#maybe I should take my own advice
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🎉 we did it boys(gn)!!!
RP shenanigans:
Lucifer kinda sorta accepting help now :D
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Good for him!
He needs a break.
If only that'd happen in canon. I want someone to take that man on a factory tour for real. At least, I don't think that's actually happened in canon yet but now I can't remember for sure. Whatever, he just needs a vacay. Let it be whatever weird interest he wishes to indulge in.
#maybe I should take my own advice#though the thought of being anything like Lucifer gives me the heebie jeebies#obey me lucifer#🦊 anon#misc answers
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seeing stuff on the dash so i just want to let all my mutuals know i support all lgbtq labels, even the weird, obscure, and niche ones!! luv u guys,,
#...rambles#never really understood discourse#anyways i love all my queers here#please dont feel afraid to be open about your identity!!#maybe i should take my own advice
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thank you for posting the way you do, I aspire to just say things
I encourage all freaks to just start saying weird shit online, go ahead free yourself
#alex answers#i should take my own advice#some of u might think I am posting strange things but this is maybe 40% of what I rrly wanna say 😞#but I don’t know if tumblr will just straight up wipe me off this website
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Mysterious Lotus Casebook (2023) | Ep. 19
#mysterious lotus casebook#莲花楼#li lianhua#fang duobing#cheng yi#zeng shunxi#cdramaedit#mlcedit#*gifs:mine#remember when llh tells fdb “we can't always live up to the expectations of others – maybe li xiangyi never expected so much from you”#first time i saw it i was like TAKE YOUR OWN ADVICE! but then i realized that for li xiangyi it wasn't simply “others”#it was “the whole world and everyone he knew including himself”*#because no one's expectations of li xiangyi were ever higher than li xiangyi's#and of course we all know that the second something went wrong most of sigu sect immediately laid the blame at his feet#but fdb is saying that no... everyone's expectations of li xiangyi were bullshit actually#the standards were simply unattainable#li lianhua told fang duobing “maybe li xiangyi never expected so much from you”#and this is fang duobing telling him “maybe li xiangyi should never have expected so much from himself”#and you can see li lianhua's entire worldview shifting just a little to the right (gifs 3+5)#and that soft smile at the end. which of course leads into “to my new friend. my best friend.” lsakjfdsldfkjasldk#it's not enough to change his mind really – it's too little and much too late to drown out a decade of self-loathing and guilt#but i wonder – if fang duobing had been able to be by his side for those ten years#telling him this again and again and again#you weren't perfect. you didn't need to be. you were young. you were trying. you were good. you were so good.#if li lianhua might have been able to heal that terrible rift inside himself#aughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh#translation notes: it made me chuckle that iqiyi's translation for gif 6 was: “they're just a bunch of selfish posers” very succinct.#also this lighting was so difficult to color ack i never really know what to do with a super green bg#*shifu as the only exception and thus shifu remains forever the best.
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bummed myself out looking for some fallout servers to hang out in bc all the shippers hate each other and i ship everything lol
#can people just be fuckin cool for once#everything has to be a morality war#ghoullucy shippers hate x reader shippers and maxlucy shippers hate ghoullucy shippers like. y'all playin rock/paper/scissors#i promise you'd feel so much better if you just made the content you wanted to see instead of constantly bitching that other people aren't#maybe i should take my own advice and make my own lil server lmao
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#i dont think i will ever be able to tell if im bi or gay or or#shucks mannnn compulsory heterosexuality makes me immediately sick#and in the literal sense too#like i was at my friend's wedding and brought a guy (a friend of mine or acquaintance more like. i just thought he is a good fit for#wedding party. and he was)#but all my friends were immediately like. as soon as he went to the bathroom. they were going ' you should 100% date him'#'he is a good husband material' 'we could finally go on double dates🤠'#right after i felt so sick i thought i was gonna throw up#i mean it might be the alcohol kicking in but i just find it funny that i felt it after they said all that#two of my friends wanted to speak in private with me and were like 'is he..? are u considering him AT LEAST?'#i know they had no bad intentions. quite the opposite but years after years i still get sad (understatement tbh) abt it..#another part of me knows that this is my fault bc i should've just communicated that i am not comfortable about such comments and#that i (surprise surprise) might not be straight! and that this isnt any default sexuality#buuuuuut how do i tell them this when i honestly dont feel like telling them so that i am able to figure things out on my own terms. i mean#one of my friends kind of knows and i never ever said anything to confirm nor deny anything xjhstwfy why is it so hard#on the other hand. yesterday for the first time i kind of got the feeling that it doesnt matter and that either way i will find happiness#SOME DAY maybe and i dont have to say anything and i can just not take their ~advice seriously and go on about my life#mine
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Let's talk about Blurryface for a moment.
