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So. Everyone who yelled at me yesterday for making a ramble on Reynie going blank and then not resolving it, this is for you: (@lemondropletters, you have been tagged)
Also, it's in a Google Doc because it was definitely too long for a Tumblr post, and ~~I don't know how AO3 works~~
The (vague) premise is that, instead of Constance seeing Curtain's broadcast, they all get to the compound mentally sound, but once there, they split up to look for Mr. Benedict, and instead Reynie finds Curtain. This is the wrap up of what would have happened in the last episode.
#I'm sorry if it's also garbage#My brain hasn't been letting me sleep the last two days so I've just been working on this#And also I've never tried writing fic before so it is highly likely to be bad#But it was certainly a fun experience!#I was like “Oh I'll just rewrite that first post in this new format and then add the notes I had in my drafts”#And from there it somehow spiraled into a five and a half thousand word mess#But I think I learned some things!#And I'm sorry Miss Perumal isn't more help I got caught up in the emotion and I just really wanted the kids to work it out themselves#Especially since Reynie is normally the driving force for those kinds of solutions#But without him it took a lot longer than I expected#Also be warned I use a lot more em dashes then I think I'm supposed to#And I was trying the technique of mostly using the adult's formal names since the main perspective is the kids'#But the point is that I did it. I tried.#And if it's terrible then I will just never do it again#I'm sorry I didn't know how to end it so it's kind of vague and abrupt#I hope it's fairly in-character I tried really hard but messing up character voices terrifies me which is why I've never tried this before#I am genuinely so sorry if this is hot garbage it certainly feels like garbage#Okay shutting up now. Again my apologies#the mysterious benedict society#mbs#reynie muldoon#kate wetherall#sticky washington#constance contraire#miss perumal
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Not to be dramatic, but I would die for Mochi. Look at him in his little helmet
#waffles and mochi#waffles#mochi#puppets#kids show#cooking show#i would die for him#so cute#cuteness overload#I an adult absolutely love waffles and mochi#netflix#mochi is so adorable#especially in his little helmet#bring back waffles and mochi#I'd rather learn cooking techniques from puppets than gordon ramsey#michelle obama#someone make me a mochi plushie
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estinien 🤝 haurchefant
having sex for the first time when theyre 30
#sorry to anybody who believes in aymstinien hooking up during temple knights era i dont believe in that#i think estinien was so fucked as a young adult that not even his dick went up ever#kits why he beats his corndog like its a job to be done in his 30s he never learned technique or kindness to it
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So there’s this kid I work with who screams and kicks people for 20+ minutes straight because they don’t want to do a single worksheet. I don’t blame the kid though; there are absolutely zero expectations at home and all they eat is sugar, which can’t be good for their mood. I’ve been trying to think of ways for all the kids there to engage in healthier behaviors; but I’m specifically focusing on the ones with dire conditions (such as refusing to drink water, not eating enough, or harming people (which will put them in danger as an adult)).
Today I put a letters puzzle on a different kid’s desk to keep them occupied and this kid just walked over and did it because they’re a perfectionist and need everything in its place. Maybe I can put the letters puzzle on their desk to lure them there and then replace it with worksheets once they’re finished (to ease the transition), and that way I don’t have to physically carry an 80 pound child to their desk multiple times a day, and said kid doesn’t have to endure me carrying them. Ohhhhhhhhh my god that might work
Now I need to find a way to get them to drink water and eat more nutritious food. I can try the chart thing but idk if it’ll work on this kid. I can’t use candy as an incentive because they don’t like candy…
hmmmmmm
