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[stilljuststardust]

hii i would need some advice.

after finding out about manifesting it became tricky for me to care about the 3D, not only in the good way but also the bad. like - I dont do stuff because i tell myself that I have it anyways you know. im still taking the Basic care of myself but i stopped studying and doing anything, I kinda just bedrot because "i already have it all" why would i do anything. I dont know how to battle that and logically tell myself to do something.

thank you

Why manifestation doesn't mean nothing matters:

I went through the same thing and the truth was that I cared very much about the 3D I just was depressed and deeply nihilistic.

I want to address the beliefs you've stated about manifestation but I think you should focus on the underlying mental health issue. This has all the traits of a depressive episode and should be treated as such. I am addressing the manifestation aspect because clearly it has been fueling your episode and I hope that this will help change your perspective even a little.

"the 3D doesn't matter" is a really common phrase. When I first heard it I wasn't familiar with loa and it was instead something a friend kept repeating. It scared the shit out of me.

The phrase is meant to convey that circumstances zre never able to prevent your manifestation and that you get to determine what you want in your reality regardless of whether or not it has physically manifested yet.

What it accidentally ended up becoming was "nothing is real nothing matters" which if you have any kind of mental health issue is a deeply triggering phrase.

The 3D isn't worthless it just isn't a factor in whether or not you can manifest something. The 3D is real. The 3D is something that matters because it matters to you.

The 4D isn't some mystical far off land, it's literally just your thoughts, visualizations, and internal experiences, and I doubt that those are all in alignment with your goals right now. When I was depressed my inner monologue was less "my life is so great" and more "why aren't I doing more" so that feeling piled up on itself and bled into my 3D until I wasn't doing anything.

The 3D is malleable and you can manifest anything within it yes but why should that mean you can't care about it? If you're manifesting it's probably because you care about your life and want it to improve.

To be clear I don't believe that nothing matters but even if it didn't why should that mean we give up on the things that make us happy? Nothing matters so do whatever the fuck you want. This doesn't make you happy so why should you do it if suffering is also meaningless?

The underlying mental health issue:

Disclaimer: I'm not a professional anything I say about depression is from personal experience. Please seek professional guidance.

This has all of the common signs of a depressive episode. It seems to me that you have a serious underlying mental health struggle and you've been using "nothing matters" as a way to justify staying in it.

I would like to start with: there is nothing wrong with you and this is not your fault.

There definitely was a time I thought the same way because I was scared to try to get better. Starting recovery can be scary because often there is a backwards comfort in leaning into it because you're no longer putting pressure on yourself to "do better".

"Nothing matters so why should I try" isn't loa, it's nihilism, and a very common mantra for those suffering with depression. You're not alone in thinking it.

If you want my advice as someone who's been there:

Obviously no advice I give you is going to cure you but I can give you tools that helped me.

Meet yourself where you're at. Don't try to go from bed rotting today to climbing a mountain tomorrow. It's like how you can't jump from the first level to the boss fight of the video game. You don't need to have all of it under control your goal should start one step above where you're at. So instead of a whole list of things you need to catch up with just start with showering or your hygiene. Keep that as your only goal until it's become a normal part of your life again and implement new goals in a similar way.

Every video I ever watched on self improvement overwhelmed me with everything I wasn't doing. The weight of my expectations for myself was the heaviest part of my episodes. Eventually I committed to the idea that I had only one responsibility and it was showering, anything else is just a bonus. Be kind to yourself. If all you change is the way you talk to yourself about it you will feel better. It's easy to fall into cycles of beating yourself up for everything you wish you were doing but that isn't benefitting you in any way. Give yourself some compassion.

