#lifeposts

[melancholybliss92]

Tips For Success

It's been awhile since I have posted. I know there are some that actually found my blog because I see likes and reblogs. I don't have time to mess around with youtube editing. I been wanting to start a mental health youtube channel but I never got around to do it. I am super busy and I am not even married with NO kids haha.

I just want to say for those who are feeling alone, or they are with toxic people, whoever those toxic people are. Try your best to get all the help you need, and get the FUCK OUT of the situation and away from the toxic people in your life. I learned things the hard way and when I finally got away from all the toxic people in my life, I was already pushing my mid twenties . I am 31 yrs old and I still look super young and I sound young lol. This makes me a target everywhere I go. I developed a thick wall and I don't trust anybody really.

Remember, It is better to be Alone than to be with the wrong, jealous people who only want you close so they can destroy you. Pay attention to how people around you respond when you start to do well for yourself . When you start to do well , are the people around you happy, congratulating you and asking you to go out to eat or do anything because they see you winning? If they see you winning and they continue to make snide, sneaky jealous comments, they question you even further about your life and how you do things, and they don't seem happy for you... They give off weird bipolar vibes and they continue to pry into your business. Its time for you to block, delete, cut off contact, whatever you do, its time to burn bridges. The reason why I used the term "people around you" because there is alot in your social circle right. Friends, family, partner etc.

Let me tell you something. Writing my past and current situation would be like writing a script for a 3 hour movie. I am not going to bother but I have alot of experience dealing with fake, jealous, toxic, stalkerish people. I use to be scared of living alone and being alone. But meeting all this weird trash made me realize, ITS BETTER TO live alone, be alone, the right people will gravitate towards you over time. When you are alone and live alone. No one is jealous of you, no one is poking in your business, making sneaky jealous comments about you and what you are doing with your life. You work, you leave your job, you go find another job, you go back to school, whatever. You come home to peace and quiet and all of your things is there. If you dont have alot of things, trust me , over time you will buy things for your place. It takes time, dont worry about being broke or not having anything yet. The luxury is that no one is plotting against you when you live alone. I dont like living with room mates either because I like to have my own space and walk around naked, eat whenever I want. Like seriously, when you live alone, You run your life, you plan your meals, you learn how to be independent , you do whatever you want and you find yourself. Only then when you see what life is like without toxic people, you will find true happiness. Just be careful and watch your back when you live alone.

From what I have seen, jealous people who are failures are miserable and sneaky stalkers. They can't do anything by themselves and they are fake. It could be alot of reasons on how they are fake. They got a job because they knew someone and they never worked hard for what they want and they never worked hard to go look for a job by themselves. Maybe they dont have their own place they gotta Hoe around and be in fake relationships to move into someone else's house. Maybe they never worked hard a day in their life to get what they want, they always use other people to buy them shit or they was raised to be a loser and wait for family to provide them . They cant fend for themselves. They see you are something they are not so they will focus all their energy on you. I had this happen to me more than once I know what I am talking about.

They play like they are on your side at the beginning. They act super nice to you and understanding. Slowly over time, you will see that They can't mind they business . slowly over time, TRUST ME, you will sit there one day and ask yourself, "what is wrong with me, why is this person saying this and that about me, am I wrong or are they wrong. Am I crazy or its them thats crazy. why did I let them make all this comments about me and I didnt say anything back".

When you reach that stage where you are asking yourself this, you are dealing with a lowlife psychopath lmao. They are reversing their failures onto you. They are Projecting their personality onto you and they will try to disrespect you, then copy your personality and stalk every move you make. The outcome is that they want to start shit with you and fight you to slow you down on your success. Thats why its better to cut off contact and its not worth it.

There is actually a lot of discussion I found on Quora.com that was talking about jealous crazy people. Some girl responded to this person, she said why would you want to fight with someone who can't mind their own business. They have been waiting for the day to drag you down and by arguing and fighting them, you are giving them what they want.

