#just make date to be normal

[sky10]

_A Normal Thing_

Just a few days ago my friend asked a girl out

Not like a date though he was just trying to ask her name

But first you need to know that where this incident is talking place

In

one and only

_INDIA🇮🇳_

In India datings are not normal if you ask a girl's name in public they will ignore in public

Well that's a normal thing to ignore in public

But in India (Kerala) we don't have a casual clubs, party,bars where normal peoples hangout

So my friend saw that girl so many days in public place where she went to hostel and college

Few days ago my friend confidently asked her that I am seeing you every day in here

'She just nodded'

Friend: What's your name?

She: Sorry!

And then she left to hostel

Me and my other friend appreciated his effort🤝🏻🫂

You know my respect to my friend goes like this 📈

He just nailed it

I know my friend gained nothing from this but his confidence is something else 🤌🏻🔥

Coming to the topic you know this is just a normal day in (Kerala) India

I don't blame her or my friend seeing the current social situation in Kerala

I really liked that girl's attitude

She don't want to talk so she just left saying sorry

You know it's rare scene that you can see in our society that girl says she is sorry to be involved

Some girls don't react like that

In there situation my friend and her attitude is so normal and neutral.

" I really want date and Asking a girl out and hang out in public to be normal in our country "

[inkskinned]

the thing about some men is that they want you to remember, at all times, that you are underneath them. that with one word or look or "joke", you will stay beneath them. that even "exceptions" to the rule are not true exceptions - the commonly cited statistic that one in eight men believe they could win against serena williams.

women's gymnastics is often not seen as real gymnastics. whatever the fuck non-euclidian horrors rhythmic gymnasts are capable of, it's often tamped down as being not a sport. some of the most dominant athletes in the world are women. nobody watches women's soccer. despite years of dancing and being built like a fucking brick, men always assume they're faster and stronger than i am. you wouldn't like what happens when they are incorrect. once while drunk at a guy's house i won a held-plank challenge by a solid minute. the party was over after that - he became exceedingly violent.

what i mean is that you can be perfect, and they still think you're ... lacking, somehow. i hope you understand i'm trying to express a neutral statement when i say: taylor swift was the possibly the most patriarchy-palatable, straight-down-the-line woman we could churn out. she is white, conventionally attractive, usually pretty mild in personality. say what you will about her (and you should, she's a billionaire, she can handle it), but a few things seem to be true about her: 1. she can write a damn catchy song, and 2. the eras tour truly was a massive commercial success and was also genuinely an impressive feat of human athleticism and performance.

i don't know if she deserves the title of "woman of the year," i'm not debating that in this post. what i am saying is that she was named Woman of The Year, and then an untalented man got onstage at the golden globes and made fun of her for attending her boyfriend's football games. what i am saying is that this woman altered local economies - and her dating life is still being made into a "harmless" punchline. the camera panned, greedy, over to her downing a full glass of champagne. congratulations taylor! you are woman of the year! but you are a woman. even her.

fuck, man. write better material.

a guy gets onstage at a college graduation and despite the fact like half the crowd is made up of women, he spends a significant proportion of it warning these people - who spent possibly hundreds of thousands of dollars on their education - that they were lied to. that the "real" meaning of femininity is motherhood. that they shouldn't rest on the laurels of that education-they-paid-for but instead throw it away to kneel at a man's heel. imagine that. sweating in your godawful polyester gown (that you also had to pay for!), fresh out of 4 years of pushing yourself ever-harder: and some guy you've never met - who knows nothing about you - he reminds you this "win" is a pyrrhic one at best. you really shouldn't consider yourself that extraordinary. you're still a woman, even after years of study.

god forbid you are not a pretty woman, but if you are pretty, you must be dumb. god forbid you are not ablebodied or white or cis or straight or good at swallowing. you must be beneath a man, or else they are not a man. the equation for masculinity seems to just be: that which is not a woman or womanly (god forbid). anything "feminine" is thereby anathema. to engage in "feminine" things such as therapy, getting a hug from a friend, or crying - it is giving up ones manhood. therefore women need to be put in their place to ensure that masculinity is protected.

this is something i have struggled to explain to terfs - they are not doing the work of feminism, but rather the patriarchy. by asserting that women and men must be (on some secret level) oppositional and in conflict, they also assume that being a woman is akin to being another species. but bigotry does not stem from observational truths or clarity - that is what makes it bigotry. there was nothing in my childhood that made me fundamentally different from my brother. we are treated differently nonetheless. to assert there is some biological drive that enforces my gender role is to assert that women have a gendered role. men do not see women as equal to them not because of biological reality - but instead because the core tenant of the patriarchy is that women aren't full, realized people.

