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[babygirlharrington]

OKAY guys I pulled the trigger. Please join if you are a STRANGER THINGS fan and you are GAY AS FUCK. then share with your OTHER STRANGER THINGS fans who are ALSO GAY AS FUCK. 

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[daydreamalldaycryallnight]

Is seeking asylum safe? I am a middle Eastern atheist LGBT person so is it safe?

Any replies is great and welcome

[usagichanp]

I fuckin NEED recommendations of books like These Violent Delights by Micah Nemerever, this book is like CRACK to me

[bevsi]

How did you and your wife meet? pls I need to hear love stories💓🩷💓!!

we met in college at a LGBT barbecue & she went up to me and asked “are u a lesbian?” I was like “idk probably” and then she played footsie with me and invited me to a party. because she was pretty friendly with everyone I assumed I wasn’t special and was really oblivious for a few months. until she kissed me and asked me out. I was like “sorry 🥺 idk yet 🥺 can I have more time to think I’m sensitive 🥺” and left her hanging for like a month because I was 19 and didn’t know how annoying I was being :’D

then on new years (states away) she texted me “if we were dating I would kiss u at midnight” to which I replied “we are dating”

[tirfpikachu]

new permanent link for my tirfy/nuancefem discord server!! (18+)

https://discord.gg/V9whxMhHyq

we finally figured out how to make it so newbies in the server have to make an intro & have a chat with a mod first before being able to interact. so you'll be able to lurk around a bit but unless you actually tell us a bit more about you and your journey in feminist and/or lgbt spaces, you won't be able to actually reply in most channels.

come aboard and join our fight for nuance on radblr!! 🧡🧡

*jsyk we are trans inclusive! we welcome diverse voices, so long as no one is being homophobic against same-sex/agab attracted folks, or ofc misogynistic against female/afab people. we are super open to newly peaked folks or feminist lurkers, just pls be chill and respectful. fyi we use male/female as neutral sex-based terms, and we have a rule against unnecessary misgendering. we strongly prefer the terms transmasc & transfems to TIFs and TIMs. we do a mix of deep, insightful talks and tons of goofing around. i also do recorded streams for both my youtube channel & the pokegyns yt channel :]

[sadsstoptalkingfr]

Spencer Reid rant

This pissed me off so bad I can't type correctly 😭😭😭 (the @ is not the person who said this btw that's who they are replying to)

LOUD AND WRONG.

"personal comfort"

You shouldn't be uncomfortable listening to someone you claim to be friends with ramble about their interests. It's common decency to listen when your friend is speaking to you.

"supposed autistic"

If I (a woman) started dating another woman I had romantic feelings for but I never confirmed that I was LGBT am I straight?

Just because it wasn't confirmed that Reid is autistic doesn't mean it's not true.

"accommodate reids rambles"

It shouldn't be a burden to listen to your friends talk about things they like And it shouldn't be a burden to treat your friends like humans. in fact most friendships consist of going back and forth about random topics even if you don't care for said topic bc you enjoy spending time with said friend . If you can't do either of those things yet you still constantly tell someone you are their friend and you care about them but when they hang out with you they can't be themselves you are the problem.

If you said "that reminds me, I've been watching this show recently and-" and I said "(says your name in an unamused tone to get you to stop talking)" or "what are the homework answers?" While you were still talking Would that make you feel small?

Keep in mind these are grown ass adults acting like this towards their "friend"💀💀

Pls grow up🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 hope this helps!!😁

[releaseholiday]

work for an Odeon cinema in the UK and we always watch new films before putting them on our screens just to ensure they run smoothly. We've had to send some back in the past.

Anyway, I saw aotv yesterday and was disappointed. It's rated 15 for explicit language because Louis swears constantly except when he's with Freddie, who features a lot. He does talk about how some fans won't accept F and how it hurts him. He also says that he's had to come to terms with being lied to about the hiatus and that Harry split 1d because he wanted a massive solo career. Nothing about Larries except Charlie says 'you have a lot of lgbt fans' and Louis replies 'yes, even though I'm straight, it's weird.' 😖

There are some scenes in Mexico and at the Barnet house with the dogs, and an E mention back in 2020 during the pandemic but the film ends before they split up with fitf getting a number one. Most of it is like afhf film on steroids with lots of concert footage, backstage drinking.

