#im an nb trans bi dude

[skrunksthatwunk]

still thinking about how one of my first yyh meta posts got reblogged onto an sjw cringe comp blog in the year of our woke 2022. truly tumblr dot com, the last bastion of progressivism, has fallen (<- sarcasm) and also i'm kinda baffled that they didn't choose like. me putting yusuke in a skirt or something

[zombeats]

LGBTQ+ BSD HEADCANONS!!!

(im using "any pronouns" for he/she/they + neos to make it easier for me cause i usually dont know whether "any pronouns" includes neos or not.

i also put some xenogenders in so if you dont know one or are curious, look them up!! theyre super cool! i tried to use some that are somewhat known to make them easier to find but xenogenders are kinda hard to find in general so)

(also im probably spelling names wrong PLS FORGIVE ME IF I AM im tired and idk how to spell 😕😕)

quick guide for anyone confused!!!

masc terms = masculine terms (i.e boyfriend, bro, dude, brother)

fem terms = feminine terms (i.e girlfriend, sister, wife)

neu terms = neutral terms (i.e partner, sibling, spouse, significant other)

all or any terms = fem, masc, + neu terms (i.e partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband, spouse)

format-

name: gender - pronouns - terms - sexuality

reason why i think this and/or little hc about it

ADA

Dazai: bigender (nb + male) - he/they/xe - masc + neu terms - bi + ace

he had a lot of gender crises while in the PM and eventually realized that he could be both nonbinary and male. chuuya pretended to be really irritated with all the pronoun and term changes but was very supportive and patient

Kunikida: trans man - he/him - masc + neu terms - gay + demisexual

he was very nervous about teaching at first because he didnt know if the students would know if he was trans or not but ended up "passing" really well and no one knew until he decided to tell them and then all the queer kids went to him for help/advice

atsushi: cis male - he/xe - masc terms - bi

was very nervous abt coming out and repressed his attraction to men until he joined the ADA and felt safe enough to accept who he was and came out

yosano: bigender (nonbinary and female) - she/they - fem + neu terms - lesbian ace

didnt realize she was queer until she met ranpo and he suggested she might be. after that, he helped her try pronouns and terms until they found what fit. as a way of saying thanks, she did his nails and helped him through his gender crisis

ranpo: bigender (male and female) - he/she/they - any terms - bi demiromantic ace

didnt realize he was bigender until yosano did his nails and had a gender crisis. it took him a week to figure it out and hes still embarrassed about it

fukuzawa: trans man - he/they - masc terms - aroace

never felt interested in romantic or sexual relationships and didnt realize that it wasnt "normal" until people started dating eachother and talking about sex

jun'ichirō: cis man - he/him - masc terms - straight demiromantic asexual

was super confused when his sister kept getting crushes on guys and talked about dating them when they barely knew eachother. when he tried to look up why that was a thing, he came across the labels demiromantic and asexual and realized it applied to him

kenji: cis man - he/she/they - any terms - unlabeled

doesnt care what people refer to them as, they know their own gender and thats all that matter to him. also does not care for labels, he likes who he likes

kyouka: demigirl - she/they - fem + neu terms - bi

had no time to explore her identity while in the PM so they only discovered themself when they joined the ADA. dazai was actually the one to help her find the labels and pronouns that fit her

naomi: trans woman - she/her - fem terms - pan

she insisted for jun'ichirō to call her a girl at a young age and it scared him at first. after looking it up, he realized she was trans and waited until middle school to help her find a name for herself. when she reached high school, he then hunted down an ability user who could change someone's appearance for help because they couldn't afford hormones and surgery

kirako: cis woman - she/ze - fem terms - bi

she found neopronouns when she was in middle school and experimented for months before finding ze/zir and realized how much she liked them. she didn't tell anyone about it because ze was embarrassed but then finally felt safe enough with naomi to talk about it

THE GUILD

fitzgerald: cis male - he/they - masc terms - gay

had a long talk with every member about how he wouldn't tolerate discrimination in the guild. it was kinda awkward since everyone there was queer.

