#leave my blog and followers alone

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Ngl autistic meltdowns are really funny to me, thank you for talking about them I've been watching videos of them all day and laughing my ass off

Hi there,

Not sure if this is a joke or not, but they aren’t funny. They come from intense distress and negative emotions.

The fact that you think this is honestly disturbing. People are already faking things like this and it’s affecting how/if we get accommodations both in school and the outside world.

If you’re trolling, just leave this blog. This is about understanding and acceptance. Not people who find things like a mental meltdown funny or silly.

I have nothing more the say.

Goodbye

[crimsonconstl]

Halloween time I guess

An alt greyscale version (my fav) and some coraline pidge + classic werewolf Keith & vamp Lance

[inkskinned]

im gonna start a fight; and, at the same time, i need you to take this in the most good-faith way possible, but:

videos that involve body-checking and intentionally (and uncritically) show a mealplan of an unhealthy number of calories are just a revamped version of pro-ana food diaries.

and yeah, i know there's arguments. i address some of them under the cut. but at the end of the day, we're just coming back to romanticizing mental illness; we've just found a better platform for it.

this is already something we've done. we knew it was wrong and tried to stop it. and tbh. it just wasn't enough.

there are people who argue "well, what if you have an eating disorder, you can't help it if you don't eat!" except that as someone with an ED; we are not infants. we know what we're doing. part of having an ED is that you are like, maybe too self-aware. even if we can't help our own food choices, we don't need to fucking romanticize the disorder - something we've been warning you about since 2013. there are hours of setup, filming, and editing that go into these videos. they do not happen to fall into place randomly. there is a reason they are pieced together to be beautiful, bright, inspiring.

there's this woman who pretty much only posts daily plans under a normal amount of calories, and everyone defends her saying but it's better than nothing! and i'm like. except she opens those with images of her showing off her body and provides no context in the video or caption that suggests that she believes what she's doing is unhealthy. she has hundreds of thousands of followers on a platform designed for young kids and teens. i refuse to believe that by accident her content just happens to be cheery advice on "healthy" versions of starving.

for any other symptom of mental illness, we would be incredibly enraged by this kind of placid acceptance of a "tips and tricks" fast-start guide. imagine if people posted pink & pretty videos saying "best places to cut yourself" as if it was a fucking storytime. we, as a society, are so fucking fatphobic that we would rather accept blatantly harmful displays of self harm than admit that we are obsessed with a hyper-thin body type.

i am not suggesting someone never talks about their disorder. i talk about mine. actually, it's a plot point in my book.

here's the difference: i recognize it's a fucking mental illness. i am very careful to never mention a specific weight, eating pattern, or calorie plan. i always make sure to position it as something that ruined my fucking life. i do not put cheery music in the background and hearts and sparkles over my worst moments. i do not film it in bright light. i do not start each passage with an image of a thin body followed by "here's how to look like her."

eating disorders should not be framed as aspirational. and the problem is that society worships the "after" image, so long as you don't get too sick. there is a reason so many people who quit being "influencers" will later admit - i wasn't eating well that whole time; an obsession with food was completely destroying my life.

we let any uncredited, uncertified person write the most backwards, fucked up shit about how to get the body you desire! because the underlying, secret belief is: well, at least they're thin! and the real thing that fucking gets me each time - they make fucking money off of it. their irresponsibility and societal harm literally pays off for them.

"why do you care so much." "don't like it don't look." "so what if people experiment with new ways of thinking of food?"

thank you for asking. we're about to get extremely personal. it's because when i was 18 i discovered "thinspiration"/"thinspo." and it absolutely influenced, shaped, and codified my pre-existing eating disorder. i went from having some troubling habits and traits to being incredibly unwell within what felt like a matter of days. there were actual pages designed to train me on how to have an ED correctly. it was all so suddenly easy. i was sick; and the nature of the illness meant - i wanted to be sicker.

it takes an average of 7 years for a person to fully recover. i know this personally - even now, 10 years from the worst of it, i still fucking struggle. i am so much happier now and i eat what i want and i literally don't think about food at all (19 year old me would shudder) and yet - i still fucking know the calories of plain toast with butter.

an eating disorder is one of the deadliest types of mental illness. over 1 in 4 people with an ED will attempt suicide.

and i'm sorry. i just do not see the exchange rate of "high rate of engagement" versus "the value of a human life."

[lale-txt]

“bot creator” oh you mean a fucking loser

[zzeiic]

hot take. it's so infuriating to see the writers on here properly tag and give warnings for the content that they write/post and to see someone purposefully ignore the very obvious warnings just to turn around and shit on the writer.

