#im a grown adult if i need to go im fucking going
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tHeY cAlLeD fOr BaKeRy To TaKe A cAlL wHeRe WhErE yOu?
#bitch get out of my face#work stuff#take 2 minutes to go to the bathroom and shes gonna bitch at me#im a grown adult if i need to go im fucking going#one of your FOUR PEOPLE can get it seeing as im WORKING ALONE#not even my fucking team lead and always has dumb shit to say to me#fuck off#despite this post im actually doing ok i just need to bitch bc she gives me a headache#why were you leaning on the counter instead of doing anything patti????#why is it the end of the world when you answer One bakery call but DAILY i have to stop#in the middle of EVERYTHING ELSE IM DOING and answer the phone for you even though theres anywhere from 3 to 5 people over there and im#usually working alone
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these are fun
#ok im finally watching DRP2 and Cinder and Wyldfyre's beef is so funny like sir you are (presumably) an adult and bullying a teenager#ive seen some takes that Cinder is a teen which i giggle at bc when i first watched DR i thought he was genuinely like 50. old ass man#go to bed grandpa#i changed my mind tho he must be a youngish adult but hes just kinda fucked up. like yeah Cinder maybe you do need ur beauty sleep#hes grown on me though. who is this DIVA#ninjago#dragons rising#my post#ninjago kai#ninjago lloyd#ninjago harumi#ninjago wyldfyre#ninjago sora#ninjago vania#ninjago arin#ninjago roby#harumi jade#princess harumi#lloyd garmadon#kai smith#kai jiang#princess vania#ninjago cinder#i forgot to tag him oops. its what he deserves#lego ninjago#amelia isn't funny
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today is such a stark contrast to yesterday in how much i fucking hate today (vent/rant in tags bc i forgor to do it on my vent one)
#[🔮] rambles ~#lmfao you speak up in this household? WRONG. MISTAKE. HOW DARE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH.#expressing your thoughts? fucking blasphemy#“oh you do know you can tell me anything anytime right? ” what a joke#gods#fuck this shit#you know what i need to learn properly? keeping my mouth fucking shut. keeping my thoughts to myself.#why do i even bother#I LITERALLY DIDNT EVEN SAY ANYTHING#just you know spoke the truth which is apparently forbidden or smth#its not my fault shes a hypocrite????? cant accept the truth thats her fucking problem#honestly i genuinely cant think of an adult around me who isnt a hypocrite but im sure there hopefully is#and then she comes again all sweet sickly smiles expecting me to shower her with love the next moment after being fucking scolded like hell#for saying ome single fucking line of my thoughts that she so encourages me to “express”#as if everything is my fucking fault#atp i hate myself as much too bc why do i let myself get affected i should have grown used to this shit years ago#i should know better than to let her get to me yet look at me being a sentimental lil bitch#god i just wanna get out of here please#anyways shit this didnt go to my vent blog fuck im sorry yall had to read that guys please feel free to ignore lmao#but yk i had to get my feelings out somewhere bc wwll i bottle up enough already lol#tw vent
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like its your life and you can do whatever you want with it im just here to make it a little easier but if you dont want to clean your room or fold your laundry or make your bed or open the blinds that’s fine. I guess. I will go work for someone who wants to work with me
#b#grown adult not wanting to do chores what are you going to do when you move out. You need to build these skills NOW so it’s easier later#U are not hopeless or helpless you can do these things. im here to help. I will not do it for you but i will teach you how.#im trying to meet you in the middle here but you do not want to work on these skills so i am leaving goodbye. Fuck
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Hot take but I just read a long post about someone being so upset and angry about the way the other people on empires treat Jimmy Solidarity (pranks, making fun of him, ect) and people in the replies were agreeing and talking about how distraught it makes them and all I can say is you should really stop watching his/others' Empires videos if its making you that upset because I can guarantee that its all in good fun and the man is having a perfectly okay time. He's having fun with his friends, they just like to rag on him. My friends like to rag on me too and it's totally fine, I enjoy it. You're projecting and you're, like, WAY too invested if it's upsetting you like that. You're turning him having fun with his friends into something it's not.
