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the world when you realize that it is completely pointless to correct other people's grammar and spelling 99% of the time and it just makes you look like an ass when you do it anyways
#the world when you realize that the nature of language is flexible and adaptable#and unless someone asks you for help or clarification it does not harm you to let someone just be 'wrong'#*your#who gives a fuuuuck you know what people mean move on#nothing triggered this btw it is just me speaking my heart to you all#.txt
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Hi there friends ✨
As part my November writing goals, I was inspired by @1lostsoul0fishbowl to do a weekend wip challenge to help keep my target wc goals on track!
I'm gonna list out the wips I'm currently adding to and anyone can pick 1 (or more) wip with a number of sentences you want me to write. Just send an ask with the wip(s) and # of sentences and I'll send back a snippet when it's been completed.
My goal is to finish all of the reqs by Monday am😁
WIP List:
Aurelias- hellcheer long fic, yall know it
Let the Light in- photocheer sequel
Burnin'- patrick x chrissy
Heaven- charlie's angels au for nancy, chrissy, and robin (new)
With Love, - robin character study in France (new)
Show me - tripol ficlet (enterprise fandom & new)
Polish folk au - untitled hellcheer inspired by slavic fairytales (new)
Feel free to send as many or as few asks as you as you'd like but keep the sentence number under 30 please ❤️ if you have no prefence of wip, just put "wild" in the ask and I'll choose randomly 👍
I'll reblog periodically, but thank you for for reading this far if you have! Happy reading and writing friends ✏️
#wip challenge#weekend wip challenge#send me asks with wips and a number for motivation#ask any questions in the comments if you need clarification#thank you lovelies for helping me write!#stranger things fanfiction#star trek enterprise#hellcheer#photocheer#tripol#cheertrick#robin buckley
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the past two days ive felt like i genuinely can't decipher what a majority of the text ive read said . i can't tell if it's a coincidence and it's typos or english not being the writers native language, or if it's my brain fucking up consistently.
#teamcasper#i feel like i have increasingly become “more” autistic since i became an adult#it's getting harder and harder for me to communicate w and understand ppl#having things be over text helps but not being able to ask for clarification if it's a random post makes it hard anyway
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Y'all can laugh at this real world shit.
#Not snz but...#I just got an email from a client#And it took me 20 minutes to figure out what she was trying to tell me#It said “I ate and no one said shit.”#I'm a life coach/counselor that specializes in helping other neurodivergents#I'm going over my notes like “did she mention an eating disorder?”#Did my ADHD ass really miss something big???#So I send her a response asking for clarification because I don't want her to think I'm ignoring her#I tell her that if she wants to discuss her eating situation we can do that#She is MASSIVELY confused#I am MASSIVELY confused#And then?#She explains that she meant she kicked ass and no one said anything#Y'all...#Gen X and Elder Millennials need help with this shit LMFAO#I'm not good with uncommon meanings of common words#Or short forms of common words#Or skibidi sigma whatever lol#For the love of all the gods...DO NOT make me invoke Pauly Shore#Don't tax my gig so hardcore dudes#Or you'll know that I'm just trying to chill in my pad with some sweet grindage#Why do you think Grimm talks the way he does??#BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ELSE LMFAO#This has been a gnarly PSA#Oh and for additional LOLS#When you “ate it” during my time?#It means you fell down or failed lol#I'll just got back to writing courtly bullshit now lol
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can you edit your form response, or will additional details have to be personally communicated to your gift maker when they're later revealed? thought of something that might've been helpful to put in the suggestions box unforch i already submitted the form a while ago. pretty sure the answer is negative but just checking :]
if youve already submitted a form, then yes- additional details will have to be communicated to me through discord dms or my other host. if its something your gift maker needs to know prior to making the gifts, we will be sure to mention it when names are shuffled 👍
#asks#i fear i dont. entirely? know what youre asking?? kfkf#but to answer. short. if you have extra notes / something you need me or your maker to know#just dm me on discord and ill take care of it#(some people do have. extra notes sections next to their wishlists#contains stuff like reference lists. topics and imagery for a gift maker to avoid. clarification on certain list items. etc)#sooo if that helps ??
