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Flowerbed Lesbian

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Lesbian flag, however anyone who is Q4W (Queer for Women), WLW/NBLW/WLNB/NBLNB, or identifies their attraction to women as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. (Basically anyone who feels like a lesbian, but may not 100% identify with the lesbian label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Flowerbed Lesbian/Q4W flag. You could call yourself Flowerbed Sapphic/Bi/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Lesbian community, and between the Lesbian community, other Q4W communities, and other non-primarily Q4W Queer communities (Vincians/Enbians/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Deep Purple: Aspec Lesbian, Monospec Lesbian, and Mspec Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

The Flowerbed Lesbian flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec lesbians, due to exclusionists in the community attempting to push them out. Monospec Lesbians should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec lesbians.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Velvet Magenta: Multigender Lesbian, Genderfluid Lesbian, Genderflux Lesbian, Monogender Lesbian, Xenogender Lesbian, Agender Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood from general lesbian spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. Monogender Lesbians should stand with Lesbians with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Cardinal Pink: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Lesbian, Gender-Non-Conforming Lesbian, Pronoun-Conforming Lesbian, Gender-Conforming Lesbian Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is obviously here due to the whole “masc = bad” mentality that is rampant in lesbian and otherwise queer spaces. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of he/him, they/them, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself lesbians, and lesboy, masc, transmasc, carnatian, lavenderian, kiwi, transneu, transxen, xenic, amaranthian lesbians. Gender and Pronoun conforming lesbians should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming lesbians.

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Fourth Stripe/Hot Pink: Lesbian and Non-Lesbian Q4W inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-lesbian Q4W in lesbian spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for women, and doesn’t primarily identify as a lesbian. This includes sapphic, neptunic, lilaen, trixic, faunic, etc. This stripe can also include lesbians who are not explicitly Q4W, and may be NBLNB lesbians. Non-Lesbians are not the enemies of lesbians, and lesbians should included and have solidarity with other Q4W.

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Fifth Stripe/Dark Violet: Femme Lesbian, Futch Lesbian, Butch Lesbian, Twink Lesbian, Otter Lesbian, Bear Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a lesbian “looks like”. Futch and Butch lesbians (Ursulas) are not the enemies of Femme lesbians, and Bear lesbians and just as valid in their lesbian identity as Otter and Twink lesbians. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other lesbians, even if they don’t “look like” a lesbian. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Dark Blue: Otherwise Marginalized Lesbian inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being a lesbian. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized lesbians, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other lesbians, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.

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Floral Nonbinary Terms Lesbian, Gay, and Bi Flags pt. 2!

Top is Carnatian, middle is Azalean, and bottom is Lavenderian!

floral terms post pls credit me if you use- thnx!

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Marsh Vincian

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Vincian flag, however anyone who is Q4M (Queer for Men), MLM/NBLM/MLNB/NBLNB, or identifies their attraction to men as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. (Basically anyone who feels like a vincian, but may not 100% identify with the vincian label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Marsh Vincian/Q4M flag. You could call yourself Marsh Veldian/Pan/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Vincian community, and between the Vincian community, other Q4M communities, and other non-primarily Q4M Queer communities (Lesbians/Enbians/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Bluish Cyan: Aspec Vincian, Monospec Vincian, and Mspec Vincian inclusion and solidarity.

The Marsh Vincian flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec vincians, due to exclusionists (mostly fueled by exclus lesbians ironically enough) in the community attempting to push them out. Monospec Vincians should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec vincians.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Deep Aqua Cyan: Multigender Vincian, Genderfluid Vincian, Genderflux Vincian, Monogender Vincian, Xenogender Vincian, Agender Vincian inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood from general vincian spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. Monogender Vincians should stand with Vincians with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Cyan: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Vincian, Gender-Non-Conforming Vincian, Pronoun-Conforming Vincian, Gender-Conforming Vincian Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is here due to some exclusion in gay man spaces against feminine gay men. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of she/her, they/them, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself vincians, and veldigirl, fem, transfem, azalean, lavenderian, kiwi, transneu, transxen, xenic, amaranthian vincians. Gender and Pronoun conforming vincians should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming vincians.

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Fourth Stripe/Light Grass Green: Vincian and Non-Vincian Q4M inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-vincian Q4M in vincian spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for men, and doesn’t primarily identify as a vincian. This includes uranic, achillean, violaen, uranian, veldian, etc. This stripe can also include vincians who are not explicitly Q4M, and may be NBLNB vincians. Non-Vincians are not the enemies of vincians, and vincians should include and have solidarity with other Q4M.

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Fifth Stripe/Jade Green: Femme Vincian, Futch Vincian, Butch Vincian, Twink Vincian, Otter Vincian, Bear Vincian inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a vincian “looks like”. Futch and Femme vincians are not the enemies of Butch vincians, and Bear vincians and just as valid in their vincian identity as Otter and Twink vincians. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other vincians, even if they don’t “look like” a vincian. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Dark Cerulean: Otherwise Marginalized Vincian inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being a vincian. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized vincians, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other vincians, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.

