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jichan05 · 8 months ago

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Eka's Portal the special interest website that literally nobody uses.

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nordfjording · 2 months ago

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Doing the biannual round of checking in on and managing my retirement and high interest savings accounts ($147 dollars)

#i have a friend whos had his retirement account going since like 2014 and tries to argue abt why i havent and btch....#i did. technically #but sir. pal #you were an only child with two (divorced) working parents who were able to live w ur mom until u were in ur 20s #we're 30 and your dad still has your car loan #i didnt have any money to fucking put in it that i wouldnt possibly need on a rainy day like. fuck off man #the other friend who started saving at the same time as me ALSO still has her phone bill payed by her parents. gets money on birthdays etc #ive been paying my own rent since i was 16. took over the last of my recurring bills at 18.#at no fucking point have i been in a position where i could coast on anything. byeeeee.

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koko2unite · 5 months ago

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#so remember when i was talking about having to temp move to a broken house owned by my brothers father in law #turns out he has been secretly telling the construction guy we hired to add more stuff #and refuse to pay them #putting all the expenses on me #i feel like i just got scammed #like my parents my brother his family and his family in law are scamming me to fix this house #i do have the money but this fucking sucks #im pulling all of it from my emergency and fun budget but its for emergency jfc not for fixing house that isnt even mine #i guess i should be fine #its kinda sad that irl im trying to pull this scary #dont fuck with me persona #alienating people who are thinking of taking advantage of me #and it worked sorta #except to my family who knows very well that its just a facade and i cant say no to them #aaaaaaa #i wish i could go off contact too bad i live in their vicinity

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puppyeared · 8 months ago

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Atla live action 😐

#thats my honest reaction 😐#to be fair ive only seen 20 minutes of the s1 finale bc my parents are watching it but. mmmmm kinda mid #like. the casting is definitely an improvement since the last time they tried a live action but it feels like the writing falls flat #or maybe im being harsh bc ive only heard negative criticism on it beforehand. but fr anytime u bring up the original its already #good and not just because its the original. so much fucking detail went into it to the point of someone noticing azula wielding mai's knive #to how well thought out irohs character is used as a way of uniting the cast especially as zukos foil #i heard that sokkas sexism was toned down and i have to agree that feels like a cheap move. like i get WHY they think it would be better #but its not about how that reflects on real world its about how it affects the story. sokka starts out as a misogynistic asshole because #it makes it that much more impactful when he changes. toning that down makes it flatter and makes his character development weak #and someone pointed out they didnt even make him wear the kyoshi warrior uniform and i know it feels like such a small detail but #come on man. they did that in the original because not only does it help him really walk in their shoes - wearing 'feminine' clothing and #makeup and having suki explain its significance but it also ties in with the shows theme of harmony and intersectionality #i was also disappointed when they had the fire sages explain how the water tribe draws power from the moon because in the original it was #IROH who explained it to aang and everyone else BECAUSE we as the audience is under the impression hes with the 'bad guys'#and it builds up to how he learned from the other nations which reconciles his past as a war general and his character overall #AND its an excellent starting point for the cast and audience to understand how the nations arent as closed off as you would think #plus you would think its only fire nation doing propaganda but they expanded on that with earth kingdom censorship and it WORKS #a lot of things in the live action also feel arbitrary like. they gave momo a near death experience for 5 minutes for no reason #im firmly on the stance of bringing back filler moments instead of putting major events right after each other so that u give your #audience a sense of time passing and to really absorb the story. but i think thats more like shock value than filler and yeah its a small #thing to gripe about but those things build up and its really annoying. the thing abt avatar filler moments is that however small #its at least meaningful. hell even the beach episode emphasizes how isolated zuko and his friends are as child soldiers #i also swore to never watch the first live action since it was that bad but i really liked the stylized tattoos they used for aang #anyway. those arejust my thoughts. im not gonna watch the rest because im a ride or die for the original aftr growing up and #rewatching it at least 20 times as a kid. but theres definitely room for improvement and i wish ppl wouldnt take it as 'better' just cuz #netflix is adapting it. i wouldve killed for them to just reanimate the entire avatar series and touch NOTHING ELSE no redub #no changes to the story. just reanimate the thing and leave the rest alone and youd make easy money just the same #ALSO its very jarring not hearing jack desena and dante basco voicing sokka and zuko cause their voices were the most recognizable to me #i get that its because its live action but im allowed to feel a little sad abt that. and uncle irohs accent was really soothing #yapping

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orcelito · 1 month ago

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Considering the. Ahem. Ways this year has gone, I've not been thinking about it all that much, but. I did start this year with the motto of Year Of Unfucking My Life. With a few goals involved in that.

I got an official adhd diagnosis, as well as a diagnosis for PCOS. Other diagnoses in progress. Gotten adhd meds and birth control to regulate periods. I've gone back to school and I'm keeping up with it better than ever before. I've even been working on practicing driving, something I've been largely neglecting since I first got my driving permit, um... 11 years ago...

I just need to actually Get my license. And I need to get it before the end of the year. If I can accomplish that, then I'll say the Year Of Unfucking My Life was successful.

