#ill try to be more active 🥰

[vxperorchist]

I posted my children go eat

[kaserollymoved]

Finally the hard part of this week is over and I can rest aaaaaaa 😩😌💕

[alienaiver]

i know this is a bit old-school tumblr style posting., but the tags and search engine of tumblr stresses me out, so ill do it this way!

id really really like to follow more active haikyuu, bnha, dgm and jujutsu kaisen writing blogs! (and maybe catch some new moots as well ahaha jk! ....unless?)

i am a sfw gender neutral reader-insert writer for hq, dgm and bnha myself! im 29 years old and i dont mind following blogs that also write nsfw, as long as its properly tagged. just beware i will generally only interact with your sfw parts !!

so if youre writing any of the aforementioned fandoms and post semi-regularly (any posts are fine, writing is an ebb and flow, so reblogs count in activity for me). please reblog this post and ill follow you !! (specifically a reblog so that it will reach more, thank you!!).

i will follow from my main blog, @/lordpopuko.

i try my best to reblog fics and foster community as often as possible. i also like adding several comments to the fics that i reblog, so theres no downside to having me follow you ehehehe 🥺 <3 (check out this tag of recs to see examples of my type of comments if ur curious?)

if my moots or other followers would be kind enough to reblog this as a boost, id be eternally grateful in my quest to find more activity on my own dash. ill send you all a gift basket filled with cookies, berries and plenty of snøfle fur to go round thank youuu🥰

ps i also wont expect follow backs btw i just need more on my dash :) so no obligation to do so! only if youd like to !!! ✨

[tellywoodtrash]

Hello TT! Hope you are doing well, I lurked in after a really long time so thought would say hello and let you know how much your blog has impacted my life. I started following your blog religiously when I discovered Ishqbaaz, it was almost an obsession how zealously I followed your blog and the show. I was on the cusp of Adulthood, just two years short. All pieces of fiction were merely me trying to escape my horrible home life. I have always indulged in fiction, it has mostly been books tbh but there were times after I had access to a phone when tellywood lured me in. After IB, I just followed you for your wit and boldness. I imagined this is how my elder sister would be if I had one (since I am the elder sibling in the house). You actually hooked me to AryLie as well, and for that I am most grateful since I somehow found a supportive community through AryLie fandom (long story). I know you don't follow tellywood anymore, I too switched to Kdramas and Cdramas over the years. Oh, I also gave Suno Chanda a try; thanks to you and Mais. Absolutely delightful. The thing is I felt my appreciation towards your constant support (even if you weren't aware) should be at least known. You speak for so many girls in this blog of yours, always giving everyone a warm hug to those who need it and a virtual asskicking to who are being jerks. People you follow truly shape you, it's the way I have felt validated by when you spoke what I believed it; it's the way you introduced me to life changing fiction just when I needed it; it's the way you have been present for the last nine years in my life. I have always struggled with suicide ideation but if it has taught me anything; it's to always express the gratitude you are feeling. Life is so unpredictable anyway. I want to be appreciated and appreciate others as well. That's humanity to me. This connection where we truly value each other. Anyway, so sorry for the long ramble. I hope wherever you are, you always stay well, physically healthy and mentally sane. Adieu, my internet sister. I will keep checking in 💌

Oh my heart, I am actually here like........

Just the other day, I'd been thinking wistfully of all the community I felt through this blog, wondering if any of y'all are still even around. This message honestly feels like the universe's answer to that. 🥰🥰🥰

This blog started out as just me shouting into the void about nonsense ITV, but it grew into so much more thanks to you all. I am an only child (and wouldn't have it any other way!) and know nothing of being a sibling, but somehow I felt so fiercely protective of every single person I've talked to through this blog, that idk how, I just became an honorary big sister. It's a badge I wear with utmost honour, even though we don't even know each others' names!

Just know, even if I am not watching Tellywood anymore/super active on this blog, I'm still here on tumblr everyday (it's my safe corner on the internet) and you guys can reach out whenever! Life goes on, interests change, and we grow as people. But this blog and I don't plan on going anywhere, and it'll always be a home for y'all to drop in when you need it. 🏠🏠🏠💖💖💖

PS - I'm proud of you for finding a community of your own, and kicking mental illness's ass on the regular. I'm right there with you (on the suicide ideation) and we're not going down without fighting tooth and nail, sis. There are people out there who we care about, and who care about us, and that's literally alllllll that life is all about, baby!!!!!!!! Go on and live your best life to the fullest, and always remember that this internet big sister of yours is always proud of you. *forehead smoochies*

[erosedescending]

A Drone at Work

Yesterday i wanted to see what it was like ro be drone at work, so i prepared my self to activate my drone self. When i went to work, i self activated. My dronespace only lasted about 20 minutes. Not bad for a first try.

