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#time to overshare on here bc my usual outlets (my friends) are the subject of my vent !!#uno when u find a person to spend time with and u tend to spend a lot of time with that one person#like thats normal right#well anyways apparently i am spending too much time with them and people think its sus#but like#genuinely just tryna vibe with this kid#maybe speedrunning this bc of quarantine but like ?????#idk what they want#to keep my distance ?????#its not like theyre constantly reaching out to hang out#theyre not like at all#so when this one person initiates im like sure hell ya#anyways im just so so so lost on what to do#i want to vent to them but#i dont know if theyre the ppl talking about me ????????#all i got was a [hey we think u guys are too close]#but no idea who we is#i want to know bc i Sincerely doubt its my two closest friends#but if it is ? would ignorance not be bliss
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i LOVE how every fanartist and creative person in the dndads fandom looked at the designs for the teens on the cover art and was like "Yeah no thanks. Except you, Taylor, you're perfect."
#like sure scary is often very similar but i love how everyone was like#yeah. thats taylor all right#tbf it is PERFECT for him#AND THIS ISNT A RAG ON THE ARTIST#I LOVE THE COVER DESIGNS TBH. i just. love. other ones.#but i love how people experiment w making link n normal differebt#(and more like their descriptions.. cough cough... normal)#taylor swift dndads#lincoln li wilson#normal oak#scary marlowe#dndads#dungeons and daddies#dndads s2#dndads quest
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I feel like recently, ADHD has kind of become shorthand for “a person who is annoying online and has no real problems,” and I don’t really think that’s awesome news, given the context that ADHD has a long history of being disregarded as a made up disorder that’s just an excuse for poor/obnoxious behavior, no matter how much scientific research proves otherwise. ADHD is not by any means the only disorder that has people making a thousand misleading tiktoks about it, so perhaps do some critical thinking about why specifically ADHD has become the poster child for that behavior. There are certainly valid criticisms to be made of the way we discuss mental health online, but maybe use your brain and determine why this disorder in particular is the one that’s easiest to point at for being “annoying” and “not that big of a deal.”
#idk maybe if u actually watched a couple of the tiktoks u might learn that the lack of focus thing is reall not the main issue#its just what the people around us are most likely to notice and be bothered by#not saying it doesnt get obnoxious seeing people say the same thing over and over#and yes some people are like purposely vague and disingenuous about the symptoms to get views from people thinking they have it now#but i see that with everything. like autism PTSD depression OCD anxiety#im always getting tiktoks saying that im a lesbian or i have repressed memories or “x normal thing is a symptom of y disorder!!”#and yes its annoying but its probably somewhat helpful to people who actually are dealing w those things#and also like. if u simply stop treating ur for you page like a crystal ball that sees into your soul and reflects it back#and realize its just an algorithm designed to make u interact whether thats bc u like what u saw or fucking hated it#then u will not be as bothered !#but yes our generation seems to have a habit of constantly trying to find the right box to out ourselves in so we can be like. “marketable”#like people seem to want to design their personality like an movie character or something#but its so shitty that we’re dog piling all that on ADHD as if our specific disorder has anything to do with it#also personally i think its kind of normal to be really focused on a particular aspect of your identity when u just discovered it#and it usually evens out and just becomes part of the background of your identity#but yes there’s often a problem with pathologizing normal things#but i think its important to recognize that lots of things that are normal occasionally are pathological in excess. like thats how it works#like we’ve all been through how being sad sometimes is not the same as depression#why cant we grasp that occasionally going into a room and forgetting why you’re there isnt the same as ADHD#my posts
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#i like those characters a normal amount#i thought those outfits would match for whatever reason and i think i was right#wanda maximoff#billy kaplan#young avengers#marvel comics#marvel fanart#my art#fanart#marvel#the scarlet witch#scarlet witch#wiccan marvel#hellfire gala#only wanda is dressed for the hellfire gala tho. thats billy infinity comic outfit#i should actually make some hellfire gala outfits for billy and teddy this year#perhaps
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I was watching teen titans and thinking about how Slades obsessed with making Dick his apprentice and Tim has Ras whose similar and I was like wow Batman just trains assassin magnets ig
And then I thought hey what if it was reversed like Ras and Slade already had the robins as their apprentices before they met Batman and then were like "hey Batman will you train my apprentice for me" and Batman was like sure.