Stop using his videos to make yourself miserable :| Go watch something else instead of being self destructive and then whining about it online when there's not even anything wrong or mean really happening :| I'm so serious when I say that this is chronically online behavior and you need to go talk to a professional because that is Not Normal.
#not to tumblr subtweet or whatever but what the fuck guys#get offline. genuinely#he is having fun with his friends. he is having a good time.#they were like “its giving me flashbacks to middle school” DUDE. STOP WATCHING. HIS VIDEOS GO AS HE WANTS THEM TOO. HE EDITS AND CHOOSES WH#AT TO POST. YOU ARE PROJECTING AND YOU'RE BEING A DICK. HE AND HIS FRIENDS ARE GOOFY IN A WAY THAT WOULD PERSONALLY MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE.#LIKE OKAY SURE!!! IF YOU DONT LIKE IT THEN THATS OKAY AND YOU DONT HAVE TO BE IN THAT SITUATION. BUT YOURE BEING A DICK BY COMPLAINING ABOU#T IT AND WHINING ONLINE ABOUT HOW HE INTERACTS WITH HIS FRIENDS. IT IS PLAYFUL AND ENJOYABLE FOR HIM BECAUSE IF IT WASNT HE'D NOT BE DOING#IT BECAUSE HES AN ADULT AND HE WOULD TELL HIS FRIENDS (IN PRIVATE WHERE YOU CANT SEE IT) THAT WHAT THEYRE DOING IS UPSETTING HIM#you are being parasocial my guy#also stop using his videos to hurt yourself dude what??? that is not healthy???#sorry for ranting. im sure ill get upset people in asks again. thats fine#idrc because im a fucking adult and i recognize that a grown ass man wouldnt be behaving like this and having a villain arc in minecraft#because he was genuinely mad at his friends :| and that you need to do something if seeing it is upsetting you and that its unhealthy that#people agree with you and theyre basically enabling you/encouraging you by acting like its normal to be so upset over something innocuous#rant over#aim.rant#aim.txt#jimmy solidarity#solidarity gaming#solidaritygaming#mcyt
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Being an older sister in a dysfunctional family living separately from the parent who is raising the kid is like actually being subjected to all circles of hell whenever you think about family too hard
#i want to be a good sister but i have absoutely no time i dont know when they want me around either because they wont call#and i mean. the kid is half a year old already. fuck#i want to help!!! i want to go hang out!! i want the sort of family my peers have!!#its 12th year i need to study so much and they dont live in the same city as i do.#i have to take the bus back home and then keep going from there to another city if i want to visit#last time my father spoke to me it was a text on my birthday asking if im home. when i said no he didnt even respond#last 2 times i visited them it was me initiating despite him promising he'd also call more#i dont feel like he actually wants me around. thats fucking stupid but like the guy has a baby now why would he need a grown ass adult kid#before she was born i wouldnt have give a fuck honestly cause he sucks. but combined with the fact that again i wanna be involved.#and im worried about his parenting bc he 'parented' me so hard im an avid tumblr user now#im certainly in a mental state today bc ive been thinking about this since i heard a baby make cute baby noises on the bus today.... :(
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I'm reading the transgender issue and ive just remembered in 2016 when a group of grown ass educated adults blamed me for the fact that two of my friends "thought" they were transgender because they thought I was influencing them.
#and then again when my friends mum threatened to cut them off if they moved in with me#despite the fact that theyve been out for almost as long as i have#because she thought i was going to medical transition him#the fact that fully grown adult people genuinely believe that I am contagious and insidious just for being trans is insane#im 21 now but people have been treating me like this since 13!!!#people who fucking well know better have been telling me that its my fault and my influence#my peers also blamed me and my friends for everyone who came out as gay in school#as though its a bad thing and there needs to be blame#its just insane#and fucked me up in terms of growing up feeling violent and predatory just for existing#but also how much would it fuck up a kid to be told no you actually have no agency in self identification#youre being influenced and you dont even know it because you dont know yourself#why do we not just fucking kill these people!!!#coming out young makes you not just a target from children but from adults! who are supposed to be looking after you!#you are seen as putting other children and risk and confusing them#as a threat#I wasnt a threat i was a child!!!!!#al is talking
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it's still wild to see my ex subposting abt me after 2??? years? like not only that they completely micharacterise me if that's even possible. like get over it jesus christ.
