#in a p big not sweeping things under the rug way

[louisisalarrie]

Hey love at first I want to tell you that I love reading your blog, it’s so motivating and gives me the possibility to see the things on another prospective (+ you give me so much hope about all the bbg stuff) so thank you

btw I’m here cause I want to ask you a question, do you think that with the Liam’s passing (omg I still can’t believe that I have to write this) something will change in the music industry or just around the guys?

I’m not as confident as I was before, cause I think that it is a shitty world and there is a lot of things to sweep under the rug. I thought that with all of the “P’Diddy” situation a lot of things would come up but it seems that after initial uproar everyone simply moved on and no one talk about this anymore.

I read your post about the guys’ post on the 1D IG page and I have had the same feelings when I read it for the first time. I hope that they will found a way after all that happened to spoke about themself in a truly way and that situation gives them the possibility to change something in their life in a better way (ykwim) especially for L and H.

heeeey baby thanks for being here and the kind words!! xx

I think Liam’s passing has brought a lot of attention to the mental health and treatment of artists and while it’s an absolute tragedy that he’s gone and I still can’t believe it, im glad we have been loud about this and we can hopefully make a difference for him and the boys and upcoming artists. I truly think if we keep pushing, it will bring more and more attention to it all, and it’s very important to put the industry’s top big wigs under fire for this shit.

Now I do think, that the biggest way to shake the industry though, isn’t gonna be coming from us or Liam’s passing itself. I think it’s gonna come from those boys being loud. I think that’s where the differing factor is. If louis jumped on a live stream right now and was like “hey im gonna out the abuse we went through because liam would still be alive if we were treated like actual humans” it would be a game changer. and im hoping he does do something like that. he’s too loud to not use this to give him more of a reason to shit all over the 1d team and SC. he’s probably just having some lengthy chats with his lawyer and grieving still. but I hope he fucking screams about it and rocks the boat that is the music industry. doesn’t have to be louis btw, any one of them or all of them could do it, I just use him as an example because he seems to give the least amount of fucks about the big industry folks and what they’ll think of him.

The P Diddy sitch is still unraveling, but it takes time. There’s hush money, lawyers, and a whole lot of managers and PR teams figuring out what the hell to do, but im sure something will come of it. it has to. something has to break and I think the GP, and other artists, are fighting for the gates to break and an absolute flood of truth to come pissing out. We’re all sick and tired of being lied to so blatantly, and people suffering but it’s all covered up. and things have to give at some point soon.

I think the 1d boys probably have a lot of fuel to the fire now with Liam’s tragic passing - it’s brought them all back together and I think, I hope, that they fucking lose their shit. They have a huge amount of support behind them. I hope they do something about this and call those assholes out.

[fleetways]

Hi, HUGE fan of yours, I just wanted to point out that the big addition you made about Shadow Generations and the Shadow's history timeline from the anime expo seems to be based very heavily on assumption; it's way more likely and also was downright alluded to by the host that whoever threw that chart together for this con (and who likely was just an intern given Photoshop and a Fandom wiki) was only including appearances that were major to real life; they specifically presented it as "his first appearance, the games where he returned, his first standalone title, and then non-game media that depicted him."

I also don't agree that it'd be nostalgia bait to focus on Shadow's past right now, especially in a Generations-style anthology game that's meant to capitalize on the movie. The ARK itself was last relevant to a game almost 20 years ago so SEGA is probably concerned that the people they're marketing to literally weren't alive during its relevancy.

Spoilers for a level in the game below:

It's also not like they're ignoring 06 and sweeping it under the rug, one of the few things we know about the game is that it has a level from 06. I'm not saying you were wrong I'm just saying you based a ton of speculative criticism on assumption and misunderstanding, which as a Sonic fan who lived through the 2010s it's just very draining to hear speculative criticism

Well the 06 thing was just me being mr salty more than anything so I’ll give you that. It’s not a criticism for the game, because I know what the game is gonna be and accept this, but just a disappointment with the attitude around it and the fact that they were able to tell new stories with Shadow in the past but have been seemingly unwilling to do anything else like that for the past 17 years. It just kinda feels like they’re digging their heels in to characterize Shadow as someone whose sole motivation revolves around Maria because they think that’s what people want to see, even though that’s something that I feel the canonical ending of Shadow the Hedgehog (2005) and later Sonic 06 showed was definitely not the case.

(Although I still vastly prefer this reading to Shadow acting like an asshole for no reason).

My issues lie way more in my expectations for the panel that this was going to be a deep dive into Shadow’s in-universe character and explore some of the lore that hadn’t been talked about before. There was some of that, but in the end it really boiled down to stuff I was either aware of, or stuff that had already been well-established in canon. There’s nothing wrong with that per se, especially as an introduction to Sonic x Shadow Generations, but considering Sonic x Shadow Generations is already looking to be an introduction to Shadow in Sonic 3, I was hoping there would be more for me to sink my teeth into as someone who is familiar with the character and deeply interested more in specifics. I recognize this is 100% a me problem, but I can’t help but feel frustrated.

As for the nostalgia-bait thing, I think we’ll just have to agree to disagree there. Sonic Generations is literally THE nostalgia game, and I don’t mean that as an insult, it made perfect sense for the time it came out. But considering there’s been a pretty significant tendency to revisit the same locations and concepts, to the point where its become a known point of criticism for the franchise, I can’t help but feel like this is the same thing I’m used to seeing just with Shadow. Which don’t get me wrong, if they’re gonna do it anyways, I’d much rather it be for a character we’ve been hankering for for so long! I just feel a little fatigued is all, even if I understand it makes perfect sense marketing-wise to make a version of one of your best-received games that neatly introduces your character starring in a blockbuster later that year, while also throwing a bone to Shadow/adventure era fans who were dying to see remastered levels from that era (me included!). It’s actually ingenious, so I can’t possibly fault them for it. Plus, for all my complaining, its looking like there definitely is new stuff going on with Shadow, so I’m excited for that. I am just hoping they can tell a story better than the one we got in the original Sonic Generations (which fortunately shouldn’t be too difficult).

[not-goldy]

Tumblr please bring back my update.

It was a long ass post too and Tumblr jx sweeped it under the rugs damn

So Re my gf's dialog of doom- FALSE ALARM😭😭😭

Sis jx wanted to know what I wanted to do on my birthday💀

But like why did she say it like that cos I peed pooped puked pivoted ALL THE BIG P's at the same time😭😭😭😭😭😭

Sis don traumatized me in this relationship 🤧

Anyone who knows what's been going on between us last year. weve been going through this process close to and near my birthday that ends with us breaking up- and then getting back together.

It's very simple, she missed my birthday last year ND the year before that. No post no greetings no calls nothing. So what did I do? Nothing. Didn't complain didnt ask questions. NOTHING.

And it hurt cos I used to do everything for her on her birthday to let her know I be feeling her like that- and honestly I just think it's nice to do nice things for people you care about and her birthday is jx an excuse for me to show her I care and give her experiences and moments ya know?

I don't know. May be it's my mistake I keep giving her the love I want for myself and I keep loving her in ways I never had.

Anywho, I had had enough of her analysis retentive attitude so close to her birthday, I got her all excited, called up her friends to let them know I was planning something for her. I even asked if they wanted to come cos I knew they would tell her either way. they a bunch of clowns really🤡

On her birthday, she cleared her schedule and seemed in a really good mood- I cleared my schedule too( we worked together then, she's my boss so she definitely knew I cleared my schedule that day)

Then on her birthday, I took myself out on a nice getaway staycation got me some nice lingerie pampered my back and toes, had those feet fetishized and love kissed by them cute weird freaky feet eating fishes with foot fetish, strolled through long halls naked under the robe with a glass of wine, and let my phone ring on silence.

Came back n acted like I'd been out with people and had the time of my life.

You can't stress me out and expect me not to love myself.

I'LL LOVE MYSELF ON YOUR BIRTHDAY😘

This year. I totally forgot she's a March born like I stopped caring bout her birthday n I wasn't even trying to be petty or nuin😭😭😭😭😭

I just don't care anymore 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

So when she said we needed to talk, turns out she just wanted to talk about that and call it truce cos she says she can't keep going through that year after year.

And frankly I can't either cos I be having my entire heart ripped out of my chest it be looking like a homicide inside my ribcage- but it doesn't stop me from returning the energy on her birthdays too cos I'M PETTY AS FUCK DUDE

I'm a Libra don't mess with me. I'll take the L, go through all the motions, feel that hurt and pain and betrayal and when I'm done- RUN

ILL GEAR UP AND SERVE YOU HOT STEAMING PILE OF LAVA BOILING REVENGE COOKED STRAIGHT FROM HELL'S COLD KITCHEN😌

She asked me what my plans are for my birthday and I honestly have nothing planned at all- I jx want to be quiet and alone and watch Netflix.

She's hurt cos she says I used to want to do things together with her on my birthday.

I don't know if I've changed like she says but frankly as much as I love her I don't enjoy being with her anymore.

I'd rather spend my birthday alone, do things alone- I love her want her- it's just I'm scared of another fight and yet again another break up and if us being distant is the only way we can have a semblance of a normal relationship then I'll take that.

And I'll rather have this than not have her at all.

Chilee I don't know anymore.

Also yall quit complaining bout me bringing my drama to your doorstep. Like yall have audacity hanging around my blog for free 99 and expecting relative peace and drama free services😹😹😹😹😹

Say it after me, We all in this together

Mi drama is su drama adios 😘😆

[animatedrapture]

hi! violet :)

maybe thats too much to ask but at the end of As Friends could you tell us what was the og plot you roughly planned? 👀👀

i don’t think kana would have fucked up that much since i remember seeing the masterlist being less that 30 chapters? plus i remember you saying you changed certain things while the story progressed 👀

the og og plan from back when i was drafting as friends early on, i never expected kana and suna's ""relationship"" become such a big issue to the point where i feel like as it is right now, it's been kinda blown out of proportion. i honestly even had hopes that kana and yn could make up but damn......... sometimes as stories progress, characters you have just end up doing shit HLEHSJSBSN idk how to explain it but yeah, somehow, kana became the way she is now. yikesss! so yeah, you're right! hehe

it's a really funny alternate ending u guys couldve had :p that's why i had this smau on "light angst" back then. but well, cause now there's been a bunch that's changed, it's why closing it off has been difficult as well, sweeping kana under the rug is quite a hard task :p

[mego42]

Meggggg I was just musing on something and decided to send an ask because I LOVE ASKING YOU ALL YOUR OPINIONS.