#Being in early education is basically getting paid to trick little children#It sounds bad but that’s literally what it is. There are multiple power dynamics at play and you need to know how to use them gently#But yeah any trickery that replaces carrying a kid is good trickery. I try to do that as little as possible#for the sake of their senses and my knees#but at some point the kid has to learn when they are at school; but are they learning if they’re kicking and screaming? No#If I had been placed here earlier in the year I might have thought of this (or something else) sooner and saved this kid a lot of grief#I still have to try it but I think it’ll work#It sucks because everyone I work with seems really burned out#and they don’t feel like — or have the time to — seriously brainstorm anything#So they get irritated with the kids and keep jamming the same techniques into them hoping this time it’ll be different#or maybe at this point it’s out of spite#Everything seems like it’s out of spite. The catty behavior from some people I am not close to bleeds through into everyone’s mood#and affects people who want no part in creating a toxic workplace#Like yeah the kids have issues but certain adults need to stop the fucking drama for TWO SECONDS#Fortunately I’m untouched by the social aspect of working because I don’t get involved in it very much#and I’m sort of new#and everyone loves me (for now LOL)
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👋 2022
#I won’t go into detail about real life except that it was. well. a Trip#learned some things went through things. the year of baby steps I guess#BUT I wanna write some thoughts about my 2022 tumblr experience down#it was… also quite a Trip#positive first: learned to stay off this site when necessary! very important mental-health wise#my most used tag this year was my track tag! shoutout to everyone who’s been using it#you bring me much joy by sharing your creations with me. I appreciate it 🤍#another shoutout to all the incredibly lovely people who’ve come to my inbox this year#I’ve been very lucky in that regard. 98% of my anons have been the kindest sweetest most eloquent people#and I’m happy to have been able to have super interesting thoughtful and respectful discussions from time to time#okay what else. oh HIGHLIGHT of my year here – my birthday ADFFGHJ#I felt so so so spoiled and couldn’t (still can’t) believe the amount of spectacular gif(t)s I got. made me feel stupidly happy oh my god#I learned a lot of new skills and techniques for gfx making. kept experimenting with different styles which has been fun!#gif making has turned more into a relaxing activity than something that makes me feel pressured and anxious#I dialed it down a bit compared to last year and I think that was a good decision as well#as for not so positive things. well.#of course there are the usual/ general ‘complaints’ like lack in interaction and the like#got my first proper anon hate in November. that was something#HUGE lesson I learned this year: just because someone states in their bio that they’re adults doesn’t mean they act like ones <3#people can be very childish ruthless and simply not worth one’s effort#and a last thing that fits quite well to that: 9 out of 10 people do not care about you. not about your time and effort you put in content#not about whether you’re online or not. not about how you might feel when they say and do certain things#I think I need to learn how to embrace this kind of insignificance. be more audacious. find validation within myself#okay I’ll stop now#I wanna say thank you to all the lovely people who made this year on tumblr more enjoyable and who truly brighten the place up for me#I love you lots and wish you all the best for 2023#it’s gonna be a hard year for me with lots of challenges and changes#and it’s nice to have this little space here where you can escape to from time to time#mwah. smooches to all of you. happy new year <3
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if i don’t get at LEAST one piano-playing related thread/ask/whatever for tifa and noctis i’ll blow this whole site up. goodnight
#i was just thinking this abt tifa bc i revisited some og sequences n her piano was there but#seeing the official art w child/adult noctis playing the piano for luna made me dizzy#both tifa n noct having an aptitude for it yet becoming rusty.. sobs..... BOTH OF THEM ASSOCIATING THEM WITH#A LOVELY POINT IN TIME OF THEIR PASTS#it just puts more significance in playing it again (PAINED SMILE)#tifa being taught by her mother.. then teaching herself post her death..#noctis being taught by his tutor at the citadel n learning the basics but Really finding a liking for it when luna helps him#polish his technique...BRO#this post is not comprehensible at all but thats ok#m. tifa.#m. noctis.
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sobs i wish i could find an adult ballet class near me SO bad ૮ ◞ ﻌ ◟ ა
#i took a ballet technique class when i was 21 & i LOVED IT SM!! but the studio i went to doesn’t do it anymore ₍ᐢ ›̥̥̥ ༝ ���̥̥̥ ᐢ₎#forever mad at my mom for not lettin me take classes when i was younger >:(( it was the only thing i wanted to do for years & years#at least she let me play a few instruments so i can’t complain too much but i’ve ALWAYS wanted to be a dancer since i was like 6 (˚ ˃̣̣̥ω˂̣̣#& NOT LIKE THAT ‘ADULT’ LMAOXKEJ I JUST MEAN FOR LIKE PEOPLE IN THEIR 20’S WHO WANNA LEARN#ᕱ⑅ᕱ.* journals!
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I got my first aid certificate today!!