#🌱 ventish#apparently according to them i cheated#and lovebombed them#which like ok#you think whatevrr you wanna think#i have bpd and i couldnt physically think of anything but them until the day i split then we gradually drifted#if the “lovebombing” you assume was manipulation was me being so utterly obsessed with you that i couldnt live my daily life#then going to a regular style of relaxed loving#then you have some major problems#and all your relationships will be doomed to fail#but the cheating thing ?? are you fucking kidding me??#i am one of the most loyal people i know#especially when they were my fp at the time#??? why are you lying to make yourself seem like the better person#its petty#youre a grown ass adult#act like it#like i know im just ranting in tags at this point but its like dude are you fucking kidding me#shittalk me i dont care#but ?? LYING ??#theres enough bad shit abt me you dont even need to lie when youre gonna talk abt me behind my back#the fact you need to lie says enough#so ok be childish
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You know that story, I can’t remember where it’s from, if it was tumblr or reddit, but this woman was a DM for a d&d group and gave her players, that were all men, golden star stickers for things like, showering, not talking over each other, being respectful, like basic shit like that, and I feel like I fell into something extremely similar and I just felt like a teacher/mom figure for this really big friend group that consisted of all men with bad social skills and there was a point where I wanted to distance myself and I didn’t really have a way and things happened in the friend group where I ended up like blocking everyone and I honestly feel so relieved
#my nature is just to be a nonconfrontational person bc I grew up in a place where I was never able to speak up#it this year I’ve been communicating more#even if it’s things that make me really uncomfortable#I just need to be at peace#it’s funny too bc I did end up being the DM for that group as well#but like they’re grown adults and not my responsibility#also I’ve been actively avoiding certain places bc I don’t want to run into any of them but I don’t care anymore and I’ll go where I want#like im just so tired of dealing with grown ass adults that act like 13 year olds#one would say really bad things just to upset people#and I tried explaining to him like 3 times why he can’t say the n word and he kept going and told me he saw it as teasing me#I just still can’t get over that#it’s so fucking ridiculous#its not rewarding trying to help shit people#it just wears you out
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If one more middle-aged white woman talks to me in The Baby Voice(tm) I am going to snap is2g. Like. I am a 6' tall 20-year-old man going to vote in a polling station. There is no way for me to be mistaken for a child. The only different between me and everyone else here is that I am with my parents (not by choice, legally can't drive bcuz of my conditions) and am walking with a cane. And if it were legal I would beat everyone who babytalks and patronizes me into a pulp with it.
#I am a fully functional* grown ass adult man. I neither need nor want you to call me sweetie#I wish all ableist fucks a very go die in a hole#IM LITERALLY FUCKING VOTING GO TO HELL I DONT NEED YOU TO B LIKE THIS JFC#I am irrationally pissed abt this today#armchair speaks#ableism#physical disability#actually disabled#cripple punk
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if we are not established friends - and i mean we talk often or at length with clear enthusiasm from both sides. both of which had a normal relationship development rate YOU CANNOT SPAM MESSAGE ME OR VENT UR SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!