Ok so I always see people mention that rio was crying In the club ™️ because he thought Beth and nick slept together. I get lost as to why people make this assumption though. At the start of the episode nick is asking rio for advice on a very clear problem: how to get Beth to agree to run for city council. Rio gives his smug hair-pulling advice as the solution to the problem. Beth agrees to run at end of episode and nick sends rio the bottle complete with “for pulling her hair” note. (Because he thinks Rio pulling her hair via strip strip coercion meant that Beth was won over by nick’s romancing tactic in comparison?? Because he thinks Rio’s hair pulling tactic convinced Beth to run? I’ve never totally known).

This bottle is clearly celebrating Beth deciding to run for council? It was the hurdle nick was facing at start of episode, and the one he’s jumped by the end. I’m so confused why people think rio thinks it means nick and Beth slept together?!???? What am I missing?? What do you think??

My hot take was that rio knew it meant Beth had agreed to run and while Rio had been all talk up to that point about being FINE SO FINE about nick using Beth for his plans, when the event itself actualized, he realizes he’s very NOT ok with nick using Beth or working with Beth or getting close to Beth or spending time with Beth, especially in light of the fact that nick has been kinda overt about his intention to also hit on Beth as part of the above. (The very next rio and Beth scene is the next episode when Rio can barely contain his “so WHY do you want this, what’s in it for you” question.) cue rio in his feels crying in the club and the true turning point for Rio in his decision to take nick down.

This was meant to be two sentences. Oops.

hahahahahaha NO OOPS I LOVE IT!!!!!!

personally, i think i'm in line with you? i never thought rio took the bottle as notice that beth and nick slept together as much as confirmation from nick that she was running aka nick had his hooks in her now (or so he thinks). my take was rio's angst came from seeing where that path could lead, and it's almost more worrisome than just beth and nick potentially sleeping together for someone who's in big fat stupid love with beth like rio is.

more so than money, rio knows beth's horny af for power, control, and respect. his ability to give her all of the above is a huge part of what attracted her to him in the first place and all three of those are things nick/city council are able to give her with a crucial difference of not coming equipped with all of the bloody baggage and bitter history beth and rio have accumulated between them.

i always thought he's crying in the club bc he's looking at that bottle and seeing a future where beth's able to get everything rio's been able to give her from nick and she cuts rio out/leaves him/chooses nick. why wouldn't she? as far as rio knows, beth has no idea he's playing her and again, he and beth have all that baggage making nick look like a much less complicated option on paper. additionally, it's compounded by the fact that nick's got a history of taking what rio has/loves, so (i think) he's afraid that if presented with that opportunity, nick's gonna go for it/her just to mess with rio.

which brings me back around to what i ultimately loved so much about the love triangle (beyond the sheer delight i took from watching rio lose his ding dang mind and spiral his way into proposing): the way the contrast between rio and nick highlighted beth's feelings.

if money, power, control, and respect were all beth was after, she could've made her life a hell of a lot less complicated and turned on rio after he gave her what she needed to get nick out of the way. she had all the cards, she had the line on the secret service, and she decided to protect rio (and if there was any doubt, the show made sure to explicitly underline it with that beat between nick and dave where dave said rio had something nick didn't and then they cut straight to beth)

AND THEN, just in case anyone was like well yeah but she was all pissed off about nick lying to her blah blah blah, the show went for the compare/contrast again and set up (what seems to beth like it might be) a betrayal from rio with mick and the gun, and beth chose to protect him again!!!!! and then they made it explicit again with her and ruby and annie where beth flat out tells them sure rio might have had me shot but it was a flesh wound so basically he loves me and i'm not saying i love him too but i am saying i'm giving up all of our plans and a stress-free life with a clean slate in favor of criming with him until death do us part bc actually i am kind of saying i love him too

at the end of the day, beth wants rio, not just the money/power/control/respect. it's personal for her too, and she chose rio and the twisted, complicated mess between them bc she's just as in it with him as he is with her thank you and good night.

[kessielrg]

A Quiet Place (Part 3)

Summary: Part 3 for a short ficlet based on a chaotic rp by @chibi-mushroom and @animacreates. The first two parts are here, and here. Took me long enough to finish this one, now off finish to the story where Sabrina becomes a Heartless for a day.

Rating: K+

Word Count: 2,059 words

If you liked this story, please reblog!

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“Pliers?”

“Pliers.”

“Hammer?”

“Hammer.”

“A little reassurance that I'm not going to hit my finger this time?”

“Wouldn't count on it.”

Oswald gave Sabrina a stink eye that she just as easily shrugged away from. He was finding quite quickly that being a sassypants was second nature to her. Having a strong will was good -especially for someone as beaten down as she had been- but heaven help him if it didn’t make him go slightly insane each time. She was going to have a job in power one day. He just hoped that it was on the ‘good’ side of gray and grey morality, and not the ‘bad’ side.

“You know, I think I liked it more when you just sat on the couch.” he informed her, jokingly razzing his tongue at her.

“No you don’t.” she immediately spat. “If I sat on the couch now, you’d think I’m mad at you.”

“Are you?”

It honestly took her a few moments of thought toward the idea.

“Not in this room.” she decided.

“Guess I can’t argue with that.” Oswald snorted. “Would ya bring the standing magnifier a bit closer? If you’re not going to cheer me on, the least you can do is help me delay the inevitable.”

The girl gave a sound of affirmation before adjusting the afghan blanket around her shoulders. The blanket still served as her shield against the world. She may be gaining more confidence, but outside the hobby room her glares did most of the talking. Even that was more of an improvement as well. Stoic wasn’t the best word to describe her first week. Moreover, she did a lot more than head shakes and flinching when spoken to now. She still flinched when Ortensia raised her voice when Oswald didn’t do something the first fifty times his wife asked him to- but the kid couldn’t be blamed for that. It scared Oswald to; even if the forgetting had been on purpose.

At this point, the two foster kids had been with him and Ortensia for six months and three days. The day marking that this was the longest the siblings have stayed with one family was one where Brain called the first family meeting. He never said that this was the case, but at that point both caretakers had a good feeling about it anyway. Many things were talked about that day. Most of it was a simple ‘thank you for keeping our trust’ from the heart. But there were some topics that made them all go silent in both thought and fear. The biggest one of all; would Ortensia and Oswald have children of their own as well? It was no real secret that Ortensia wanted a big family. It was even less of a secret that the two had tried for their own child before.

Ortensia said that it would be nice to have more children. Oswald remained silent; too focused on the kids for their reactions. They may have known each other for six months, but they were still a mystery to him. And what he did know...?  Suffice to say, it sometimes kept him up at night in absolute fury. He didn’t even have that much hate for his own brother- and that fury was well pent up after so long.

But he couldn't think about that now. He honestly didn't want to hurt his finger again because he misjudged his hammer swing. Sabrina watched on, almost unflinching with each strike. Her eyes held a gaze that made it seem like it was her sheer will that prevented Oswald from hurting himself. She was willing each strike to hit the nail square on the head. It was perhaps the only bit of good luck Oswald didn't mind. Her intense focus led him to be extra focused as well. It took several careful moments, but his repairs on the clock were finally finished.

“Finished.” Oswald sighed, setting down his hammer with certainty. “Now all we need to do is wind it up, and see if the birdy’s gonna cuckoo. But we can do that later.”

“Why?” Sabrina questioned.

“The best thing about a spouse,” her caretaker gleefully told her, “Is finding new ways to annoy them.”

Sabrina raised an eyebrow at him, but didn’t say anything against the idea. If anything, she mentally filed it away for later.

“Do you ever sell the stuff you fix?” the girl then asked as she made her way over to the couch.

“Sometimes.” Oswald agreed, carefully taking the clock with him so he could set it beside the door. He hoped he wouldn’t forget it later. “Ortensia wishes I did it more, really. Says I do nothing more than clutter up the living room, or just create more junk sitting around without use. Thing is; everything’s got a use. It just has to take the right person to see it.”

“Like people?”

Oswald looked up, then turned his head slightly to give the girl an odd look.

“I don’t think I follow, kiddo.” he admitted. “Take me through your thought process.”

Sabrina gave a half shrug. “Everyone has a use.” she said, somewhat in a mumble. “But sometimes the wrong person looks at you and makes the wrong assumption. They treat you bad because they think you deserve it, even when you've done nothing wrong. But you still have that… potential. Potential that could easily be squished if someone decides you're not worthy before ever knowing you.”

“Ah,” Oswald agreed with a nod. “Very philosophical. A very unique perspective too, if I must say. However, them’s some high and mighty words from a girl who trash talked a store mannequin the other day.”

“I could arrange a better outfit than that.” she immediately huffed. “Pairing a tunic blouse with a denim skirt and leggings? It would have created a better silhouette if they had just put flared, knee length capris on it, with a belt a little above the hips. And don't even get me started on the flat colors they chose.”

“I think you're already started.” Oswald laughed.

“Miss Minnie agreed with me,” the child spat. She even blew a raspberry at him for good measure. But in her tall stature, she thought of something. A rather investigative glint hit her eye as she then ventured to ask, “Miss Minnie is married to your brother, isn't she? That's why she makes you fix things for them a lot.”

At first, her only reply was a grunt. He tried to hide it from her this time though; he put on a big smile as he came over to her.

“You're a pretty smart kind, you know that?” he teased while he ruffled her hair. Sabrina was quick to swat his hand away, then fix her hair again. Her stink eye was immeasurable.  Oswald pretended not to notice as he took a seat on the couch. “But this clock isn’t for him, or her. This was my personal project, and tonight at dinner, Ortensia’s gonna know it too.”

“Never said it was, or wasn’t.” the girl claimed. She sat tall, but held the afghan closer to her body. “I just… I like Miss Minnie. Just a bit. But then she goes and acts all no-space like Ortensia does, and it's grating. Is she another one that wants to have a super big family even though the one she’s got is perfectly fine?”

“Mickey’s the one who picks up stray puppies.” Oswald told her, rather sharply. “Minnie, much like the rest of us, wants him to mind his own goddamn-”

Oswald cut himself off. He had to force himself to unclench his fists. He looked over at her to find a rather still expression in return.

“What'd your brother ever do to you?” the girl ventured to ask. She had never really asked much about Oswald or his other family. Mostly because she had no interest in it. She was also smart enough to know by now that there was bad blood between Oswald and his brother. But if she was going to open up, then perhaps it was time he did the same. It was only fair.

Unfortunately, his answer was less than satisfying.