Today i decided to try again. it was... different... the dronespace seemed to fluctuate in and out. not in any kind of abrupt way, though. More like an ebb and flow between light dronespace and light humanspace (did i just invent a new word?). More time was spent in the humanspace over all.

I consider the day a success. And that it is amazing for a second try. Before long, it will be an easy thing to drone away the workday. Im really looking forward to it. While the drone is working, ill be resting, safe and comfy in my lil mind oubliette. 🥰

Thank you, controller! ☺️

[v3nusxsky]

🤒🥰❤️‍🩹lesso please

Let's say lesso had to go on this little trip(1-2 week trip) and came back to her lovely wife reader at the castle. In the morning she came in to see her sleep in her clothes right. Wakes her up and it's adorable until R feels a little off runs into the bathroom and throws up. Nora then asks if it was something like food poisoning, reader then says this been happening 2 days after you left. So of course there trying to figure out wut it is Clarissa and Emma comes in to see lesso but sees things are off. Emma then gets an idea, and asks a few questions and all the same things on pregnancy so they get a test and left lesso and her wife alone. Took test finds out pregnant kiss, cuddle, I love you so much party with the two.

Sorry this was long

A piece of you

*Authors note~ i know this is part of the Drabble game I did a while back but I couldn't help but turn it into a fic*

Trigger warnings~ pregnancy sickness

Prompt~ see ask^^^^^

You missed Leonora, but knew why she had to go. Still didn't make it any better easier to be without your lover for two weeks. And what made it even worse was that two days before she was due to arrive home you managed to come down with some strange illness. You woke up feeling nauseous which had resulted in you spending most of the morning in the bathroom, exhausted and empty you returned back to your bed where you managed to sleep a few hours. Vivid dreams plaguing your sleep of a red headed blue eyed little girl, Isla she was called and it felt so real. Sometimes the dreams were positive and others you and Leonora were fighting threats to the little girl. Occasionally successfully and others not.

So it wasn't surprising you found comfort in sleeping in Leonora's shirt. It was light and airy and was hers. So Leonora felt her heart swell with love and pride at the sight of you. Curled up hugging the covers like it was a lifeline. Lesso came to sit with you and ran her hands through your hair to wake you up gently. One minute you looked all peaceful, your eyelashes slowly fluttering open and a sleepy smile on your face. The next minute you were up and rushing to the bathroom, another bout of sickness hitting you like a freight train. To say Leonora was worried was an absolute understatement.

Lesso immediately hurried after you, concern plastered across your face. "Sweetheart, have you got something like food poisoning? Or a sickness bug?"she murmured to you while she scooped your hair back from your face as you groaned feeling exhausted. "Past two days Nora" you whined unhappily causing the red head to worry more. "You should've got a message to me darling, I would've come straight back here" she reassured you only to be cut off by more sounds of you throwing up.

Only when you were back in your room did you hear a knock at the door and two of your closest friends had come to see your girlfriend to be debriefed on her two week trip away. "Not right now, she's not well" she murmured hardly sparing them a glance as she placed her hand to your forehead to check your temperature. "Sickness? No temperature? Any other symptoms" Clarissa queried only to be answered by yourself explaining the vivid dreams you were having. That was when Emma chirped in with some information you hadn't processed till now.

Depending on your activities with Leonora you could very well be pregnant. After all you have all the signs. So they got you a test before leaving you and your girlfriend in peace to take it. You did just that with shaky hands, waiting for the three minutes to tick by felt like a life time was passing. But seeing the little flickering positive sign was one the best and scariest times of your lives. To say it was a shock was certainly an understatement but you both couldn't be happier with the news. You both sat on the bathroom floor in each others embrace sharing kisses as you took in the news, soaking in the happiness you both felt.

Word count~ 731

[neptunedivine]

astro observations pt. i

✧ neptune in aquarius generation ✧

(tw: possible conversational topics)

Hi everyone! I wanted to first say thank you so much to everyone who liked, reblogged, and/or followed me after my recent post. I wasn’t expecting that response at all and it really made my week!! I also wanted to mention that I am not an astrologer, I’m a computer science student (whose semester starts in a week) so consistency isn’t a strong suit rn. Regardless, I appreciate the support. 🥰

Here are a few observations I’ve noticed with the Aquarius Neptune Generation (as someone with this placement) - I do relay my points back to astrology but these are just my opinions. It’s okay to disagree! :)

✧ for context, Neptune rules over the zodiac sign Pisces and themes of dreams, illusions, mystics, intuition, imagination, etc. Aquarius and those who carry placements in this sign (more obviously if the placement is prominent) express characteristics of intelligence, invention, humanitarianism, friendliness, altruism, and reformation.

fake activism ✧ I feel like a lot of people in this generation are only activists online, or the power they either choose to or believe that they have is digital. Like they will repost an infographic about a human rights issue but won’t make any physical permanent change (i.e. a donation or bringing it up in conversations with their friends to spread more awareness). That activism and reformation being talked about is the Aquarius feature, but the lack of permanence is the Neptunian feature.

