#like?? do you hang out? do you have hobbies you share? how are you emotionally?

[intomybubble]

Nooo this is my third GL manga where the main characters are adults, and one of them is married. It was with Even though we’re adults, Run away with me girl and now Pinky Candy Kiss

Uugh and i was really digging how Pink candy kiss started too bc the chemistry with the FLs were good. Now we have to deal with the straight obligation before we get the happy lesbians

[art]

Creator Spotlight: @mimimar

Hi! I’m Michelle (Mimimar), an illustrator born and raised in Venezuela, currently based in Italy. I enjoy making colorful illustrations that reflect the things I love: fairy tales, fantasy, tenderness and queer (especially sapphic) stories. Occasionally, I also make paper dolls, comics and animatics. I have a lot of interest in book illustration and I’m currently developing my own stories that I hope to share as an author-illustrator someday!

Check out our interview with Michelle below!

Did you originally have a background in art? If not, how did you start?

I always enjoyed drawing when I was a kid, but it only became a hobby that I did almost every day when I was around 11. At first I only used traditional mediums, but I decided to make a serious effort to learn how to draw digitally when I was 15, and once I got the hang of it I never stopped!

I didn’t go to art school so all of my learning was done through studying the tutorials and resources that other artists generously share on the internet and lots of practice / trial and error.

How do you want to evolve as a creator?

I want to do many things but what I want to do the most right now is work on books! I want to make art for other authors’ stories and also my own stories as an author-illustrator. I want to grow as a storyteller and create art and stories that will really resonate with people emotionally. I’m always striving to improve my skills as well.

I also really love dolls, so working on doll box art or as a doll designer is something I would love to do someday. I actually have been designing paper dolls on my Patreon for the past few months, it’s been a fun project that is still ongoing right now!

What is one habit you find yourself doing a lot as an artist?

Probably using a lot of purple! It’s my favorite color so I find myself using it a lot. If I can find a way to sneak a little bit of purple into an illustration or a character design then I will.

Congratulations on finishing your Ivy Comic! Did the outcome turn out like how you expected or were there some unexpected bumps along the way?

Thank you! It’s a project that I worked on very slowly in between other art because I wanted to really take my time with every spread and make each of them a fully detailed illustration. I thumbnailed the full comic before starting but I kept changing the sketch for the final spread until the very end! Overall I’m really proud of the end result. I sprinkled a lot of hidden details in every page that I hope some of the readers will notice. For example: the meanings of the flowers in each page represent what the characters are feeling in that moment, and the colors of their wardrobe become gradually lighter as the story progresses to represent their emotions, as well as the changing of seasons.

We’ve noticed that you have created some amazing cover art for TGCF. Is there another series you would like to do something similar with? 

That was another passion project that took some time to complete. Initially, I didn’t intend for them to be specifically covers, it was just a series of illustrations based on the 5 books/main arcs of TGCF. But since they were well-received and I had people telling me they wish they could use them as covers for their books, I decided to rework them into dust jackets for the english translation of TGCF!

I haven’t thought of any other specific series but I love doing cover art so maybe I’ll do something similar again in the future!

What’s your favorite part of your style? Why?

I’ve heard from other people that there’s a delicate quality to my art, this is something that I like a lot! I like pretty things, fairytales and vibrant colors. I think all of these things probably reflect in the art I make as well.

If there is one thing you want your audience to remember about your work, what would it be?

I hope that they remember how it made them feel. Feelings and colors are the two things I give priority to in my work. Most of the time I like depicting tenderness, softness and emotional intimacy. If that could reach the viewer and stay with them it would make me very happy. 

I make a lot of art with queer (mainly sapphic) themes because they’re the kind of stories I personally like and want to see more of, so whenever people tell me that my art has helped them in their journey to discover and accept themselves, or that they see themselves and their partner in my art, it is always extremely meaningful to me. When art that I made to give myself comfort can provide comfort for others, no matter how small, it reminds me once again that despite any hardships art is genuinely worth pursuing.

Who on Tumblr inspires you and why?

So many artists! To name a few:  I love @sakizo’s amazing eye for fashion and detail,  @paneeps’ gorgeous style and striking colors,  the sweetness of @bevsi’s art,  @vickisigh’s pretty colors and concepts,  @idledee’s warm and heartfelt art,  @littlestpersimmon’s dreamy wonderful art,  and @loish has been an inspiration for as long as I can remember.

Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing, Michelle! Be sure to check out their Tumblr blog over at @mimimar.

[jgoddesstarot]

Shared Interests - What Hobbies or Activities Will You & Your Future Spouse Enjoy Doing Together

Left-to-Right: Pile 1, Pile 2, Pile 3

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🔮How this works: Close your eyes and take deep breaths, pick the pile you are most drawn to. If you aren’t drawn to any pile then that’s okay, these messages aren’t for you at this time.

🔮Disclaimer: This reading is for entertainment purposes only. Tarot readings are based upon my intuitive interpretation of the cards and about possibilities based on your current energy. Energy is forever changing and nothing is set in stone. Always remember, you have your own free will to make whatever decision you feel is best.

Pile 1

Tarot Cards: Queen of Cups, High Priestess, 6 of Cups, Ace of Pentacles, The Hanged Man

Hey there, my Pile 1's! Let's have some fun and guess what hobbies and activities you and your future partner might bond over. Think of these as the special ingredients that will spice up your love life.

Firstly, let's dive into the world of emotions and intuition. You both might love exploring mysteries and having deep chats. Perhaps you'll find happiness in spiritual stuff or maybe something artsy. These shared passions will be like your GPS, guiding you through life's ups and downs.

Next, picture yourselves reminiscing old times and making new memories. You'll enjoy simple things that bring joy and evoke childhood memories. It could be playing board games, strolling down memory lane, or starting a collection of old-school items. These will be the special moments that make your life together extra sweet.

Now, let's talk about building a strong future. You both will be practical and focus on financial security. You might love planning your dream house, working on DIY projects, or exploring nature. These activities will be like the bricks and mortar, building a solid base for your love.

Finally, imagine taking some quiet time for self-reflection. You'll both enjoy time to think and grow. This could be trying out meditation, yoga, or volunteering for a good cause. These contemplative moments will be like a refreshing break from your hectic lives.

To wrap it up, my Pile 1's, your shared hobbies will be the threads writing your love story. They'll range from the mysterious to the nostalgic, the practical to the reflective. Together, you'll build a life filled with deep connections and thrilling adventures. These shared interests are the special bond that will make your journey together stand out and memorable.

Pile 2

Tarot Cards: 2 of Cups, Ace of Wands, King of Cups, 4 of Pentacles, 5 of Wands

Hi there, my Pile 2's, let's chat about the hobbies you and your future spouse will love doing together. These shared interests will be the magic that keeps your bond strong. First, imagine a deep emotional and between you both. It's like you both understand each other's emotions perfectly. In terms of hobbies, this means you'll find joy in activities that bring you both closer emotionally. Think sweet dinner dates, heart-to-heart talks, or just enjoying quiet moments together. These will be the special moments that keep your relationship strong.

Next, picture a burst of creativity in your life. This creative spark will lead you to fun adventures and new hobbies. Your future spouse will bring new exciting energy into your life, and you'll both love trying new things together. It could be exploring the outdoors, starting a new art project, or just having fun trying something new. Your shared adventures will be full of passion and excitement.

Then, the King of Cups suggests that you both are empathetic and emotionally mature. You'll both love activities that help others or make a positive impact. It could be volunteering together, doing charity work, or even caring for animals. Your shared compassion will make your relationship even stronger.

Now, think of moments of peace and comfort. These will be the stable moments in your relationship. It's not all about excitement all the time; you'll also appreciate quieter moments together. You might love spending cozy nights at home, gardening, or cooking delicious meals together. These simple moments will be your safe haven, giving you a sense of security.

Finally, a bit of healthy competition comes into play. This suggests you'll love activities that involve a bit of friendly rivalry. It could be playing sports, board games, or even challenging each other intellectually. It might get competitive, but it's all just for fun and to keep the relationship exciting.

In the end, your shared interests will be the threads that write your love story. They include emotional connections, adventures, compassion, stability, and a bit of playful competition. Embrace these interests as the things that will bring you closer, create lasting memories, and make your journey together even more exciting. Your relationship promises a beautiful mix of intimacy, adventure, empathy, comfort, and fun. These shared interests are the glue that will keep your bond strong and your love story captivating.

Pile 3

Tarot Cards: Ace of Swords, 6 of Pentacles, 10 of Cups, 8 of Wands, Tower

Hey, friends of Pile 3, let's chat about the cool stuff you and your future partner will love doing together. Think of these shared hobbies as the secret sauce that'll make your bond even stronger.

