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gxlden-angels · 10 months ago
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Bro I hate fundamentalists and culturally-fundie parents they'll say shit like "spare the rod spoil the child am I right haha yea my parents used to have to beat my ass with a switch almost everyday but I sure did learn my lesson" but like??? no you didn't??? you were hit multiple times for something you very obviously did not, in fact, learn
Like studies about how harmful even lightly spanking children is aside, you're literally contradicting yourself?? Some even admitted they got worse as they got older cause they wanted to see how far they could push their parents before they got punished
And studies not aside, you're gonna get child raising advice from the same book that tells you to stone your wife if her hymen doesn't break on your wedding night instead of the decades of research we have now?? Just say you're a bad parent and move on my guy. Skill issue
#bro I had a coworker go 'unpopular opinion I think some kids really do need beatings' and I'm like????#unprompted???? what's going on there????#well anyways I ended up going 'yea so I plan on specializing in play therapy with autistic children so I've been learning about talking#to children and the ways their parents and environment affects them'#and they're like hmmm but beating this kid with a stick after they broke something or I upset them to the point of yelling is good actually#had a boss say it taught him and his kids respect cause they were hard-headed#and I'm like?? that's fear not respect! they fear punishment! they do not act out of respect for you!#he's a conservative christian black man tho so he's like 'But Authority!' like bro I don't even respect you what are you on about#'You don't respect police and their authority?' Nope! I fear them! I do not respect cops and every cop/cop-adjacent person I personally know#has reinforced that for me#'We'll agree to disagree' Cool! Doesn't mean you're not wrong! I could believe trees aren't real but that is in fact incorrect#then he pulled out the bible verse and I was like ah okay I forgot you like 'here's how to treat slaves' book you're so right bestie#I'm totally wrong now and so sorry for doubting you and your 2000+ year old book I don't believe in <3#They'd go 'well I turned out fine!' then say something that directly contradicts that#anyways I need christians to get their grubby little hands off the current state of Child Protection and Rights in the U.S.#So we can actually start working on helping kids without the force of christian hands suffocating them#cause homeschooling and child raising by evangelicals are so fucked up bro I'm tired of this shit#I'd only stay in my current state to help children get out of that cycle since I'm in the bible belt#ex christian#religious trauma#child abuse tw
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xylocopavirginica · 4 months ago
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this is an extremely personal preference and i’m NOT criticizing anyone’s art style but i PERSONALLY hate when anthro bugs are drawn with a giant abdomen sticking off the butt of an otherwise relatively humanoid body. it just reminds me of the robot with the dumptruck ass from that 2005 movie 🫣
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hwsforeignrelations · 2 months ago
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#hey boss#u uh- u said i was working sun n wed- can i have more consistent days so i have days to block out for interviews?#.#uve been forewarned#ok so its four months into my gap year and HOLY SHIT JOB SEARCHING IS SO FRUSTRATING#so im working as a clerk at this law firm mon and wed (only 8 hours total tho)#n i THOT i had my reatil job in the bag but then boss goes “yea im really sorry but i cant give u three days - only sundays and weds”#so i was like great ok i need another job thats cool ill just bliock out sundays and weds for potential employers#THEN on sat boss texts n goes “ahhh i dont need u till next week- also can u switch ur wed to fri”. ??????? MA'AM#so i go#she says sorry kid i dont WHICH IS FINE I APPRICIATE THE COMMUNICATION#so i have an interview the next day at a coffee shop for a time THE MANAGER OFFERED#i show up after having pit my day aside for this noon interview#i walk in employees go “uh ho manager stepped out”#she camnt come back for the rest of the day AND doesnt apologize in her email- just “unfourntallyyyy i didnt have time to check my email”#MAAM YOU SEND THE INVITE#whatever#luckily last friday i was invited to this job fair by like four diff locations in san fran n was immeditaly hired#(first trial shift tmr yay!)#but the commute is gonna be KILLER#however im hopeful n i love coffee so yay#also my pet sitting is taking off ive got two sits booked for october#which is suprising bc im also traveling for half the month#manchester edenbrough st andrews milan lake como babayyyyyyy#also this thursday im heading to chicago and maine for a wedding (yay go love!) and to tenessee for another wedding in jan#so now ive got law firm retail associate barista dog sitter n i just KNOW when the holidays roll around n both retail jobs will be wack ill#be floored#but. ahem anywats good things frustrating thinsg stressful things but GOD am i glad i took this gap year#oh yea and ive been hiking tones! lands end trail#tilden park
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bettyfrommars · 1 year ago
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Y’all the Chris Cornell version of Nothing Compares 2 U just came on and I started crying in the Trader Joe’s parking lot so hard I snotted in my sleeve.