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outsourcing my decisionmaking again. as sotm winds to a close, what smaller lil oneshot type thing should i focus on next?
#also i cant decide whether to do selkie au or yj in space futurefic next as a longfic#but im going to force beckett to help me make that decision i think bc the selkie au brainrot is his fault#AND a lot of the latest enabling for yj in space futurefic is ALSO HIS FAULT#rimi talks#these are not the most descriptive options i admit so feel free to ask for clarification#except for the ttk one i think that speaks for itself pretty well doesnt it
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"you do not ever have to compromise on this boundary. Not now, not later, not ever. You can live a life where your body only belongs to you" I mean I agree but your body also only belongs to you if you have sex.
Sorry? I'm not sure I understand what you are saying, out of context like this.
Is this an answer to this post I reblogged 2 days ago where an asexual person who struggled accepting that they are allowed to not have to force themselves to have sex was relieved to finally accept that they are, in fact, allowed to choose what happens to their body? If that is the case, the post doesn't say that that sentence doesn't apply to other people (think for the example, if I say "I ate cereal this morning", it doesn't mean that I'm saying I am the only person in the world to whom the sentence "ate cereal this morning" applies to). In that post, it's just directed to a specific demographic who suffers a lot of social pressure due to being out of our society's norm and who, for this reason of being outside of the norm, usually do not know that they're allowed to choose to not have sex. It is something that I think every asexual person struggles a lot with and definitely something I wish I had known when I was a teenager, so I hope it can reach other people who need to hear it too. I think it might be difficult to imagine if you haven't personally been in that position, but it's extremely distressing to believe that it's something you will have to go through sooner or later and that you have no choice.
I'll give you an example from my life because I think this might help you understand that sentiment shared by OP. When I was 13-14, I contemplated spending the rest of my life pretending I'm a Christian (I'm not, my family is not, and I definitely didn't know enough about Christianity to pull that off lol) because to my knowledge Christian extremists were the only people (present in my country, at least, but tbf I've never met one anyway) who I knew were allowed to not have sex until they're married. Even that worried me a lot because there still could not be any escape from wedding night, and it would not be fair to lie about my beliefs and personality to my partner, and also I would be frustrated to have to keep the facade of being someone I'm not and not being able to voice my beliefs. I worried so much about it and I tried to think of any possible option to be out of that obligation, but I could never find any that didn't include leaving myself partially parallitic with some "accident" that might have accidentally killed me. In the end, I decided the only possibility I had was to never date anyone and that I'd have to see how that life is possible 🤷. The idea that I could choose not to have sex never once crossed my mind. The most I could find were short-term excuses (like pretending I've converted to an extremist form of Christianity and that for this reason I couldn't do it until marriage and then procrastinating getting married), but even then it was only delaying. This is what it's like to grow up in this society as an asexual person, so yes you need to be told specifically that you too can choose what to do with your body. Otherwise, if you're not told specifically, you'd think that yes everyone has the right to choose what to do with their bodies except for you because that sentence only applies to normal people and you're not, or that sentence applies to choosing with whom and when but that you must choose among the options and not knowing that "no, never, nobody" is an option. That's why OP says it was a relief to them to understand that they "do not have to compromise on this boundary. Not now, not later, not ever."
I hope you understand it better now, to compare the post to something you might be more familiar with, it's like if you see a post about police brutality against Black people, it doesn't mean the police aren't violent to anyone else, but it's an issue that affects in a specific way or specific degree that demographic that the post is about to the point that it's convenient to focus on it.
