I've been following that AITA blog for a bit now and it has me thinking about my own life situations with conflict and drama. A passive "do I have anything I could submit to that blog?" But upon thinking about it, it's like... I really find no value in asking strangers whether I'm "the asshole" in situations. There are situations where I'm clearly not at fault, situations where I was a little shit but it was justified, and at least one situation where I have a definite "Oh yeah, I was definitely the asshole there". All in the past, so it's not like I'd even need advice or anything. I already know, so what's the point?
Maybe it stems from me being a generally self-aware and self-confident kind of person. I know what's going on with myself, know when I've wronged people, & I have a mentality of "well, I'll try to not do that in the future." Even if I feel a little guilty thinking back, what's the point of asking after something when I know I'm at fault? Or situations where things were complicated and both people had fault in things, but I know I wasn't being shitty on purpose & that's what matters to me. Ultimately, it results in a bunch of strangers drawing conclusions about things I really don't care about outside input on.
Still love reading the blog tho. There's something about reading up on random people's life drama that satisfies that gossipmonger soul in me So well.
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My friends: Come oooon, we wanna hang out w you, we love youuuuu, we think you're hella fun ^-^
Me: Sounds fake. Why would anyone wanna hang out w me? I fucking suck. That's factual, not self-deprecating, I ruin everything fr fr. So, like, Imma push yall away and not talk to you for a while. See ya in a few weeks 🫶
My friends, a while later: Dude, we'd literally kill for you, but also, you're such a fucking bitch.
Me: That's so sweet of you omg 🥺🥺🥺 I feel so loved
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