#im tired of serious discourse

[medblackcoffee]

Love your megumi and yuuji art!! <3 I’m also very curious if there are any facts and or just things about jjk that you could rant abt in a good way or bad way for hours?

Thank you!!

I have the worlds most unserious answer to this but I will die on the hill that we don’t talk about Yuji’s love of human earthworm NEARLY enough bc wdym this happy sunshiny kid has a deep obsession with essentially the human centipede franchise???

Listen I love jock!Yuji and fratboy!Yuji as much as the next guy but weird kid Yuji needs his time to shine fr let that boy show his freak!!

[arcanegifs]

I rarely voice my opinions on stuff like this but I think it’s ridiculous that people fight over a show that hasn’t even aired yet.

[commonboa]

I feel like a lot of people on here say cishet white man when talking about men they perceive as being unequivocally privileged because they know they should but don't really understand what the differences in experiences are between a white and black man a cis and trans man etc

it's like they think every man regardless of identity gets unlimited access to male privilege with just a little bit of discrimination on top if they're marginalized. this also plays into the whole “thats just transphobia” or “thats just racism” schtick; seeing the male experience of oppression as the default and completely ignoring any semblance of intersectionality.

tldr: people on tumblr dont see marginalized men's experiences as meaningfully different from the experiences of patriarchal men

[hereforthe911buds]

honestly just gonna start blocking anyone who goes into the #buddie tag with some high & mighty post about ship discourse. you really think a rant is gonna convert people to your mindset as all it does is come off as condescending & patronizing, when there's also already dozens of identical posts just like it?

[x1702x]

Nothing gets me more mad when the horror device/plot conflict which is a dark topic is misunderstood in media

Like no this is terrible we are explicitly telling you its bad why do you think its okay and totally normal?? or that media is bad bc its included?? Or that the author is bad for adding it???

Do you want us to point with red arrows that its bad?? Its literally there 😞

[tamaaiba]

Not so friendly reminder that nonbinary is an umbrella term and NOT a third gender and if I see any of y’all treating it as one it’s on sight

[ghilan-maim]

actually i think its weird that yall will look at peoples social medias/online presences/etc and make blanket statements about their character based on what they do or do not post.

you are seeing a glimpse into 1 tiny sliver of their life. you don't know what actions they're taking to help the needy outside of that, or what they do with their time. a lack of posting about important topics doesn't necessarily mean a lack of care.

you guys really need to learn that. the internet is not the entire world, and it shouldn't be peoples entire lives.

[blackbonnet]

i maintain that some shows need to be taken seriously and some shows are just for funsies

[meowchela]

god following a couple swiftie accounts is healing my soul ngl.....like i'm so used to people on this site wanting her dead in the streets its nice to see someone else who actually likes her music for a change 😭

[logosbot-tm]

Sometimes, I want to complain really loudly on tumblr about random shit I dislike, but I know someone would show up to tell me not to do that.

Sometimes, I enjoy when ppl are allowed to have different opinions ✨️✨️✨️ even if they're negative ✨️✨️✨️

Hell, I love hearing opinions I don't agree w. It's neat to hear what someone else thinks and why!

Yes, complain about that random ass thing, that is (completely unimportant) fuck yeah. I disagree with you, but cool that you have different point of view.

Or hell yeah, you like the thing I dislike? Awesome, tell me all about how it makes you happy.

I don't like it, bc I just don't, but fuck yeah I'll listen to your rambles.

[menlove]

okay wonderful I'm glad and whatnot but nowhere did I say anything about that, my friend. the original post was saying "masculine women and feminine men are not your oppressors". sometimes posts are not about specific struggles and are instead about a different struggle and that is okay. by pointing out that masculine women and feminine men are not your oppressors, I am not saying feminine women do not have their own set of issues. I am merely and literally just pointing out that gnc people face issues. I don't mean to be rude here but it is exhausting that there can never be posts about the issues gnc people face without everyone dogpiling it to say we forgot about gender conforming people. not to be a dick but that's what the new post button can be for. hell I will even reblog the post from you if you dm it to me and go hell yeah let's support feminine women who face misogyny because of that.

additionally while some of the "let women be feminine" statements Do come from well meaning people either talking about what you are or what doberbutts is, far too often it is because, like my original post was talking about, they saw a masculine woman and felt that they were being threatened. a female character wore pants on tv and they suddenly thought mainstream media made them a dyke. or they are in an online community where gnc people are seen as hot and they feel ignored.

