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hakugreenfinch · 1 year

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oh right ya boy went to see michel p last night. mans needs help coming on stage but by god he blew it up. great time

#hakuna matata #im officially travelling to another country to hear french boomer music live #ok thats not the only reason im here. but definitely one reason #i was like one of the only 10 people under fifty there haha #i was actually kinda nervous. but then he played the intro to love me please love me and something unraveled in me #i havent been to a big international concert since. the gorillaz humanz tour in 2017 ToT #im saying this with all affection btw #hes 78 i didnt expect him to run around for a full hour and a half. in fact im in awe he still does tours like this

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rearranging-deck-chairs · 4 months

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if 9&10 were "dont wander off", and 11&12 were "the doctor lies", 13s rule #1 is "dont question me"

"have we not had a good time together" shes pointing yaz to the rule that yaz very well knows is there: we can travel if you dont ask me any difficult questions. yaz knows this is the rule - "because you ask too many questions", "this team structure isnt flat" - but she also was the one to invite the doctor into her home so im pretty sure she also knows shes not gonna kicked out that easily. she has some leeway. which she has been using between revolution and flux, which is why the doctor reminds her of the rules

i dont think she'd kick her out though. she wouldnt. i think it's just that the more you break the rule, the more unpleasant she becomes to be around, and eventually youre gonna walk out on your own. she doesnt want you to, she'd rather you stay and dont ask questions. but if youre gonna try to ask questions anyway, i think thats whats gonna happen

and yaz must think so too. because she does back off. because she doesnt want that to happen either. and it does anyway

#dont question me/dont challenge me. questions are the sore spot but the challenge is one she says explicitly once #because you see this in how she is with other people too. dont try her patience. dont act like shes smaller. dont challenge her or Die #based on the giggle - 'i thought i was clever' 'what do i say?! because im always sooo certain' - i dont think 14 is like this #also based on the expressions of affection #hes not that......reactive. to this. specific thing #so i wonder if it runs over to 15 #he seems chill. i think? he seems fairly chill. but also i think we've so far only seen him mostly in control of things #faced with the maestro temporarily not entirely in control hes Notably Less Chill #but still bigger picture. hes mostly in control of things right now i think #or uhhhh based on how eager he seems to get out of the role of doctor #hmmmmm #13 didnt want it but like. was stuck with it i think #didnt want it but nobody else was gonna do it. thats why 12 regenerated #15 comes out 14 Literally Quitting #he doesnt want it and hes decided hes not stuck with it. maybe #none of this is true btw im just saying words recreationally #like those 13 moments are super cherrypicked and i havent rewatched in forever so #dont believe me gfkjghgjh #this is based more on how i write them than what ive seen basically #anyway in terms of 14/yaz i think it takes yaz a while to figure out how to deal with 14 Not being like this #bc she got soooo practiced at handling 13. most of which was abt like not tripping this rule too much #she'd keep it up with 14 and he'd just do stuff that like breaks the rule from his side and yaz wouldnt have any idea how to deal with it #he'd show her hes chilled out a bit. about this. over and over and it'd still take her moooooonthssssssss to start relaxing #just muscle memory at this point. doesnt help that shes also like this #i wonder if 14 - in a sort of compelte reversal - wants to be told what to do and how to do and #seeks out situations where someone else knows more than him so he can sit down and say 'teach me'#i think thats what he does. about all the human stuff. hes like teach me. all of it. show me how to do this

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kavehater · 2 months

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I’ll never understand younger siblings whining about their older siblings moving away like I bet yall were nasty and annoying too like wow all those years and you claim to adore the older sibling and post oh woe is me the older sibling abandoned me … girl … the older sibling didn’t have a parental certificate or anything.