Blurryface is Tyler's depression, self doubt, and anxiety all swirled into a character. This character is known to be the kind of villain of Tyler's story. In a sense, we all have a Blurryface.
We as conscious beings, have anxiety for a reason, to protect us from potential danger. Sometimes, anxiety overreacts. In this case, we try to ignore it. Sometimes we even say that anxiety is bad, or hurting us, etc. The anxiety inside of us is probably not supposed to get ignored, because the more you do, the more buildup you have of that danger feeling.
I imagine this also applies to Blurryface. If we ignore him, all it's going to do is make him louder. We can say that he's evil, we can say whatever we want, but that doesn't do anything but make him rebel against us, releasing all that pent up anxiety.
This may be just me, but I try to remind myself within my anxious moments that it's ok to feel like this. Instead of ignoring it, I acknowledge it. I take my time and listen to whatever blurryface has to say, and then assure him that everything is ok.
With self doubt, it's probably a lot more complicated. With my siblings though, if they're telling me mean things, I just listen to whatever they have to say, and then move on. I don't let the thoughts get to my head, because they're silly.
It may go sort of the same with Blurryface. If he's telling you you'd be better off dead, try and give him the attention he needs without letting it into your head, and then move right along.
Of course, it takes time to learn about yourself and what helps to calm down the anxiety, it's different for everyone. I've just found that personally, trying to listen to the blurry in my head and then moving on instead of just ignoring it makes a difference.
Kind of moral of my story, I truly don't think Blurryface is evil. I just think he needs a certain amount of love and attention that we can learn to master.
#I'd also like to note that I am actively battling my own slice of anxiety pie and I still am learning these methods myself#Maybe I should take my own advice lmao#hope this explains my blurryface obsession#and thanks to my siblings for being examples#jules is not an orange#twenty one pilots#skeleton clique#blurryface
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Remembering the time Lizzie stans got so pissy about me saying Olsen shouldn't say the g slur that they made slander videos about me even though the video itself was over a year old at that point
#and the comments ugh#months and months of stans commenting on that long after it was due#sometimes I still get comments from time to time#did you not like the fact I called your fave out? maybe instead of telling me to get over it you should take your own advice#anti elizabeth olsen#elizabeth olsen#romani wanda#romani wanda maximoff#wanda maximoff#wandavision#lizzie olsen#lizzie olsen stans are the bane of my existence#marvel
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do you have any tips on concentrating on lessons? I find it hard to do and I really need to learn things so any help would be great :D
“Of course! Concentrating can be pretty hard, I have trouble with it myself. So here’s some tips to use to concentrate on things like lessons! If you find your mind wandering, try taking deep breaths and try to redirect yourself.”
“Oh! Getting a good amount of sleep is always a great way to make sure you can concentrate the next day!”
“Learning and practicing Brain Exercises that suit you and your mind is also a great way to improve your focus and other cognitive skills.”
“And of course, taking breaks when you can will always help your focus! Stop what your doing, eat something filling, drink water, and stretch your legs.”
“I hope these tips help! They may take a bit of getting used to, but if you stick to it, I know you can improve your concentration!”
#sonics schoolhouse#student question#ssmentalhealth#I think#mr. shadow#mr. sonic#mr. tails#ms. rose#geez it’s 1:24 am… maybe I should take my own advice and sleep…
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ugh i feel past the point of being self conscious and just like. actually feel like i have a gross looking face it sucks -_- and i wish i didn’t care but its kind of not rly fun, i feel like i have the opposite of what you might think a cute face looks like. just rly annoying because i want to be CUTE!!!! and photogenic ..