#me#personal#work#most of the course was focused on children#because I work with them and I had to get it for work#we learned to perform cpr on a baby#a child and an adult#all different techniques#and so much more#but even though I'm happy I could practice all day today#and ask questions and everything#I hope I don't have to use this (too much)#I think it would be really hard#but I'm happy I know it all now#so at least I can do something if it happens#first aid#cpr
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just learned how cochlear implants work. even more disgusted now with the contingent of people who insist that *not* giving a deaf child a cochlear implant is somehow neglect
“i’m fine with - actually, insistent upon - making permanent medical alterations to children as long as it benefits *me*, not the children themselves” - asshole proverb
#a) you're signing up for at least one CI-related doctor appointment per year for the rest of your life#and constant maintenance (changing batteries etc)#not to mention the huge initial investment of like learning how to interpret the sounds which takes months#b) up until now getting a CI was guaranteed to destroy any residual hearing in one ear#so if you don't like how the CI processes sound uh too bad you already gave up some of the ability to process sound the way you're used to#(i guess there are new surgery techniques now where this isn't necessarily the case)#c) it's surgery! surgery is invasive! period!#imo this is absolutely something where you can wait for the kid to be old enough to decide for themselves#'but it works better on little kids -' literally don't care#adults get them all the time#it's fine#d) being Deaf is not akin to neglect jesus fucking christ#as long as they have consistent access to communication (other people who sign) they're not being neglected#cochlear implants also have really varied results#so it's likely that you'd just be signing the kid up for working really hard reading lips the rest of their life#and doing speech therapy for years#when easy communication via sign is Right There#like why not let your child take it easy????? like let them have a nice easy childhood?#'neglect' my ass#i actually do think it's fine for a parent to decide they want their kid to have a cochlear implant#i mean idk. i'm no expert. just seems fine to me#as long as they also provide an environment of signing so the kid doesn't have to constantly struggle or lack communication#i'm just saying that parents who opt out of CI for their kids should not be demonized
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I think mistakes are some of the most important things you can do in life, and I dislike heavily how they are thought of as inherently bad or something you shouldn't do.
#mistakes have always been my greatest teacher#far more so than any peer or adult in my life#if you fear making mistakes you'll never learn or do anything#because one of the best ways to get good at something by sucking hard at it.#when i first picked up art or writing or music i sucked major ass st all of it#but i kept going#and learning what did and didnt work#and what helped me specifically#for example#with art: I use straight lines and ridgid shapes to block out a sketch. and that I suffer heavily without a reference image.#but by combining those things I get smooth lines and even proportions.#i learned that through experimentation of different techniques#I learned the biggest lessons however in my fuckups with relationships.#I did not grow up in the best home and my reference for things was skewed. especially as I considered myself responsible#for making people laugh and be happy and smile#and that evolved into a need to help others and fight their battles for them#which always ended in disaster and burnt bridges. even if i didnt understand why at the time.#i got s little distracted but#through struggling with interactions and relationships i grew to understand it more and have healthier relationships.#Now#i should say that in your entire life. youll never stop learning and making mistakes.#you can reframe it though. so that mistakes are no longer this terrible horrible thing. but a natural event which you try to learn from.
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The kids I teach think I’m magic because I have a puzzle ring that falls apart when I take it off but stays together when I wear it. It’s just very sweet.
