#idk maybe I'm just bitter
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It would be great if men, both cis and trans alike, would quit telling women about instances where they heard and/or witnessed something misogynistic and didn't do anything to intervene but want us to know how bad they felt about it. What are we supposed to do with this information? Comfort you over your complicity in misogyny? Praise you for having bare minimum decent views of women? Give me a break.
#if you didn't do anything about it then i don't want to hear it#I'm sure most women don't need some man to remind then how much society hates us thank you#misogyny#its as cringe as white people telling POC about racist stuff that they did or saw#what's your point???#you heard some men say some gross things and it made you mildly uncomfortable? 🙄 you're such a hero#idk maybe I'm just bitter#its just tiring#like wow you KNOW its wrong but you don't do anything about it? okay
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“so I offer Sammy my hand, and together we leave the funeral, like when we were fifteen.”
This sentence is going to make me cry over how bad it is. Oh yes, leaving the funeral of my best female friend that I may-or-may-not-have murdered is so nostalgic, especially when it's with my male best friend I (and my female best friend) was in love with that faked his own death!!!
It's not a bad book by any means, but my god why did she have to make the stupidest writing decision. Why couldn't they have just lost contact like some teenage friendships do?? Why did he have to fake his death??
#I'm in a bad mood today#in case you couldn't tell#this author also doesn't want to make anything queer#the one gay character turned out to bisexul#which isn't a bad thing#but the author uses his sexuality as a twist to give him motivation for murder#it's hard to explain#this book is either going to be a very good murder mystery or a very bad one#and why not make the two girls and guy polyamorous??#she already said she thought of both of them as hers#and they were both in love with the guy#and the guy loved both of them#it was all there#was it such a stretch to have two girls also love each other#idk maybe I'm just bitter#also all the male characters call the female characters 'woman'#which always leaves a bad taste in my mouth
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Ectoberhaunt Day 13
Isekai: Old Hero New World
#i have Thoughts about Harbinger!Danny#bro is Very interesting in Aether bc he wants to go home#he and aether would prob get along rly well tbh#this danny is kinda bitter bc he's been separated from his family. but he can be a silly goofy guy occasionally#he and childe are besties. i declare this now. both love their families and want to protect them#also- abyss and ghost zone?? hmmmmmmmm#abyssal energy is ectoplasm... maybe?#idk#oooh that would be neat bc then danny is like the exact opposite of aether/lumine (with their full/light power)#danny has a fake cryo vision. bro doesn't really need a delusion but he can have an anemo one. as a Treat#(he wants to be Free of this world)#danny just wants to go home but no he gets dropped into the middle of snezhnaya smh#ALSO. back to the point of the post lol-#danny HATES dottore. but also the guy kinda reminds him of his parents (who he rly misses). it's very trauma-bond-y.#danny phantom#dp#ectober#eh 24#day 13#ectoberhaunt24#ectoberhaunt 2024#ectoberhaunt#(its rly late i know but i'm not stressing this year✨️)#(dottore is also equally fascinated in danny.but no way in HECK is danny gonna let him experiment. so dottore has to be Subtle about it lol)#genshin impact#scaramouche#combining my fixations 👉👈 (always)
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Okay so I've been thinking about @nonbinarylocalcryptid Astyanax lived/daddy odysseus au. Which is some good shit in general. Yall should check it out. But specifically I'm think about what it would be like for this child to grow up on calypso's island. He would have been what ? 3-10 there??
#The odyssey#Odysseus#Astyanax#daddy odysseus au#@nonbinarylocalcryptid's au#Obvious this kid has nothing but trauma all day every day#It is the odyssey#And the whole adopted dad killed my whole family sacked my city thing#And his only role model is odysseus and various monsters#So I imagine he's a very bitter sassy child who hates the gods#But I also think it would be a very hard way to grow up#Watching your only contention to the world even if he did kill everyone else being dragged away from you every night#Finding him every morning sobbing on the beach#Idk man I'm just having a lot of feelings about Astyanax feeling bitter and helpless#And for years not knowing what was going on#Maybe calypso even used him in the early years made him apart of her schemes#And then having a realization of what's going on when he's around 9/10#I'm imagining he and odysseus had a convo about his orgins when he was 7/8#So basically everybody's having a bad time
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sorry but. something about how fanfiction is vastly undervalued by readers in fandom culture. how people love to read stories about their favorite characters but only if they're in love, or if they at least sleep with each other. there's so many incredible stories that are just missed because fandom culture struggles to see beyond romantic pairings and relationships.