& then as soon as he got handed the children he went hmm. Well actually I think I am going to make them my sons. obvs they're like "hey give them back" but Bruce goes "I already introduced them to Alfred so no <3"
#tim drake#dick grayson#batfam#batman#alfred pennyworth#Ras shows up like: timothy come w me rn#tim: let me ask my grandpa#Ras: thats not--#tim with alfred standing behind him with a shotgun: he said no#also i didnt mention in post but in this scenario/au batman is a bit morally grayer like an antihero or smthn#bc idk why he would be cool to train slade or ras apprentice otherwise#dami is also kind of this canonically but in a slightly different way bc he also like chose to not go back to the league on purpose yknow#so he fits right into this#i doubt david cain would go for this w cas but if it were somehow possible she could also 100% fit this#idk if theres assassins obsessed w jason like this tbh. it would b funny if he was literally the only relatively normal one in this au tho#jason:so how did u guys come to be adopted by b#the rest of them: oh our assassin mentors asked him to train us but then he decided to keep us instead#jason: . okay i guess. he just sort of picked me up off the curb#qondoejdk if jason was the only one in this au who didnt kill lmao#dc#anyway this is kind of nonsense but whatever
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liam’s anu-kite induced hallucination in triggers being a flashback to when he was a scared fourteen year old boy who couldn’t protect himself against a group of people who were supposed to be on his team rather than one about theo, the guy who once tried and almost got liam to kill one of the most important people in his life while shifted and was planning on killing him next even though becoming a monster that hurts people is one of liam’s greatest fears. theo actually being the one who pulls liam out of his head and keeps him from killing someone and talks to him about why he gets so angry when he’s really feeling afraid. layers. guys there are layers.
#in part liam def sees brett because brett just died and liam is obv . traumatized by this regardless of their past#frankly im still a lil confused ab whether or not the hazing thing actually happened bc on one hand#most of what the anu-kite shows people isnt real#but its rooted in reality and idk thats just such a specific situation to dream up#anyways. THERE ARE STILL LAYERS GUYS#s5 theo is literally the embodiment of what liam is afraid he could become and i think thats part of why s6 thiam is so .#like. theo knows how he got in that place and its why he does so much of the dirty work for liam#like telling liam to let go of gabe then smashing his head back into the mirror right after#the whole being the bait thing#shoving liam ahead of him so he wouldnt get shot in the finale#telling nolan to run so liam wouldnt kill hkm#constantly trying to reality check liam when hes being too idealistic#MANNNNNNNN#trying to be normal about them and failing#triggers was a masterpiece to me like the song choice in the truck scene is sooooo#thiam#6.16 triggers
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So I know this isn't anything that like actually needs an apology but it'll make me feel a bit better to say it. Oof whoops this ABoT chapter is super late. Timing kinda sucks since I wanted to have some updates out while s3 was airing but
Been kinda mega busy and stressed since October with the whole condo buying thing which rolled right into immediate day 0 plumbing and boiler issues I had to get fixed and general moving hassle and financial commitment stress and I kinda just fried myself hard. Plus then acclimating to a new place without my familiar street or familiar grocery store or familiar room or any of that. Like there's no "just go home and take your mind off it" to this cuz home is the "it". So I'm just kinda enduring until I can calm the hell down.
And anyway I definitely have progress on ch47, like 7000-ish words of it, but it's the kind of like "there is writing there" and hasn't exactly hit the "there is substance there" that I want ABoT chapters to be. Like this in particular is a chapter I want to be good, not just be done. So it's taking time to get my brain somewhere that can do that.
#anyway#i mean just in case anyone was like wondering if its discontinued to anything#its still going i just can't make it Good quite yet#(plus i need to get furniture cuz as it stands the place is really quite empty and bare except for like my room and the kitchen)#(also the bank had my address wrong so they havent been able to send me any of the mortgage information which was technically due already)#(ive been in contact with them but it's a whole thing)#(plus im still not quite finished with all the utility switching. i still need to get water in my name)#(and the boiler issue fucked up my gas bill so now ive got a crazy high gas bill i just need to... pay)#(i have actually started seeing a therapist but thats a whole other Thing now figuring out insurance and deductables and using my HSA#account and just... it's a lot)#(oh also my homeowner's insurance policy number doesn't actually work for getting me into the online portal. and the geico guy said he was#looking into it but I havent heard anything in a while)#(its a lot im just gonna melt for a while i guess)#(plus all the upfront stress has made it really hard to associate the new place as 'home' instead of 'place of great many plumbing evils')#(i sat on like 4 million couches this week and the only one i really really like probably doesn't quite fit in my living room)#(the downstairs neighbors tv is too loud and i need to talk to her about it in a way which isn't 'hey im holding on by a thread and this#one small inconvenience is the thing which is making me turn into ash')#(oh thats right i have to go pay my january HOA dues...)#(oh also I need to file for the owner-occupied tax exemption thing now that its 2023)#anyway......... ill be normal eventually. im just not normal right now.#chrissy speaks
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transsexual angel
#bfb#loser bfb#cake bfb#winner tpot#THATS RIGHT BABEY I ONLY MADE THE BANNER(S) FOR THIS FUCKING . DRAWING#god i am so fucking normal#angelic imagery#<- jic#transgender#i like drawing . her being trans and happy
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ok real talk small pet peeve of mine again. just little things. white trans ppl things. not gonna credit the artist cause i dont want to draw negative attention to them, this drawing is hella cute & relatable
yeah that drawing is so cute funny and relatable! but also! im kinda sick & tired of seeing "average trans people" always have caucasian features. cause its not the first time im seeing this for SURE.
