#it will be exhausting
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starting to think that talking to your younger self is incredibly therapeutic if you have any semblance of kindness towards them. so, thanks, i guess. i think i needed this.
Reblog with what you would tell your 13-year-old self in the tags.
#there is so much you do not know#but also. you are more intelligent than you give yourself credit for#in ways that you do not yet understand#things are hard. they have been hard for you. they are going to continue to be hard#it helps if you acknowledge that#don't listen to your dad he's full of a lot of shit#you know this deep down. it's okay you can admit it#i know you're waiting for a sign that the church is real#it's not coming. someday you will grow tired of waiting and the price will be too steep#but you will not be alone. there will be others like you#things are going to hurt. that's life#you will keep getting stronger#it will be exhausting#there will be times when you aren't sure if it's worth it#i can't tell you from personal experience yet that it is#but i know. and i know that you know. deep down at least. that it is.#spite is a surprisingly good motivator#keep being kind. your kindness will serve you well as you grow#keep writing. i know you think everyone's wrong when they tell you that you're good at it#because you think they were wrong about you being smart#you've got a good head on your shoulders. messier than the average person's sure. but it's yours and it's good#and you really are at least a little bit good at writing#and even if you weren't i know that you enjoy it. let yourself enjoy it#let yourself enjoy things#also fatphobia is real. and yes that includes you. you're not going to grow out of that body#you're going to grow into it which is much better#you are tired. i am tired. i don't know when that gets better. hopefully soon.#you are in pain. i am in pain. i don't know when that gets better either. also hopefully soon#above all else it is going to be okay#never forget that
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People turning against Chappell Roan for not accepting harassment & stalking of her and her family, saying Hozier is acting embarrassing for defending his girlfriend THAT Y'ALL WEREN'T EVEN SUPPOSED TO KNOW ABOUT after she got harassed online, calling Pedro Pascal names for.. apparently not greeting fans loudly in his own private time?
Y'all have GOT to get a grip on real life if you think celebs establishing boundaries is working against you. You do not know these people, you will not sleep with these people and they do not owe you anything!!!!!!
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>Join a union
>Hear people constantly complaining that the current union leadership is super corrupt, it's all just the same ten guys making all the decisions in secret and nobody else in the union ever gets to know what's going on
>Go to the monthly union meetings that are completely open to all 1200 union members
>The only attendees are the same ten guys every month, giving detailed reports about everything that's going on
#anyway this is why i'm the way i am about politics and people who advocate against 'participating in the system'#i am on my way to becoming one of the ten guys and frankly? it's fucking exhausting#i chatted with the union president afterwards and he got this haunted look in his eye#and was like 'i'm glad to see you getting involved but remember you can say no. you can always say no.#don't let anyone bully you into doing more than you want to. make time for yourself. YOU CAN SAY NO.'#which was good and much appreciated advice! but also. ominous
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in the hour or so it took me to draw this op turned reblogs off
EDIT: reblogs are STAYING OFF. op was right and correct and i have never regretted making a post as much as this one. if you want to reblog my art you can reblog something else from my blog. or commission me, lord knows i deserve financial compensation for the nightmare this post has put me through
#art#i had to block multiple people because of this post and i easily could have blocked more#do you guys have any idea how exhausting it is to hear 400 people make the exact same unfunny joke each thinking they're being original#or worry that another person might get harassed over a post i made because of the way people are talking about them#or be harassed/insulted YOURSELF because some people don't know how to fucking behave#you guys don't get reblogs back. you should be grateful i'm leaving the post up at all.
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when someone doesn’t wanna tell me what i did wrong and suddenly i’m 8 years old wondering what i did to make my mom mad again
#bpd safe#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#bpd#mentally exhausted#actually mentally ill#borderline personality disorder#tw depressing thoughts#depressing shit#sadgirl#sad thoughts#bpd shit#shitpost#mental health#mentally fucked#mental illness#mentally unstable#tired
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#vivi bleats#i was already tired before but putting on the fitted sheet is even more exhausting u_u#1k#5k#25k#50k#75k#100k
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please be nice to me, i'm in my twenties. do you know what that does to a person
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I’m ace, aro and tired
Reblog if you are also LGBT+ and tired
#idk reblog if you’re just tired man#cuz I’d be exhausted even if I wasn’t aro ace#tired#aromantic#asexual#ace#aro#im tired#lgbt#lgbtqia
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“they hated eachother!!! they tried to kill eachother!!” WRONG!!! THEY BOTH KNEW THE OTHER COULDNT DIE THEY JUST DID IT FOR THE THRILL AND RAGE!!!!! THEY SACRIFICED THEMSELVES FOR THE OTHER!!!! THEY PLAYED YOURE THE ONE THAT I WANT DURING THE FIGHT IN THE HONDA CIVIC!!!!!! WOLVERINE LITERALLY MOVED IN WITH DEADPOOL. IM NOT CRAZY.
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There are truly very few forces in the world as strong as the inertia of staying up way too late doing fuckall
#it’s like that saying about drinking poison and expecting the other person to die#in the morning I will be exhausted and work will still be there#cruelty#alas#One more round of solitaire#personal
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Ian Stone, Doubting Thomas, oil on linen, 12x16 in, 2023
#i've become too exhausted with being subjected to the stupidity and repetition of the tags and notes on this post#go follow ian on ig instead#feed his algorithm
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Being forcefully raised as a woman is not any less traumatic and emotionally repressive as being forcefully raised as a man. Femininity is not inherently pure and safe. Coercing someone to perform femininity is not any less toxic than coerced masculinity. Being dysphoric around femininity or having trauma from women doesn’t make you a misogynist.
#transandrophobia#transmasculine experiences#antitransmasculinity#transmisandry#im so exhausted from both cis and trans people acting like trans men choosing to engage with femininity as much or as little as we want is#somehow a statement on how we feel about women#and not just our own personal comfort#make all the forced fem jokes you would like#but remember those of us who were forced to be feminine#actually experienced serious trauma from that#and deserve a space to talk about it
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i dont know who needs to hear this but you do not need to go on a diet. you do not need to lose weight as a new year revolution. you do not need to feel shame for gaining any weight over the holidays and for enjoying yourself and the food. you do not need to tolerate diet talk after setting a boundary and if someone cant respect that then theyre being the asshole. you already have a summer body. you already are hot. theres no moral failure or shame in being fat
#been around a lot of bullshit today thats so so so exhausting and triggering#but a reminder for me as much as you. love you all & i hope this season is gentle to you
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hate the phrase “it costs nothing to be kind” or any variation thereof cause im not gonna lie to you guys. sometimes it costs quite a lot. i’ll pay it most of the time but christ alive.
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#you will survive. you will make it to tomorrow. we will persist. we will always be here no matter what they want#sorry for my doom posting here#this is actually important to remember I’m just worked up#also I’m exhausted but the kind where I cannot sleep#election#us politics#us elections
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