#losinglove

[audiolove195]

You’re breaking your own heart thinking it could be different…

[supersonicob]

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All of that right there.....above.....is something I wrote to my now ex as we were calmly discussing what happened between us and why I made the decision I did. And out of nowhere my mind goes in suuuuper deep and I came up with this metaphor to describe myself when it came to him. The more I go back and reread it the more it saddens me. And I feel depressed. Because it forces me to unintentionally think about my past relationships before him. And the fact this applies to AAAAALL my past relationships! This is how everyone treated me. I'm now believing that I was NOT cut out for the whole "so called love" thing because I see a pattern in all my relationships. Different faces, names, backgrounds childhood, life story and lifestyle....the end result once they became an adult remains the same. I was rejected by all of them regardless of how good I was to them. It wasn't enough, they were broken people. And acted like they didn't want the help to heal, they acted like they didn't want to get themselves right so they can be happy and enjoy life with me. So they ran. But I was the shiny new toy they didn't know how to take care of and handle properly. It's sad right?

[dancesafari]

The Saddest Love Song

The Saddest Love Song

It doesn’t matter who you are or what station in life you hold, there’s a pretty good chance you’ve felt the joy of finding love and the pain of losing it.  Indeed, meeting someone new can be a great thing. It’s pretty exciting when the two of you hit it off right from the start. With a little luck, all of those good feelings could turn into love.  Next, if you’re lucky, will come the whispering…

[1yearofsingle]

Separating our minds from our feelings is the hardest part. You have to accept that the person is not who you WANT them to be. #love #heal #healing #HealHealthy #movingon #moveon #losinglove #love #quote #quotes #relationships #true #truth #verytrue #meme #memes #quotesaboutlove https://www.instagram.com/p/CR1il5OJrBD/?utm_medium=tumblr

[simple-fying]

Day 366

Tonight, I cried as much as I did that night. This time the pain was a little bit worse and a little bit different. Because I didn’t see you just yesterday. I didn’t tell you what I really wanted to say, and it is what it is I guess. But I loved you then and I love you still. I hope to see each other again if possible.

[phantom-ghost-girl]

the winning game of losing.

As we to through life, we all lose someone, we all lose something,

maybe a personal effect or maybe even a person, and with every personal effect, and every person we lose, we lose a little part of ourselves.

When we lose that piece of us, we find away to build up 3 more pieces.

sometimes in losing, we end up winning, winning at making ourselves better, and getting better.

Our generation has mastered the art of making a winning situation out of a horrible loss.

[antipsychrophobia]

- When losing love you don't realise how desperate you've been trying to save it until you lose what could have only saved you the most. yourself. ---------------------------- Song recommendation: Fade away by Zack Hemsey • #zackhemsey #fadeaway #music #healing #artistsofig #poetsofinstagram #poetry #poems #suicide #gay #brokenheart #heartbroken #losinglove #sadness #feelingblue https://www.instagram.com/p/BosISBPgK4P/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=139uuw8x9wbkt

[findingmyway]

I want my keys back..

Never hand over your life for someone else to control. Once you lose your power, once you lose your control, you soon lose your happiness. You are no longer controlling your own life. You’re being controlled to provide happiness to those around you. They’ll start tearing you from your friends first. Soon after, you realize you don’t talk to your family as much. Before you know it...you are ALONE. You no longer wake up to your “best friend” in the morning. You wake up to the person in control of your happiness. Treat them right, keep them happy, care for them, support their crazy dreams. For what? To watch yours slip through your fingers. WE ALL HAVE ONLY ONE LIFE. STOP LIVING YOUR LIFE FOR OTHER PEOPLE. STOP HANDING OVER THE KEYS TO THE KINGDOM LIKE PAMPHLETS AT CHURCH. You have 1 life to get this right. Don’t prolong it. Don’t chance it. Don’t take it for granted. 

[genethemachinesstuff]

But it was not your fault but mine

And it was your heart on the line

I really fucked it up this time

Didn't I, my dear?

[ghostamit]

You don't know what means loading until you lose. . . . #lifeqoute #lifeqoutes #lifequote #sadqoutes #sadquotes💌 #sadquotespage #sadquotestumblr #sadquotepage #lifequotestagram #lifequotestoliveby #lifequotes4u #lifequotesandsayings #lifequotesdaily #lifequotations #lifequotesoftheday #sadquotessepressed #sadquotesdepressed #brokenheartquotes💔 #losingyou #losinglove #lostmymind #lostme #loseyou (at Chennai, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CEdtD8llJiP/?igshid=1jfnyls5j1waq

[audiolove195]

You broke my heart a year ago… And I’ve been putting it back together ever since.

[coloringtheworldwithwords]

Just steady your feet. Steady your feet and move on. That's all there's left to do. Keep your head up and walk straight...Just steady those feet and you'll be fine

I fought like hell to keep you, now the fighting hurts like hell, (coloringtheworldwithwords)

[malanowskianna-blog]

its funny how

people will tell you

“it gets better”

but it feels like were stuck

in a cycle of constant pain

constant suffering

constant wondering

why doesn't he love me

its funny how

our entire lives can be planned out

we can love so deeply

we can cherish so many moments

and in the end 

it can still fall apart

 its funny how

you can carry on

business as usual

all the while

breaking my heart 

its funny how 

your love is all thats holding me together

but you keep tearing me apart

holding on to what could happen

but lingering on

what could not

its funny how

i love you

more than life itself

and you just don't know

if you can live like this

this isn't funny anymore

i want my life back

i want your love

please baby

this isn't funny anymore.

[paszullypanna]

old stuff

cycle

madness

I started to work on a book, in which I draw all the BLACK TRUTHS. I process and recover some of my feelings cos I realized it is a good way to not go crazy. At least I hope so. I hope you will enjoy it, and I hope you feel you are not alone with your feelings, maybe you can gain something of it. It is a self therapy actually. I can feel it’s benefits. It is a good way to put down the burden and relieve the pain and it is a good way to recognize and identify feelings and situations.

This drawing is a part of this project.

[xoxojessica]

“Time was passing like a hand waving from a train I wanted to be on.

I hope you never have to think about anything as much as I think about you.” -Jonathan Safran Foer

#life #losinglove #nostalgia #regret #solitude

[missjody-blog]

Forward

Today, I realized that you have moved on.  

Today, I broke down and wanted nothing more than to be in your arms once again.  Knowing that you are moving forward with life, and do not want me to be any part of it, hurts.  I am not sure if it was the feeling of hurt, or my soul simply died.  You seemed so determined, so ready, so happy with the life excluding me.  That was when I knew, I need to let go.

Today, I unfollowed you on social media.

Today, I miss you like crazy.

Today, I love you more than ever before.

Today, I decided it’s time to move on.

#relationships #heartbreaks #movingon #losinglove #babysteps