#speculation nation #i had some pretty major negative And positive influences for this goal of mine.#primary negative influence of course being my dad abruptly dying.#but that also led to the primary positive influence of the life insurance payout that's letting me just focus on school for my final year.#it's like a monkey's paw curl kind of moment. i got a genuinely astounding amount of money #more than enough to live off for a year+ and pay off the rest of my schooling.#with this i have finally exited the purgatory of part time school full time work to pay my way through school #a setup that led to endless stress (both physically and mentally) and suffering grades.#failing some classes and taking longer bc part time Anyways. locking me into years and years of this perpetual fucking Hell.#ive escaped it. school is so so so much more manageable when i dont have to work a job. im actually keeping up with my assignments.#for once theres no uncertainty about passing any of my classes. i Will pass them all. and i expect As in most if not all of them.#it's been fucking Amazing. everything i couldve wanted. and it came with the low low cost of losing my father when i was only 26.#... 'low' being sarcastic here of course. he was the 2nd worst person i couldve lost in my life. second only to my sister.#the 2nd worst grief i will Ever experience. bc he was my Good parent. hes the very reason i have a future at All.#and losing him fucked me up Severely. im still working on recovering. i kind of figure i always Will be.#thank god id already been taking spring semester off bc that would've been Horrible to go thru while in school.#i honestly probably would've just withdrawn from the semester. theres no Way id have kept up with it #given how damned BUSY those first few weeks after were. between funeral prep and inventorying and packing up his house.#so fucking much involved in settling an estate. and im the lucky one in that my sister's been handling all the legal shit.#so i simultaneously was dealt one of the most severe blows i ever Will be dealt #while also being given probably the biggest boost i'll ever get in my life.#if everything goes well with graduating and getting an IT job then i'll never want for money again.#considering there was a time early last year when i got as low as literally $7 in my bank account. this is a pretty big deal.#it's just... strange. the ways things go in life. this has been a very strange year for me.#just doing my best to use this boost to the best of my ability. even if it feels like im taking advantage of his death.#it's what he wouldve wanted me to do.

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ilkkawhat · 2 months ago

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(Disclaimer: I'm quite drunk and looking (dis)respectfully at gifs of Niko)

I really hope this doesn't sound creepy, but I just love how Ilkka's body looks. He's obviously fit and in good shape, but he looks so *normal*. A lot of totally normal squishiness. A bit of a tummy and drool inducing biceps and pecs I want to rest my head on. He looks so hugable. Just a handsome, normal dude.

(it's okay i'm on my way to drunkville myself lol made a possible poor choice in buying basil hayden again that shit always gets me wasted no matter what I do)

no no no but i legit know exactly what you mean!!! and 100% agree!!! finland's fourth hottest dad (though i'd argue he's in first lol) showing us all that it's okay just to be a normal dude regardless of what society might classify as attractive (though i do think he is objectively attractive but...i might be biased lmao)

#the basil buy was a gift to myself and i bought two bottles #one of which was kinda enabled by my dad #who does not question how many bottles of alcohol i buy every time we go to binny's because and i quote #'what else are you gonna spend your money on i guess'#(context i live at home with my parents don't pay rent and paid off my loans already)#(maybe next year will be the year i move out)#(i said that last year)#BUT ANYWAY BACK TO ILKKA WHO I'M TRYING TO GIF RIGHT NOW #this man is just!!!!!!!

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britneyshakespeare · 4 months ago

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you know someday i'm gonna feel so good when i have my student loans paid off

that ain't gonna be soon, trust me, but i think about it

#i've been saving so much for it that i paid off over like $2k in the last 2 or 3 months #it's just thinking about how the amount of interest goes off that drives me literally crazy #and my monthly amount i owe is like just under $120 #which to some people as a regular bill is more manageable than others. but as i have an irregular income #as a substitute teacher it's something that gives me a LOT of stress.#which is another reason i've been overpaying. in case something happens/i can't get a lot of work #it defers the next due date.#that way it's not urgent but yet i still *feel* it all the time #debt is a crazy kind of thing #and to think that my loans are from COMMUNITY college. two years. publicly owned #when i start taking classes again soon. i currently have enough saved that if i take like ONE class #i can pay out of pocket. and i think im only gonna take one class to start anyway #which will also help with the deferred payments #see i just fucking hate having to think practically about money like this #tales from diana #idk how ppl leave high school and go straight to live in a dorm room at a private university for four straight years #and rack up tens to hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt.#first of all that lifestyle was not accessible for me to begin with. even when paying it was such an abstract put-it-off thought #as it is for so many 18-year-olds who are told not to worry about where they apply.#but i had under $12k to repay when the student loan debt was unfrozen last fall #and it's been weighing on me soooo heavily since then. i think about it every damn day #it's like the money i make isn't even mine. it goes straight to mohela and food #keep in mind i also live w my parents & am on their health insurance so someday there'll be moooore bills!!!!

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sourseat · 21 days ago

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here's some context: they both don't have enough money. i have enough money (no assets only savings). they never ask for money. tho mum hints, dad never hints and will barely acknowledge he does not have enough money. but it is impacting his life now. they both frustrate me immensely constantly.

#like.. 10% of my savings split between them?#the other context is they have a house with a not fully paid off mortgage that one of them lives in and does NOT want to leave #and it is like not a sensible house for one elderly person to live in #and10% of my savings would not solve their money problems whatsoever but it might help #also maybe they would find it humiliating to receive idk #its Parents evening here

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roseverdict · 7 months ago

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not looking forward to my parents trying to go "oh hey nice tax return the government gave you as a handout. give it to us for the family cruise" when i don't really want to go on the family cruise nearly as much as they do

#rosie babbles #but yknow. choice is an illusion #this is also the 20th-odd time the parents have gone on abt #'and remember to be careful because if we go off on our own we Will Be Kidnapped'#i understand the need to be aware in a new location but i think that impressing this upon us this hard for places where POC live is a bit.#eeugh.#i'm p sure there's better things to do than kidnap a touristy middle-aged white couple and their dead-inside adult kids who won't have the #money to buy their own souvenirs if things go as i expect them to in the next few months #unfortunately parents' house parents' rules. ��

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aengelren · 6 months ago

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life after seeing people start waking up and stop idolizing elitism and celebrity culture, feeding their pockets while the working class and third world countries suffer..is the human revolution near?