#lavenderian

[genderselkies]

more flower presentation system cat icons <3

lavenderian australian mist, rosarian norwegian forest cat, and wisterian russian blue

[eldorr]

Flowerbed Lesbian

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Lesbian flag, however anyone who is Q4W (Queer for Women), WLW/NBLW/WLNB/NBLNB, or identifies their attraction to women as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. (Basically anyone who feels like a lesbian, but may not 100% identify with the lesbian label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Flowerbed Lesbian/Q4W flag. You could call yourself Flowerbed Sapphic/Bi/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Lesbian community, and between the Lesbian community, other Q4W communities, and other non-primarily Q4W Queer communities (Vincians/Enbians/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Deep Purple: Aspec Lesbian, Monospec Lesbian, and Mspec Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

The Flowerbed Lesbian flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec lesbians, due to exclusionists in the community attempting to push them out. Monospec Lesbians should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec lesbians.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Velvet Magenta: Multigender Lesbian, Genderfluid Lesbian, Genderflux Lesbian, Monogender Lesbian, Xenogender Lesbian, Agender Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood from general lesbian spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. Monogender Lesbians should stand with Lesbians with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Cardinal Pink: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Lesbian, Gender-Non-Conforming Lesbian, Pronoun-Conforming Lesbian, Gender-Conforming Lesbian Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is obviously here due to the whole “masc = bad” mentality that is rampant in lesbian and otherwise queer spaces. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of he/him, they/them, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself lesbians, and lesboy, masc, transmasc, carnatian, lavenderian, kiwi, transneu, transxen, xenic, amaranthian lesbians. Gender and Pronoun conforming lesbians should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming lesbians.

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Fourth Stripe/Hot Pink: Lesbian and Non-Lesbian Q4W inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-lesbian Q4W in lesbian spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for women, and doesn’t primarily identify as a lesbian. This includes sapphic, neptunic, lilaen, trixic, faunic, etc. This stripe can also include lesbians who are not explicitly Q4W, and may be NBLNB lesbians. Non-Lesbians are not the enemies of lesbians, and lesbians should included and have solidarity with other Q4W.

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Fifth Stripe/Dark Violet: Femme Lesbian, Futch Lesbian, Butch Lesbian, Twink Lesbian, Otter Lesbian, Bear Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a lesbian “looks like”. Futch and Butch lesbians (Ursulas) are not the enemies of Femme lesbians, and Bear lesbians and just as valid in their lesbian identity as Otter and Twink lesbians. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other lesbians, even if they don’t “look like” a lesbian. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Dark Blue: Otherwise Marginalized Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being a lesbian. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized lesbians, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other lesbians, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 18 images in 9 pairs. each has one image of the listed centaurworld character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Horse from Centaurworld is a girlfail, girlfuck, transolar, genderalblanc, genderfaean, soflowic knight femme soldier with PTSD!

Her best friend Wammawink is a gigglegender, femact, meadowpreciparomic, anxiefem, delicaret, pinkcesscandi, ethererosic, convoheartic, sarpifaicorian, gendersylphet, futchgender, rivlerian, sapphoric, gastrafaeri pussycat chemme who uses she/her, they/them, yey/yem, lil/lily, and mae/mair pronouns! They have PTSD and hoard xenogenders to cope with their anxiety!

Zulius is a GNC, flamboric, crilxlygender, princeinfluencer, apollemian, hypertwink, raveziv, helifemme, femitransmascic, femprettyboy, torfemnic, turian bat/melodramatic twink! Hae use h♛/h♛m, cor/coroa, ro/rose, hae/hael, sie/sier, avi/avis, and no/noble pronouns!

Splendib is a high femme, pantherabutchis, kcttygender, femwaymasc, pantheric, solporcat, warsunial, lumisoul, royalvillainic, follifaeren, solahealine, castleconfettic, catzzzgender, cabaxygender, iridesdulcic, gaybitend bear who uses sol/sols, ti/tig, stripe/stripes, roar/roars, claw/claws, yawn/yawns, ae/aer, flor/flors, ir/irs, sta/star, and ro/royal pronouns!

