#loveforself

[luvlepa]

I love myself so much,I’m literally such a visionary a dream girl MY OWN MUSE.

[adventuretattoo-blog1]

A beautiful tattoo with roman numbers and Angel 👼 customised tattoo #adventuretattoostudio🙏🏽❤️ #angeltattoos #romanumismatics #circletattoos #loveforself❤️ #princess #lifeofadventures ❤️

[cynicalbrownie]

DESPONDANCE.

you watch as everyone passes by

you watch as everyone abandons you

the intuitions are high -

about how they deem you as they abandon, become mere passers-by.

there seems to be hordes , of people and of opinions

but there aren't many who seem to be comforting

while they trod you down and go their way

you, like a patient fool, wait for one of them to descry.

aren't you tired?

of the endless sham concern

here for you but not actually

is that how they do it here?

but you still torment yourself amongst the spilling crowds of humans

and wait to immerse yourself in there

you like an unnoticed street lamp, stand and endure

for in invisibility and oblivion lies your identity.

calm yourself because no one else will.

come to face it because no one else cares.

come to fight it because no one else does.

i know you are troubled

weary, strained, perturbed

tired of the endless games they play with your mind.

you have to stay.

i try

to help and care

but my efforts are getting drowsy

a desperate cry -

HOW DO I HELP YOU NOW ?

[know4life]

On this spring day we want to recognize Black inventor John Burr. Thanks to him we spend endless hours walking in circles with no real benefits but vanity and we repeat this insane process every week lol. In all seriousness, we honor all Black inventor, known and unknown. The system of #WhiteSupremacy has tried to whitewash them out of the history books but God is bringing them to light and the (creative) POWER of the Black man and woman to bring something out of nothing. Salute to Black Inventors, past, present and future!!! #BlackHistoryMatters #BlackHistory #BlackCulture #KnowledgeOfSelf #LoveForSelf #CulturalRevolution #NewEducationalParadigm https://www.instagram.com/p/Bwb-7Lcj6kM/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1azh6td887g81

[unworthypsycho]

time heals?

for me, time does not heal your wounds.

it's you who can heal it. you can forget the past that marks up your wounds or you can continue living your life with the pain of the memories from the past.

[oshunhealing]

Self-Love Part 5 First of all, get to know yourself well. This is the first step. Let yourself be fascinated and discover who you are. Clarify what you need and want in life and which unique treasures you need to live. Connect with the different dimensions of yourself. The journey to this deep knowledge of yourself and the connection to your deepest self only requires curiosity and attention. You specifically don't have to do anything to love yourself. You just have to be. Many of us try to do things in order to love ourselves. This is a completely wrong understanding of what true self-love is. You don't have to earn your own love, just realize it. Just to realize it's you. Whatever you do, you will do it because you love yourself, not to love yourself. How do you practice self-love? Self-care is essentially self-love in action. This is the "doing" part of self-esteem. Self-love is the creative force, the energy on which you build your life. Once you have made a conscious choice to live a life of love and self-devotion, you have familiarized yourself with your inner world and made a decision to fully accept yourself (possibly the hardest part for all of us, but the most critical part, when You wish). You will fully practice this love and fully enjoy the creative energy it generates in your life. There are 3 outward manifestations of self-love that let your life energy flow without interruption. #self-love #loveforself #selflovestory #selfcompassion #selflovejourney #reiki #angelicreiki #oshunhealing #divinesource #connection #acceptance https://www.instagram.com/p/CVBkdnDIpjh/?utm_medium=tumblr

[shivangisoinofficial]

A year older, A year bolder 🔥💃🤩🥂#september6 . . #shivangisoinofficial#staysassy#bossupandchangeyourlife#25thbirthday#reddresses#favouritecolor#birthdayvibes#birthdaygirl🎀#septemberborn#septemberbirthdays#ludhianabloggers#redisthenewblack#redisthecolor#birthdaycelebrations🎉🎂#loveforself#indianfashionbloggers#lifeisbliss#createyourself#livethatdream#createthatlife#birthdaylook#bossygirl#gratitudeisthebestattitude (at Ludhiana, Punjab, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CThOX6Us6M5/?utm_medium=tumblr

[missmessupsworld]

