#it's the lack of ambition
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A small and I acknowledge petty rant
I stg if I see one more sewing pattern promising "no tricky buttons" "no fiddly zips" "no difficult fastenings" I will scream.
A) none of those things are hard. No you might not want that for your first sewing project but they are not DIFFICULT. Take half an hour and some scrap fabric and stitch a few buttonholes. In newer machines (which I don't have) you don't even need to change the dial, they do them all in one step. There. Now you can make a fucking buttonhole.
It does help to have the right foot for your zip, but if you don't you can handsew them. Pin them in place, sew, don't forget to press. You're almost always just sewing a straight line. For invisble zips spend then like, £7 for an invisible zip foot if your machine didn't come with it.
There, now you have a zip.
B) Not every pattern needs to be for beginners. I am SO SICK of looking at the new releases and seeing 100 variations on oversized sack dresses because somewhere along the way someone decided that zips were unacceptably hard.
I know in part that the massive oversized silhouette is in right now (I hate it but whatever I don't have to wear it) but I sew so I DON'T have to wear whatever is in the shops at them moment. I want something that is fun and engaging to make but that isn't like, full on vintage repro and doesn't make me, someone easily in middle age look like a TODDLER.
#I am aware that I am being a petty judgemental bitch here#but this is also how you get the semi finalist of the great british sewing bee#freaking out because she had never sewn on a hook and eye#HOOK AND EYE#probably the most basic fastening there is#it's not even the relaxed oversized silhouette#which i also hate but you know I don't have to wear it#it's the lack of ambition#i get learning new things is scary and hard#but zips and buttons are pretty basic elements of dressmaking#it's not like we're boning corsets here#and literally an hour's practice#will get you most of the way to comfort#also ruffles#just say no
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enough stories about how someone learns to truely be happy through love. i want a story where someone is desperately seeking out love thinking it's the only way to be happy only for them to learn by the end that happiness is what they make of it and they don't need love at all to make it.
#aro#aromantic#ace#asexual#aroace#loveless aro#loveless#non-partnering#nonpartnering#non partnering#nonamorous#aplatonic#enough of amatonormative tropes in media!!! enough 'you're miserable without love' stories!!!#less “you're too focused on ambitions to make you happy that you dont let yourself fall in love”#more “you're too focused on finding love to make you happy that you wont let yourself live”#more “there is so much more to life than love and so much more that can bring your happiness if you just let yourself experience it.”#maybe I should write this story#and when i say love i mean all love. not just romantic love.#which is why i tagged aplatonic too#while i mostly see this trope in terms of romantic love i think there's something to be said about#telling stories where people are perfectly content alone too#it doesn't have to be sad or pathetic to not have friends by choice. they dont have to be a miserable person to not have friends#i think we need more variety in stories where it shows people just content in their lack of love or relationships in all shapes#not everyone wants a family not everyone wants friends not everyone wants a partner not everyone wants love#some of us are content without. that should be explored without the need to fix it.
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dumbest
motherfucker
on the goddamn planet
#no really I legit consider him the stupidest dipshit on planet Earth#due to sheer wasted potential#any one of you out there with the $$ he grew up with would have made better use of it#instead his ambition is being a d-tier shitposter and god i suppose#a fundamentally incurious lackwit lacking even a surface-level understanding of anything he vaguely “engages” with#the kids at his school really should have pushed him down the stairs just a little harder#one less nazi fuck in the world
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twitter is crazy because somebody like sunday can say plain as day “i hate the idea of ‘survival of the fittest’ because i view myself as weak and understand how other fellow weak people feel, so i want to make a paradise where the weak and strong are equal and everybody can be protected under my watchful gaze” with very clear connotations towards catholicism/orthodoxy, the sacrifice of christ, and ‘the ones who walk away from omelas’ by ursula le guin (a story about a perfect utopian world that only remains such at the expense of a small child below the surface that is left alone to suffer) and be equated to that of a fascist ableist in support of real world eugenics that wants to kill minorities to create a perfect paradise.
tldr; learn to read before you make your ‘informative threads.’
