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âThe world doesnât care, the world is cruel.â
You are wrong! I am part of the world and I care, and I am kind! And I choose to be kind on purpose! Even though I am small, and it might not make that much of a difference, I will keep caring, and feeling!
Because what if it did make a difference? Wouldnât that be something?
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Boundaries and Parasocial Relationships (I will only say this once)
This is the ONLY post I will be making on the matter, so please feel free to skip if you do not want to hear it again, and don't worry you don't need to hide me to avoid discourse - the rest of my content will remain firmly with only SMUTFIC FAN FUN.
So let's start with the simple. Actors, performers, celebrities: They are PEOPLE with LIVES. They are not CHARACTERS. Paying them for a service does not include the right to cross their boundaries. Just like tipping someone working food service does not give you a pass to harrass them either.
If you feel the need to request something smutty from an actor/celebrity, STOP. THINK. THIS IS WHAT FAN CREATORS ARE HERE FOR!
I'm not saying that you can act inappropriately towards fan creators, I'm saying that those of us making NSFW content are already prepared to hear the horny requests, the thirst comments towards the characters on our posts, the headcanons and self inserts and all of that. Of course you should never expect a creator to make your ideas into fic or art, and asking politely is always preferred. Whilst fic writers generally cannot take paid commissions, artists can and do, so you should also consider commissioning what you want to see and never expect art for free. Sometimes we hear a good idea, though, and get really inspired! We draw or write it because we hear it and thing "well yes darling actually that's very hot" or even "that sounds like a challenge, it could be fun!"
For anyone still confused about what is appropriate or not, please read this article about Parasocial Relationships
It is important to recognise for your own mental health when fandom is going too far, and to keep the right boundaries for everyone. It is very easy to get carried away with excitement, especially when some performers might share a few risqué pieces of art or content, but when they're sharing it like that it is on their terms, on their time. Making requests during a live stream or through cameo is not the same. I'd also add to think before sharing any NSFW art, fic, or other creations directly to performers - if they haven't asked for it don't send it. Don't tag them in it, either - they have families, careers, and may not want to be as visibly linked to literal porn. If they're looking for that content and want to see it, they will find it. That also applies to sharing other peoples' NSFW creations to the performers or tagging them in replies - unless they specifically state they want to see the content, don't.
FINAL NOTE
This fan community has so much potential. We have proven we can be awarded "Community of the Year". We can love and support one another, we can keep each other safe, we can be a rock in the storm and the cheerleading squad that each other need in so many situations. Let's keep it that way. Be kind, to each other and to the performers. Remember, the words on the screen are not written by unfeeling robots, we are all very real people with thoughts and emotions and lives. Now go out there. Make the world a brighter place, and keep creating the fan content we all love so very dearly, darlings, but do it right.
SAFE, SANE, CONSENTING. Check in on the safety, mental health, and boundaries in all of your interactions.
And one last time, to learn more about parasocial relationships and how to handle interactions with famous people:
Click Here for the full article.
#baldurs gate 3#bg3#fan community#fandom#cameo#celebrities#actors#performers#voice actors#parasocial relationships#kindness first#respect boundaries#it's not that hard#safe sane consensual#performers are not characters#we are all better than this#I believe in us as a community we can hold each other accountable#alright then back to your irregularly scheduled smut content from me#because I will not say this again#this space is for the fun and the sexy#maybe a little fluff and angst as a treat#but only if you're good#so BEHAVE
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Lord of the Rings fanart! I watched for the first time recently and loved it
[EDIT: Thanks for the love on this! Prints of this are also available on my shop for those interested!]
#vel draws#lotr#lord of the rings#yeah this was kind of random but this series brought a surprising inspo for me#have some old men and powerful women#will also have the first piece as a print for my next store update this friday!