✧ I could go deeper into this but I feel like the discussion could be seen as controversial, so I’ll spare the details.

fake wealth ✧ There are a lot of influencers and people on the internet that flex their wealth online. Presenting this false persona of themselves. In reality, this isn’t true. I feel like a lot of the time we’re told this but without knowing how many people are doing this. Traditionally the 11H is governed by Aquarius and one of the themes of the 11H is community, so I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s a lot of people. I feel like when Saturn transits Taurus in the future, this could come to light?

(Saturn will transit through Taurus until fall 2029, go retrograde in Aries until spring 2030, and will remain in Taurus until spring 2032)

✧ The only reason I infer this is that Saturn returns are like check-ins to make sure you’re putting in the work to take care of yourself, your life, and your decisions relating to your Saturn placement. If you have, you will be rewarded by Saturn, and if not you will be disciplined. And something about lying to people about your wealth seems valid of that discipline.

being chronically online ✧ This one annoys me because I swear the world would be a much better place with common sense and critical thinking skills…anyway. A lot of people try to be a voice for what they view as an underrepresented community, without questioning the validity of their statement.

today someone in a comment section on my fyp said that “being chronically online is an insult to chronically ill people” 😐😑😐

that’s all for now. see you later!

[bitchkay]

Can i get soft Addis Ira hcs?

[Ask received Aug 26th 2023]

Ouu soft Addis is definitely a thought

Let's see

In an AU where Addis isn't y'know... that😳 and where hes actually a dad and a non corrupt king

That's actually kinda wholesome hold on--

Soft! Addis Ira Hcs☆

In a world where Addis dosen't blatantly call Lance a terrible son(while also actively being a a terrible father) hes... well a completely different person

Lance's daddy issues started as young as the womb cus why I find out Lance's mom was actually married to Addis- WHY TF WERE THEY LIVING IN THE DESERT?????????????????????

Unlike the other kings that are just like "oh I'm trying to protect them" "oh I'm trying to prepare them for dadadada" "oh this that and the third" bro is blatantly abusive💀💀 I'm pretty sure he knows he's shitty, he doesn't give a fuck

So an AU where... that's not the case is literally just flipping the switch, take everything bad and get rid of it🥰🥰

In an AU where Addis isn't an asshole Lance's mom would def still be alive that's for sure

Yall they can be a family yall🥰💖

Lance deserves that much

Lance deserves to have a proper family

Lance growing up not only with a dad in the home but yk actually having a home to live in--

That could've saved bro so much trauma

Addis is getting the Toji treatment yall I'm sorry💀 call this the cod equivalent of dad toji with baby megumi au💀💀

Can yall imagine Addis doting on his wife💞

Lance's mom died of a curable illness so in a AU where Addis dosen't indirectly kill her I can imagine him sitting at her bed side while shes sick, holding her hand, a little Lance on the other side sleeping next to her

Yall that's so cute

Lance is a mama boy, don't matter how good of a dad Addis can be little Lance will stick to his mama's side

Even go as far as push his dad away to have her all to himself

"She my wife." "But she's my mommy😠"

Addis and Lance are constantly fighting over his moms attention

Its actually really cute how little Lance get so possessive over his mom

*Addis giving his wife a kiss on the cheek* Lance: Daddy what are you doing!?🤬🤬 *pulls them apart* Mommy can I have a kiss too😇😇

Don't get me wrong the little guy loves both his parents but that's his mommy!!

Don't get it twisted tho, the boys out number her so where ever mischief ensues you know the Ira men have been😼

Yall do you think if they were in love they would have more kids😭💞💞

Lance would be an amazing big brother

Nah like imagine Lance's parents going up to him like hey bud you're gonna have a little brother or sister I'D CRY SO HARD😭😭

Imagine Lance w/ a little sister

STOP IT😭😭

I mean sure not EVERYTHING is Addis' fault but we were truely robbed, like imagine if Addis was soft and sweet and nice and Lance had a normal (as normal as a prince can get) childhood

WE WE'RE ROBBED‼😭😭

We really could've had at least a non hostile father-son relationship and didn't it's not fair😭

Omg imagine Addis as a girl dad😭

Like that's his princess

And w/ Lance as a big brother too like THAT LITTLE GIRL WOULD BE SPOILED ASF

And shes apart of the Ira clan too, yall forgot Ira represents wrath, that girl would be tough as nails, nobody can tell her shit

She beats the shit outta some fool being disrespectful and Addis and Lance look so proud.