#hsr#sunday hsr#rant#maybe open your ears next time#hsr fandom lacking critical thinking skills as per usual#sundays character is so beautifully tragic & then u twist him into this alienated hobsquash#there’s a reason why people argue that his goals and ambitions are based#because they are#he is very very well intentioned#and if u can’t see that then u also lack reading skills idk what to tell u friend#hsr sunday#honkai star rail
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i'm glad quackity is becoming more involved in running the actual server, and i think he's handling the situation as well as he can. but it sucks a lot that he wasn't ALREADY highly involved in how his passion project was run and how his money was spent. he is very young, he is a busy law student and content creator, he is intensely private. this was a tough lesson for him on responsibility.
i think those of us who've been watching since the beginning aren't super surprised by how little he knew about things behind the scenes. his character wasn't even allowed to /op because he wanted to be on equal footing with the other players. he constantly mentioned how he "doesn't know what's going to happen today" during events when other members would ask questions. he doesn't seem to know shit about the mods they've chosen or how the custom game mechanics work. he's doesn't play on the server much at all!
so seeing dream stans and other mcyt fans huff and puff about how quackity is lying and obviously knew about everything bad going on is odd. like this man really doesn't know shit about how his server is run or what happens on it. THAT'S a fair thing to criticize and something i agree is irresponsible. it's not fair to claim he's lying about not knowing things when every indication for the last year has pointed viewers in that direction. he's really been super hands off about everything except adding new languages, which is kind of his whole focus.
anyway kudos to the french admins and aypierre for speaking up and sparking workplace change. very on brand for the french LOL
also reminder to any younger viewers who are like REAAAALLY invested in qsmp to stop catastrophizing. it'll be alright. it's literally just minecraft, no one is in any danger.
#qsmp#quackity#i say this as someone who doesn't like quackity as a streamer much#his brand of humor isnt for me and i dont watch his videos#i admire his drive and ambition and i love cross-culture projects#but ive had issues with his silence and lack of action on certain things in the past that caused harm to smaller creators#so i appreciate that it's not happening this time around
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terminian counterparts
#tloz mm#majora’s mask#ganondorf#sheik#zelda#impa#aveil#sry if my handwriting is bad i didn’t want to clean these up#i doodled all of this days ago idk why it hit me so hard all of a sudden lol#its fun to try and extrapolate the terminian versions of characters……#like this ganondorf being defined by his lack of ambition instead#or sheik being born into poverty and being naturally quick-witted but impulsive#or impa being. a wanted criminal dgfjsADGFJLFF
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Y'all are so mad that Rhaenyra did not stay in her line and nodded in acceptance when her throne was stolen, but instead chose to engage herself in a war to get it; unlike your favs that you claim are better than her yet did absolutely nothing when their authority as women was trampled.
"Her claim is questionable" it isn't in absolutely any way. And even if it was, she had any right to fight for the crown she was named heir for.
I would support Rhaenyra even if Aegon was the named heir and she the one that decided to usurp the throne and take it from him. Like what's not clicking?
#rhaenyra was never going to just accept it and bow her head#her antis are soooo furious she did not just obey aegon and accepted his so called terms and let him on her throne#because they lack any spine or personality#and so do all the characters they stan#they can't accept a proud woman that effectively sees that crown as her right#and has the guts and the ambition to claim it#this is misoginy pure and simple lol#rhaenyra targaryen#asoiaf#hotd#fire and blood
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going further. franks child self was living in that one room with a strange weirdo boy he dreamed up but never really had. now his inner child isn’t alone anymore. he plays games with his real charlie in their terrible one room apartment. getting weird with it and being okay with being weird no matter what everyone on the outside might think. sharing a bed together to feel the comfort in being close to that
macs child self had charlie the whole time. inseparable. a package deal. the most genuine connection and comfort in both of their neglected tiny lives. not just because they were otherwise alone. decades later theyre not going anywhere. now their inner child rides bikes together they throw rocks at trains together they teach each other about the world just like they needed so desperately in old times
dennis’ child self never had charlie. not until highschool. but that was exactly when he experienced his csa. his inner child found charlie at the exact right moment. caught him when he fell. he got his child self back through charlie just as he lost feeling. and now what do the two of them do together? they go recreate memories and recapture lost youth with a mutual unspoken understanding of why
they all need charlie. relaxing into his genuine youthful energy lets them feel that way again.
