#just gaslight yourself babes <3< /div> Explore tagged Tumblr posts

[ellesnorthernstar]

stop overconsuming about shifting (ie. methods, confirmation, etc) and just know you already do it.

[biancadoes1]

I see some people must have just graduated from the Miserable Tif School of lying, manipulation, and gaslighting because some of yall are mental.

First and foremost, Luke and Nic did NOT have to play up their chemistry that hard to sell the season. Like they said, they were repressing their chemistry through S1 and S2. They have an unsettling amount of chemistry. It translates on camera no matter how they act. They could have been dead as a doorknob and sold people. To look at either of their behaviors on the WT and saying it’s all PR, but turning around and saying JD and Nic are infatuated with each other, just get the fuck out. You’re lying to yourself! 95% of Jakolas were Lukolas 3 months ago saying some unhinged shit on public platforms. Don’t act all high and mighty now, babes.

Luke and Nic only have eyes for each other when they are around each other. They know each other better than they know themselves. With one glance, they knew when the other needed a social break on set. They took naps together, laid NAKED on a tiny ass couch together in between takes, essentially lived together for 6 months during the WT, chose to hang out even after press was over, hung out after long filming days where she cooked him dinner, got ready together, literally looked like they wanted to jump each other in front of thousands of people. Yes, that shit is unhinged af. I’m sure they know that now, but that’s them. Even their cast sees it! Claudia even said she feels like a third wheel with them. That’s not PR!

So, with that being said, no one can lie and say it was all PR. You’re fucking delusional if you believe that.

👆

[islandofthedollz]

Jimmy infantilizing a f!reader after physically and emotionally abusing her to the point where he's the only one she can rely on

❤︎Jailer ❤︎

⁠❥TW: Abuse, gaslighting, infantilizing, physical abuse, body shaming, Reader is 18

⁠❥ thanks for the request ILY babe :3 Hopefully the tags work and everything! I just really like talking and writing about toxic Jimmy

As you wiped down the counter, (Y/N) couldn't help but feel a sense of excitement and nervousness. You were just a few months away from graduating high school and was looking forward to attending your dream college in the fall. You had worked hard to get good grades and had been accepted into a great program.

As you took a break to grab a drink from the back room, you noticed a guy sitting at a table by the window. He was older, probably in his early 30s, with a charming smile and piercing eyes. He caught your eye and nodded in your direction, and you felt a sudden jolt of attraction.

As you returned to the counter, he got up and walked over to you. "Hey, can I get a coffee?" he asked, his voice low and smooth like whiskey.

You smiled and started making his drink. "So, what brings you in here today?" Youasked, trying to make small talk.

"Just needed a break from the usual routine," he replied. "I'm Jimmy. I've never seen you around here before."

"I'm (Y/N)," you said, handing him his coffee. "I work here part-time. I'm a student too." You smiled.

Jimmy's eyes lit up with interest. "No kidding? What are you studying?"

You hesitated, not wanting to give too much away. "Just the usual stuff," you said, trying to brush it off.

But Jimmy was persistent. He started asking her more questions, and You found yourself opening up to him in ways you never had with anyone before. He was charming and witty, and seemed to understand you in a way that no one else ever had.

As the days turned into weeks, Jimmy became a regular at the cafe. He would come in every day, and you would look forward to seeing him. You would talk for hours, and you found yourself falling deeper and deeper in love with him.

As you started dating, Jimmy began to subtly manipulate you. He would make you feel guilty for not spending enough time with him, or for not being affectionate enough. He would criticize your appearance, telling you that you were too fat or too thin, and that you needed to dress more attractively. He would belittle your accomplishments, telling you that you weren’t good enough, and that you needed to try harder.

But as the relationship progressed, you started to notice that Jimmy was becoming more and more controlling. He would get jealous when you talked to other guys, and he would question you about every little thing you did. At first, you brushed it off as mere possessiveness, but as time went on, you started to realize that something was wrong.

One day, Jimmy asked you to drop out of high school and move in with him. "You don't need a degree to be successful," he said. "I can take care of you. You can focus on your passions and interests, and I'll support you."

You were taken aback. You had always dreamed of attending college, and the thought of dropping out of high school was unthinkable. But Jimmy was persuasive, and he made you feel like he was the only person in the world who truly understood you.

As you looked into his eyes, you felt a sense of doubt. Maybe he was right. Maybe you didn't need a degree to be successful. And besides, you are in love with him, and you wanted to make him happy.

"Okay," you said finally, your voice barely above a whisper. "I'll drop out of school and move in with you."

Jimmy's face lit up with a smile, and he pulled you into his arms. "I'll take care of you," he whispered. "I'll always be here for you."

As you looked into his eyes, you felt a sense of trepidation. You had just made a decision that would change your life forever, and you weren’t sure if you were ready for the consequences.

But as you hugged him back. Jimmy had set a trap for you, and you had fallen right into it. You were 18 years old, and you had just given up your education and your future for a guy you barely knew. You were in love with him, but you were also scared. You didn't know what the future held, but you knew that you were in for a wild ride.

As the days turned into weeks, your life became a living nightmare. Jimmy was controlling and manipulative, and he made you feel like you were worthless without him. He would yell at you, belittle you, and make you feel like you were the only person in the world who was stupid enough to fall in love with him.

He made you block your friends' numbers and wouldn't let you talk to your parents. He isolated you from the world, and you felt like you were losing yourself. You were trapped in a toxic relationship, and didn't know how to escape.

But what really took you by surprise was Jimmy's reaction when you brought up job searches for him. He was in between jobs, and you thought it would be a good idea for him to start looking for a new one. But every time you mentioned it, Jimmy would become physically abusive.

"Don't you dare bring that up again," he would say, his eyes flashing with anger. "I'll find a job when I'm good and ready. You just focus on taking care of me."

And with that, he would grab your arm and twist it, or push you against the wall. You would cry and beg him to stop, but Jimmy just wouldn't listen. He was like a ticking time bomb, waiting to go off at any moment. And then, one day, Jimmy's abuse went too far. He beat you so badly that you ended up in the hospital.

Jimmy would often make you feel like a child, talking down to you and making decisions for you. He would say things like "you're not mature enough to make your own decisions" or "you're too naive to understand what's good for you." He would take away your autonomy, making you feel like you were incapable of taking care of yourself.

He would make you dress in a certain way, telling you what to wear and how to style your hair. He would control what you ate, what you watched on TV, and what music you listened to. He would even control how you spent your free time, telling you what hobbies to pursue and what activities to avoid.

You felt like you were living in a prison, with Jimmy as your jailer. As the months went by, you became a shadow of your former self. You became depressed, anxious, and felt like you were sufficating. You were trapped, with no way out. You had lost all sense of identity, all sense of self, a mere ghost of the person you used to be.

And then, Jimmy would tell you that he would never leave you. He would say that you were his, and that he would always take care of you. He would make you feel like you were dependent on him, like you couldn't survive without him. And you would believe him, because you had no one else to turn to.

You would try to make him happy, to please him in every way. You would cook his meals, clean his house, and cater to his every whim. You would be his personal servant, his slave. And he would reward you with affection, with attention. He would make you feel like you were loved, like you were worth something.

But it was all a lie. Jimmy didn't love you, and he didn't care about you. He only cared about himself, and what he could get from you.

And you would stay with him, because you had no one else. You had given up on your education, your friends, and your family. You had given up on yourself. You were completely dependent on Jimmy, and you knew it.

As the years went by, you became more and more entrenched in the relationship. You lost all sense of identity, all sense of self. You were just a shadow of your former self, a mere ghost of the person you used to be.

And Jimmy would continue to abuse you, to control you, to manipulate you. He would make you feel like a child, like a servant, like a slave. He would take away your autonomy, your freedom, your dignity. And you would stay with him, because you had no one else.

You were trapped, alone, and broken. You were a prisoner in your own life, with Jimmy as your jailer.

[punkpandapatrixk]

🥀Sad Bitch Lilith ♦︎ Timeless Pick A Card

We live in a world where being too kind, too sweet, too compassionate and forgiving could often lead to disastrous outcomes. This is after all a world where narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths run free without much repercussion. A sweet girl can’t be pleasant all the time; a goddess needs to carry a machete from time to time.