I guess if Addis is good the country wouldn't be in shambles--

Well the country isn't in shambles perse

But if Addis isn't actively contributing to everything bad assuming Ira has been the way it is for a long time, I'd think there's at least a foundation there for Lance to take over as king to even more steps reform the country cus that's not an easy feat and can take probably decades maybe more to achieve

Please god makes the wealth gap not so violent--

Anyway guys they're a family imagine Addis taking a young lance outside to play

Playing out in the garden, hide and seek with papa

Let's get the old man involved imagine Zeneau is with Lance right, giving him his little princely etiquette lesson and stuff and then Addis comes to grab Lance for dinner and and Lance is like DADDY and runs up to him

I'm unwell guys

We were robbed

More than that bitch slaughtered this will never happen

Yall imagine if Addis was nice

Crazy

[office-hours-affection-if]

small update:

sorry for being inactive! i was too busy with other things unrelated to OHA 😫 so i just recently started writing the demo and writing more RO reacts, answering some other asks too. ill try to get more active even if its just reblogs.

i just also noticed i’ve hit 400 followers! thank you so much, whether you reblog, like, ask or lurk 🥰 it means alot for me!

hoping everything goes well in my life so i can put more contents ^^

[house-of-slayterr]

Major Blog Updates!!!!!

TLDR: I will be on a Writing hiatus as I do some digital spring cleaning and restart some old stories I’m not happy with. But expect many new crazy life updates now that I’ve moved. And some old, or maybe new ocs will start slowly trickling back in.

No wonder I was so stressed last year, I have 11 active series and counting… 💀 and yes, I am insane enough that I’m about to restart most of them from scratch. I wasn’t happy with the way things were going with most of them, and how sloppily they were written as I never expected there to be so many of you, to whom I’m very grateful for 🥺🥰🫀

This move seemed like the perfect time to just reinvent myself as a whole, and that includes my social media presence. I’m trying to build better, healthier habits this year. And one of them is learning how to say no every once and a while. Slow down and enjoy the little things. My Autism and OCD make it very difficult for me to say no to writing requests. But I’m working hard to make sure to only accept requests when I have the energy and the excitement to do so. I would be devastated to give you all content that I know is not my best, which is why I think a rewrite is in order. 🥰

It will be a big daunting task, but the point of it is to teach me to learn to approach my fear tasks like this. I have seriously considered becoming a writer for real and taking this more seriously, and Fan Fics are the perfect way to practice. Because you all always leave such lovely feedback 🥺 and it’s my favourite of writing. There would be no point to my words if they couldn’t be shared, and to have you all want me to write for you all the time is one of the greatest honours I could ever receive.

I love being able to give you all back even a fraction of the joy you bring me, by bringing your wildest dreams to life. You’re all like family to me and I love you so much. 🫀

So yeah, sorry if your faves aren’t back for a while, EVERYONES getting a MAJOR makeover, but they will be back and better than ever! I’ll keep the old stories up in case people liked reading them. But pretty much from here on out, assume none of my old writing is “Cannon”.

Also, New rule for any future requests. Please, please, please make them specific. DO NOT as questions like “can I get a micheal Myers fix” 💀 like sure, you can… but it’s not gonna be good unless you give me a prompt. Also please try to state any specific details you want added if it’s not just a vague x reader I.E. pronouns, name/nicknames, ethnicity…

Bare With me as my tumblr gets a major face lift. I’m gonna be doing a mass edit, making new master lists and fixing side blogs. From here on out all master lists and things to do with OCs will be posted and backed up on @the-slayter-archives I will still post fan fics on here first, but they’ll be backed up on there so they don’t get lost in all my reblogs 😅

Nothing makes me happier than writing for you all, but last year I let it get out of hand and stress me out to a very dangerous point. This year I will be more proactive about taking my time and not overloading myself with requests.

As for the Role Play blogs, they will also be getting a face lift. But do not fret my sweets, I will have everything neatly organised for your handy Dandy viewing pleasure. I will do my very best to keep on top of master lists and links (bare in mind I am still disabled and chronically ill so sometimes it just takes me a while to do things) that way there’s no stress for me in the future and I can keep track of all my things nice and neatly. My autism demands routine and hyper-specific organisation categories. And I’m tried of trying to fight it, so I’m willing to put in the work to make some healthy routines in the hopes that my brain will feel less like that of Frankenstein’s monster.