First off, let's talk about brainy activities. You know, like solving puzzles, having deep conversations, or picking up new skills together. This kind of mental gymnastics will keep your relationship interesting and keep you both on your toes.

Next, let's think about the feel-good factor of giving back. You both might love lending a hand in your neighborhood or championing causes close to your heart. It's a solid way to build a relationship based on kindness and mutual values.

Now, let's imagine a life filled with laughter and love. Your shared hobbies will focus on building a warm family and spending quality time with friends. Picture laid-back family nights, hosting fun parties, and celebrating your love. These are the moments that'll make your journey together really special.

Then, picture a life full of energy and thrill. You guys will love new experiences, traveling to new places, and making spontaneous decisions together. It's all about keeping the spark alive and keeping things exciting.

Finally, let's remember that change is part of life. Your hobbies will change as your relationship grows, and that's a good thing. Welcome new experiences and don't shy away from surprises. Changes can lead to growth and fresh starts in your shared activities.

In a nutshell, your future together is all about shared hobbies that keep your minds active, foster kindness, create joy, fuel adventure, and welcome change. Embrace these interests as opportunities to grow, have fun, and deepen your bond. Your journey together is promising - it's full of happiness, kindness, excitement, adaptability, and transformation. Shared hobbies are the keys to a fulfilling life full of love and adventure, and they'll shape your beautiful story together.

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What does it mean when we repetitively attract into our life a certain Moon sign? 🌙 🌗🌘

Credit goes to my blog @astroismypassion

The lovely and kind @bthechangeuwant2cintheworld asked me about if I could do a post on when we attract certain moon signs and what does it mean? Let's dive deep into the topic.

So what does it mean FOR YOU when you attract the following Moon sign in your life?

ARIES MOON

You are likely not courageous enough, need to learn how to be more bold, stand out from the crowd. You might also be a bit too selfish or self-focused. You need to work out more and steam off your feelings through work outs, physical activity and chores or cleaning, being more active and present in your home. Also, you might likely not do enough. You might be just working on one single particular thing, such as just your studies, your job, but completely neglect other fields, aspects of your life. Could have a hard time juggling many things at once or struggle with multitasking.

TAURUS MOON

You might be too passive, lazy or indulgent in your habits or even on a daily basis or in your own home. You might be a bit too love obsessed, wanting a partnership at any cost or even pressuring someone to like you back or enter a partnership with you. You might idealize the idea of a partner, being a part of the team. You might need to transform your values or understand what those are. You likely lack self-love and need more self-care too. You are either too materialistic or not enough. Also, maybe dress up more often.

GEMINI MOON

You are likely not social enough, you spend too much time on your own alone or you are too much in your head, but not grounded enough. Could have difficulties with control, like trying to control your surroundings, immediate family members, close friends, even people you talk to online/social media/instant messaging. You might be too anxious or nervous when talking. You might either need to take a social media break or talk to people online more.

CANCER MOON

Check in with how you treat your mother. Do more chores in your home, help out with laundry, doing dishes, organize your home more, clean it more often. Learn how to cook, bake more. You are likely bottling up your emotions or suppressing your innermost feelings, even needs. Learn what your needs are, especially what you require from your loved ones, family members, your partner. Vent, cry out your tears, embrace the flow of the good and the bad sides of emotion. Try to provide for your family more.

LEO MOON

You might too dramatic or not dramatic enough and too nonchalant. You might need to share more of your emotions. You might be self-centered emotionally, so selfish with your feelings. But at the same time, you might make too rash decisions or jump to conclusions in the early stages of dating. You need to become more jovial, happy and bright. You need to focus more on hanging with your close friends since you are likely neglecting them a bit or spending too much time on your own. You need to figure out more on what your hobbies are and if you can pick a new one as well. You might need to welcome more romance in your life, maybe by accepting an invitation to go out on a date, listening to romantic songs, watching romantic movies.

VIRGO MOON

You might need to take better care of your personal hygene, live more in the present moment and establish better daily routine and habits. You need to be more present and focused during conversation. You need to go out more and do your own grocery shopping, run errands and focus more on paying your phone, electricity bill etc. You need to declutter your home and organize your space. Try to find time for little self-care rituals in the day.

LIBRA MOON

If you end up attracting a Libra Moon again and again you are likely taking care of too many other people and not enough taking care of yourself. You need to learn how to share but with boundaries. You learn how to balance giving and taking. You need to learn how to accept help and how to delegate tasks off your shoulder more. You also need to socialize more, meaning that learn how to be okay with chit chat and even more superficial conversations, they still teach you how to connect and relate to those around you more.

SCORPIO MOON

Scorpio Moon is tricky, because it's one of those either or type of Moons, it can go either way. So you might have an escapistic issue, I'm not saying downright addictive behaviours, but you might overuse something. Such as you feel a bit too lonely and use food as a buffer or coffee, alcohol, sweets, sugar etc. You might not have only one cup of coffee, but 2, 3 too many per day. I'm not saying this is your case in particular, I'm trying to illustrate the case. You might also be too materialistic or not enough. Like too power hungry, money driven or not enough. You could have certain subconscious thoughts, triggers that you don't want to address. You might jump to final conclusions too quickly, without knowing the full story or context or information. You might need to let go of certain old habits, coping mechanisms that don't serve you anymore or sometimes this means even people, old friends or partners. You might not live fully authentic in your present life. You might also be scared of being truly raw, vulnerable and you could have a fear of being exposed, exposed as in having any trait that you don't like to admit you have or don't want many other people to know. Or you can also act a bit too fanatic in your behaviour, again it can go either or, you might perhaps need your jealousy, envy, possessivness in check.

SAGITTARIUS MOON

You are too uptight, need to let loose. Attend a party or two with your group of trusted friends, go to that club and dance, even if you don't completely like the idea of it initially. Also, you might be too hedonistic in one department of your life. Either you indulge in too many desserts after a meal, eat too much in one setting. Stop saying yes to everything and everyone just so you please others and that they stay happy. You need to get more organized, buy a planner, plan your days more and prioritize, you might be all over the place. Again, certain eating habits might represent a bit of a problem for you. Try expanding your mindset about food, by trying out alternative regimes, introducing more whole foods, leafy greens and such. Don't be a picky eater, give certain foreign foods/those you are not used to at least a one time try.

CAPRICORN MOON

Now, this is one of those major, life changing, big life decision ones. If you attract Capricorn Moon in your life again and again, you need to make a turning point in your life. You need to make a big life change. Likely, your job, career is not where it should be at this point. Or it's not fulfilling you and a change is to be made. Either going back to school, finding another job, career field etc. You need to revisit this part of your life: your career, long-term goals, aspirations, social status, reputation and your relationship with parents. The last one might be big as well, ask yourself if this is the best way to treat your parents? Likely, you could do a bit better. Also, you are likely spending too much time at home or isolating yourself.

AQUARIUS MOON

You are afraid to embrace your own unique self and being original, mostly out of fear of not being accepted or judged. You might also need to dream more, set your dreams big and start going after them. You might also replicate other people's ideas, try coming up with original thought and your own creative ideas more, even if they are weird, unique, eccentric or odd at a first glance or even if you feel uncomfortable expressing them. Go out more and socialize more.

PISCES MOON

You are too giving, humanitarian, charitable, selfless or not enough. You might take care or help out every close friend, acquintances or stranger, but NOT your own family members, loved ones or your partner. So try to put that in check. You might be undereating or eat foods that don't nourish your body. Again, substance overuse can be present in subtle ways, such as drinking too much coffee in the day.

Credit goes to my blog @astroismypassion

[lavishlyleo]

Chiron in The Houses : And How it Affects The Opposite House

I've noticed that when it comes to the astroid Chiron, there are similarities to problems from the house it's initially in and the house it's opposite from it. Like, many problems Chiron brings to a house can stem from the opposite house's properties and characteristics.

Chiron in The 1st House

Chiron 1st natives could feel like people predominantly judge them from the people they associate with. ( 7th house rules partners, associates, and other people connecting to us ) Like they don't have their own identity and live in the shadow of those around them. These people may rely on their partner/others to shape their identity. And they probably don't feel like their own person, and just an extension of others. These natives probably hate when people point out similarities between them and other people, which will add to their belief that they feel like an extension of others. Some might do absurd or outrageous things to stand out and be different from other people.

Chiron in The 2nd House

Chiron 2nd house natives might always have to worry about themselves or other people ( 8th house rules other peoples possesions ) losing and/or breaking their possesions. People may prefer to use the natives stuff instead of their own. At the same time people may not like sharing their valubles or stuff with the native. Or people may flaunt their possessions to the latter. These natives might feel like they always have to compare what they have to what others have, leaving them never feeling satisfied with what they have. And they may feel like their worth is dependent on other people and what they have.