“You have your 'don't-talk-abouts', and I have mine.”

“Right.” the kid said with a roll of her eyes. “So I'll just ask Ortensia about them like you ask Brain about mine.”

“Now listen here you little-” Oswald started to grumble as he made a reach for her. Sabrina yelped before getting off the couch with a start. She whipped around the couch and over to a corner. She let the blanket sway with her. Once she thought she found a safe spot, she looked back at Oswald, upturned her nose, and flung the afghan across her chest like it was a silk scarf instead.

“Easy with that thing.” Oswald jokingly huffed at her. “You move it around like you're a queen about to poison a princess. That blanket's an heirloom, you know.”

And that was when he heard it; her first genuine laugh.

“Being a queen would be such a bore.” she grinned. It was mischievous, cunning, and joyful all the same.  “All she does is make the king look good, arrange banquets, and sit dutifully next to him even when he’s cheating. I’d rather be a princess. They have about… 30 percent more freedom than queens.”

“Oh really?”

“Yup.” she agreed, even popping her ‘P’ with certainty. “She gets to study abroad for her training, lead dignitaries into the kingdom, maybe even flirt with a foolish footman or two for good measure…”

“What a scandal that will cause.”

“Oh, but it’ll all be covered up before anyone even knows it happened. That’s the thing about royalty and their heirs; they’re always more than willing to sweep things under the rug to keep appearances.”

Oswald snorted. “Guess I can’t argue with that logic.” he decided. “Come on princess, let’s hang this cuckoo in the dining room before Ortensia notices.”

“Right,” the girl agreed with a nod. She walked back over to the couch to gently place the afghan blanket over the back. Oswald noted how she very gently folded it into a triangle before placing it down. She didn’t look at him as she went over to the door, but she did pick up the cuckoo clock for him. He smiled a bit before joining her. Together they left the safety of the hobby room and back into the main house.

“You know,” Sabrina mused as they entered the living room, “I’ve noticed that you usually work on older stuff. Like clocks, and projectors, and anything else that existed before Thomas Edison. How come? Why not work on newer stuff like Xboxes and plasma TVs?”

“Well, princess,” Oswald informed her. “That’s because I'm not allowed to work on electronics anymore. Not after an accident where I shorted out a control box and every single firework at Walter Elias Memorial Park went off six hours before the big show. Burnt my eyebrows off during that. Ortensia wouldn't let me leave the house for weeks after, too. Poor honeybunch thought just touching something with a charge would give me a heart attack.”

“Oh…” the girl mumbled. Oswald looked over at her, raising a concerned eyebrow.

“Something wrong?”

Sabrina shook her head. It took her awhile, but she quietly admitted, “Brain and I used to go there a lot. Walt Memorial. We always found a good spot by the jungle gym to watch the fireworks shows. Everyone sits by the safety line, you know. It gets too crowded.”

“Do you like crowds?” Oswald asked as they entered the dining room.

The girl then lulled her head from side to side. She handed Oswald the clock so he could hang it on a spot conspicuously already prepared for it.

“I don't like being invisible in crowds.” she finally decided. “I want everyone to know I'm there.”

“Keep sassing store mannequins, and I’m sure you’ll attract your own crowd.”

She tried to hold it back, but Sabrina let out her second laugh that day. The happy sound brought a grin to Oswald’s face. He was sure Sabrina still had a long way to go to really trust anyone within the family, but at the moment, he couldn’t have asked for a sweeter foster kid.

[the-nysh]

Garou is a pretty controversial character in one punch man subreddit. What are your thoughts on this?

For as much as he’s genuinely popular and well-loved over there for sure, it’s also a big enough place where it’s true you’ll find no shortage of threads & comments from the other side of the spectrum too. (The most volatile ones often get downvoted and/or deleted however.) From those who openly express their dislike to flat-out hatred of him, yes.

You’ll often recognize a pattern from them though (and they stick out to me like a sore thumb). Most commonly from newer fans of the series who’ve only read parts of the manga (so their understanding of him is incomplete or doesn’t make sense to them yet, recognizable from those who label him an irredeemable ‘horrible person’ or incorrectly a hero killer like Stain for ex), or who’ve speed-read the webcomic and missed things without connecting the dots about him yet after his big end-arc reveal, but who still come to express their distaste, frustration, or general confusion over understanding his arc as a whole. And because there’s still so much of that reader confusion abound, it’s no surprise why ONE’s had to portray manga!Garou with much less ambiguity compared to the wc, with more obvious reader hand-holding, for instance. That’s the writing trade-off (clarity over subtlety more open to interpretation), even though mischaracterizations still happen from those who hastily jump the gun (not ONE’s fault), but I still love the expanded depth and extra attention ONE’s given his character in the manga. So it’s like ONE & Murata have long noticed those readers’ perceptions to overall modify things for the better, I feel.

So in general, those types of reddit threads aren’t so much a problem, since they usually get the clarification needed from other posters (avid Garou fans) chiming in to correct them (repeatedly with patience!), and leave them newly educated with a fresh perspective and/or appreciation for what ONE’s done. I honestly feel like it really shouldn’t be their job to continually put in the work (like a broken record) for other readers’ sake or (lack of) comprehension, and I may not phrase or approach things the same way they do, or have the same rigid interpretation of Garou as some of them, but I appreciate their dedication and vigilance to defend & address the misinformation about his character all the same. :’) (For example, this user often has insightful and niche things to say about him, different from most others there, which is worth checking out.) 

What’s notably not so nice (and what I see as more of a problem) are those other veteran repeat haters, who jump in framing their arguments in ways that sound smart & logical (easily persuading the gullible under the verbose guise of ‘literary analysis’), but when you actually read what else they’re saying, instead of allowing others to see Garou in a new light (informing in a helpful way), their claims contribute towards the opposite: deliberately misleading others in an echo chamber of blatant misinformation. (Which is what I dislike; they can dislike Garou all they want, but don’t do that towards manipulating the trust of the impressionable.) Long story short, I remember exactly who they are too, so I know who to avoid or treat all their takes non-seriously and skeptically with a grain of salt (which is applicable in other fandoms too).

For example, there’s a guy who always bashes on Garou and his purpose in the story, making sweeping claims about his character (in bad faith) and what opm should be about according to him, while also admitting he skips over every fight and chapter without Saitama in it (instant ding to his trust & credibility). It’s then no wonder he ‘hates’ Garou when he’s deliberately chosen to brush all his content and development under the rug. :| (Just don’t sway others to believe what you already admitted knowing nothing about!) There’s another guy who always describes Garou in poor light and condescendingly ‘corrects’ anyone when the anti-hero vs anti-villain conversations come up again, while conveniently ignoring the very words from ONE himself (instant checkmate):

Garou is an “anti-hero,” but I thought he should be more “anti-Saitama” – otherwise, he’d be the same as the other monsters. I didn’t want to show the limits of his potential. He might not be able to win now, but I wanted people to think that if he continues to grow as a monster, he might just be able to fight on the same level as Saitama. The anime emphasized his viciousness, his youth, his whimsical kindness, and his recklessness, which made me look forward to his future.  

So taking everything in, I’d love to see how those Garou naysayers would ‘school’ ONE, the professional writer here, with that same fervor they profess to know more about his own work than him, cause I’ll trust the words of the author over what ‘proof’ they’ll try to convince others on the internet with. :P I suppose overall, just trust your gut and use your best informed judgment, to be aware (of who’s being genuinely helpful or an ass) and navigate the subreddit responsibly.

[jenomark]

A-Z Analysis of Renjun

💚 Smut

💚 18+

💚 This is only fantasy

A ⇥ Aftercare

  After sex, he’s unexpectedly needy. He wants to melt into you, to hold you, or to be held until the magic has worn off. The feeling sweeps over him, and his body is so sensitive. He wants to talk about, remember it, feel it again. His eyes will be full of wonder and lust. He’s the type to fall in love after you make him nut. 

B ⇥ Body Part

  His favorite body part on himself is his whole head and face. He’ll say it right away, like he’s been waiting for you to ask him, and he’s daring for you to disagree. He likes himself and the way he looks whenever he catches his reflection. Sure, he wishes he were bigger in size, but he accepts himself as who he is. On you, a pretty face is nice, but there is something about a big ass, big thighs and big tits that makes him go completely feral. 

C ⇥ Cum

  If you know how to press his buttons right, you can make him come quickly. He hates that you have that control over him, but he can’t stop himself from spilling his load whenever you overstimulate him. He never talks about anything like that in public. He would never dare talk about any fluids coming from his or your body.

  D ⇥ Dirty Secret

  His dirtiest secret isn’t that bad. He likes older women. He wants to learn from them, especially sexually. He dreams about having a scandal with someone much, much older than him. He gets off on thinking what people might think about him.

E ⇥ Experience

  He hasn’t had any sexual or dating experience. He crushes on girls every once in awhile, but he knows what’s just a surface crush. He’s not ready for anything serious, but there are many times where he thinks far ahead to when he’s someone’s husband. His experiences are mainly played out in his imagination. 

F ⇥ Favorite position

  He likes being ridden hard. He likes you setting the pace, likes seeing you want his cock. If he’s laying on his back, he can relax and enjoy himself a little more. There is a big part of him that likes being taken care of.

G⇥  Goofy

  He doesn’t want sex to be fun in that way. It would hurt his feelings if you laughed while he was inside of you. He has this image in his mind where you’re so into him fucking you that all you can do is moan and look back at him like he’s the best thing that’s ever happened to you.

H ⇥ Hair

  You’ll rarely catch him untrimmed. He keeps himself in perfect shape down there. It’s natural for him, at this point. Unless he thinks you would find his pubic hair rugged and sexy, he’s going to keep doing what he’s been doing. On you, he would prefer things more neat than not.

I ⇥ Intimacy

  He’s fantastic at being intimate. It’s not hard for him to turn the romance on, or to be the perfect boyfriend. He’s the type to do it all the way he thinks it should be done: courting, dates, sex, relationship. He’s really into eye contact during sex, too.

J ⇥ Jack Off

  He doesn’t want to discuss what he does in his private time, but he does masturbate as much as the next guy. He likes porn. He likes watching ordinary television dramas, the pretty girls on screen with their skirts a little too short. Good at hiding what he’s doing while he’s home. 

K ⇥ Kink

  He has a weight kink. He loves the thought of someone bigger than him sitting on him, letting their full weight rest on his body. He wants you to sit on his face so that he can feel it all. 