Links

Against nihilism - john green

How to handle the 3D when manifesting

Mental health subliminal

[cussima]

sometimes loa content makes the law seem so out of reach when in reality the universe is always in such a silly mood like the ways the law works most of the time are:

• you think "ice cream would be so good right now" and 3 hours laters a family member shows up with ice cream

• you imagine something quickly and it shows up in your life within that same day

• you make a joke to yourself you think is funny and suddenly you see the punchline on tv

lmost loa posts are correct but never ever get the impression that imagining, deciding, detaching, etc is that hard because it's not

[coquetteprincesss]

I have been affirming and ignoring the 3D sometimes when I see the 3D and it doesn’t connects to my 4D I get really upset but then I think no this is not my reality I am 46 kilograms and I eat whatever I want and always stay 46 kilograms! And how to believe more that 3D will reflect what i assume.I have been believing and affirming but today I checked my 3D didn’t reflect my belief how To persist more? Any tips?

hello, love!

you don't have to 'ignore' the 3d! no, you're doing it wrong, hun. this is not living in the end. living in the end means fulfilling yourself in your imagination, not ignoring your physical reality! just go on with your day, but in your imagination, live the life you want to live. you don't really need to 'believe' in the law of assumption, you just have to assume something is true and it will reflect in your reality. don't obsess over your results, because you already have everything you want. persisting means believing and supporting a fact and continuing it no matter what. regardless of what the 3d shows, you have to persist that you have what you want. you can affirm for that!

[itsrlymine]

why do you care about the past so much?

you should not let your past define who you are because bitch that's not who you are. you are now. literally the person who you were when you started reading this f*cking sentence is different compared to the person you will be when you finish reading this post. don't irritate me.

that's the whole point. you are new every moment. but if you sit there worrying about the past, how can you expect a brighter future? how can you expect things to go your way when you are focused on how things "didn't" work for you in the past? THEY DIDN'T WORK FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU SAID SO OMG STAND UP.

I might be tipsy but what i'm saying still stands. until you decide otherwise, your world will not change. it cannot because you haven't allowed it to.

you use the past as your identity even though you have every new moment to define who you are. it sounded crazy to me at first but it is the truth. you can decide now who you are and your world has no choice but to reflect it. decide you are seeing what you want. decide things are going your way. just f*cking decide.

at this point, it's really just giving attention wh*re. like you want us to feel bad because of this circumstance and the other when circumstances don't exist and you are already in your "new" reality. get the fuck up.

why are you letting the past dictate who you are when the past is not who you are???

i want to scream this to the rooftops because why are you acting like your world can't change when it changes with you???????

stop being weird and just accept that you have it now. you don't get brownie points for pretending like your world hasn't changed.

[heavenangelly]

Things to manifest: luxury edition

💸💵: Being a trust fund/nepotism baby

💸💵: Owning a private plane

💸💵: Having a vacation home all over the world

💸💵: Being a millionaire, billionaire or trillionaire

💸💵: Owning multiple business/shares and being a popular name amongst people

💸💵: Having lots of connections

💸💵: Easily get visas for ur desired countries

💸💵: Go on vacation a lot

💸💵: Any money you spend comes back x 100

💸💵: Immune to getting scammed, robbed, debt, or losing lots of money

💸💵: Having a mansion of ur desired aesthetic

💸💵: Have your desired cars

💸💵: Have your desired jewellery

💸💵: Magnetic and powerful aura that demands attention and respect from everyone

💸💵: Living in a palace with helpers, cleaners, personal chefs, gardeners, etc.

💸💵: Extreme beauty. People cannot believe you are so elegant and otherworldly

💸💵: Always use your money for good and not get blindsided by it

[lostnlucky]

just another thing they’ve taken from you

[tero-ga]

A little animation based on my fanfic I've wrote dhshsujssj, you can read is down below

Heads up. I'm very a beginner where it comes to writing, so there's going to be cringy bits and grammar errors. I'm really trying my best to make it okay but yeah that's all.