I will make Rule posts and DNI banners for all my pages. Therefore there’s less room for miscommunications. And I will be far more active about remembering to put Tw/CW. My wonderful partner @disableddee has agreed to help me edit works in the future and proof for triggering topics. Unfortunately Due to the environment I was raised in, it’s hard for me to tell when things are traumatic or abusive. So I never mean to trauma dump or forget tags on purpose. I genuinely do. It realise some of these topics may be triggering to other people, and of course I want to be very sensitive to that. 

Was I sobbing typing this post? That’s a secret I’ll never tell… xoxo Gosip Girl

Tag: @queer-and-utter-chaos @emeraldfangs @mothmans-kingdom @spencermaybank @joelsgeetar @x-littlemoth @frenziedslashers @willowbrookesblog @myers-meadow @ajarofpickledtears @keffirinne

[taegularities]

HI RID 🫶🫶🫶

how are you my love? i saw you needed a hug 🫂 sending you all the love in this universe 🫶🫶

i got two tattoos today!!! im so happy with them and it honestly didn't hurt as bad as i thought (i have a rlly low pain tolerance too) 🤭

i got a semicolon - but i switched the top circle with the sun from tangled, and the bottom comma with a bunch of planets (specifically moon and saturn for my favorite line from seven by taylor swift) 🪐

i also got a small heart on my waist and i love them both im so happy!!!! ❤️ i would love to see your tattoos again! im in love with mine, i feel so pretty with them 🥺

i saw you mentioned how ur nervous with work starting, since you'll be less active - we're always here ‼️ ill do my wife from war duties while u go and work 🤭🙏

i hope you are well, i miss you lots 🫶

- wife from war anon 💂‍♀️

HI BABE, HOW'S IT GOING !!!

i've been incredibly tired and busy and am trying to adjust to the stress :') but i've been living. thank you for the constant freaking support, like seriously it means more than you know :(( <3

AND AH TATTOOS. they really do make one feel prettier, right? i'm so happy you've been loving yours! i've always liked the semicolon idea, and might go for it one day, too.. we'd be twinning 🥰 also a waist tattoo? that's so hot of you, babe 😭 it's so nice to hear that this little investment made you happy. i know you've been having a hard time, too, so... hope that good mood stays and that you're okay 🤍

also, yes my tattoo is still chilling and i still love it !! 🥺

[randomcitizen98]

Idk what the proper protocol for announcing a url change is but uh….. TADA????

Thought it was time for a change so instead of Dominicana98 I am now RandomCitizen98!!

Some stuff about me….

I am in my mid-20s, living in the Southeast US

I love freaking out about DC, Disney, Marvel, Movies, Musicals, TV shows & all manner of things

Current hyper-fixations include 911 & Derry Girls

When it comes to interacting with people on the internet, I tend to suffer from social anxiety…. It’s that, combined with some other fun aspects (shout out mental illness) that make me a bit hesitant about posting stuff or even commenting on other people’s absolutely WONDERFUL posts…. I’m trying to be more vocal & active on these platforms but it’s a work in progress… Baby steps, as my therapist likes to say

I have had a Tumblr for many, MANY years but I’ve been actually active on it for maybe less than 2?? (& that’s not counting all the hiatuses I took during those 2 years). As such, I’m still not totally adept at navigating the hellsite but I love coming on here & seeing everyone else freak out about my hyper-fixations & post exactly what I’ve been thinking in my head

I mean absolutely no harm to anyone ever & if I ever unintentionally type something offensive/inappropriate OR improperly tag something which causes you to read something that makes you triggered or uncomfortable, please feel free to point it out (politely, as I tend to take things to heart) & I will make the necessary corrections after I finish offering my sincerest apologies

WELP, that’s all I can think to say right now…. My inbox is always open if you wanna know anything else or if you just wanna chat (I may not be the best at starting the conversations, but I will happily engage when approached). I am also on Discord (which is another platform I’m still not the best at navigating) if you wanna chat there (username is still Dominicana98) ☺️

If you’ve made it this far, I appreciate you for sticking it through til the end & I do hope you won’t be a stranger 🥰🥰

[daenerys-targaryen]

i feel like swifties are dramatic in general but my god fandom twitter is just so messy. i remember i tried to join bc all my friends moved from tumblr to twitter ~2017 and there were just so many ppl trying to start shit w people in other fandoms… like bragging about awards/streams/etc and in the same beat going “oh yeah at least my fave isn't racist” or something like 💀💀💀

