#masculine conditioning
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i ended up taking my shot two days late, but better late than never. that's especially true for testosterone.
so what if you're one, two, three days late? go ahead, take it. don't just wait until your next shot day just because you've missed the previous shot.
take it anyway. right away. as soon as you remember, do it. there's no need to make any excuses... you know you can make time for it. you always do.
you always make time for testosterone injections.
#⚙️#txt#forcemasc#forced masculinity#forced masculinization#masc conditioning#masculine conditioning#masc inspo#masculine inspiration#boy hypno#ftm hypno#autoandrophile#autoandrophilia
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I know some people have unfathomable beef with the term but i really don’t see the issue with transmascs describing their specific experiences with societal mistreatment and persecution as “transandrophobia”, like i think it’s good to be able to discuss specific experiences and articulate the problems you’re facing actually.
#my stuff#literally the main opposition to it i’ve personally seen is that it’s a psyop or w/e to try and ignore that transmisogyny is a thing#or that it implies men as a class are persecuted despite y’know. the patriarchy#and i think those points ignore A: The same ppl IVE seen talking about transandrophobia ALSO talk abt transmisogyny bc solidarity forever#n B: Men may not be an oppressed class but there are unique things that suck about being perceived as a man by others#or having that perception be conditional or vital to your physical safety#i remember what it was like being a terrified tgirl in the men’s locker room trying not to trip the fag radar#i remember how fucking isolating it is for non-men to treat you like a threat or a predator for existing#those things massively suck and transmascs ABSOLUTELY should be able to discuss them and how those experiences are shaped by their transiton#and the degree to which their masculinity or lack thereof#-real or perceived impacts the transphobia they face#everyone having a fucking mortal kombat linguistics hernia over it shutuppppppppppp#trans
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before I knew there was a whole community of trans men/transmascs freely (I use that word loosely bc of the amount of transphobes who flood our ask boxes) talking about their struggles and oppression I don’t think I would’ve found that space anywhere else bc it truly made me realize how underrepresented we are in and out of our own community and it’s been so nice to finally feel like I can actually talk about my oppression with other queer and trans people without being pushed aside or having ppl claim we’re ultra privileged and face 0 struggles being a trans men/masc
so thank you transadrobros 🫡
#transmasc#transmasculine#anti transmasculinity#transandrophobia#especially in the tmasc/trans men community itself so many of us are subconsciously conditioned to de value ourselfs as to not speak over#anyone because we have to be men/masculine#like seriously i never see anyone in the wider trans or queer community ever acknowledge how we r constantly made fun of and pushed aside
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Why are the people who go "what genitals do you have? You better be using the correct bathroom for your genitals!" The same people who are currently mad about a woman, born with a cis woman's body, assigned female at birth, being accepted as a woman?
Y'all are so obsessed with genitals until you wanna project an incorrect identity onto someone for the sole purpose of hate. And now, it suddenly doesn't matter what she was born with.
Crazy how that works.
#i literally do no even CARE about the olympics and this news is still all over me#it's insane that this issue even exists#are people not aware of the vast amount of afabs with largely above average testosterone levels?#one of the things that can cause extra T is literally conditions with the UTERUS#sorry you're not a woman because your uterus is causing you to be too masculine?????????????????#tw transfobia
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thinking about this post but also it's more than that. do you ever think about how stories starring men are allowed to be about humanity but stories starring women have to be about Womanhood
#it's just the same discourse from like the 2010s about how girls will read about boys but boys won't read about girls#and we haven't gotten anywhere#even when it's like in a feminist way!!! there's room for stories about Womanhood obviously#but believe it or not ''women'' is not the only significant trait or experience that that half of the population has#and frankly I think it's counterproductive to focus every woman-centric narrative on the Woman aspect in some kind of feminism way#especially I feel like in adaptations that get a more hashtag feminism focus! like that story was about a person that was a woman#and you made it into a story about Women. which. ok#but was it not enough for her to just be a human being#experiencing human experiences that perhaps men could relate to#but a story with a male main character is allowed to exist on its own terms#no one's like. okay the main theme of this is obviously something to do with masculinity#(unless that's actually true)#a man is still the default character to explore your ideas and adding the ''girl'' trait is seen as like this extra distortion#that you would add only if you wanted to explore Womenness#like everyone's putting a guy in situations but hey maybe your guy could be a woman#even if the specific situation doesn't call for it#did you ever think of that?#and a lot of it I think is because men are conditioned not to relate to female characters#so making a male character would work to expand your audience because female readers are still willing to invest in him but not vice versa#but that doesn't mean we should just keep perpetuating the cycle#and only making stories about women specifically for women about Womanhood#that's just cementing the problem even further#obviously this is all a generalization and there are exceptions#this also applies to things like race#like in the US if you're making a story with a nonwhite main character suddenly it has to be like About Race or something
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So, I've been a bit open about my mental health on here since it affects how I experience and interact with judaism, but I'm wondering how you all balance it? I've found that antisemitism does not specifically cause the recent episode/s I have been having, but it makes them worse, and I find that it makes it even harder to engage with judaism, so I'm currently in a Sisyphean spiral. I guess for me, my brain has been so high-alert about this stuff that it completely shuts down, but not engaging with my jewish community is just as detrimental to my health as antisemitism is. Plus, I'm just angry at the thought that something like antisemitism would prevent me from being with my community.