#iasip#charlie kelly#:) the first one is the ‘playing together in this room all day’ from the last post i wanted to make it clearer#i wrote a part about dee but i decided its better to reblog with comment instead of one post#because this feels so good to me. so nice to think about him being uplifting. but not possible to ignore the darker aspects of his childhood#give you options#delicate.#im trying to be cautious#but you cant talk about the gang without dee and you cant talk about child selves without trauma. its not Honest not Authentic not Genuine#it does feel sad its kinda tough to touch on it. delicate yk yk#but she seeks charlies natural lack of ambition and a brother who doesnt push her to prop himself up#dees brother fought her and charlies sisters fought him. both cases about superiority. dee fights back charlie ignores#csa warning#kid selves#frank reynolds#bc theres no attention paid to him
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One more thing before I'm closing the "It's in character for Minthara to break up with redeemed Durge because she's all about power": oh yes she WANTS power, but that's why it's in character for her to want to be The Absolute, to become a god and build a world to "ourselves". Why would she wanna be a god's slave again, and Bhaal of all of them? That's NOT an ambitious goal lol, it's a pathetic and narrow-minded one at best, the kind that someone who has never been betrayed by gods would wish for, the kind that doesn't have a Grand Design in mind (and trust me Minthara is a great schemer). What is the point of being a "ruler" (puppet at best) when Bhaal can just yank the chains at any given moment? Who wants the kinda power that can be taken away when there's literally a way to become a god in the first place? If anything a redeemed Durge with the power of the Netherbrain can kill the god of murder themself, which I'm very certain Minthara would approve because "killing one's parents can be an important rite of passage."
My woman is way more ambitious than what people give her credits for.
#minthara baenre#bg3#durge x minthara#even when Tav/Durge fails to seize the brain she stays w/ them mkay 😌#my woman just shrugs and goes “wanna overthrow my mother next? btw I wanna take your name”#Larian called writers and actors back for the epilogue they def looked into redeemed durge ending already#to entertain the idea my Durge would totally call Minthy lack of ambition if she berates Lily for rejecting Bhaal XD#minthara brainrot#colin plays
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#the world ends with you#Higashizawa Yodai#holey art tag#I like Yodai a lot and I thought I would throw together a few sketches I have of him that aren't so spectacular individually#Yodai is so awesome with his lack of control over his Noise form reflecting on his design and#is that why he's constantly hungry? Because Noise is hungry for Soul?#I don't know if that will come as a surprise but I don't really like the idea that his ambitions end with him being K!itaniji's lackey#I like to think his loyalty is rather self-serving (as H nicely put in the Secret Reports: he has ''bottomless career ambitions'')#He should aim for Composer (given the time to marinate and become stronger ofc) lol
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UDLTTOM DIALOGUE DRAFT #72
Harry (to Tom): Has it ever occurred to you that maybe I want to be mediocre as you call it? That perhaps my greatest ambition is to be average? An utter nobody?
Tom: That doesn’t make any bloody sense. No one wants to be no one.
Harry: I do. So I guess I’m no one.
Tom: … If you have no ambition how are you in Slytherin?
Harry (shrugging): Ambition to do nothing is still ambition, at least according to the Sorting Hat.
Tom: That’s a oxymoron.
Harry: That’s what I said too.