What most people have yet to grasp, is that Venus and Lilith quite literally make each side of the Divine Femininity coin. Venus represents Light and Lilith represents Dark; even then, they could easily switch roles depending on the situation at hand. Only if you want—you are allowed to embody both Venus and Lilith in their respective glory.

Do you really want to become that kind of idiot who sends love and light to those who have done you much harm? You don’t have to force yourself to be the bigger person in a conflict that was created for the sole purpose of stripping you of power and autonomy. Enablers and gaslighters enforce that kind of idea so you make room for their terrible behaviour. WAKE. UP.

So many women in this world have at some point been a Sad Bitch Lilith at the hands of psychopaths, sociopaths and narcs in whatever role they play in their lives. Hopefully this reading serves to help you turn the narrative into SAVAGE LILITH. The Dark Moon Goddess who delights in revenge for she knows in it lies EDUCATION for the imbeciles who have foolishly disrespected her kind, sweet, friendly, feminine qualities. The Dark Feminine retorts,

‘RESPECT ME OR GET DESTROYED.’

Black Moon Lilith is a Goddess of Redemption. She takes into her own hands matters of delivering nightmare to those who have wronged her. She calculates in the dark. She doesn’t ask for permission. She's a wild woman. She punishes swiftly. She moves history.

She is Karma.

Karma paid in revenge glow up, BITCH🌹

SONG: I’ll Make You Cry by aespa

MOVIE: Gone Girl (2014)

[PAC Masterlist] [Part 1] [Part 3]

[Patreon] [Paid Readings]

☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・.

Pile 1 – When My Tears Silently Turn to Diamonds

the way your beauty irritates people – 10 of Pentacles Rx

VIBE: I’m Unhappy by aespa

You’re somebody who’s perceived as abundant and superfluous by others. It’s super obvious from the way you look, the way you carry yourself, or even your family background. You just… exude a rich vibe—whether or not you actually come from old money. Damn, you just have it in you. It’s something you were born with. Even if you didn’t come from a rich background, or even if right now, for some reason you’re struggling with resources, no, honey, listen: it’s your fucking AURA.

People can see either you’re blessed since birth—with money, beauty, talents, whatever—or they simply can smell that you’re gonna make it big someday. Most people you’ve known in your environment, do not like this about you at all. It’s their own fault though, why in the name of fuck are they always comparing themselves to you? Did you ask for that? Never. But they’re always imagining how nice it would be in your shoes without knowing for realz your life story.

They project their insecurities at you even when you’ve never wanted to make anybody feel that way because of your presence. In many ways, I think you’ve tried so hard to make you look ordinary, or in some cases, you’ve tried to show a lot of care and generosity. You’ve tried to make everybody see that you’re just like them even if your circumstances are not exactly the same. It never worked though—maybe it’s even backfired.

Your abundance… is simply irritating to them because you’re surrounded by motherfucking losers, babe.

silencing the negative self-talk – XIX The Sun

VIBE: ASAP by NewJeans

You should be done feeling bad for being radiant. It’s not your fault other people are ugly. It’s not your responsibility that other people don’t have money. How are you at fault when a good company chooses you for the talents and skills you’ve developed which they need? Seriously, it’s none of your business if others wouldn’t work on themselves to be considered an amazing creature in society. You keep being you, honey. You and I know you’re always refining your natural talents and deepening your base knowledge. You’re truly a hustler even if others don’t see that.

When you’re not saddened or confused by others’ terrible attitude towards your blessings, your mindset is really positive like the Sun itself. Of all the Piles, I think your heart is the purest🤣You’re more generous than people give you credit for. You’re always trying to make everyone feel welcomed. If you were a party host, you’d make sure every single person has a good time in ways that suit them. You’re that attentive.

Unfortunately, your Light, indeed babe, seems to attract a lot of harmful bugs. No matter how much you give, it’ll never be enough and nothing you do will stop the gossip and badmouthing and backstabbing. Because essentially, these bottom-feeders are already bitter about their own pathetic lives. They hate you as much as they hate themselves for not having the courage to feel deserving of the abundance you’ve worked hard for.

S A V A G E – 4 of Wands

VIBE: Hurt by NewJeans

‘Leave them at the bottom of the grave they dug for you.’ – something I saw on Pinterest

Because you’re too kind, too giving, I think you’re the type of person who wouldn’t have the heart to leave people behind where they are miserable. Umm… you need to grow up a little bit more and finally see for yourself how pointless that is. You’re just one person, what makes you think you could save everybody? I hope you don’t yourself turn into a megalomania who thinks others wouldn’t survive without your charity.

Leave that toxic environment and you will regenerate yourself. As you do so, you become a vibrational match to some kind of a Soul Tribe situation where you’ll be met with people who aren’t the least bit parasitic. You’ve got to believe you’re deserving of a symbiosis mutualistic kind of relationships and friendships for them to manifest, OK?

As for the anklebiters? Hurt them with your leaving them. Hurt them with your totally ignoring and blocking them. I’m not saying you have to throw a brick at them for all the disrespect they’ve dealt on you. I’m sure your change of attitude will hurt the living shit out of them. And one day, when you’re famous and important, they’ll see you, alright. They’ll see you for all that you’ve always been capable of doing and they’ll regret they didn’t treat you better. And they’ll wallow in immense pain for not having access to you anymore. Nevermore. Leave them hurting in their shame and regrets. That’ll kill them😈

SWEET MOTHER OF REVENGE 🔻💙

VILLAIN ORIGIN STORY – Gold Physician (Herodotus)

Reclaiming Lilith – Priestess of Prosperity

Access full reading + cards on Patreon🌸

☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・.

Pile 2 – You See This Glow-Up? NOW You Jelly

the way your beauty irritates people – Knight of Wands Rx

VIBE: 28 Reasons by Seulgi

First and foremost, you’re a damn rare beauty. I don’t care if you don’t think that highly of your physical appearance; bitch, you’re goddamn attractive. Take it or leave it. Your problem is that you act like you’re ordinary and that irritates the living shit out of your enemies because they think you’re fake. ‘How dare you act ordinary when you’re obviously that pretty. Are you mocking us??’ Yeah… Why the fuck are you surrounded by ordinary beauties? Have you got Venus squaring Pluto? Huehue~

Anyway, in any situation you’re an eye candy and everybody can see that. Maybe you’re dense enough to not see how others see you, but all these friends of yours, they’re hyper aware of how all eyes are on you the moment you slightly move. You stir the air in a way no other human does. It’s because there’s passion and authenticity in you that make you vibrate on a much higher level than most people. Really, you’re a rare gem but this could get you in danger a lot.

You’re the type of beauty that invites enemies actually because of your friendly disposition. Like, there’s this annoying gap that irritates people in ways even they don’t really understand. The gap between your intense beauty/attraction and your general politeness. You’re soft spoken, cheerful and helpful. For the most part, you’re a ball of joy and if you’re a girl, boys like you A LOT. You’re fun. You’re cool. You’re smart and creative. A lot funnier than people assume. You’re the IT GIRL. But the envious ones call you a pick-me LMAO

Envious girls put a lot of effort into brandishing you as a trashy character but by doing that, even the boys could see who’s the real G here. And well, wouldn’t that annoy their trashy asses further?🤷🏻‍♀️They’re literally ruining their own image by trying to ruin you🤡

silencing the negative self-talk – 8 of Wands Rx

VIBE: Forgive Me by BoA

Now that that’s out of the way, let’s have a heart-to-heart. Honey, you’ve got to stop pretending like you’re a sweet Venus all the time. You’re not. You and I know that. Deep down, there’s an evil bitch in you that wants to play with fire. I think you’ve tried to curb your Lilith practically your entire Life. Perhaps on a subconscious level you know this of you and you want to avert your eyes from looking at your Lilith. That’s how you seem fake sometimes.

Highly intuitive people can smell the Devil in you, but you act like you’re an angel all the time. And that’s annoying because your Lilith is literally a men-magnet and this often takes away attention from other girls but you act all innocent💩I’m not saying it’s your fault—I sense that for the most part, you don’t even consciously want this intense attention; I’m saying there’s this mechanism about how you’re perceived by your environment.

Aaand why do you think that is? Of course, because subconsciously, you want all of this attention. You always want to be wanted and liked and desired. You crave that shit so bad because when you were tinier you felt unseen. Un-understood. Unappreciated. Now, doesn’t matter who or how, you just want everybody to see you and want you, but you’re not gonna give them back any of that attention. You want to be unattainable. Actually, you are unattainable. You don’t easily let people get close to you. You don’t want people in your personal space. You just want the a t t e n t i o n.