Rating: Teen And Up Audiences

Archive Warning: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings

Category: Gen

Fandom: Legends of Avantris (Web Series)

Relationships: Gricko Grimgrin/Torbek, Gricko Grimgrin & Torbek, Gricko Grimgrin & Hootsie Grimgrin

Characters: Gricko Grimgrin, Hootsie Grimgrin, Torbek

Additional Tags: Mentioned Morning Frost, Mentioned Twig, Nightmares, Unethical Experimentation, Panic Attacks, Support Animal Hootsie, Cuddles, Pets, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Not Beta Read, Hearing Voices, Romantic Friendship

Language: English

[daiisiy]

the eom crew, composed of a demon, a vampire, a cultist, an undead pirate, another cultist and a gravedigger: the stakes may be against us, but we are friends and we will prevail!

the uprooted crew, composed of small critters: ok bitsy now hit the second tower

[ubtendo]

Boy oh boy, finally got it finished

(Don't ask me why this looks like paper mario, I have no idea how that happend)

Separate version with info for each:

(If you find any typo, no you didn't (please tell me, I'll fix it tomorrow))

[scentedpeachlandcreator]

★ IT'S MINE CHALLENGE:

*hehe here i came with a New motivational challenge 😈🙏🏻*

If you ever see something in a store, on Pinterest board, on Instagram, Tik tok, i want you to declare it as yours.

Decide it as yours and done, you have it.

But the 3d?

This challenge i created is for you to remove the mentality of "oh i don't have it" or "but i don't see it in the 3d"

The moment you decided it as yours then it is yours.

Remember: you have it in your 4d the moment you decide you have it, so keep persisting in that assumption.

Saw a cute bag in a store? Oh i have it, it's already mine.

Saved your desired phone on your Pinterest board? It yours.

Saw your desired face or nose in another girl? It's mine, i have it.

Saw your desired body on another girl? Lol I have the same body as her.

Don't not overthink, decide it's yours and move on with your life.

The challenge is supposed to be fun, no drainful, have fun getting your desires!

If you have Any questions regarding the Law of assumption check my pinned post, you'll find my "before sending me an Ask" and my masterlist.

Xoxo, Eli

[princessofangiemania]

𝑺𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝑺𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚: 𝑰 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒇𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒚 𝑺𝑷 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂 𝑾𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒑𝒂𝒅-𝒆𝒔𝒒𝒖𝒆 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚

First and foremost, I would like to apologise for my inactivity ;w; I've been so focused on school, it was HECTIC and boy do I have a lot of success stories, this being one of them. So start of the school year, I wasn't planning on manifesting a boyfriend. I just wanted good grades, beauty and stuff. Long yapping session ahead!!

I was friends with this guy. Our whole friendship started because I was bored and wanted to play cupid (He liked another girl). So I was talking with him a lot, I was his right-hand woman. But this guy, he's not fond of making first moves but the girl isn't either. Long story short, he got rejected they didn't end up together. Let's call my SP "Coco" for good measure. You thought that was the end of it and we just remained friends? Wrong, I started developing feelings for him and womp womp (I actually thought he was physically attractive when I first saw him but backed off when I saw he liked another girl because I wasn't that attached yet). An even funnier story, we're in a four-person friend group. (2 boys and 2 girls), the other two are a couple. So our friend-group was more like a double date if we did end up together. Since my 18th birthday party was coming up, I had to pick a partner for the cotilion. And I picked him (He was convinced) and I even proposed a solo. So while we were practicing, we had lots of moments and I'm pretty clumsy, you can pretty much imagine that. There came our field trip. And it was mostly water sports. After that, we were all given free time to play in the pool for about two hours. I began carrying people randomly and they started doing the same to me. I actually carried Coco too and of course he carried me too. Around dismissal, I switched places with the other guy in our friend group and sat next to him. Average romance anime cliche moment, I fell asleep on his shoulder. To fast forward through, I confessed to him but he gave me a "You deserve better, I love you as a friend" but not a definite no. The rejection is implied but what does our LOA Barbie girlie do? We persist. That time wasn't the best, I was more than awkward around him but all I thought was, "This is for the plot" over and over again.

