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It honestly baffles me that some people are so casually dismissive of animals' feelings. Istg some ppl only see pets like toys and are barely able to hide it
#vent post alert#but I'm just so frustrated#my mom's dog got hit by a car yesterday and she refused to take him to the vet#she said she doesn't have any money for it and that he's fine#physically he seems fine just bruised. I think he might have something internal but she's been very dismissive of that#anyway. he spent the whole night crying bc he was alone and terrified#I went upstairs and almost begged her to take him to the vet but she still refused saying he was fine#then she put him inside her house and he calmed down after a while#the next morning when she came downstairs to talk to me she kept being dismissive#saying he was fine in the end he just wanted attention#and I'm like yeah?? obviously?? he got hit by a car???? the poor thing is traumatized and terrified#ofc he doesn't want to be alone#and she hit me with the 'dogs don't get traumatized. he's just being dramatic'#I pointed out some dogs have psychological pregnancy so ofc they have psychological problems too#and THEN she hit me with 'but those are female dogs. males are different. because hormones' like. WHAT#this just in not only do human males not have feelings but now dog males don't either. because hormones.#I thought my mom was smarter than this tbh#istg her boyfriend is just making her more ignorant. bc this is the kind of bs I expected to hear from him but not from her#anyway I don't know what to do. I don't have money for the vet either bc I just had to pay for a surgery#we talked and she said she'll monitor the dog and if he looks like he's getting worse she'll take him to the vet#ig I'll have to settle for that#I love my mom but man. this is weird#I just didn't expect it from her#what's worse is that when it's just her and me it's one thing. but when her bf is around I feel like she gets different#like with me she agrees but then around him she doesn't?? how am I supposed to trust her that way#it's all just so weird. idk what to think or what to feel rn. I just feel bad#sleep.txt
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(no spoilers for the latest panda stuff)
so in the second part of panda laha did say that emet and iggy have suspicions of what he did after he cut away part of his soul, but this fails to cover the person with even better soul sight than emet aka mr hyth soulseer lodaeus who likely crossed paths with laha for work and laha would have known that hyth was stupid good at soul sight so like...
was laha ducking behind pillars and legging it down the hall whenever he saw hyth coming? was hyth just pretending not to notice so he could enjoy seeing laha dive into an ornamental fountain to hide from him?
#option b hyth was blackmailing him#like you will agree with everything my bf proposes or I will ruin your life :)))))) teehee#ffxiv#ffxivmp#mp#hythlodaeus#ffxiv spoilers#lahabrea#hyth probably knows about that sex tape too...somehow....
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Look at these stickers my brain is literally so huge. God. I love them so much.
I hadn't tried to do a sticker sheet at home before because I knew it would be difficult, and I was right! Getting the cut lines to line up with the print was super hard and there were many failed attempts, but it was so worth it I'm so happy with them!!!
This sticker sheet is for my patrons this month ^^
#like seriously I wasted like 10 entire sheets#normally when I do stickers I get to arrange them on a 'print and cut' sheet#which basically has these black marks in the corners that the machine can scan so it can cut based off of where those marks were#so it gets to line up muuuch easier#but with this I didnt want to have just like 2 sticker sheets a page... I wanted to have 4 for an 8.5x11 piece of paper?#cause of obvious reasons I feel#cause the print and cut takes an inch all around#I'm not sure it would be replicable either tbh? like if I were to design another sheet I would have to waste a bunch of papers again#cause for some reason the individual cut lines werent like... it wasnt like it was just entirely offset or entirely scaled 1:1#it was like some parts had to scoot up some spots had to scoot over some down whatever#so I think I would have to print cut and test again#but. also I did all that and realized. I could have been testing this on normal pieces of paper... I didnt have to use sticker paper#its fine! just makes me feel less bad about trying to do this again in the future#the sticker paper isnt that expensive this wasnt terrible#anyways. might do more in the future! I only have one other idea right now for a sticker sheet bt I wanna do it eventually#not like I wont ever have other ideas. obviously.#I just generally try to only make stuff that i'd actually wanna have so i'm not trying to make a ton of designs or whatever#this is actually also why i'm often sort of... late? on the patreon designs#not late like i send them out as soon as payments get processed for that month the design was for#but ideally id be making them ahead of time enough that people could sign up or sign off if theyre interested or not...#but I just dont wanna make a design that feels procedural... I CAN but I wanna make things that are creative and worth paying for!#so. I often will spend multiple days mulling over ideas for that months designs. so I'm not very ahead at all haha#anyways. yeah these are for october and then I've also gotta draw a halloween themed drawing for this year in general that will be the prin#i lov halloween#anyways.#patreon#merch#my bf didnt get it the gravestone box. its like a nerds box shaped like a gravestone...#and the nerds are. ghosts... its good. its good okay you agree
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*Discussion of Bug Fables spoilers regarding Leif below*
I can’t get over how no one in the main party makes any comment toward the fact that Leif apparently had a child (or multiple) that he never met or possibly even knew about, and that if he did know about their existence then he never mentions it. Like surely if they were born before he died he would’ve brought them up at some point, even just as an off-handed comment, because that seems like a pretty significant thing?? I just find it hard to believe the gang visited the moth family house and Leif wouldn’t at some point have been like, “Ah, yes, we never told you guys about our son Scrimblo.” Especially considering he brings up his wife a few different times (and one of those is just a comment to himself). So I have to assume he didn’t know. At first, I thought maybe the moth family was intended to just be Muse’s descendants… But I’m pretty sure the game says they’re Leif’s.