Funnily enough these last few months or so I have been more active on Twitter but idk swiftie twitter is just so…. It’s so BIG! And it just feels so.. different than any other fandoms I’ve been in. The best way I can describe it is when I had a swiftie twt, it was hard to build actual friendships and get to know people bec everyone is just trying to one up each other in the fandom and prove that they’re a better fan and like you said one up other fandoms too and I’m just like -.- let me cry about lyrics and be mentally ill about her without this weird competitive behavior in peace please??? so yeah I ofc still follow swifties but have def moved onto yjtwt/ asoiaftwt and with Yellowjackets twitter I’ve actually made friends I can imagine being friends with forever yk? And then with asoiaf twitter… I mean to me that’s one of my home fandoms just like Taylor is and I’ve made so many dany stan friends and I’ve even reconnected with some old friends who I was close with on here while I was active in the fandom more and it’s just 🥺🥰 ofc there are antis we gotta deal with but that’s a given and inescapable when you stan the main character 😌🤪

[eclectic-sassycoweyes]

Hello it's your secret santa again 🤗 I have a few questions for you.

Do you have a preference for perspective? I am comfortable writing in both TK and Carlos' pov but I have never been very good at omniscient, so I apologize if that's your preference.

Would you mind elaborating on your comfort levels regarding mental health topics? I don't have any plans to include anything outside of your typical anxiety, depression, etc, and it wouldn't be the main focus, but I just wanted to ask if that would be okay with you.

How do you feel about me combining your prompts? There were a few elements from each one that were really compelling to me, but if you'd rather I keep them separate and only focus on one then I totally get that.

I am heavily considering writing prompt 3 or incorporating it, but I don't have any specific visions for it yet. Do you have any kinks that are your favorites? I am open to trying something I've never attempted to write before so I'd love to have a better understanding of what you like.

I'm sure I will have more questions for you as I get started on my outline, so I won't overwhelm you with any specifics for now.

I hope you're doing well!

- 🌻

Hi Santa!🥰 I apologize for the delay in replying, I had to think haha but I’m not sure it helped make up a useful answer. I’ll try though but you’re also always welcome to come back and ask for more clarification!☺️

1) This one’s easy! Bc nope, no preference, and some worry at all about not writing omniscient! Whichever pov you find most suitable for the story/interesting to explore, or just the easiest, I’ll be as happy about and I want you to have fun writing it!!

2) This one’s a bit more difficult but maybe I’m just complicating it my head bc if as you said it’s not the main focus then I’m sure it’s fine! I’m not easily triggered, but some topics I really have to be in the right mood for, and some are just a bit too heavy. What I specifically can’t do is: hurt-no-comfort, hopelessness (the notion that everything is bad and there is no hope within the characters/outlook in the story for it getting better, very negative or anxious thinking that isn’t being challenged), anything at all suicidal, even when it’s referencing the past i prefer that to be not very present in the fic, (otherwise most things past referenced is usually fine), the mental illness being all-encompassing. Is it there, while there’s still space for the characters to also be happy and enjoy life? Active self harm outside of very minor things. I won’t elaborate on this unless it’s necessary. Active eating disorder that again is set in a place of hopelessness - not in treatment or very all-encompassing, focus on body rather than thoughts and lot etc. But it’s okay if there are current thoughts that the character struggles with I just can’t have them not in recovery by the end of the fic. I’m fine with the nitty gritty realities of mental illness - like when I say I need it “resolved” what I mean is being at a place where you can live with it and there is hope rather than magically being cured at the end of the fic! So like panic attacks or negative thinking or not feeling able to get out of bed one or two days or even a week in a row is fine, just as long as that isn’t the whole fic/main focus. Gah I reeally hope this makes sense! As I said, as long as it isn’t the main focus and not hopeless/all encompassing then I’m sure it’s fine. Like I said I’m not easily like triggered to a degree that’s risky in any way, so don’t feel afraid either to include it in a way that feels real to you I feel sure that your balance will work fine ! :)

3) This is easy again yay! Feel completely free to mix up, add, multiply, devide and subtract from my prompts in whichever way that will make you also like the story and have fun with it!☺️

4) This is difficult mostly bc I don’t know if I have a kink that’s my fave to read about! When I say healthy communication and exploration/experimentation, I really mean literally that I love that part of it taking up a lot of focus! I love reading sex that is exploring and communicative and realistic and where the characters learn new things about themselves and their partner or are generally conscious of the way they’re having sex. Within that, especially with ship I love as much as Tarlos, as long as it feels in character, there isn’t much I can’t read! Like, even stuff that isn’t my personal kink, I will enjoy reading about them trying if one of them might like/think they like it!