should i get this mild annoyance at 2 hairstyles in a meme? nope. but im gonna talk abt it anyway. ok bye
#its so nitpicky. but its just. oh right thats transmascs & transfems are seen as people who are white.#and it annoys the shit out of me sometimes#this isnt saying cancel anyone who draws a white trans person. definitely not cancel the person who did the drawing that i enjoy so much#but i am saying as the trans community? we can do better. we can and we should#i normally hate the word 'normalize' and other izes but fr we have to start knowing that trans people are people of color#more than just 'black trans women are the founders of the queer community <3' posts likes and reblogs.#its just. it gets my goat.#lgbt#lgbtq#queer#trans
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everyone in my state is going maskless and partying and berating me for being paranoid for continuing to wear a mask and refraining from face to face social interaction, all while we have 4k new cases a day and people from within my own department at work keep calling in sick with covid. if i have to hear one more person unironically say "its never going to get down to 0 cases" or "you should just get it so youre immune for a few months, realistically youre not going to die from it" i am going to start screaming.
#like even if i wasnt asthmatic thats not the fucking point you goddamn imbeciles!#the point is that even though the odds are in my favour the same isnt true for every fucking person who has to breathe my air!#im coming to the conclusion that i havent been nearly as disillusioned re: the human propensity for shortsighted apathy as i thought i was#somewhere there was a secret stash of hope that because people theoretically could be better there was a chance that they would be#new depths of disillusionment. yay.#the ultimate problem is that im afraid that they might be right. that maybe 4k cases a fucking day is the best its going to get#in which case my choices are a) stop caring or b) become a bitter old hermit filled with regret waiting to die alone#and i do not know how to stop caring#thats a lie. i do not know how to stop caring without sticking either a bottle or a bullet in my mouth#both of which are considered to be messier forms of self destructive behaviour than caring and are therefore off the table#alright im done ive got it out of my system. i am normal again now.
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I can tell already it’s gonna be a bit of a learning curve trying to draw Data, but a worthy one!! :’3 I also kinda wanted to get this out before season 2 of tbb drops tomorrow and Rex completely overshadows everyone, Data deserves a little time to shine!
#artfarts#self insert#self ship#self shipping community#self insert community#self insert x canon#f/o x s/i#star trek#star trek tng#star trek data#💛 love makes us human 💛#also me: slaps some bullshit rim lighting on a piece and calls it a day#i dont think i did too terribly for my first try tho x'3#its so hard to get him right!!#like...the way his skin just IS#i read in a fic him describing it as 'like crushed pearls' GOD KISS ME#i imagine in this scenario here uhhh he kinda saw another couple do this hand kissing thing#(imagining its ruby and q hehe)#and he wants to emulate it with me bcs he thinks thats just a normal courting ritual#which it sorta is!!#he just has no idea the true effect it has on me which IS KILLING ME ON THE SPOT#probably doesnt even say anything just takes my wrist and HHH
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mike 'crush on eddie munson' wheeler 🤝 el 'crush on nancy wheeler' hopper
#dont lie to urselves im right#mike literally looks at eddie like he personally invented the concept of hotness#and one of els first lines in the show is her calling nance pretty#idc how u try to spin it thats fruity#'oh el just wants to look like nance bc shes sad abt not being able to grow up like a normal girl' yea but she just thinks women are pretty#byler#ik it isnt but like. u guys need funny posts rn#so have this shit#mike wheeler i know what you are#lesbian el agenda gogo power rangers
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things that annoy me about fanon portrayal of peter parker #1265
inability to properly portray his superpowers and also skills. guys. guys. why is he getting knocked around by like. 5 run of the mill crooks. guys. why did he break his arm falling a grand total of two stories. guys. how is he actually getting beat up getting hit by sir normal ass man. guys. why is he seriously out of commission for over a week.
