggestion, it's part of who they are no matter who your tav is.

#bg3 #thoughts about media #you can obviously see certain companions have a preference #which is a normal thing for any bisexual to have!#and it's equally as normal for a bisexual to have no preference!#but astarion clearly favouring men doesn't make him gay #karlach having flirtatious interactions with shadowheart doesn't make her a lesbian #gale being terribly hung up on his ex girlfriend doesn't make him straight #bisexual means a whole array of different expressions of attraction to all genders #it doesn't just mean whatever halsin has going on lmao #and that's not to say i'm against companions in games like these being gay/lesbian/straight #but that's NOT what bg3 did

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normystical · 6 months ago

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ATTENTION ALL ALASTOR SHIPPERS:

uniromantic

THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME. PROCEED

#it means you only experience romantic attraction to one person in your life ever!!#some people get their only crush SUUPER late #sooo a few decades or centuries works out fine :3 #just as long as it's not a poly ship lmao.. two crushes makes you NOT uni because. uni. like. u know ur root words right #also IT IS NOT “fixing” one's aroness it is an aro identity of its own and not superior to any other identities !!!#just saying that bc fandoms fucking suck #anyway i think it'd be cute. especially with his disgust for even platonic affection. tryna be all intimidating #then THAT all of a sudden?? the agony. such silly billy blissful agony. not blissful for him but for the viewers of his suffering like us #tehe #uniromantic alastor #arospec alastor #aro alastor #alastor #hazbin hotel #FML what if i secretly put a hamburger emoji in tags 🍔 yeah that's right fuck you society #radioapple #radiostatic #duckiedeer #charlastor #what other fucking ships are there uhhhhh #idfk i headcanon him as full-on stereotypical aro whatever you call that i don't even do this bullshit #voxal #radiodust #alastor x oc #i think i am cringe.#i sincerely believe i am cringe and terrible. mayhaps social anxiety. who tf knowssss #P.S. as long as HE is not the one with multiple crushes i know polycules are whack #but ofc he could be grayro but where's the fun in that (there is lots of fun in it i am sorry)#radiorose

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orcelito · 1 month ago

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It's so fucked honestly that people genuinely believe that others Need to put effort into their appearances in order to be attractive. Like I dunno about you guys but I fucking love people's natural appearances, messiness and all. We are not the same.

#speculation nation #like sure i love a cool outfit as much as the next person. but i never base my attraction off of that alone.#and honestly i personally find extensive makeup Less attractive.#not that it makes someone Ugly. but by that point it's more like. idk. an art form?? and im not attracted to art.#im attracted to real people. sweaty hairy people with laugh lines and messy hair and WHATEVER else #real people!!!!! both men and women!!!!!! shut the fuck Up with your 'id be more attracted if they put in some effort'#i care about someone keeping up with basic hygiene sure. mostly bc my nose is very sensitive to smells lol #but thats not what they ever mean by this. they see an average guy just existing and go 'hmm he needs to put in more effort'#like shut UP if you dont like the average joes then go away!!!! more for me!!!!!!!!!!!

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fiendishartist2 · 1 year ago

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smth i think ppl get wrong when writing jon is that he has to be a bitch but he cant be cruel. if you take away his bitchyness its not jon anymore, he just becomes a fanon husk of himself. but if you make him too mean, then you're forgetting the awkward politeness and humanity of jonathan sims. remember: he may be a stubborn dickhead, but he let martin stay in the archives without having to be asked, even back in season 1

#i love jon so so much and it makes me sad when ppl get him wrong #i dont think in another universe jon and martin would get along bc thats not the kind of ppl they are. they're meant to piss each other off #(and attract the other but yknow. besides the point lol)#jon is an uptight bitch and thats just who he is. sure in the later seasons he loses the stick up his ass but hes still petty and rude #bc thats what makes him jonathan sims. the ability to be a bitch who cares.......#and i think it goes the other way too. taking away his ability to care about others and show it in his weird obscure way is also inaccurate #jon doesnt say mean things bc he doesnt care he says them bc he lashes out in the situations hes put in. and also bc hes a bitch #idk man you can do whatever you want but i think the main thing you have to do to get jon right is make him a stubborn bitch #tma

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silvermoon424 · 1 year ago

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It fucking blows my mind how so many men will just see a picture of a woman and feel compelled to publicly announce whether he finds her fuckable or not. This happens on basically every social media site and also irl. Like, did you ever consider that maybe she's not desperate for the approval of random men and she doesn't care if you think that she's too fat or her nose is too big or whatever?

It just gets really disheartening running into this time and time again because it really hammers in the point that far too many men only value women for our looks. Like they have the capacity to comment literally anything and somehow it always comes back to whether a woman makes their peepee hard or not.