#idk is there some fear people have of engaging w characters beyond being half of a gay ship?#maybe this is just me but like. don't you want to get inside their head? share a piece of their thoughts and how they see the world?#even just seeing them in silly Situations . like. that is truly unappealing to you without any romantic aspect alongside it?#i don't mean to come off as bitter ot anything but this is just something i see time and time again#ship culture in fandom and particularly within fanfic is just. a bit of a nightmare#maybe i'm too aroace for this idk#fandom#fandom culture#ao3#fanfic#ship culture#shipping culture
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funny how everyone seemed to adore Zack until he started having more screentime...
#it's honestly very surprising. i see hate towards him almost every day since Remake came out and i wish i was kidding#and yeah yeah i know other characters get lots of hate too but the hate towards him has been so sudden and random???#idk maybe he *was* hated before but i just didn't notice#but at the same time no. i'm 100% sure the hate increased considerably after he was shown to be alive in the Remake#i feel like some people are just weirdly concerned he is gonna overshadow the main characters which is stupid#this story is still about Cloud and the others#we're just gonna explore another reality (allegedly) with Zack it's not that deep bro#(rebirth spoilers) -> even in Zack's timeline Cloud AND Aerith are there#and who knows how many more#like i get shippers being petty because when are they not petty#but i've seen non-shippers/casual players saying they do not want to see more of him and being all bitter bc he's important#he's always been important you all just refuse to acknowledge it!!!#no matter how many times hamaguchi nomura nojima etc say he's super important ppl just keep denying it 💀#as if y'all know more than the freaking devs i'm getting tired of this bs#my post#i'm glad the devs love him as much as we do. cry about it
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i haven’t been here much recently, and i’m sorry i’ve only been negative on the off chance i’ve been online, but let me just say one last piece before the end of this month, so that maybe the next might be better….
#or maybe my time here ends w this month…i’m not sure i guess it all depends on how i feel but as of right now#everytime i think i'm fine i open tumblr and immediately am sad again the whole app has become my doomscroll at this point#i got a notification on a random talking post from a while ago and it felt like reading the words of a completely different person#lately i find it difficult to find any joy here at all when it always feels so lonely… a type of loneliness i’ve never experienced before#everyone always has ppl interacting w them who are interested in their stuff or are always sent things that are reminiscent of them....#i’m always praised for remembering stuff abt other ppl but i wonder if anyone remembers anything abt me#what is it about me that is so forgettable am i dull am i uninteresting did i not solidify myself enough do you guys just not like me lolz#but i don't want this to come across as guilt tripping or being ungrateful to what i do have because ik comparison is the death of joy but#it's still hard to watch when it's so in your face and it makes me think if ppl only talk to me because they feel obligated to#because anyone can say empty words.... i wish my perception of things didn't turn bitter i wish i hadn't become so jaded but#over and over i've felt irrelevant cast aside overshadowed and i cannot exist in a place where i feel like i'm a ghost in the corner#idk i've never felt like This before and i'm at least glad it's something i can walk away from by just....leaving...#sad that this used to be somewhere i can run away To but now it's become somewhere i want to run away From#i don't know...even if i get over whatever this is...things will never be the same for me... i just don't think i belong here#if only i had never made this blog then i would have saved myself a world of turmoil
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no bc ruby spent like 2 years gaining sam’s trust so that sam would start the apocalypse and dean took the mark from cain after like 2 seconds
#maybe not the same scale of mistake#but lets all be real here#/everything/ was saying that the only way to stop the apocalypse was to kill lilith#whereas dean spent like max 1 week of research on the abaddon problem lol#idk i'm just being bitter for no reason#lea speaks#spn liveblog
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one thing ill never understand is how everyone in fandom headcannons the amped up high energy characters as the ones having energy drinks all the time when everyone i know who drinks monster or redbull regularly is burnt out and exhausted
#babygirl if they have manic energy 24/7 say they do blow or adderall#maybe I'm just bitter and spent too much time in kitchens but idk
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am i the only one who sensed some jilted lover vibes from jensen?