Like a Wattpad love story, it started picking up on the day of my 18th birthday, when we sang Photograph. Not relevant? It played our part in 18 Roses (In Philippine culture, it is customary for a girl to dance with 18 bachelors to signify her coming of age). And of course, I just had to experience all the cliche moments like him holding an umbrella over me, carrying my bag, going to get ice cream, walking somewhere and exchanging longing glances when the other wasn't looking and it all came down to a pool party we had when the school year ended. I got drunk (My dumbass thought the punch was orange juice and filled my cup all the way through) and I was just mostly chilling by the jacuzzi because of it. Coco over here, if we weren't hogging the karaoke machine, we were just chilling in the jacuzzi by ourselves (And the annoying pick-me girl of the class occasionally) and when I got too drunk, apparently I asked if I could hug him and for the last 2 hours or so, I was just hugging him. It was weird because Coco would usually join water sports going on in the other pool but he decided to just chill with me.

Before we got together, just like how I would write a wattpad fanfiction, there was the mandatory angst misunderstanding. The confession was really something. Sparks Fly by Taylor Swift was playing in the background and we became an official couple at exactly 12 midnight. Now, we're in a happy and loving relationship! Honestly, I was scared of what he'd be like in a relationship (Cuz I thought he wouldn't give me what I needed, E.G. princess treatment) but since I persisted and said to myself that what I wanted would always be given to me, I'm proud to say I'm dating a guy who practically worships the ground I walk on, not afraid to show his affection and respectful. I could go on and on about how good my relationship is how he treats me so well but I'd save you all the sappy stuff.

[stilljuststardust]

hey how to point your subconscious into believing something that's clearly not in 3D ( for beginners)

Repetition repetition repetition

Your brain forms new pathways through repetition, memories are solidified by repetition, it's how you learn and how your beliefs are solidified.

Through all ways available to you repeat repeat repeat what you want it to know

Ways you can do this:

Affirmations (repeated internally or verbally)

Visualizations

Grounding in the idea that your desire is fact

Subliminal messages or affirmation tapes

Mediation

Your subconscious takes everything at face value. It believes everything you tell it. When you repeat something to it it will believe you.

Think of it as a glass of water. It starts out muddy and filled with old thoughts. When you fill it with fresh water the mud and grime will be pushed out of the top of the glass as it overflows. Eventually, the glass will be filled with only clean water.

How long will that take? That depends on how much mud (what your subconscious beliefs are and how dedicated you are to those beliefs) is in the glass and how much water you are using.

If you only do a drop a day the cup will eventually be cleared of the mud yes, but it will take much longer. If you continue to add mud (negative thoughts) it will overshadow what little water you add.

But if you use a power washer and blast the cup with more and more and more water, bam, it's clean.

We are creatures of habit

We think thousands of thoughts a day, most of them are thoughts we've thought before. That's why it's so uncomfortable to change a thought pattern, it's a habit.

How do you start a new habit? Repetition and consistency.

Here's my post on that:

How to break old thought patterns

[cussima]

i found out about the law of assumption recently and i've been reading up on it, but then one day i went on tiktok and i kept seeing videos about people who believe in this stuff are going through a sort of spiritual psychosis, they also said that all the teachers who teach manifestation are liars and scammers who enjoy seeing people lose their minds over this, and it really brought me down, is manifestation really real? i don't want to get my hopes up for nothing

anon you choose what you believe. The law is real, it's not based on spirituality (some people just choose to integrate spiritual practices to go with it, like choosing ketchup or mustard to go with your burger) it's a law of the universe, just like the law of gravity. If you're concerned about the law appearing too magical or airy, you can also find multiple people explaining the law from the neuroscientific side (neuroscience plays into the law) Quick reminder: You are always manifesting, you have been manifesting forever, because it's just human nature. But now, you've realized you can do it consciously, now you can choose what you want to attract into your life. If you want to build confidence around the law just start consciously manifesting small things: chocolate, scores on a test or a match, jewelry, nail polish color, whatever. Here's a doc on how the law works with the basics of it, don't overcomplicate it for yourself: https://docs.google.com/document/u/0/d/1OhShXBZ3rjw4dJGz5Y2XWw3G9vC5Wqyi9JYUsRxj61E/mobilebasic

But at the end of the day, if you don't want to believe in it, don't. If you do want to use it to your advantage, do so. Your choice.