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Canyon Queerhet

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Queerhet flag, however anyone who is Q4G (Queer for Women,Men,Enbies,etc), WLM/MLW/NBLM/XLNB/etc, or identifies their attraction to a gender as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. This is also inclusive of queers whose’ gender is queer, while they may be het/straight/strayt/etc. (Basically anyone who feels like queerhet, but may not 100% identify with the queerhet label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Canyon Queerhet/non-Q4G flag. You could call yourself Canyon Strayt/Pluralian/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Queerhet community, and between the Queerhet community, other non-Q4G communities, and other non-primarily non-Q4G Queer communities (Transhets/Cisgays/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Redwood: Aspec Queerhet, Monospec Queerhet, and Mspec Queerhet inclusion and solidarity.

The Canyon Queerhet flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec queerhets, since most people thing of cis gays and transhets when they hear the term Queerhet. Anyone may ID as Queerhet for any reason. Monospec Queerhets should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec queerhets.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Auburn Orange: Multigender Queerhet, Genderfluid Queerhet, Genderflux Queerhet, Monogender Queerhet, Xenogender Queerhet, Agender Queerhet inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood even by general queerhet spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. There’s many reasons why someone who isn’t a binary monogender may describe themself as Queerhet. Monogender Queerhets should stand with Queerhets with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Rusty Orange: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Queerhet, Gender-Non-Conforming Queerhet, Pronoun-Conforming Queerhet, Gender-Conforming Queerhet Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is here due to some exclusion in queerhet spaces against basically anyone that’s not a binary gender, and presents as such. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of they/them, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself queerhets, neutral, transneutral, transmasc, transfem, lavenderian, amaranthian, butch, femme, wisterian, transxen, xenic, queerhets. Gender and Pronoun conforming queerhets should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming queerhets.

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Fourth Stripe/Salmon Pink: Queerhet and Non-Queerhet non-Q4G inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-queerhet non-Q4G in queerhet spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for any gender, is queer gender-wise, and doesn’t primarily identify as queerhet. This includes, transhets, strayt, rubian, umbalian, etc. This stripe can also include queerhets who are not explicitly non-Q4G, and may be NBMLW/NBWLM/NBLM/NBLW queerhets. Non-Queerhets are not the enemies of queerhets, and queerhets should include and have solidarity with other non-Q4G.

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Fifth Stripe/Burnt Pink: Femme Queerhet, Futch Queerhet, Butch Queerhet, Twink Queerhet, Otter Queerhet, Bear Queerhet inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a queerhet “looks like”. Futch queerhets are not the enemies of Femme and Butch queerhets, and Bear queerhets and just as valid in their queerhet identity as Otter and Twink queerhets. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other queerhets, even if they don’t “look like” queerhet. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Rich Purple: Otherwise Marginalized Queerhet inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being queerhet. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized queerhets, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other queerhets, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.

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Prairie Gay

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Gay flag, however anyone who is Q4G (Queer for Women,Men,Enbies,etc), WLW/MLM/NBLNB/KLK/XLX, or identifies their attraction to a gender as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. (Basically anyone who feels like gay, but may not 100% identify with the gay label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Prairie Gay/Q4G flag. You could call yourself Prairie Queer/Mspec/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Gay community, and between the Gay community, other Q4G communities, and other non-primarily Q4G Queer communities (Lesbians/Vincians/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Deep Green: Aspec Gay, Monospec Gay, and Mspec Gay inclusion and solidarity.

The Prairie Gay flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec gays, even though I personally haven’t seen much anti-aspec or anti-mspec stuff coming from general gay spaces (minus some very loud exclus lesbians primarily on twitter, along with those trying to make gay=MLM), so here we are regardless. Monospec Gays should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec gays.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Sap Green: Multigender Gay, Genderfluid Gay, Genderflux Gay, Monogender Gay, Xenogender Gay, Agender Gay inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood even by general gay spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. Monogender Gays should stand with Gays with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Dark Yellow: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Gay, Gender-Non-Conforming Gay, Pronoun-Conforming Gay, Gender-Conforming Gay Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is here due to some exclusion in gay spaces against basically anyone not fitting what a man or woman “looks like”; believing that gay presentation has to be binary. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of they/them, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself gays, neutral, transneutral, transmasc, lavenderian, amaranthian, butch lesbians, femme vincians, wisterian, transxen, xenic, transbian, transdian gays. Gender and Pronoun conforming gays should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming gays.

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Fourth Stripe/Marigold Yellow: Gay and Non-Gay Q4G inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-gay Q4G in gay spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for any gender, and doesn’t primarily identify as gay. This includes lesbian, enbian, veldian, idemic, agenant, etc. This stripe can also include gays who are not explicitly Q4G, and may be MLW/WLM/NBLM/NBLW gays. This stripe also opposes the mentality that the term “gay” is being watered down by non-MLM, and is against the notion that gay=MLM. Non-Gays are not the enemies of gays, and gays should include and have solidarity with other Q4G.

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Fifth Stripe/Dirty Orange: Femme Gay, Futch Gay, Butch Gay, Twink Gay, Otter Gay, Bear Gay inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a gay “looks like”. Futch gays are not the enemies of Femme and Butch gays, and Bear gays and just as valid in their gay identity as Otter and Twink gays. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other gays, even if they don’t “look like” gay. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Reddish Brown: Otherwise Marginalized Gay inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being gay. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized gays, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other gays, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.