S A V A G E – 5 of Wands Rx

VIBE: Savage by aespa

You know, this is all just a lil game to you. Deep down, you’re fighting this urge to snatch everybody’s boyfriends and husbands. Sometimes you get frightened by your evil desires because if you were unhinged, you’d want all these married people to want you more than they want their spouses. It’s not even that serious. You just want to come on top of everybody. You’re secretly envious of these little bitches who are—probably—loved by their spouses. And even when you can see there’s no Love in that connection, you’re still jealous that someone wants to commit themselves to these undeserving mediocre asses.

You feel all alone in this world. People are only nice to you because of your looks or whatever else that’s not even that important. And people are also nasty to you because of your looks and everything else that’s not even that important. It’s been one insanely difficult Life for you. You’re sad. You feel abandoned and unwanted in spite of all the shallow praises. And there’s this quiet rage inside that wants to punish everyone for not caring about the REAL you.

Bitch, grow up a little bit and you’ll see that low-quality people get married to their fellow mediocre asses. You don’t play in the same dimension as them so don’t lower your standards🤭One day you’ll see who’s gonna end up divorced and miserable because they all married the wrong people! Nah, that’s not even the important part LMAO The important part is when you’re the one marrying a Soul Mate after all of your spiritual and psychological glow-up that made you a vibrational match to so much REAL LOVE and you’re surrounded by all this money and beauty.

You never needed their kind of a glow-up; you were born perfection. You needed a different kind of confidence to SLAY and be very happy.

SWEET MOTHER OF REVENGE 🔻❤️

VILLAIN ORIGIN STORY – Red Magus (Edward Kelly)

Reclaiming Lilith – Priestess of Happiness

Access full reading + cards on Patreon🌸

☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・.

Pile 3 – You Thought I’d Give It All to You

the way your beauty irritates people – 2 of Cups

VIBE: The Weekend by BIBI

You’re this absolutely weird mix of devil and angel in one body. You attract ALL kinds of people. Young, old. Men, women. Animals and toddlers are either terrified by you or LOVE you to oblivion. People always want something from you, right? They either simp for you or act like you owe them something—usually when their simping doesn’t pay off LMAO That’s really weird… Your entire existence is weird. I like that😉

You’re definitely giving, charitable, although in reality you’re really selective with whom you allow in your personal space. ‘Just because I’m friendly with you doesn’t mean I wanna be friends with you,’ kind of vibe. Nevertheless, people are silly, and they cultivate this weird intense desire within them. They build all these unnatural expectations around you having to give or share with them.

In their sick minds, they demand this. When you don’t humour them their sick demands, they get ULTRA bitter, probably even resentful. And then they seek to destroy you. Weird. Weird. Weird. You never even intended to lead them on. People are crazy when you’re around. The worst part is, they never even had your best interest at heart. They just wanted something from you—energy, attention, favouritism, gentle caress, who the hell cares.

How much Neptunian/Pisces/12th House energy do you have for you to be this way?😷HAHAH

silencing the negative self-talk – Page of Pentacles

VIBE: KAZINO by BIBI

Unlike the other Piles, you don’t seem to have a lot of neg self-talk. You’re sassy, bitchy, and you embrace your negative qualities because you see the value in them. Society ain’t perfect either anyway, what’s so wrong in being me the way that I am? You go, girlie~ You’re a total believer in revenge and vengeance. You ARE the definition of Lilith incarnate. Were you born with it? Did you develop yourself to be this way? Who the fuck knows—that’s your very own secret ingredient~

You’d rather let the mortals hurt and rot in their own stupidity than let yourself be the one to hurt. Unless you’re defending those you care about, you’re never sustaining hurt. You hurl lemons at all your enemies before they could get closer. Any step closer, you squirt that lemon in their eyes. Their fault. You warned them already! ‘Hey, I’m nice but I ain’t no saint,’ is your philosophy.

And when you’re really, really, really done with someone’s bullshit, you ain’t afraid to spill some blood. You’re gonna be smart about it though. You plan quietly and attack unexpectedly with a demonic angel smile on your face. ‘Send a message to your god; you’ve messed with the wrong bitch, BITCH.’

You are a menace to society👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

S A V A G E – XII The Hanged Man Rx

VIBE: Vengeance by BIBI

See, you are one sneaky bitch. Though you are a fucking menace to society, you know how to act righteous. You also know how to act like the victim should the occasion arise—but this is rare because you like to appear on top of everyone. Still, you’re quite masterful at creating sad or horrendous backstories that would justify your wreaking havoc upon your enemies, or even just society at large. Your sense of morality is kinda shrewd LMAO And I think that’s because you’ve been at the mercy of someone else’s shrewd behaviour before, probably when you were a lot younger.

That made you realise you never wanted to be the victim anymore. If anything, you’ll terrorise everyone so you maintain your own safety. WHEW. You’ve got your trust broken in authority. Their rules didn’t protect you or even hurt you. So, you believe new rules should be made in their place. You make your own rules and you don’t care if that hurts some people. You have this dicktionary explaining what kinds of dickhead are worth sacrificing to your new-world agenda.

🤣🤣🤣You’re CRAZY!

I believe in you. I think you could change the world. But I think you’re largely only interested in your own world. The whole world? That’s too much trouble. You aren’t keen on destroying your small queendom/kingdom in exchange for world domination—you smart like that. Keep at that. WHOA.

SWEET MOTHER OF REVENGE 🔻🧡

VILLAIN ORIGIN STORY – Green Magus (John Dee)

Reclaiming Lilith – Priestess of Divination

Access full reading + cards on Patreon🌸

☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・. ☆♪°・.

[PAC Masterlist] [Part 1] [Part 3]

[Patreon] [Paid Readings]

[love-toxin]

yes pls tell me all ur thoughts on blade, luocha, gepard, jingyuan and kafka 😳 the eng va and trailers for jingyuan and kafka in particular got me acting up—just smthing about jingyuan’s lil smirk and laid bk countenance and how i know he can fuck the daylights out of anyone effortlessly—and kafka? yes ma’am anything for u pls slam ur foot against the wall behind me 🙏🏻

god bless im literally in love w/ all of them anon. would give my left nut for blade, luocha or jing yuan, gepard and kafka carry my team so hard. also bc i want them to step on my face.

also i wanna be toxic rn so under the cut ⬇️⬇️

blade -> prrrrrrrrr. big daddy. idk why but he gives me discord kitten daddy dom vibes. he manspreads. he gets pussy. he probably doesn't shower as often as he should. he's unapologetically a rude bitch. he absolutely girlbosses you into being his baby, he pulls out the "i feel nothing but you give me a taste of life" and keeps you so close you're basically part of him. handsy and off-putting in public for passersby but you can't get his hands off you, it's a losing battle babe. nd he's nasty freaky slimy and rubs his cock against you as a sign he wants to go home or just find someplace quiet. he doesn't like fucking you out in the open but he'll do it if the need arises--like if you "forget" that your body & soul belongs to him and need a harsh reminder. you're just his delicate little kitty after all, so if anyone's gonna break you it should be someone you love unconditionally. right?

kafka -> gatekeep. gaslight. girldaddy. beats you up and makes you say thank you. you're her pet so get used to it, but she'll feed you once in a while so you should be glad, puppy. she's the mean tall girlfriend who babies you and then spits in your mouth for a treat. her & blade treat you like a pet and if she's feeling extra mean she strips you down and makes you kneel between them with nothing to cover yourself. if you're good and give them a lil show they'll let you go early, they promise (lie). humping kafka's pillow to get your scent all over it becomes a nightly ritual to help her sleep, no it is non-negotiable, it is in your spouses' contract that she signed with your hand while you slept. it also states that your face may be used in any and all leisure activities at her discretion--mainly for her to push your head between her legs and lazily give you an order as she sifts through documents. you might be her pet, but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you. at least as far as you can tell.