Chiron in The 3rd House

Chiron 3rd house natives will always look for the deeper meaning in whatever people say to them. And always try to pick apart what people say. It can be exhausting talking to some of them as it may feel like they're trying to force their opinions and beliefs ( 9th house rules opinions, beliefs, philosophy and higher meanings ) onto someone when communicating. This native's childhood however could indicate that this happened a lot to them, with siblings, classmates, and people close to them shoving opinions and beliefs on them when they were young. So this is where they likely got it from.

Chiron in The 4th House

Chiron 4th house natives may feel like they won't amount to anything in life, that their family hasn't already achieved. They might feel like they live in their family's shadow. Could have a very popular, famous, and/or important family member, to where the native lives in their shadow, and the public always associates this native with someone from their family ( 10th house rules reputation, what you're known for, and how the public views you )  Might have been the lesser child and not held in as high hopes as their other siblings by the other family members. And family members could pressure these natives by reminding them of their family's feats.

Chiron in The 5th House

Chiron 5th house natives might seek out groups of people with the same interest, feeling most emotionally satisfied when they find their "flock" ( 11th house rules the groups we hang with, our hopes and dreams for society/our impact on it, and our societal views ) However they could feel like society makes fun of or doesn't accept this native's hobbies and what they do for pleasure because it isn't the "norm". Many people might shame this native for the things they enjoy and make them feel guilty, making them think about how their hobbies and things they enjoy affect society and the people around them.

Chiron in The 6th House

Chiron 6th natives probably feel like they're trapped in their day to day lives. Like life doesn't get more interesting or won't be any greater than what they have. These people likely hard workers, sticking to their vigorous routine, in the hopes that the universe or some higher being will bless them with good karma ( 12th house rules higher powers, the unconscious, dreams, isolation, and karma ). And these natives may actually not know what they want in life or in themselves, except that they don't want to be nothing. Which can lead them down a path of monotony and not doing anything great or dreaming big. Can feel like they can't fantasize or dream big because they have to focus on the now and everyday life tasks.

Chiron in The 7th House

Chiron 7th natives probably surround themselves with people like them; They are the company they keep. ( 1st house rules identity, the self, and how people perceive you ) However when other people come for the native's partner, spouse or associates they're likely get very defensive, as people who come at them can feel like a direct attack at the native. And when in a relationship, they can be hypocritics because they probably share some attributes with their partners that they have ill feelings towards, because as before, these natives surround themselves with people like them, which can make them narrow minded.

Chiron in The 8th House

Chiron 8th natives can feel be abrasive with other peoples values and stuff ( 2nd house rules one's values and possessions ). They might see other peoples possessions or values as their own. And might share the same sentiment that their stuff is for others, or not. But these natives might feel like people overstep their boundaries a lot and might even do this themselves to others. But this can make some natives very possessive of what they own and build up walls to prevent people overstepping their boundaries. Making the natives do a lot of stuff themselves for them self instead of with others for this reason. May hold a lot of taboo values, but keeps this to themselves.

Chiron in The 9th House

Chiron 9th natives may feel all their values come heavily from siblings, classmates, and peers from their childhood ( 3rd house rules childhood, siblings, and communication ), and that it molded many of their present day beliefs, good and negative. Unlike Chiron 3rd house natives, they may not like to or might be scared to communicate their beliefs. These natives may feel like, despite their journey through life and discovering things about the world and themselves, that it's ultimately their past that represents who they are, which might not be good if they were bullied a lot in their childhood. So they might hold some sentiment to things said to them during childhood and the native's view on themselves could be very low, and they could still hold resentment for some people from thier younger years, this is another that placement can indicate being narrow minded.

Chiron in The 10th House

Chiron 10th natives will always have to worry about something and/or someone damaging the publics view on them and their overall reputation. Likely home issues or things from childhood ( 4th house rules home, roots, and foundations ) resurfacing and altering the public's view on them. And/Or they're trying to bury and run away from their roots to appeal to the public. These natives don't want to be defined by their childhood or family roots. Some may even leave behind and/or betray their family for greater things in life like reputation and fame. However this is probably because they will have envious relatives who seek to destroy what name this native made for themselves out of jealousy and/or old family drama resurfacing.

Chiron in The 11th House

Chiron 11th natives probably feel like they can't enjoy their hobbies or anything they like without thinking about how it affects others, and it's impact on society ( 5th house rules pleasure, hobbies, and indulgence ). They probably don't want to or don't like indulging themselves too much, feeling like there are greater things to worry about more than their own pleasures. Or some might have big dreams and visions for changing their society/community, but are too caught up in their own pleasures and indulgence to actually act on them. However some natives could get treated poorly by their group, peers, or overall community, causing them to not care about bettering society or helping people. And in the end, make them only seek out their own pleasure and well being, because if society doesn't care about the native's needs, why should they care about societys'?

Chiron in The 12th House

Chiron 12th natives have very cloudy and active minds. They're big dreamers and probably mostly live life in the clouds of their mind. These natives can feel trapped by the claws of everyday, boring life ( 6th house rules everyday life, routine, and service ). They could have many dreams and goals but probably won't act on many of them, because the fantasy in their heads is good enough for them instead of the real thing. These natives may not get the tasks they need to do everyday done, and probably procrastinate A LOT. They may feel isolated and/or not mentally present at their workplace, and would rather daydream and keep to themselves than interact with peers. These are the people that could fall off the face of the earth and not many people would notice, because they're so private and keep to themselves.

What are yalls thoughts? Did any of this resonate with you? If not, check your Chiron sign and use it's sign's ruling house. ( Ex. if you have Chiron in Aquarius, read Chiron in the 11th house )

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[lullinglily]

Sorcerer Rogier X GN! Reader SFW Alphabet

A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)

He dotes on you incessantly. He’s always touching you in some way, whether it be playing with your hair or holding onto your arm or laying across your lap while he pretends to be interested in whatever it is he’s reading. He’s a smooth talker with a silver tongue that he puts to good use; rendering you weak with just a few words. Rogier leans in close when talking to you or helping you with something, he’s acutely aware of the effect he has on his beloved and quite enjoys seeing you so flustered. Likes to lift your hand in his and gently kiss it, his lips roaming up your arm until he switches to your neck, where he will of course continue his upwards pursuit. 

B = Best friend (What would they be like as a best friend? How would the friendship start?)

He’d be a spectacular best friend. Rogier is a reliable, supportive, knowledgable and overall friendly guy! He’s great to hang out with. As for how it starts, maybe you need some help studying for something. Maybe you don’t understand the new scroll you picked up or you just can’t wrap your head around some obscure part of Lands Between history — Sorcerer Rogier to the rescue! He’d be more than happy to explain to you just about anything. Alternatively, I think a friendship could also stem from your shared interests in the Night of Black Knives, the dogmatism of the Golden Order, or just plain old Roundtable gossip. Swapping stories and getting in-depth details on petty rumors are his guilty pleasures. 

C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle?)

Most certainly. Keeps at least one arm around you as he drifts off. He might shift around in his sleep but he still somehow keeps contact with you throughout the entire night. A drunken Rogier is twice as clingy. He’ll pass out on top of you, by your side with his face in your hair and half of his body covering you or with his head resting on your lower stomach. 

D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?)

Rogier isn’t sold on completely settling down, he’s much more interested in the partnership that spawns from a marriage than staying in one place and taking up a less dangerous hobby. He wants to be able to go on daring adventures and the like, and he’d love to have you with him! It’s just that he has some dreams he still wishes to realize. He’s set on marrying you, make no mistake. He’s pretty good at cooking, although he doesn’t do it much so he’s a little out of practice. It could be worse. He’s a fan of whipping up something quick to surprise you with; especially if he knows you’ve had a rough day. Likes it when you feed him and enjoys doing the same to you, he thinks it’s cute. 

E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)

He's extremely respectful, keeps it lighthearted, promises to keep contact and actually does. 

F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quick would they want to get married?)

If you both love each other and are content in your relationship, he’ll pop the question. Easy as that. He knows what he wants and is quite confident in his proposal. A healthy Rogier would wait around a standard time to propose, most likely a year and a half. However, towards the end of his life, he’d ask fairly quick (given that you are both comfortable in your relationship and it wouldn’t be random etc etc). He won’t be as slick or sure when proposing, instead he’s jittery and constantly stumbling over his words. He knows he’s dying soon, he knows it’ll be more than a little selfish to ask you to marry him when all has been said and done, but he needs to know if you’d be content being his. He wants to be your husband, if only for a little while. 

