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Bro I hate fundamentalists and culturally-fundie parents they'll say shit like "spare the rod spoil the child am I right haha yea my parents used to have to beat my ass with a switch almost everyday but I sure did learn my lesson" but like??? no you didn't??? you were hit multiple times for something you very obviously did not, in fact, learn
Like studies about how harmful even lightly spanking children is aside, you're literally contradicting yourself?? Some even admitted they got worse as they got older cause they wanted to see how far they could push their parents before they got punished
And studies not aside, you're gonna get child raising advice from the same book that tells you to stone your wife if her hymen doesn't break on your wedding night instead of the decades of research we have now?? Just say you're a bad parent and move on my guy. Skill issue
#bro I had a coworker go 'unpopular opinion I think some kids really do need beatings' and I'm like????#unprompted???? what's going on there????#well anyways I ended up going 'yea so I plan on specializing in play therapy with autistic children so I've been learning about talking#to children and the ways their parents and environment affects them'#and they're like hmmm but beating this kid with a stick after they broke something or I upset them to the point of yelling is good actually#had a boss say it taught him and his kids respect cause they were hard-headed#and I'm like?? that's fear not respect! they fear punishment! they do not act out of respect for you!#he's a conservative christian black man tho so he's like 'But Authority!' like bro I don't even respect you what are you on about#'You don't respect police and their authority?' Nope! I fear them! I do not respect cops and every cop/cop-adjacent person I personally know#has reinforced that for me#'We'll agree to disagree' Cool! Doesn't mean you're not wrong! I could believe trees aren't real but that is in fact incorrect#then he pulled out the bible verse and I was like ah okay I forgot you like 'here's how to treat slaves' book you're so right bestie#I'm totally wrong now and so sorry for doubting you and your 2000+ year old book I don't believe in <3#They'd go 'well I turned out fine!' then say something that directly contradicts that#anyways I need christians to get their grubby little hands off the current state of Child Protection and Rights in the U.S.#So we can actually start working on helping kids without the force of christian hands suffocating them#cause homeschooling and child raising by evangelicals are so fucked up bro I'm tired of this shit#I'd only stay in my current state to help children get out of that cycle since I'm in the bible belt#ex christian#religious trauma#child abuse tw
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this is an extremely personal preference and i’m NOT criticizing anyone’s art style but i PERSONALLY hate when anthro bugs are drawn with a giant abdomen sticking off the butt of an otherwise relatively humanoid body. it just reminds me of the robot with the dumptruck ass from that 2005 movie 🫣
#THAT’S JUST ME THO if u enjoy anthro bugs like this that’s totally cool and fine!!!!!#i just feel like if the overall body shape is more human than bug then it should either have a reduced abdomen or just a normal human butt#it looks disproportional TO ME personally#also in looking up a picture for this i learned that she’s supposed to be a snail robot that’s why she has a large back end.#anyway. draw bugs however u want it’s all awesome this is just my own taste in anthro bug style#.
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#hey boss#u uh- u said i was working sun n wed- can i have more consistent days so i have days to block out for interviews?#.#uve been forewarned#ok so its four months into my gap year and HOLY SHIT JOB SEARCHING IS SO FRUSTRATING#so im working as a clerk at this law firm mon and wed (only 8 hours total tho)#n i THOT i had my reatil job in the bag but then boss goes “yea im really sorry but i cant give u three days - only sundays and weds”#so i was like great ok i need another job thats cool ill just bliock out sundays and weds for potential employers#THEN on sat boss texts n goes “ahhh i dont need u till next week- also can u switch ur wed to fri”. ??????? MA'AM#so i go#she says sorry kid i dont WHICH IS FINE I APPRICIATE THE COMMUNICATION#so i have an interview the next day at a coffee shop for a time THE MANAGER OFFERED#i show up after having pit my day aside for this noon interview#i walk in employees go “uh ho manager stepped out”#she camnt come back for the rest of the day AND doesnt apologize in her email- just “unfourntallyyyy i didnt have time to check my email”#MAAM YOU SEND THE INVITE#whatever#luckily last friday i was invited to this job fair by like four diff locations in san fran n was immeditaly hired#(first trial shift tmr yay!)#but the commute is gonna be KILLER#however im hopeful n i love coffee so yay#also my pet sitting is taking off ive got two sits booked for october#which is suprising bc im also traveling for half the month#manchester edenbrough st andrews milan lake como babayyyyyyy#also this thursday im heading to chicago and maine for a wedding (yay go love!) and to tenessee for another wedding in jan#so now ive got law firm retail associate barista dog sitter n i just KNOW when the holidays roll around n both retail jobs will be wack ill#be floored#but. ahem anywats good things frustrating thinsg stressful things but GOD am i glad i took this gap year#oh yea and ive been hiking tones! lands end trail#tilden park
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Y’all the Chris Cornell version of Nothing Compares 2 U just came on and I started crying in the Trader Joe’s parking lot so hard I snotted in my sleeve.