Bestie pls tell me you’re a troll bc if that’s true…rip to Louis

[jojotichakorn]

okay, pls don’t be rude and practice some reading comprehension, I said MY lgbtq community. MINE. the people around me that I call my family. thanks for the reply

okay, pls don't be passive-agressive and learn how to express your thoughts properly, the phrase "lgbt community" can't be used to name the x amount of your queer friends because your family is certainly not an entire community in any context. thanks for coming into my inbox twice over a post that was never tagged as anything but 'archer speaks' which is kind of universally done so someone behind an anon wouldn't jump into a debate with me, this was not fun

[pansyboybloom]

What is is like going to the gyno while trans? I’m 19 and haven’t gone to one before, as a trans person the idea scares me. I don’t mind being referred to as a girl or women and I’ve accepted it’s not something I can change in my life right now, but I know the whole situation of being at a gyno will make me start to feel even worse about my situation. Do you have any tips on hyping myself up before and then calming down after wards?

so, it really depends on your doctor imo. I've worked with mine since I was 19, and while I don't necessarily like her, I trust her to respect me and my body. i went through my local lgbt clinic to find her via requesting some recommendations for trans/nb experienced and affirming gynos, and made sure to contact her ahead of time to let her know any and every detail she might need regarding my gender to make our appointment go more smoothly, including anything medical ive had done or plan to do. Obviously, this is the best-case scenario and not possible for everyone, but if you're in the central texas/austin area i def recommend the Texas health action's list of trans-friendly doctors. I see dr. kaufmen and even if she's a bit cold, she's always been respectful.

as for getting there and hyping up/down, unfortunately, im not the best to ask. i have a major fear of doctors and extreme dysphoria regarding others touching my genitalia so i usually cry the entire time :| but bringing a trusted friend to hold your hand and getting ice cream (or other treats) as a reward is what i do! Does anybody else have tips they'd be willing to share? i'd super appreciate it

all and all, having people to help affirm your gender prior to and after the appointment helps the most for me. it's very personal and takes time to find what works and what doc you like, but gyno health is important, esp if you start T. it doesn't get talked abt as much as id like, but t can cause vaginal atrophy (which is fully treatable!) and trans people w vaginas often develop vaginismus, which is when trauma/sex anxiety/fear of penetration/dysphoria causes an involuntary tightening of the pelvic floor, causing extreme pain and difficulty during penetrative sex, and so talking to a gyno can be helpful to have a healthy sex life. also, cancer screenings are important, so finding a way to make the gyno work for you, while hard, is really necessary!

Anyway, off my soapbox. if anyone else has advice, pls pls pls reply/reblog/send an ask in!!

[sound-traveller]

snailchans-kitty -> sound-traveller

°☆welcome to the imaginary express!☆°

🇵🇸 have you gotten your daily clicks in today?

(2024 note:)

PLS SEND UR ASKS AGAIN IF I HAVENT REPLIED TO THEM YET!!!

I've had issues a few months ago with tumblr ask editing and ended up. deleting a lot of stuff by accident so pls send it over again!!! tysm ^^

-snowy / walnut / hydrangea

-17 y/o

-aroace lesbian, nonbinary (any but she/her)

-main blog is @kittensnowie

-carrd (list of f/os and s/is + kins)

hi! welcome to my little selfshipping corner =w=

-my blog is mostly centered around my platonic f/os, although i might post about my romantic f/os once in a while. -i'm usually pretty cool with sharing my f/os in any way!

-i am a walnut cookie psychological fictkin which impacts some of my selfships. feel free to ask me for my other kins if needed!

-feel free to tag me for whatever you'd like!! ^^

If we're mutuals, please tag the following with "#snowy don't look". It's not needed ofc but it helps!

-any content about my familial f/os that is suggestive or sexualizing them

-baguette × coffee candy, lotus dragon × hydrangea

-anything with bodily fluids

-mouth-to-mouth kissing (i know this makes me sound like a little kid im so sorry)

DNI if-

-you fit basic DNI criteria (lgbt-phobic, racist, MAP / Zoo, etc.)