#since when were we friends nor did I have any obligation over you or towards you #we are literally roommates here acting like we’re friends #dora daily #I say this cause I saw yet another younger sibling on tiktok trying to make themselves a victim like the older one is clearly avoiding the #whole family and changing their phone number so u guys don’t contact for a reason like wth did you guys do that’s so bad they would go #through all that trouble #‘older siblings will never understand how doing that affects us physically and mentally’ oh quit whining and cope #I didn’t have an older sibling I relied on only myself heck not even strangers help me when I’m in dire need #I think yall need to cope harder and wake up to the real world #not all younger siblings but a lot of them like my little brother 13yo is good id never want to abandon him but the rest … yeah bye #idgaf you should’ve not been an idiot because believe me ik kids mess up but not like this #and now she’s grovelling at my feet bye grovel harder #like just an hour ago or so she came up to me and was like I’m going to school for the first day are you gonna miss me #I said no because she always tells me no when I ask her if she missed me #and somehow she had the audacity to be upset like okay #the same girl who tells me to move out btw #my mum said oh u have to be her best friend cause if she has nobody here then she will have to rely on strangers #and she would find herself in trouble cause they don’t have good intent oh gee I wonder which person caused me to do that #it’s honestly ironic #like Eris and virtue happened because she couldn’t step up and be a normal mother byeeee #and anyways whyre you acting like having a sibling is essential #it honestly isn’t like why would I be nice to a girl who dogs on me and beats me up and is disrespectful #she’s not that young anymore she’s almost 12 #‘oh they have different personalities’ well i hate hers and im not to be forced to like it either its my right

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bastardsofravenkroft-blog · 10 months

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wait what happened with pissditching? im p sure you talked abt them in an ask response but i never understood what happened...

basically pissditching is friends with revengeromance and girlgerard (both of whom i dislike atp*) i said something in the tags of a post abt how i was pissed at revengeromance for something (unrelated) and pissditching found it and lowkey harassed me and several friends over it and said some real fucking weird shit to me so i blocked them (and probably said something snarky abt them on main but i dont really remember)

*i dont personally like these two users bc they (specifically gg) are the forefront of call gerard way nothing but she/her and i think thats fucking weird 🙂 personally. so i have them blocked and don’t interact with anyone around them at all.

#so in the tags of a random post i mentioned leo. so like. what was pissditching doing on my blog huh. i know but i dont want to get that far #into it honestly. at least publicly. but i know what they were doing lmao #do i make an ass of myself on the internet at times for reminding ppl someone’s prns? yeah probably. jokes and affection can be okay #but every. fucking. time. is so fucking weird. and gross. at least to me but what do i know. anyways #theres two ppl in that circle who i really hate enough to not mention here.i have nothing neutral to say at all. neither are gg or pd.#anyways this is also why i don’t interact with most of the fandom anymore its just so exhausting #ppl say that sort of shit to g. and as a qnc/queer person it just gets to me yk #btw im not posting this to “start drama”. dont even. the “gender wars” are such bullshit it’s embarrassing #crimson answers #crimson speaks #reportinglivefromsoda #the jester #the flunkies

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trainsgenderjamie · 3 months

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I hate to like think about my previous relationship, but god I haven't had someone scratch my chin like how you'd do to cats in so long. Need my physical forms of affection. Need my scritichies. If ur seeing this post and u know me in person, and you feel comfortable enough to do so, you can just reach over and do it, I'll lean into you and let it happen if i think it's nice

#meowpilled catcell #the small cat in my brain wrote this one #she demands her physical affection and comforting touches #do u guys think im weird (/neg) or like is my name weirdness a /pos thing #im so like desperate for someone to just decide i look pettable (for lack of better words) and just pet me or something #like i want a mf to enjoy my existence as just a little dude yk #im just a little guy fr #i need to have sex so bad #< unrelated btw #i just saw that in the recommended tags and was like 'real'#I wish a mf would #is this too many tags am i going insane #does anyone even read all of my tags?#if u read all/most of my tags on this post say hi #i reread my post and im just staring at it like #part of me is like actually begging up there someone please give my physical affection

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kaeyachi · 1 year

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gonna talk about kaveh thru the tags in case people dont wanna get spoiled

#also not tagging the kaveh tag in case someone forgot to block the tag due to spoilers #kaeyachi randoms #so anyway here we go #wtf is that back story why is it so painful #its incredibly realistic as well coz that can happen irl #also since we are going to fontaine i genuinely wonder if kaveh has a half-sibling there that will become a playable character someday #imagine the angst hnghh #loathe his mother so much sorry shes depressed but that has never been an excuse to be a POS #i have the same opinion about huffman btw like yes life is tough but who tf leaves a kid alone to do all the housework while u drink #even his specialty food has a backstory can yall believe it?#someone really enjoyed writing kaveh. good for him #now i have 2 depressed alcoholic babygirls who have a hard time accepting love and affection because they dont think it will last #what does that say about me when i kin them? who knows. im just a random internet person with specific tastes apparently #kaeya and kaveh meet and just start supporting eachother pls #they would be besties fr coz they would know how to ease eachothers troubles #kaeya and kaveh: no home? same. cheers to that mate #kaeyas bio dad and kavehs bio mom sweating as they feel kaeya and kaveh fans curse them to hell and back