we are told from a very young age to excuse misbehavior as a single man's choice - not all men. it is not all men, just that one guy. all women are gold-digging bitches who belong in the kitchen - but if a man is mean, bigoted, or violent to you, it's just that particular guy, and that means nothing about men-as-a-whole. it is only one guy who got mad when you gently rejected him. it is only one guy who warns her this trophy is heavy, are you sure you can hold it? it is only one guy who smashes her face into the cake. it is only one guy talking into a mic about hating our bodily autonomy.

i have just found that they often wait until the moment we actually seem to be upstaging them. you sit in a meeting where you're presenting your own findings and he says get me a coffee? or you run to the end of the marathon and are about to finish first and he pushes your kids out in front of you. you win the chess game and they make some comment akin to well, you're ugly away. we can be the billionaire and get the dream life and finally fucking do it and yet! still! they have this strange, visceral urge to say well actually, if you think you're so great -

it's not one just one guy. it's one in eight.

[freitag1607]

1.05 / Battle of the Labyrinth

[kagoutiss]

pelican town, ‘72

[maskofnova]

I love a woman that can just fucking kill me. The direct next moment of this one.

[mayxo-hxh]

i love how illumi and hisoka are freak by nature x freak by act. like hisoka could 100% be a normal person if he chose to be one day but illumi couldn't act normal even if he tried

Hisoka is the guy that makes a conscious effort for people to perceive him as a disgusting freak every single day but Illumi doesnt even have to try. he just is. he exists and people are weirded the fuck out by him. Even hisoka agrees too like 😭😭😭😭

[aroaceleovaldez]

we should make Nico more fucked up, actually. enough woobifying him. that boy should be covered in blood and viscera

[satoumafuyuss]

Still getting used to drawing them but I'm happy with how this turned out so I will post it :)

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

This isn't what it looks like.

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[3-aem]

thinking about touch starved touch sensitive gojo again. Absolutely desperate for even the most grazing touches from getou and yet overwhelmed by it all.

[sky10]

The term " I Love You "

There are different types of scenarios that you say the word I love you it's meaning changes based on the situation

But you know In India especially in Kerala this word is on whole other level

You already know that datings are not normal in Kerala

But there are committed peoples you can see in public and other places i mean lovers

So problem in here is

First is

There is no dating in here so if boy or girl likes each other they tell them

I love you

If they like they will committed and become lovers so in that proposed day that couples mind will definitely get the wedding thought

So they immediately thinks their wedding and think about will family accept my lover. Eventually one will think is he/she matured enough so the things goes like this

Eventually they will break up or settle

Even the kids minds are like this first propose the love then marriage

I will not blame them because they are not the problem here

The real problem is with our society the society is twisted and broked they teach the whole generation wrong they don't even notice the cycle will continue like this 🔁🙂

We need to break this society's wrong perspectives 🔁🔨

We need to change

The thing is in another foreign countries first they hangout i mean go out

If they likes they date each other and then the one of them will say i love you then they live together 'living together'

This is the main thing

The wedding only comes last

But our society is not like this even proposing is a bad thing in here they will make a sus out of it

That's the society's mentality

Then the real problem comes the old peoples they are separated like this

Main one is moral policing peoples(sadhachara thendikal)

Next is Facebook grandpas (kilavanmar)

Bloody gramavasies

Etc

They all think like one

They don't accept the love or dating because of them our society turned into like this so our children also

So we really need to break this thing

I really want everything to be normal in our society

[sundialsandsands]

aggie doodles I did yesterday and today over call while freaking out about the leaks 🤧😭

I won't be discussing the plot/spoilers for season 5 publicly until the English release but I will say one thing: the animation is honestly really good and they definitely undermined in the trailer for 0 expectations so that they can give us the best they got ^_^ ily Wildbrain studios and a huge thank you to the team at Wildbrain for giving us season 5 and hopefully 6 <3

[klanced]

this is why i never read voltron fanfic 💀

[birdiedoesdc]

bouncing around the thought of cassie and kon getting together and dating and they have a lot of fun because they genuinely love each other and get along really well. but every time they go out cassie will spend half the date going “sigh. cissie is so cool and so brave and i wish i had half of her dedication and determination.” and kon spends the other half of the date going “sigh. robin is so cool and so smart and i wish i had half of his genius and bravery.” and because they are very dumb teenagers it takes forever to figure out what this means.

[lazylittledragon]

I love your vamp family!! Would you ever consider adding stickers or prints of them to your shop?

i hope you're having a lovely day❤️

i definitely would, it just depends how many people want them!! i think also a rabbit casket band shirt would work out really well too

stickers might not be too far away actually bc with the art style i can just do them myself on my thermal printer >:))

[rikkivoid]

winter kiss