L ⇥ Location

  His favorite place to fuck is as soon as he walks through the door. Against the wall. On the entryway table. On the floor, clothes flung onto the sofa, and your back burning against the rug. He has a fantasy of coming home and being so irresistible to you that you have to have him right there.

M ⇥ Motivation

  Is turned on by watching other people have sex. Is turned on by any hint of skin. Is turned on by even talking about sex, which is why he doesn’t do it much. Is turned on the moment he knows you want him for all that he is. Loves sincerity. 

N ⇥ No

  Is turned off by bad personal hygiene. Is turned off by people who are way too aggressive in bed and in real life. He likes to go slow. He doesn’t want make-outs where his jaw hurts from having to keep up. 

O ⇥ Oral

  He’s very vocal when he’s getting his cock sucked. He has to hold onto something because the feeling makes him lose control. Doesn’t take long to come. Likes going down on you after you’ve showered. Likes when you tug on his hair and tell him how much you like it. Stroking his ego makes him work a little harder.

P ⇥ Pace

  He goes slowly. If you tell him you like something, he’s not the type to aggressively speed up. He’ll keep it the way you want it, his eyes watching as you come undone. The only thing that’s fast is how long he dates you before he wants to become serious. 

Q ⇥ Quickie

  For him, quickies could be fun when he lives alone. He’s into the idea of being so in love with you that he has to have you quickly before he leaves for work. The thought of your scent on him throughout the day is something he really likes. 

R ⇥ Risk

  As risky as he is in other areas of his life, he’s not that risky with sex or love. He’s too much of an intelligent thinker and can see all of the ways something can go wrong. Is always the voice of reason in your relationship and sex life.

S ⇥ Stamina

  Only wants to fuck some days of the week. If he’s not into it, he can become lazy, argumentative, and too slow. His stamina gets better when he’s in a good mood. If he’s really horny, he can just keep going and going for as long as you ask him to.

T ⇥ Toy

  He’s not that into using sex toys. He wants to please you himself. He would be a little offended if you asked. Truthfully, he’s a little scared of the toy doing a better job than him.

U ⇥ Unfair  

  He tries to tease in the bedroom, but he’s bad at it. He thinks he looks really cool if he edges you, but he’s the one who can’t go make it to the end. 

V ⇥ Volume

  Can be very loud. Switches languages a lot. A lot of voice cracks and muttering to himself.

W ⇥ Wild Card

  He’ll kiss your body, from the tips of your toes to your soft pillowy lips. Renjun will take his time, his hand kneading the body you hide under too much clothing, and his tongue opening you up so that he can see everything. All the while, his eyes will be on yours to see what you think of him. If your mouth hangs open and your eyes roll back, he’ll slip a finger inside of you for more. If your eyes are on his, he’ll continue his way up your body, his innocent and handsome face becoming warped with desire. “Fuck me.” he’ll say, as if he can’t wait any longer. On his back he’ll lay, his fingers impatiently pulling at you to get on him and ride him until his come is dripping out of you. And you’ll get on him, your body feeling like it’s squishing him from all sides. As soon as he feels you sink down on him, your thick thighs closing in, he’ll breath a sigh of relief. 

X ⇥ X-Ray

  He’s more on the average side. A little self-conscious about his size, but he definitely has nothing to worry about since he’s more than adequate at using it. 

Y ⇥ Yearning

  His sex drive depends on his mood. If it’s good, he wants to fuck on his terms. He’ll deny that his sex drive is high, and then tell you it’s because he has “needs”. 

Z ⇥ ZZZZ

  Falls asleep after sex with no problem. Will shower, change into fresh pajamas and do his nighttime routine before falling into bed like he hadn’t been fucking your brain out a half hour before.

[tanjhero-a]

Oblivious Affections (P.2)

Kyoujurou Rengoku x Reader

A Commission from @moonlightreetops ! The first part is HERE. This was honestly very fun to write, and moonlight is a very generous and friendly person, so it makes writing commissions much easier! Thank you very much, and I hope all of you enjoy this!

COMMISSION INFO

After a long time, Kyoujurou finally manages to get you to meet his family. He’s been attempting for quite a few moons now, because he is sure that this is the push you need to recognize his passionate feelings toward you. 

Hook.

It begins at the tea house, a common occurrence for the two of you now. Ever since he snuck his way into your plans with Giyuu (and kicked Giyuu out of said plans), you were the one to propose that the two of you relaxing together be a scheduled thing. Of course, this sent hope sparking through the Flame Pillar, but your oblivious nature was a lot more powerful than he had initially realized. It’s been weeks, but nothing has happened yet, which is why the Pillar has decided to finally introduce you to his family (mostly just Senjuro, he’s not sure about his father yet). Maybe it’s the kick you need to realize that he’s serious about his feelings for you. So one common morning, Kyoujurou invites and treats you to your favorite tea along with some snacks on the side, and when you fluster at his spoiling, he merely shushes you and pushes another small cake in your direction. As he butters you up, he mentions his little brother as casually as he can. 

Line.

“You know, Senjuro also loves to cook! You should try some of his dishes sometime!” 

“Oh, your brother?” You ask him, a hand over your mouth as you’re in the middle of a bite. Kyoujurou grins- you’re too cute. “I’ve always heard stories about him from you! It would be nice to meet him one day.”

Sinker.

“How wonderful!” Kyoujurou says loudly- of course, he’s always a little loud, but this breaks even that as he grabs your hands with a big smile. He can’t really help it, the excitement is filling him up and it might make him burst. Or maybe he just ate too much sugar, but it’s all the same. “I know Senjurou has wanted to meet you as well! He’s at home right now, so we can head there after!” 

“Really?” Your eyes widen by his enthusiasm, but you squeeze his hands as you laugh, nodding along. “Alright, that sounds fun.” 

Once you commit, Kyoujurou lets go of your hands and lets you finish eating and sipping your tea. He eagerly bounces in his seat as you do, so you do your best to finish up quickly. Once you leave the teahouse, Kyoujurou grabs your hands and leads the way to his house. You swing your hands casually- always casually, your oblivious nature making you blind to why he’s truly holding you so close. 

Though maybe, possibly, the next time you hold his hand, it will be mutual. It will be because the two of you are in love, and you yearn to connect. Kyoujurou can only hope- and he might have been pining for too long, because such fantasies seem so silly, but they truly make him happy to think about. 

As your hands swing, you break the comfortable silence. “You’re so excited for me to meet him, you must love him a lot, Ren.” You say as you walk down the cobblestones. There’s an uneven stone that you almost trip over, but Kyoujurou twirls you playfully before you can hit it. He then tugs you back to his side, the sound of your laughter from the twirl making him smile and nod.

“I do, very much. He doesn’t get to socialize very much since he’s always at home, so I know he’ll be very happy to meet you.” The Pillar pauses before he turns his gaze your way, his head tilting as his eyes soften. “But I also want you to meet him because I love you a lot too, you know.” 

You’d think looking you directly in the eyes as he declares this would get through, but you only laugh and blush, sweeping his sentiment under the rug. “Of course! I’m very excited to meet him.” 

Kyoujurou huffs, but it’s another thing that goes unnoticed by you. 

“Oh, this is your house, right?” Kyoujurou hadn’t even realized that the two of you had arrived at the house fences. He’s flattered that you recognize the place- you had probably only walked by once. Hope lights him up again as he straightens his back- maybe this was a positive sign! 

“It is! Come, come,” he urges you past the fence and past the front sliding doors, both of you taking off your shoes as Kyoujurou announces that he’s home and you thank him for letting you in. You don’t have to wait until a child is fastly walking down the halls, a bright look in his face as he greets you. 

His hair is identical to his brothers, his eyes the same, and he’s so cute that you think you love him already. If he were a bit older, Kyoujurou and Senjuro might as well be twins.

“Brother! Welcome home!” 

“Senjuro! My baby brother,” Kyoujurou doesn’t hesitate to bend at the knees so he can fully embrace his brother, “how are you?!” 

Senjuro laughs, his cheeks pink as he looks up at you from his brother’s embrace. “I’m fine. A-and, who are you?” 

You smile adoringly down at him, bowing softly once Kyoujurou lets him go. “I’m ___, it’s very nice to meet you. I’ve heard a lot about you!” 

“Oh!” Senjuro’s face lights up. “I’ve heard about you, too! Brother is always so passionate when he talks about you,” he laughs, and Kyoujurou simply nods, not bothering to deny it. 

“Is father awake?” He asks, and Senjurou shakes his head, lips pursing. You begin to wonder why their father wouldn’t be awake during the middle of the day, but soon you’re swept under Kyoujurou’s arm as he urges you forward. “Then we can have fun! Let’s go to the yard!” 

The three of you scurry outside, and Kyoujurou thinks up a million things to do. He seems a lot more eager than usual, but you have fun laughing and playing the games he comes up with as a way to get to know Senjuro better. You all end up training as well, Senjuro telling you that he was naturally more weak than his brother, so you think up alternative moves and techniques for him to use that’s easier for him. 

Kyoujurou watches as you help his brother swing a training katana, happiness glistening in his eyes. 

By the time you have to go, the sun is beginning to set. You and Kyoujurou know very well that you must get home before it fully sets, so he doesn’t stop you as you bid your goodbyes. 

“It was a lot of fun meeting you, Sen,” you rest on your knees at the entrance to their house as you hug Senjuro, smiling fondly. “You’re such a talented young boy, you know?” 

“W-well,” Senjuro’s face flushes nervously, his cheeks a cute pink color. “I don’t know about that. I’m not the best-” 

“You are! And you’re very cute too,” you pinch his cheek teasingly and he ducks back with a whine. You laugh as you stand, rustling his yellow-red locks of hair teasingly. “Don’t forget that!” 

Senjuro doesn’t respond to you, his face red as he sputters out a ‘goodbye’ before he runs off to his room. Your heart swells adoringly as you watch him skitter and you sigh. You haven’t forgotten about Kyoujurou, your eyes looking up at him as he stands by the sliding doors. 

“He’s a very cute boy. I’ve always liked children, but he might be my favorite.” 

The flame pillar steps so he’s right next to you, a hand wrapping around your shoulder again as he hums. A familiar smile is painted on his lips, and he winks at you as he says, “well, save your favorites until we have children of our own, hmm?”  

Crickets have begun to wake and sing their song, filling up the silence between you. 

“Children of our own?” You ask slowly. “Who are you planning to have children with?” 

Ouch. 