G = Gentle (How gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)

Rogier is a very gentle lover. Physically his touches are always soft, kind and playful. He adores you and treats you with the upmost care. He’s just as tender emotionally, maybe even more so. You’ll come to him crying and he’s immediately swooping you into an embrace, tutting at you and kissing away any tears. 

H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?)

Of course! Any affection from his partner is much appreciated. He reciprocates it warmly but not without a few teasing words (“What’s this? Did my sweetness miss me?” “Such a clingy thing you are, my love”). He hugs you often. Every morning before parting ways, every evening when you are reunited with each other once again and anytime in between. He adores it. While he’s no stranger to kind words or friendship, he hasn’t known closeness like this before. The love you show him is truly unique. 

I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-word?)

It may take a while, at most 4-5 months. Until then he’s using “I like you” or “I’m fond of you.” Nothing too serious but shows that he cares. He’s such a charmer, constantly showering you with cloying compliments aplenty. When he does finally say those three troublesome words it’s like they mean nothing at all, yet they carry upon them the weight of his entire heart. He says them so calmly, so casually, it takes you by surprise. It was late, you were lying on his lap reaching up at and fumbling with the jewel that hung from his hat; admiring the way it’s dazzling light shone across his cheek. Your hand changes its course, choosing instead to run a finger over his cat-like smile. Its then that he captures your wrist in his hold, placing your palm on his cheek as he rubs the back of it with his thumb; tracing circles on your skin and looking at you with all the love in the world. He's lovesick and just can't seem to help himself around you, so when he next opens his mouth the cat's out of the bag. He's shocked when he realizes what he's said, but comes to accept the words just as soon as he'd uttered them. Yes, he loves you.

J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they’re jealous?)

Feels more smug than anything when someone stares at you for too long; Rogier knows how lucky he is to be yours. He enjoys sweeping in and placing a hand on your hip just to add salt to your admirer’s wounds. If things get too serious or he senses any discomfort from you he’ll step in and thoroughly tell them off, maybe even make a show of it and obscure you from their view. 

K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)

Bewitching. It’s impossible to keep track of how many times he’ll kiss your cheek in a day, it’s his way of saying “hello” or “thank you” or “how are you?” or … Well, it can mean a lot of different things. The point is he does it so so very often. He likes to kiss you anywhere, he loves you and that includes your entire body. If he had to pick his favorite spots to kiss you though they’d have to be your hands, cheek and neck. Forehead kisses are used as parting gifts and are also often used when comforting you. Likes kissing the inside of your wrist as well, it’s like his usual hand kisses but more mesmerizing. He’ll do these just to see you squirm. 

L = Little ones (How are they around children?)

Acts like his usual self but a bit softer. He loves children, thinks they're a special blessing to the ever-dreary Lands Between. Although he never wanted to be a father himself, seeing the world he inhabits to be too cruel to bring a child into, he does find his thoughts drifting towards the prospect when he's with you.

M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)

It’s truly a wonder how Rogier is able to act so charming despite only getting 3-4 hours of sleep a night. He gives you a chaste kiss on the forehead once he awakes, humming a tender ‘good morning’ to you in that chipper voice of his. If you’re not much of an early bird and slow to rise, he’ll get a bit playful with his methods to rouse you. Such methods include blowing raspberries into your neck/chest or bridal carrying you out of your shared bed himself. 

N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)

Nights with Rogier are relaxing, healing and blissful. He likes to take the night slow and puts in a ton of effort to make you comfortable. The night begins with a fragrant herb-strewn bath that you both take together, washing each other off before fixing each other’s hair and so on. Rogier learns your favorite flavor of tea early on and perfects the recipe, handing it to you at just the right temperature before settling into bed. These times will either be spent basking in each other’s presence or rambling about your interests/days. Rogier enjoys the latter, opting to snake an arm around your shoulders while his other hand plays with your hair. You will always be the first to fall asleep no matter what. Rogier stays up late studying, reading, learning etc etc … he’s a capital ’S’ scholar and tends to get a bit lost in his work. He’ll often get up and move to a nearby desk if he feels he’s disturbing your slumber. It feels like coming home when he finally gives in to exhaustion, dragging himself to bed and slotting his drowsy form against your side. 

O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while to reveal things slowly?) 

Oh dear. He’s a pretty open guy, just not with emotions. He tends to steer conversations far, far way from his inner turmoils. He won’t have any issue with you unloading all of your emotional baggage onto him —  he takes pride in knowing you talk to him about your own problems — it’s just that he never wants to go over his. 

P = Patience (How easily angered are they?)

 He’s a pretty lax guy. He doesn’t take what others say about him too seriously. He doesn’t tolerate any disrespect thrown on your name, however. 

Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)

Rogier has you down to a science. He’s chatty, loves to learn, and you just happen to be one of his favorite topics of discussion. He remembers every important date, how long the both of you have been together, what sort of present you’d like for your anniversary etc etc … He acts very smug about it too. Knows just what to say or do to elicit his desired response. 

R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)

Your first date! Oh to be searching for Deathroot with your crush clinging onto your arm because they're scared to death of the catacombs. How romantic. He lets no harm come to you whatsoever. He's a talented sorcerer, after all. He's also a perfect idiot; letting his ambitions spoil what was supposed to be a romantic and peaceful day for you both. While neither of you run into much trouble, he does sense that he messed up by putting his interests above your own and profusely apologizes. You have him pay you back by taking you on what you call a "real date," as if those imps weren't real enough. He obliges, of course, and goes well beyond anything you were expecting. Because of his excellent commitment to putting together the best date you've ever been on, you allow him to take you out adventuring again; so long as he gives you a heads up beforehand.

S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you?)

A normal amount. You’re both living in the treacherous Lands Between, there’s plenty of reasons for him to be protective of you. He has your hand in his when you go out, leading the way so that he’ll hopefully be the first to weather any hardship. He’s very much against the prospect of you leaving the Roundtable on your own. If he can’t accompany you he’ll charm some other capable Tarnished into doing so. Gives them a whole talk about it too. Ensures that whoever it is looking after you gives you proper space, but should you return with even a hair on your head harmed they will not be getting paid.

T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)

Rogier puts an absurd amount of effort into dates. He once collected and took care of a myriad of glintstone fireflies just to release them on a date for some ambient lighting. He likes spiffing up an area before taking you there, often covering your eyes with his hands as he leads you to it. He’s always showing off when it comes to daily tasks. He does them well, just adds that extra bit of flourish to boring everyday chores to see you smile — to hear you praise him. 

U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)

Has a difficult time conveying his more negative emotions. He’s pretty guarded in that regard, usually because he’s ignoring his own problems or isn’t sure how to address them. Gets easily absorbed by his work, can be a little impish at times and not take things as seriously as they should be. 

V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?)

Not very, but he does want to look nice for you. He washes up well and combs his hair every day and whatnot. 

W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)

It depends on how serious the relationship becomes, but generally yes. It’s rare for Rogier to let his guard down completely around someone, and he’s become quite used to your affection. He’d be rather pitiful without it.

X = Xtra (A random headcanon for them.)

He’s playful and a huge tease. Loves to hold items out of your reach, exchanging them for a sweet peck on the cheek. Like to read books aloud to you in a theatrical manner, acting out scenes and changing the cadence of his voice to fit the scenario. He lives for your smile and will do everything in his power to see you beam up at him each and every day. 

Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)

Closed mindedness, arrogance, etc … 

Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habits of theirs?)

Sprawls out, always has a leg or arm hooked over you. 

[letters-of-libertas]

I'm bi and yeah your note on women not having solidarity seems sadly true. Apart from not dating men would there be anything you would suggest to improve ones life apart from stating away from those women if possible?

I love this question because this is how to start thinking: being practical.

What it takes to "improve ones life" is subjective so with that said firstly define what a better life(style) for yourself away from moids would look like. Temporarily mentally remove xy terrorist existence. What would your habits/routine be? What would you work towards & pour your energy into? What would you want to be? What would you center your life around? Take your time with these questions or anymore that come up. Have a general idea then be more specific and start breaking your life down into sectors/sections/areas, then look at where you want to be in those areas and work towards it.

For example; I divide my life into 6-7 aspects:

Physical Strength - Not just about muscle but knowing how to fight, where to hit and when to fight. Being stronger makes it easier to defend yourself in altercations (especially with other women). Some mfs will try you & you cant always rely on others coming to your rescue. Also work on building stamina to help endurance, and keeping as healthy as possible.

Emotional Strength - If you cant control your emotions they will control you. In a world of chaos being emotionally strong will let you cut through the noise and focus on what truly matters. Building emotional strength is not easy but it's worth it. Being able to rise above immediate reactions and pace yourself will allow you to assess situations more rationally & make more beneficial choices.