luocha -> ngl idk that much about him yet but he's immediately unhinged bf-shaped. stupid and drunk on thoughts of you & gives you his credit card details on the first date. he's gross and wants to bite your thighs. begging to be drowned in pussy/choked with cock. you're so pretty and he's so dirty by comparison. he can't blame you for not wanting his gross dick anywhere near you, guess all he can do is eat you out <33 oh noooooo! what a tragedy! sike. he loves that shit. he's got meds to make you squirt too. ik he's not that kinda healer but don't tell me unhinged luocha wouldn't have a ball drugging you both up and taking you for a ride. he wouldn't even know his name once the high dies down, just the feeling of your lips leaving stray kisses all down his face as you try to stay awake.

jing yuan -> daddy 2.0. a dilf with no kids. 1000% goes into husband mode the second you're within reach. chill & soft & uwu until everyone's outta the office, then he becomes a menace to society and your underwear. he cums in them before you leave for the day so you don't forget him <3 you can have a cheeky one in your mouth on his lunch break if you're good. ♀️ he beats your pussy up cock-first for hurting his bbg with your period. he still doesn't get enough of you in the day so he creeps on you at night, rubs one out on your thighs while you sleep and flips over to go right back to snoring afterwards. you can never have too much cum on you--that's his wisdom and as your superior general you should probably believe it, no? don't worry, he can fuck with your job and your life and your friends and your money and your heart until you find it within yourself to agree.

gepard -> dummy boy goody-two-shoes. he likes fuckin in the uniform and being called "captain" i am not taking criticism at this time. dumb little captured stellaron hunter & horny silvermane captain roleplay. moans in your ear during sex. he moans like a girl and he hates it but it's hot and he cums 10x faster if you tell him just how hot it is. he's so big & tall he just makes you feel like a little bunch of grapes when he picks you up, nd he's self-conscious about how weird it is that he likes seeing your face scrunch up in pain when he eases you on his cock but it's just too big. the gravity makes it all feel too much when he sits you on his lap like that but you just wiggle around on it rather than get off, and he's a fiend for it. also consider clean, prim, missionary-lover gepard falling in love with rimming you & feeling like a dirty mutt for enjoying it so much & begging you for it when he's in need. asking him to take a shower with you turns into code for "let's do anal against the tile please" real quick.

[dollsdaydreams]

Dating in Today’s Generation: A Hopeless Romantic’s Struggle!💋

So, here’s the thing. As a hopeless romantic, I’ve always dreamed of that classic love story—the one where everything just clicks and you end up living happily ever after. But these days? It feels like everything has turned into a talking stage. You know, where you just text and try to figure out if you're into each other, but there’s no commitment or real connection. It's like everyone’s too afraid to take the plunge and just be real.🤍

The whole “talking stage” is draining. No one wants to be upfront about their feelings. Everyone is just waiting for the other person to make the move. So, as much as I want to dive into something real, I can't help but feel like it’s impossible to find someone who wants the same thing. It’s frustrating, especially for someone who believes in love and connection as much as I do. Dating is becoming this maze where you don’t even know if you're lost or just waiting for the next text to come through. It's no wonder I can't seem to date anymore!🍸

---

10 Red Flag Boys You Should Avoid!

I know we all love a bad boy, but trust me, there are some red flags that are simply not worth ignoring. Here’s a list of the 10 types of red flag boys that are best avoided:

~1. The Ghost – One minute they’re all about you, the next they disappear. If they can’t stay consistent, you don’t need that drama in your life.

~2. The Gaslighter – They make you question everything about yourself. Trust me, don’t waste your time with someone who makes you feel crazy for having feelings.

~3. The One Who ‘Changes’ for You – They act like a perfect gentleman at first, but it feels fake. Be wary of someone who’s too good to be true.

~4. The Serial Dater – Always has someone new lined up. They love the chase, but never commit. If they’re just in it for the thrill, run.

~5. The Controller – Wants to dictate your every move. Boundaries? Never heard of them. That’s a red flag that should be waved loud and clear.

~6. The Flake – Always canceling plans. If they can’t commit to something as simple as a date, they won’t commit to you.

~7. The One Who Doesn’t Respect You – If they make jokes at your expense or brush off your opinions, they don’t deserve your time.

~8. The Cheater – A classic red flag. If they’ve cheated in the past, it’s probably going to happen again. Trust is earned, not given.

~9. The ‘I’m Too Busy’ Guy – Too busy for you? Don’t make excuses for them. If they want to be with you, they’ll make time.

~10. The One Who Wants to ‘Change’ You - You’re perfect just the way you are, babe. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

———

How to Date in Today’s Generation: Navigating the Chaos with Confidence!🤍

Dating in today’s world can feel like stepping into an unpredictable maze. Between dating apps, mixed signals, and the constant game of "who likes who first," it's easy to get lost in the chaos. But here's the thing—dating doesn't have to be a mind game if you know how to navigate it with confidence. Here's how to stay true to yourself while dating in today’s generation:

~1. Communication is Key (But Don’t Overdo It)

Everyone’s afraid of the “talking stage,” but let’s be real—communication is the foundation of any relationship. It's crucial to express your feelings, wants, and expectations early on. If someone is vague about where things are heading, it’s okay to ask. But—here’s the thing—don’t overdo it by bombarding them with texts and trying to force a connection. Keep it chill and allow things to unfold naturally. You don’t need to text 24/7 to prove that you’re into someone.

~2. Set Boundaries (And Stick to Them)

We all know boundaries are crucial, but let’s get specific. Boundaries aren’t just about saying “no” to physical stuff; they’re about emotional boundaries, too. Know what you’re comfortable with emotionally—whether that’s how much personal information you share early on or how quickly you want to progress. If someone doesn’t respect your boundaries, that’s your cue to walk away. You deserve someone who values and respects your limits, not someone who tries to push you past them.

~3. Take Your Time (Don’t Rush the Labeling)

We live in a world that pushes for labels—“Are we dating? Are we official? What are we?” But sometimes, rushing into labeling things too early can make it feel like you're forcing a connection that’s not really there. Take your time to get to know the person without the pressure of defining things right away. There’s no rush. A relationship that starts as a slow burn is often more meaningful than one that sparks too quickly and burns out.

~4. Stay Independent (Don’t Lose Yourself)

This might sound cliché, but it’s vital: Don’t lose yourself while dating someone. Being in a relationship is about sharing your life, not becoming someone else. Keep doing what makes you happy—your hobbies, your friendships, your passions—whether that’s writing poetry, reading, or hanging out with friends. A relationship should add to your life, not consume it. If someone tries to change who you are or make you feel like you need to give up your individuality, that’s a major red flag.

~5. Avoid Settling (Know Your Worth)

Sometimes it’s tempting to settle for someone who doesn’t treat you right just because you don’t want to be alone. But here’s the harsh truth: settling never ends well. If someone isn’t meeting your needs emotionally or is constantly disrespecting you, you’re better off alone than stuck in a situation where you’re not getting the love and respect you deserve. Know your worth, and don’t compromise your values or needs for anyone.

~6. Be Real (Authenticity is Attractive)

Don’t try to be someone you’re not just to impress someone else. Whether it’s pretending to like certain things or acting a certain way, people can tell when you’re not being authentic. And honestly? It’s exhausting trying to keep up with a facade. Being real and true to who you are will attract the right person who loves you for you. Plus, it’s way less stressful than pretending to be something you’re not.

~7. Trust Your Instincts (They’re Usually Right)

It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of someone new, but your gut feeling is often the best guide. If something feels off, trust it. If someone is too good to be true or making you feel uneasy, that’s a sign to pay attention to. Don’t ignore those red flags or that little voice in your head telling you to slow down. Your instincts are there to protect you.

~8. Know That Breakups Are Normal (Don’t Fear Them)

Not every relationship is going to last forever, and that’s okay. In today’s generation, we tend to fear breakups or think that the end of something means failure. But the reality is that not every relationship is meant to be. Don’t fear the ending, because every breakup is an opportunity to learn more about yourself and what you want in the next relationship. Take the lessons, embrace the growth, and move on.

~9. Have Fun (Dating Doesn’t Always Have to Be Serious)

Dating is supposed to be fun, not a chore. Yes, it’s important to be serious about your values and boundaries, but it’s also okay to laugh, have spontaneous adventures, and enjoy the light-hearted moments. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to find “the one” immediately. Enjoy the ride, even if it’s just a fun date or getting to know someone new. Life is too short to take dating too seriously.