That being said, I wonder if Leif’s just not at all surprised to hear he had a kid he never met because that’s just one of those bug things. This may be going into cursed territory, so sorry about that, but Lepidoptera store sperm and use it to fertilize eggs at their own convenience after mating. So perhaps, as a bug, it would be totally reasonable to find out you had post-mortem descendants and be like “Oh, well of course.”
#that is the only way this doesn’t bother me#but still I’d think that realization would be an emotional one#if only because he CAN’T ever meet them#he outlived them technically#i only say Cursed because some people do not like my real life bug facts#‘some people’ being one friend who agreed it was ‘kinda Cursed but fascinating’#bug fables#bug fables spoilers#bf leif#bug fables leif#bugs#OP
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every now and again i think about my evil ex from hell like a bit ago i thought about how he'd said (via text message) that my texts always seemed to have an attitude about them lmao
#nikuniku spam#he would also probably consider me to be the evil ex from hell#so like lmaoo#he'd always complain that our conversations were not meaningful#in the sense that he did not want to do small talk#i'm sorry sir i do not have something deep and philosophical to say at all times#if there's anything that my not evil ex my high school sweetheart ex and my current bf can all agree on#it's that they do not like that guy
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my grandma has had only female dogs for a while now so when she talks with my dog sometimes she calls him by she and other times by him
but today when i went to pick him up after leaving him with her for a bit while i picked up some of her meds, she told me that his pronouns are now they/them bc he answers her calls regardless of how she calls out to him lol
#kai.rambles#mind you my grandma is VERY religious and doesn’t agree with a lot of things#so hearing her say that is both hilarious and refreshing? in a way idk#we’re talking about the woman that openly ignored my bf and my sister’s husband when they first showed up with painted nails#and ignored us for like a week when we got our first tattoos 😭#she’s a little more open now but still i was like wowww
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forgot my mom doesn't know abt my past partners so when I told her abt my boyfriend she was like "well, you know first relationships aren't perfect, it's how you learn what you're looking for" yea 👍
#jay says a thing#like no yeah 100% agree#were it not 4 my exes i never would've gone after my bf cos id still be under the illusion that i wanted someone to be my everything#instead of wanting someone to just like. hang out with. talk about anything with. sit in silence and play separate video games side by side#and like yeah hes important 2 me and i love him so much but its not that over the top obsession that my past relationships were#its comfortable. its mutual. i dont have to pretend to be perfect or gentlemanly around him.#anyways <3 yaaay now. i have 2 tell. my father.#hes a wildcard i have NO idea how he'll react
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NOT JOHN DORNEY REVEALING THAT *THAT* ENDING OF STRANDED WAS NOT HIS DECISION. FAITH RESTORED!
#Honestly good for him#sounds like he might not entirely agree with it either.... :D#I mean it doesn't change anything but makes me feel better!!!!#He's one of my favourite BF writers and the fact he did that ending killed me...#so thank you for clarifying that!!#doctor who#liv chenka#big finish
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im so tired it’s not even funny,, however!! it makes for funny sleep-deprived xi moments… so… ->
it was so funny bc axel n i sent the things literally seconds apart from each other… we are so similar w humor sometimes it’s uncanny
LMAOOOOOOOO sleep deprivation changes people
that last image almost made me start laughing in the middle of class YOU CANT DO THAT TO ME
#9/11 jokes today are gonna be wild#i already know#stop on the intercom they were like ‘make sure to repay your respects to police’ and my bf and i agreed that we would do that#once they stopped killing innocent people#grr i hate texas sometimes why is everyone here a bootlicker half the tims
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I think some of y'all (people in uni) were never 15 and read, "we accept the love we think we deserve" and sobbed while reading perks of being a wallflower and it shows
#gift giving is not a competition to some of us bestie#love is not conditional#dont make me overwhelmed by making our mutual friends bday a fucking competition#thank god her best friend also agrees and we are both her best friends so we know#but just why are people so#like this insecurity with love is so insane#people who want to see your love will see your love at the end of the day and if they don't keep being the lighthouse around please#anyway in other good news spoke to the cool batchmate i always wanted to talk more with and she was also like bro i love having convos with#you lets hangout and so we ate dinner walked and talked about history partition cultural stories my ex friend's bisexuality crisis which was#so similar to hers also takked about my cultural crisis family stories her firefly house urdu poetry her boyfriend my career pospects#so yayy i guess but so tired presentation was good prof questioned a lot cause he literally knows my source text authors its his friend in#uni and this girl said he'll take us out for drinks on last day of course so yayyyyyyy#my roomie and her bf constantly talk eh that is but i am gonna shower play my playlist till i sleep#today has been something but atleast i will have dinner with a new person tomorrow as well so yayyyy#life is just being very overwhelmed lately and i just hope people i love know that i love them and i am missing them even though#they live a floor above from me or live miles away too actually#eni life stories
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Kills me that my partner's parents texted him saying "You really need to show her the most recent Trump rally, it will really open her eyes to our family pov" because they think he is a card-carrying redblooded republican too.
