#its okay to be angry
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Anger is a healthy emotion.
It's a sign that someone has crossed a boundary and that something needs to be done about it.
The bigger the anger, the more important the boundary that was crossed.
It means it's time to see if your boundaries are reasonable, if you're making them clear, or if they need to be enforced.
And by the way...enforcing can absolutely mean removing yourself if you aren't being treated with care and respect.
#anger#emotions#emotion-focused therapy#therapy#mental health#its okay to not be okay#its okay to be angry#boundaries
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hello to all 12 of my followers
if anyone needs support or just someone to talk to, I'm here. I am here for you.
they won't break us down. we are here. we are queer. and long after we're all gone, we will always fucking be here.
#not fandom#hm#its been#a day#im engaged to a poc and my best friend is trans#its okay to be angry#well figure this out
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im begging people on tumblr to get better reading comprehension. obviously nobody is going to be perfect all the time but the amount of people I've seen completely missing the point at the verge of refusing to change their minds or believe that their world view is not the perfect one is unbelievable. Have conversations, not arguments. You'll never learn anything if you dont listen. This goes for EVERYONE, the next time you find yourself getting frustrated or angry over some comment section argument either stop arguing and leave or try and turn it into a productive conversation. The world doesnt need more anger and resentment, and if your anger and resentment isn't actually doing anything (which it often doesn't) its worthless.
#nuance exists people#politics#trans rights#anger#activism#it happens with all sides#its okay to make mistakes#its okay to be angry#its okay to have righteous anger#but if you arent doing anything with it you are only making the world worse for yourself
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#ultimate imposter#Hajime hinata#Twohina#An art#Sdr2#sdr2 nagito#danganronpa 2#Okay long tag rant incoming#I got into a comment thread on ig because I was mouthing off. Dumb of me I know I keep doing this#And it woke up a nasty side in myself that I don't like. Not that I said anything undeserved#but I was getting a little too into the satisfaction of it. And if you let yourself gloat in being nasty#You're more likely to allow yourself that in other situations and imo you just shouldn't indulge yourself in that#At least I shouldn't. Its not about being self satisfied. Anyway. SUCH A TANGENT#I had a little self reflection moment when I woke up and decided to stop being angry at people in my head. Even shitty people are just peop#And idk maybe that makes sense to someone. If this comic is super nonsensical to you dwbi lol#Okay that's it. Tap mic. Thanks you. Tip your waitress.#twogami
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Literally me when he sings off key, off beat, and with literally no rhythm
#welcome home#welcome home art#welcome home fanart#wally darling#wally darling fanart#welcome home fandom#welcome home arg#welcome home puppet show#welcome home wally#dandy leon#welcome home oc#my art#FIRST COLORED PIECE IN A WHILE!#at least it FEELS like a while#arm was angry at me but I was SO WANTING TO DRAW THIS MEME SINCE I SAW IT#ITS OKAY GUYS I TOOK BREAKs I PROMISE I PROMISE!!!#BUT AAAA#Literally this was me as Wally was singing toyland this was real footage of me when he was singing during the update#I love him chat#I love him so fucking much
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so the good place is widely lauded on this site for its takes on morality and capitalism, which i totally agree with
but i think it should get more recognition for the line "all humans are aware of death. so we're all a little bit sad all the time. that's just the deal. we don't get offered any better ones. and if you try and ignore your sadness, it just ends up leaking out of you anyway. i've been there, and everybody's been there. so don't fight it. in the words of a very wise bed bath and beyond employee i once knew - go ahead and cry all you want. but you're gonna have to pay for that toilet plunger."
#i dunno i've been thinking about grief lately#and i think the nature of humanity is everyone's grieving something#it might not always be as straightforward as the death of a loved one - sometimes it is#but sometimes you're grieving a life you never got to live#the person you used to be#hell an old toy you just realised you lost years ago and are never going to get back#we're all just a little bit sad all the time#and i think looking at the world like that makes it a lot more friendly place#because everyone is someone who needs a bit of comfort - or just someone to say hey its okay to be sad and angry and confused#and when you're finally ready to let whatever you're grieving go the world will be a happier place#and you'll find a new thing to grieve because there's always something to be a little bit sad about#but the world keeps getting better for every one you get through and every friend who helps you through it#and sometimes you just need to throw a dumb joke in there at the end#that's what it means to be human#the good place#tgp
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I genuinely don't think Curly would be as caring for Jimmy as some people depict him in aus where Jimmy gets stuck and burned rather than Curly.