“N-no,” Kyoujurou whines before he can help it, his body deflating. “No, that’s not…” How forward does one have to be? Is it actually helpless, or do you really not like him and you’re just trying to make it less awkward? He hopes it’s not the latter, but the former isn’t much better. 

“Oh!” 

Surprisingly, your expression lights up, and Kyoujurou looks down at you with wide eyes. Your own meet his and your cheeks are flushed dark, mouth wide open. “Well,” you say, continuing to look at him before you quickly look away. Suddenly the weight of his arm on your shoulder is a lot heavier than before and you squirm nervously. “...Then I guess Senjuro would be my favorite brother-in-law, instead.” 

“Huh?” Kyoujurou, is quite frankly, speechless as he bursts red and looks down at you. His voice squeaks uncharacteristically, which is embarrassing, but you quickly duck from under his arm before he can say anything else. 

“Thanks for the tea!! Bye, Ren!!” 

You’re out of the house quicker than he can blink, which really isn’t fair!

[hollywoodhangar]

Chaggie for the ship meme 👀

the ultimate ship meme! // @soughtbirthright

General:

Rate the Ship -   Awful | Ew | No pics pls | I’m not comfortable | Alright | I like it! | Got Pics? | Let’s do it! | Why is this not getting more attention?! | The OTP to rule all other OTPs (( eternal salt is they’re outshined by a fucking fanon hetship even though chaggie is canon bleh ))

How long will they last? - For all of eternity and beyond. All it took was Vaggie dying to find her soulmate and she is not letting go. 

How quickly did/will they fall in love? - It was a really good slowburn that caught on fire fast once feelings were felt. They were a long friendship that built in the form of best friends before they began to fall, and when they did, it was hard and around the same damn time. Poetic as fuck.

How was their first kiss? - Very sweet, and in the form of a gift on Charlie’s birthday. uwu 

Wedding:

Who proposed? - I’m gonna give this one to Charlie. <: It seems like she’d be all for the theatric and musical number form of proposal!!

Who is the brides’ maid(s)? - They share Angel lmao.

Who did the most planning? - Equal! Both did a lot of the planning and they worked side-by-side on it!  

Who stressed the most? - Vaggie. There’s so many points where Charlie has to reel her back, make her relax and remind her it’s going to be fabulous because they’re making it as a team. 

How fancy was the ceremony? - Back of a pickup truck | 2 | 3 | 4 | Normal Church Wedding | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Kate and William wish they were this big.

Who was specifically not invited to the wedding? - Alastor, Katie Killjoy and Tom Trench. All three will be whooped by Lilith’s top guard if they so much as attempt to come. 

Sex:

Who is on top? - They’re switches. :)

Who is the one to instigate things? - Are you kidding? Both. Might be Vaggie just a touch more, though.

How healthy is their sex life? - Barely touch themselves let alone each other | 2 | 3 | 4 | Once a couple weeks, nothing overboard | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They are humping each other on the couch right now

How kinky are they? - Straight missionary with the lights off | 2 | 3 | 4 | Might try some butt stuff and toys | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Don’t go into the sex dungeon without a horse’s head

How long do they normally last? - Unless it’s a quckie, it’s 4 hours at least. They.. really get into it LMAO. 

Do they make sure each person gets an equal amount of orgasms? - AbsoLUTELY.

How rough are they in bed? - Softer than a butterfly on the back of a bunny | 2 | 3 | 4 | The bed’s shaking and squeaking every time | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Their dirty talk is so vulgar it’d make Dwayne Johnson blush. Also, the wall’s so weak it could collapse the next time they do it.

How much cuddling/snuggling do they do? - No touching after sex | 2 | 3 | 4 | A little spooning at night, or on the couch, but not in public | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They snuggle and kiss more often than a teen couple on their fifth date to a pillow factory.

Children:

How many children will they have naturally? - Vaggie thinks two would be a good number for starters. :) Amazing how she never considered it before and never dreamed of having babies, but wow you suddenly meet the love of your life and your head’s all full of that domestic shit. 

How many children will they adopt? - Right now I’m gonna say 0. I think this is definitely destined to change but right now it’s two to start out with before they can even think of adopting to see how they handle parenthood first. I can see them adopting, just not right now. 

Who gets stuck with the most diapers? - Equal duty!  

Who is the stricter parent? - Vaggie, although Charlie’s right there to reel her back and soften her up. :>

Who stops the kid(s) from doing dangerous stunts after school? - Both lmao. 

Who remembers to pack the lunch(es)? - Vaggie, always. She gets that started the night before so the kids are ready to go in the morning with last night’s dinner if there’s any leftovers, although Charlie’s the one to give the babies their lunches before they leave if Vaggie’s still crashed. 

Who is the more loved parent? - It’s Charlie, because she’s the much more fun, energetic and musical one! Kids are naturally drawn to that. :D

Who is more likely to attend the PTA meetings? Both!! They’re a constant buddy system through marriage and parenthood!!

Who cried the most at graduation? - And of course, they’re the buddy system in being the most emotional over their baby’s achievements. Both weep heavily and hug one another. 

Who is more likely to bail the child(ren) out of trouble with the law? - Again, both. 

Cooking:

Who does the most cooking? - Vaggie. She has a culinary soul and just instinctively takes up a lot of the cooking by nature. 

Who is the most picky in their food choice? - Probably Vaggie again. She knows what she likes and she knows what she doesn’t like and she’s sticking to it. 

Who does the grocery shopping? - Both. :) It’s a lot of fun to go shopping together, they end up goofing off and also whooping fellow demons who end up trying to take the last of something they specifically DESIRE.

How often do they bake desserts? - Daily! Vaggie VERY strongly sticks to the breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert regime, and just baking something delicious whenever she feels the urge. A sweet tooth is often sated here!

Are they more of a meat lover or a salad eater? - Meat! But she doesn’t turn her nose up at salad, it’s healthy and she includes it in the Hotel diet. 

Who is more likely to surprise the other with an anniversary dinner? - Charlie, I think. <3

Who is more likely to suggest going out? - Charlie, especially when it’s a day where Vaggie’s positively worked herself to the bone with her managerial duties and she wants to spoil her bae with a really, really fancy and expensive dinner. Vaggie sure as hell isn’t saying no.

Who is more likely to burn the house down accidently while cooking? - N/A.

Chores:

Who cleans the room? - Both! 

Who is really against chores? - Neither of them like doing chores but it’s a necessity that they know they can’t shirk and there’s no way they’re going to leave the other hanging.

Who cleans up after the pets? - The pets clean up after themselves, thank you. ( Razzle & Dazzle )

Who is more likely to sweep everything under the rug? - If this is something Charlie did, Vaggie snapped her right out of it LOL.

Who stresses the most when guests are coming over? - Vaggie, 100%.

Who found a dollar between the couch cushions while cleaning? - Vaggie. She definitely asks Charlie if she lost her money but with Angel it’s a touch-n-go because she’s like, “that fucker’ll say “yes” even when he hasn’t. :/”. Any lost money found goes directly into the Hotel savings! 

Misc:

Who takes the longer showers/baths? - Vaggie, for sure. With her hair and just having the pleasant privilege of having stable access to hot water? It’s hard to get her out. 

Who takes the dog out for a walk? - They both take Razzle & Dazzle for walkies. <:

How often do they decorate the room/house for the holidays? - ALWAYS. Halloween and Hellmas, they’re decorating the HELL out of everything!! They ARE that house that will outshine everyone else on the block. Or, rather, hotel.

What are their goals for the relationship? - She’s unsure of herself at the moment, but Vaggie does want to get married. Charlie’s already wanting to, Vaggie just needs to overcome personal issues and self-deprecation before she’s also ready. She’s already having those sporadic urges where she wants babies!

Who is most likely to sleep till noon? - I think this is something they’re both capable of depending on what happened the night before. They’re both pretty good sticking to their “by 10AM” schedule.

Who plays the most pranks? - Charlie, for sure. :p

[skimblyshanks]

Ship meme: Alonzoffelees?

NSFW Text below (talks abt sex and sexual activity)!

General:

Rate the Ship -   Awful | Ew | No pics pls | I’m not comfortable | Alright | I like it! | Got Pics? | Let’s do it! | Why is this not getting more attention?! | The OTP to rule all other OTPs

How long will they last? - They will be in it for good💕

How quickly did/will they fall in love?- Mistoffelees was very quickly infatuated, but tried to play it off; Alonzo had always..Noticed Mistoffelees, and he noticed the tom’s behavior was always slightly...different around him, but he didn’t want to risk the embarassment of being wrong. Plus no-one knew whether Lon and Cass were an item or not for a while. But Mistoffelees did start hanging out with the two as a friend, and he realized boundaries are a weird thing with the Aloof Squad and suddenly it made sense why no-one knew whether or not Lonnie and Cass were dating. ANYWAY, they were hanging out as friends for months and Misto still has his heart flutters but he’s losing faith in the idea, meanwhile Alonzo has a “...shit” moment and decides it’s worth the potential embarassment of a rejection bc this is a stronger feeling than he’s had in a while. Turned put p well for both of them, I’d say.

How was their first kiss? -Uncharacteristically timid for both of them, both a little unsure if this would be worth it, but they melded into it quite quickly after.

Wedding:

Who proposed? -Alonzo! It led to an argument, but it worked out!!!

Who is the best man/men? -Munkustrap all the way, as I hc him as, for all intents and purposes, Alonzo’s brother. Lonnie’s Groomsfolk were Cassandra, Plato, and George Pouncival!

Who is the braid’s maid(s)? -Victoria is Misto’s maid of honor, no doubt. His groomsfolk were Coricopat, Tantomile, and Electra!

Who did the most planning? -They planned a lot together, but Alonzo and Munk took on a bit more of the details; especially venue.

Who stressed the most? -Oh, Mistoffelees. He feels like it all has to be pristine and perfect for his family.

How fancy was the ceremony? - Back of a pickup truck | 2 | 3 | 4 | Normal Church Wedding | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Kate and William wish they were this big.

Who was specifically not invited to the wedding? -...uh, Macavity? lol. Tugger was there, and he had fun, but he turned down being a groomsman

Sex:

Who is on top?-Alonzo

Who is the one to instigate things?-Misto, more often than not

How healthy is their sex life? - Barely touch themselves let alone each other | 2 | 3 | 4 | Once a couple weeks, nothing overboard | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They are humping each other on the couch right now

How kinky are they? - Straight missionary with the lights off | 2 | 3 | 4 | Might try some butt stuff and toys | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Don’t go into the sex dungeon without a horse’s head

How long do they normally last? -15 minutes, give or take, counting foreplay

Do they make sure each person gets an equal amount of orgasms? -They try to!