POE!!: genderfluid (female, male, agender) - he/she/ve/xe - any terms - uranic demisexual

uses karl to let others know how hes feeling (karl likes being dressed up he gave consent)!! he puts a bow on karl when xe feels feminine, a tie when ve feels masculine, and a little sweater when she feels like neither!! ranpo thinks it's adorable. also genderfluid poe is canon

melville: cis male - he/him - masc terms - gay

also did the "no discrimination tolerated" speech but it was 10x more awkward

louisa: demigirl - she/they/sol - fem + neu terms - pan

talks with poe about neos a lot!! has fun making up new ones although sol doesn't use them

lovecraft: genderqueer- they/voi - neu terms - aroace

likes trying out new neos although they never seem to fit void for long

james: cis male - he/him - masc terms - unlabeled

he feels very lonely being the only unlabeled person in the group but none of them make fun of him or say anything rude and always try to include him without insinuating/accidentally using lables for him

steinbeck: demiboy - he/cloud - neu terms - gay

jokingly makes fun of neos a lot, will kill someone who actually does

montgomery: trans girl - she/her - fem terms - bi

will constantly refer to herself in third person when shes feeling dysphoric so that the others know and try to help (for example, "hey, am i not the strongest girl in the group?")

margaret: trans woman - she/her - fem terms - pan ace

loves hyping herself up (as she should) and always makes sure to hype up other trans people and compliments them a lot

mark: trans man - he/him - masc terms - bi

sees lucy as a little sister and always helps her when shes feeling dysphoric. loves to buy her cute dresses and does her hair a lot

hawthorne: nonbinary - he/they - neu terms - gay

loves browsing queer forums and is super active in the community. always helps answer questions anyone has and loves educating people about gender and sexuality

PM

ryunosuke: bigender (male + female) - she/he/it - fem + masc terms - uranic

only told gin and chuuya about it because he didn't feel safe enough to tell dazai. she was only able to tell him about it after chuuya told it dazai was also queer (WITH PERMISSION). IM A SHE/HER RYUU TRUTHER OK IT JUST FITS SO WELL

gin: genderqueer/apagender - any/all - any terms - lesbian

they never felt weird when people used he/him pronouns on them or used male terms. talked to chuuya about it and after a long discussion, they came to the conclusion that they just did not care what people used for them. told ryuu right after so she would stop getting mad at people for using the "wrong" pronouns/terms.

chuuya: genderfluid (male + nonbinary) - he/ve/it/nix - any terms - uranic ace

the "elder queer" amongst the PM. everyone goes to it for advice. nix actually never had a realization moment, he just always switched between feeling like a man and feeling somewhere in between. the only confusion it had was what to call this, and ve eventually found the label for it.

higuchi: astrumgender - she/star/sol/moon/xe - neu terms - pan

had no idea how to describe sol's gender until xe found a xenogender masterlist on the internet. she found it interesting and kept trying to analyze what star's gender felt like when moon saw one that seemed close to what they felt. she finally landed on astrumgender however it wasnt until a week later, when she tried it again, that xe realized it described star. gin helped her with pronouns.

ace: genderqueer - he/she/they - any terms - gay

found out about all the different gender while gambling with someone. looked it all up later and decided to settle with genderqueer cuz she didn't feel like trying out a ton of different labels (honestly me too)

kōyō: trans fem - she/they/ae - fem + neu terms - neptunic ace

thought neptunic meant "attracted to masculine people" until gin told them that it actually meant "someone attracted to nonbinary people and women". ae felt it described aer better than lesbian did so she started using that label. (honestly i keep getting neptunic and uranic mixed up. i keep thinking the terms are neptunic for liking masc people and sapphic for liking fem. then uranic comes outta nowhere to remind me of my dumbassery 💀 i gotta memorize this shit. the flags dont help either)

verlaine: ethegender - any/all - any terms - gay ace

always felt confused by their gender, he could never describe it in thought, feelings, or words. he always felt like it was at his fingertips but she just couldn't get a hold of it. xe fell down a gender rabbit hole one day and felt that ehtegender described it perfectly. this was also when it discovered the label ace.

