#male entitled

[bella-amanita]

Didn't expect to root for a sorority.

[haveuevermetme]

i still don’t understand how there is “male loneliness epidemic” and no “female loneliness epidemic”. if young men are affected by loneliness, where are young women and what are they doing? aren’t they also affected by loneliness since there is pretty much the same number of men and women?

if they mean “loneliness” by any kind of connection not just romantic, then why don’t men connect with other men? why are women supposed to do anything with it? if women are not lonely, and men are, it means women have connections with other women and they don’t make it men’s problem, while men don’t care about each other, don’t care about women, but want to make women care for them. how is this called? entitlement?

[butch-reidentified]

what he says: "there's a male loneliness epidemic"

what I hear: "there's a 'increasing numbers of women and girls setting boundaries and making it harder for me to find a victim companion' epidemic"

[fresherfriut]

[animalblog09]

But suddenly, when it's a 19 year old girl, she's so mature for her age, she just gets him, she knows what she's doing. It's striking how often emotional vulnerability, particularly when expressed by women, is weaponized against them. You see it in conversations, in arguments—whenever a woman dares to reveal her pain, it's instantly flipped back on her as a character flaw. She s "too sensitive" or "just hurt." It s rarely framed as a natural human reaction. Your children can be taken from you, and you can be forced to pay child support and denied visitation. Yes, even if you aren't abusive, they can lie about you in court and have a fair shot at being believed. Especially if they're male. Online feminist discourse can feel disconnected from real-world activism, leading to a sense of frustration among those who want to see tangible change. Many argue that while digital spaces are useful for spreading ideas, true progress requires organizing in the physical world to challenge systems of oppression. Is it really worth all the risk? Ive had enough of peanuts always trying to tumblr in The mashed forest. Well never make it to the special room with all this banana.

[ultimateblogform488]

I decided to visit a high-end electronics store today, drawn in by the allure of the latest innovations. What I found was a display of gadgets and gizmos that seemed more concerned with style than substance. The salespeople were all too eager to explain how each device was revolutionary, yet they all seemed to be the same recycled concept with a slightly different casing. I was handed a smart device that promised to simplify my life but was, in reality, just another overcomplicated piece of technology designed to keep me tethered to a never-ending cycle of upgrades. The experience was as empty as the promises of the gadgets themselves. At least it provided a brief escape from the relentless turmoil of my life, even if it was a fleeting one.

[profeminist]

Cartoon by https://www.instagram.com/vulgadrawings

AGGRIEVED ENTITLEMENT

looks like this:

[The single panel comic has a pink background. A white man with short brown hair wearing a white collared shirt and black pants is sitting on one end of a wide wooden bench. His arms are crossed and he is staring straight ahead, his legs splayed out to either side wider than his hips. To his right stands a woman with dark hair and brown skin wearing a green vest over a lilac long-sleeved shirt and black shirt. She is gesturing with one hand at the bench, smiling as she looks sideways at it.]

Woman: I THINK I DESERVE TO SIT ON THIS BENCH TOO!

[Below the first drawing, the woman is now sitting on the opposite end of the bench, her hands on her closed knees. She is looking sideways apprehensively at the man who has fallen onto the ground. His arms are flung out and he looks horrified.]

White man: OH MY GOD I'VE BEEN PUSHED OFF! THERE'S NO ROOM FOR ME ON [Underlined text.] MY [End underlined text.] BENCH ANYMORE!

See also: human conversation.

"Men perceived the discussion as being equal when women talked only 15% of the time, and the discussion as being dominated by women if they talked only 30% of the time."