#jumblr#jewish politics#antisemitism tw#personal thoughts tag#i'm going to shabbos services tomorrow since i miss my community so much#i am very protective over my community. i've reached papa bear levels of being protective about them. so it does hurt when i can't be there#bonus points to those of you with bipolar/PTSD/schizophrenia/anything i might be missing#just because i find those to be underrepresented in general. and also because it might help me out personally.....#to be clear i don't mind if anyone with any condition (or perhaps even none) contribute respectfully! this isn't an Exclusive Conversation#i don't even know how i am going to explain to them why i missed so much. i feel so behind right now#i emailed my rabbi so hopefully we can schedule a meetup and i can pour my soul out about it haha#it sucks talking about this but i really don't have mentally ill jews to talk to offline (as far as i know)#but i am open with my offline community about my issues so i don't think this will surprise them#i'm trying to work through my toxic masculinity surrounding shame about how my mental health presents so i'm pushing myself to be more open#though i will say that if someone is reading this and thinks they can trigger psychosis or whatever: it's not going to work like that
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hey folks did you know i love super dangan ronpa 2
#marzi speaks#thinking abt the themes in that story#ESPECIALLY the letting other people’s perceptions dictate who you are vs choosing who you are for yourself and not letting anyone stop you#like almost every single one of the sdr2 cast has a front they put on/identity they’re ‘supposed’ to be vs who they truly are#komaeda’s i could write an essay on so we’re gonna skip him bc. energy#hajime’s is obvious. i don���t need to explain that one. though he tries really hard to come off as more masculine as well which. augh#speaking of masculine souda is a victim of toxic masculinity. he was bullied and had a dad who sucked so he changed himself to look fiercer#ibuki left her band due to ‘creative differences’- she didn’t fit into that classic pop band mold and she allowed herself to deviate#mahiru puts extra pressure on men around her bc Her Dad Also Sucked and she’s sick of having to deal with weaponized incompetence#gundham is this sweet kind kind boy who hides it all underneath a veil of darkness. the darkness is not a lie either though he is both#sonia. literally a princess. has huge shoes to fill. in reality she’s a horror fiend who just wants to nerd out abt true crime#nekomaru’s heart condition would have taken him out of sports forever but he found another way and started team managing instead#fuyuhiko is set up to be the next head of the kuzuryu clan but on the inside he is so compassionate (and canonically a prude lmao)#peko is literally raised as a tool and tries to embrace this role even though the one she works for just wants her to be herself#i haven’t seen hiyoko’s ftes but i imagine she’d be far less cruel if she didn’t have to deal with constant infantilization and perverts#twogami just. as a whole. the whole character. yeah#there’s for sure more but i haven’t seen everyone’s ftes so. yanno#like fuck !!!!!! people will always have a perception of what they think you should be but you cannot truly be happy#until you allow yourself to disregard those expectations and forge your own path instead !!!! fuck !!!!!