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ok. giving myself 4 minutes to make this post and then i finish my homework. i just am so deeply miserable. i really think i made a mistake. i should not be in grad school. i only took a year between this and undergrad and i am still so burned out and mentally ill. im working full time. im only taking one class and this program is supposed to be so good and aligned with what i want and all of that. but i just cant stand having homework. i just cant stand it. i think i am not cut out for academia even though i work in academia. i think i will never get better as long as im still living at home but i have to get better before i can no longer be living at home but i cant get better until im not living at home and every day i still live at home saps away at my will to live quite literally. i should not have started doing grad school without regaining my will to live. without restoring my love for reading and writing that i used to have voraciously when i was younger and less deeply miserable. without recovering from the burnout. i think i made a mistake. i need a masters degree so bad so that i can be safe but i need to not have fucking homework when i already struggle to get through my days without school. i feel so stuck in my life and hopeless and helpless. i dont know what to do
#purrs#i cant drop out or anything because. lol and this class isnt even that big of a deal like i TRULY am freaking out over nothing. but my life#situation is so bad rn bro like i cant get my parents to take me out to drive and i cant get myself to get my parents to take me out to#drive and every day i am guilt tripped berated etc etc and i feel like i am never ever ever going to be able to have my own life where i a#stable and safe and happy. it can happen for other people except for me and my siblings. i dont know. im not explaining anything well.#i just cant do this. i need to not have this one more thing on my plate but i have to because if i dont have a masters degree in my field i#am nothing even though everyone is telling me that isnt true and all of them are credible but im just so mentally ill i cant believe anyone#and icant accept any advice or hope or whatever good about me i just. am stuck. this is as good as it gets and its not even good.#delete later#that was 7 minutes not 4 and i didnt even write anything substantial. nutshell. i just have been so fucking depressed lately oh my goddddd#this is maybe too strong of a thing to say but like. i know it isnt technically neglect if i am an adult but... i think i may kind of be#neglected by my family in some ways a little bit and always have been but like. emotionally. like in the ways in which im never a priority#and the things i need are seen as burdens etc etc. and theres nothing anyone can do about it even myself because im an adult but like lol.#24 year old dependent moment <3#well there is one thing i can do about it as an adult actually. its called move out. but that requires strength i will#never possess unfortunately due to the inherent flaws in my character and constitution so. guess this is it lawl 🥰#side note (and i swear im done after this lol): i think i was doing a lot better mentally over the summer. funny how when the semester#starts i get depressed and the depression just gets worse and worse until the end of the semester 😻 funny how this is my seventh year like#this. willingly subjecting myself to this. that should be a clue no? but i love my job and if i could just have my job and be stable in it#would be happier but also im lying to mysaelf and i will always be unhappy but its because of my mental illness not my job being bad or#anything its like. i am just sick in the head with impostor syndrome and thats how i got myself into this whole mess. lol#well that and the not moving out thing which is partially my fault but also because i live in hell as described earlier! <3
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the way that i had to bullshit my way through a 'making healthy choices' type assessment yesterday because i'm barely making healthy choices in my own life
#basically i had to read through scenarios and give healthy advice#and then it asked me about my own#and i felt like so bad about myself during it???#like i can't take care of myself but i know the step by step process to take care of someone else#it was also just like so useless#like why is this important to me at this moment???#why am i getting told to go to the dentist like im a child????#(i actually haven't been to the dentist in years so maybe i should let them cook)#venux rambles
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me, an author: i would literally burst into tears on the spot if someone bound a physical copy of one of my fics!
every post i’ve seen where someone has bound a fanfic: *the author is praising it and so overjoyed*
posts i’ve seen by other authors: man it would be so cool if someone bound my fic into a book!!