I feel like the realization would truly hit in that moment of what Jimmy did and how bad it was as Curly desperately tries to get him out of the cockpit. He's trying to break in to save Jimmy, but is he? All the thoughts in his head; Jimmy's trying to kill them all, Jimmy's trapped in the cockpit, Jimmy raped Anya, Jimmy's going to die trapped in the cockpit, Jimmy trying to kill them all because of what he did to Anya, and sort of a final Jimmy did this. Is he trying to save him or trying to figure out why? Trying to finally make him take accountability? You can't hold trial for a dead man. Does he want Jimmy to die? Not really, but it'd be easier than figuring out where they go after this. After they drag him out and get his set up in medical and Jimmy refuses to look at anyone but him.
He's the only one who is truly willing to care for Jimmy. I don't think he's keeping him alive for the same reasons, just he can't bring himself to put him down. He wants answers, he wants to be mad. This is the first time he can talk to Jimmy and not have anything spun back at him but he can't get a response. He's never really been able to but for the first time Jimmy actually has to listen and he'll never know if he's actually listening to him this time. It reminds him too much of not understanding Anya. Anya has to care for him and he doesn't want her too, she shouldn't have to but they can't just let him die, can they? Should they? It's easier than hearing him in pain but that's a reminder he did this... even if Curly allowed it to happen.
No one seems to have thoughts on it but him and Anya. They know the reason he crashed the ship but they don't get the logic. Anya does actually, but Curly has to admit he does to. Has to admit he's always known Jimmy's logic behind things, things that need to be "fixed" but he's always taken responsibility and fixed it himself. The first time he really let Jimmy take responsibility and he couldn't, he can't fix anything and Curly know he can't either. He looks at Jimmy and sees every mistake but now he's wondering how many of Jimmy's he's been tacking on to his own. How different are they?
What should he had done to stop it? Maybe this should've happened to him...
Curly doesn't like those thoughts and how they only come when he's stuck with Jimmy, like he's always done to himself. He's way too gentle when he gives Jimmy his pills, too mindful of teeth that always gave him hollow smiles. A tongue that always told half truths, while he held his own. He holds his jaw too kindly and thinks about all the times he's clenched his and smiled for his friends sake. For Jimmy's sake. Jimmy still swallows the pills and struggles, whines like it's not his fault.
He hoped it hurt.
And he's a little scared that he's a little too okay thinking that.
#just i dont think hed sit and that med bay and remines hes staring Jimmy down with anger for the first time in their friendship#whatever tatters of it are left hes letting himself be angry at Jimmy and he cant even give a consequence he doesn't even know how aware or#lucid or able Jimmy is to really grasp all this the sentimental part of him hopes not at all but the part of him thats taken his crap for#all these years that let him get away with so much to him and sadly to others? He wants him awake and aware for every moment like I feel#like hed get close to hitting Jimmy like this and stop himself as he realizes he needs to talk to someone cause he has very no healthy#feelings about himself and Jimmy and the situation and the whole scenerio is defined by him being scared to do the same things that Jimmy#does and just trying to accept that Jimmy was never there for him and he was there for him too much and trying really hard to do right by#everyone else but espcially Anya who'd he have more guilt about than Jimmy obvi but how much of it is him taking responsibility for Jimmy v#the already extreme guilt of not knowing if his crew will get out alive is debatable like he'd want to kill himself but not think he's#deserving and its just him being like okay guys captain curly's got this and then crying while he locks himself in the cockpit#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#captain curly#curly mouthwashing#anya mouthwashing#nurse anya#jimmy mouthwashing
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EDYN TIDESTRIDER, CHALLENGER OF THE UNDERSEA, RIVAL OF THE DEEP. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR BROTHER WAS CHOSEN TO BE A WEAPON OF THE GODS? HOW WILL YOU UNDO WHAT THEY HAVE DONE TO HIM?