#personal#i’m gonna sound very mean i’m gonna very mean#before that first. 💯% my own fault!#okay not 100 but mostly#like do i start these convos or look for these connections. NO! but they come to me and i don’t shut them down#which makes me feel awful bc imagine trying to establish a friendship with someone and thinking okay we’re talking more this is going good#but from their side they are genuinely getting frustrated and annoyed at the frequency and just message itself and frankly you#the morally correct thing would be being the bigger person and saying no i’m sorry im not feeling this. but also that’s so much.#and i’d feel so bad when obviously this makes the other party feel like shit#but onto mean meaner than that whole bit i am straight stating to hate this girl im talking to#it feels like she doesn’t have a life outside of me sometimes!!!!!!!#like she sends an iphone game i respond within whatever length of time and regardless if it’s a minute or 3 hours she responds within the#same MINUTE. EVERYTIME#she’s asking about random people i kinda know she’s asking if i know anyone who needs a roommate or a laptop or a place she can stay#i’m not an asshole i was like okay are you okay and safe and she was but also just not ideal circumstances#she’s messaging me about instagram posts i like she’s asking questions about isreal and i wish i was joking#but at her grown ass adult age she’s referring to russia isreal etc as a bag of poops#this is bc i posted about the new cap movie and to not support it and also disney being evil blah blah#but she’s asking questions about israel and disney and. i have to answer bc it’s great for people to ask questions especially about this#but lord all mighty above it hurt. and she’s doing that thing of explaining that she did something but DOES support the movement but still#did a thing and is looking for validation which. is never fun.#like you don’t have to tell me that you have a disney plus account but you feel bad you know?#and she just messaged me about some dude ignoring her i think the ex that cheated idk#also the dude who asked for ten bucks he asked to talk twice this week and i was like no. bc i didn’t want to#once i figure out that i can block people purely for annoying me it’s over#it doesn’t matter if they haven’t done anything objectively wrong i’m allowed to say no more#straight up i’m just gonna start ignoring messaging from people i don’t fuck with#like second i dont have people im like okay i feel too bad to not respond to im never doing this shit again.#like nothing worse than working a 12 hour than getting a message from someone who’s humor and texting style you can’t stand asking to talk#i think partially i’m depressed but i am sick of talking to people bc THEY like me duh im easy to like i don’t like you back bc ur not
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I fell up a step stool at work, trying to get workers comp is a thing and a half don't do it lol
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luckily it's just a bad strain, but im also kinda sad I didn't break my shit for milestones sake lol. It happened at 12:40am and I worked till 5:40am when my manager came in as well lul.
I figured it wasn't broken cuz I could wiggle my toes and could stand on it without being in immense pain, but when I got home my Mom saw and she's a nurse and she said there's a possibility something could be broken bc it swelled immediately - im uncertain if i heard a pop or crunch bc I had headphones in :).
But getting workers comp - I was told to go home, mother told me I need to get it seen/an xray, called back told I should've filled out an incident report, didn't get to do that till the next day, where there the managers just handed me a list of doctors that work with my work. I start calling places, one place it took 3 calls to figure out they don't take workers comp any more, another said they couldn't see me for two weeks, and then another place had to be the one to tell me 'oh - [your work] is supposed to set up the appointment for you' - *why* give me a list of doctors if they're going to choose anyway - more back and forth calls with my manager and like the head of the store - finally HR guy gets in contact with me - apparently your initial visit is covered regardless of where it's at - great perfect there's an urgent care right down the road from me, start heading there, HR guy calls and says the *urgent care* is also by appointment only, so I head to one that's 30 mins away -MIND YOU- im driving myself around, uncertain if my shits broken or not lol. But after that it was fairly smooth sailing, the walk-in clinic was very nice and the HR guy is very sweet and helpful - letsfuckinggo Greg.
The doctor was also concerned about it being broken which makes me feel better, and not just like My Mom being A Mom tm and concerned. The doctor/we were concerned about the high tiny bones. But yeah just a bad strain. It happened on 'Tuesday' (i work nightshift so tues 11 to wed 7am) and my schedule worked so that I was off wed and thurs,, that was my two days off 🙃🙃🙃.