Believe in ourselves no matter what happened is the only relationship that we have to have.....😊🧿😊 #mondaytrivias #mondayheadstart #positivityistheultimatekey #bepositive #beingme💯 #loveforself #loveforall #goat #bae #growing #selfgrowth #thevibesession #spiritualpositivity #tryingon #keepmovingfuture #instagramforgrowth #contentmarketing #contentcreationstrategy #businesstips #entrepreneurshiptips101 #positivecommunity #businesstips #helpingpeople #communitytospreadpositivity #instagrammondays #lifelessons #instagrammerindia #pratisthadas (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTd6PrAvy8x/?utm_medium=tumblr

[selflovelearning-blog]

"Self-Growth" Series                    Chapter 1

   I felt inspired to start up this “Self-Growth” Series that is intended to bring powerful insights and clarity on the topic of “Can we truly live the Life of Our Dreams?”

And I am here to tell you that yes, we can and I will share through this collection of lessons how and what I did to reach a state of overall Peace and Lightness in my own Life. My intention is to use personal approach around Self Health & Empowerment with the desire to uplift and delight  those finding themselves on this beautiful yet complex “roadtrip” towards A Liberated Life ~ The Good Life ~ . Or maybe you are just reading this type of information for the first time and makes you wonder what is this all about. I am sure you will find stuff here that will make you stop a bit and reflect on what is to life that we are not taught to see and that if you open up to this perspective, you are up to a magical journey. And this should be a fun conversation topic nonetheless.:)

       I have been feeling in such flow with my  creativity lately and I am very excited to share this with you out there and it may or may not resonate with everybody stopping by, but if there is one person who feels better after being here then my work has reached its purpose, truly.

I will be talking about some of the most “difficult” yet enriching lessons I learned so far and be assured I am learning them again myself while getting these materials together meaning I will be taking on the role of a teacher who is a student at the same time and hopefully we will together create a space where we mingle with one another beyond time and space dimensions. ( More Shares on Self-Love and Healing + uplifting messages, follow me on IG @minglingwithself -)

  That being said, get yourself a freshly brewed cup of coffee or tea if you prefer, and may you have an enjoyable read! 

      “Pain is a Gift in Disguise”

           CHAPTER 1.     I consciously started to dig deeper into knowing myself in all possible ways after a life changing experience that took place about 3 years ago. I believe most of us will get into the journey of Self-Discovery when we get most triggered by a circumstance or event taking place in our lives and that usually brings some powerful experiences on a practical and emotional level. Throughout this time of fast paced learning, I found that one of the most sensitive and “stubborn” facades of SELF-GROWTH  is “Learning How to cope with Pain and Understanding the reason of it”.  What do you do when  it hurts and you feel like there is no way out?

    In my experience, I haven’t felt more at ease than when I learned how to deal with the painful times. It didn’t happen overnight. It took perseverance with clearing layers of limitations and negative thinking. It was one of the most challenging lessons I dealt with and I know for a fact that Pain is the catalyst of all of our choices.

    On your way to liberating yourself from these limiting thought patterns, you will experience suffering before you reach freedom. There is so much we have been carrying on from birth and passed on from generation to generation that adventuring to clear away what doesn’t serve us will, of course, bring stuff up that will make us feel uncomfortable. However, the understanding of this as being a part of a natural cycle of Self Liberation will bring us to a place where we are able to use the seeming discomfort as a Creative/Healing Force in our day to day life experience.  This is, in my opinion, one of the most important stages of one’s evolution as The Master of His Own Life and accepting this, moves one up on a life experience that we could only dared to dream of. Truly.

    Pain as I see it, is a state of feeling trapped in a situation or circumstance that did not or does not walk on our ideal, preferred path.

       The Power of our Lives comes from the most painful experiences we will ever face. FOR REAL. So yes, pain is necessary. It is there to show us something and we naturally avoid it  because it doesn’t feel good AT ALL, but on our way to the Good Life, there is a journey to be taken that means highs and lows  that are there to charge us to our fairy-tale destination ~ The Liberated Self!~

   What is the Good Life though? It is a life lived in physical and emotional balance, with harmonious and expanding relationships, with passion(s) that eventually bring our financial security and a wide-open door to creativity and exploration of Self.