#burcon#cockles#thoughts#at the start of the panel and through a few particular interactions he seemed very standoffish#he was giving a little bitter and hurt and perhaps even resentful - maybe he only learned of misha's gf#at this con too! maybe it was news to him. on top of not seeing misha for months i can understand#if he was feeling a bit neglected and out of the loop. there's also the matter of misha's gf not being#in a poly thing with jensen and dee like vicki was ie. what she has with misha is seperate so i'm sure#that's another difficult thing to deal with knowing their time together is strictly separate#i've no doubt he wants misha to have a partner and be happy but there's an adjustment period#letting new people into your life and whoever misha's partner is now or in the future is going to#affect jensen on a personal level and moreover his relationship with misha. it's all very intriguing#and while i like what little i've seen and heard about this woman for misha i just think no matter who#she is it's going to take a toll on jensen's relationship w misha. i thought it was plain to see on jensen's face#during their panel: numerous moments where he was giving a poker face that wasn't covering a laugh#but instead like he was trying to smooth out his bitterness. or so my eyes and brain and heart tell me.#just various moments where things looked uncomfortable and jensen making off-colour jokes that didn't land#and which furthermore were barbed and snarky - not in their usual banter way but like he was lashing out#and using the excuse of chaotic panel convo to explain away his comedic pitfalls. but again maybe i'm#looking to much into it? idk. there are some lovely moments! fun and caring moments - but they#mainly came from misha's direction ngl. it seemed like misha was trying hard to keep the peace#while jensen was just running his mouth on comments and jokes that kept not landing - for me#everyone on my dash is loving their dynamic this panel - and i want to feel that love! it is possible that#learning misha has a gf has skewed my perception a little like i'm putting context onto moments#i otherwise wouldn't. but i also think i would've laughed and generally felt better watching their panel#if that was the case. idk. whatever the reason i do think something was OFF between them on stage#and it was coming from jensen from the start. misha picked up on it partway though but things felt#a little strained throughout. like jensen wasn't looking at misha as much as usual or reaching out for him#misha tried to salvage and not react to things. but both their answers to the last Q were passive aggressive af#and when they left the stage together they weren't close or touching or chatting like they usually are...
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Would me bombarding you with cute oumota headcanons help or is that still just something you need to like… process on your own? Ajdka
rrrhhh like..seeing the cute stuff makes me feel even worse about it gsdfks i even have my own cute headcanons but simultaneously i don't like thinking about it
kichi/shu/kai would be such a perfect ot3..so i'm t r y i n g
#charismatic-cannibal#asks#idk maybe it's because they're just not one of the relationships i was there for#i was not invested in their dynamic but all of a sudden#it's this huge important thing and kokichi's dead and#everything's miserable. i'm miserable. you're miserable. and now kaito's dead#i'm filled with bitterness#i need my emotional support saimota#and my emotional support monokubs
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there are few things in fandom as annoying as the people who desperately want to be perceived as caring about female or minority characters MORE THAN ANYONE EVER, especially when their entire space is an amalgam made up of shrines to white dudes (as if people can't tell the difference between that and the poorly slapped together collages and half-melted figures of clay dedicated to everyone else). the levels of performativity and virtue signalling and aggressive defensiveness reached get frankly radioactive. why do any self-reflection (or even simply be unapologetic about your tastes in fiction and actually do something helpful for real people!) when you can twist yourself into a pretzel to claim bigotry OBVIOUSLY has no effect on fandom (or anything else you might do or think, ever! because you're PROGRESSIVE!!) and, actually, your favourite dude is somehow the worst victim of misogyny in the entire story?