#I'm not sure what the ask is for since there isn't any question (and it's an anonymous message so it clearly isn't meant as an opinion or#rebuttal because it's sent only to me and not OP?) but I hope this clarification is helpful in understanding the post if that's what you#were looking for! :)#ask#ace
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I feel like I'm v academically smart but oh my god I am fucking hopelesssss at anything people related
#i feel so stupiddddd#like theres this cloud around my brain i cant c past it#i dont kno if im js easily confused or if im so scared 2 ask 4 elaboration/clarification i feel i need 2 js brute force my way thru things#that i havent fully understood#coz if i ask2 many times it js pisses ppl off#an then i dont get help. an they get annoyed an think im stupid. so we get nowhere#ughhhh#im js so terrified of annoying ppl i js dont do anythin#like @ all!!!!#iv become so fucking boring u wouldvt believe#all my friends manage 2 talk 2 new ppl so easily and can actually carry a conversation#every joke i make falls soooo flat#an every hi gets ignored#i dont talk abt myself enuf or i do it 2 much#or i have no fucking opinion#an dunno how 2 add 2 thr other persons#girl im hopeless#where did my socail skillz go.....#ive always had the fear im annoying sum1 but l8ly its gotten so much worse#i think coz of. the altercation w that 1 irl#UGHHHH#im always operating under thr assumptions he doesnt like me whenever im w him#an idk what 2 say anymore#is there a way 2 get better a socialising w/o annoying ppl or embarrassing urself#idk i think mayb if im more confident itll help#but. how the hell am i doing that chat#mannnnn#i dunno#ive got more 2 say but im gonna reach tag limit😭😭😭😭 goodby#rivers rambles <3
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THE CLIT IS A LIBERAL LIE
WOAG,,,LIBERAL PROPAGANDA....ON MY TIMELINE?
#sicc answers#im crying at this this#why did i draw this someone help him#brodie is currently thinking “wait that can be true”#tf2#tf2 oc#tf2 10th class oc#tf2ocpropaganda#yeah im tagging it as thaat#also clarification this is not serious#tf2 courier#send me more silly asks to reply with courier with
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how do i use the cursors?
I'm not sure if you mean like for a webpage or for PC usage, so I'll detail both! For HTML/Webpage usage:
1: Grab image, open it in a new tab. 2. Copy url link 3. In the CSS of whatever you're doing, webpage or tumblr theme or whatever, put the following: body, *, a, a:hover { cursor:url( IMAGE URL HERE ), auto; } [ I could've sworn there was a way to do it in HTML, but I'm blanking; But this is specifically for the CSS]
PC: I work on a Windows PC, so this is based on that!! I'm sure specifically for a MAC you can find a tutorial [Sorry about that ;;w;; ;; ] 1. Save the image you want to use 2. Right now I don't have my cursors all with a converted version, but you can manually convert with Convertio; I've used it in the past for .icos and videos and it should still be fine to use. In the dropdown, go to Images > Cur and convert. Save it.
2. Go into Settings, then type in "Mouse" / go to "Mouse settings"
3. Go to "Additional mouse settings" and a small popup should come up. Go to the "Pointers" tab there 4. Double-click on the normal select, and it'll pop up a file browser. Navigate to the download and click on it
5. Hit apply and it should all be good! [And if you want to change it back to default, just hit use default and apply again!]
Hope this all makes sense!!! ^_^!!!
#this makes me realize i have to transfer stuff over to cur files. adding onto my list#im redoing my whole f2u page slowly bc i switched file hosting sites#and discord and its stupid no file storing or whatever is planned#brie rambles#asks#anon#non-art#also im writing this when im a bit sick so if you need clarification lmk and ill try and help the best i can!!!
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Wait okay I need someone with more fluency in Japanese than me to weigh in on what I'm seeing here:
This is a word from a speech bubble on the lady Archiviste page of the VnC 58 teaser. The kanji there is the word "story," but the furigana spells out "world." It reads to me like she's simultaneously saying something like "the stories we've seen" and "the worlds we've seen."
Am I reading this right? Is there, like, cultural and linguistic context for this that I'm missing? Is this a pre-existing play on words? Or am I right that this is kind of implying that the speaker is equates the ideas of "story" and "world?"
I'll put the full page under the cut in case the context makes a difference.