-proship / neutral

-you are a part of the Countryhumans or DSMP fandom

(might add more later on)

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-analysis / infodump tag

thats it for now!! ty for reading >w<

[babygirlharrington]

thanks everyone for 500 followers!

would anybody be interested in a discord server for trans stranger things fans? or simply lgbt stranger things fans……

🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈let me know !!🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

[throwaway-yandere]

This is a highly controversial question that could probably get me canceled on this website so I need to be careful with how I word this but please, PLEASE, explain to me why you use they/them pronouns? Is it even rude to ask that?? A little bit of background so you can understand where I'm coming from PLS DON'T COME FOR MY NECK JUST YET BUT I live in Eastern Europe and everything is very conservative here, everything, people are still stuck in the 19th century when it comes to the LGBT community and whatnot. I never knew people used they/them pronouns until I first joined Tumblr back in 2017 and for YEARS I was just like "Ah, ok cool, I'll just call them that. I don't really know and understand why people pick these pronouns but I feel bad for not calling them something they don't like." There are always special snowflakes online that use the pronouns to gain some sort of attention (be it good or bad...) but there seems to be a genuine number of individuals that uses them for a reason, not just to gain petty internet attention or whatever. I trust you so that's why I'm asking you, I'm still a little in the dark when it comes to these things, I hope you see where I'm coming from 🥲

JDKAOWOQO OH NO ACTUALLY I FEEL LIKE MY ANSWER IS MORE CONTROVERSIAL HAHAHAH–

and huhu you're not rude at all!!! I totally get what you mean when you get this feeling that people are doing it for attention huhuhuhu

I feel so flattered that you trust me but I have a feeling I'm not the right person to ask this... um... I use they/them mostly because I just wanna set boundaries, that's all hahaha ;;---;;

"... that's probably the most boring answer you could give huh ansytea" yEAH WELL IT'S THE TRUTH AND I'M A BAD LIAR so yeah this is my honest to God reply

First: I don't want to explicitly give away too much of who I am in the internet like what's my real name, gender, country, etc. I feel like it's not safe at all considering this is a dark content blog huhu. The internet's pretty dang scary. Cuz doxxing and all that...

But I think I can understand where most people are coming from when they use they/them pronouns, they just don't feel like they belong in a certain standard of masculinity or femininity– or at least they feel like they exude both sides enough.

Honestly, I'm not sure if I'm nonbinary at all. All I know is that I'm ace and possibly aro. I have a name that's more common to the opposite gender than "what's in one's pants"– and I feel a strange disconnect with the gender that's given to me?

My reasonings are going to be very specific so it wouldn't really apply to everyone who uses they/them pronouns huhu:

I was raised knowing that my parents wanted me to be the opposite gender since I'm their second child haha. I always end up on the other gender's list when the teacher does a rollcall my whole life, and everytime I introduce myself it's always "Oh I thought you're a ____ because of your name!" and maybe I'm just a weakling but it kinda bugs me to the point that I go "... yeah I wish I was a ____ too."

I don't feel like a boy. I don't feel like a girl. I don't know where I belong between those two sexes and there just comes a point where you're tired of just trying to please whatever perception people have of you? Hahaha I am NOT making sense I am so sorry miss ana 😭

I'm from a very conservative country too so there are times I feel like I'm not feminine/masculine enough compared to people my age and (admittedly) I get a bit irritable/hurt whenever people force those standards on me lol. I just wanna live life without all those things, I guess. It's tiring hearing those aunties say you're not good enough and that you should look more aesthetically pleasing to get the attention of the other gender like auntie I'm asexual I don't wanna get hitched–

I'm honestly fine if people assume that I'm a boy/girl online and call me by other pronouns lololol, but will I ever actually admit what's my assigned gender? Probably not unless we're close my comrades and haha unfortunately I used to have a tendency to trust easily. I feel comfortable being called they/them, and that's just how it is lololol

Ajeioaoa ughhhh im so frustrated that my response probably isn't helpful because I can't explain it myself the only thing I can give you is my experiences ༼⁠;⁠´⁠༎ຶ⁠ ⁠۝ ⁠༎ຶ⁠༽ yejakeiaosooaoa iM SO SORRY FOR LETTING YOU DOWN–

[otogariado]

found a thread made by a japanese mlm about the fujoshi label, in response to a tweet that's now deleted. thought it provided some insight so i'm gonna share it anyway. thread was originally from twitter on august 3 2020. he also linked resources in the thread as well as a poll from JP twt about if they should keep the label or not, which i didn't include here but you can find by accessing the post source.

obvs disclaimer, communities are not a monolith and one person isn't the end all be all of a discussion, but i think we should consider and listen to what he says anyway. especially if we're not from japan. op uses he/they according to their twitter bio.