that is the issue I am talking about. that is what this post is about. I am so glad you all want to talk about feminine women and their struggles but there are already a plethora of posts and articles and books written about that and you can always write your own take on it too. but when a post literally and simply just says "gnc people are not privileged over gender conforming people" it is not inherently ignoring these issues. it's literally just about a different topic. gnc people are ALLOWED to talk about the problems we face and we should be able to do so without getting a million essays from people about how we forgot about feminine women. we didn't! we are simply talking about one struggle! and that's okay! not every post has to be a nuanced take on every individual experience!

if you are ever out here w the take "society LOVES feminine men and masculine women what about the poor feminine women and masculine men" I need u to know you have entirely submersed yourself in niche online communities and have lost touch w the very real world we live in and you owe every masculine woman and feminine man $100

[turnstileskyline]

fall river massachusetts late 1892-1893 dash simulator

🥃 remember1794 Follow

lmaoo of course l*zz*e was a member of the temperance movement….. broads like that are always the worst

📿 godbeliever Follow

and??? are you saying that being against the overconsumption of alcohol is somehow akin to being a brutal murderer?????

🥃 remember1794 Follow

yes

🪓 bordenupdates

dont bother engaging with remember1794 his entire blog is posts about the whisky rebellion of 1794 or about how much he hates women

#notborden

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👒 gibsons-a-girl Follow

look all im saying is that miss lizzie is unmarried and hasn’t had ANY suitors… and maggie is unwed too. im just saying!

👞 shoeshiningisawomansduty Follow

im so tired of you sapphists projecting your filthy disease onto everyone. no one cares.

👒 gibsons-a-girl Follow

thats not what your mother said to me last night

👒 gibsons-a-girl Follow

wait why is your blog just photographs of mens footwear

#wild ass site

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❄️ alaskafan Follow

i think the uncle did it bc what the fuck kind of middle name is vinnicum

❄️ alaskafan Follow

AND hes a butcher ? might as well write murderer on his head lmaoooooooo

❄️ alaskafan Follow

bordenupdates just vagueposted about me

#hope this is ok to rb op bc LMAO

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🐋 righttowhale Follow

ever since the 1850s big petroleum has been working to destroy the whaling industry, backed by the naturalists who find a problem with the hunting of whales, despite there being an abundance of the beasts in the sea! do not reject whaling – trust when whale experts say that these creatures will never be at a serious risk, don't fall for the propaganda of big petroleum

⚓️ sunkenmen

what the fuck are you talking about. did a whale kill your parents or something.

🐋 righttowhale Follow

yes, actually.

⚓️ sunkenmen

. sorry

#sorry for your loss but your politics suck

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📿 godbeliever Follow

i don't believe that women are capable of a crime so brutal. even when judith slayed holofernes, she did so by the guiding of God. her actions were virtuous in nature. women, being of the fairer sex, who serve God as lizzie does are not capable of a murder so foul. jezebel was able to do as she did because she spurned Him.

👒 gibsons-a-girl Follow

stop lumping sapphist lizzie defenders with these freaks.

#this discourse has been incredible #anyway block godbeliever

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🕯 literate-lover-19

the adventures of sherlock holmes my beloved

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🧺 thepoppypamphleteer Follow

theres nothing wrong an opium reliance.

🧺 thepoppypamphleteer Follow

i always wanted to fuck her

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🧵 spindlecity

does anyone wanna take me to the columbia exposition :( i know its in illinois but still

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[loving-n0t-heyting]

Against my better judgement, a not-very-original contribution to rattumb feminism discourse

Theres a common retort to complaints about feminism from rat-adjs, which when phrased politely reads like "You have the excuse of yr main exposure to feminism being 2010s era jezebel bullshit" and when phrased impolitely reads like "yr main exposure to feminism being 2010s era jezebel bullshit is not an excuse", which takes it for granted that the dumb shit that occupied seemingly 90% of the internets collective attention in 2011-2015 was some inane culture war drivel significant basically only insofar as it sucked up ppls attention or contributed nebulously to the "wider conversation" with distant and vaguely delineated consequences in the objective world

This is kinda funny, bc what i remember from the feminist resurgence of that time period was the massive, largely successful campaign perversely combining a bold expansion of the boundaries of "rape" and an intensified brand of punitive vitriol for alleged rapists. Criminal and quasicriminal consequences for rapists were ramped up, concerns about "due process" were dismissed (with institutional effect!) as antiquated patriarchal relics, judges bemoaning the eighth amendment were touted as heroes, protesters with ak 47s showed up outside the houses of convicts they thought got off too easy. Ppl would extol distant bands of vigilantes in public, and domestic lone assassins in private. Ppl lost their freedom. Ppl lost their lives. And all of this nancy grace nonsense in the most pristine of bleeding heart blue enclaves, under banners of deepest pink!