still me anyway, thinking about asking an author if they are ok with me binding their fic into a book: what if its creepy what if they hate the idea what if it makes them uncomfortable what if-
#thanks anxiety 👍#i mean i plan to push through the anxiety but kshfksf#sometimes its good to point out exactly why it's unreasonable!!#anyway#i shouldn't be worrying about this since it's gonna have to wait a while#but#when even in another time finishes i want to make it into a book SOOO BAD#and i want to ask the author if it's ok bc i do want to check first just in CASE it IS something they wouldn't want me doing#but yeah#i'm sure it won't be that way but the anxiety is a bitch nonetheless#it would also be one of my first attempts at binding a book so idk that it would even be GOOD sdkhskgf#maybe i should take my moms advice.......#and bind some of my own fics into a book(or... more than one)#i may do that with my yoi or my yr oneshots. or both.#hm.#hm......#yeah i probably will#and that will be my first attempt or two#also maybe some of my aph fics kdhfkshg#just have like little collections of short stories :)#shh ac
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hm. am I downloading Night Court right now? possibly.
#don't know if I care yet#tbh I have never seen John Larroquette in anything ever (and it will take me a while until I can spell his name without checking 3 times)#before the librarians#so. I don't know. if it's a character specific thing. or if I just think he's cute. or if I think he's cute now but not when he was younger#but I will find out#because honestly it's possible that it's 90% his voice. very good voice. best voice. love it.#hmmm okay no I've just watched a clip on YouTube and he really is just very cute. damn.#annnd. oh noo. I have to check something#oh crap Brent spiner was born in 1949. that means this is. if my brain decides that this is gonna be something. the first time it's someone#older than my dad :') don't like that#but! my dad's dead! so who gives a fuck!#I'm fine. :)#(also damn I'm lucky my dad was so very very old. otherwise that would have happened much sooner)#(guess I'm joking about that now! interesting development)#anyway yeah he cute. though cuter now tbh. might be the belly. idk. this is very confusing and unusual for me#especially. since. the other crush. is not even close to being over. that's not something that happens. and it's already very bad rn. soo.#that should be interesting. maybe I should just forget all about it and not look at him again when I'm done with the show in a few hours#that'd be best I think (doesn't mean I'll listen to my own advice. he is a man and he is cute so. I've already lost)#it's just. I see Jenkins and it's like. JENKINS!! 😍😍😍😍 I'm very weak#and he's so funny 😔#sigh.#just be normal 🤦🤦🤦#i don't know if it makes it better or worse that I'm fully aware that this is most likely happening because I'm in the middle of some sort#of crisis right now and that's how I've always coped but. eh it is what it is#trying to be nicer to this stupid brain and all that#let it have fun looking at an old man it's fine
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Hey! Hope you are doing well.
I've read almost all your stories and they so good.
Like how can you write so well? 🥰🥰🥰
I always thought of writing stories especially yandere romance but i feel nervous when I start writing like I really don't know what happens to me.
So if you could give some tips and advice on how to deal with it. It'll really make me happy.
I feel like I'm the only one who suffers from this.
Thank you.♥️
Well, I’ve never felt nervous about writing yandere, but you could get someone to proof read it before posting it. Maybe with peoples critiques and suggestions, you’ll feel more confident in your writing!
I’ve said it before but I’ll say it again.
Forced writing ≠ Good writing
Passionate writing = Good writing
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I'm so intrigued as to what this post is about because to me there are. sooo many annoying aftg takes around here 👀👀
yeah i think without being too specific i’ll just say that if there’s anything the aftg fandom sometimes needs a reminder of it’s that the characters are absolutely fictional lmao. what i’m always saying when i see aftg drama is that people need to just. chill out a bit. and be a little silly sometimes. yes, even though the content in the books is serious and yes even with the ;) less enjoyed characters ;)
#obviously people don’t need to agree with me! and people are also allowed to absolutely HATE characters in fictional books!!#that’s like the whole point!!! but then also relax and have fun and chill out :)#and maybe be nice to people or just ignore people (i should take my own advice at this point)#ask#anon#if u want more detail tbh you can always message me off anon i just don’t want to blast the post/creators#hehe#reading this again i feel like it doesn’t make a whole lot of sense especially with the actual ask but. the post i’m talking about was in#in my opinion a bad take from the OP lmao#and not that uncommon in parts of the fandom!#still love aftg still love aftg fandom etc but#ya :)
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