I can only come up with very few categories that I will not want to read about and I feel actually a bit shy about writing them out here haha even though I’m writing that I wouldn’t like to read them🫣 okay I’m just gonna do it anyway. For Tarlos I generally don’t hc involving more partners. IF they were to do it, and I am open to that, I’d imagine a lot of communication also with the other party and respect for them, and very centered about the two of them loving each other and this being a thing they’re exploring /together/. Okay I think I found a way to say without saying another thing I really wouldn’t like reading about - any bodily fluid that you have to be very ill for it to come out in a way that is clear/see through/not on the.. darker end of the color spectrum😅

Other bodily fluids are fine for me to read about, but one of the three left (maybe you can guess which) shall not re-enter any body, and in general using one’s own bodily fluids to humiliate/show possessiveness/power over the other is also not for me.. Coming on one’s partner and getting feelings of possessiveness is fine 🙃. There’s also something about spit for me where, when first it’s existed outside of someone’s mouth, it can’t go back in, even into the same persons’s mouth from which it came. Idk why but 🤷‍♂️

Anything involving a weapon of some kind is also not for me.

A character inflicting pain on another character bc they like it, not because the other does, is also not for me.

Hmm.. very very heavy bdsm and consensual non-con are also going to toe the line for me to enjoy and depends a lot on the way it’s written.

I don’t think of anything right now outside of these no-thank-you categories that I would not be fine reading!

I will end this section with saying what I do like, very broadly: intimacy (familiarity and ‘vulnerability’ - not necessarily feeling vulnerable but being vulnerable through feeling exposed or sharing intimate stuff), communication (again can be literally about anything - like, if you want to make it kinky definitely go for it, but literally them talking about more mundane stuff the angle of a toy, when they’re up for penetrative sex or not, the.. preparation that sometimes need to go into that, protection, not having much libido at the moment, sharing fantasies or porn, how they like something or what their previous experiences have been), exploration, fun/laughter.

Btw all the examples are more to illustrate my points, so feel free to google or come up with just anything you’d find fun to write about !

I will now actually end this section, just in case anybody else is reading this even though it’s long and probably irrelevant for you, that I judge nobody and no kinks and stating here things I prefer to nope out of is in no way me implying that I find it to be weird or gross to be having these kinks:):)!!

Like I said, please do feel free to return here if you need any more clarification or have other questions!!

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Wheelchairs aren’t seen as morally neutral and (especially ambulatory) wheelchair users are called lazy, told to try harder to push through without, and people accuse them of faking/being dramatic/using their mobility device as a “crutch” (a loaded fucking statement in itself) all the time, hope this helps!! 🥰🥰

But seriously, this whole post is about making assumptions about a community you don’t understand, insisting they don’t face the same stigma as poor you, and asserting that their needs are understood and get met WHEN THAT’S DEMONSTRABLY NOT THE CASE

There’s this whole brilliantly articulated post about why this sort of rhetoric is untrue and it harms another community and you’ve gone and doubled down.

It even told you how you could get the same exact point across instead. But you ignored that so you could insist that no actually, you deserve to put this other group down because your suffering is so so special and the only way you can make that point is by emphasizing how nobody else would experience such poor treatment as you (the most stigmatized person in the world)

All you had to do was not claim that nobody would ever do this to wheelchair users when yes they fucking would. “The same people who think I need to toughen up” think wheelchair users need to toughen up and stop being dependent on the chair too. The people who “see anything a normal person could abuse as a privilege” see a chair as something a “normal” person could abuse to get special treatment or avoid having to walk if they wanted to be lazy. There’s stigma around beginning to use mobility aids you need because it’s “giving up” (a moral failing), because “why does everyone suddenly have chronic illness/need mobility aids” (which disregarding the usual, they were hidden away/died before, might have something to do with the mass disabling event that started a few years ago and is still happening. But say that and you literally start getting death threats from the covid deniers, A WHOLE VERY PROMINENT TYPE OF PERSON WHO DENIES OUR EXPERIENCE AND OPENLY CLAIMS PHYSICALLY DISABLED PEOPLE ARE WEAK AND DESERVE TO DIE). People who consume this rhetoric without realizing it think all the “newer” cardiac/mobility/neurological/respiratory issues are over diagnosed. They think we’re looking for the easy way out, we don’t really need mobility aids/treatment, we’re letting ourselves depend upon these devices. That’s stigma baby. Our shit’s made unavailable too (sometimes we actually do die because of it). We’re seen as “lucky” to get the privilege of a better parking spot, designated spots on the bus, etc. What, you thought you were the only one getting these sorts of comments??