~10. Be Prepared for Heartbreak (But Don’t Let It Define You)

Heartbreak is inevitable at some point, but it’s also one of life’s greatest teachers. If you go into dating expecting everything to be perfect, you’ll set yourself up for disappointment. Instead, know that it’s okay to get hurt—it’s part of growing and figuring out what you want. Just make sure you pick yourself back up, remind yourself of your worth, and keep going.

——

Remember: You’re the Main Character in Your Own Story

At the end of the day, dating in today’s generation can be messy, confusing, and full of highs and lows. But through it all, one thing remains true: you are the main character in your story. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re not worthy of love, respect, or happiness. Whether you’re navigating the talking stage or just focusing on yourself, trust that the right person will find you when you’re ready—and when you’re being your authentic, unapologetic self. So go ahead, girl, keep living your best life, embrace the chaos, and let love come when it’s meant to.🥂

——

What’s Your Take?

Dating feels like its own adventure these days, doesn’t it? What do you think about the talking stage, setting boundaries, or spotting red flags? Share your thoughts in the comments or message me—let’s turn this chaos into something we can all laugh (or cry) about together. 🫧

——

“The right love will find you when you’re least expecting it—but until then, enjoy the chaos and embrace your journey.”💋

Xoxo

-Aurora!🧸

[kyleoreillylover]

INSTAGRAM AU! Dominik Mysterio x Black!Fem!Reader

A/N: I got inspired by a fanfic like this, so I thought I'd take matters into my own hands and write one for my man Dominik. This took so long, so I hope you guys enjoy!

LIKED BY DOMINIK MYSTERIO, RHEA RIPLEY AND 2 MILLION OTHERS

y/n: dream world ☀️ pic creds to rhea :)

VIEW COMMENTS

dominikmysterio: my dream girl ;)

↳y/n: and don't you ever forget it ☺️

↳ rhearipley: dom dom don't forget that she was mine first!!

↳dominikmysterio: but now she's mine, not yours. sorry not sorry, mami 🤷

↳ynstan134: the girls are fighting 😭 Dom you better stop you know Rhea would beat your ass for y/n 😭

↳y/n: ladies, ladies, calm down, there's enough for me to go around 😉

------------------------------------------------------------------------------

LIKED BY Y/N, FINN BALOR, RHEA RIPLEY AND 3 MILLION OTHERS

dominikmysterio: Kicked ass in the ring, and in WWE 2k23 (sorry not sorry babe).

tagged: y/n

VIEW COMMENTS

y/n: fr (I literally beat your ass in every single match and you told me to take it easy on you but it's whatever)

↳y/nstan123: LMAOO DOM WHY ARE YOU LYING

↳dominikmysterio: mi corazon why are you lying on my name 🤔 gaslighting is not healthy

↳y/n: I guess the pics I took of me winning are me gaslighting you then?

↳dominikmysterio: baby of course it's gaslighting, I don't expect anything less from you 🙄

damienpriest: bro didn't even let his girl win 😂 (you called me and finn on ft and complained about her winning)

↳y/nlover234: I love how everyone is just exposing Dom 😭

↳dominikmysterio: bro your supposed to be on my side!! ¿Qué pasa con el código hermano??!

↳damienpriest: Sorry bro, eras tú o Rhea y y/n me golpeó el trasero. 🤷

------------------------------------------------------------

LIKED BY WWE, DAMIEN PREIST, RHEA RIPLEY AND 2 MILLION OTHERS

y/n: You're either with us or beneath us 😈

tagged: dominikmysterio

VIEW COMMENTS

y/nstan234: the way he looks at her 🥹😭

finnbalor: so proud of everything you accomplished ❤️

↳y/n: thank you good sir ❤️ couldn't imagine ruling the wwe without you by my side

↳domlover619: this is so cute 😭 you and finn as a duo are so underrated

dominikmysterio: can I be on top of you?

↳tjdstan: ??!! DOM 😭 have some decorum

↳y/nlover134:bro can barely control himself in the ring with her, ya'll thought he would control himself on instagram 😭

↳y/n: sorry babe, that spot is reserved for rhea only 🤷 No hard feelings though! 😘

↳tjdstan: LMAAOO 😭 that's tough dom 😂

↳rhearipley: as it should be, love. sorry not sorry dom dom 🥰

↳damianpriest: you see me personally dom... i wouldn't take that disrespect. but that's just me 🤷

↳finnbalor: damien priest, mitb holder, tag team champion and number 1 instigator.

↳dominikmysterio: Priest, no me obligues a 619 tu trasero!

------------------------------------------------------------

LIKED BY DOMINIK MYSTERIO, LIV MORGAN, FINN BALOR AND 3 MILLION OTHERS

y/n: we are very nice people I swear 🥰

VIEW COMMENTS

finnbalor: the nicest people I know (I'm being held against my will)

rhearipley: the both of you throw a fit whenever there are no chicken tenders on a menu

↳y/n: bc why aren't my chicken tenders there?? it should be the basis of every restaurant 🙄

↳dominikmysterio: exactly! because if a restaurant doesn't have chicken is it really a restaurant?

↳rhearipley: ....ya'll are made for each other.

dominikmysterio: I don't know why people don't like us we're literally so sweet like wtf🤨

↳y/n: exactly! idk why people in the wwe hate our guts! like what did we do to ya'll??!

↳tjdstan: didn't ya'll literally attack ilja and lyra last night 😭

↳y/n: they literally attacked us first?? are you blind? you call yourself a tjd Stan but you aren't acting like one!!

↳wwenxt: we love a gaslighting queen

↳tjdstan: I'm sorry?! 😭 but they wouldn't have hit ya'll if you guys didn't literally deck them first outta nowhere 😭

damienpriest: no lies were told

↳y/n: and that's why you are my 2nd fav 🥰

↳damienpriest: thank you chica, but why am I not first?

↳y/n: bc rhea exists??? what kind of question is that.

↳dominikmysterio: what about me, mi vida??

↳rhearipley: you heard the lady, dom.

↳y/n: sorry baby, it's the truth 🤷 better luck next time 💋

↳tjdlover: rhea x y/n wins every time dom, you need to get with the program!!!

THIS COMMENT WAS LIKED BY Y/N AND RHEA RIPLEY.

[ifonlyitwasmidnight]

What happens when you catch your fiancé flirting with another girl? Hate sex, of course.

WC: 1,618

AFAB Reader CW: Angst, no real comfort at the end, Pet name (sweetheart), Rough sex, fingers (f. receiving), slapping (m. receiving), gaslighting (if you squint), choking (m. receiving), self-edging, unprotected sex. I proofread it for, like, two seconds.

Minors, don't click it. 18+ ONLY

Today's inspiration? Katsuki "no-one-will-fuck-you-like-i-can" Bakugou.

As always, full list of boyfriends I think fits at the end.

Likes, comments, and reblogs are appreciated! <3

Each bag you shoved full of clothes was ripped from your hands and emptied onto the floor. Every time you walked through a door to grab things from another room, you had to shove past the body blocking your way. He was bigger than you, but you were madder.

He grabbed your arms, willing you to "just stop and talk to me like an adult for five god damned minutes!"

"An adult? Were you acting like an adult when you let that girl hang all over you in front of your fiancé and then called that same fiancé a bitch loud enough for everyone to hear when you got called out? Seems pretty fucking childish to me, babe." You spat the nickname at him, ire dripping off every word.

The ring he had given you two years ago, the one he had spent months picking out that you never seemed to take off unless you absolutely had to, was suddenly flying at his face. He grabbed it out of the air before it could connect.

Fuck him and his fast reflexes. You wish it would have hit him, at least a little.

"Could you just calm the fuck down and stop actin' like a—" He started.

"You think about how you're going to finish that sentence, or I swear to —"

"To what, sweetheart? Swear to what?"

Your fist balled at your side. He stood across the living room from you, blocking your way into the back of the house you had shared for the past four years. The house you had built together. Trinkets and hanging pictures evidence of the life you had bled into the foundation of brick and wood to make it home.

The life you had built together, all the days spent learning each other, each and every stupid inside joke and promise hung between you, weighing the air down and charging it full of mutual anger and grief.

His eyes simmered with thinly veiled anger, fingers tapping against his leg as he watched you. Not as a predator would observe prey. Your fiancé knew you better than that. He knew the way you would rip and tear at whatever got in your way. He knew how hot your anger burned under the surface of your skin and how it fueled you forward, looking for that high from a fight.