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like-wuatafauq · 4 months

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magicdyke · 1 year

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dude is just not smart

#i mean if you have a blog entirely dedicated to “discourse” then what can you expect #love that he can just decide that using queer is never ever a slur no matter what and say that being tme doesnt affect you #while also having several different instances of transmisogyny on his blog or thinking he has the right to joke abt certain things #its like ok so you just like the word fag because it makes you sound special #or edgy or whatever #with zero real care for the actual lgbt community at large #like maybe there are people that dont like to be called queer because it is still used as a slur in Most Spaces #also btw hes like “I literally talk abt [transmisogyny] on this blog” but i like did not see a single post referencing trans women #aside from a post where he was getting mad at ppl for being mad that he made some shitty transmisogynisyic joke that he took back later #maybe being obsessed with “transandrophobia” is an insanely moronic thing to do and maybe you have to accept #that you are white and not hypervisible to humanity and have similar problems and experiences to the people similar to you #but still have the ability to exclude transfems from spaces #and are actively doing so by talking the way you do on your stupid ass blog #god. white trans men thinking that they're exactly the only people that have ever experienced oppression that gets ignored by society #drives me fucking crazy #im sorry but you are not special.#the toothpaste flag icon on top of all of this just to really remind everyone that hes a lesbophobe whenever hes talking ever

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sonknuxadow · 1 year

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btw the whole people getting really angry about shadows fast friends forever profile thing just proves i was right that people were setting their hopes way too high with all the "shadow is completely fixed now guys! The Mandates™ are all gone!" just because they heard that the rules for writing shadow in idw sonic have changed slightly

#im not saying people who criticized that profile are unreasonable for that btw i dont like it either #just that people were kinda setting themselves up for disappointment #with all the talk about how hes fixed now and we're never getting bad/ooc shadow content ever again #also the way a lot of people talk about ''the mandates'' makes it sound like they dont actually know what that stuff means #people talk about it like its this evil force looming over the sonic franchise that only exists to make shadow fans angry #and doesnt affect anything other than the way shadow is written #but in reality its just a set of rules and restrictions for how everyone and everything should be portrayed #certain topics and characters that are off limits etc #its not an inherently bad thing. even if some of the decisions they make with certain characters (shadow.) are kinda weird #like no you absolutely should NOT be asking for all sega mandates to be thrown out the window

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crumbleclub · 1 year

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touch averse michael my beloved

#it's not really coming up in the chapter i'm working on rn but i have been thinking about the characterizations i have 4 the masked bullies #(feel free to ask about any of them btw im lov they. i love fleshing out background characters sm)#and one of them is very tactile + not great with boundaries bc of their own background #and it's very much adding further development to michael beyond just. william mixing normal affection with needless violence #on top of that #at a baseline #michael would have been a super tactile person without all this #which i feel like leads to a super complicated relationship between mike and the idea of touch #interesting to watch it develop and i imagine it will be just as interesting to see him heal as much as he can later on #yk what would help him deal with it probably? a cat #cats communicate their boundaries so effectively #and mike would be like. shit man #can i do that?#i can SAY NO???#fnaf #michael afton #writing process blogging

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kordbot · 1 year

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thinkin abt benny tonight

#tags rant approaching lets goooooooooooo #ive been thinking abt his route a lot and his overall place in the story #and i think it would be. REALLY interesting if he got revealed as gay in the sequel #he's already the one who's able to reject toxic masculinity the most !! he's the only one who wants to actually befriend five !!!!#and im not saying that it would be impossible if he was attracted to her but what im saying IS #how Pointless this whole journey in the hopeful must have been to him then !!!#it would also mean that he had to be deep in the closet around his friends due to how affected by toxic masculinity they were which is! sad #im saying this all as an aroace benny believer btw. but a character like him being canonically aroace seems ! kinda unrealistic #but gay benny is real. it's possible. he already gets homophobic comments thrown at him #and im not saying i want him to get called a faggot. hes already a faggot in my heart #like i literally dont care about him liking men i just care about him not liking women #i want this 'searching for The Girl' adventure to feel completely pointless to him at a personal level #but knowing that he can't abandon his friends like that. and pretending that he actually cares about finding her #and for it to become something bigger in the sequel. something beyond personal. like this is not about him anymore #does any of this even make sense #EDIT because i forgot more thoughts i have #first of all sth more personal and less analytic which is: even if he was aroace i dont think he'd have the words for it anyway #and who cares if hes gay or aroace or both hes still queer and not into women #and second thought. it would mean that he didnt have feelings for the red haired girl #which makes. his whole pre flash backstory a lot more interesting #bc she couldn't have been ''leading him on''#but the whole situation got misinterpreted from the outside. basically #idk man. i like benny i just think he's neat