#one of them wrote a story for English class with me as the main character because of it#I had a rabbit sidekick and was the lost child of the queen#I also one time called the robot tattoo behind my ear my lucky robot that keeps me safe#and they’ve developed a whole mythos around how all of my tattoos give me powers.#(the actual reason the robot keeps me safe is cause he reminds me it’s okay to stop masking and sink back into my natural roboticness)#he’s my ward against autistic burnout)#like. I just love the way kids think.#anyway it was our end of year show today and my two little baby classes did me really proud and I might have cried a little#they’re the first time I’ve had a full class on my own that I’ve not shared with other teachers#and this year has just…it’s been a fascinating learning curve and yeah#my boss was like ‘watching you today with them made me somewhat envious of the rapport you’ve managed to develop with them and how well they#respond and interact with you’ and I’m looking at this guy that I’ve looked up to for over 15 years now like? that’s what I’ve always been#envious of you over like every single kid you teach loves you. and like we just had a really good conversation about the different dynamics#yeah I just needed to ramble cause it’s half three in the morning and I’ve only just got home and my little ones were so good!#like! uhhhh they’ve had a really difficult year for various reasons and we’ve hit so many roadblocks but they went out today and danced#their little hearts out.#my ballet group also showed up and actually performed my choreo properly for the first time ever. with technique!#do they do that in class? never seen it. but they were so good. ahhhhhh.#also the group that I perform with had our final performance as a group after dancing together in one configuration or another for ten years#and it was kind of emotional and there were lots of hugs and tears.#and it’s wild because I’ve seen these kids grow from 9-10 year olds to like…nearly adults and I’m just like…I’m so proud of you guys#they’re all going off into the world to be awesome
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Watching Collab videos back and spending the whole time going SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP because I yap SO MUCH,,,,,,, my guy do you know what TURN TAKING IS
#the answer is yes I do but I grew up outcasted by family friends and teachers so I'm used to being the only one talking#now that I'm an adult with friends I just don't know how to do social techniques#I either have to Be Completely Quiet#or Talk Lots#I'm learning how to do it and how to apply the things I know but#god it's obvious that I'm socially stunted#thanks mum thanks dad thanks siblings thanks so much#one sibling gets off the hook for this bc now that we're adults we've become friends but URGH#i think from now on I'm muting my mic until I have something ACTUALLY IMPORTANT to say#fucking embarrassing#dear diary#autism#autistic adult
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My experience with doctors in a nutshell:
"it's anxiety"
"it's anxiety"
"it's depression AND anxiety
"it's manic-depression"
"it's depression with anxiety"
"it's OCD"
"it's anxiety"
"it might be ADHD?"
"you have weird brain waves"
"it's anxiety"
"it's anxiety"
"it's anxiety"
"it's adhd"
"it's anxiety + adhd"
"it's anxiety + adhd"
"it's autism?"
"it's such bad anxiety that we can't even tell you what it is"
"it's anxiety"
"it's anxiety"
"you have an unknown number medical issues that will definitely get worse, need a bunch of surgeries, definitely have ADHD, and are on the autism spectrum"
You can't find tools and problem-solve if you don't even know what the problem is.
#im just saying#regardless of whether im anxious#and if the anxiety is valid or not#sometimes theres another reason#audhd#anxiety#anxiety is the new “female hysteria” and im not fucking here for it#like literally every mental health technique failed until i learned i was autistic#medicine#doctors#mental health awareness#neurodivergent#actually neurodiverse#disabled#actually autistic#autism#adult adhd
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A Positive and Tailored Guide to Enhancing Reading Comprehension for Adult Learners: How to Unlock the World of Words
Reading Comprehension for Adult Learners: A Brief Guide As educators in the realm of adult education, we are tasked with the vital role of unlocking the potential within each learner, guiding them through the intricate journey of personal and professional development. At the heart of this journey lies the mastery of reading comprehension for adult learners —a crucial skill that serves as the…
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#adult education#adult learners#comprehension techniques#educational resources#Graeme Smith#learning support#literacy strategies#reading comprehension#reading skills enhancement#teacher guides#teaching reading#thisisgraeme
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DPxDC "Pick Me Up"
The stream goes live on the first day of the school year. It's the usual song and dance - mad laughing, threats, poor jokes, terror, and about thirty kids huddled together in a classroom behind Joker's back. Tim recognizes it as one of the Gotham Academy classrooms. Dick can't imagine the horror those kids' parents must be feeling right now. Jason jokes about middle school traumatic experiences. Damian is feeling very justified for skipping classes today.
Bruce, all suited up in his Batman garb, is making his way to the Academy as fast as he possibly can. Those are kids.
Gotham is once again anxiously kept on the edge of their seats, watching as Joker decides to interview the kids on their learning experience so far. Something about leaving a good first impression on the new generation or some other bullshit. Most kids stutter over their words - it's true that Gothamites are way more composed when facing life-threatening events, but those kids are only fourteen or fifteen for the most part. They are not old enough to keep their cool in the face of a murder clown.
That is, until Joker points his camera at one of the girls. Black hair in a high ponytail, blue eyes without a trace of fear, a slightly displeased, even bored expression on her face. She looks straight into the camera, not even waiting for the laughing madman to finish his question, and deadpans:
"I don't think I like school. Pick me up, please."