hirostu: cis male - he/him - masc terms - aroace

thought everyone knew he was aroace until someone asked him if he had a wife during a meeting. he said he didn't cause he wasn't interested in that or sex and it was deathly quiet for two minutes before he said he was aroace to clarify. they like to tell that story to new members for a quick laugh

arthur: agender - he/they - neu terms - gay aroace

took forever to rediscover their identity. they knew something felt wrong when people used masc terms for him so he asked mori about it. it was a very awkward conversation

elise: cis girl - she/her - fem terms - straight aroace

got very confused when mori kept asking if she had any crushes yet. finally decided to ask him abt what he meant and that was when they both realized she was on the aroace spectrum

Q: agender - they/xe/voi - neu terms - unlabeled

they're actually very happy for their natural androgynous appearance, cause xe never gets misgendered. ofc voi told the PM of their neos but xe never expected them to get used and they cried when chuuya casually said "why are you talking about Q that way?? xe's a kid. leave xem alone".

karma: trans boy - he/him - masc terms - gay

had a very awkward conversation with ace when ace realized he was trans. he was seriously hoping ace just turned him into a gem to escape the conversation. surprisingly managed to teach her a lot of things about the community and proper etiquette when talking to queer people

kajii: trans masc - he/they/xe/ve/ae/div - neu terms - pan demiromantic

neopronoun collector. loves neos. gains neos each week. lost track of them and had to start over three times. ryuu loves using his div's new neos cause it adds some excitement to his life

oda: demiboy- he/she - fem + masc terms - uranic

when she met dazai, it took a lot of patience for him to teach them about pronouns and gender. had no idea dazai was bigender until xe came out to him about it. absolutely no gaydar

ango: nonbinary- he/they - masc + neu terms - gay

phenomenal gaydar, clocked everyone immediately. oda didnt even have time to come out to them, they already knew. knew about dazai, too, but wanted him to figure it out on their own

mori: fuck him, cishet (just realized two seconds after posting that i forgot to add him lol)

THE SILLIES (DOA)

fyodor: agender - any/all - any terms - gay ace

i feel like he sees himself as a divine being or at least something other than human. he has this whole thing of "doing god's will/mission". and imo divine beings are genderless. so i think he would see himself as above gender. i would've just done they/them + neos but honestly? i dont think she would care about pronouns at all so. ALSO nikolai LOVES finding the most out there neos to use for fyodor he finds it so fun. he uses new ones every day

NIKOLAI!!!!: genderqueer - he/they + any/all neos - neu terms - gay demiromantic ace

i feel like nikolai just does not care about pronouns. i also think he wouldnt mind she/her but find a little displeasure in it. he would probably rate she/her as a 4/10 if 0 was hate and 10 was love. he almost feels neutral about it but theres just a little but of dislike. he also LOVES silly neos like clown or honk. he loves it even more when fyodor uses his silly neos cause fyodor is so serious all the time

sigma: aliengender - they/them - neu terms - aroace

currently experimenting with neos. nikolai is obviously helping. their whole thing is that they came from a book so they don't feel like they're "human" (imo, having emotions is what makes you human but its their existential crisis so). anyways i think because of this, they would feel a detachment from gender and would feel like no gender truly fits them but that aliengender fits best (even if its not a perfect fit)

bram: bigender (female + male) - he/she/they - neptunic

she definitely has conversations with nikolai and sigma about gender and how it's expressed. her and nikolai try to teach sigma about it but it just goes over their head (same). definitely goes into great detail describing what his gender feels like to sigma and they're honestly having a great time. gender tea parties every wednesday

fukuchi: trans male - he/him - masc terms - straight

bonded with fukuzawa over being trans. they definitely met in a gsa. tries to be supportive of nikolai but his head spins just thinking about all the neopronouns so they teach him a new set once a week to ease the process. fyodor makes fun of him for it

HUNTING DOGS

JOUNO<3: trans masc - he/they/xe/ae - neu terms - gay demiromantic

taught tetchō and fukuchi what neos were and how to use his. ae has no idea how fukuchi went this long without knowing what they were since fukuchi is quite literally an "elder trans" and has been in the community for decades. teases him about it sometimes when teruko isn't around

teruko: trans woman - she/star - fem terms - pan ace

taught fukuchi how to use her neos. almost killed tetchō when he asked about star's neos because she had no idea he was listening to her teach fukuchi. tries to fight jouno over who's are better (he doesn't care).

tetchō: caligovague - they/ae/jhey/kei/ve/mu - neu terms - uranic ace

after being taught what neos are by jouno, mu went on a deep dive because ve found it interesting. jhey discovered so many neo ae like it was insane and also found a very fitting xenogender. they went to jouno and talked about it and finally told everyone else (fukuchi almost had a stroke trying to learn jheir pronouns).

PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF I MISSED ANYONE THIS TOOK FOREVER!!! also if you want clarification on any pronouns or genders please don't hesitate to ask!!! i had a lot of fun looking for genders and pronouns to fit them although i do worry there wasn't enough variety 😕

[hostilemuppet]

for the sake of postponing the art rb queue for a bit:

cuddles: nb lesbian. he/him pronouns (although i am Dabbling in he/she)

toothy: gay cis man

giggles: bi cis woman

petunia: trans het woman. polyam

handy: trans bi man. polyam

mole: cis bi man. polyam

flaky: bi genderfluid person. he/they/she. will put "hedgehog" if asked for their gender

nutty: mspec (likes the colours of the pan flag more and would probably decide to id as pan just for the aesthetic) agender person. he/they

sniffles: trans woman. probably bi? def likes guys at least

splendid: aroace. his species has hundreds of genders we could not possibly conceive of but for all intents and purposes he is a cis dude

russell: "married to the sea" (bi cis dude)

mime: all clown adjacents are inherently genderfuck. he/they. bi

lifty: cis gay man

shifty: straight trans man

pop: SAYS hes straight but ""experimented in college"". cis man

flippy: aroace cis man

lammy: cishet woman. im so sorry. shes cool about it at least

cro marmot: you dont know how bad i want to make him transmasc itd be SO funny but i cant. hes a caveman

[cornfields-td-nonsense]

Geoff and Duncan :P

Geoff and Duncan for the character ask game!

Sexuality Headcanon:

Geoff is as bi as the day is long. I haven't fully watched ridonculous race but I've seen how he is with Brody. cmon. "I love you, man"/"I'd marry you all over again" the subtext is just text

Duncan....... eh idk. he's straight most of the time when I think of him. though I could see him being closet gay.

Gender Headcanon:

Geoff can be a trans guy purely bc his colour palette is the trans flag. im a simple man with simple tastes.

Duncan gives nb vibes but also he's like canonically transphobic so 🤷 (im joking, mostly)

A ship I have with said character:

Brigeody. Geoff has two hands.

I don't really ship Duncan with anyone but if I had to pick someone it'd be DJ. Duncan would probably make him worse but I think there's a world where DJ can make him better

A BROTP I have with said character:

Gweoff. Their friendship was SO GOOD in that one episode and I'm genuinely sad they dropped it.

I'm the only person in the world who thinks this but I wrote an entire oneshot where Sierra and Duncan are friends and it unironically made me love their hypothetical friendship. (The Ex-Fangirl and the Ex-Con on ao3 if you're curious) I also really loved him and Gwen as friends but I'll save that for another slot

A NOTP I have with said character:

I don't really have a NOTP with Geoff. all his ships range from "Yeah!" to "ehhh whatever" in my opinion. so. yay

Gwuncan. Yeah you knew it was coming. Like. I don't understand, they were so good as friends and there was a whole thing in Action about people assuming they were a thing and Gwen especially hating it, and then suddenly come World Tour they're into each other??? what??? they were so much better as friends Why Couldn't They Have Stayed Friends. and they didn't even get time to act like a couple and then in AS all they do is argue, obsess over Courtney, and then break up so what was even the point. uuuuuuuurhggrgh I know there's people who love this ship. that's totally fine obvs. it's just a ship at the end of the day. but it really grinds my gears.

ANYWAY RANT OVER

Random headcanon:

Geoff owns loads of sunglasses. like so many sunglasses. every time he goes on holiday somewhere, or anywhere with a gift shop, he ALWAYS buys sunglasses. it's an actual problem lol

Duncan makes most/all of his own clothes and accessories. All-Stars floated the idea of him and Zoey sort of being friends, so let's go with that. they can bond over doing DIY together.

