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Am I your soulmate?

Happy Friday y’all!! I’m not crazy, my reality is just different than y’all’s… I Choose to be optimistic it just feels better.. And just for the record, not all positive change feels positive in the beginning. But once you replace the negative thoughts with positive ones, you’ll start to have positive results. So I’m giving you all a smile to start your day, a prayer to bless your way, a song…

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It's official...i give up

And the title States it’s official I’m giving up. I’m giving up trying to have a relationship again. Well over a month now I’ve tried to wrap my head around not being valued anymore by the man I gave my heart too. Since the end of January… I am no longer a priority in my boyfriend’s life. Perhaps 5 months is all I get in this life to be happy In love. You see he got an unexpected house guest.…

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Celebrate each day

Happy Thursday yall!!! Celebrate it… And never wish away a second of your life!! Each And everyday should have at least one exquisite moment..appreciate it.. today only comes once. Learn to appreciate what you have … Before time makes you appreciate what you had. Somedays I struggle more mentally than others,  we all do!! Be kind because you don’t know what somebody else is going…

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Finally seeing changes

It’s Tuesday y’all.. Sometimes lately people ask me about my weight loss journey. And I explained that I’m on a semi-glutide shot. Sometimes I hear comments about people that take glp-1 medications like ozympic, or semaglutide,  wegovy that “they are taking the easy way out” Which cannot be more wrong. It’s simply a tool to Aid in my own willpower. Yes… it’s a great tool. It’s not a miracle.…

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Mental journey!

Happy Monday afternoon y’all!! On The Daily I interact with people for different reasons… I love meeting new people and hearing their stories. And I know some people get down on themselves because they let other people’s words or judgments of them affect how they feel about themselves. Negativity can distract you from your goals.. never judge somebody when you have no idea the storms they have…

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Hello November!

It’s November y’all, the month of being thankful for the life you live!! Happiness is a mood. Positivity is a mindset. The month of November is a time of reflection and gratitude. Reflect on your accomplishments and be grateful for how far you’ve come. Be thankful for all that you have already…even if you want more! This is one of my worst traits that I need to work on. But we all need to let…

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Walk away

Good Tuesday morning to y’all!!! I’m finally learning how to walk away from people and situations that threaten my peace of mind, self-respect, or myself worth! Knowing when to walk away is wisdom, being able to is courage… understand that Learning to walk away is hard but staying to suffer is harder. Walk away from people who put you down. Walk away from fights that will never be resolved.…

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Don't be a clown

Don’t be a clown

It’s Thursday y’all! The photo I have posted today is how I have felt for the last few months… But that is ending. Every day I am fixing myself mentally. And you can too. The only keeper of your happiness is you. Stop giving people power to control your smile, you’re worth or your attitude. Self control is strength. Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life. Happiness is a…

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Illuminate the world

It’s Friday y’all! Are you creating a life that you love? Are you creating a life that you can’t wait to wake up to? Do it!! Always find time for things that make you feel happy to be alive. For the last year or so I’ve been struggling with depression… Like many of my friends and family. Most of my struggles have been financial. Slowly I am figuring it out.. the bottom line is that becoming…

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Move, you are not a tree!

Happy Tuesday y’all!! This Month is about making positive changes in life. try to do something every single day that your future self will thank you for. So I went to kayaking last night with Laura Clark for the first time this year and we had a wonderful time. The secret to change is to focus all your energy not on fighting the old, but building the new. After all if nothing changed then…

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Shake off that attitude

Happy Monday y’all! I would like to apologize to everyone.. I have had a negative attitude for the last month.. criticizing myself, picking my life apart.. focusing on negative things.. But that stops NOW! Focusing on the negative is the quickest way to unhappiness.. We all struggle in life. I know some days it’s hard to find things that are positive. But attitude is everything so pick a good…