Finances - Get your bag up. Having money to gain resources is imperative to quality of life. I dont care what anyone says having a certain amount of money in life WILL make you happier as you're able to meet your needs better. Having more money/resources also makes it easier to support other women should you choose to do so, it also allows you to be more influential and have more control over your life. However, dont become a slave to getting money tho because that's how you get scammed.

Network - The type of people you hang around can make or break who you are as a person. Aim to connect with likeminded women who will encourage & inspire you as you go on this journey. Hang around people that value & will be honest with you while giving you grace. Not all women you engage with have to be single & childfree but beware the moid crazy ones because they will bring danger to you in their quest for maIe validation. Life isn't perfect but you cant go wrong having the right people around you, valuable relationships are hard to find but it goes a long way even if it's just online. However, no company > bad company.

Spirituality/Guide - Having something bigger than yourself to guide you through the chaos in this world can offer guidance/purpose that keeps you grounded & focused. For many people generally this is religion/god. Not everyone needs or ascribes to religion/spirituality though, but at least consider sets of morals/beliefs to follow. However even that isn't for everyone. So if you feel better off without spirituality or a 'higher' guide at least be clear on it & your reasons why (for yourself).

Hobbies & Interests - As turbulent as the world is, find things to enjoy amidst the chaos. Constant work, doom, and gloom will not change anything you will only hurt yourself. Take time to indulge in things that make you happy to recharge & relax. Engage in hobbies that serve you, share your passion with other women & hear theirs out too. It goes a long way in terms of mental health.

Security - It takes privilege to decide to not get married or have children as a woman & live it out. Everyone's situation is different so what I'll generally suggest is to constantly look into how you can protect yourself, have backup methods, and stay in the loop of xy predation. Dont drown in it but moids are predators & being completely blind to them is being blind to danger. Elaborated on point 10 here.

Sounds like a lot? Great, it'll keep you busy because this isn't a vacation or destination but a lifestyle. And to be honest, some of y'all can do with the busyness as it'll let you focus on what actually matters. This not to say to overwhelm yourself in things for the sake of it but to prioritise your energy on effective things for your life. As you focus on building you'll find that you have less energy to care about insignificant stuff or stuff out of your control anyways. For example, Instead of getting wound up about user somerandomadjectivefem stirring discourse calling you an extremist or whining about how impossible it is for her & other women to live without romantic love n' whatnot (or even women irl pulling this crap), you either ignore or quickly shut down the conversation & swiftly move on.

Everything I've mentioned are just examples, you may feel differently do whatever you feel best applies. Also remember to enjoy the process along the way as you are living through it afterall :3

Long story short: Work on building resources & other aspects of your life up for yourself.

[astrxlfinale]

☢ Give us all the salt Jace

☢ What fads/trends are you so over?

Now this is moreso just a personal gripe of mine. (All of these are. lol.) Its not really a fad/trend however. One thing I've really become tired of 'OOC contacts/'friends' first/Writing partners second.'

At the end of the day, I'll be and have been explicit in the fact I've come here to write. To take a hobby I enjoy and actively share that medium with others. It's decompressing to me as it's an outlet for my creativity, which is honestly, not much different than someone talking about how their day went. I'll be upfront in how I come to approach things.

I don't step onto this website or follow you with the initial idea of becoming friends. I just think you write nice as hell and I want in on that. Too many times however in this pursuit, I've been dragged into situations where I want to get the ball rolling, but the 'trust' requirement is becoming someone they regularly 'talk' to.

I say talk but it's moreso a vent outlet about xyz thing. We don't know each other like that, and frankly, I could give less of a damn in doing so if your actual life can't be appropriately sectioned off with someone you recently met.

Can this change over time? Absolutely! I've met plenty of long time pals in this medium, but the process is going from said hobby to a genuine friendship.

There's no term or responsibility ever here that I have to hop on and take care of you emotionally or uplift you. (I've seen my venting/trauma dumps en masse.), or quite frankly even have to see any of that to begin with. Don't let this be confused with what you post on the dash however. At the end of the day, if I follow you with this knowledge that its a thing, I accepted it. We're fine. ONLY on that however and not within the dms.

So to have writing time held as this 'prize' to seek only if I put in the work to know you is severely off putting. I can contently go and keep the hobby point professional, where we just write/hang on here then go on and off about our days elsewhere. There's a synergy even in that element that can be brought to fun potential! If we come to a point of hanging out, that's just a fine bonus, just keep in mind we're all here to just have a lil fun at the end of the day.

It'll be really easy to see the signs with me if you can indulge in more.

[obsoleteozymandias]

TWST Matchup for @archive-of-the-lost !

Hi Aurora!!! Here is my half of the matchup exchange!!! I’m sorry it came a bit late, but I hope you like it, and I’m eagerly awaiting what you have to write!!! <3

== Twisted Wonderland ==>

I match you up with…

Malleus Draconia

Pre-relationship:

I see you and Malleus very much as people who see beyond the other person’s façade, and who see who the other truly is. 

You’re not intimidated by him at first, primarily because you’ve got better things to do. You’re almost always at Azul and Riddle’s throats when it comes to grades, so you’re too focused to pay him all that mind at all. 

Now, it would be a different story if you were a member of the dorm, but I always operate under the assumption that you are taking the place of, well, Yuu. 

Either way, he isn’t exactly at the forefront of your mind. 

He, however, takes a distinct interest in you. He likes how expressive you are, and how you also manage to read people like open books. He finds himself wondering if you could read him, and that’s when he starts to hang around, looking out for you. 

It’s not a fast friendship per se, but you two do quickly establish mutual respect and admiration. Him, for your intelligence (both book wise and emotionally) and passion for your hobbies, and you for his confidence and unique quirks. 

Your encounters start as study sessions, however boredom quickly gets the better of you and you find yourself explaining your love of poetry to Malleus, who enthusiaticlaly listens and shares his own favorite poets, most of whom are very old fae ones, but poets nonetheless. 

Then, you two meet up to talk about books you’ve read over some snacks and drinks. He’s fascinated by your taste in books, and though he finds a few of them very grim, he’s nonetheless pleased that you share your hobbies with him, and treat him like a normal person. 

Eventually, you two become almost inseparable. Malleus is floored to have a genuine friend who can understand and read him so easily, and you’re surprised to find that you rather like his more obscure hobbies. 

I imagine he’d offer to teach you how to dance one day after you express your appreciation for those who can. It’s a mess of stepping on feet and apologies, but he can’t stop smiling at you, and you can’t stop laughing, and it’s wonderful regardless. 

Romance comes about slowly for the two of you. It blooms naturally, like a flower in the spring, and before you know it, you realize you’ve fallen in love with the fae prince. 

He likely realizes this too, but he’s inexperienced in this matter. Although he knows he is in love, he has no idea what to do about it. He asks Lilia for help, but finds his playful laugh and jokes unhelpful on how to help Malleus confess his undying love to you. 

Confession: 

I imagine that you and Malleus actually confess at the same time, like the plot of a cheesy romance movie. 

You two have agreed to go to a rather beautiful park on Sage’s Island, and when the sun begins to set, you both ask the other to be your significant other, much to the other person’s shock. 

And yet you find yourselves smiling and laughing with eachother all the same, with a few small kisses in between. 

Relationship:

You and Malleus are a power couple in all the ways that matter. Your academics? Top 10, easily. Your intimidation and auras? Scary. Your love for one another? Too powerful for the average person to handle. 

He’s a big fan of showing off for you, and you alone. When you’re on dates he’ll whip out a bow and start to play a beautiful cello solo for you, or use his magic to make anything you wish purple. He really just wants your praise, as, to him, you’re the most incredible person. 

 Any time you give him gifts, especially if it's something you made like a crochet piece of clothing, he will treat it like it’s made of glass, but keep it near him at all times. He values your skills too much to not show them off, after all.

You two have many fun dates outside, but the best ones are shared curled up together talking about your passions, sharing kisses and hugs, wrapped in eachother’s warmth.  

At the end of the day, he gives you the fairy tale romance you had only dreamed of, and you give him a happy ending he didn’t know he could have. 

==>

Your sibling is…

Ace Trappola

Let’s be honest, he’s PRIME sibling material. 

You grew up with a lot of siblings, and you no doubt had one like Ace: overconfident and rude, troublesome and yet loveable when they wanted to be. 

I imagine he could be either older or younger than you, either way he’s still a spoiled brat who spends all day bothering you and asking you to play with him. 

(Secretly, he thinks you’re the coolest, and wants your attention even for a second.)