[coquetteprincesss]

Hey! You said in your early reply that I have been doing it all wrong by ignoring the 3D. Can you explain further because I feel I am a bit lost

hi!

as i said, you don't have to literally ignore the 3d. you just have to go on with your day like it's any other normal day, BUT, in your imagination, i.e., your 4d, you have to imagine living the life you want. by that i mean, daydreaming. just daydream about you having your desires and how you would brag to a friend that you are 46 kgs no matter what you eat or whatever you'd want. whenever you are sitting idle or going back home from somewhere or vice-versa or doing anything, be in the state of wish fulfilled, i.e., live in the end and it will ultimately manifest into your reality!

state of the wish fulfilled = living in the end = thinking as if

hope you understood!

[itsrlymine]

The whole concept of manifesting seemed "unrealistic" and "too good to be true" to me, but I decided to try it anyway because I didn't really have anything to lose. I really wanted light green eyes, so I just robotically affirmed to myself "I have light green eyes" and literally 4 days later my eyes went from dark blue to the exact light green shade I found on Pinterest. I guess I expected to...feel something? Like there would be some magical moment where I knew I had what I wanted? But nope. It feels like nothing. It was really that easy.

YUP YUP YUPPPPP! This is such a great success story omgg. I'm so glad you didn't give an f about how you previously thought about manifesting and decided anyways. all it takes is telling yourself/recognizing what is now yours. thank you so much for sharing!!

[greenglowinspooks]

Alright, since it’s no longer 2 in the morning and my head’s a bit clearer, I present to you:

Liminal Riddler

So, not everyone in the DC fandom knows about this, and I’d bet that even less people in the Phandom do, but at one point, the Riddler had cancer. Had, past-tense, because he cured it. With the Lazarus pits.

And yeah, not everyone who gets dipped in the pits has to be liminal, but one would assume that the sudden replacement of a large number of malignant cells throughout the body is gonna do something.

The Riddler already acts quite a lot like a DP ghost in some interpretations anyways. He’s got a strict gimmick that he genuinely can’t part ways with, he’s campy and fun, he’s incredibly violent, etc.

Also, the way that he would react to this whole thing would be funny as hell.

Do I think the Riddler would really care if the GiW was after him? No. This is Gotham, the government is constantly going after him anyways.

Do I think he would care if Danny was being hunted down by the same people, and his parents were involved? Somewhat. He probably wouldn’t care about Danny specifically, at least not right away, but a young boy running terrified from his own parents would definitely bring back some bad memories, and he would probably give him a hand (if for no other reason than to get back to plotting crimes instead of dealing with childhood trauma).

Do I think the Riddler, whose entire thing is being smarter than everyone else, would care if the GiW somehow let slip that they thought he didn’t have human intelligence? That they believed him to be nothing but an echo of human life?

It’s not even a question. He would be the most insufferable person in Gotham within the hour. Genuinely nothing could stop him, especially not if Danny was helping jailbreak him from Arkham every time he got caught.

Almost every major road is closed. Every warehouse on the Docks is on fire. Somehow, they managed to color the clouds and smog a bright green.

The natives of Gotham would probably get those anti-ghost laws and acts overturned faster than the Justice League, if only to make the Riddler stop. His traps and games aren’t even lethal at this point (due to Danny’s insistence), but they’re so genuinely annoying that the general population is about to beat the GiW agents to death themselves just to get the Riddler to quit it already.

Also, I think that during this whirl of chaos, the Riddler would become quite fond of Danny.

He’s a bright young boy who’s very fond of wordplay, and inventive enough to keep up with him. Aside from the inevitable crisis of “oh god I’m becoming the bat,” he’d probably be happy to take on Danny as his protégé. Even if the boy won’t let him kill anyone (rude), he’s a terrifying getaway driver and can turn the both of them invisible and intangible, making Arkham escapes a breeze.

Hell, the Riddler would probably be willing to make a false identity for the two of them, just so he could get the boy proper schooling.

(Yes, he thinks that the entire education system is a sham and that he could do much better, but Danny wants to go into aerospace engineering, and the Riddler isn’t one to squander someone’s interest in learning.)

(Also, Echo and Query would find the whole thing hilarious)