Even PHYSICALLY DISABLED people are literally treated as drug seeking (sometimes having it directly noted in their charts) when they present at the hospital with a VISIBLE ailment and have the audacity to ask for treatment. This is not exclusive to pain meds. This includes asking for saline. These are literally life or death scenarios and they still aren’t taken seriously. This isn’t even getting into how invisible illnesses are treated. Your experiences aren’t unique, you’re not suffering in some unheard of way, and you aren’t more misunderstood. But what you are doing is actively dismissing the lived experiences of physically disabled people and contributing to making us more misunderstood

(and for the record, I have ADHD and I use a wheelchair/have chronic illness. The stigma is nowhere near comparable, but not in the direction you’re asserting. Stop insisting on your right to speak on an issue you know nothing about. I love neurodivergent spaces and acceptance movements, but not when they step on physically disabled people to get there, which y’all seem to love doing)

I just saw a video of someone saying something along the lines of “being without ADHD medication is like being without a wheelchair! If people were waiting this long for wheelchairs and having to crawl around their homes then something would be done immediately, so why can’t I get ADHD meds??”

And just, can people stop assuming that wheelchair users get handed everything on a plate. Because we absolutely are not.

People wait months and years for wheelchairs – yes, even non ambulatory people. That’s months and years of suffering, of crawling or being confined to bed or stuck in unsuitable wheelchairs.

Yes, medication shortages are serious and need addressing… but making comparisons to wheelchair users when not knowing a single thing about the processes of accessing a chair in various countries is not the way to go about it.

[salaciousslut]

How has your day been so far, sweetheart?<3 also im ngl sometimes when i listen to Igual Que Un Ángel by Kali Uchis i think of you🫣

I'd trust you with my life if i ever blacked out tbh! I dont trust many people around me when im drunk but you give off a really safe feeling so if it were just us two i would maybe over do it on the alcohol 🫣 the thought of being hung over is so scary to me tbh!! I never wanna be hung over! And if i drink on an empty stomach im fucked like im just real drunk off one shot its not fair 🙄 i hope you'd have fun with us if you got drunk with us!! but im ngl i think i was a lil weird last night due to unfortunately getting a bit horny but y'know thats life😩 im just glad my friends werent able to tell cause that's between me and whoever i wanna tell. Normally though we are just big dorks abour anime, movies, and random tv shows, and i cant shut up about music half the time. 🤭

Im the same way!! i just unfortunately occasionally have some like autism/adhd moments where suddenly ive focused too much on trying to actively listen and end up not listening, so if i ask you to repeat yourself a few times its either bc of that or the fact that my audio processing stuff is kinda crazy at times. But i know i'll enjoy hearing you talk<3

Tease me as much as you want to<3 and by all means go ahead and be a menace. Either way im gonna end up with my fingers inside you🥰 i wanna make you melt, i wanna see just how much you need someone inside of you<33

Its sweet that you wanna spoil me<3 like it feels like a crime that youre calling me kind when you keep talking about taking care of me and spoiling me and im just saying nice things. Like i should be taking care of you, youre the princess here sweetheart<3 and i swear to you im thriving under any circumstance, the universe wakes me up every morning by gently kissing my eyelids hehe🤭

I hope to show you my smile and see yours, i dunno how you feel about video calls, but maybe when im comfy with it and if youre comfy with it (and after ive been in your dms a little while) we can do a lil video call! Just an innocent little hang out between a butch and a pretty girl<3 I'll let you know if you feed it too much in that case, I could use a lil more confidence just not too much. I can teeter on the edge of entitlement if i let it go too far, and i hate who i am when i act entitled like that version of me is such a dick and not even in a hot way.

its been okay, ive been studying all day because i have a big exam on monday which is soooo boring but im trying my best! and omg i just listened to the song and its so pretty!! im really honored that you think of me 🥺☺️ ive listened to a few of kali uchis stuff and its sooo good!!

aww yes i take care of my people!! im the mom friend so i gotta make sure everyone is alive and safe! but hehe i hope u werent horny because of me 🫣 if it was then oopsies sorry babe! and i love big lil dorks!! im a lil nerd myself so i totally understand!!

its okay i know what u mean! i have auditory processing issues too but im very understanding and well always do as asked so u never have to worry being around me!

ahh youre soo swoon worthy, i want you inside me now!!!! 🥺

youre saying nice things because you are nice and kindhearted! plus i just like seeing other happy!! and we can take care of each other!! none of that one way shit!!! its give and take!! hehe im kissing u on the nose and temple rn 😘

yes yes i love video calls, im the type who if u give me permission to call u whenever, ill learn ur schedule and just ft out of the blue bc i miss ur face and presence. i know how u feel tho so please take ur time!! hehe handsome butch and a pretty princess on the phone is too powerful tho, everyone else needs to watch out

okay i understand!! but dont be too hard on yourself okay? u deserve good things