#jrwi fanart#jrwi show#jrwi riptide#edyn tidestrider#cw blood#EDYYYNNNN TTIDESTRIDERRR OHH HOW I LOVE HERRRR#THIS IS A PAGE FULLA REEAALLY OLD DOODLES AND REALLY REALLY OLD DOODELS AND NEW DOODLES. ENJOY.#ONLY CLEANED IT UP A BUNCH TTODAY AND IM ACTUALLY SO SO HAPPY W IT WEEEEE#WHAT WAS IT LIKE? DOWN IN THE UNDERSEA. TO VISIT YOUR BROTHER WHENEVER THE ADULTS WOULD LET YOU#A KID WHO DIDNT UNDERSTAND WHAT WAS GOING ON OR WHY HER BROTHER WAS BEING TAKEN AWAY OR WHY HE KEEPS GETTING HURT#OR WHY THE ADULTS JUST KEEP LETTING IT HAPPEN. ITS FOR THE BEST? FATE OF THE WORLD AND ALL THAT? HEY WHO THE FUCK IS IN CHARGE HERE#HOW DO WE STOP IT. HOW DO I STOP IT. THERES PEOPLE OUT THERE WORKING ON SOMETHING. ARITIFICIAL LEVIATHAN YOU SAY?#WE COULD BUILD A THING TO RIVAL THE GODS. WELL. SIGN ME UP. IM GOING TO UNDO WHAT THEY DID TO YOU#WHAT A FASCINATING THING SHE ACTUALLY SAID. 'IM GOING TO UNDO WHAT THEY DID TO YOU' HELLO?? EDYN? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN#WHAT EXACTLY DID THEY DO TO HIM. OTHER THAN THE PROPHECY TRAINING. YOU CAN UNDO THAT? YOU CAN UNDO ALL THAT? HOW?? HELLO???#LIKE SURE I JUST SPOUTED MY THEORIES I THINK SHE WANTS TO KILL GOD BUT THATS JUSTA THEORY... A GA#WHAT IS EDYNS GOAL AND WHY CANT SHE TELL ANYONE OOUUUHHH EDYNNNN CMERE EDYNN CMERRE STOP WALKING AWAY CMERE. COME HERE.#fuuuuuck shes so mysteriousss what is she HIDING!!shes also so so so so angry i fucken know she is. shes so gentle and so sweet and timid#but she is ANGRY and shes SMART and clearly shes AMBITIOUS bc shes TALKING TO THE FUCKING BIG HEAD HONCHO O THE FUCKEN NNAAAVYYYYY#ALSO WHO IS NICHOLAS. IF THATS EVEN HIS REAL NAME. WHO DID YYYOU MEET EDYN. DO YOU HAVE A WISH TO BE GRANTED EDYN???#CHEWING ON THE BARS O MY CELL I NNNNEEEEED TO KNOW MORE ABOUT EDYN IM SO CURIOUS IMG ONNA KILL PEOPLE#i said once in another post 'the oath an eldest sister takes on is on par w that of a paladins-#-and sometimes upheld w the very same ferocity'. I REALLY LIKED THAT LINE.#pleeese... if u can hear me.. pls join me and draw edyn w unbridled plasmatic rage abt the way her brother was treated by the Elders#also pls draw her SCARY. I NEED HER TO BE SSCARY. PLEEASEE I NEED HER TO BE JUST AS VIOLENT AS GILLION BUT INA ICE COLD WAY#JUST AS VIOLENT JUST AS STRONG JUST AS MUCH OF AN AQUATIC MONSTER. im sure u see the vision.#ok i gotta go t bed now i got work in tha morning n i should nnot be stayin up this late. if u hav thoughts abt edyn pls scream abt em#okay byyyyeee goodniiigihhttttt
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charm point: his nose scrunches :)
#raphael bg3#raphael#bg3#baldur's gate 3#idk i just like that they included/animated his nose scrunch... its very expressive.. makes me think of an angry dog#plus i like his nose. in general.#i'm normal okay i just pay attention to noses a lot bc i like drawing them#one of the main differences btwn raphy and haarlep is their nose actually. m!haarlep that is#m!haarlep has a really straight nose (lol) while archduchess!haarlep's nose is a lot more similar to raphael's#yeah the incubus' nose is definitely what most people focus on in that scene wym#anyway please enjoy these photos regardless of whether you are as normal about noses as i am#my screenshots#mine
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Also it's fucked up to yell at members of marginalized communities for acting within the two party system and not burning it all down when you don't have a plan. People are not your fucking sacrificial lambs to skewer and roast on a stick
#okay i actually need to stop but i am genuinely so angry at this virtue signalling and hyperindividualism#horseshoe theory at its finest#also it's super odd they claim to oppose genocide and we're selfish for HOLDING A CANDIDATE ACCOUNTABLE for ending a genocide when their#third party candidates dont fucking know what they are talking about and are Russia apologists?????#like are you fucking kidding me#grace rants#delete later#kamala harris#joe biden#donald trump#jd vance#election 2024#also i feel like so many stances from these revolutionary marxists are like#omfggggg i hate america it's terrible we need to overhaul everything but they fail to mention or empathize with the populations actually#living here their community members!!!! like okay you seem to hate america and americans which I AM so i dont really fuckin trust you to#fight for me
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doodling the two dragons..