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digitaldiseas3 · 3 months ago
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my first day at my new store is tomorrow everyone wish me luck
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lilmightyrabbit · 6 months ago
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Actually what being cool is is when you got to the Fertility clinic to get your FtM hormones and the doctor asks u if everything is ok and you are AWESOME so you say yeah except im very horny all the time and she acts like it's normal so you double down and say NO LIKE A CAGED ANIMAL IN HEAT and u *sorta meant it as a joke but more like facetiously cause really u are VERY HORNY and its distressing so the doctor kindly and ever-so-gently explains the biological urge to FUCK to you and you realize you're getting a birds and bees talk at 25 so you triple down and say "its hard to get anythng done i feel dizzy and distracted" and shes like yeah thats normal your body is saying make babies and she isnt really phased by any of this you THINK cause she is a doctor but you leave the office with a referral center for the [redacted} Center for Anxiety and Stress and assurance from a very kind woman that says you just need to bone.
That;s what being cool is and if you don't get it fuck off, preps.
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rainyjackalope · 1 year ago
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btw i will make a sona for myself based on your favorite animal but you have to draw yourself as a jackalope in return
im dead serious
you can be a bunny or a hare, doesn't matter. look up different breeds and species and colors if you want and then give them some kind of horns or antlers (wolpertingers are also fine but they have to be rabbit/hare based it's the rules.) it can also be a hybrid in general and not have strictly rabbit features, i dont wanna limit people too much
my conditions are i wont do bugs for mine (unless its a moth!) i like bugs but i rly dont like looking at photos of some kinds too much and some bugs are too intricate for me to do justice for comfortably in anthro form. i havent practiced that enough also: no open species type things. actual animals or general cryptids please i don't get into open species stuff at all
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joshuamj · 5 months ago
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how much do i have to pay people to draw eow!Zelda with brown eyes. Like this is not me trying to police how people draw her at all, i just think drawing a cartoony character with black eyes with dark brown eyes is soooo underrated
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meistoshi · 7 months ago
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i think rather fondly of how quick to (want to) punch & tackle satoshi is when people have the unfortune of being pathetic around him. for all the Been There Felt That, he gets so fucking annoyed by insecurity it's kind of funny
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carladuquette · 7 months ago
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Danna talking to Allure Magazine, saying she’s part of the LGBTQ+ community 🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜
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feeferden · 11 months ago
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i know my previous post was sayin that im tryin to work on not sadposting but this one deserves to be mentioned; i randomly came across a shiny minior in ultra sun two days ago and it self destructed UGHGHHFHFHFHFHFH
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nis-si-hellhole · 1 year ago
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literally just remembered that i had a dream last night where during part of it i technically got to cuddle with raiden... aga
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somebodycallixii · 1 year ago
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i just pre-ordered so many albums to cope !! doing great!!
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nexus-nebulae · 2 years ago
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just fully collapsed bc of a dizzy spell but didn't spill my water at all 😎
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bisidneycarter · 2 years ago
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so sid is definitely not in s10 btw… but SULLIVAN is.. thats something
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optimisticapocalypse · 2 years ago
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Dandilions are invasive, but mostly just in people’s yards and gardens. They’re great for pollinators, and 100% edible to humans. (Maybe not the white fluff, but the seeds that hang there are)
Leaves and flowers for salads, roots for a crunch snack- as long as they’re not roadside or otherwise contaminated, dandelions are a grand old source of vitamins and minerals.
I don’t think dandelions are weeds. I think dandelions are free flowers that four year olds can pick for their mommies
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