Splendib and Zulius both have NPD, and are dating!

Glendale is a compliaro, lavenderian, intrafemmasc, justdoquoteic, gendermushthing, invinostaplaycore, egogender, acxygender, ontfille, alianeutre, whateverian maverique who uses any pronouns! _ has GAD, OCD, and kleptomania!

Chett is a neurodivergent, poly-het, boxyigender birdtaur with anger issues and undiagnosed PTSD and ADHD!

Comfortable Doug is a soft butch, nbiavir, oriwandic, unreloveian, neumaloumnine, foggyagin, dasoboy, aesonbimasc, crelloxigender, abandex, stoical, grossfreak, genderless transmasc, quoisexual, nebularomantic, dayoverian, trixic romeric thing who uses he/him, they/them, it/its, xai/xais, qt/qt, vey/vem, & spiri/spir pronouns! Vey have autism!

Durpleton is a hunkish, omnichromanite, jestericbell, sillyshowkidcorian, crezvaygender, chaokixygender, tooncomedic, sillygoofygender, autithing clutterboy! He is an autistic age regressor with ADHD, PTSD, and bipolar disorder!

His son Stabby is a twistute, kiddiedraconic, pasclownbunplushic, sillylittlenic, nonbinary presquoy who uses hy/hym, ‘e/’im, si/silly, and fwu/fwus pronouns! ‘E is autistic, has PTSD and nighttime anxiety!

For 🌖☄️ anon!

[knightcoric-archived]

Floral Nonbinary Terms Lesbian, Gay, and Bi Flags pt. 2!

Top is Carnatian, middle is Azalean, and bottom is Lavenderian!

floral terms post pls credit me if you use- thnx!

[io-archival]

[PT: Lavenderian /end PT]

Lavenderian

A gender from the Herbalist Alignment System, it’s a xenic gender represented by the herb, lavender.

[pinkfruitgender]

im kinda stuck sooo gender suggestions for them?

they remind me of iris from mogai stories anthology, so i want to say kiddiehamstic. alternatively, lavenderian, purplegender, ghostcute or mousegender.

[tamanlavendedr]

Mengenang Rini Medrian, Lavenderian berhati lembut

Sahabat Lavender,

Berikut ini adalah catatan Mbak Indira Abidin mengenai sahabat terkasih kita, alm Rini Medrian. Kita doakan bersama semoga Rini menanti kita di pintu surga suatu hari nanti dan semoga Allah berkahi semua keluarganya.

Aamiin. Arti hidup manusia tidak ditentukan oleh panjang dan pendeknya. Ada yang umurnya pendek tapi sungguh penuh arti. Rasulullah “hanya” berumur 63 tahun, namun…

[beatbizzle]

Do you ever just get a wave of inspiration to create a cast of characters who belong to a story that you'll never write about whose world you'll never expand on, and whose entire beings will be left forgotten on a Google Doc for months, even when you swear it'll be different this time?

Because that's happening to me and I'm trying my hardest not to give in.

[whitixm]

© clubixm

[sage-thee-herbmaster]

Herbalist Alignment System

The Herbalist Alignment System is a gender system, similar to the Galactian Alignment, that has a theme of herbs or flowers that have medicinal properties. It was created for nonbinary individuals to describe their gender without having to use binary terms such as “masculine” or “feminine”.