General Opinion:

Geoff's pretty cool. Not my favourite, but pretty cool. I liked how they made him more than just the chill party dude, and showed this mean streak of his during TDA. I love a good corruption arc. and Her Real Name Isn't Blaineley was top tier. overall he's pretty good

Duncan is... ehhh. My opinion on him fluctuates. Every time I think I hate him I remember the DJ's bunny incident, or him and Beth in the finals, and every time I start to like him I remember all of TDWT. I guess it boils down to: he definitely has his moments, but most often I'm indifferent to him or he annoys me, and sometimes stuff he does and says really gets under my skin. I do really like how he is in fanon most of the time, because normally I'm a sucker for the "tough guy with a soft side" trope, and TDA was easily the season I liked him most.

[chiimeramanticore]

since you asked for weirdly personal asks. im curious how did u figure out u were queer

I never really had A Moment like everyone else seems to have had lol but. when I was in 7th grade I had a few friends who were more online than me who introduced the idea of like, gayness to me (these friends are also why I use tumblr lmao) and they explained what bisexual meant and I was like "oh . yeah I guess that fits me" like not aware of the implications of queerness AT ALL lmao. I was just like ok I'm bi now gkfkg

a similar thing happened w the term nonbinary, I kinda heard the meaning and was like "oh huh yeah that fits" and then move on w my day lmao . over the course of my teenage years I would slowly slide deeper into realizing just how much those labels fit me. it's kinda crazy how I managed to stick w these labels for like, ten years now actually. I've had times where I try on another label for a bit but I always bounce back to bi and nb, it fits me so well

lately I've been considering I might be more of a plain ol trans guy rather than nonbinary but if you ask me now I feel like I'm both if that makes sense. i wanna pass like a (lbr probably fruity) dude to the average stranger but I don't think I'll ever feel fully binary yknow

but also I'm on t and have the hormonal balance of a teenage boy so I've been going thru all kinds of minor identity crises and mood swings n shit lmao. so y'know . everything's fluid and so on and so forth

[max--phillips]

My sibling just sent this to me and I’m like. Ok so years ago they came out as bi, they just came out as NB a few months ago (which coincided with them starting to date a trans girl who is also a furry (who I accidentally clocked bc my sibling mentioned she uses Linux)) and they’ve been modding furry-centric minecraft and discord servers for years and I’m like. Dude I think u might be a furry. Which is valid . Nay, almost expected at this point. “I don’t consider myself a furry” THATS HOW IT STARTS AARON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not to speculate about my own younger sibling but I’m willing to bet three (3) united states dollars that they come out as a furry transbian by the end of the year.

[image ID: a screenshot of a text and an image with a laugh reaction, timestamped today 6:43 pm. The text reads “I wouldn't consider myself a furry, but considering I run a discord server populated by mostly furries, I vibe with this.” The image is a two panel comic, the first panel showing a vague anthropomorphic animal with a wide mouth in the shape of a three and eyebrows. A human is next to them, dramatically pointing at them with an open mouth and angry eyebrows, shouting “Ew! A furry!” The second panel has “A few years later…” in the upper left corner, and contains two of the vague anthropomorphic animals from the first panel. The text above the second animal reads “im a furry now.” End ID]

[lesbotactix]

i should make a pinned so hi! im kc, they/she, 21. this blog is 18+ and i block ageless/minors who interact. i’m a white trans nb lesbian. i ship myself with dudes as a coping mechanism because it’s fun. i think sexytimes are goofy. i love explicit consent but i respect dubcon! im also scottish/my family is eastern canadian so watch that bleed into my fics. i take requests! also im a transfem gaz truther and a bi farah truther.

dni h.arry p.otter fans/au writers. saying you disown jkr doesnt make her hate transfems less and it makes me feel unsafe please

[flyingcookierambles]

Mixed feelings today on the company picnic thing we had. On one hand, I don't know these people if they're trans friendly or not so I don't mind that I got called she/her misgendered twice to the entire room of a bunch of strangers by my supervisors. On the other hand if there were trans supporting people and/or other closeted trans people now they all think im a she her cis and if I ever meet them personally now I have to re-educate them over and over again ugggh

Also my 3 coworkers fron yesterday all misgendered me again today during a private conversation at our table.