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bitchvania · 2 years

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Actually no himenoeatmyass Im not laughing about the destruction of my country's welfare state

#yoyo rambles #the lack of tact or just like emotional engagement w the situation is shit #which would be fine if u lot kept ur lil jokes to ur fuckin selves but apparentally u wanna try out for clown school #im guessing bc its mostly americans who want to feel some kind of morsl superiority over another country for once #when roe v wade was on this site every nonamerican had to grieve ab their governmental fuck ups but if u ask people to not trivialise the #human rights violations of u and ur friends THATS when ure being too much #and the fact it was compared to the elon musk twitter beef #like girl economic collapse is not the same as ur fave nerdboy punching bag doing something stupid #and the funniest thing is of this happened 10 years ago when anglophilia was trendy there would be sympathy #but u lot dont give a shit ab normal british citizens u just wanna sexualise the upper class twinks and mock the chavs #btw this isnt a like 'WHY ISNT ANYONE TALKING AB THIS WHERE IS THE SYMPATHY'#i dont see why non-brits should care all that much if it doesnt affect u #just dont come on the internet to laugh at the worst british recession in history #sorry to say it makes u look like an ignorant fuckhead with the humour of a 12 year old incel

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llycaons · 1 year

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basically all it boils down to is that if jc doesn't put in the work to treat wwx with respect then they're just not going to have a relationship and good riddance because someone like that shouldn't be in wwx's life anyway. respect is the bare minimum even, and he cant even seem to manage that

#he shouldn't have to settle is what I'm saying. for crumbs of possible affection or hidden concern in snarky comments #its so tiring and its so dumb and its so unnecessary #people have been shitty to him for so long and I'm really glad he put his foot down in the novel and said #he didn't want to be an emotional punching bag anymore and he wanted people to like. treat him well and shit #I feel like I keep saying "just don't be mean to wwx' a lot and it's more complicated than that #but basically #nobody should feel obligated to stay close with someone who is mean to them all the time (ik its an understatement)#btw I better not see any of that 'op is an only child' shit I have 5 siblings and I respect them #and I really hope everyone has siblings who respect them too #and if you don't expect that or think it should be a baseline for a relationship bet siblings then im really sorry #ficblogging

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lordiavolo22 · 2 years

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i recently did an essay for university about how male violence are in the top 5 causes of death for women in many countries around the world. after finishing it i am having to physically restrain myself from drop-kicking people who say we need to include cis men more or we need to pander to them or "both genders do it". bitch please show me a map of a single country where women killing men is on the same level as multiple cities let alone countries

RIGHT!!!! like YES there is female on male violence and im not saying theres not, but the problem is that ppl only bring that up to avoid talking about female victims. its only for a point, its never out of genunine empathy!! otherwise they would be talking abt mlm violence. they just mention it to discredit female victims!!!

#like im very biased here because im a ''''''woman'''''' (im nb but i very much so pass as a cis woman since im afab) and im also ugly (not #my belief BUT it is how i would determine myself in society) and fat and cishet guys have been nothing but cruel to me. i can think of three #and one was bi so he doesnt count!! ones my dad and the other an online friend. when youre not of use to guys they just. dont treat you #right. or when youre masculine enough they kinda treat you like an equal but not really. theres always this wall between u like were over #here and youre over there.#i also live in a red state and red county so this affects me more than like say someone in la where ppl are more '''''''''woke''''''''' here #we dont have cishet guys like that. and the ones i do know!!! they all turned out to be abusers to my friends. when every girl i know has #been sa'd in someway theres a problem. and it just !!!! it bothers me that we bascally had metoo overturned roe v wade overturned and yet #ppl still think now is the time to focus on like men again. like damn!!!! we only got about 3 years of yall being good!!! then ofc all the #yt guys came out as shit and so did u know the wife guys !!! this is just like :( i wish there wasnt a barrier between me and guys !! but i #never put it there!!!!#answered #negative /#violence /#btw ik woke is like used as a alt right term thats why its in #in quotes also to refer to the guys who like say theyre '''woke''' aka take feminine studies for pussy