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whats fun about barry as a protagonist vs other Morally Complicated Guy Shows is that he seriously has no ambition lol, his wildest dreams arent like becoming super rich or relishing in holding power over people, like all he wants is simple happiness, maybe career success, normal life stuff, his wildest dreams are like…. being able to have a wedding. having a kid or two. and theres something reasonable about that, it makes him relatable for a while until the show is very clearly like No dude, that is a fucking serial killer, you should not gaf! and you’re like oh right lol. it’s crazy to make such a simple desire seem so malicious but still human
#like the true success of the show is that he feels just as entitled as walter white even though what he wants is so much smaller#L + serial killer + you’re a war criminal + you’re abusive + kys#barry#but i think it threads the line a little where by s5 of brba i had 0 care for walt i did not feel any emotional attachment#and tbh by the end i didnt even find the whole corruption arc interesting because he was just so painfully malignant and annoying#but barry wants sooooo little. and he’s sooooo stupid. and hes soooo arrested development 15 year old boy#that it still manages to be compelling and he still manages to feel like a human being#not a knock on brba which is incredible television obviously just doing different stuff#idk. something about how it’s tragic but also held at an appropriate distance so as to be laughed at too#like: the irremovable mark doing violence leaves on you.. the inescapability of it… IS sad! it’s sad#and most often IS the result of social conditioning and masculinity constructs and your dads friend grooming you etc#but it’s not the prime sadness. which would be of course the victims of that violence#like. duh#walter my reaction is just. Well i wouldnt do that. I would never choose to do that so who cares#but with barry. all he wants is to not be defined by the hurt he has caused. which is something everybody wants!#but the extents of that hurt are so extreme and are teased apart so well in the show. like theres 0 apologia just exploration#anyway if im doing brba comparisons barry is literally todd
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Barbie shouldn't be allowed to be in theaters the same time as Across the Spiderverse. You can't have two of the best movies ever out at the same time it's insane
#barbie is about the existential crises of the human condition and also toxic masculinity and positive masculinity#and toxic Heteronormativity and also. pink funny
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browsing what you boys post in the hypno and masculinization tags is so funny.
so many of you are self-described dogs and puppies...
you're animals.
you all claim to crave guidance, control, submission.
rather than getting on your hands and knees, whining like puppies in crates, you ought to take the guidance of men like me who are more mature and are connected to their manhood.
you need the guidance of a man to remind you that you are more than just a puppy... you're a growing, ever-evolving boy who's got a man inside just waiting to emerge and take hold.
certainly you are an animal... it's in a man's nature to be animalistic and connected to feral instincts. but you're more than a whining, panting puppy who wants his leash and collar and a walk to get excess energy out of his system.
all of that pent up energy and sexual desire inside of you is yours; the man inside you is responsible for your desires and needs.
you know it and he knows it.
there is so much control to be gained from honoring who you really are inside and taking the necessary steps to bring that vision into focus, to show him to yourself, and to the world.
you owe it to yourself and to him.
he and you are one in the same and together you can submit to your true self, submit to your future. it's all right there in your soul. you no longer should feel obligated to fall in line with others and what they might assume of you, you deserve more.
you and i both know there's so much you're holding back, hiding behind the passive, unassuming nature of a gentle, innocent puppy... but you're more than that.
show yourself, show the world, show me the man that you really are.
you're a man.
don't hide.
come out and play, you've been chained up in the backyard for too long.
#⚙️#txt#forcemasc#forced masculinity#forced masculinization#masc conditioning#masculine conditioning#masc inspo#masculine inspiration#boy hypno#ftm hypno#autoandrophile#autoandrophilia
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Thinking about how most of the examples of ways that trans men have been respected in recent history to "disprove" the idea that we're oppressed have been straight trans men. Thinking about how being attracted to women was a requirement to medically transition from female to male until very recently. Thinking about how the little respect trans men might possibly get from transphobes depends on us being attracted to women. Thinking about how people use examples of straight trans men being benefited by their attraction to women to blame gay trans men for every bad thing a trans man has ever done. Thinking about how straight trans men are the only ones who get taken seriously by non-leftists. Thinking about how the vast majority of trans men who claim that trans men aren't oppressed are straight or otherwise attracted to women.
#wentz.txt#transandrophobia#to clarify since y'all love to piss on the poor: this post isn't saying that straight trans men have straight privilege. they don't.#i am simply commenting on the conditional benefits that straight trans men are given for performing heterosexual masculinity and expressing#attraction to women as a way to sort of 'negate' their genderqueerness#obviously not all straight trans men will experience these benefits. they are very often not afforded to those who aren't white or who are#also attracted to men in some way
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tw eating disorder
jtk headcanon that after tarsus jim struggles with an eating disorder resulting from his guilt over food/where it comes from/its sustainability/survivor's guilt.
