#im still so tired

[heyitslucky]

good morning tumblr, time to post funny things to get pretty women to laugh :D

[crossnamara]

if you are mean to me i either want you dead or want you carnally

[sweetronancer]

i fell asleep listening to weezer

[databent]

fun and cool how i went into work last night with every intention of staying all night if needed and finishing literally just one task thatd take like, 5-6 hours tops but then after three hours or so i had to leave because my arms were getting weak+my chest was aching from the effort of being awake. i love that this is my life

[megatraven]

whahat

waht do you MEAN. these words dont rhyme .

[ozymoron]

woke up from a fuckin nap ough

[angelic-din-mortem]

//One of these days I will be more active on my FF15 muses, today not quite that day.

[neo-admin]

Good morning at this ungodly hour 😮‍💨

[daring-marionette]

Fixed my sleeping schedule too hard now I woke up at 6:30 am instead 1pm so that's how I'm feeling today

[headlamprey]

Lol so a friend asked me if I wanted to meet up on her bday (today) at 8 and I reaaaallllllly didn't feel like it but it IS my friend and it is her bday so I'm like. yeah yeah of course!!?

She has A bunch of Relatable Issues so I was waiting to see if she still felt like meeting up and she hasn't answered....

I AM SO RELIEVED???!?! I FEEL AWFUL ABOUT THAT BUT I DO I REALLY DIDNT WANNA GO ANYWHERE (i also need to go to the pharmacy, not gonna do that either)

[timethehobo]

His cute expression when Rook first started flirting tho…

[gawdforthelovers]

why does google docs want me to say "cooked" so much...

[guinevereslancelot]

i would do anything to get to bed on time except go to bed on time

[endykelopaedia]

"black people are seen as hyper-masculine and face a lot of violence for it, so yes you can be oppressed for seeming or being masculine"

AHT!! lets talk! black people are not actually hyper-masculine. hyper-masculinity is a projection by people trying to justify anti-black fear and violence. it is not a true and then demonised observation about black existence. the hyperfocus on the masculinity of black people is itself racism!

when you call this issue of racism anti-masculinity or misandry or whatever, you are obfuscating the bigotry at play. ESPECIALLY given that it is overwhelmingly just white women's fear about black people's supposed hyper-masculinity that actually gets listened to & acted upon.

in addition, there are other addendums people tack onto their anti-blackness that completely cause this logic to fall apart when applied. Namely, adultification! black people, black children get adultified by white society.

We are assumed to be older & more independent, and thus less in need of the safety, care, sensitivity, accommodation one would give to a child, and this results in violence and neglect. it is directly observable in the way black children are more likely to get detention, suspended or expelled for the same behaviour as their white peers, s/a rates for black youth, and the arguments that 40 y/o cops give for brutalising & murdering black 20, 16, 12, 8 year olds who so much as breathe in their line of sight.

Given this then, following the misandry logic, we can say being recognised as older or as an adult is a form of oppression.

"black people are seen as older/more mature and face a lot of violence for it, so yes, you can be oppressed for seeming like or being an adult"

we can for the sake of this post name this oppression adultery.

i kid. but do you see the problem. being recognised as an adult is obviously, not itself a form of oppression, in fact quite the opposite, being recognised as adult can grant you a lot of privileges that children do not have.

and black kids are evidently, not adults or people who act like adults. they dont mature faster. black 18 y/os will also face the problem of adultification to justify violence against them. black maturity is not a true and then demonised observation about black existence. the form of oppression is racism, and adultification is the deployed means of enacting racism.

the means of combatting the adultification of black people would not come in creating adult positivity or "advocating" for adults or telling children not to fear adults. it comes in the form of learning about anti-blackness, unlearning anti-blackness, and actually directly combatting anti-blackness.

similarly the means of combatting the hyper-masculinisation of black people comes in the form of learning about anti-blackness, unlearning anti-blackness, and actually directly combatting anti-blackness.

Racism explains both of this phenomena far better than "misandry" ever could.

[lovphobic]

good morning gamers apparently all it takes is asking your mom to go to the store when she gets home and then your body shuts down exactly half an hour later

[sunlit-mess]

collab with an art friend 🖤🤍