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noxtivagus · 2 years

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i love ffxiv so much fr

#🌙.rambles #[ ffxiv. ]#generally i feel very deeply n that's both a good n bad thing #usually i don't really have opportunities to be idk as open or unrestrained abt it as i would be (in regards to affection)#i love fiction.. i forgot the word but yk it helps like. yk let it out healthily bcs i'm also rlly just a creative person at heart #WHY IS WEIGHT OF THE WORLD INSTRUMENTAL PLAYING IN MY HOUSE HAHA WHY R ALL THE LIGHTS OFF WTF #AGHHHHH I'M SHY OH MY GOD FUCK WAIT WHEN IT COMES TO ANY SORT OF LIL STUFF LIKE THIS W ANYONE AT ALL #MY FRIEND PLACED A MESSAGE IN OUR MESSAGE BOOK 🥺#this was.. oh my god last month 18th i haven't placed ffxiv much at all recently that i've only noticed now #THATS SO CUTE MWAHH i love my friends vv much 😭🫶🏼 ok but wait hermes OH NO I WAS GNA RAMBLE ABOUT HIM AGAIN ^^#AGHH I CANT CONCENTRATE WHY IS WEIGHT OF THE WORLD PLAYING..... IM CHANGING IT THIS IS TOO EMOTIONAL????#i love the songs i placed in the orchestrion so much #i might edit it sometime bcs uh 'from the heavens' is too. idk too strong for the rest of the songs i think #1) neath dark waters; 2) your answer; 3) and love you shall find - i love this so goddamn much btw fuck terncliff; 4) from the heavens 💀;#5) voice of no return (guitar) - my fav automata ost; 6) pilgrimage; 7) kaine (final fantasy main theme version) - too ethereal oh my god;#8) radiance!!!!#tbf actually 'your answer' & 'radiance' r battle themes too. along w 'from the heavens' though i'd say they're all rather elegent in a way #i rlly want to put 'apocalypsis noctis' somewhere.. i don't listen to it too often nowadays but it'll always be one of my favs.#& i rlly wna put 'dragonsong' :<< that song is v special to me with heavensward n all. the lyrics r so romantic n beautiful #'he who continues the attack' is so fucking good. i have lovely memories w apollo with the 'the measure of [] reach' songs hehe #'fragments of forever'!! under the stars w alisaie 🤍 oh my god i Need to put 'shadowbringers' n 'tomorrow and tomorrow' somewhere :((#'a fierce air forceth' & 'a fine air forbiddeth' from my favorite frontlines map. apollo n i always got so many kills n were rlly good ehe #'vamo'alla flamenco' dnc's one of my fav classes n. i love ffix. 'bedlam's brink'.. iconic emet-selch my man. 'the heavens' ward' GRRRR #it's so epic though! 'wind on the plains' n rlly just the other bozja n zadnor related stuff. sm memories. it means a lot to me #'tomorrow and tomorrow - reprise'.. cried the first time it played with alphy in around eulmore. 'dangerous words'; god i love shb #'the queen awakens' i love delubrum reginae so fucking much. n then 'endwalker - footfalls' & 'flow'.. oh fuck .#AGHH THE OTHER NIER SONGS TOO :(( N THE RAIDS. EDEN'S PROMISE AAAAA FUCK FUCK I MISS RAIDING SO MUCH #'hic svnt leones'.. the memories 💀 n the aglaia osts hehe I DONT HAVE. SCREAM FROM PANDAEMONIUM N IN THE BALANCE #THERE'S TOO MUCH SONGS IM EVEN ONLY LOOKING THROUGH THE ROLLS I HAVE HOLY SHIT #shiva n tsukuyomi n endwalker n the auspices n the primals n all the dungeons n the tribes n city states n EVERYTHING FUCK

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pirates-apologist · 1 month

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I feel like ive hit a fucking wall when it comes to dealing with transphobia "gracefully" cause why the HELL do cis people feel entitled to tell me how im allowed to feel about the transphobia perpetrated against me and others??

#i got told this by a black woman btw like you of all people should know how harmful “theyre old you should just accept theyre like that” is #got told this by many others for years but this feels like the straw that breaks the camel's back #why do you feel allowed to tell me im not allowed to be hurt or frustrated #ive lost so much in my life to transphobia how are you allowed to say i should just take it and it shouldnt affect me

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