#this immediately set my alarm bells off#I *think* I understand what she's going for here#but I'm always incredibly hesitant to base meta on japanese text without asking for clarification first#bc my understanding of the language is. rough at the best of times.#as evidenced by the fact that the last time I asked for a fact check like this. my translation was wrong#vnc#vanitas no carte#<<main tagging so people see it and can help me <3#no alt text this time because. like. furigana#I'm sorry I don't have the brain cells right now to think of how to wrangle furigana into an english screenreader friendly format#not described#translation
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Every time I see a post making fun of people being afraid to get into comics I think about how when I was first getting into comics I thought it would be fun to read Infinite Crisis because it was a HUGE event and it would give me an idea of what a whole slew of runs and characters were like. I made a post about some panel pretty early into the event (I think it was a build up comic that wasn't even officially part of the Road To Infinite Crisis so EARLY early) and some blog I didn't know made fun of me for not knowing the greater context of the panel I was commenting on. And while I was naively typing up a quick little 'ah sorry I'm new to comics and didn't know that. Thanks for the context!' they had gone through my blog and started doing the same for a bunch of other comics I'd read, and then mocked me for reading IC when I clearly new so little about comics.
Now, obviously, that behavior is ridiculous, and I just blocked them, but it did stick with me. It was one of my earliest interactions with comic fandom and I never forgot it. Most of the people I've intereacted with have been lovely. Even when I have gotten comic cannon wrong corrections are normally very kind. But not all of them are, and the ones who aren't are so vocal about it.
So i actually don't think it's the comics themselves that make getting into comics an unappealing prospect.
#Think about how people have to defend their newness to comics when asking for clarification.#'Help I'm new to coimcs' you shouldn't have to defend that to get an answer actually#I think the people who act like you NEED to be an expert on a character before saying you're a fan are just wrong to be clear#I can be a fan of a character without having read every issue their in ever#You can write a fanfic for a character without knowing their entire history if you want. It's fanfic. The actual authors dont bother#And sometimes you just gotta remind yourself of that#Reading a fan comic with a scenerio that would never happen in canon isn't a sin if it's fun for the people involved.#I've said before that I really like post resurrection fics that focus on Jason and Bruce's relationship because it lets me live vicariously#through jason in having parents who accept me for who i am despite our differences and still loving me#That's pretty explicitly not the relationship they have in cannon and thats fine#I can still look at their relationship and go 'oh damn this has some ingredients to make this scenrio really emotionally satisfying'#Like yeah yeah the concept that comics themselves are gate kept is a little ridiculous when reading comics online is so easy#but how many times have you had a negative experience in a real comic shop#because I know that i have!#How many times have you seen a blog get aggresive about someone being perceived as a non comic reader like thats a slur#I love comics. Obviously because I run ablog where i talk about them all the time.#but I'm not gonna dox someone who only watches the movies or the shows#there are forms of media where I've only consumed the adaptations#So when people say 'you're gate keeping comcis' REALLY think about how you talk about people who haven't read many comics#Becauase as far as I'm concerned if you constantly treat people like shit unless their in your little pre approved circle of#'Actual Comic Readers' then yeah you are gate keeping comics and its fucking weird#mine#No way in hell I'm tagging this as anything lmfaooo#sorry for the rant in the tags I have many feelings about this#not me going off in the tags
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weird question but is there a forensic science side of tumblr? and if so when do the police move bodies from active crime scene investigations?
I don't want to be weird but I just need to know.
For context: The bodies would be dead, some kinda brutalised to the point that moving them would be a hassle. We're also talking about a few corpses (in general, not only brutalised) like 6-8 or so, so it would be a large investigation.
The location of the crime scene would be a public location that is cornered off from the public so there would be some pressure to do the investigation quickly so cleaners/repairers can swoop in and get the place functioning again. The bodies are not caused by a bomb.
Thank you science side of tumblr in advance and sorry.