Your parents make you help him study since you’re such a scholarly weapon, and he HATES it, mostly because he could be strong-arming you into playing basketball with him, or whining until you let him read some of your horror books. 

He does love you deeply, although he’ll never say it, he shows it through his loyalty to you and his willingness to do even the smallest things if it means he can make you happy for a second. 

Don’t worry - he’ll ask you to repay the favor and buy him ice cream later. 

[ripgray-moved]

How does Peter feel about Charlie, and generally how is there dynamic?

so this is a really complex and layered question so forgive me in advance for waffling lol!

i haven't published my updated about on the site yet as it isn't ready ( it's very extensive! ), but i'll share this little snippet from it to give a good idea:

[...] Charlie, his little sister, is born. Due to Paimon's possession, it is believed that she is born with a multitude of learning difficulties and cognitive issues, though she spends her lifetime being somewhat of a medical mystery to the specialists that Annie and her husband Steve take her to see. The end diagnosis, though somewhat irresponsible in its delivery, is moderate to heavy autism— and from then on, Peter becomes her unofficial carer.

peter feels a deep sense of obligation to charlie from a very young age on account of how busy his parents are with their respective careers. he is largely emotionally responsible for her, and learns skills such as cooking and taking care of a young child when he himself is still just a kid. i think that's part of why he seems "regressive" in some ways, in terms of his hobbies and certain traits like the whole blanket collecting thing. also responds well to his dad calling him things like 'petey' and 'buddy': because in those tiny little things, he gets treated like the kid he never got to be.

that inevitably breeds a layer of resentment between them. peter himself ( if we're looking at the time charlie was alive, not the overall timeline explored on this blog as i play pete almost exclusively post-paimon as an adult ) is a child and an older male child at that. he'd very much like to have his own separate friends, life and hobbies, but there isn't much room for that. he can't develop 'normally' because he has so much to do, and most places he goes socially he has to bring charlie along with him. even though he knows it isn't her fault, he sometimes catches himself wishing she wasn't there; not dead or anything like that, just not present where he is in that moment. he wants some damn privacy. wants to go to the fucking mcdonalds on his own, like an average teenage boy.

there's also a level of trauma-bonding between them, though only from peter's side as charlie doesn't really retain the horror of the paint thinner incident courtesy of paimon. actually, that's a quick note i'd like to make: none of this is a representation of autism by the way; the whole point of it is that she isn't autistic, she's possessed by a demon— but you can't exactly get a diagnosis for that in most places lmao. this isn't meant to come across as "charlie can't do anything because she's autistic"; it's paimon hindering her so heavily, given his poor adjustment to a host so young and unfit for him.

the above being said? by and large, peter feels a deep love for his sister, in part because he feels so responsible for her, but mostly just because he's her big brother and as broken as their family is, he steps up to the plate. he doesn't want charlie to feel as alone as he does, and even though it can be difficult to connect with her because of her possession, he still tries his best.

charlie doesn't have much of a personality because of her possession, but her affection for art, though bolstered by paimon, is very much genuine. the two have some nice memories built on peter trying— and failing— to sculpt and draw like her. they also do have some genuinely positive memories of hanging out both in the treehouse and in the woods surrounding their home, as well as a couple on family outings / holidays when they were both younger.

their dynamic is probably best described as strained, though it's for reasons that neither of them can help, as well as their frail sense of family on account of their absent— and in annie's case, abusive— parents.

[rindemption]

💜🤎🥂 for nathan/valen!

Thank you so much! From this ask game:

Valen and Nathan

💜 How do they silently show love or affection towards the other?

Both are very physically affectionate, especially with kisses. It was one of the first ways they quietly said "I love you", and will always be one of their favorite ways of expressing love and affection. They love giving each other things, from treats to clothing they found to stuff related to their hobbies. Little gifts (or not so little gifts) they think the other will like and appreciate. And they love doing things for each other, such as Nathan checking up on Valen's car and Valen checking over Nathan's weaponry. They take care of each other, both in little and big ways, and that's how they know they love each other.

🤎 How do they comfort each other?

The way both of them function emotionally, comfort tends to manifest physically. Depending on how much comfort the other needs, this can range from simply holding them, to physically caring for them. Cooking food, drawing a bath, tending to wounds. Nathan has a bad tendency to encourage Valen to rant about what's annoying him, and Valen is very good at distracting Nathan from the things bothering him.

🥂 What does a night out look like for them?

Answered vaguely here, but I'll give more detail. They do both have a lot of overlap in interests and places they frequent, but there is just enough difference between them there are places one is familiar and the other isn't. One of their favorite things to do on a night out is show these places to each other. Diners and cafes and clubs, holes in the wall, stores, places to hang out. They spend the night learning about the other, trading stories, reminiscing, seeing that side of the other they don't share. And of course, as most nights out end, they head home for some much desired intimacy.

(Valen belongs to @katsigian)

[words-after-midnight]

15 questions tag game

Character interview edition: Gabriel

Tagged by @eternalwritingstudent (I've been tagged three times recently, doing them in the order I was tagged). Thank you!!

I've already done this game for myself (it's here, if you're curious), so I'll let some of my main characters have the floor. First up: Gabriel, the protagonist of my main wip, Life in Black and White. [Note: Gabriel is very emotionally guarded, self-deprecating, and lies habitually. I will clear up any lies that may arise in author's notes.]

Tagging (to do either for yourself or an OC!): @sunset-a-story, @ceph-the-ghost-writer, @winterandwords, @catchingbigfish, @ls-daydreams, @angelsofprey, @frostedlemonwriter, @nanashi23.

1. Are you named after anyone?

No, thank god.

2. When was the last time you cried?

I don't know. I'm not really a crier. [A/N: Abject lie lol.]

3. Do you have kids?

No. Maybe someday, if I can get to a place where I'm stable enough, both personally and financially.

4. Do you use sarcasm?

Sarcasm's the PG-rated version of my middle name, according to a friend of mine.

5. What's the first thing you notice about people?

Eyes, usually.

6. What's your eye color?

Hazel.

7. Scary movies or happy endings?

Both, even though I don't think happy endings are all that realistic, to be honest. Most of the time, anyway. They're nice to imagine, though.

8. Any special talents?

I'm perceptive, I guess? I'm good at reading facial expressions. Not sure that's a talent. [A/N: It's absolutely hand-eye coordination, but he thinks he's "clumsy" because his movements usually aren't ~fluid~ or whatever. Like, he stumbles around and drops shit sometimes, but I'd put money on him beating almost anyone at darts.]

9. Where were you born?

In a hospital. (Non-smartass answer: Scranton, Pennsylvania.)

10. What are your hobbies?

I really like to read, and I play a few musical instruments, but I'm pretty out of practice on the latter since I've been out of school. Other than that, I like hanging out with my friends, playing video games, watching movies, all that good stuff. Sometimes go hunting or to the shooting range. I like going to Borders and on coffee runs with friends. I'll hike or walk around town with friends when I have the energy. Is going on random trips in the boonies blasting music in the truck a hobby? I don't know, my life's pretty boring.

11. Have you any pets?

Nah, my sister's allergic to cats and dogs, so I didn't grow up with them. I'd be down to have one at some point, but I've always worried I wouldn't be that good or consistent at taking care of it, so ideally it'd be shared with a partner or roommate or whatever.

12. What sports do you play/have played?

*cackles* Have you met me? [A/N: He thinks he's terrible at sports. I think he'd be decent at quite a few sports tbh, but he lacks confidence in his own abilities.]

13. How tall are you?

About halfway between 5'10" and 5'11". [A/N: he's barely 5'10". He just refuses to admit that he's a full inch shorter than Jeff (in part because Jeff doesn't him live that inch down).]

14. Favorite subject in school?

English and biology.

15. Dream job?

I don't really have one, to be honest. I'm good at science, so I could see myself doing something in science or in the medical field.

[eluice]

yeehaw - some personal stuff

5 Questions 15 Mutuals

Tagged by @hopelesscrawl, thanks a lot, you little munchkin. :3

1. Are you named after anyone?

My mum told me that she just wanted a fancy name for me and my brother, lol, so I doubt that.

2. When was the last time you cried?

I am not sure, since I cry A LOT (especially for no specific reason). Er ... Maybe yesterday? I hung out with two fellow students and one just told us something emotional, so I had a few tears in my eyes. Doesen't count as crying entirely but I don't want to share something as personal as that anyway.

3. Do you have kids?

No but I don't know if I want some in the future (probably not, no idea).

4. Do you use sarcasm a lot?

Mostly internally and only with a bunch of people who get my humor.

