#intergirl

[dhddmods]

Interwoman & Interman flag redesigns!

We were NOT happy with the flags we made in 2021, so we remade them. Not much changed, it still has the same meanings, its just more aesthetically pleasing now.

(Please read and reblog our intersex guide! Its important to learn about intersex people.)

Interwoman/Intergirl: a person that is intersex and also a woman. They can have any sex traits. They might identify as a cis-woman, a trans-woman, or both.

Interman/Interboy: a person that is intersex and also a man. They can have any sex traits. They might identify as a cis-man, a trans-man, or both.

[find-your-queery]

I'm transfeminine nonbinary, but a small part oft identity (especially sexual) is masculine/male, but in a feminine man way. I'm mostly girl-adjacent, or a binaryn't girl, but I've never found a label that is very clearly "transfem but also has a very small part of identity be a man"

"hi same intersex transfem with a bit of masculinity esp in a sexual way here, idk if I mentioned but the masculinity isn't just masculine it's very *male* specifically. also I'm not male myself (or female, I'm intersex) so it's not just having a connection to that :("

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The terms I can best associate with your queery are Bigender, Intergirl, and Azurgirl!

Bigender people feel a connection to two genders, typically associated with male and female genders, though any combination is possible! to better fit your queery, I suggest possibly combining it as "transfeminine bigender"!

Intergirl is a term specifically for Intersex people who identify as a woman but in a "unique intersex-way." Intergirls may or may not fluctuate between other feminine-aligned identities. (Fun fact I actually saw, this term and others like it were coined specifically to help intersex people be able to describe their unique relationships with gender(s) better!)

-resource used: lgbtqia.wiki (If you're interested in looking more into other intersex-related identities, I'd recommend the Intersex Genders category of the same site!)

Azurgirl is a term for people who identifies as a girl, but still feels significantly connected to masculinity in some way, whether that be their gender, expression, or some other factor.

-resource used: gender.fandom.com (I'd also recommend looking into the gender.fandom.com category for feminine identities!)

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If you disagree with this answer and/or think there is a better label/term that fits the inQueery, that's okay! Kindly let us know so we can learn together!

[funnyanimalguy]

Intergirl / interwoman flag

I felt there should be one to match the pretty interboy flag made by @/intersexjoy (deactivated) so i made this quickly in ibisPaint. I hereby release it to the public domain, for anyone to do anything with. (I will block transphobes who touch this post tho.)

Definition: “an exclusive gender for intersex individuals who identify as women/girls, but in a unique intersex-way. They may feel as though they are an altered form of a girl, or they may just wish to embrace the intersex part of their identity, despite feeling little to no connection to it.”

Without symbol:

(For the record yes i have a condition that is recognized as under the intersex umbrella👍 This is a label i'm questioning/somewhat relate to)

[warriors-pride]

intergirl mistlekit please?

[rwpohl]

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[radiomogai]

[PT: AMAB Intergirl and AFAB Interboy. End PT]

AMAB Intergirl and AFAB interboy

AMAB intergirl - someone who is AMAB (or CAMAB) and intergirl.

AFAB interboy - someone who is AFAB (or CAFAB) and interboy.

(Exclusive for intersex)

[sovamurka]

Shush! I am daydreaming about fucked up 90s Бесобой/Demonslayer AU.

[theautumnaldemon]

My dad: it’s integral

My sister: integirl?

My dad: integral. How many r’s are you using

Me: are you two talking about integers or integrals

My sister: NEITHER—

My dad: integral. It’s integral

Me: you two are making me lose braincells

My sister: I’m pretty sure it’s intergirl

Me: OH MY GOD

my dad: I’m with [my name] on this one you’re making me lose braincells

My sister: am i crazy???

Me: let’s get you back to bed [my sister’s name]..

My dad: [my name], spell integral

Me: i n t e g r a l

My sister: that was a good try

My dad: that was correct

My sister: SERIOUSLY!?

[mariacallous]

The 1989 film Interdevochka contributed to the USSR’s collapse, according to State Duma Speaker Vyacheslav Volodin, who recalled the movie as an example of harmful popular culture that he seeks to suppress. 

Interdevochka (or Intergirl) is a Soviet-Swedish drama about a woman in Leningrad who turns to prostitution to earn the money she needs to emigrate. (Meduza)

[ruffffffing]

forget transfem nightcloud. she is a intergirl to me

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 4 images in 2 pairs. each has one image of the listed danganronpa character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Mukuro Ikusaba from Danganronpa is a gungender, transsexual, aplatonic, transmasc girl, cistrans, transvestite, androgynous, intersex, intergirl, stone butch, platonic repulsed, lesboy who uses he/gun/shot/xaer pronouns and has alexithymia, C-PTSD, P-OCD, P-DID, AvPD, and NPD!