Ma'am, I peg your son on the regular. We are not voting for Trump lmao
#my bf has chosen not to engage in the conversation#so they just assume he agrees with them#but nah he read project 2025 too and we both are like#oh we might be a passing het couple but we still in trouble because we dont want to get married or have kids#like ma'am i was shopping for heels that fit your son recently#i got some news for you about your lil baby and his gender expression#sometimes he wants to be a she#cas speaks#we are actually getting a cosplay together and i will be the male lead and he is going as the female~ he is very excited
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I loved this progression. Yoh didn't even have the will to drink water from the glass, until Segasaki did that.
#my personal weatherman#taikan yoho#bl drama#japanese bl#bl series#segasaki mizuki#segasaki x yoh#how to make your bf drink water when he is having a depressive episode#I wholeheartedly agree with this method#Segasaki is so hot and understanding at the same time#yoh looks like a sad marshmallow
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feeling super validated about that time 10+ years ago when I tried getting into one piece and was a bit baffled by all the Zoro/Sanji shipping when I felt the Zoro/Luffy vibes were so much stronger
#op#opla#i didnt use to go here#but i fell in love with the live action luffy#also teenage me was RIGHT#im not feeling super fandomy about the show rn and wont likely go in for fics but if i do i better see some luffy/zoro representation#if anyone agrees sound off so i know who to yell excitedly at#im making my bf watch as we speak but i need External Validation#do it for the 16-17yr old who was watching anime with subs and earphones at the middle of the night so nobody sees her#who is today finally bold enough to post her opinion on the interwebs
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the vitriol bi ppl get from within the queer community is ridiculous lol. i see tons of posts tiktoks etc complaining about how bi ppl are always like “what about us” in discussions about queer issues. maybe bc yall literally don’t see us as “actually” queer the same way str8 ppl don’t lmao. we know that we are not the center of everything lol we just want to be included. im esp sick of the “oh you’re a she/they w a bf, you’re basically straight” shit that i see running rampant in some queer spaces. it literally comes back to that biphobic stereotype that we just want attention, and then when we say “hey that’s fucked up” it’s like “you want to be oppressed so bad!” like we just can’t win lol anyway i love being bisexual and i love being a she/they w a bf and biphobes can fuck off
#YES i know being able to pass as str8 is a privilege. YES i know passing as cis is a privilege#don’t make me pull up the stats on bi ppl and intimate partner violence#tw biphobia#maddi vents#being bisexual is a huge part of my identity and i am queer whether i look like a basic bitch w a bf or not#yes i saw a biphobic tiktok and got mad at all the comments agreeing w it so i had to post on my blog that no one reads. and?
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cotton candy cookie from cookie run is omnisexual, lovegender, and catgender!
#said out loud to my bf on call that cookie run characters on mogai flags is like. thats where youre supposed to be yeah#looked up cotton candy cookie and went Yeah this is omni lovegneder catgender . I fully agree#cotton candy cookie#cookie run#omnisexual#lovegender#catgender#cookie run ovenbreak#mogai#mogai headcanons#liom#liom headcanons#endo safe
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#ive come to realize something. ive always had mixed feelings on guys and ive realized my feelings now#basically; im not someone who hates men but i tend to be highly critical of them compared to how i am with women#like i always found the man hating feminists annoying and never agreed with their unhinged takes.#but there were certain aspects of guys that i could never shake off being uncomfortable about#there are of course exceptions. i love my bf for who he is#but even then i still have problems with him which is literally not even about him; its his male friends he has.#what also doesnt help was learning more private things about my bfs brother and how he treats the women in his life...#i now have a pretty negative perception on him too#and i think its just...bias? i know im not being fair thinking this way and i wish i didnt#guess my experience with the men in my life growing up made me this way...
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