Ugh

Should I just give up on these cis normies.

I'm a bit disappointed bc altho they're cis 3 of my coworkers are gay lesbian and I think bi or pan or something so I kinda expected better from them as the other other fellow lgbt ppl in the office :/

Plus the older gay dude said that I wasn't the first trans person he knew like it was supposed to be a connecting thing and his godchild recent came out as trans/nb and I assume also uses they them pronouns so I kinda expected better from him since he has 2 people he needs to start practicing neutral grammar for but it seems to have not improved at all idk

Bluh

During a conversation with 3 coworkers yesterday all 3 of them all used she her pronouns for my SMH especially since I personally told them all my pronouns and 2 of them are like around my age so I expected better from them compared to old people ugh

Should I just give up on being respected and taken seriously or skills I go passive aggressive and get some pronoun and NB/trans flag pins to put on my lanyard? I've also seen some trans flag pins that have "not a girl" in the middle.

Bluh

[doomednarrative]

Hmm gonna put my Half Life two cents out there in the wind so everyone knows my stances:

• Personally a fan of "Gordon has two hands and is dating both Barney and Alyx." Not a fan of Barney and Alyx being together, they're more family bond kinda thing. But they're both dating Gordon and support each other obviously.

• I hc Gordon, Barney AND Alyx all as bisexual. Personally also hc Alyx as nonbinary. (Sometimes might post stuff about trans Gordon and or Barney too.)

[lycantherous]

While were on the anyone can be attracted to nonbinary ppl, please stop fucking saying monosexual. Not all of us perform our sexuality how cis ppl expect us to. Gay =/= liking Only one gender and it is very Cis to act like it does

And I'm not ~~a little bit bi~~ I just dont care abt cis rules

[dotuvoidsynth]

oh god i forgot about this entirely im so sorry uhhhh. ill start w the general gnp hcs bc yea. long ass wall of text after the read more thing

cakey/obsequious' name that i kinda like for her is Catherine for some reason?? its kinda silly it fits her shes silly shes my blorbo

also she's transfem, bisexual and demiromantic, uses she/her and uh. im a cakehurty shipper srry guys they r dating they love each other!!! lets go!!!

then theres hyper/tooth hurty n i dont rlly have a name for them i havent rlly thought of it....i should name them something silly too. like diet coke 3

they're nb n transmasc, uses they/him and uhhhh i havent rlly thought of their sexuality n romantic orientation but theyre probably demiromantic n demisexual too why not!!

they're both autistic n in love!!!! yay!!

i dont have many hcs for chris but!! ik hes a demiboy or some flavor of not cis, and maybe hes aroace who knows!!!

same for lilia but i just can tell shes nb or something, she/they and lesbian + ace

i also have barely any hcs for the crazy town guys for some reason, they're def both t4t w maika being transfem n yohioloid transmasc n i honestly have no idea about their romantic n sexual orientations but i have a feeling they're both bi or pan or something.......

and for the cmncs hcs!! i have barely any that i remember for some reason but!

henry and nancy are both ace and allat like usual bc they do not do the devils tango!!! they dont woohoo!! theyre both cis, henry's straight and nancy is like. demi??? she doesn't rlly mind gender shes just silly

frances is aroace, and also cis for some reason. idk why i got so many aroace little guys in my brain im not even aroace what does this mean!!

pronouns are just. plain cis person pronouns i think

uhhhh kennith is genderfluid, gay both ways n kisses men... oh he uses any pronouns he just does Not Care. he only wants money and men and like happiness or something.... a little kiss too if he feels like it..... hes audhd too...... the scrimblo

greg is a demiboy mayhaps....he/him, maybe bi??? maybe demi??? he just doesnt rlly care about anything he just exists and is not rlly okay w it but its fine he has the little gay guy that smokes w him so everythings fine

steph is cis, uses she/her and is also pan but!! shes also somewhere in the ace spectrum too!!