@/matchamallow from twitter: "As a japanese mlm... Please don't spread more misinformation about the word fujoshi. 😅 It's simply a woman who likes BL. It's also a reclaimed word in Japan so making it a bad word again is not nice. Plus BL is very important to LGBT movement in Japan."

@/bokutosbooty replies: "I’m sorry!! i didn’t mean to start fujoshi discourse or try to change its meaning. It’s just that in the west i’ve been seeing a LOT of western mlm be uncomfortable w the term bc of its negative implications and associations set by those who fetishize mlm."

@/matchamallow replies: "Don't worry! And yes I know many self proclaimed fujoshi in the west behave very poorly. I think we should fight the behaviour and not the word, you know? Because of course I don't agree with how they act, but I also dislike seeing a word from my culture with so much history be associated with that. I don't blame anyone for conflating the two! I'm just trying to show resources so we can fight misinformation and bad behaviour together without demonizing a word."

@/bokutosbooty: "yes!! THANK YOU for leaving your thread and pointing out the real problem of fighting the behavior rather than fighting the word!! it saddens me to see fujoshi has such a negative undertone in the west bc thats very disrespectful to japanese otaku who have reclaimed the term"

@/matchamallow: "Yes, that's why I think we should recognize its origins and context. There's nothing inherently wrong with being or calling yourself a fujoshi - the wrong thing is being disrespectful to real people. We should strive to educate them and clear up the meaning of fujoshi."

@/matchamallow: "Again I don't blame anyone for being uncomfortable with the word or disliking some of their behaviour. That's very understandable. I just want to clear up misunderstandings how I can and focus more on the behaviour, not the word. And thank you for listening!!"

@/bokutosbooty: "thank you for sharing your information!! hopefully all of the fujoshi discourse ends and the focus solely on fixing bad behaviors as we both stated!! pls take care and have a good day!!"

[dteamain]

my hot toxic take and if it's too spicy you can delete and not post but pls don't block me: while it'd be weird to conclude george definitely likes guys a year or so ago because most of it would be founded off of dream and it was still not yet clear if it was all a bit, it's Not weird to say george clearly likes men now because george himself acts open about it (dream, and also the dream daddy stream jesus christ george I love you but stand up), he flirts with men and there's stories of it (the zaddy thing), tubbo, tommy and quackity have in passing made jokes or referred to him as gay in a way where the joke isn't that he's gay but it's just information that leads to the joke, etc. and george is a smart guy who knows how he comes off seeming attracted to men in front of what he knows is a large lgbt audience, especially after having to deal with questions and invasiveness for years that he didn't deserve to deal with. but now he acts that way openly. and he's self aware. so I don't think it's weird to note george acting like he likes guys and note he likes guys cause this time it's not informed off weird invasive assumptions or stereotypes but just who and how george is, and someone shouldn't have to provide a clear personal explanation of what they are in order to have their attraction be noted as part of them

okay so sorry for the late reply. i needed to stop and really sit with this one. any talk about sexuality needs to be handled carefully and with nuance.

in general i want to say that i agree with you. I also think the wording is a bit off. despite the wording i think you hit a pretty important point that most people tend to miss when it comes to sexuality and i would like to elaborate: attraction and sexuality are not strictly co-dependant.

as well you hit another great point that can be elaborated: the importance of being accepting to queer-like qualities no matter the sexuality of the person possessing said qualities

at the end of the day from what we know george is straight. that is what he said and regardless of the circumstances we have to respect that.

but just because george said he is straight doesn't mean we can't accept and/or acknowledge when he does or says something queer-leaning

part of helping people feel comfortable in their sexuality, regardless of what that sexuality is, is letting them be who they are and showing support in that.

pointing out that george seems attracted/interested in certain men is not inherently bad and acting like it is puts out the idea that people must pick a label and stick within that strict label. it perpetuates the idea that straight men can't be anything but platonic bros with other men and can't show intimate and complex feelings to other men as well. it is an active participation in toxic masculinity.