They did what they were supposed to, hell, most times they go above and beyond and put exactly what triggers, cut the post off so you have to click into it to read, etc- just for someone who was properly warned to get their panties in a twist.

like she's been gone for a while but i fucking miss Kazooli's work, there's been so many dark writers who have left or are thinking of leaving/posting less because people decide to consume content that they don't like.

you're allowed to write about dark things- I eat that shit up and lots of others do as well and if you personally don't like it you can scroll away, block that creator and stop interacting with it so it stops showing up on your feed.

[dykevanny]

had a really funny idea for an ask blog ft. Vanny and another plex employee oc,,

[grennseyelashes]

Ilyn Payne floats around Sansa's storyline like an omen, and so later we think oh, of course, it was foreshadowing that he would kill her father and she would watch, but what if it isn't just that? I don't think Jaime was anywhere near the mark when he decided Ilyn living in alcoholic squalour meant he "cares for naught but killing", this is obviously not a man who's got his dream job. So remembering that, let's go back, why does this scene happen:

There was general laughter, led by Lord Renly himself. The tension of a few moments ago was gone, and Sansa was beginning to feel comfortable… until Ser Ilyn Payne shouldered two men aside, and stood before her, unsmiling. He did not say a word. Lady bared her teeth and began to growl, a low rumble full of menace, but this time Sansa silenced the wolf with a gentle hand to the head. “I am sorry if I offended you, Ser Ilyn,” she said. She waited for an answer, but none came. As the headsman looked at her, his pale colorless eyes seemed to strip the clothes away from her, and then the skin, leaving her soul naked before him. Still silent, he turned and walked away. Sansa did not understand. She looked at her prince. “Did I say something wrong, Your Grace? Why will he not speak to me?”

Well perhaps he doesnt need to, perhaps there's some "story magic" reason Ilyn in particular can feel Sansa's eyes on him earlier in this scene, and see right down to her soul here. Ilyn Payne's loyalty to his master got him his tongue cut out, and his "reward" for this loyalty, doled out by his next one, has him killing on their command. Just like Sansa could not speak for herself once she was taken hostage by the Lannisters who she had trusted, and still can't now Littlefinger is manipulating her into complicity in the slow murder of Robert Arryn. Ilyn Payne can see Sansa because he is Sansa. And it is a terrible fate.

[ms-all-sunday]

see the full thing on twitter

inspired by staying right here

@mushiemellows

[conjuremanj]

How To Get A Person To Leave You Alone.

This is a old southern working my teacher taught me when I was learning. I wanted to share it with y'all.

If a person cares more about you the you care about them and that person won't leave you alone here's what you need to do.

First gets some clay and mold it into a clay head. (Make a round head shape, indentations for a noise and a mouth & two eyes)

Hallow out the top and put crossroads dirt in it and a petition paper with their name written 9 times then close it up.

Spin the head three times and whisper in it's ear

"Leave Me Alone" Three Times.

[frostycatblr-fandom-files]

We're not Star Wars swearing for this one because someone's really gone and done it and I finally have a moment to properly articulate my feelings...

To the person/s who won't leave Sci of @fives-girlfriend alone and keep comparing those telling you to Rightfully Fuck Off a "Hive" and using bee-coded insults: fuck off and fuck you for doing this on World Bee Day first and foremost.

If you got stung by a bee as a child and that's why you keep using bee-coded insults then it was FULLY deserved. Bees. Do. Not. Sting. Unless they feel endangered. Bees do not want to sting you unless they are confused, stepped on, or threatened, by and large!

SECONDLY; Fuck off and fuck you for being such a nasty, jealous little pest that you are taking it out on someone who is excited to join this fandom and is here to engage with people of similar and like-minded interests. The/A whole driving factor of what makes Tumblr Tumblr is engaging with people through likes and reblogs and commentary.

Or have you forgotten that because you are simply so unpleasant and unwelcoming inside and out that nobody wishes to touch your blog/sideblog(s) with a ten foot pole?

Sci, if there's applications for signing up to join this "Hive" this pathetic sod keeps going on about, consider me signed up, sweet. Keep your anon feature off as long as you need. If that's forever, so be it! Know that good people have your backs (and welcome to the Star Wars / TCW fandom from someone who's recently come back into it after nine years!) 💙

[azeeyfinance]

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[gothoevsky]

men please leave me alone challenge for the love of god

[spxnglr]

Logging onto pc like

[voxsbf]

What about croissants?

hello?? i. i like croissants. very good texture. i don’t like super sweet baked goods with coffee because i drink very sweet coffee a lot of the time so if i want to get a pastry with my coffee i’ll go for that a lot of times. do you like butter a lot by chance these are very typically buttery breads you’re listing

[studying-space-of-annie]

I hate the people from my school so much.

[mothfinite]

what the fuck is happening around here