#james t. kirk#jim kirk#strange new worlds#i always kind of felt this but with the new snw kirk it just kind of solidified in my head#there's a bunch of comments bones gives to jim about food in tos which made me go hmmm after the tarsus thing#also the fact that he is a symbol of male feminism makes this particular condition esp relevant to him as he wouldnt be weirdly masculine#about hiding it#tw eating disorder#tw anorexia#tw bulimia#i think its very appropriate given the nature of his presumed ptsd from tarsus#i dont have any specific handcanons just this generalized notion#has anyone ever talked about this before? if so send those links!#it's smth that he eventually comes to terms with and can manage#seeing issues reflected in our heroes is meaningful such as spock being dyslexic etc#also i overcame a period of eating issues years ago so dont try to come @ me#if youre ever struggling know this is a type of maladaptive coping and there is absolutely hope to have it be a thing of the past 🤍
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reading the first edition of whipping girl (2007) and getting to the last ch where serano talks abt her current observations on queer activism and then makes predictions abt what the future might look like
well she certainly was right wasn't she!!!
#just. the overall observation of inward vs outward political turns....#v much feel as though much of current queer activism + rhetoric gets tangled up + bogged down w like#this obsession w defining + categorizing + policing the nebulous + inherently individual experience of identity#rather than like. actually focusing on the material conditions that should be uniting us#uggggggghhhhhghggghhh#book recs#also a big part of what she's criticizing + fearful of seeing an increase of in this section is specifically. transmisogyny#which um. yeah! she called it!#also. making me think abt the seeming rise i have noticed re:online lesbian discourse abt masculine dykes#in particular. the widely accepted trend of shitting on masculine lesbians online from within queer/sapphic spaces#serano talks abt how she's noticing this trend of ppl shitting on gender in queer spaces when they perceive that gender as 'conservative'#and i think that idea that masc lesbians somehow have a 'conservative'/'unsubversive' gender is often the excuse given for what is#otherwise just run-of-the-mill lesbophobia#so!!!!!! yeah. anyway i'll stop writing an essay in the notes now
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Sometimes the author does the worst possible thing they could to some character and sometimes the fanbase interpretation makes the whole thing even worse and you're there looking at the character like they massacred my boy(gn)
#listen#I'm terribly behind in op so idk if someting else happened but I don't think so#I'm mad about what he did with t4shigi#she is my favourite character and she had a whole personality he just destroyed after the time skip and yes this is also about her physical#appearance#but people saying she 'changed her appearance because z0ro said she looks like his old friend' makes me 🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪#like what the fuck#she was this tenacious and incredibile warrior who faught in a men centered world and reality#the perfect metaphor for this world and reality#and the point wasn't that her appearance was 'more masculine' before so that she could merge better#but that she was different from how the other women were portraied because she lived in a different reality and condition#and i guess the change after the timeskip could be read as an awareness she could be as free as the others bc she is capable etcetc idk#but he did her so dirty with the change in personality the whole punkhazard arc was like 'idk what to do with her just make her stupid and#useless' like?????????????#no she wasn't#it was as if she were weaker than before the timeskip which doesn't make sense#anyway#she would NOT change her appearance bc of what a man said to her like do you even understand a glimpse of the character??#and i say this as someone who ships them and i ship them BECAUSE THEY ARE BOTH STRONG AF AND HAVE THE SAME ENERGY#jesus christ#i need to softblock someone before i post this hold on
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Even from a great distance, with no physical interactions required in the 3D, the sacral energy from the feminine is extremely healing and comforting to the masculine. He is not aware of this consciously, but when he chooses to continually abuse and dishonor the feminine that sacral healing energy is eventually revoked. He won’t consciously know why he feels so rotten, but choosing the distorted path over the divine such as this is just one area where karmic consequences are felt.
#divine feminine#divine masculine#sacred union#☯️#yin yang#energy imbalance#spiritual awakening#healing#sacral chakra#sacral energy#distorted masculine#abuse recovery#conditioning#masculine
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