How rough are they in bed? - Softer than a butterfly on the back of a bunny | 2 | 3 | 4 | The bed’s shaking and squeaking every time | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Their dirty talk is so vulgar it’d make Dwayne Johnson blush. Also, the wall’s so weak it could collapse the next time they do it. (They’re kinda rough, but like...sensual with it)

How much cuddling/snuggling do they do? - No touching after sex | 2 | 3 | 4 | A little spooning at night, or on the couch, but not in public | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They snuggle and kiss more often than a teen couple on their fifth date to a pillow factory.

Children:

How many children will they have naturally? -One!

How many children will they adopt? -Six!

Who gets stuck with the most diapers? -for the first, it was Alonzo; he’s since instituted a turn-based system

Who is the stricter parent? -uuhhhhh, neither are particularly strict, but I think Misto is the one who puts his foot down more often than not. He’s Jenny’s boy, alright!

Who stops the kid(s) from doing dangerous stunts after school?- They’ll both step in if it’s too dangerous, but if we’re talking like, some scraped up knees? Uh, Alonzo. Remnants of having Munk kinda hovering over him, growing up.

Who remembers to pack the lunch(es)? -They alternate each week! By the time kids 4-7 are ready for school, they have a balance set up for as many of the kids to buy lunch as they can afford aisdfuhaidufh.

Who is the more loved parent? - No such thing; their kids brag about both of them to their friends

Who is more likely to attend the PTA meetings?-Alonzo, he’s mastered the look of shame and became president after kid 2 started and he realized they’d be in this district for the long haul.

Who cried the most at graduation? -Mistoffelees, but Alonzo always bawls for almost an hour once they get back home.

Who is more likely to bail the child(ren) out of trouble with the law? -Alonzo; they have the good-cop bad-cop dynamic set up; he gets the kiddo home, Mistoffelees lays on the discipline. 

Cooking:

Who does the most cooking? -Alonzo can cook just about anything!

Who is the most picky in their food choice? - Oh, it’s Mistoffelees

Who does the grocery shopping? - Mistoffelees; it’s the price he pays for being picky

How often do they bake desserts? -On Special occasions

Are they more of a meat lover or a salad eater? -A very healthy balance of both!

Who is more likely to surprise the other(s) with an anniversary dinner? -Well it can’t be a surprise if Alonzo does it, so Mistoffelees (and the kids,  once they come into the picture)

Who is more likely to suggest going out? -Mistofflees

Who is more likely to burn the house down accidentally while cooking? -Mistoffelees. Alonzo is practically a home cook, he would never

Chores:

Who cleans the room? -Mistoffelees

Who is really against chores? -They both have a healthy sense of cleanliness, so, neither? The kids.

Who cleans up after the pets? -There are no pets.

Who is more likely to sweep everything under the rug? -Alonzo. He is not as meticulous as Mistoffelees

Who stresses the most when guests are coming over? -They both care about their presentation, but Mistoffelees moreso

Who found a dollar between the couch cushions while cleaning? -Alonzo

Misc:

Who takes the longer showers/baths? -They both take p long(together)

Who takes the dog out for a walk? -No pet :)

How often do they decorate the room/house for the holidays? -Pretty often! They give the kids a lot of themed crafts to keep them busy, so, of course their art is displayed all over the house with pride.

What are their goals for the relationship? -To keep on keepin on! They’re both great supports for each other, and they’re proud in maintaining their relationship, so their goal is to keep on rockin!

Who is most likely to sleep till noon? -Alonzo, He came by it from Deut!

Who plays the most pranks? -Oh, Mistoffelees for sure

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Zarcray

Oh this is gonna be fun~

General:

Rate the Ship -  Awful | Ew | No pics pls | I’m not comfortable | Alright | I like it! | Got Pics? | Let’s do it! | Why is this not getting more attention?! | The OTP to rule all other OTPs

How long will they last? - Man, I wanna say they last long but since they both are walking disasters when it comes to emotions, I feel they have this thing when they break off and get together over and over until maturity finally hits them.

How quickly did/will they fall in love? - Zarc would fall pretty fast and act on it pretty quickly too, Ray would be a bit slower but in denial so... yeah :P

How was their first kiss? - It probably came as at a point when they were like arguing or taunting each other and the UST was just too much and it wasn’t much of a kiss and more like a mesh of lips.

Wedding:

Who proposed? - Zarc, all the way.

Who is the best man/men? - Ray probably talked Reiji into doing it, maybe Yuya could be a pageboy

Who is the braid’s maid(s)? - Man, I can’t think of anyone, maybe Asuka?

Who did the most planning? - Them? planning? You’re gonna make me laugh.

Who stressed the most? - They don’t do stress, at least not about this, since they probably left the planning to Reiji.

How fancy was the ceremony? - Back of a pickup truck | 2 | 3 | 4 | Normal Church Wedding | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Kate and William wish they were this big. It was probably something  outdorrs, which was an imporvement, in fact if it wasn’t for Reiji and maybe Leo looming over them for a proper ceremony they would have eloped to las vegas or something.

Who was specifically not invited to the wedding? - Dunno, probably no papparazi’s of crazy fans :P

Sex:

Who is on top? - I think they switch, but Ray gets to be on top more often.

Who is the one to instigate things? - Zarc, because he get needy more often.

How healthy is their sex life? -Barely touch themselves let alone each other | 2 | 3 | 4 | Once a couple weeks, nothing overboard | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They are humping each other on the couch right now

How kinky are they? -Straight missionary with the lights off | 2 | 3 | 4 | Might try some butt stuff and toys | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Don’t go into the sex dungeon without a horse’s head

How long do they normally last? - I think they have a wide range of “timing” they do depending on the mood.

Do they make sure each person gets an equal amount of orgasms? - I dare say sometimes they make it a competion? Because they do.

How rough are they in bed? - Softer than a butterfly on the back of a bunny | 2 | 3 | 4 | The bed’s shaking and squeaking every time | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Their dirty talk is so vulgar it’d make Dwayne Johnson blush. Also, the wall’s so weak it could collapse the next time they do it.

How much cuddling/snuggling do they do? -No touching after sex | 2 | 3 | 4 | A little spooning at night, or on the couch, but not in public | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They snuggle and kiss more often than a teen couple on their fifth date to a pillow factory.

Children:

How many children will they have naturally? - If we take the route of they’re the parents of the dimensional counterparts, then they have 8, sets of quadruplets but wow.

How many children will they adopt? - One in Reira

Who gets stuck with the most diapers? - they probably take turns, because on one side, Ray was a bit too spoiled and Zarc being an oprhan doesn’t know a thing either.

Who is the stricter parent? - Probably Ray ends up being stricter.

Who stops the kid(s) from doing dangerous stunts after school? - Zarc would, because unlike most parents he knows how badly a stunt gone wrong can hurt.

Who remembers to pack the lunch(es)? - No one, they have post it notes on the fridge to remind them.

Who is the more loved parent? - Maybe Zarc for virtue of being the less strict.

Who is more likely to attend the PTA meetings? They would rather not go, but Zarc goes because Ray once punched another mom.

Who cried the most at graduation? - Zarc, hands down.

Who is more likely to bail the child(ren) out of trouble with the law? - They both give me the vibe of “letting the child stay in jail for the weekend to learn their lesson”

Cooking:

Who does the most cooking? - I feel Zarc is more self-sufficient, even if it’s probably instant food.

Who is the most picky in their food choice? - Ray.

Who does the grocery shopping? - Zarc is an expert on groceries, coupons and the like.

How often do they bake desserts? - With 8 kids, probably a lot.

Are they more of a meat lover or a salad eater? - They’re both meat lovers.

Who is more likely to surprise the other(s) with an anniversary dinner? - Zarc lives for surprises.

Who is more likely to suggest going out? - Zarc again, he gets bored easily.

Who is more likely to burn the house down accidently while cooking? - Ray.

Chores:

Who cleans the room? - Zarc, maybe?

Who is really against chores? - Ray can’t for her life do chores until the phisically stop her of going around her day.

Who cleans up after the pets? - Pets? With 8 children? Do you wanna kill them of exhaustation?

Who is more likely to sweep everything under the rug? - Ray does.

Who stresses the most when guests are coming over? - Both do, because they know how easily things can go wrong.

Who found a dollar between the couch cushions while cleaning? - Zarc constantly finds spare change that Ray leaves around the house, in her clothes and even the bathroom.

Misc:

Who takes the longer showers/baths? - Ray, cuz I see Zarc as an expert on efficient showers.

Who takes the dog out for a walk? - No dogs, but when the kids hit the terrible 2, they had to get the leash for them, and they take turns.

How often do they decorate the room/house for the holidays? - Zarc goes all the way with Halloween, but other than that I think they do normal.

What are their goals for the relationship? - Goals require planning so, yeah?

Who is most likely to sleep till noon? - Both do.

Who plays the most pranks? - Zarc does.

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ultimate ship meme

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Send in two (or more) names and I’ll fill all this out about the ship!

General:

Rate the Ship -   Awful | Ew | No pics pls | I’m not comfortable | Alright | I like it! | Got Pics? | Let’s do it! | Why is this not getting more attention?! | The OTP to rule all other OTPs

How long will they last? - These three are ride or die for sure. They balance each other, support and strengthen each other in all the best ways. Once they find their way to each other even Daryl’s skittish impulses won’t ever break them apart XP

How quickly did/will they fall in love? - I think they fell in love slowly, in stages. Trust and support built into friendship, into family, and romance kind of crept its way in. 

How was their first kiss? - I guess we’ll see xP But I see Daryl and Rick’s being a little rough, rushed and frantic, Daryl trying to lock it into his memory and then bolt before he’s rejected. With Daryl and Carol it’ll be a lot more tentative: slow in and searching, like their bond’s something precious he’s terrified to break.

Wedding:

Who proposed? - Carol, probably. These boys wouldn’t be able to pull themselves together to figure out a proposal (although I can see Rick toying with the notion and being stalled out by the logistics of it. Carol’s much more practical, she’d just say if we wanna do it, let’s do it).

Who is the best man/men? - Glenn, Carl, & Aaron

Who is the bridesmaid(s)? - Michonne, Maggie, Tara

Who did the most planning? - Rick?

Who stressed the most? - I think all of them probably for different reasons. Daryl most about the ceremony itself.