Joker sputters.
"Not so scared, I see," he sneers, and, in the next moment, a comically large gun painted in purples and greens is pointed to the girl's forehead, "How about now?"
The girl scrunches her nose and makes a so-so gesture.
"It's kinda meh," she admits, "Like, yeah, points for style, but you know, size doesn't matter. It's all in the technique."
Dick snorts over the comms. It's a bad time for laughing, sure, but the phrase caught him off-guard. This is not what you'd expect to hear from a teen, and definitely not something you'd expect anyone to say to the Joker. Jason's comms are muted, but Barbara knows he also laughed a little.
"Technique, you say?" Joker hisses, pressing the gun closer to the girl's head, and she winces, leaning away from it, almost as if she is disgusted by the touch.
"Yeah, I mean, guns are not that scary anyway. What are you gonna do with them, blast my brains all over the floor? Been there, done that," the girl shrugs, "Kinda nasty, but overall, it's just like slime, only sticky." She pauses and looks to the side, seemingly lost in thought, "Huh, maybe we should have added Borax to it. Or was it baking soda?.."
"Listen here, you little brat," Joker's fingers catch the girl's chin, and his voice becomes sickeningly menacing. Bruce is almost there, just two more minutes. Tim is already grappling onto the wall.
But none of them get to finish.
"Put your dirty fingers away from my sister," a low, cold, and even in a way that speaks of barely contained fury, voice comes from out of the screen.
The camera spins, like whoever is holding it turned really fast, and everyone watching the stream sees a fairly normal guy standing by the window - a turtleneck and ripped jeans, same black hair as the girl, same blue eyes... Wait, they are not blue.
And that's not a guy.
The camera falls down to the floor, and there are a lot of panicked screams coming from the broadcast now, but none of them sound like children's voices. It's the screams of adults, of grown-ass men, and later, someone even claimed they heard Joker's scream among them, too. The picture on camera glitches a few times, and the angle is awkward, but everyone still gets to see how shadows in the room morph into eyes, wide open and green, and how the darkness grows sharp teeth, countless grinning mouths that don't belong to any faces.
Screams turn into gargling and then to quiet whispers, filling the ears of all those listening with countless words in languages they don't know.
Red Robin turns off the recording and looks to that same guy from the levestream, sitting across him on the couch. The guy - Daniel, or Danny, as he introduced himself - looks him in the eyes and raises an eyebrow.
"Okay, and?"
"How did you do it?" Tim asks for the third time this evening. Danny blinks.
"Did what?" He asks, completely incomprehending. Tim groans. He's been trying to get his answers, any answers at this point, from the guy for thirty fucking minutes already. So far, he's got nothing. Danny, whoever the fuck he is, proves to be the most annoying human being on Earth.
"Seven people in a coma, including Joker himself, with no physical injuries and none of the children remember a thing! How?!" He demands, and a girl's face peeks from around the corner:
"I remember!"
Tim snaps his head at her, "What do you remember?"
The girl pauses, blinks, and looks to Danny. Then shrugs, "My brother picked me up from school."
Tim drops his head down and breathes out in frustration. He can't force the information out of civilians, he is a vigilante, not a mafia.
"Would it make you feel better if I promise not to do it again?" Danny asks, and his voice is way too innocent for Tim to believe him. He raises his head to look the guy in his shameless, amused eyes.
"I hate you."
"Thanks," Danny grins.
#danny phantom#dc x dp#dpxdc#tim drake#batfam#batman#dani phantom#danielle phantom#eldritch danny#but he wont admit to it#cork writes#cork prompts#i wrote this as a way to relax#theres zero plot to it#just danny being petty#and dani saying mildly concerning shit in camera#it was her first day in the new school#all in all it was a fairly okay first day
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Made a note to be REALISTIC for an accountability calendar I'm making for my studies (I am BEHIND OH NO)
Gotta circle my productivity like its a startled horse I'm trying to wrangle
#cant rush it shes a skittish beast#trying to learn study techniques as an adult with adhd after YEARS of not knowing i had adhd and also never being “smart” in school#is a trial but we'll get there!!!#re: being “smart” in school#i was simply undiagnosed with many mental illness / learning disabilities and also partially deaf which shockingly had an affect on me
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