#udlttom#tomarry#time travel au#tom riddle#harry potter#tomarry fanfic#tomarrymort#dialogue draft#harry’s lack of ambition leaves Tom confused af#how Harry got sorted into Slytherin#slytherin harry
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modern au jaime would be unemployed his ass would not be doing anything
jaimes story in canon is actually about the tragedy of a man that is forced to have a job
#ask#jaime just wants to be fucked and loved and the modern world would allow his privileged ass to do just that#we are on the same page anon#he would have a dream of knighthood + swordplay shit with a sport tho#but on a more serious note him being so opposed to inheriting power is not necessarily that he lacks determination#and he was fine with the rock before all that happened honestly#tho i doubt he would like it#anyway ye ambition isnt just about power like jaime does dream of glory too so he would want to achieve something#before he would fall off and burn out and THEN he would be unemployed
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Some more shading and portrait practise with Soap and Laswell! Now the fanart sketchbook has a total of 3 different characters in it. More will come at some point , I promise. <3
Time to spend all Sunday watching Star Wars stuff and maybe expand this book to TWO fandoms cause SW is silly and fun and I miss it
#john soap mactavish#kate laswell#cod#call of duty fanart#call of duty#fanart#drawing#sketch#portraits#art#soap mactavish#modern warfare#cod fanart#johnny in the captain skin hits different#I'm having a raging fight with myself atm because I don't have enough energy to practice MORE (still in the Kylo Ren voice)#and my lack of improvement is still killing me#I have ambitions but they are not intense enough apparently or else I'd work my ass off LMAO#my art isn't terrible but I'm still disappointed in myself#the positive affirmations aren't working bros it's over#milk draws
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Bi-Han/Sub-Zero in Mortal Kombat 1 (2023)
Asharat: What kind of son betrays his father? Bi-Han: One who sees his father's time has passed.
Kuai Liang/Sub-Zero in Mortal Kombat 11 (2019)
Sub-Zero: Come and join the Lin Kuei. Jade: Outworld needs me, Sub-Zero. Sub-Zero: Do not let loyalty stunt your growth.
Frost in Mortal Kombat 11 (2019)
Jax: Thought the Lin Kuei were like family? Frost: Family only ever held me back.
BONUS: NOOB SAIBOT in Mortal Kombat (2019)
Noob Saibot: What did I always tell you? Sub-Zero: To never trust anyone. Noob Saibot: Least of all family.
#mortal kombat#sub zero#bi han#kuai liang#noob saibot#frost#cryomancers#lin kuei#lin kuei cryomancers have complicated family relationship#i love them but damn#there is something interesting between mk1 bi han and sub zero and frost from mk11#kuai liang says don't let loyalty to stunt your growth#bi han let their father to die so he (lin kuei) could grew stronger / independent#because father “lacked vision” - and by that he hold bi-han back from changing into what sub-zero thought he should be#frost too thought family hold her back and she betrayed kuai liang to grow stronger herself / for her ambitions#Bi Han & Frost & Kuai Liang have some interesting parallels between them#both did not let loyalty (to family / clan) stop them from advancing in what they thought was growth#but also the bitter statement to not trust anyone least of all family#when even kuai liang's advice is about not letting loyalty to stunt your growth#i love cryomancers but they all are messed up
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Bwuh???
Aside from the bass and Cuban heels I’m good!
#he’s just like me if he was tall American pretty with healthy relationships and a great personality#I’m kind of ok at bass but I lack ambition#gorillaz#murdoc niccals#murdoc gorillaz
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so coev is very much inspired by the things I've learned about early humans, and really I've become fascinated by the idea that at one point, a subsect of humans seemingly lost their connection with nature.
because think about it. for millions of years we were animals, living among all the other animals. we obviously didn't think we were very different from them. why would we? we're animals and we've always been animals
so the question becomes when did some humans start thinking they WEREN'T animals? when did those barriers start getting built? why did it happen? science today knows we ARE animals but it was a conclusion drawn from decades of research--but what happened to make those humans believe they weren't animals?
and coev--im wanting to explore that idea, i think, if it'll work. figure out how that shift might have happened, and the conflict that would arise from it.
maybe as tool making has increased in complexity among the prides, some cats start to delineate themselves from the other animals who Clearly Can't Make Things Like We Can?
and maybe as the amount of power a single cat can exert grows, it can fuel this growing, festering belief that they're somehow better. they can do things that no other before them has done, so perhaps that makes them more like a god/force of nature than a mortal/victim of nature...
#and if they aren't animals well what do they think they are#i think the answer must be gods right.#so as the complexity and reach of the valley prides grows so does their ambition?#something happens where they start to believe that it's them vs the rest of the world. some sort of paranoia. suspicion. lack of trust.#hmmmmmm#thinking out loud
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