How fancy was the ceremony? - Back of a pickup truck | 2 | 3 | 4 | Normal Church Wedding (Rick’s pretty traditional, I think he’d want that) | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Kate and William wish they were this big.

Who was specifically not invited to the wedding? - We’re s5ish era, right? I can’t think of anyone

Sex:

Who is on top? - Rick, Carol... idk, they switch things up

Who is the one to instigate things? - Daryl’s good at instigating, not necessarily continuing. Rick’s probably best at taking charge once things are started. Carol just knows what she wants when she wants it and goes for it.

How healthy is their sex life? - Barely touch themselves let alone each other | 2 | 3 | 4 | Once a couple weeks, nothing overboard | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They are humping each other on the couch right now

How kinky are they? - Straight missionary with the lights off | 2 | 3 | 4 (omg genuinely I don’t know, Daryl doesn’t know enough to know what his kinks are so whatever they try would be up to how into it Carol and Rick are) | Might try some butt stuff and toys | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Don’t go into the sex dungeon without a horse’s head

How long do they normally last? - They tend to get off quicker when it’s just two of them, but when all three of them are together they usually make a night of it.

Do they make sure each person gets an equal amount of orgasms? - more or less. They make sure all three of them are involved and enjoying it equally.

How rough are they in bed? - Softer than a butterfly on the back of a bunny | 2 | 3 | 4 | The bed’s shaking and squeaking every time (i think this goes up or down depending on the pair or their mood) | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Their dirty talk is so vulgar it’d make Dwayne Johnson blush. Also, the wall’s so weak it could collapse the next time they do it.

How much cuddling/snuggling do they do? - No touching after sex | 2 | 3 | 4 | A little spooning at night, or on the couch, but not in public | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They snuggle and kiss more often than a teen couple on their fifth date to a pillow factory.

Children:

How many children will they have naturally? - together, 0

How many children will they adopt? - they’ll take care of Rick’s, and might take in a few more later if they need it

Who gets stuck with the most diapers? - Daryl’d probably volunteer most

Who is the stricter parent? - Rick & Carol, depending on the situation. Daryl’d be a marshmallow. 

Who stops the kid(s) from doing dangerous stunts after school? - Carol & Daryl

Who remembers to pack the lunch(es)? - Carol

Who is the more loved parent? - i don’t liiiike this question. it really depends on the kid

Who is more likely to attend the PTA meetings? - Rick

Who cried the most at graduation? - Daryl

Who is more likely to bail the child(ren) out of trouble with the law? - Daryl

Cooking:

Who does the most cooking? - Carol? But Daryl cooks often too

Who is the most picky in their food choice? - Rick

Who does the grocery shopping? - Carol. (Daryl does the “grocery” shooting and bringing home meat for them :P )

How often do they bake desserts? - Carol probably does decently often

Are they more of a meat lover or a salad eater? - meat, mostly

Who is more likely to surprise the other(s) with an anniversary dinner? - Rick?

Who is more likely to suggest going out? - Rick

Who is more likely to burn the house down accidentally while cooking? - Still also Rick

Chores:

Who cleans the room? - Carol

Who is really against chores? - Rick

Who cleans up after the pets? - Daryl

Who is more likely to sweep everything under the rug? - Rick? Unless Daryl thinks the job’s pointless, then he might

Who stresses the most when guests are coming over? - Daryl unless it’s family

Who found a dollar between the couch cushions while cleaning? - I genuinely do not understand this question 😂i guess whichever one was cleaning there that day idk

Misc:

Who takes the longer showers/baths? - Rick

Who takes the dog out for a walk? - Daryl

How often do they decorate the room/house for the holidays? - Oh no their place would be ridiculously covered in decorations. Daryl’d half-heartedly grumble at the idea at first and then get super into it

What are their goals for the relationship? - Making each other feel secure, loved, and accepted, and creating a comfortable, loving home for the kids.

Who is most likely to sleep till noon? - Rick

Who plays the most pranks? - I think they all have a mischievous side, they could all pull some here and there

[omfgtrump]

The Tale of Two Viruses: Part 32, The Virus Strikes Back

So much has been written about the travesty of the debate, but I wouldn’t call it a debate. I would call it more an American Carnage. Carnage in the sense that there was one man literally trying to eat the other, the way a lion tears at its captured prey.

Can’t you just see Chris Christie and Rudy G in the debate prep telling The Don: “Don’t worry about facts, just eat his lunch! Better yet, skip the lunch and just eat him!”

I found it mind-boggling that anyone was surprised by The Don’s behavior. When are people really going to understand how disturbed and evil this man is?

This is what despairing bullies do. They rage. To be losing to a man he considers weak and impotent is humiliating. When The Don feels humiliated, he goes low, lower and lower. 

I searched for takeaways. Initially, I settled on three things:

Cows.

When responding to the “Green New Deal” (which Biden unfortunately doesn’t support), The Don snipped “They want to take out cows, too.”

No more hamburgers. No more ice cream. And most importantly, no more Yoo-hoo.  Those scoundrels, those heartless Democrats! So bad, so bad. And they got upset at us for taking babies away from their parents or taking uterus’s out of women’s bodies without them knowing.

Proud, as in Proud Boys.

When asked to condemn White Supremacy, The Don told the White Supremacist group The Proud Boys to “stand back and stand by.” ​Taking a page out of James Brown’s songbook he might have as well said: “I’m White and I’m Proud.

Forest cities.

Name your top five forest cities. You can’t? Don’t worry because they don’t exist. But The Don, who couldn’t be bothered to have a national plan to get PPE to all who needed it, is ready to sign a new bill in to law. It’s called The Sweep Act. The Sweep Act has two components: A broom for every American, and a national commitment to sweep the pandemic under the rug.

Here’s The Don on our raging forest fires.

 “In Europe, they live—they’re forest cities, they’re called forest cities. They maintain their forest. They manage their forest. I was with the head of a major country—it’s a forest city.”

Name of head of country please?

But after the news broke that The Don tested positive for Covid, I decided to abandon those takeaways and go with mask.

 During the debate, The Don was derisive of Biden’s mask wearing.

“I don’t wear masks like him. “Every time you see him, he’s got a mask. He could be speaking 200 feet away and he shows up with the biggest mask I’ve ever seen.”

Too bad they couldn’t have created a mask big enough to surround the entire White House, as who knows how many people working there were infected by the Super-Spreader-in- Chief!

And all those well-wishers out there: I understand what you are doing. You are trying to take the high road, do the opposite of what he would do. Show compassion. Just like the compassion he showed during the debate when Biden spoke about his son, Beau, who died of cancer or his son Hunter, who overcame substance abuse. Just like the compassion he showed back in 2016 when Hillary nearly collapsed form pneumonia.

Just like the compassion he showed when he mocked a journalist with disabilities.

I have no compassion for this man. None. He is evil. If you let your guard down and find a soft spot for him, thinking: oh now he will finally become human, chastened by this existential experience, you are naïve and deluded as he is.

There is no one this man won’t abuse, hurt, and try to destroy if given the opportunity.

When the devil is weak, make sure he doesn’t get another shot at it.

Who here doesn’t wish someone didn’t kill Hitler before he wiped out 11 million people?

Oh, but he isn’t that bad you say. Hyperbolic, you declare? Bullshit! He is that bad.

He has separated babies from their families.

He has deregulated environmental policies that will result in illness and death for thousands of Americans, particularly poor people of color.

He has and will continue to foment and support violence by White Supremacists-the potential for violence around the election growing each day.

He wants to take away health care and wipe out coverage of pre-existing conditions for millions of people, which will eventuate in thousands of avoidable deaths. And he wants to do this during a pandemic, when millions will be dealing with the medical fallout of the pandemic for years to come.

And then there is his response to the pandemic.

He knew in late January that it was lethal and spread through the air and said nothing.

Despite information to the contrary, he has downplayed the virus and put the entire country at risk.

He told the American people to use bleach, ultraviolet inside the body. Some of his devotees went out and swallowed bleach and a few died.

He is creating false hope and a narrative that a vaccine is around the corner. Ironically, his pathological lying and his attempt to rush a vaccine through without the rigorous testing it needs, has made the American public very skeptical about getting the vaccine. In fact, in a survey about who to trust regarding the validity of a vaccine, only 19% trusted The Don. I think more would trust cows (sorry to drag you through the mud, cows). Cornell University researchers analyzing 38 million English-language articles about the pandemic found that President Trump was the single most promoter of disinformation regarding the virus than anyone else. His malicious misinformation campaign will cause the death of many more Americans and perpetuate the pandemic.

His anti-mask attitude, disregard of truth and science, dismissal of social distancing as a method of prevention, has led to tens of thousands of unnecessary and preventable deaths. His delusional belief in his own invincibility put him in harms way and now he too is positive for the virus.

Even when he knew he was exposed to the virus (Hope Hick’s positive diagnosis), he went to a fund raiser in New Jersey and exposed all his rich supporters.

Most recently, he defied medical advice and decided to surprise his supporters by taking a joy ride around Walter Reade Hospital putting all the secret service members at risk. Here’s what one doctor at Walter Reade had to say about The Don’s publicity stunt:

“Every single person in the vehicle during that completely unnecessary Presidential ‘drive-by’ just now has to be quarantined for 14 days,” Dr. James P. Phillips, an attending physician at Walter Reed, wrote on Twitter. “They might get sick. They may die. For political theater. Commanded by Trump to put their lives at risk for theater. This is insanity.”

He has no shame, and cares not one iota about the impact of this stunt. In fact, this action is a perfect reflection of who he is and how he has handled the pandemic. Isn’t there a crime called reckless endangerment? In some states, if you knowingly are H.I.V. positive and you infect someone else (without telling them you are positive) you can go to jail.

In addition to these most recent egregious acts, he has knowingly, willfully and amorally acted in a manner to foster a genocide of neglect.

I have said this many times: The Don’s and his Republican collaborators are making choices that lead to people dying.

Let’s call it what it is. Evil. No act is heinous enough when it comes to his (and their) desire to hold on to power.

Knowing The Don’s ability to overcome adversity, he, unlike 208,000 Americans, will most likely survive this. Trust me, there will be no transformation, no come to Jesus moment like Boris Johnson. His response will be more like President Bolsonaro of Brazil, who recovered from the virus and declared himself victorious, an Adonis in the face of death. He will return to the campaign trail and revert to his vulgar, vituperative self, denigrating others, destroying everything in his wake, including our democracy, if that’s what it takes to win.