Toko Fukawa is a dollcoric, thistle femme, saphboy, velaurian, abroromantic, queer, omnigender, transsexual, MtFtM, MtF, intersex, femflux, gendergraceful, transfem boy, girly boy, romeric, lesbian, high femme, femme4butch, aplatonic, platonic repulsed, shemale, genderqueer, guylady who uses ix/poet/gunshot/rot/fxir pronouns and has C-PTSD, AvPD, P-OCD, DPD, OLD and C-DID!

Toko and Mukuro are in a queersensual companionship!

For rarepair anon!

[handsome-enemy-you-despise]

mutuals to watch Intergirl (1989) with? 🥺

[thealternates]

this is getting more attention than i thought it would and honestly it's exciting to see some of the replies planning to do this.

i encourage everyone who sees this to consider it! if you're scared to fall into stereotypes, there's so SO many intersex blogs / people on tumblr. i'm sure most would be happy to give you tips or experiences to work from.

the most common tips i can think of is:

- intersex doesn't mean both working parts. don't say your ocs or headcanons have that. we can have mixed traits of so many different variations but that doesn't mean we can do everything with them. research real terms and variations if you plan to get detailed (this is mainly referring to ocs).

- please. i beg of you don't use herm/hermaphrodite or futa/futanari for the headcanons or ocs. intersex people who want to reclaim the slurs / have their ocs do the same is their own business, just don't do it if you're perisex.

- intersex people can be any orientation. so many real intersex people get pushed out of terms for "not fitting them." so don't hold back! the same applies to genders.

- intersex people can be cis, trans, both or neither! mix it up, have some be cis, some trans, some who don't use either label or some who's both! there's cistrans labels for a reason. there's also so many intersex specific labels you can use. intergender, intergirl/interwoman, intersex xenogenders, etc. there's intersex archive blogs you can scroll through. looking up "intersex flags" / "intersex mogai" etc also works for some. most term coiners would be happy to see their flags being used. with credit or links though. a lot of headcanon blogs never source where they found the flags which can be frustrating.

involve intersex labels in your character headcanons. please. i've seen hundreds of headcanons over the year, edits, orientations, genders, yet i've maybe seen 3 that mentioned intersex. please normalise it being a possibility for characters.

i'm not sure if perisex people are scared of falling into stereotypes, or if they think the flag is ugly (it's not), but i promise it won't kill anyone if you add the flag in with all the others. the whole point of most headcanons is to explore what canon media often leaves out.

and don't pull the "most don't know what the flag means". if others can use super specific microlabels or xenogenders you can use the intersex flag ♡

[satellites-halo]

If I wasn't a pussy I'd make intergirl/intergender girl and interfem/intergender transfem flags but I'm a little bitch who is scared of making anything ever

[chekhov-and-chill]

Still in the Gorgeous Russian Actress thread- this is Ingeborga Dapkunaite. Technically she's Lithuanian, but she plays in Russian films. The photos above are from one of her first roles- a prostitute named Kitty (Кисуля) in the 1987 film "Intergirl". It made history as the first Russian film to acknowledge prostitution, as before Soviet censors just pretended it didn't exist in their "good, pure communist land". It is probably the only film I ever watched where prostitutes were not portrayed as dramatically "fallen women" that needed saving (likely from some male protagonist), nor were they incessantly "empowered" at every possible scene just for the filmmakers to show off how ~progressive~they were. The movie isn't really about prostitution- it's about a lot of things: communism v.s capitalism (hint: both suck), how to survive in a society that's falling apart in every conceivable way, materialism, the "Russia vs the rest of the world" mentality, independence, dignity, hating your country, loving your country, and many other things. But the main characters just happen to be prostitutes, and they are portrayed as real, normal people, with friends, and education(!), and interests, and aspirations. And that's rare and refreshing to see. But back to Kitty. She's only a supporting character, and not a always a very positive one, but I fell in love with her and Ingeborga Dapkunaite's portrayal of her character. Her smile, her attitude, her Baltic accent and intonation, her hypnotic movements, her ability to make the tackiest clothes and makeup look graceful and classy...I could go on for days. I never see Dapkunaite mentioned in the numerous online lists of "beautiful Russian/Soviet actresses". Maybe because she isn't technically Russian. And maybe my perception of her is altered by how much I love the iconic "Kitty" character. But if you're still reading this, give "Intergirl" a try. I'm sure you'll fall in love with Kitty too.

[queer-coining]

AIAB Intergirl/interboy

AIAB intergirl - someone who is AIAB and intergirl.

AIAB interboy - someone who is AIAB and interboy.

UAB Intergirl/interboy

UAB intergirl - someone who is UAB and intergirl

UAB interboy - someone who is UAB and interboy