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#instagram#instagram threads#autism#Austistic#adhd#TRMDD#OCD#anxiety#CPtsd#chronic illness#used and abused#and so on#but i'm still here#my heart still has love#mysoul#myheart#remain strong#lupus warrior#Lone Wolf#Doing Life Alone#the strongest belief of mine is..#Kindness first#Always#truth#feel free to ignore#feel free to ask questions#feel free to interact#feel free to reblog#hey#Millennial
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this video is putting me in a daze i swear
#hey also ppl first seeing this . stop following me you will not be getting this kind of content if you follow me#i post gerard way images and do drugs
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so tired of this bullshittery
#no id#giddlyâs art#the first two ended up looking kind of like waluigi and luigi and iâm just rolling with it lmao
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gem n joel the strongest duo (family) that you are
and of course. her
#geminitay#smallishbeans#gem#joel#gemjoel#gempearl#wild life smp#why are they just building gorgeous things while everyone around them dies#trafficblr#life series#eydidraws#my art#additional notes: i tried to give joel some racer pants#also very pleased i finally got to draw him with the two toe boot thing#everytime i see those kinds of shoes i think of joel for some reason#also fun fact joel is one of the first hermits i ever drew ! him and lizzie but they were a lot more . anime-y back then#but yes i wanted to give gem a more mechanic vibe and joel the more racer vibe#which is a bit ironic bec i think their roles currently as of session 2 is the opposite lol#mcyt
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some random jason warmups. missed drawing him T_T
#my art#jason todd#dc#dc comics#dc fanart#batman#red hood#batfamily#first one kind of from an au but thatâs not important#drawing on my ipad still. and i still hate it. but ANYWAY
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⊠Freshly ordained âŠ
#a packless dog will happily accept his collar or something like that#own art#own characters#CanisAlbus#art#artists on tumblr#Machete#anthro#sighthound#dogs#canine#animals#maybe you might benefit from a little bit of context in this case#Machete becomes a priest at around 20 or so#he has trained all his life for this goal#he has worked himself to the bone and sacrificed so much#because he believes it would make him respectable and worthy and give his life a purpose and meaning#he gets his very first cassock from the tailor's and it immediately fits like a second skin#for the first time ever he feels like something he wears actually makes him look kind of nice#the hard part is over it'll be smooth sailing from here on out#there's a period in Vasco's and Machete's lives where they were apart for almost a decad#they met in their late teens when they were both studying in the same university in Venice#became friends and then lovers#but had to separate when Machete graduated and Vasco dropped out#Machete was ordained as intended and Vasco followed his father into politics#they meet again unexpectedly in their early 30's thanks to their similar jobs#Machete had became a cardinal secretary of state and Vasco was a Florentine diplomat#this takes place shortly after he had lost contact with Vasco and before he reconnects with him again
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Ratatouille would have been a better and potentially much more interesting story if Remy had partnered with Collette instead of Linguini. Two underdogs with talent and passion forced to maintain a dangerous ruse. Fiercely independent Collette giving up temporary control of her body to a creature who, despite the insanity of a rat wanting to cook professionally, she can relate to on a personal level and who she does want to teach. The inner conflict of wondering if Remyâs growing talents are eclipsing her own, if the praise their food is earning belongs more to him than to her. Her guilt over feeling resentment and jealousy towards this little guy who wouldnât have a hope of realizing his talents if not for her trust and protection. Both of them unraveling the mystery of that sweet but bumbling kitchen boy with the obvious crush on Collette being Gusteauâs secret son, and working together to thwart the new evil ownerâs plans to stop Linguini from claiming his birthright. The message of the movie not being this weird, almost smug âsome people are born with talent, some people arenât, and thatâs how being a ~great artist~ worksâ, but something more like, âif you have a dream, you deserve to pursue it, and be supported and encouraged in your pursuit of it, even if other people tell you that, because of some intrinsic aspect of yourself or the circumstances you were born in (like being a human woman in the restaurant industry, or being a literal rat), you have no place pursuing this dream. Also, raw talent can only get you so far, and skill and passion existing in the right balance is key.â Iâve been thinking about this for seventeen years. Iâm breaking my silence
#when I first watched this movie the moment near the end where Collette makes ratatouille and Remy rejects it outright#and makes his own super special beautiful version that everyone loves#even though Collette was the one who turned him into the cook he became and taught him everything#it felt kind of mean to me? like mean as a story choice. like ohh sure he needed her help before#but heâs this special little genius so now her skills arenât presented as impressive or even worthwhile anymore#catie talks
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itâs our turn to make you smile