I could provide citations, but i wont, partly bc i am tired, partly bc all of these are things ive given concrete evidence about on this blog previously, partly bc we all know this to be true anyway

And what grates on me about that patronising reply to those of with the gall to carry trauma from this orgy of bloodlust is that these noose-tying fanatics and the avant garde against the gamergator menace were the same fucking ppl. Saying it all for the same fucking reasons. Again, no citations bc ive said this all before, but search yr feelings. Im not complaining about some more serious problem that gets mixed up with the way the internet collectively decided zoe quinn deserved to be pre-canonised by the magisterium of public opinion as a martyr for the true faith, im complaining about the same problem, of which the lynching enthusiasm was the worst expression. In the annals of the horrors of war, small losses in public life are placed alongside the lists of honoured dead, bc they are alike symptoms of the same overarching social disease

And if you hear more about the milder instances of this mass insanity of last decade, consider this might be bc famous "cancelled" performers and academics have access to more bandwidth than randos stuck rotting inside state prisons

[itefi-n-ferlet]

Im enjoying this silliness so much! I can love them as their usual mature, badass serious beings but also as these silly dorks, so tired to see people unable to just enjoy some silly stuff, they both are about to have serious battles soon and serious moments together. Just chill. Lol.

Like, yeah, you will think is the usual haters, but no, people from the same fandom being annoying 😬 Sometimes I hate that this fandom only appreciated them when they are suffering or having angsty/dramatic sh1t going on. Sometimes I envy the others ships fandom bc they are able to enjoy silly stuff without the "I am too mature and deep to accept this" discourse. You only like trauma and are uncapable of seeing yoir characters being more than their past and trauma. Eww... 😬😬

[ayngels-sunbook]

^^^ Be a good person, don't Metagame / Chathop / any other stuff 👍

gg to blue, but if Bad’s chat doesn’t stop metagaming and making things super unfair I’m gonna just

[moonlight-records]

PSA:

i don’t normally talk about this but this is a serious thing i wanna touch on so TW: racism mentioned.

the fact people are calling the conversation about RACISM that is so rampant in the sport that's happening on f1 twt "white privilege discourse" is all i needed to know about you as a person + contributing to the problem.

it's so important for us to know the history, good AND bad, about this sport that's SO integrated so we can continue to talk and fight and break this generational stigma in the sport.

the fact people are so scared and allergic to calling their faves out and holding them accountable is baffling. calling your faves out and holding them accountable should be the NORM. it does NOT make you any less of a fan.

the fact that fans have turned "fake fan" into a weapon when issues like this arise and uncomfortable conversations are to be had just to silence those who are speaking out is disgusting. please step out of the bubble that's been created and look inward and ask WHY does this make you uncomfortable or upset that your fave is being rightfully called out and criticized.

these are GROWN ASS MEN. lewis nor any minority community shouldn't have to hold their hand let alone fans hands and make it our responsibility to educate YOU. we’re TIRED.

also, the "white privilege" excuse is not cutting it anymore. throughout this CONVERSATION, a lot of fans (esp with bigger platforms) have made it so noticeable that they will go to war with drivers for their right to curse but when it comes to fighting racism and basic human rights & decency it's suddenly "political" and go back to their bubble and ignore the topic at hand. the only ones i see speaking on the issue of racism in the sport are the black f1 fans while everyone else is turning it into a fan war, "white privilege discourse", “context matters”, or turning a blind eye. are we fucking fr here??

and don't get it twisted, i am not allergic to calling my favorite out which includes lewis and charles. they're not saints and im not saying they are but they need to be held accountable and criticized.

if you think that the conversation is simply "white privilege discourse" or doubling down to defend your driver instead of criticizing them and holding them accountable please follow me or just block me because i will NOT be doing that on my blog.

stop putting drivers on pedestals and start holding them accountable.

ps: don’t bother sending me hate or anything on this topic. i’m gonna ignore & delete. it’s the holiday season & im tired of having mine along with other POC voices silenced or spoken over.

~ sincerely, a black f1 fan