Its almost like a ghost, a leech or a parasite all in one. They want you tied to them so they repeat the cycle of drama, jealous comments, drama and plotting, scheming, more drama. When you cut off all contact, you win the game and break the cycle. when you respond and choose to fight them , you are rebonding trash to yourself like a ghost following you around haunting you repeating the cycle. I had enough of this type of lowlife trash. They will fuck their own selves over anyways, dont bother and learn to be independent.

That's why I only hang with 2-3 people at a time to see who they are . I never involve myself in a large circle of friends and I dont give a fuck about how many friends and family I have left. I mind my business and focus on money, working, and real estate.

[astralightning]

Me walking out of Across the Spider-verse like

[nooomagnus]

yeah sex is good but have you ever tried eating a mango so juicy that you have to stand over the sink so it can drip down your chin, so ripe that you could peel it with just your fingers, sinking your teeth into luscious flesh over and over, sweet pulp bursting in your mouth and spilling down your throat, gnawing at the pit until you've scraped up every last drop of its sweetness yeah okay that's just sex again

[gallifreyanhotfive]

Someone remind me to put on my glasses before I start tumblring this is the second time I have almost reblogged a picture of Princess Leia to my doctor who blog because I thought it was a picture of the Eighth Doctor

[catholickedd]

i’ve been having an issue lately with getting really caught up in all the bad and the horror of the world and just, not being able to enjoy the moment because of the cruelty that exists all around me. so please, reblog with a good thing that happened to you / that you saw happen recently. no negativity allowed. keep this post circulating so i can be reminded that there is good in the world 💕💕

[tastylemonbread]

[loserboyfriendrjl]

hi!

so, you might have noticed (or maybe not) that on the past few weeks i have been less active on tumblr (given that i used to post daily), having days in which i haven’t posted at all, and most of my posts have been very short recently, including shitposts and mostly dialogue.

one of the reasons is that i’ve been very busy in my outside-of-the-internet life. the other reason is that i do not find as much joy in the marauders fandom as i used to. i don’t feel as drawn to the characters as i used to, and the fandom isn’t that attractive to me anymore either, due to multiple reasons.

is this goodbye? no, yes, maybe. i’m not sure. i might come back, or i might not.

however, this is a step back from the fandom, generally speaking. i will talk about them in dms or asks and i might make a post every once in a while, but it will not be the focus of my account anymore, most likely. i will post my writing, i will post about my life. i might make a new account, who knows? feel free to unfollow me if my decision is not a good one, according to you, and feel free to unfollow me if the content i might start posting will not appeal to you.

however, thank you to everyone who will stay 🫶

[mildew-mop]

I remember as a kid that I would get so upset and jealous over people who were "allowed" to use stuff like wheelchairs or walkers or crutches. Like I would complain about how it "wasn't fair" that some people get to use stuff that makes walking or moving around easier and less painful.

And then I finally grew up and moved out and got crutches, and now it's easier and less painful to do shit. Big fuck you to my parents for always telling me I was fine.

[warcrimesimulator]

Walked to the store to buy salad but they're all out of salad so I bought a plastic horse instead

[stackofeggs]

i wonder if bdubs grieved

[nooomagnus]

the moon controlling the tides is such good worldbuilding

[gallifreyanhotfive]

Binging the Trial of a Time Lord while sick. Maybe this will heal me.

[catholickedd]

hi @ genius lyrics annotator saying that nobodys soldier is about hozier’s relationship with his fans what if i threw you off a building (in minecraft)

hes stated! multiple times! that it’s an anti-war song!

but people love to ignore hozier’s political messages in favor of calling him the little innocent bogman forest king fae elf like actually stop. he is not your woodland spirit he is a real man with political opinions i’m so fucking sick of this

[tastylemonbread]

i love sneezing. sometimes when it happens too much i get lightheaded and my shoulder starts to hurt

[loserboyfriendrjl]

this might sound cheesy but i hope that one day someone will love me and that i will love someone the way my parents love each other

[wrenchswango]

irene in her fort