color by @/superyoumna
kin by @/bun-bunmuse
kin is smacking color out of dissociation on the first one
and the other one they're roughhousing for fun cause...he did with other characters why not color? shrug idfk
this is prob in the future when kin a lil more familiar with color? i don't have their dynamic written down all the way yet don't @ me
@howlsofbloodhounds :)
#toffeesdoodles#kin sans#color sans#uhh yeah#i have alot of abyss team designs cooking but havent gotten the time to finish them all#abyss sans will be done...soon i promise#maybe ooc on kins part#i dont have an exact grasp on him yet#dragonkin color#cause its mentioned#if its ooc you can skin me alive its okay#kin has rbf i swear hes not as angry as he looks
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Find the mer au masterpost here 💕
#jellyNeil is getting SO CLOSE to the breakthrough of starting to understand speech#but for now. it’s doing it’s best#so here is where we#playing with the timelineeeeeee#does sharkdrew meet jellyNeil before or after finning??#kinda breaks my heart to imagine jellyNeil trying desperately with its newly burgeoning intelligence to understand what happened#why the shark can’t swim as well anymore and why he seems hurt and why he’s so much more angry#where the fin went#why the shark won’t let Neil touch the place the fin used to be#Neil realizing oh. something horrific happened#which heartbreak USUALLY means I should add it. we suffer together#okay byeeeee have a good day#fan art#my art#aftg#all for the game#neil josten#andrew minyard#oops all mers au#sharkdrew#jellyneil#jellyfish#digital#chibi
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JUGHEAD JONES DID NOT LIVE IN ARCHIE'S EMPTY HOUSE AND COMMISSION A STATUE OF HIM IN ORDER TO IMMORTALIZE HIM AS A FOLK HERO JUST FOR ROBERTO AGUIRRE-SACASA TO SAY HE DIDNT LAY THE BAREST SEED OF A ROMANCE BETWEEN ARCHIE AND JUGHEAD. DONT WORRY MR JONES. I SAW YOUR ARCHIE STATUE.
#it speaks!#riverdale#jarchie#not sorry for the caps im not angry but its more of like. i want jughead to hear me. so he knows its okay
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feel totally okay, totally normal about badlands rumble’s wolfwood thinking he couldn’t save vash, he only got the grip on his glasses, which he kept, had to say the bad news to millie and meryl, and when he got back to his room he gently put his hand on the only red thing in the room and then destroyed it in a wave of anger / sadness, then spent the rest of the night smoking by the window until amelia got to him, at which point he took vash’s glasses with him and put them on himself (boyfriendsm) (and thankfully he was able to return them, but oh man oh man he was definitely feeling so guilty and suffered on the inside alone. painnn)
- this is a comparison how that scene looked
askdjd why did the ppl who made it didnt want us to see properly the glasses on the table or the red fridge and wolfwood’s allowed minute of anger ;-;
#vashwood#trigun#vash the stampede#trigun badlands rumble#badlands rumble#nicholas d wolfwood#nicholas d. wolfwood#wolfwood#vash#mine#gif:trigun#why was this scene so dark akdjs you cant almost see what hes going throught but its important for the plot and the feelings okay#the red fridge or whatever it is being in that room.. and he just goes to it like that thinking about vash and being so angry#at him for vash being vash and at himself bc he reached out but couldnt pull him out
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oh adam stanheight, we’re in for it now…
(tumblr obliterates my art quality i swear this was better lookin when i was doin it)
#urk i did this start to finish furiously without getting distracted#wooo??#adam stanheight#adam faulkner stanheight#saw 2004#GAY MAN ALERT#GUYS THERE IS A WEIRD SCRUFFY TWINK#STAY SAFE#i feel bad tagging chainshipping becuz technically its not#i WILL draw adam and lawrence together eventually#chainshipping#sue me#adam is me guys !! (im angry and i smoke)#okay yeah guys i know thats an unrealistic amount of smoke but have you ever thought of doing stuff in the name of art??#digital art#parker’s art#saw#art#fanart#saw posting
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one of my friends said that Mabel should have gotten more angry in the finale and as someone who relates to Mabel and also has an interesting relationship to anger i have to AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#IGNORE THAT TOP LEFT CORNER SIDE PROFILE ITS REALLY BAD OKAY#lets focus on the 3/4ths view. the here. the now. <3#I love drawing sad and also angry expressions#especially on characters that are typically happy-go-lucky... LET THE HAPPY CHARACTERS FEEL RAAAAGE! IMPENDING FURY!!!!!!!#mabel pines i am you and you are me (if i had less anxiety)#mabel pines#gravity falls#doodle#sketch#my art
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