Do you still want to know why I have no compassion and do not wish him well? All I can hope for, if he does get well, is that he is defeated in an historic landslide, takes down the Republican Senate with him and then he and his family will prosecuted and convicted for their many crimes, spending many years wearing an orange jumpsuit to match his absurd orange hair.

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TIBETTE

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GENERAL :

Rate the Ship -  Awful | Ew | No pics pls | I’m not comfortable | Alright | I like it! | Got Pics? | Let’s do it! | Why is this not getting more attention?! | The OTP to rule all other OTPs

How long will they last? Ohhhh, forever ? is it good for you enough ? 

How quickly did/will they fall in love? At first sight. 

How was their first kiss? Bette initiated it. And she never imagined how addicted she’d be to Tina’s lips for the rest of her life. 

WEDDING :

Who proposed ? Bette fucking Porter. First, in LA, after a good fuck, she said she wanted to marry Tina. & then obviously, she made an official proposal later right before they left for NYC. This was so important for Bette, we cry

Who is the best man/men ? Ohh Kit Porter ! Bette’s older sister, no hesitation here. 

Who is the braid’s maid(s) ? Kit again, then Alice, Shane and Helena. Maybe Shane should be best man haha i don’t know 

Who did the most planning ? Both, but maybe Bette was very into it and wanted everything to be P E R F E C T !  yeah, no it’s Bette, totally Bette. 

Who stressed the most ? Bette ? Because if things didn’t go her way, i don’t mean disagreeing with Tina, i think they’d get along, but there are last minute things happening, she’d lose it. 

How fancy was the ceremony ? Bette loving Arts, she’d have wanted a wonderful decoration and mixing Tina’s taste. I think they just have the same at this point, for so many years. They are on the same wave length.  Back of a pickup truck | 2 | 3 | 4 | Normal Church Wedding | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Kate and William wish they were this big.

Who was specifically not invited to the wedding? Jodi Lerner. Henry. Jenny ( haha ). Some members of Tina’s family like her older sister obviously was already banished. 

Sex :

Who is on top ? Tina 

Who is the one to instigate things? Bette 

How healthy is their sex life ? VERY HEALTHY (  besides that one time ) Barely touch themselves let alone each other | 2 | 3 | 4 | Once a couple weeks, nothing overboard | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They are humping each other on the couch right now

How kinky are they ?  Bette is not someone who likes a lot of new stuff. She is very comfortable with getting down on Tina, and basic lesbian stuff, with some toys here and there. She’s one to use a strap-on because Tina is into it, but she wouldn’t want it to be used on her.  Straight missionary with the lights off | 2 | 3 | 4 | Might try some butt stuff and toys | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Don’t go into the sex dungeon without a horse’s head

How long do they normally last ? Minimum one hour ? Maximum, I’d say like a couple hours or three. Many rounds.

Do they make sure each person gets an equal amount of orgasms ? I think they don’t count, I mean, Bette makes sure to win that one by giving a good amount to Tina, just for the sake of challenge.

How rough are they in bed ? Just passionate, and super soft.  Softer than a butterfly on the back of a bunny | 2 | 3 | 4 | The bed’s shaking and squeaking every time | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Their dirty talk is so vulgar it’d make Dwayne Johnson blush. Also, the wall’s so weak it could collapse the next time they do it.

How much cuddling/snuggling do they do ?  A LOT, Bette is such a little spoon.  No touching after sex | 2 | 3 | 4 | A little spooning at night, or on the couch, but not in public | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They snuggle and kiss more often than a teen couple on their fifth date to a pillow factory.

CHILDREN :

How many children will they have naturally ?  one, Angelica

How many children will they adopt ? 

Who gets stuck with the most diapers ? Tina ? 

Who is the stricter parent ? Bette ! 

Who stops the kid from doing dangerous stunts after school ? Both ! 

Who remembers to pack the lunch(es)? Tina ! 

Who is the more loved parent ? FUCK THAT QUESTION BOTH DUH

Who is more likely to attend the PTA meetings ? Tina ! Bette hates them all. 

Who cried the most at graduation ? She didn’t graduate yet, but maybe Bette ?

Who is more likely to bail the child(ren) out of trouble with the law ? Both. 

COOKING :

Who does the most cooking ? I think Bette is a better cooker, but she rarely takes time to stop and all. So the most maybe Tina.  

Who is the most picky in their food choice ? Bette. I don’t know she’s fucking annoying. 

Who does the grocery shopping ? Maybe Tina. 

How often do they bake desserts ? Twice or three times a month ? 

Are they more of a meat lover or a salad eater ? Bette is a salad eater lately because she’s trying to stay fit lol, I don’t know about Tina ? I feel like she’d be less picky, and would eat whatever is around the fridge ?  But also maybe salad ?

Who is more likely to surprise the other(s) with an anniversary dinner ? Both. At a time it was Tina, but lately more Bette.  

Who is more likely to suggest going out ? Bette. She likes restaurants, and spend money on expensive meals. But also dates with Tina ? Always. 

Who is more likely to burn the house down accidently while cooking? None of them.

CHORES :

Who cleans the room ? Tina. Bette is messy. 

Who is really against chores ? None. They take turns.  

Who cleans up after the pets ? No pet ! I feel like they could have a cat maybe but that’s about it. Bette is not bit on pets. 

Who is more likely to sweep everything under the rug ? Bette ? 

Who stresses the most when guests are coming over ? Bette ! 

Who found a dollar between the couch cushions while cleaning ? Tina. Gold digger. 

MISC :

Who takes the longer showers/baths ? Tina is the one who takes time for herself.

Who takes the dog out for a walk? -

How often do they decorate the room/house for the holidays ? Tina loves holidays, more than Bette imo. So she would !  

What are their goals for the relationship ? For Bette, it’s being faithful ? azhgiozehg, share the same values.  Tina, it’s to stand up for herself more with Bette, have more space. 

Who is most likely to sleep till noon ? Tina. Bette is an early bird when working.  

Who plays the most pranks ? Both, they tease each other a lot.  

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Dan’s video, my mistakes, my apology, moving forward

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Firstly, i love dan so much omg - i wrote my tweet here expressing all that love - but of course, more importantly, i’m so so happy and proud for him for coming out as queer!!! as well as phil’s tweet rt quoting dan’s video!! what a babe!!

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I know to some it may seem like a chance for me to go ‘ahahaha we been knew’ or ‘I told you sooooo!!!’ but as Dan said in his video, and as I have learnt over the years, to say such would be to disrespect the person coming out and their personal journey. 

To add to this, I also feel the need to say that I am very sorry for my behaviour and words that came with it a few years back on this blog when I was in my Peak phandom/phannie phase (it’s not really a phase, it’s just changed over time).  To explain, during that time I had a ‘bi!dan’ tag (and i think another one along the lines of ‘queer yt’ as well as ‘whatphan’) a few years ago in which I would frequently speculate, or regrettably use the term ‘headcanon’, dan (and phil)’s sexuality and make assumptions about the relationship for various reasons that I’ve learnt now don’t really justify why I felt the need to. I’d argue, it gets a little tricky to separate the irl person from the person we see in the videos, especially when you grow up watching them like their a cartoon character, but I’ll also admit, I certainly got carried away with my idea of Dan (and Phil) and not always thinking properly of them as complex people with complex lives with complex sexualities to boot! It was wrong of my to slap a label on Dan, even if I had my reasons I thought at the time were... reasonable.

I just want to clarify, even before dan’s video he posted today, that I have learnt that I shouldn’t have been so publicly vocal in regards to speculating dan’s (or anyone’s) sexuality. It wasn’t right then or now tbh and as someone who is gay/queer myself and had times of being scared to be so, I really should’ve known better and listened to my own preachings of ‘your words have impact’.

I don’t want to believe that I crossed as many privacy boundaries as some folks, I only came across bread crumbs those folks had left behind, but even then, it’s easy to put myself up higher and be like ‘I’m not thaaaat bad’. Now, I acknowledge that I still went too far in a lot of ways and certainly put my own feelings, desperation, curiosities and need to project first before Dan (or anyone else in his position of not being out). I am sincerely sorry for this and any negative impact my words in the past may have had on him (or anyone). I’ve learned to be better and hopefully have acted out to be so. I only say ‘may’ here because I don’t think I’ll ever be sure if he saw any of my posts specifically , but I still want to apologise.

That all being said, I’m not gonna delete my tag(s) (that I later changed to ‘dan likes boys’) because i feel like that would be pretty suspicious like I was sweeping it under the rug. This blog is a big record of me growing up from as young as 15 (I’m nearly 23 now!) and as much as it scares me, I don’t want to erase that, even the parts that don’t highlight me in the best way. I want to be honest and acknowledge my mistakes so people can learn from them. Please, if you come across posts in the tags I’ve mentioned that rub you the wrong way, take it with a pinch of salt as this is me apologising for writing without thinking and getting so carried away. Also, I don’t really wanna mention it here but this isn’t about ‘phan’ and I’m not sorry for my phan art because D+P have expressed that is all okay multiple times (and even partook themselves with fanfic in TABINOF / TATINOF ahah), I haven’t cared about ‘shipping’ them in forever, to me they are just as Dan expressed because (now) it’s from the source himself (well, quoted on someone else’s twitter ahah but my point stands). I’m also not sorry for like, seeing a part of myself in Dan and Phil, as well as their relationship resonating with me and reminding me of my own- with people I consider soulmates (i agree with this basically) - I’m just sorry how I went about it all and how that potentially hurt Dan.

In the end, I stand where I have since I first started watching them in 2009 - these thoughts and feelings fuelled a lot of my past behaviours but I’ve learnt to think before doing and embrace it on my own or in more private spaces but it’ll still consolidate and make a cool conclusion here: 

I’ve felt a connection to Dan, Phil and their lovely relationship - whatever it is to them -, and while I’m overwhelmingly happy that connection has been further validated with Dan’s video and Phil’s tweet afterwords, what matters most, especially now, is that they are in a position where they can feel happiness, pride and just contentment in themselves and each other (even if things aren’t perfect 100% of the time). They don’t need protecting from something that’s a part of who they are. They are also allowed to be private about that same something though. 

They’ve given me so so much joy, pride in being different, access to a incredible passionate community (and will likely continue to over the years), especially today so really it’s only fair they feel all the things they’ve given me (and literally MILLIONS OF OTHERS !!!) for 10 years :’) 

I love Dan and Phil and this honestly feels like a new era where we’re all grown up/learning to grow more! Here’s to being better, making progress, living our truths and !!! being queer !!!