He held up the fist that clasped your ring, "Want it back?" He teased.

"Go fuck yourself," you said. You knew you shouldn't have walked near him, shouldn't have given him another chance to put his hands on you and pull you back into his embrace.

You shoved your way under his arm and a few steps beyond before his hand wrapped around your wrist and pulled you back to him. You whirled into the pull, your open palm connecting with his cheek, snapping his head to the side.

The sound of the smack echoed off the walls in the hallway was met only with the panting of both your breaths.

He licked the inside of his cheek, the slight tang of copper on his tongue as he slowly turned his gaze back to you. You couldn't help the grim smirk of satisfaction that grazed your lips.

A muscle clenched in your fiancé's jaw, working overtime as he drew in a deep breath through his nose, the air hissing out between his teeth.

The faint thud of your ring dropping to the ground was your only warning.

One of his hands tangled in the hair at the base of your skull and gripped tightly. You yelped as he yanked your head back and slammed his lips against yours, his tongue bullying its way between your lips, fighting for dominance over each other. He pushed you back against the wall, knocking the air from your lungs at the force he used to get you there.

Your hands flew to his shirt, thankful for once that he was wearing a stupid button-down, and pulled. The buttons popped off, hitting against the walls and the floor, the material pooling at your feet when you finally pushed it off his shoulders. You ripped your lips away from his, gasping for breath and hissing between your teeth as his lips met your jaw and kissed your neck, biting hard as he went.

He groaned against your skin as you dug your sharp nails into his hips and pulled tightly, flushing your bodies together. He slipped a leg between your thighs until his knee hit the wall and pushed up hard, forcing you onto your tiptoes.

A loud moan tumbled from his panting lips as you slid your nails up his ribcage, angry red welts quickly forming.

"You sadistic bitch," he laughed.

"You masochistic fuck," you responded, nipping at his jaw.

"So fuckin' glad you decided to wear this stupid little dress today," his hands were rough as they gripped you under the thighs and lifted you, slamming you back against the wall.

"Dick!" You gasped.

"Shut up," he growled as he snaked a hand between your bodies, pulled your panties to the side, and quickly shoved two fingers deep into your soaked cunt.

He was unforgiving in his pace, not caring to give you even a moment before his fingers were scissoring open and curling into your g-spot, the pleasure rising too quickly. Your chest was rising and falling, moans and whimpers falling from your lips urged him on, rushing you towards that cosmic abyss of an orgasm. Your legs trembled around his waist as you tried to hold back, refusing to let him make you cum this quickly.

"Gonn' be like that, baby?" He hissed in your ear, pulling the lobe between his teeth and biting down, "gonn' make me work that sweet cunt, huh? You know it would never be the same with anyone else."

"Fuuck," you groaned as the heel of his palm applied pressure to your neglected clit, "Yeah, just like no one would be able to suck your cock the way I do." You felt yourself clamp down on his fingers and shuttered at the way your orgasm tried to bully its way from you.

His fingers retreated from you, twisting in the material of your panties and pulling tightly, ripping them at the middle. You lurched forward, kissing and sucking on his neck as he undid his belt with one hand, the metal clinking together loudly. His cock was painfully hard and leaking by the time he pulled it from his briefs, pushing the material down below his balls before slamming himself into you.

He placed his hands on the wall, letting his arms carry your weight by settling the backs of your knees into the crooks of his elbows, allowing him to angle your hips up just enough that with each punishing thrust, he would drag along you perfectly. Filling you to the point where you could fill him in the back of your throat each time.

"Eyes, baby," he panted, his teeth gritting, "need to see you."

You lifted your eyes from where you were looking between your bodies, watching as his cock sank in and out of you and held his gaze. His pupils were blown wider than you had ever seen, only the faintest color from his iris left as he reminded you who he was and what he could do to your body.

"Play with your clit," you growled at the command, and his hips slowed, causing you to bounce your head on the wall softly before giving in. Your orgasm was building again from the simmer it had settled to, low in your belly. Your adept fingers drew quick figure eights on your clit while your fiancé fucked you into the wall in perfect timing.

Your other hand wrapped around his throat, just below his jaw, squeezing tightly. His pulse hammered between your fingers, and his hips stuttered slightly as his air was restricted. His eyes never left yours as you squeezed, counting the thrusts in your head before letting go. He sucked in deep gulps of air, new vigor to his thrusts.

"'M sorry, baby," he whimpered against your lips, his forehead resting against yours.

"Don't you ever do that shit," your sentence was cut off by a moan he ripped from you as his pace picked up, chasing his release as your pussy clamped down on him. "Don't you ever do that again."

"Promise. Fuck, I promise. Cum for me," he kissed you hard, moaning into the kiss as you finally let yourself come undone on him. Your orgasm ripped through you like a tsunami, wave after wave of pulsing pleasure gripping your body tightly, refusing to let go.

Your fiancé fucked you through your orgasm, spilling himself into you deeply, his cum mixing and spilling out from your abused cunt.

Panting filled the hallway as your breathing returned to normal, and you let slip a gentle moan when he finally pulled himself from your pussy and gently put your feet back on the ground, making sure you were stable before letting go of your hips.

He leaned his body weight over you again, caging you in, refusing to let you move.

"Don't leave," he whispered.

You sighed heavily, looking up at the man who drove you to the brink of insanity. His eyes begging you to hear the things he couldn't say.

"You're a bastard."

He nodded and gripped your hip, "I know."

"If you—"

"I'll make it right. You're my queen, and the world needs to be reminded of that. No one else matters." It was a vow.

One that was said only between the two of you and one he intended to keep.

-----------------------------------------

AN: I know I said Katsuki at the beginning, but this is also like... big Mikey energy.

x KATSUKI, Dabi, HAWKS (she's just a fan), Kisuke Urahara, Grimmjow, Stark, Aizen, MIKEY, BAJI, Hanma, toxic Draken, toxic Mitsuya.

[noxxuniverse]

okay im officially done with this stuff i seriously cant do this anymore. ive been manifesting my df for a month now and literally nothing. happened. in fact the opposite happened my acne is at its worst i got a pimple on my cheek thats going to scar now and got another big one on my nose. i am just so fucking exhausted with all of this i feel like im seriously going fucking insane im so scared i feel like im this close to getting psychosis. and before you tell me im not persisting enough or whatever i HAVE. ive literally done it all i lived in my imagination i saturated every morning and every night and throughout the day id affirm on loop in my mind ive lived in the end ive literally even told people im starting to resemble my df. dont even tell me to ignore my 3D or whatever what the fuck am i supposed to do? drive myself fucking crazy? if manifesting is easy and inevitable then literally why the fuck isnt it happening? please provide a logical answer that isnt some gaslight and blaming shit like "you just dont get it". it just doesnt fucking work. im so exhausted from this im so tired of my head always hurting and feeling like im going crazy and feeling suicidal i was right to give up on this loa shit 3 years ago youre all just lying or going through psychosis nobody wants to post proof or anything everyone just wants to blame the people that are still mentally sound

You want my honest opinion? It's your mindset. From what you're saying, I'm just like- jesus christ. All of this over the fact you haven't manifested your DF? That's really worrying and you should seek therapy because babes, I am not your therapist. I'm about to give some tough love and I'm going to be stern and I'm going to say whatever the fuck I want because this is my blog and if you don't want me to tell you the truth then find someone else to tell you this shit, either way you're either gonna sit the fuck down and listen or you're gonna read through this like another post you've overconsumed on and not actually apply what I'm saying. We'll see.

First off, calm the fuck down. You are in such a bad mental state, so stop manifesting for a while. Take a break, don't even think about manifesting, just do something that you like, focus on other things, just until you feel better. One reminder I will give, is once you find out about LOA it's very difficult to go back.

Secondly, you say you're doing everything you can to get your DF. You wouldn't even be thinking about how long its been nor the fact you need to get it, you'd simply have it. So no, you haven't been fulfilling yourself properly, actually I would say you're obsessively attached to your desire in a very bad way and you need to healthily detach. Your desire is yours the moment you decide it is, so stop acting as if what you see in your external world is your reality. Because yeah, you need to ignore your 3D when it shows you something you don't want to see, that's how it works. The external world is literally a reflection of your assumptions, if you assumed that your DF was the truth, then it would have reflected because the external world is just made up of our internal world. If you aren't getting what you want, then clearly you believe you can't get what you want. I'm going to tell you something, you aren't special. And I mean that in the sense of, manifestation isn't going to just be like "Yep! I'm not gonna work for you specifically." It serves you, you're always manifesting, even right now, you've manifested me to say this message to you. The point is, you're just manifesting that you can't consciously manifest, if others can get their shit, so can you. But you've overcomplicated LOA so much, like please don't do that it is so simple, it is as simple as we tell you it is. It's simply a decision that you persist on when you want to, you don't constantly think about it unless you want to. You just have it and you're just reminding yourself that you have it.