bri is nb they/them and a lesbian too and like ace too and like. they have an unhealthy obsession w tamagotchis for some reason. they're autistic and share that special interest w avery whos also autistic and they can and WILL talk about their spins for several hours. love them!! OH also they rlly like korn for some mysterious reason

avery is transfem n she/her and uhhhhhhhh..........somewhere in the acespec??? and a lesbian too i think....... she likes neopets n she definitely played club penguin at some point in it's early days

simon!!! my blorbo!!! im sorry you were so slandered and honestly i get it youre a cunt in the canon fuck you. but its ok because the canon is NOT REAL!! im delusional and will literally write a whole brand new story for him because he deserved a better lore bc hes just a bad guy for no reason and he has no depth behind that

so!!! simon is still aroace, uses he/him pronouns and everything, but he def didnt have the best most real most based childhood. someone give this dude a snack or something maybe a hug. his whole family was conservative and lived in a fucking. white ass neighborhood?? apparently those are a thing in the us?? what the fuck. everyone there was like that too so he grew up thinking that gays r BAD!! trans people? EW!!! icky!! black people? nuh uh! anyone thats not the typical alocishet white guy named John Smith was not normal n allat. so it was p much an echo chamber of weird stupid shit that he couldn't escape and didn't know anything that wasn't what this community inculcated on his brain since the moment he was born. so imagine this dude goes on the internet and sees a black trans girl n a latin american nb dating and identifying as lesbians. like just imagine the confusion bro would feel about that shit. bro probably punched a wall or something in frustration and decided to fuck their lives up because he didn't get why they were like that. anyways things happen, nathan appears and simon thinks "woah that guys rlly short he sounds like 13 or something is this a toddler?? nice clothes tho that hoodie goes hard" and plays cod mw w him on xbox live and shit on random kids and make them cry and everything, and this dude has NO IDEA that Nathan is not only non-human, but also fucking TRANSMASC and never rlly realized until like halfway through what would have been the case 3 story and yeah. hes like. what the fuck. this dude i actually shared my past with and actually asked for advice on some shit and played cod with and have spent all this time with, is literally trans??? what the fuck???? huh???????? and he got so confused he turned WOKE!!!! jk he just stopped being an absolute dick to every single person that wasnt a cis white dude that much. like he would still try to understand what the FUCK was going on w them but he didn't threaten to kill them. or actually kill them. or make them starve. or bully them to death and everything. he just made fun of them mostly but thats it!! he gets better later tho. he heals!!! nature is healing!! good job white boy!!!

i also kinda forgot about my storyteller hcs uhhh ray is agender, he/they n aroace.

evelynn is nb, she/they n guess what!! shes also ace but they're also a lesbian so its fine

nathan my boy........i would like to award you with the most prized thing i own (being hcd as transmasc). hes just a little trans guy!! just like me!!! uses he/they and is also aroace and hes also audhd and rlly fucking loves dogs. big dogs specifically. like these absolutely massive dogs u see sometimes and think "woah!! big dog!!"

should i start to post my cmncs + general gnp hcs.....

[unhappycasper]

Here’s the truth,the difference between bisexuality, pansexuality, polysexuality, omnisexuality etc etc... is label preference. thats it. one sexuality is not “more transphobic” than any other. now you can be one of thosesexualities and be transphobic if you say shit like “I’m attracted to trans men/women and cis men/women so i must be pansexual” or “I’m not attracted to trans men/women and only cis men/women so i must be bisexual” yikes. the whole “youre pan if you love people regardless of gender and bi if you love people because of their gender and omni if gender doesnt matter to you at all” is some weird onesize fits all nonsense that doesnt actually determine your sexuality. Like you can feel that way but that doesnt automatically mean you slot into one or the other. you can be bisexual and like all genders, you can be pansexual and like men and nonbinary people but arent really into women, you can be polysexual and like men and women and so on. what it comes down to is your preference for the label you apply to yourself, and if you dont like one guess what you dont have to use it babey

[maximumgayce]

something that's been bothering me for a while now is that so many positivity posts that I see about relationships very often implies only trans folk date other trans folk and cis folk only date other cis folk. and that if a cis person is dating a trans person then it's Wrong in some form.

like!! cis folk can treat trans folk with respect!! attraction!! =/= fetishization!! it's just attraction!!

basically can we please start fucking telling people that it's ok to be cis and in a relationship with a trans person without it being considered fetishization?