My Manager (whos a Good guy) has "threatened" that he's got sit down work for me and evil laughing lol. There's been talk of physical therapy but idk. But that's whats happening with me lul
#ghost rambling#it's just a bad strain but goddamn#the Stress tm of trying to figure this stuff out is a lot#no one cares but my blog is for me and a summary of shite that happens in my life lul#ive never broken nor strained anything so this was definitely an experience#and now i know how to get workers comp which hopefully never happens again Or I can help someone who also needs it lol#ive got a brace and yeah physically im doing fine - mentally this was a lot for someone who fucking dreads making phone calls and appts.#honestly tho the calling and back and forth hasnt been as anxiety inducing as usual - i think the Cocern for Injury has outweighed#the everything else. This has been a speed run tho of the idea that 'adults dont know everything'#like the phenomenon of being grown is just going from place A and saying 'i need to do this/dumb question' and the ease of the Experienced#Worker/Helper taking in stride with no judgement of being like 'ah yes you do x/y/z' go to place/person B#ppl are helpful and really are just trying to do there job like regardless - that doesnt fully make sense - but like you dont have to know#how to do everything - folks will help and point you in the right direction
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My therapist always asks if I'm eating. For some reason it feels really embarrassing.
#me *not QUITE lying*: i get at least one good healthy meal a day and also have smaller snacks#i need to. feel less shame i guess#unlearning shame is why I'm going to see her tho#so so so. i shouldn't fudge my answers even a little bit#it's just. hard to shake. especially when everything is so hard. god. but it feels pathetic.#I'm a grown adult. i should be able to fucking feed myself.#i should be able to pull myself together I should be. better.#...but that's what therapy is for right? im trying#i swear im trying#personal#*sigh*
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It is officially time to set up a new bank account!
#I am so fucking stupid and I am so fucking mad#I’m still using the first bank account I ever made. which my mother has access to….#it’s never been an issue before she’s never looked at it#well 🙃#apparently that has changed now#and she just started messaging me about how I needed to be more responsible with my money because she didn’t like how I was spending it#I’m going to fucking hit her with my car I swear to Christ#I’m actually v good with my money for one#I literally always pay bills on time AND put portions of my paycheck into savings#but I set everything up so I’d have a whole paycheck to spend at the con#and apparently she’s been stalking my accounts and did not like that#fUCK#like that makes me so fucking pissed!!!!!!#I’m a grown ass adult and what I do with my money is none of your damn business#and now she’s acting like IM being an asshole because I’m like ‘why the fuck are you even looking’#I can’t stand this woman so much it is FUCKING unreal#but now at least I’m finally motivated enough to actually make an account#I really should have done it forever ago and I feel stupid for not….#it’s just. ugh. UGH! I shouldn’t have to because she’s an obsessive control freak!!!!#you shouldn’t be stalking your kids financial information!#ESPECIALLY when I’ve never been in any kind of financial trouble before#kaz rambles
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How to Raise Your BatBoy
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Dick sighed into his cup of coffee. This is not what he wanted to see when he woke up in the morning. That and the giant bat wing covering his face this morning.
Danny was getting bigger. Not physically but his bat features are changing. The teen was getting better at changing shape. His ears are sharper ending in slight points, his fingers are more clawlike, and he has grown a thick ringed collar of white fur around his neck. Thankfully that's as far as his transformation can go right now. Danny has learned to pick and choose what traits he wants.
Danny has claimed Dick's gymnastic equipment as his. The aerial equipment is now used as roosts for Danny to hang off of and nap. But that hasn't stopped him from sleeping on top of Dick like an overgrown cat.
Bat wings expel a lot of heat as blood circulates through the thin skin which cools the blood in hot environments that they are native to. So to regulate their temperature they rest together to conserve heat. That's probably why Danny decided to grow the fur collar and sleep on top of Dick.
And why is Dick so frustrated? Because he's fighting for his goddamn life in this house. His cute aggression is barely contained. He wants to squish the kid's cheeks and ruffle his hair all the time.
Dick would be going over case files while Danny watches tv on the floor and Dick will feel the insatiable NEED to go bother him.
That damn fuzzy neck fur calls to him like a cat picking up a kitten.