5. What sports do you play/have played?

In elementary school I participated in something akin to a dance association but other than that, I never volunteered in anything related to a specific kind of physical activity. I would like to join into a Zumba club though but only under the premise that there are no men (because I feel uncomfortable around them, no offense).

6. What's the first thing you notice about people?

Not entirely sure what I notice primarily but I think I focus mostly on the expression of a person, e.g. gestures like laughing, frowning or daydreaming.

7. What's your eye color?

My eyes are mostly green with a tad of light brown in the inner circle. (That was such a main character expression, lmao.)

8. Scary movies or happy endings?

Depends on what I am interested in at the moment but I like both. Tragedies also do have a certain appeal to me but not when I am emotionally drained during a certain period.

9. Any special talents?

I can read people very well, I suppose.

10. Where were you born?

Germany. LAND OF SAUSAGES AND PRETZELS.

11. What are your hobbies?

Drawing, writing, watching anime/TV shows, playing video games, listening to ASMR/podcasts/audiobooks, reading, hanging around cats and embracing my inner swamp witch aesthetics.

12. Do you have any pet?

A cat I named after the Japanese word for "autumn" (Aki).

13. How tall are you?

I am 165 cm (5'4 ft).

14. Favorite subject in school?

Geography, German, English, Art, Theater and Biology to a certain degree.

15. Dream job?

I just want to get paid for sleeping and eating junk, thanks.

I don't know a lot of people to tag and I am awkward, gomen. ; n ;

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hello! :D I'd like to request a matchup for genshin, honkai star rail, and demon slayer. please and thank you! 🫶

Pronouns: she/her

Sexuality: Asexual + Greyromantic

Zodiac/MBTI: Libra/INFJ

Appearance: I'm 5'1. My hair is a darkish-brown with light brown streaks, and I have a long whispy layered pixie cut. I have a triangle + mesomorphic body type. I have olive-toned skin. My eyes are brown, and I have eyebags. I have a birthmark on my right arm that's in the shape of a key. I have a beauty mark on one of my ear lobes (I also have quite a few on my arms). I wear glasses. What I hear people say a lot when complimenting my appearance, is that I look cute and very pretty. I'm also told that I have an RBF but then others say I don't, so..🤷‍♀️.

Personality: I'm just going to list a bunch of traits, so I apologize 🥲. Nice, independent, caring, articulate, calm, clever, intelligent, compassionate, deep, empathetic, friendly, gentle, humble, genuine, forgiving, hard-working, humorous, disciplined, helpful, insightful, intuitive, kind-hearted, reliable, logical, loyal, mature, observant, methodical, patient, realistic, selfless, reflective, sweet, responsible, wise, emotionally strong, accepting, supportive, complex, quiet, awkward, reserved, straightforward, sarcastic, self-concious, shy, tired, blunt, brutally-honest, gullible, procrastinator, lonely. I also struggle with things mentally, such as; anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, trauma. I'm also a perfectionist, overall very hard on myself. I'm also someone who cares very deeply for my friends and close relatives, I would do anything for them.

Likes: Going for walks, hanging out with friends, deep conversations, blankets, the night sky, sunrises and sunsets, astronomy, psychology, literature, ancient history, nature, browsing, window shopping, sweets, pasta dishes, traveling, art, exploring, cats and dogs, music, fruit (😩), coffee and tea, laughing, joking around, stormy weather, learning more about the things that interest me, to clean willingly.

Dislikes: Waffles 🤢, alcohol (for personal reasons), centipedes, anything that makes someone not redeemable (or someone that's just a terrible person overall), hot weather, people not listening or understanding what I'm saying, being watched or stared at.

Hobbies: Painting, ceramics, playing video games, reading, listening to music and occasionally podcasts.

Extra: My enneagram is 5w4. I scare the daylight out of people because of how quiet I am 💀. My main love language is quality time.

Hi Anon! Thank you for your request! I hope you like your matchups!

In Genshin Impact, I match you with...

You and Mona definitely have stargazing in common! She loves that you're interested in one of her main passions. It makes her feel more connected to you when she can share that interest.

Stargazing dates where she tells you everything she can about the stars. Whether you're interested in the legends behind the constellations, the scientific stuff behind the stars, or just learning the names of different stars, she's the person to go to.

Definitely gets where you're coming from with being an over-achiever. Mona's also a bit of a perfectionist so she knows the pressure that can put on you.

If she sees the indicators that you're starting to get overwhelmed by your commitments, Mona knows some good techniques for getting your mind off whatever's bothering you.

A really good listener and very attentive. If there's anything bothering you, she's there to lend an ear and help you work though it.

Enjoys listening to music with you. She's open to pretty much any type of music so whatever you play, she'll give a chance.

Thinks you're very clever with your ceramic skills. If you make something for her, she'll treasure it forever, putting it somewhere she'll see it every day.

In Honkai Star Rail, I match you with...

You and Gepard would get along really well! You both have similar personalities; honest and loyal, but also perfectionists.

Gepard cares deeply about people in general (he would be in the career he is otherwise) but when it's someone like you, that gets multiplied.

You could ask pretty much anything of him, and as long as it's within his power, he'll do what you ask. I see his love language as acts of service and quality time. He just wants to reassure you that his feelings are true.

Coffee buddies! This guy absolutely drinks a ton of coffee everyday to keep him going. Knows your order off by heart so whenever he's getting a coffee before meeting up with you, he'll get you one as well.

I see Gepard as someone who also dislikes alcohol mostly because of the amount of drunkards he has to deal with on a daily basis so he can certainly respect the fact that you don't like it.

Would love to have a stargazing date with you. He'll pack a picnic and find a good spot where you can see as much of the sky as possible.

Doesn't know much about the stars but he'd love to listen to you talk about it. He's a good listener so you never have to worry about losing his interest.

Will pick up books based on your interests. Whether they're on astronomy, psychology, ceramics, or food, he'll remember all of your interests and find books about them that he thinks you would enjoy reading.

In Demon Slayer, I match you with...

I think Zenitsu is you best fit because you would bring out the best in each other.

I think Zenitsu might feel a bit insecure at times about whether he's a good person. He knows how you feel about people who are irredeemable and he worries sometimes that he falls into that category because of his cowardice.

Please reassure him that you do care about him. If he hears it from you, he'll feel a bit better. The thoughts are still there but instead of making him insecure, they'll slowly push in towards improving his short fallings.

Pays really close attention to you when you're talking about your interests. He wants to be able to support you in everything you do, and the best way he thinks he can do that is by researching your interests so he can talk about them with you.

Loves watching you make ceramics and paint. He finds it relaxing, and he gets to watch you do something you enjoy. Zenitsu thinks you look the prettiest when you're concentrating on something you enjoy doing.

Another one who loves stargazing dates! Although he tends to spend most of the time staring at you instead. He doesn't mean for it to be creepy! He just thinks the moonlight accentuates your best features.

If there's anything you tell him to do to support you when you're having a bad mental health day, he's all over it! Need a hug? He's on it! Just want him to keep you company for a while? You got it! Want him to go out and get your favourite food? He's already out the door! Don't worry, he knows your order off by heart!

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What to Do After a Breakup?