          Yet, no mindful being I know or heard of has reached a state of peace and mastery without going through hardships, going through what you may see as “deep, unbearable and painful life situations”.  For me as well,  the most enriching moments came after coping with pain and “ I-can’t-do-this-right-now” feelings.

  We cannot possibly meet our Good Life unless we rise again and again from the muddy waters of emotional and physical pain. We are beings of contrasts. The beautiful is realized after the ugly first arises. The suffering fades more and more once it is accepted as part of the journey, as divinely guided experience and as a phase that will pass and that is there to guide us towards the calm waters. It is a fact that The most Self Strength we create is when we are rising up from grief and suffering. Think about it!

     I was blessed, to say the least, to have crossed paths with an experience that would make you believe in fairy tales. It is true, fairytalesarereal, but they come in pieces.  In between these pieces is Self Work and is not all flowers and butterflies, yet once you commit to have the experience of a life lived mindfully, you will reach the fairytale-like state. You get bits of your dream life but in between these bits, you have choices to make and most of the time these choices come with facing shadow fears, limiting beliefs, tests of faith and loads of extreme emotions that before you had no clue they even exist but to get to experience them. So, it is a lot to go through and not easy but it is a life changing experience once we come to the understanding that these “inner shadows” are there to create the pain so we are pushed to release and free ourselves from those emotions that are causing the suffering.

The inner shadows are indeed the CAUSE OF OUR SUFFERING.

   What I mean by inner shadows? All those unsettling emotions (grief, anxiety, resistance, stress, impatience, self-avoidance, fears of the unknown etc.) that direct us towards our outer circumstances and give birth to and raise the behavior of “poor me, why is this happening to me?”. We all have this at some point.  It is a way of avoiding going inwards and instead focusing on what is happening out there. Doing the inner shadow work is truly the most painful yet most REWARDING thing you will ever do to yourself. Once you think you got yourself all figured out, some other shadow work comes in play and you start another cycle, each time shedding another layer and another layer yet the deeper you go the more you learn, and you get to meet yourself and those around you at the most deeper levels. This is truly MAGICAL.      The  blissful liberation you feel when you can see beyond any outer circumstances is truly one SOLID reason Why The Pain that arises along the way is a BLESSING. It is there so you have no choice but to free yourself more and more and to reach a higher level of life experience with each time you rise up and feel strong and happy again.

  Every time you feel pain, you are in fact rising and you are moving TRULY closer to the magnificent Self that you are and the beauty of life that is  there for you. The Good Life. The Life of Your Dreams.

     To learn how to be one with the pain is in fact a solid commitment to Self Liberation. Is it worth it? YES YES YES. What waits for you at the end of each “inner shadow release” aka the painful emotions is a wise, brighter, balanced, harmonious Self. THE REAL YOU.

    Honestly, I wish this would come all at once and we could deal with it all for as long as needed and then live freely and harmoniously ever after, but realistically is not like that. It comes and goes and comes and goes so you dig deeper into yourself and truly master your way of living, with easy and uneasy times.  It is for you to reflect back on yourself and move yourself even closer to a peaceful state with self and with your life (~ That if you truly want to live genuinely happy~)

    It is, I believe, an endless experience that comes in different forms. And yes, it is possible to live free of suffering, but I don’t believe it can be maintained on a 100% level in every moment. What changes is the way we deal with these times; how we navigate them, that will create the experience of a harmonious life. I strongly believe that without hardship we will forget to keep learning, we will get stagnant in our growth and more so, we will stop exploring and stop going deeper and deeper into knowing ourselves.  Pain pushes us to GROW and to be consciously grateful for the good times. Yes, pain is part of the Liberated Life. What you learn through practice is how you perceive hardship when it comes across.

   Continuous gratefulness and appreciation  for where we are at each moment and what we have creates a beam of wholeness that brings clarity on what is  there to learn with each moment we feel discomfort and also what it is that we are receiving through the “fairy-tale” moments.

   Recently, I made the steps and chose to walk the uncomfortable path out of a situation. Even though I could feel that was certainly the path that truly wanted to unfold further for me,  I was so resistant to it because of the blindness to what could come next.  “What could possibly be there waiting to meet me that feels better than this?”, I wondered.  So much excitement yet the nights were long for some time. It required a Maturity I didn’t know myself I am capable of. I made a conscious decision to choose solely on intuitive guidance even though that implied stepping on one of my deepest-rooted fears. I wasn’t even aware  of it until I took the leap into what felt uncomfortable at first. I was shown again that I haven’t quite fully released the need of control of what needs to stay and what needs to go. I met the lesson again. 