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my first day at my new store is tomorrow everyone wish me luck
#i’m glad it’s not like. a Totally New Job just a different location#so like i already know how to do the actual work itself#i just have to learn the store layout + backrooms; the managers; where the timeclock and everything are; the passcodes; etc#so really it’s just gonna be a funky transition phase to get used to doing the same work in a different place with potentially different#expectations or rules or work culture in general#it’s rough that it’s gonna be a full 8 hr shift tho like that’s a struggle. but. it’ll be fine#esp since i’m probably either gonna be pushing out halloween product (yay!) or cashiering (extremely familiar to me!)#bc w halloween it’ll be fun bc it’s cool new product that i enjoy looking at#and it’ll help me more with learning the store layout (the only way to learn is exposure and practice after all)#but it’ll maybe be stressful if ppl are asking me for assistance#but that’s inevitable anyway yknow#but with cashiering it’s like. okay that’s smth i am super good at and don’t have to learn anything new for#my only worry is that if it gets slow they might try to get me to help guest service which i do NOT want to be trained in#bc i do NOT want to be given shifts in guest service or expected to help cover them regularly!#bc guest service sucks 🫶#but i think i could weasel my way out of that easily enough. it’s not really a concern
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Actually what being cool is is when you got to the Fertility clinic to get your FtM hormones and the doctor asks u if everything is ok and you are AWESOME so you say yeah except im very horny all the time and she acts like it's normal so you double down and say NO LIKE A CAGED ANIMAL IN HEAT and u *sorta meant it as a joke but more like facetiously cause really u are VERY HORNY and its distressing so the doctor kindly and ever-so-gently explains the biological urge to FUCK to you and you realize you're getting a birds and bees talk at 25 so you triple down and say "its hard to get anythng done i feel dizzy and distracted" and shes like yeah thats normal your body is saying make babies and she isnt really phased by any of this you THINK cause she is a doctor but you leave the office with a referral center for the [redacted} Center for Anxiety and Stress and assurance from a very kind woman that says you just need to bone.
That;s what being cool is and if you don't get it fuck off, preps.
#rabbit rambles#cool#cool and good#mental health#stress#ftm#transgender#im actually totally fine lol it was p embaressing tho#and by embaressing I do mean cool#autism#You ever wonder how your life has become an episode of Watamote and you have to self-reflect a little bit
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btw i will make a sona for myself based on your favorite animal but you have to draw yourself as a jackalope in return
im dead serious
you can be a bunny or a hare, doesn't matter. look up different breeds and species and colors if you want and then give them some kind of horns or antlers (wolpertingers are also fine but they have to be rabbit/hare based it's the rules.) it can also be a hybrid in general and not have strictly rabbit features, i dont wanna limit people too much
my conditions are i wont do bugs for mine (unless its a moth!) i like bugs but i rly dont like looking at photos of some kinds too much and some bugs are too intricate for me to do justice for comfortably in anthro form. i havent practiced that enough also: no open species type things. actual animals or general cryptids please i don't get into open species stuff at all
#fish are totally fine tho i love fish anthros and want to draw them more#im SO SERIOUS reply with an animal and ill start scheming#i love making 50000 sonas#i already have fursonas of: jackalope bunny chicken dragon(x2) lion#so i wont do those again#you havent seen my lion sona because hes in design hell and im taking him very seriously but he exists and i dont want a second one asdjhgd#i will not be hounding you for your “half” its not a concrete agreement as much as “if you do it I'd LOVE to see and think it was cool”#mine might take a while bc I get hung up on designs and have a lot of work to do otherwise so art isnt being done a lot but-#-i promise to think on it and give it a few rough sketches if nothing else unless I somehow get attacked with 100 ideas (but I doubt that)#and if you do make a jackalope even if you never use it again/pass the design on to someone else you should tag me or send it to me#I love seeing them :)#rainy rambles#if nobunny takes me up on this thats ok i just thought it was a fun idea
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how much do i have to pay people to draw eow!Zelda with brown eyes. Like this is not me trying to police how people draw her at all, i just think drawing a cartoony character with black eyes with dark brown eyes is soooo underrated
#josh talks#loz#loz eow#i do this with wind waker link too even tho blue eyes is tempting cuz yknow. the ocean#but seriously brown eyes with blonde hair is underrated#why must it all be blue and green 😔#again just to be safe this is not at all me trying to police how people draw her#i am totally fine with people drawing her with blue/green eyes#it would just be cool to see brown/grey/black eyes more
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i think rather fondly of how quick to (want to) punch & tackle satoshi is when people have the unfortune of being pathetic around him. for all the Been There Felt That, he gets so fucking annoyed by insecurity it's kind of funny
#he also gets pissy about arrogance tho so theres like. a fine line of confidence he's totally cool about fhskghal#except arrogance is chill if you're one of his friends. then he thinks it's very cool & awesome. except for when he still finds it annoying#but that's an entirely different brand of annoyance that's often fond#'cause those are people he thinks arrogance looks quite good on#still wants to wipe the smug look off their faces. thats universal. he's just less likely to punch em if theyre friends.#satoshi's got like. such a funky fuse. it's short but only specific things light it. like just being a failthing. or being a stuckup ass.#ooc. pkmn is autistic culture.