#as always when this topic comes up i think of the spanish leftist politician who was asked whether he preferred batman or superman#and (I'm guessing because he couldn't just say ''yeah i'm a leftist campaigning to tax the rich#but i just think billionaire bruce and his gadgets are cool‚ man'') he went and said#that superman was a conservative and batman an lgbti activist#aldkjfjfhf#anyway. own it. maybe even try to acknowledge your own biases. idk. just stop this nonsense smh#talking to the void#my thoughts#fandom nonsense#bitter lau tag
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i know that jesse armstrong is more than capable of knowing when to end a series but the way it was announced that season 4 is going to be the last one kind of made me feel like the whole process behind it is a bit sketchy. they only revealed that s4 is the last one only a month before the premiere, even after posting teaser trailers that never even hinted at the season being the last, and even the cast got the news only during the table read for the final episode. the promotion of season 4 has been disappointing especially when compared to season three. while the actors are not the ones writing the show, most of them have been very clear that they could have seen the show go on for another season and their disappointment over the show ending has been clear as day. while an ambiguous ending will be a very fitting end to succession and i am not against it, i am definitely wondering if the decision to finish with season 4 was something that developed during the filming process instead of it being a clear guideline throughout the creative process of season 4.
#succession#idk my biggest complaint is not telling the actors. like i get it that it might have impacted their performance but still#it is their job and definitely a big and meaningful project for all of them. and if they got to know only in january or something???#at that point there was already teaser trailers coming out and basically no hints of the season being last. ofc i don't know what goes on#behind the scenes but personally i am a bit annoyed sdjhfdsf#i just keep remembering that one quote from jesse where he said that they're gonna keep going as long as it keeps being fun. huh.#maybe i'm just bitter because my favorite show is ending. but i am not a fan of how this season being last has been handled#but i am glad that at least the reviewers think the season is great and i am incredibly excited to see what happens!!! i just wish the#annoucement had given everyone more time to come to terms with the ending#also this has been bothering me for weeks now and i wanted to get this out of my system before the premiere. please enjoy
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lol i applied to live in the remodeled church
#liveblogging life#seriously been talking myself thru the pros/cons ALL WEEK bc it's seriously like 100/150 out of what i wanted to pay#but it's too lovely and i keep comparing it to every other apt i've seen or want to see and coming up wanting#i'm still going to go to my showings tomorrow (today?) bc who knows maybe i'll fall in love w/ something there and decide against it#or maybe i'll get rejected lol i know my credit is still very iffy despite my good rental history and income#idk i just wanted to not waffle about it anymore so i just went ahead and did it!!! which is good bc the other two available units#were snatched up right before i submitted my application lmao#it IS a basement apt so i kind of get why it was literally the last one available#still bitter the two i was very excited about got snatched the day i went in for my showing bc they were 100 cheaper#and i wouldve applied SAME DAY if they'd been available lmao
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I know Ashton and Orym are less likely especially with the more popular ships, but I loved that Ash looked at Orym and then called them all family. It does feel like they're pining
yeah it was very cute ;w;
it's gonna break my heart if ashton has these one-sided feelings :(
trying to remember that nothing is set in stone and there are so many episodes for things to develop on orym's end
#asks#anon#i'm maybe....a lil bitter#but popularity doesn't mean shit. beau/jester was like insanely popular and it did not happen.#so y'know. maybe.#can i win just this one time i have never had the ships i'm into win#not vex/leth. not beau/jester.#and more#idk i also didn't personally see orym taking the poster as a dor/ym moment...cause opal & dariax are on that poster too#idk...orym is def pining after dorian i am not blind to it but i kinda hope he develops feelings for ashton too :(#i mean caleb was pining hard for jester the entire campaign but also fell for essek so y'know...maybe...#idk man! i'm just a lil sad abt it is all#ashton: we look so much like a couple in this. orym: a couple of bestiesss
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#just some thoughts#that might not be what people want or need to hear right now#but i need to say them and who reads this anyway#i'm sad that the show is officially over in spite of all the efforts to turn it around#of course i am#i love the story and the characters so much#but personally i find easy consolation in looking forward to whatever else rhys will do in the future#stede might be gone but rhys is not and everything he learned is not#i will see him act again and i'm so excited about that#so that's the good part of my thoughts#the bad part of my thoughts is fear tho#i fear that max is being a bitter little shit to us on purpose#because we dared to push back#we made it a Big Thing and made them look bad and now they're hellbent on making sure we get nothing#that's what it feels like#maybe other streamers wanted to take over but they made it impossible in one way or another#and then the headline about them targeting fanartists#idk the timing is suspicious idk#and maybe they even have the power to make sure we never get a dvd just to fuck us over#i don't know how these things work but i am afraid#and that's everything off my chest kthanksbye
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