Wondering what to do after a breakup? It's completely normal to feel like your world crumbled after ending a relationship. Breakups are tough, whether you saw it coming or not. You might feel a jumble of emotions – sadness, anger, maybe even a bit of relief. Don't worry, these feelings are completely normal. It's time to take a deep breath and remember: you're going to get through this! Let Yourself Feel Your Feelings Breakups are often followed by a flood of emotions. There's no right or wrong way to feel – so don't push down your sadness, anger, or confusion. Bottling everything up will only make things harder later. - Cry if you need to: Crying can be a great way to release those emotions. - Talk to someone you trust: A good friend, family member, or even a therapist can help you process what you're going through. - Find a creative outlet: Writing, drawing, or playing music can be a healthy way to express your feelings. Taking Care of Yourself is Key It might seem hard right now to take care of yourself, but putting in some effort will help you heal faster, physically and emotionally. You deserve to be happy. - Eat healthy: It's tempting to reach for junk food, but nourishing your body with good food will help you feel better. - Get enough sleep: When we're running on empty, our emotions can get out of hand. - Do some exercise: A walk, a yoga session, or a dance party – moving your body also helps move those emotions through. Fact: Breakups Can Take a Toll Did you know heartbreak can affect your body like a real illness? It can make it harder to sleep, focus, and can even weaken your immune system. That's why self-care is so important! Cut Ties (At Least For Now) It might be tempting to check your ex's social media or send a late-night text, but resist the urge! Trying to stay friends right away can stall your healing. - Block or mute on social media: Protect yourself from seeing stuff that might set you back. - Ask friends not to share updates: A heads-up to your circle helps avoid accidental triggers. Healthy Habits Make a Big Difference It's easy to let good habits slip after a breakup, but sticking to them can make the world of a difference! Healthy HabitWhy it MattersEating WellGood food = energy to heal, mood boostSleepHelps you regulate emotions, think more clearlyExerciseEases stress, releases feel-good brain chemicals Quick Tip: Even small changes help! Can't do a full workout? Go for a 10-minute walk. This stuff adds up over time. Time for Some Healthy Distractions While you work through your feelings, having some fun distractions is important, too. This doesn't mean ignoring the pain, but it gives you a much-needed mental break. - Try something new: Ever wanted to learn how to bake? Take a dance class? Now's the time! Learning a new skill can be empowering. - Get out in nature: A hike, walk around the park, or a day at the beach can do wonders for your mood. - Hang with loved ones: Friends and family who make you laugh are the best medicine. - Volunteer your time: Helping others can put your own problems in perspective and boost your self-esteem. Myth Buster! You might hear advice like, "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else." Don't fall for it! "Rebound" relationships usually end up hurting someone and won't magically heal your heartache. Rediscover What Makes You Happy When you're in a relationship, sometimes your interests take a backseat. Now's the time to reconnect with those things! - Make that playlist: What songs make you want to get up and dance? - Binge-watch that series: Finally catch up on the show everyone's been talking about. - Pick up an old hobby: Did you used to paint, write, or play an instrument? Dust off those skills! FAQs Q: How long will it take to feel better after a breakup? A: Unfortunately, there's no single answer. Everyone heals at their own pace. Be patient with yourself, and don't get discouraged if you have some bad days. Q: Do guys miss you after a breakup? A: Whether your ex misses you or not shouldn't be your focus. The most important thing is to focus on your own healing and creating the best life for yourself. Rebuilding Your Confidence Breakups can really hit our self-esteem. Remember, someone not wanting to be with you doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Still, it's time to start rebuilding that confidence! - Focus on your strengths: Make a list of everything you're good at and all your best qualities. Refer to it when you feel down. - Challenge negative thoughts: When you think, "I'm not good enough," remind yourself of your worth. - Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself like you would your best friend. Be kind! - Set small goals: Accomplishing something, even something small, helps boost your confidence. Small Changes, Big Impact Sometimes, simple changes to your routine can have a surprising effect on how you feel about yourself: - Get dressed: Even if you're staying home, put on an outfit that makes you feel good. - Practice good posture: Standing tall projects confidence (and can trick your mind a little, too!) - Do something kind for yourself: Treat yourself to coffee, a long bath... show yourself some love. The Power of Positive People Surround yourself with people who lift you up, believe in you, and remind you of how awesome you are. Limit time with people who bring you down, even if it's unintentional. "Sometimes, the best way to be loved is to learn to love yourself." Dating Again: Is It Too Soon? There is no one-size-fits-all answer about when it's okay to start dating again after a breakup. It depends entirely on you and how you're feeling. Here are some key questions to ask yourself: - Have I processed my emotions? Do you fully understand how you feel about the breakup, even if you still have some lingering sadness? - Can I handle rejection? Dating can be tough for anyone. Make sure you're emotionally ready for setbacks. - Am I looking for a distraction? If you're hoping to find someone to make the pain go away, it might be best to wait. Signs You Might Be Ready - You're genuinely excited: The thought of meeting someone makes you happy, not anxious. - You're focused on the future: You've started thinking about goals and dreams, not just the past. - You're not comparing everyone to your ex: You can appreciate a new person without constantly thinking about your ex. Easing Back into Dating If you think you're ready, start slow and be upfront with potential dates about coming out of a relationship. You're allowed to set boundaries and take things at your own pace. - Try online dating: Apps allow you to chat before meeting in person, which can ease some pressure. - Keep first dates short and casual: Coffee dates are a low-commitment way to dip your toes back in. - Don't be afraid to say no: If it doesn't feel right, there's nothing wrong with walking away. One of my friends decided to try dating again after a bad breakup. She went on a few dates, then realized she needed more time for herself. There's no shame in pressing pause and refocusing! The Most Important Thing No matter when you decide to date again, the most important thing is listening to your own gut. If something feels off or rushed, slow down. You'll know when it's really the right time for you. Bumping Into Your Ex... Or Dealing With Mutual Friends It's bound to happen at some point – whether it's running into your ex at the grocery store or navigating social situations with shared friends. Here's how to handle it: - When you run into your ex: Keep it brief and polite. You don't need to engage in a deep conversation. A simple "Hello, hope you're doing well" is enough. - Navigating mutual friends: Be honest with friends but avoid bad-mouthing your ex. Try saying, "I hope it's okay if we hang out separately for a while." - Social media: Don't feel bad if you need to unfriend or unfollow your ex to avoid getting upset by seeing their posts. Handling Nosy Questions Sometimes, well-meaning people can ask insensitive questions about your breakup. Here's how to respond: - Vague but polite: "We just decided to go our separate ways." - Change the subject: Ask a question about them – people love talking about themselves! - Set a boundary: "I'm not really comfortable talking about that right now." Key Takeaways - Breakups are a normal part of life, although they never feel easy. - Allow yourself time to process your emotions and prioritize self-care. - Surround yourself with supportive people and engage in activities that bring you joy. - Focus on rebuilding your confidence and moving forward. - When you're ready, approach dating with a positive mindset but don't feel pressured to rush into anything. Conclusion Remember: You are strong and deserving of love. This might feel difficult now, but brighter days are ahead! Here's a table outlining some key steps and their benefits to help solidify the takeaways: StepBenefitsProcess EmotionsUnderstand and heal from heartbreakPrioritize Self-CareImprove physical and emotional healthRebuild ConfidenceBoost self-esteem and create a positive outlookTake Your TimeAvoid rushing into rebound relationships Disclaimer: The information provided on this website is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions about your health. Read the full article

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5 Things You Must Do If You Ever Want Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

My name is Brad Browning, and I am known as the "relationship geek". How did I get this nickname? Well, for the past 10 years of my life, I've helped thousands of men around the globe get their ex-girlfriends back.

No matter how dire your situation is with your ex-girlfriend, there is a way to get her back!

The truth is, I've been doing this for so long that I've uncovered the secret to the female psychology.

If you're reading this and you want your ex-girlfriend back, then absorb the information on this page very carefully, because in it, I'll share with you some secrets that will give you some secrets that most men will never know about women.

1.) Don't get jealous. Jealousy reeks of insecurity and this is just the number one killer of attraction. If you are the jealous kind of person, then fight the urge to show this emotion around your ex-girlfriend.

2.) Give her space. Yes, this seems a little hard and counter intuitive, but leaving her alone is one of the best ways of actually getting her back into your life. Though, you have to do it in a very specific way. Simply not talking to her won't do it. You have to talk to her subconscious and make it seem like you really and truly don't want to talk to her right now.

3.) Recover emotionally. If you're rattled that your ex-girlfriend dumped you, then trust me, there's nothing you can do or say right now that will make her love you again. The more you force the issue with her, the less likely she's going to want to get back together with you. Winning your ex-girlfriend back is going to have to start with you. That means you need to stop pining and get your life back on track. Start working out more. Start picking up some good hobbies that you like. Start hanging out with friends. Do whatever you need to do to "get over her" and you'll be well on your to getting her back into your arms in your bed.

4.) Start dating other women. This is my secret weapon. By dating other women, you're killing two birds with one stone. First, dating other women is one of the best ways to get over your ex-girlfriend. And second, if your ex ever found out that you're dating other women, then she'll start beginning to get jealous and want you again. Once this happens, you'll be ready to pounce and take her back (without her even realize that you're using these tactics on her!).

5.) Begin to seduce her (properly!). Once you've accomplished steps 1-4, only then can you start making her fall in love with you again by sending her my patented psychological techniques that I'll tell you about in a minute. By using some of my techniques, she'll be crying by your side, asking herself why she ever broke up with you. She'll be begging you to come back to her.

Sound too good to be true? Well, it isn't. I've seen this happen thousands of times. And it doesn't matter if you broke up with your girlfriend last week or last year. My techniques don't discriminate. They're that powerful.

In the free informational video below, I'll share with you some mind-bending secrets that will surely get your ex-girlfriend to start wanting to talk to you and hang out with you. And, if you follow my instructions properly, she'll be calling you incessantly wanting you to go out with her.

Click here to check out this video presentation.

Be quick about it though because this video won't be up forever. I actually have a number of feminists groups that are hassling me about this video... they say that the tactics I use are so manipulative that it effectively compromises women's rights. No joke. So, check it out while it's still up.