    This is one more thing for you to consider: If we don’t deal with the lesson entirely at time of arrival, we will be faced with it again and again. It is no other way around and that is perfectly fine. Sometimes we are meant to and it is actually healthier to fully integrate a lesson in layers and at different times. We are always presented what we are ready for. This is what shedding layers is about. After clearing something, a new blockage may arise and you may clear that as well and this is how you create consistency and flow in how you deal with those tough times. You are taught how to not let the bumps on the road shake you so hardly every time you cross over.

   I personally faced this last bit of bumpy road and certainly one of the biggest steps towards liberation that I made so far was done through walking over it.  Guess what? It implied PAIN. A pain that was milder due to all the clearing I’ve done before, but it was an important one and it meant a significant push forward in my life.  My creativity fired up and I finally got this writing flowing after delaying the call for looong time. I am soon moving on a different continent that has been my dream since childhood with a dream job lined up ( uber excited already). I am living a dream as we speak: I have been in SE Asia for over 8 months now and  I finally feel completely adapted  here where I find myself at the moment,  in a remote town South of Bangkok, Thailand.  All this while I am getting to make an impact in some of the kids’ life  here in town whom I am teaching about  “The Happy Life” while improving their English language abilities. These are just a few of the awesome gifts received after making the uncomfortable choice and many other new and enriching experiences still waiting to unfold surely.  

    All in all, here is a practical exercise on How To Navigate the Painful Times that made a difference in my learning practices:

Take your situation and point these steps:

1) The Acknowledgement

2) The Acceptance  

3) The Wake-Up Call

 1)    The Acknowledgement happens when we become aware of our unease. It is the moment when we sit down with ourselves and reflect over what is going on inwards and we become aware of our overall unease and imbalance. This is the time when we stop avoiding what is happening and see it for what it actually is. 

 2)    The Acceptance. This is a big step in learning how to cope with pain. HUGE one. After becoming aware of the situation, there is a choice point: “Do I battle what is happening?” or “Do I accept I cannot change what is?”     The truth  is you can not change what is, you can only have impact on what it will be in the next moment and the next moment after that. At this stage, you pretty much face the choice of Growth Or Stagnation and it may take a while to process this. It gets easier with practice, but try to not beat yourself up if you are still at this phase for longer than you may like. It is all learning and time is your friend. It does hold your hand through everything you need to do, in the best way possible for you. Have patience!

3)    Depends on what choice you make on Step 2, you may reach this step: The Wake-Up Call. It is the realization that you do have an impact on everything that you experience, and you do have the power to change what are you going to experience further. What is now, charges what comes next. You  now understand that you can’t flip the past over, but it too was a present at some point and it created what is now. So, you Wake Up to the understanding that the suffering you feel now is a fuel to what comes next. What do you want to create next? How Do you want to live your next moments? It is now when you, with practice, start finding fuel of energy from this unease into more easy flawless choices.

    Something for you to reflect on when you feel  trapped like nothing is as you wish it to be:

“Behind the closed doors, there is a treasure hiding.”

Use it as a mantra to remind you that good things are coming, and you are where you are supposed to be.

If you want the treasure, then have the courage to take steps towards the unknown. Take the leap and make that move, quit that job, end that relationship, buy that ticket, follow your gut instinct. If it is painful and scary then something big WAITS ahead for you, FOR SURE. How long it takes to receive it depends on how long you will fight the inevitable.  

   “Pain is truly a gift in disguise.”  Think of any hardship you’ve experienced so far in your life, you still got up and moved on and you are here now reading about Self Growth interested in knowing more about thyself. Clearly there is at least one gift that painful experience offered you.

     Finally, please remember this: The only way out is through. Once you see the light again, you will understand that the dark was there for you, to make you stronger, wiser and happier. Always in All Ways.  

 I have trust in you! 