Sageian = masculine

Rosemarian = feminine

Bananian = neutral

Lavenderian = xenine

Aloeverian = genderless

Two combination:

Thymian = Sageian + Rosemarian

Mintian = Sageian + Bananian 

Gingerian = Rosemarian + Bananian 

Cinnamonian = Rosemarian + Lavenderian 

Vanilian = Sageian + Lavenderian

Dandelionian =  Bananian + Lavenderian 

Three combination:

Calendulian = Sageian + Rosemarian + Bananian

Valerian = Sageian + Rosemarian + Lavenderian

Rosian = Rosemarian + Bananian + Lavenderian

Juniperian = Sageian + Bananian + Lavenderian

All four base genders:

Echinacian = Sageian + Rosemarian + Bananian + Lavenderian

Demigenders:

Peppermintain = Partially Sageian

Clovian = Partially Rosemarian

Basilian = Partially Bananian

Chamomilian = Partially Lavenderian

Garlician = Partially Aloeverian

(demigenders for combination genders are unavailable)

[professorlaytondestroyedmyfeels]

The khuzmyah king and his lavenderian coloured son hawk be like

Take your son to work day. (Art by Soosh) #EthicalMemes

[eldorr]

Marsh Vincian

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Vincian flag, however anyone who is Q4M (Queer for Men), MLM/NBLM/MLNB/NBLNB, or identifies their attraction to men as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. (Basically anyone who feels like a vincian, but may not 100% identify with the vincian label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Marsh Vincian/Q4M flag. You could call yourself Marsh Veldian/Pan/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Vincian community, and between the Vincian community, other Q4M communities, and other non-primarily Q4M Queer communities (Lesbians/Enbians/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Bluish Cyan: Aspec Vincian, Monospec Vincian, and Mspec Vincian inclusion and solidarity.

The Marsh Vincian flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec vincians, due to exclusionists (mostly fueled by exclus lesbians ironically enough) in the community attempting to push them out. Monospec Vincians should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec vincians.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Deep Aqua Cyan: Multigender Vincian, Genderfluid Vincian, Genderflux Vincian, Monogender Vincian, Xenogender Vincian, Agender Vincian inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood from general vincian spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. Monogender Vincians should stand with Vincians with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Cyan: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Vincian, Gender-Non-Conforming Vincian, Pronoun-Conforming Vincian, Gender-Conforming Vincian Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is here due to some exclusion in gay man spaces against feminine gay men. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of she/her, they/them, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself vincians, and veldigirl, fem, transfem, azalean, lavenderian, kiwi, transneu, transxen, xenic, amaranthian vincians. Gender and Pronoun conforming vincians should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming vincians.

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Fourth Stripe/Light Grass Green: Vincian and Non-Vincian Q4M inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-vincian Q4M in vincian spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for men, and doesn’t primarily identify as a vincian. This includes uranic, achillean, violaen, uranian, veldian, etc. This stripe can also include vincians who are not explicitly Q4M, and may be NBLNB vincians. Non-Vincians are not the enemies of vincians, and vincians should include and have solidarity with other Q4M.

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Fifth Stripe/Jade Green: Femme Vincian, Futch Vincian, Butch Vincian, Twink Vincian, Otter Vincian, Bear Vincian inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a vincian “looks like”. Futch and Femme vincians are not the enemies of Butch vincians, and Bear vincians and just as valid in their vincian identity as Otter and Twink vincians. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other vincians, even if they don’t “look like” a vincian. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Dark Cerulean: Otherwise Marginalized Vincian inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being a vincian. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized vincians, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other vincians, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.

[tinyseeds-blog]

TAGGED BY LAVENDERIAN

1. I love pineapples

2. My eyes are big for an asian

3. I sound like I’m desperately gasping for air when I laugh

4. I can move my head from left to right like how people do in indian traditional dances

5. I can smtimes eat 3 main courses, 1 salad, 1 bowl of soup and 1 cup of tea for dinner without puking em all out

6. I always wanted to be a cheerleader but im not brave enough to join the cheer club

7. I love bizzare headdresses

[illuminarias]

Because your blog is so beautiful. TAG YOU'RE IT. The rules are to state 7 random facts about yourself. Then, go to your ten favourite blogs and tell them they are it. :]] Hope you're doing well!

aww thank you so much!

1. i like reading

2. i like sleeping but i dont sleep much

3. i love salads

4. i dont eat breakfast that often

5. im always late

6. i procrastinate

7. i get bored easily

[flohwur-blog]

*slaps butt* pass this to the next five person on your dash ;)

lol but okay x

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