[affectionatealien]

Happy pride from your local trans feral scientists!! ;)

[klanceisviolet]

yesssss promote it as a straight romance love story and then watch straighties run out of the theatre grumbling about gays and never getting their money back. :') lmao -gay anon

thats EXACTLY what im planning to do and anon u’re now the producer of that movie azdfskgdss

[wearequeer-andwearehere]

hii, i did send an ask before but i think i hit the limit to it didn't send?? i'd like to say that i love how inclusive & welcoming your blog is!! so i have ID'd as bi-demiromantic ace (cis girl) for around 6 months but lately i've been doing more research and i think i'm aroace and nb (she/they). but i have some internal aromantic-phobia. idm if others are aro but.. idk haha. also idk if i'm really nb or it's a "not like other girls phase" hitting the limit so ending this rn!

Hi! 

Yeah, I don’t think I got your ask before this!

Ahhh thank you :D I try my best to be inclusive and create a welcoming community :)

Ahhhh my dude I’m so fucking proud of you, that’s awesome!! Aroaces are so cool, and being nonbinary is awesome!!

Ohh god I’m sorry you gotta go through that, internalised shit can suck 🫂 

Tbh my advice is to find your community!! Follow aro blogs and make aro friends and join aro discord servers, read stories about aro characters and make aro characters and write aro stories and find your community and you’ll start to feel better!!! 

My advice for the not like other girls thing is to try seeing why you feel like you’re not a girl. Is it because you think girls are below human and you feel human, or is it because you’re not a girl? Try finding the reason why.

Also, there is absolutely no harm in trying out the nonbinary label for a bit! If you wanna try it out, go for it my friend!! Just go about your day and live your life and in the back of your head try saying “Im nonbinary,” and see how it feels!!

If you like the label, that’s cool!! If you realise you’re actually cis, that’s cool too!! There’s no harm in seeing how the label feels.

Here’s a post on gender dysphoria you might wanna read, see if you relate to anything on there! Here’s some questioning advice:

Remember, only way of being trans is being yourself!

Don’t force yourself into labels that don’t fit. You’re not supposed to fit labels, labels are supposed to fit you

There’s nothing wrong with not having a label or using only umbrella labels!

Feel free to experiment with labels! Live your life for one day and say “I am [gender],” try it out for a day or so and see how it feels!

Labels are like sweaters, you can try them on for a bit and see which one is comfiest!

“What makes me happy?” and “what makes me feel truest to myself?” are better questions than “what gender am I?”

The goal of gender questioning isn’t to find a label, it’s to make yourself happy—whether having a ton of microlabels, a few umbrella labels or just going unlabelled!

Happiness is always first priority—happiness first, labels second.

It’s okay to have “contradictory” labels as long as you aren’t hurting anyone

And last of all, take your time. You don’t have to find a label tomorrow or today. It’s okay. Don’t rush, take a deep breath. Maybe you’ll find labels, maybe you won’t! And that’s okay! Live your life and be happy, that’s all that matters

Feel free to look through my #gender questioning tag if you want to!

Honestly my advice is just forget everything, names and labels and pronouns and presentation, and ask yourself one thing: what makes you happy?

Obsessing over gender and asking yourself “what gender am I?” is never useful, try asking yourself instead “what makes me happy?” and “what makes me feel truest to myself?”

Does being nonbinary make you happy? Be nonbinary!! Does using she/they make you happy?? Use she/they!! 

Make sure to prioritise your happiness!! Happiness first, labels second. Literally my dude just be happy and be yourself and everything will fall into place.

And remember, the entire queer community is here for you, okay? It might seem lonely at times but there is a whole community of people that will love you and accept you for who you are and support you no matter what. We love you and it’s going to be okay.

I hope I could help you out, and I wish you luck with your gender journey :D Lmk if you have any more questions, and have a great day/night :DD