#this happens literally EVERYWHERE you can't escape it #like nobody is holding a gun to your head and forcing you to be attracted to people you aren't attracted to #so why do you feel compelled to proudly state that you think fat women or women with muscles or whatever are ugly #you're not some brave cultural warrior you're actually just conforming to standards of beauty that have existed for centuries #btw I don't mean to imply that women never do the same thing but I just feel like it's not as frequent #rant #misogyny #male entitlement #feminism

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shalom-iamcominghome · 3 months ago

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People findinging out that antisemitism does, in fact, victimize people

#jumblr #jewish politics #antisemitism tw #nothing is more instantly frustrating than the 'jews just want to victimize themselves!' thing #yes actually. bigotry victimizes people. that's why it's called bigotry #honestly this is just me venting about this because i see this way too much #it's even more confusing how much i see it from 'leftists'. you sound worse than my conservative family #it's less that leftism is a set of principles to some but rather that it is an ego-boost i think #it's the aethetic of being a Good Moral Person without any of the work #you won't have to make any uncomfortable reckonings with your own pitfalls #you don't need to worry about what Actual Inclusion looks like because that's not the appeal of leftism #the appeal of leftism is how it props you up #i think in this case this is less a horseshoe theory moment rather it's just that people just...#don't care about the principles they say they have adopted because aethetics are a very attractive set of values #and the people who are hurt most by this is everyone else. it's the jews who won't make a stop in entire cities because they are unsafe #also to make this emphatically clear: antisemitism victimizes people (primarily jews)#this does NOT mean that i am saying someone is like... essentially a victim or they are Cursed or whatever else #recognizing that someone can be victimizes doesn't mean that someone is by character/nature a victim

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rouge-the-bat · 2 months ago

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exclusionists really love to tell other queer people to die bc of [checks notes] they dont fact check and just believe that bi lesbian has been coined (it hasnt) and the coiner was a terf (it wasnt) just bc they heard it from other exclusionists. and for some fucking reason believe that bi lesbian is a terf term despite a ton of the other people telling me to kill myself over being a bi lesbian have also been terfs.

"who cares to hear out fellow queers who are just using an unconventional label. i overheard an Unsourced Bad Thing so they must all die, obviously."

#also controversial opinion. even if something had a problematic origin and/or uses #it doesnt automatically mean it can never be used positively #obv theres nuance there and it depends on the situation #but regardless it doesnt apply to bi lesbian bc its been in use for decades by various people and didnt have some specific origin point #jfc. can anyone just do some fucking research and not just believe whatever theyre told #bilesbophobia #fellas is it homophobic and transphobic for a genderfluid aroace queer with a complex relationship with attraction #labels their orientation in an unconventional label while dating a girl gayly #clearly this is the worst offense to all of my fellow queers. me using a label for myself.#death tw

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fizzigigsimmer · 1 year ago

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We will never meet preseason 1 Steve. But I say, let him be a bitch. Let him be mean. Fill in all those blank spaces the Duffers left in his past with parties, weed, and hookups with girls he can't remember the names of. Let him have scratched their names in bathroom stalls with disdain while skipping class. Let him have real shit to regret. Broken hearts and shattered dreams, and eyes that glare after him with real hatred that brand him: ASSHOLE. Let him deserve it. Let him disrupt the class! Let him terrorize teachers with a sharp tongue and shitty attitude. Let him be funny! Let him be cool! Let good girls like Nancy & Barb love to hate him and hate that they love him. Let him be savage! And let it all bore him to tears as he searches for something that means anything. Let him be lost so that it means something when he finds himself in our stories.

#Steve Harrington #I mean write whatever you want #But for me #this was what attracted me to the character. He's a lost asshole finding himself and breaking good #that's interesting #let the boy be interesting!!!!

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jellybeanium124 · 7 months ago

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idk why this week has been healing weight gain tummy week but I'm fucking loving it y'all, let's keep this up. stede next. stede deserves it too. if the stummy has a thousand fans I am one, if the stummy has 10 fans I am one, if the stummy has no fans I am dead.

#why is there so much discrepancy in the amount of attention and love their tummies get?#is it coz taika is slimmer and more 'conventionally' attractive?#(I mean I think rhys is hot but yknow whatever)#is it because ed had more tummy-focused moments in the show while we never really get a clear clean shot of stede's?#a combination perhaps?#idk why but I wanna close the fucking tummy gap it's no fair #ofmd #our flag means death

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hypervoxel · 8 months ago

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The first time Vox said, "I love you," to Valentino, it went horribly wrong, because Val laughed and made a joke about how often he's heard that as a sex worker (especially now that he's in Hell and has become a walking talking aphrodisiac that Vox was currently high on). Vox is now so self conscious about his feelings and has never voiced them that way since. In Val's mind, he told Vox to only say that if he means it, but Vox hasn't told Val he loves him ever again, so Val certainly isn't going to be the one to say it first.

#Vox and Val also experience love and attraction very differently. not incompatibly tho. i mean they're not healthy by any means #but they make their toxic cesspool of a relationship work. for them.#voxval #anyway i will find a way to work this detail into my fics. but it is the basis of like a dozen of Vox's Issues #where Vox is like 'i can't let the people i trust most see me vulnerable' even tho it literally would not be an issue #because he confessed his love once to Val and Val laughed at him and acted like Vox was the same as anyone else he'd fucked #(bc Val was not ready to admit that Vox had wormed his way into Val's heart. Val doesn't love easily‚#he finds sex and desire a whole lot more readily than any emotional notion of love—but Vox is one of the few people he would say he loves)#so Vox always has this nagging anxiety that he is not nearly as important to Val as Val is to him #(doesn't help that Val rants to him all the time and whatever is going on with Angel Dust this week)#and then of course. Vox confessed to Alastor and Alastor rejected him very soundly.#and. what are Vox and Val doing if not making their relationship issues with other people impact their relationship with each other?#staticmoth

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machabre · 3 months ago

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