at the end of the day just because you are a straight man doesn't mean there are not any men that you find attractive and/or have an interest in a deeper connection with. your attraction to people isn't always limited by the sexuality you label yourself with. sexuality is such a fluid spectrum and i actually refuse to pin a label to mine for this reason.

allowing george to see that it is perfectly fine that he enjoyed a game where he flirts with men, or that he is more open to affection from men, or that he can joke about wanting dream to hold his hand is only allowing him to see that intimacy with men is normal and not a bad thing regardless of his sexuality.

so while i don't think we can just go ahead and say he is queer, we can support him in a way that allows him to explore his sexuality without any judgement.

[h0oty]

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I am a DID system host. I don't post about this often but to give some context as to why I refer to myself as a bird rather than a human LOL

I draw stuff! You probably know me from MLP art if you're on here but i work on all sorts of projects (i need to post more fr) please feel free to ask me about anything whenever i love it

I'd love to do art professionally some day, but for now im just a guy Feel free to send a dm at any time but keep in mind i have the social skills of a wet piece of bread and i might get too shy to answer. u have my explicit permission to spam me until i reply /gen

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Before you follow:

i don't have a real dni because no one respects it. if youre a creep or we disagree on important morals i will block you

this is not a safe space for bigotry (racism, lgbtphobia, ect.) and this extends to things like "contradictory labels" of lgbt people. (basically, idc if someone is a 'mspec lesbian' or whatever thats their choice and gender is made up!!!!)

i use my art to cope and therefore may explore dark topics in my art. im going to start posting more of whatever i want so if you need something tagged please lmk! anything generally agreed as upsetting will already have a warning

that being said i do NOT tag HEALED scars, deformities, or amputations. i believe bodies should not need to be censored like that its the same as saying "cw freckles" ☆⁎⁺˳✧༚*༚✧˳⁺⁎☆ ☆⁎⁺˳✧༚*༚✧˳⁺⁎☆ ☆⁎⁺˳✧༚*༚✧˳⁺⁎☆ ☆⁎⁺˳✧༚*༚✧˳⁺⁎☆ Not a formal DNI because I know people like this aren't gonna listen but I'll probably block you if:

you're proship OR antiship* ( i obviously dont condone proshipping BUT i don't condone harassing them either, as they're usually misguided kids or traumatized. its always better to let ppl know WHY stuff is bad and help them grow rather than just saying they all suck and should die.)

zionist (im palestinian why r you here)

believe in or condone "sfw fetish" content (this does not mean liking it means posting kink art with no warnings where kids can access it because its ""sfw""/non-sexual PLS KEEP KIDS SAFE ONLINE GUYS!!!)

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also note that among various horrors i have BPD so i can get emotionally driven and impulsive. i have gotten a lot better w/ it and am making efforts not to but sometimes i will vagepost on a whim if something upsets me or get argumentative with obvious anon trolls . i am working on it just hit me with a "stop that" if im being wacky

[gl00mxstar]

ayoooooooo

guyssssssssss

if I'll suddenly stop making any posts especially the ones where I express my profound love for jesters and overshare my private life it means I'm dead

imma try to keep it short

so there was some dude on the news that attacked other with a katana and since my father isn't a sane person he said that's a good thing and he's on this guys side and said he doesn't know the reason why he attacked him but that he's still the good guy here

right after that they started to talk abt lGbT iDoLoGy (ooooh scary gayssss oh nooooo) and ofc he said he'd 'cut them gays and lesbians like that too'

the most logical and safe (it's not pls don't act like me) thing I did was to walk up to him and to do it

he said he doesn't have a reason to, I pointed at tv and yelled at him that he just said he'd cut them up and to do it since I'm not hetero

he stayed silent so I repeated myself, he didn't want to talk

idk if I'm in danger cuz on one hand he could hurt me but on the other he's all bark no bite most of the time so ig the worst thing abt him is that he's unpredictable in some way

so yeah if I stop posting and replying then I'm either gone or in hospital

I told my cousin to notify ya'll if something happened to me, and no I won't ever do a prank where I tell u I'm dead cuz it's shitty and not funny