#Itâs the way that all of these kids admire Deku the same way Izuku Katsuki and Shoto all looked up to all might sobs#this is my way of coping with the news that the manga is ending#but this is kind of a redraw of the first ever mha drawing I ever did you could probably find it here if you scroll far enough but dOnt#anyways Right after I finished binging the series back in 2020 I was so inspired to draw#MHA will always have a special place in my heart#itâs the series that not only got me back into art but also into digital art for the first time#so sad to see it go but excited to continue loving it even when it ends#bnha#boku no hero academia#my hero academia#my art#mha#midoriya izuku#deku#bnha fanart#deku fanart#eri fanart#Deku and eri#eri#Kota#katsuma shimano#mahoro shimano#Katsuma Mahoro#Deku and kids#Deku and Kota#mha fanart#boku no hero academia fanart#my hero academia fanart
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I don't want to regret the way I lived
#my art#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#fanart#jjk fanart#jujutsu kaisen fanart#yuji itadori#gojo satoru#nobara kugisaki#nanami kento#choso kamo#junpei yoshino#jjk leaks#jjk spoilers#jjk manga spoilers#this idea started as a 2 part series . then my braincells decided to spark and supplied 7 PAGES#'did you sleep hina' no#ws looking up mentally stable things like 'who has died in jjk' smh i love my hyperfixation media im sooooo glad so many ppl r DEAD#i *could* have included more ppl but i think this is a good crew. this is a yuuji emotional support crew#also Was gna include his grandpa final panel but i Did Not Want To#he is implied through th dialogue#side note i donot like how i cn see this scenario playing out . ..yuuji this isnt ur stop u r monopoly voice Just Visiting ok >:(#anyway I broke my own heart with this and ik i hyped it up a lot but i hope that its not just me...#hope i did not hype it up fr nothing and no one else finds it devastating :((((( that would b humbling in the worst way#pls ...join the happy party train.......i hate it here i suffered pls :<<<<#also !!!! colours in this !! i cooked i fear . adding th first bit of warm hitting yuuji's face after th first 2 panels....#ive never had that kind of experience while drawing before it was wild . painful ! but wild.#the whole transition from p 2->3 might b the most emotionally moving piece ive ever made to me#not 2 sing my own praises tho i will shut up ! i wil. nap
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Video game I saw in a dream. It was in this low poly style like an older video game. You play as this character I think was meant to be a lamb, or maybe a weird mix of a lamb a mouse and a rabbit, (while not really looking like any of those things) and youâre running away from a wolf. Your objective is to last as long as possible before the wolf catches and eats you.
The house youâre running in is endless and bizarrely put together like most building interiors in dreams are (like the infinite toilet dream dimension on Reddit lol) the layout of the house is pretty detailed, you can stop and hide in places like closets or bins while the wolf looks for you, you can go up and down stairs and into rooms etc.
You never actually know where the wolf is or how close it is to you until it appears in your line of sight, it makes no noise and the game gives you no way of knowing where it is, and itâs pretty unpredictable it doesnt move at a consistent pace. When the wolf catches you thereâs an animation showing it eating your character
#the actual animation of the wolf eating your character wasnt scary he kind of just cartoonishly swallows the character whole lol#the scary part is being pursued by him and never knowing how close he is#i remember being surprised when i first saw the game bc it was presented to me as#a fun addictive sort of game kinda like a mobile app game#and then i see it and its a horror game and the creators are just completely oblivious to it lmao#dream art#<- thats my tag for all my dream-inspired art#art#gif#photomanipulation#digital art#liminal#weirdcore#used a mix of ai photos and regular photos for this one#the ai stuff is sooooo good for recreating what a dream looks and feels like#but i didnt use it too much bc i wasnt able to get the specific photos i wanted :/#hmmmm this is vore isnât it
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Yeah this hedgehog's a star. No it doesnt mean anything <3 I Prommy <3<3
ALSO THIS TOOK TWO YEARS BUT I FINALLY FINISHED IT <3 ENJOY
#laughs evilly#anyways#jay.art#i think abt sa2 every goddamn day dude#sa2#sonic#sth#shadow the hedgehog#sonic the hedgehog#tails the fox#teeheehee#first time trying a real rendered sequence#this kind of stuff is tough but i gotta love it
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The Vanessas and Mikes if they met sooner in FNAF..
#myart#chloesimagination#comic#fnaf#five nights at freddy's#fnaf fanart#fnaf movie#mike schmidt#fnaf vanny#fnaf vanessa#vanessa shelly#vanessa afton#michael afton#fnaf 4#security breach#itâs been a bit since Iâve last drawn the young designs I have for these guys!!#one request I got a bunch was the younger vers getting to meet each other#so decided to have the Vanessas and mikes meet one another first as an intro back to this#I canât see the lil Vanessas would get along#like despite both having awful dads they always seemed kind#while the mikes?âŠ. idk man BAHAH#hear me out on this#Michael is definitely a bully so heâd bump heads with Mike#BUT I think Mike would argue back too dude is violent in the movie#he beat up a random man cause he misunderstood the situation#SO THESE two are figthingggg the girls are fightinhggg
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Hey, undiagnosed Autistic probably. I take everything he says with kindness first, then assume humor. After putting Neil's answers into those two categories it has become easier to recognize some more of the nuances that occur (boundary drawing, admonishing, irony, seriousness, etc). But always assume kindness first.
Mr Neil, I am autistic, sometimes when you answer a question I don't know if you are joking, being serious or being ironic. Is there any way I can identify this in your texts?
Not really. Context normally helps. What I'd suggest is, if you are unsure, just go into the notes and ask. People will reply. A consensus should soon appear about whether I meant what I said seriously humorously or ironically or any combination of the three.
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