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Danna talking to Allure Magazine, saying she’s part of the LGBTQ+ community 🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜
#no i’m fine my wlw heart is totally fine all good cool byeee#it’s also sad tho- her keeping it to herself#danna#danna paola#love is love#childstar
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i know my previous post was sayin that im tryin to work on not sadposting but this one deserves to be mentioned; i randomly came across a shiny minior in ultra sun two days ago and it self destructed UGHGHHFHFHFHFHFH
#txt#i was just looking for a cleffaaaaaa 😭😭😭 and a shiny minior looks so cool toooooo UGHHHHH#i was kinda zonin out while looking for a decent nature cleffa and heard a sudden shiny sparkle sound effect and was like NOOO WAY?#then it EXPLODED... so sad. its obv fine but like. cmonnnnn...my shiny luck is so bad...and it does this to me#i think the only legit shinies ive ever encountered are a random nidoran in soulsilver#a shiny golbat in soulsilver again when i replayed it#and...now this shiny which just EXPLODED....i dont count the shiny lechonk or altaria i found in scarlet tho. too easy to shiny hunt -#- there. at least its too easy that it doesnt feel rewarding if u find a shiny randomly. like u WILL get one bc of how many pkmn show up#...i would totally hunt for a shiny ribombee. the colors are to die for#last thing related to the minior..its fine ig. minior doesnt seem to be the best pokemon anyway and i tend to box ones like that so.. i -#- wouldnt have used it i suppose?#oh id like to specify that the nidoran and golbat were like max 10 years apart. bad shiny luck
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literally just remembered that i had a dream last night where during part of it i technically got to cuddle with raiden... aga
#ni blabs#~lightning bolt action~#~selfship: eye of the storm~#i say technically b/c like it was a vr sorta thing#so it was just some guy who had a mg*4 avatar#and i ALSO had a mg*4 raiden avatar which is how we even met apparently lol#anyways we decided to hang out during some big vr presentation thing and ig that's how we got to cuddling#but i was like “shit wait this isn't Actually my blorbo so maybe i should cool it with the snuggles”#i think the guy was totally fine with it tho lmao#unrelated but i made a nonsensical bottom text joke verbally at another point but people still laughed at it#they were in my mind so ig they could see my Vision for the joke lol
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i just pre-ordered so many albums to cope !! doing great!!
#im planning on buying skz in person just bc i can#but i got blitzers even tho its just a single bc the colors are fun and i like to support my local nugus#i pre-ordered p1h obvvvv#and ateez OBVVV#those two i wanna have one version for each part of the set#idk if ill keep it up after i finish them bc like. what do you even need kpop albums for kate i mean really#but having the set will be fun i feel like. satisfying#i might keep collecting for p1h tho hmmm#oh and i pre-ordered tnx! their concept photos were soooo cool so i had to get it!!#haha everything is totally fine over here in case you were wondering#text
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just fully collapsed bc of a dizzy spell but didn't spill my water at all 😎
#im so cool and totally have full control over all my muscles#ok but somehow i was just On The Ground but still had my arm in the air with my cup fully upright--#also the dizzy spell wasn't super bad it's manageable lol#i just lose my vision and muscle control for like five seconds if i stand up too fast#it's not anemia tho bc we've had me tested for that on multiple fronts and im fine?? so idk what it is#but i can deal with it fine lol#lol i always overexplain shit like this in the tags bc i wanna talk about symptoms without ppl being immediately like-#'omg r u ok????? u should go to a doctor?????'#sometimes the concern is appreciated but sometimes it happens so frequently it gets tiring to respond to lol#chronically ill moment :/#also i have seen doctors they dont know whats goin on either LMAO#but overall i'm fine so no need to worry lol
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so sid is definitely not in s10 btw… but SULLIVAN is.. thats something
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Dandilions are invasive, but mostly just in people’s yards and gardens. They’re great for pollinators, and 100% edible to humans. (Maybe not the white fluff, but the seeds that hang there are)
Leaves and flowers for salads, roots for a crunch snack- as long as they’re not roadside or otherwise contaminated, dandelions are a grand old source of vitamins and minerals.
I don’t think dandelions are weeds. I think dandelions are free flowers that four year olds can pick for their mommies
#for potential legal reasons this is not a recommendation to forage#foraging is hella illegal in some places#yes#you can be fined for eating weeds#instead of just picking them as flowers#picking them as flowers is totally cool too tho#we will never run out of dandelions
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