     If you enjoyed and found this useful, drop me some feedback in the comments below ( This works for those of you with Tumblr account) with any suggestions of what you would like me to touch base on in the future posts and if you have any questions or feedback on this lesson, super happy to read and answer them all. You can easily reach me @ minglingwithself on Instagram where I will be sharing more Love more often. 💖

 Light hearted wishes to you,

 M

[adventuretattoo-blog1]

CUSTOMISED ZODIAC SIGN ♉️ TAURUS design with shivas third eye designed #adventuretattoostudio🙏🏽❤️ #taurus♉️ #zodiacsigntattoo #bestbulltattooideas #tattooforlife❤️ #loveforself❤️ ♉️

[nikitasavaliyaspoetry]

# lovepoem Valentine gift...... "Valentine's Day is the poet's holiday....." #loveforsweet #lovefornature #lovetalk #loveyou #valentine #valentinegift #valentineday #valentinesdaygift #valentinegifts #valentinepoems #valentinepoemsoflove #valentinegifts #loveqoutes #loveforself https://www.instagram.com/p/CLPUsSyhI4R/?igshid=lnp7wybo9nnt

[pahadimirchi]

This year was odd year of till what I have seen so here remembering what I learnt year 2020 before saying bye-bye to this odd one out year 🤪

the most important part of ur life is familyU can go wherever u wish to but in the end u have to come back to your family only.feel urself lucky that if are still having your family with you after whaat all has happened

stopped expecting things from people

u have to manipulate yourself according the situation u see

now it's the u should understand it very well that whatever happens happen for a reason.

live the life to its fullest u never know when it's the end

u make relationship but at some point either u breaks it or tym will or if u feel it haven't broke get this straight that there was something magical in those relationships that kept it this way

work should be completed at the same tym it should be

distance is never a hinderance to the love u have for ur people

U really need to control urself and totally need a check on urself

Love urself 😘❤️

In end I just wanted to say that things u learn are there in every year but how u apply those things to ur life does Matter 🤪

So new year 2021 hope it goes well

[bakulrajput]

If... for the ones who believe they are love...#loveforself https://www.instagram.com/p/B_zMExXF6d7lAAX1jgf_0vioUjAxuw-StvOtpc0/?igshid=9wcq8iusunn0

[debasisbasurii]

You are busy? You have everything scheduled? Do you feel good about it? In fact very good about it? Yes, I do too. But at times I feel I am fixed! I am bugged up with the same lifestyle, same routine, same work, and same mindset every single day! Don't tell me you too feel that sometimes. - I know this may be bad and I must improve myself. Isn't it? NO! I don't need to be perfect all the time. I can take a chill pill! Even you can. And it is perfectly all right if you think you should have leisure time. A time without a schedule, without a to-do note, without people hanging around you, without a strategy in mind, without anything. JUST YOU! - I love the time I can schedule for myself. It can be unending. You can do it too. I know everything is aligned and needs to be done, but I did it, so can you. Instead of finding time to spend for yourself utilize the free times in your schedule. Yes, you have them in your schedule and you don't know about it. - Check out this post and decide if there is time for you and if you can do these small things to make time for yourself. Everything is ok and everything will fall in place but life is yours, dedicate some time to yourself as well. - Do not forget to like, share, comment, and tag someone who MUST go through this post too. - 🔥 Join Me @debasisbasurii 🔥 🔥 Join Me @debasisbasurii 🔥 🔥 Join Me @debasisbasurii 🔥 - 🚀Save This Post For Later 🏆Turn On Post Notifications _ _ _ _ #stressreduction #mindfulnessmatters #selfkindness #holisticwellbeing #rewireyourbrain #mindfulnessliving #innercritic #selfcareisforeveryone #mentalhealthcommunity #selftalkmatters #emotionalawareness #mentalhealthishealth #selfhelptools #entrepreneurshipmindset #loveyourlife❤️ #lifemantra #loveforself #timeforself #quietyourmind #timeforselfcare #releasenegativity #youareready #beingmindful #takesometime #lonetime #selfanalysis #businessconsultant #brandadvisor #debasisbasuri #debasisbasurii (at Connaught Place, New Delhi) https://www.instagram.com/p/CCz-2g9B8K2/?igshid=aiaiqgwwmea5

[gyzellah]

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[know4life]

What better way to show that we have grown into a #LoveForSelf by buying Black and supporting black businesses. #BuyBlack #DoForSelf #EconomicBlueprint #IndependenceMatters #RedistributeThePain