So to summarise, take a break, healthily detach, then decide you have it and remind yourself you have it. Not because you have to, but because you want to.

Also, don't come at other people just because you're struggling. A lot of us have been there, but don't blame others. No, no one is lying, no one is going through psychosis and nobody is blaming anyone except for you and those who are in your shoes.

This is a bit messy but I hope you got the point. [im not going to put loa tags just because of triggers + the fact you decided to insult the LOA community for whatever reason.]

[adorable-cow-lover]

forcefem gaslighting while being on hrt yourself is so funny like no babe your tits aren’t growing they’re just a bit smaller than mine like they’ve always been <3

[faetouchedfool]

2024 Reflections!!

Thank you so much @graysparrowao3 for the tag, and for much more than that.

I've been thinking of doing this for a while now, but I've only restrained myself from doing so because... I don't think I count as a writer. I mean, I certainly don't have any works— save for one one-shot —in my resume to boast about. Writing, like everything I'm not immediately good at, is incredibly exhausting for me. The thrill of putting the narratives that have been haunting my mind down into a form people can appreciate and read is there, sure, but the constant fight against my million insecurities makes what is supposed to be a hobby a Herculean task. So, you'll have to excuse me striding into the adults' table here. Because, while I may not count as a writer yet, I sure as hell want to be one. Hopefully, I will be one, mind monsters be damned.

What's been your biggest learning point this past year?

Write. Write. Write. Write. Write.

Even if it feels like the world will cook you alive if you even dare to show anyone this wretched word combo, do it. As long as you want to, just do it. You will never get anywhere if you stay still. As my boyfriend told me, the law of inertia applies to me. I won't get anywhere if I don't do anything. Ride the wave of pride you get from showing people your works-in-progress, gaslight yourself, shut your brain off with Perverts, anything— just do what you have to do to get yourself to just do it.

How has your writing developed this past year?

It finally escaped my mind and materialised onto the word document. I'm not joking— 2024 might have actually been the first year I've actually got the courage to start a word document. The closest I've gotten to actually writing something before this year would be writing my inputs into Character AI.

Bad writing habits?

I have way too many, but I guess the main ones would be showing people my works in progress to up my ego, only to never commit to them. Oh, and the fucking purple prose. Gods above, I am way too fake-deep.

Favorite thing you wrote?

To be honest, I despise the one work I've actually finished very heavily. Just reading it has me burning with shame. Sure, it's helped to fill the demand for Aradin Beno fucking, but (#+2+!!#!2(2!1!!1!@!!!!!!!@!@?1)1(!@!@

So, let's change the question.

Favorite thing you wrote? made?

It'd have to be the story I have in my mind currently, Holy Lamb Stew— which will hopefully be put down in AO3 soon enough. It's the story about an unlikely alliance and romance between my favourite mercenary and Octavia of Ilmater, the god of martyrdom's Chosen. Sure, it's cringy, but the pairing's all I'm thinking about. Hopefully, people will know her as intimately as I do soon. I love my middle-aged masochistic religious nutjob.

Biggest win?

Finding a community that has encouraged me to make my "fic bites" and my works-in-progress. Love you forever, Beno Babes.

Seriously, without them, I would have never thought of sharing anything. There's just something about being cheered on that makes everything so much easier.

Goals for the new year?

Get over my insecurities! Or, at least, get closer to getting over them. The poor self-image and the self-depreciation have become too familiar to me, but come on girl. I'm too old to be choking over writing.

Actually start Holy Lamb Stew. I'm hoping to just grit my teeth and do it.

Get over my perfectionism. My stuff doesn't have to be Tchaikovsky-level. In fact, I need to have stuff first.

Let myself write shit.

Be kinder to myself.

Forgive myself.

Your favorite words of the year, a.k.a the words you check each chapter for, making sure you didn't repeat them 788 times?

Can't think of specific words at the moment, but man do I love overusing adjectives and adverbs.

What are you excited for in the new year?

PATCH 8!!!

Natlan era finally ending Snezhnaya release <3

Lots of life events starting this year. A lot. A lot. my life as I know it will change drastically soon, kinda nervous teehee ✌️

Starting HLS!! I swear!!! I SWEAR!!!

xoxo

[ellesnorthernstar]

it was a shift to me idgaf!

yall… idk if i shifted for the second time or had the most intense vivid dream…

[magneticelysia]

How to Spot Toxic People & Relationships: Protect Your Vibe and Well-Being

Okay, let’s talk about something real, fam. We all know that one person or group of people who just drain the life outta you, right? Maybe they leave you feeling anxious, unimportant, or just plain exhausted. Yup, I’m talking about toxic people and toxic relationships. But how do you spot them before they wreck your vibe? And more importantly, how do they mess with your well-being? Well, buckle up, because we're about to break it all down, step by step. This is a face-to-face chat about keeping your energy safe.

1. Trust Your Gut, Fam

First things first: trust your gut. Like, seriously. That little voice inside you? It's not wrong. If you ever feel uneasy around someone, like something’s off or they’re making you feel low-key stressed, that’s your intuition waving a red flag. Toxic people can sometimes come in the form of friends, partners, or even family. They might charm you at first, but something just doesn’t feel right. That’s your brain telling you to pay attention.

If you're constantly on edge or second-guessing yourself around them, it's probably not you—it's them.

2. Emotional Drain? Yeah, That's a Red Flag

Now, let’s talk about energy. You know how some people light up the room when they walk in? Yeah, toxic people do the exact opposite. They’re like emotional vampires. You might leave a hangout feeling mentally exhausted and like you just ran a marathon, but in reality, you just spent time with someone who thrives on negativity.

Here’s the vibe: you should be feeling recharged after being around people who genuinely care about you. If you're feeling drained, worthless, or constantly mentally exhausted, that’s a huge red flag that the relationship isn't serving you.

3. Drama for Days, No Thanks

Okay, so let’s talk about the drama—because toxic people LOVE it. They’re always stirring the pot, creating unnecessary chaos, or turning every situation into a crisis. If it feels like you're always walking on eggshells or caught in constant arguments, babe, you’re in a toxic zone.

A healthy relationship isn’t about constantly fighting, creating problems, or having these wild emotional highs and lows. No, a good vibe should be about calmness, trust, and support. If you feel like you’re living in an emotional soap opera every day, it’s time to dip out.

4. Gaslighting Is Their Favorite Game

Okay, let’s get real for a sec: ever had someone make you feel like you're crazy for things that are totally valid? Like when they twist your words, lie, or act like you’re overreacting when you’re actually just reacting to their shady behavior? That’s called gaslighting, and it’s a major tactic used by toxic people.

They mess with your head to make you doubt your own reality, and before you know it, you’re apologizing for things that aren’t even your fault. That’s manipulation, and you gotta call it out for what it is.

5. They’re Always Playing the Blame Game

Toxic people never own up to their mistakes. Ever. Instead of saying “Hey, I messed up,” they’ll find some way to turn things around and make you the villain. If they constantly avoid accountability or make you feel guilty for things they did, that’s not a friend or partner you want in your life.

In healthy relationships, people take responsibility for their actions and work through problems. But if you're constantly the one apologizing or fixing things that aren’t your fault, that's a sign it’s time to bounce.

6. How Toxic People Mess With Your Vibe (aka Your Well-Being)

Let’s get real here: toxic people don’t just ruin your mood—they mess with your mental and physical health too. And here’s how:

Mental Health: The constant stress, drama, and manipulation can lead to feelings of anxiety, depression, or just plain mental exhaustion. It can make you feel like you’re never good enough or like you’re constantly walking on eggshells. If you're always doubting yourself, feeling anxious, or emotionally drained, it’s no surprise your mental health will take a hit.