#I tried looking it up but most forensic pages just say what is done at an active crime scene#not how long they take#I would like to clarify#that this is for a thing I'm writing not a thing I'm doing#forensics#forensic science#forensic science investigation#science side of tumblr#science side help me#feel free to ask in DM for clarification on why I need to know#I'd be more than happy to say
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It's strange...
My gut tells me I remember reading about the movements of stars. They were even other things in the sky like comets. George must have something in her collection.
But when the Sun was out I couldn't see that. The stars are static. We have robots looking out for them and the data says they never change.
Oh! I'm getting another letter. I can tell you more about it in there, don't mind my rambling.
#as kip#//ooc. this may sound strange for now but it will make sense one day maybe#unreality#cw unreality#//it is very mild here but i may tag some posts with it just to be safe#you can ask me ooc for a clarification in private if u want to know more#//feel free t reblog to help her or make it worse im down with both things#os game rp
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Hey, where did you find a music maker (sorry I really don't know what else to call it) that has a moog and theremin?
I've been looking to make music like that for awhile but can't find one that doesn't cost an exorbitant amount of money, haha
the digital audio workshop (DAW) i use is logic, which is. unfortunately very expensive.. i received it from my highschool music teacher through (cough) unsavory means. it doesn't actually have a moog or theremin preset, i got those sounds by manipulating a synthesizer! so what youre looking for is a DAW with a malleable synth
i'd recommend checking out ableton lite! it's free & i believe it has some synth patches in there that you can play around with to get the kind of sound youre looking for :D
(here's a good list of free/cheaper DAWS too)
#ask#daw help#sorry this is long and rambly hjwfdshjs. feel free to dm me if you need clarification/have questions!! im a huge nerd
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#accidentally got into a bit of an argument with my sunday school teacher/youth group leader this morning#(tho I didn't see it as an argument? more of a difference of opinions? slash-me asking for clarification on his points#and opinions on mine?#but my sisters said it felt like I was arguing so. *helpless shrug* that wasn't the intention really)#but the subject was about heaven/the christian's true home#and he was saying that the descriptions of glory and splendor in Revelation (streets of gold/foundations of the city/12 gates/etc)#are all real literal actual descriptions of heaven and that's where we'll open our eyes as soon as we die#and as I'm leaning more and more into 'revelation is largely a prophetic vision and we should be careful not to take too much of it#too literally' lately#I was saying that 'heaven' as we call it is the state of being returned to perfect unity with God + the New Creation#which will be brought about after the end of days#and. yeah.#now I'm largely just confused lol#because it just seems to me like saying 'yeah as soon as I die I'm gonna wake up in a MANSION and there's gonna be JEWELRY EVERYWHERE#and GOLD STREETS and ALL THESE VERY SPECIFIC SYMBOLIC ARCHITECTURAL FEATURES#is... slightly missing the point???#I personally find it far more hopeful and attractive to say tbh idk what it's gonna be like when I open my eyes on the other side of death#BUT I know that God is going to bring me back!! I will be resurrected in a new body with a new purpose in a new *world*#and it will be every single thing I love about this world but BETTER!!! no death!! no sorrow!!! no pain!! perfect undistracted fulfillment#of my callings!!! a wonderful fantastic beautiful unbroken world and //I// will get to live in it and help cultivate it!!!!#and actually this may be a bit of a rabbit trail but I wonder why the churches I've grown up in don't seem to care that much#about the New Earth? they're all like 'YEAH HEAVEN :D :D :D GOLD STREETS 'N PEARLY GATES :D :D :D'#but never 'hey did you know that all the horrible ways we've destroyed this wonderful place that we live in now will be undone?#and we'll come back to earth but it'll be just like it was in the Garden???? isn't it cool that as much terrible stuff we inflict on#ourselves and others and God's beautiful work of creation it's STILL not more than God can redeem and remake and restore???'#bc that message seems a lot more inspiring to me? not just escapism but restoration and reclamation?#idk. I wish I had people to actually discuss these sorts of spiritual things with around...#maybe I'll find them at college... I really hope I do...#tag ramble#christianity
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