[meepertonton]

[jellyfishfem]

”Stay where you are.” “Get out of my private space.” “Do not touch my waist when you pass me by.” “You talked over me.” “Doctor, I want you to take my health issues seriously.” “You will not coerce me into sex.” “You realize rape by coercion is what you’re trying to do, right?” “That wasn’t funny, that was just misogyny/racism/homophobia.” “Why would you want to have sex with someone who doesn’t want to have sex with you?” “What an odd thing to say out loud.” “Your manipulation tactics will not work on me.” “I stand by my beliefs.” “You think your feelings are objective facts but they are not.” “You are harassing me. Stop.” “Do not call women bitches.” “That’s such a pornsick thing to say.” “I don’t owe you sex.”

Sentences I recommend practicing. Feel free to add your own.

[heterorealism]

[poipoipilpil]

Was he a 'good guy' ?or was he pretending so that he can have easy access to women ..

There is no saving men ,these guys have a loser mentality ...their whole life they just pretend

[eve-was-framed]

crazy how we grew up hearing our male peers say the absolute most disgusting degrading shit about us 24/7 and it was dismissed as “boys will be boys” and “locker room talk” but when we talk honestly about our lives and experiences with male violence and entitlement in a way that isn’t “nice” enough suddenly it’s the end of the fucking world and we’re evil bitches who want to kill all men

there are twitter accounts with thousands upon thousands of followers dedicated to mocking femicide/rape/domestic abuse/female suicide victims and incel forums everywhere that cheer on actual acts of violence against women & girls.. and you wanna complain about feminists on tumblr that won’t even bother you unless you insert yourself into women’s business? give me a fucking break lmfao

[the-rad-menace]

Just read a long ass post by a TIM complaining that everywhere he goes, "AFAB" people act uncomfortable around him. Tinder dates where they didn't realize until they met in person that he was male, clamming up and ghosting. Getting glares in a "queer" self defense class when he uses the word bitch. Complaining that even at a trans/"queer"/kink positive dance, he went home alone, while his AFAB friends found hookups. A female friend of 14 years who'd fully accepted him as a bi, GNC man, cut him off after he started insisting he was a woman.

The whole thing was framed as the world having a problem with "transfems," but all I could think of was the kind of guy who calls every one of his ex girlfriends crazy. If literally everywhere you go, you make female people uncomfortable, YOU are the common denominator. YOU are the cause. Getting mad that women aren't accommodating and coddling you in just the right way to stroke your ego is the most male shit I've ever read.

[vulva-venus-hates-that-penis]

[trans-radfem]

«"If you don't like a man then don't accept food from him, you deadbeat"

My best friend pays for our lunches one day.

Breakfast is on me another day.

I visit my aunt and she gives me a taco.

I go to my mother in law's and she gives me fruit.

My friend's mom has sent me lunch to school many times.

The party is over and my godmother tells me "wait, I'm giving you takeaway".

Mom has visitors and she figures out how to give something away, she gives away because "a taco is denied to nobody".

It's weird how only men think that feeding someone is a kind of sexual services contract or a debt that someone has with them to secure a sentimental relationship.

How nice is being women and giving eachother sweets, chocolates, cookies, share chips, tea with joy.»

— Capibara Sand

[haggishlyhagging]

Because I feel that I am a woman, therefore you must treat me as if I actually am, otherwise you are transphobic. As I insist on participating as a woman in your groups, gatherings, or spaces you also must forgo discussing anything about your female socialization, female anatomy, or female functions because it hurts my feelings. It hurts my feelings because I was neither socialized as a girl nor am I capable of experiencing what the female body experiences from cradle to grave. But if you speak about this I am then reminded that I am not female, and therefore not really a woman. My experience of feeling like a woman must not be invalidated by your experiences of being a woman, therefore I will shame you for being female, teach you in university to estrange your body from your mind, make your distinct physicality and oppression that is specific to your sex irrelevant in the laws of the land or anything that names our differences until there is only the mind. Now only how I think about your body is real. Mind over body. Mind over matter. Spirit over matter/mater/mother. A woman is anyone who says they are a woman. My word is now more real than your mitochondrial DNA. Accept that by my word, you really don't exist.

-Ruth Barrett, “Gyn-ocide Revisited” in Female Erasure