just say the only powers you remember are wall crawling and spider sense and go
#peter parker#spider-man#i mean they also remember web swinging but usually thats not written as a power so it doesnt count#like be fr#ppl can right batfam fic where they can clearly hand regular mooks their asses and yet#spidey can never get the same treatment#and i mean. i get even canonically different writers right stuff differently but still#no respect#and yes i know sometimes he does get hurt by regular punches but thats the inferior interpretation#man gets thrown through walls on the regular and you expect me to believe the force of a normal punch would do damage?#wish i could blame this on mcuification but#a) this was prevalent even before#and b) for all of the mcus many faults they did pretty good at showcasing his powers#and yet#we still get absolutely rancid takes#ik this is my own fault for venturing into mcu fics but like. every time i see a fic summary#of oh peter got kidnapped for knowing tony stark. with the people kidnapping him not knowing about Spider-Man#and it being taken seriously#i shrivel up on the inside#or all the oh peter gets bullied/abused fics like.#even excluding that he Would Not stand for that#you expect me to believe hes that fragile??#the mans been hit by a literal train in multiple continuities and gotten up again
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the greatest trick online predators ever pulled was convincing teenagers that “people who are not cool with pedo/incest/rape/etc fanfiction” and “bullies who tell people to kill themselves over fandom” are the same singular group
#the only reason you think ‘antis’ are all horrible people is because proshippers want you to think that. there is a specific agenda there.#mean comments or callouts are not MORE dangerous than these kinds of content. many would argue the content is more harmful than harassment#obviously ‘people should like fictional things’ is an opinion everyone agrees with#but some of you LITERAL CHILDREN do not understand the extent to which normalizing some of this stuff is damaging#like it’s all hidden in the term ‘anti’ itself because like. its not short for anti shipping. its short for anti pedophilic ships#anti incest/rape/necro/zoo porn. thats way harder to publicly be against. so they just shorten it to ‘anti’#which obviously makes them the Bad Guys#anti means bad and pro means good so obviously we should all be pro right? we’re all good mature people who hate harassment right?#please god consider why certain people are so obsessed with associating criticism with bullying#anti#proship#proshipper
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i really dont understand the dickriding lmfao like okay i understand why incels and right wing weirdos are rejoicing but like...... this is all because... he was attractive 15 years ago??? did yall really like pirates of the caribbean THAT much? just based on the numbers i KNOW not all of these people (esp women) were stans before all this. like you really saw a trial of a man objectively demonstrating he's a violent abusive freak (even if u think 'mutual abuse' is a thing [it is not] you are already implicitly accepting the idea that he was indeed abusive and therefore, if ur fucking normal, he's not worth defending) and were like "this is my new cause célèbre! blorbo from my blockbuster! even tho u havent produced any quality work in like at least a decade because you're a musty washed up loser! i didnt really give a shit about you until i read those texts where u fantasized about murdering and r*ping the corpse of your then-gf and future-ex-wife, but after that i decided that i would die for you!!!!!1"
i cannot imagine anything more pathetic. yalls brains are each rotting inside a prison cell that it created for itself. i cannot imagine having that mentality i think i would rather chug clorox than live one day inside a mind like that. lmao i would yell more but that entire scenario is just fucking sad, get well soon!
#of course the bottom line is that yall just resent abusers being held accountable when u like them#but thats something for you to unpack by yourselves! sorry you got tricked into thinking these abusive fucks would treat u any differently!#sorry i just dont fucking understand why u would choose to die on this hill#esp since so many of you seemed fucking normal before all this and chose right here in this moment for this reason to show ur asses!!! why?#depp /for ts
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LMAOOO
#The owl house#toh#clouds on the horizon#lumity#toh spoilers#ILL SAY IT AGAIN. THATS HER I LOVE MY WIFE LOOK#THIS EPISODE WAS SOOOO GOOD MWAH#LUMITY KISS!!! WE JUST KEEP WINNING!!! AND IT WAS SO FUCKING SMOOTH LIKE SOME JAMES BAXTER SHIT WHAT THE FUCK#AND LUZ SAYING CRIKEY RIGHT AFTER IS SO IN CHARACTER AJDJFBSJ#And luz (hunter) protecting willow immediately like I!!! He could have blown his cover but he did it on instinct 😭😭#He even did the same position he did for luz in hollow mind!! You’re not slick hunter I’d recognize that pose anywhere!!!#ALSO ALSO ALSO. The fact that only gus was in on Luzs plan makes it better because I thought willow avoided hitting hunter bc it the#Illusion would wear off but like?! The fact that she didn’t know and just didn’t want to hit him at all!!!!!#IM NORMAL ABOUT THIS EPISODE. AND THE FUCKING EGG MAN#AHHHH. AHHH AND ALADOR EPIC DIVORCE LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO#the owl house season toh 2b#the owl house spoilers#luz noceda#toh screenshots#toh luz#ALSO. DID EDA JUST GET A SIGIL FOR FUCKING NOTHING. DANA I JUST WANNA TALK
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