Physical Health: Stress is no joke. Chronic stress from toxic relationships can cause physical symptoms like headaches, digestive issues, and even insomnia. Your body feels the negative energy, and that can lead to all kinds of physical problems.

Self-Esteem: Toxic people know how to mess with your self-worth. They might criticize you, make you feel less than, or ignore your boundaries. Over time, this erodes your self-esteem, leaving you feeling like you’re not enough.

Boundaries: Healthy relationships respect your boundaries. Toxic ones? Not so much. They constantly push your limits, whether it’s emotionally, mentally, or even physically. You feel like you can’t say “no” without feeling guilty, and that’s not okay.

7. Protect Your Peace: Time to Set Boundaries and Keep It Moving

Alright, so now that you know how to spot a toxic person and understand the damage they can do, here’s how to protect yourself:

1. Set Boundaries Like a Boss: Learn to say “no” without feeling guilty. Setting boundaries is key to keeping your peace. If someone is constantly disrespecting your limits, it’s a red flag.

2. Distance Yourself When You Need To: Don’t be afraid to ghost someone (if necessary) or create some space. You don’t owe anyone your energy if they’re draining it. Protect your vibe.

3. Surround Yourself with Good Vibes Only: The more time you spend with positive, supportive people, the better your energy will be. Build your squad with people who make you feel safe, loved, and heard.

4. Self-Care is a Must: Take time for yourself. Whether it’s chilling with a good book, hitting the gym, journaling, or just vibing to your favorite playlist, do things that recharge your soul.

5. Seek Help if You Need It: If you’re having a tough time letting go of a toxic person, talk to a therapist. They can help you navigate the situation and give you the tools to heal.

Toxic people aren’t worth your time or energy. They might try to gaslight you, drain your soul, and mess with your self-worth, but here’s the thing: you’re worth so much more than that. Protect your peace, trust your gut, and prioritize your well-being. You deserve relationships that make you feel seen, heard, and valued. Anything less? Nah, not worth it.

Keep your vibe high, and remember: life’s too short to let toxic people ruin your glow.

- luv from Elysia <3

@magneticelysia

[ariel26c]

hi not to bother but I’m confused about the most recent ask of yours, the anon mentioned not seeing any results, but yet you replied stating that they still have it regardless of whether they can see it or not. whats the point in having your dream face but not being able to see it for yourself?? I've actually faced a similar issue as the anon, I've been using subs and affirming for months and months (I make sure they're safe ect) and I genuinely believe in my desired manifestation, but when I look in the mirror, it seems like nothing has changed? am I just trying to gaslight myself into believing somethings gonna change when realistically I’ve just been reciting mumble jumbo to myself and listening to pointless subs waiting for something that’s never gonna come?

In manifestation you have to decide that you have something. You can look in the mirror and check but it can be discouraging and make you feel like there is no change. You have to have it in imagination then it will show up in the 3D.

So if you’re manifesting your desired appearance you have to 1. Know what you want to look like (what are your desired features) 2. Decide that you have them right now and 3. Persist.

Trust me babe your are not affirming for nothing. Affirming and listening to subliminal audios are so that you can focus on the new story (that you have your desired appearance).

What matters is that you decide you have your desired appearance and accept that you have it even if you feel like there is no change. Even if you see yourself and feel like there is no change there is change because you decided that you have your desired appearance. You are the creator of your reality. There is always movement happening just behind the scenes.

You have to accept that you have it even if there is no evidence that you do. Even if you eyes see no change doesn’t mean that you don’t have it.

Your subconscious doesn’t have eyes so it will believe you if you say you have your desired appearance. It will believe everything you tell it. So if you keep telling yourself that there’s no change it will believe you.

After persisting the results will show up. It’s not like you’re never gonna get results because you will. You will have it in the 3D you just need to decide you have it now even if you can’t see it right now.

Look at this post:

[eviltiddyproductions]

Vincenzo : Episode 5

5 episodes in I find out this show is from Studio Dragon

where will they take my emotions this time

Chayoung in a braid ahhh my sweet little babe! let me give you a forehead kiss

she’s so cute. take that hug bae 🥹

I love the apprentice <3 adore him. just went ‘👍’ 😆

not the intern murder era omg i really really thought it was going to be someone else. why were people shocked that he died 😟

the little English phrases suddenly sound so menacing 😭 how many times has he almost killed this fake CEO. fake CEO just leave like why…. is any money worth getting beaten up or choked to death on a monthly basis

help not Vincenzo helping the fake CEO

build some muscles bae you’re going to need them 😟 why would you take water from a stranger

lmao they’re both being adorable 😂😭 I would curse the fake CEO but he’s the only one getting a beating every 2 episodes 💀

Cha young get away from this man 🙏 damn he got all that from one call lmao

how do you have so much confidence in your skills and can’t find a photo of him 😭 he literally held a gala last week!

well this man got caught pretty quick lol

if you’re going to offer her tea might as well accidentally slip while you’re serving

lmaooo the stars sparkling on her white coat during the presentation. the apprentice is my third favourite person on this show

kinda sad how everything they’re saying here about the vicious circle reminds me of how Samsung covered up something similar years back using this circle but is still always front and centre everywhere in shows and movies

those threats are working with this lawyer. they just got here though? 🤨

what did the fake ceo do to get in this position like….

lmao she likes ketchup, he hates it

eating a hot dog with a white jacket, my girl is the bravest

for a second I thought she was the perjury lawyer they were talking about because she’s bribed people before but it was her dad oh lord, Babel, you will crumble !!!

he’s helping her, I guess she doesn’t get to hit him on the forehead anymore

oh no isn’t that the monk’s friend !?!!

sign the waiver or no ambulance… they’re so

one thing Vincenzo ensures is to fight people every other episode and Toto gets paid for his food

it’s so bizarre to think he’s the one who got robbed in the first episode 🤣

you do not need to get this close or remove your coat to flick her in the head but slay 😏

I knew he’d do the lightest tap, awww

it’s kinda funny how he was dragging the fake ceo for bullying his workers with spice tolerance and now he’s in a scoville battle with Vince (who got so agitated by this too like ??? so random 😭)

my sister almost murdering both of them with the spice

I thought they ended in the emergency ward with the spice but it’s the monk looking for his friend 💔

I’ve seen this doctor before in some show!

to gaslight a victim’s family for your own monetary gains….. Hell needs to happen in present for people like that. and being a doctor too! like what are we doing here. what is your job description

my good sister the intern is going to bury you

the main monk woke up too!

Vincenzo giggling as she says hi to people I see you bae !

the lawyer lady is about to eat them alive 😭🙏

they’ve had a good few days I know they’re about to have their lives upended noooo

the building going all out for them :(

is that a sports car to court they are so UNSERIOUS 😭

lmaooo I guess our real CEO fake intern really does like her (sister save yourself from his wrath 🙏)

the Italian is so unserious 🤣

the building people are here !!!

you must contemporary dance for your life

[bubbles-for-all-of-us]

BUBBLES!!! Omg hiiiii 🥰 okay i was really this close (like…this 🤏🏼) to send Joel on patrol to look for you!! But you’re okay so it’s fine, you can join our sleepover (please bring chips with you, someone forgot to buy them 😑)

Anyways let’s be serious one moment (just one and then we can go back to being silly <3) I’m just so happy you’re back and even if not completely or not as much as before, please take your time!! I’ll always be waiting for you for some chit chat about our favorite nonexistant people!!

And you got so much going on, missy!! go girl boss, gaslight, gatekeep and like darling pedrito once said “slayyyy ✨✨✨…and yasssss 💅🏼💅🏼” so follow our man’s wise words babes <3

Hope you’re doing alright, hope your day went/is going well, hope everything is just peachy for you I’ll try to send a headcanon as soon as I can sit down and actually write it (I already tried just let you inside my head to look for the headcanon yourself, doesn’t work) ily little bubble <3

- 🪷

You should have honestly... you should have😂 Still can?! 👀 and of course I'll bring chips don't you even worry. 😌

Oh, I know... idk how I'm still moving. I really need to remind myself of yaaas and slay more for real. I forget about it and it's such a motivational thing 😂😭 just gets you going!

It was long but okay can't complain much although the only relationship I now want to be in is with my bed because gosh I haven't been sleeping. Been pulling Joel's left and right and since I don't do six shots of coffee my battery is low.... I hope you are well boo! You looking after yourself??🤍✨