Danny chirps! He fucking chirps! Like a baby bird!
Dick is trying so hard to be normal but if you had an adorable and clingy batboy you'd do the same.
Dick wants to tell the world about his batboy.
And he does. When he's Nightwing he will not shut up about how much he adores his sidekick. God forbid Robin is visiting, Dick will cry while taking hundreds of pictures of them together.
Damian doesn't like Batboy at all. At least that's what he says. He's just jealous that Batboy has bat wings. Damian warms up to him after they go out gliding together and get to study his wings.
It however goes downhill when they go on a misadventure and Batboy took a bite out of Scarecrow. Batboy had an immunity to fear toxins, instead, it overstimulated him. He ended up lounging at Scarecrow when he taunted Damian as the boy was paralyzed by the gas. When Damian was able to get back on his feet he found Batboy sobbing with his mouth covered in blood.
"Im sorry. I didn't. I didn't mean to-" His wings shielded him from sight.
Scarecrow was alive but the two sets of puncture wounds on his neck and the claw marks were not doing him any favors. The bite seemed to render him immobile at least for now. A symptom of a bat bite was paralysis.
Damian notified the others. Bruce and Dick got there first. Both adults were thankful they were okay but there was a disagreement.
"Nightwing you don't even know what the boy is. He could have killed Scarecrow. We don't know what he's capable of yet. He lost control." Batman stated firmly looking at the blood-stained teen that clung to Nightwing.
"He was protecting Damian. He didn't want to do that." Nightwing pulled Batboy behind him.
"It doesn't matter what he wanted to do. What will you do if he loses control and actually kills someone next time?" Bruce crossed his arms.
"All of us are capable of losing control and killing. I did it and you never came down on me like this. You are a hypocrite. You think he's a monster because he's not human." Nightwing was not going to let Batman point a finger at his son like this. He killed Joker once and he had don it out of rage and hate, not even to protect someone else.
"What I'm saying is that he isnt human. We don't don't know how he can be affected. We don't know his weaknesses. What if someone else figures out what fear toxin does to him and turns him into a weapon? Will his guilt be enough to stop him or will it destroy him? Do you want him to become like Man-Bat? Do you want to put your son in danger?" Batman didn't give in to Nightwing's taunt and stated his view firmly.
"We're leaving." Nightwing picked up the shrinking Batboy and made his escape but not before hugging Robin goodbye.
Nightwing had to move quickly. He could feel Danny getting smaller with every step.
This happened sometimes. Danny would sometimes retreat inwards when he was stressed. He changed to become as vulnerable as he felt.
When they got home Danny looked to be just 3 years old.
"Its okay baby bat. Not one is going to hurt you. I promised remember?" Dick held the chind aginst his chest.
"I'm so sorry. It's all my fault." Danny said between gasping breaths trying not to cry. His small wings wrapped around Dick's shoulders
"No, its not. You did the right thing no matter what Batman says. I'm proud of you."Dick said stroking Danny's black-streaked white locks.
(*Does a silly jig*)
#i regret nothing#batman#danny fenton#danny phantom#dc x dp#dc x dp prompt#dp x dc prompt#dpxdc#nightwing#damian wayne#dick grayson
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sequel
*deep, deep, deep sigh*
yeah i think my other hip is sprained too
#i am going to commit acts of unspeakable violence /j /nlh#no what i'm actually going to do is get some help for this problem and then lawyer the fuck up#because i could have a case against my parents for what they did to me#wrt isolating me and not getting me out of the house which is probably something that massively increased my risk factor for this happening#and if im gonna burn that bridge anyways i might as well light a lantern while it's going#idk what i even want#just... enough money to cover my cost of living?#and some kind of preventative measures put in place so that they never have guardianship over me or any other vulnerable adult again?#or children either?#because so help me god if they decide that now that all the kids are grown they need to foster more or some shit#i will set the record straight because nobody deserves to go through what i have#either way i am going to put documentation together because i can't sit back and let them do this to anyone else
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