#i'm pan aro too haha

[tracle0]

Feast your eyes! My pride stars :)!

[drbtinglecannon]

Hi, friend! 💕 I hope you've been well

I come here to give you Darius for the character's ask because I'm predictable. BUT also adding that one Herlock Sholmes guy because I remember a snippet you shared and he seemed fun

Thanks pal, today's my anniversary actually so I've been doing fairly well!

Listen. Listen. I'm always willing to talk about Darius, I'm just as predictable hahaha! But I'm down to talk about both!

Darius

1. Sexuality HC:

Ace Darius ace Darius ace Darius. I vibe with bi or aro for romantic inclinations tho

2. OTP:

Dariraeda, or maybe camdariraeda. But I also like not shipping Darius with anyone, depends on the mood

3. Brotp:

Darius & Eber mean so much to me, it's one of my absolute favorite Darius relationships and it gets ignored so often (I understand why but I'm still salty). Rebel trio too, bah I wish we got an episode about those three

4. Notp:

The worst theory for why Alador and Darius grew apart is that they were both into Odalia. Darius was never into Odalia, come on people

Darius x the prev GG kinda squicks me out too, I know the Grimwalkers tended to not live a long time so there's a chance he wasn't much older than Darius but the mentor-student ship dynamic has never been a favorite of mine

5. First HC that pops into my head:

The only CH that's been in their position longer than him is Terra

6. Favorite line from this character:

"And your treachery. Whatever."

The foreshadowing that he was a rebel lies in him caring more about his fit than treason. I loved him immediately

7. One way in which I relate to this character:

I can also be a bit of a neatfreak who just wants to relax instead of doing anything, and I also suffer from "bitch that cares about others" syndrome

8. Thing that gives me second-hand embarrassment about this character:

Him yelling at Raine about the CATTs name, omg he's so whiny in the name of his ego sometimes haha

9. Cinnamon roll or problematic fave?

100% problematic fave, he bullied kids and doesn't seem to have any qualms against murder

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I'm very curious how my answers on this char will influence the very brief impression you have of him haha! I'm certain you will be surprised by some of it

Herlock Sholmes

1. Sexuality HC:

Pan to match the test tubes he's always wearing

2. OTP:

Vanlock, I just. Love how stupid they are. Loser wet cat addicts that have to interact because his daughter is his niece and vice versa, giant bitter exes energy, their dlc case & escapade were soooo funny

3. Brotp:

I can definitely see the appeal for hmmk and I sometimes vibe with fanart for it, but I significantly prefer them in a platonic/familiar sense than a romantic/sexual sense. A very unpopular opinion but idc haha

4. Notp:

Honestly the only ship I like for Herlock is vanlock, I really don't care for any of the others.

5. First HC that pops into my head:

I know it's canonically disproven and doesn't really track for his character, but I like to sometimes think about a Herlock that gave up smoking & hard drugs when he became Iris' guardian

6. Favorite line from this character:

Though this was from the fan translation of the game years before the localization came out, the classic Herlock line "That deduction was so hot you'd hardly believe this detective is single." (I can't find it rn but I'm pretty sure that was the line. I also love his offer of jumping into a caldron of boiling wax for what equals ~16.4mil£ in today's money lmao)

7. One way I relate to this character:

Adhd 😔🎻

8. Thing that gives me second-hand embarrassment about this character:

Ooooh I'm so weak to second-hand embarrassment and this bitch caused it so frequently he's SO unhinged and cringe. Absolute loser of a man, should've been punched in the face by Ryuu after a big plot twist reveal

9. Cinnamon roll or problematic fave?

He's absolutely 100% a problematic fave. He steals, he lies constantly, he does hard drugs, he raised his daughter to think some random guy was her dad and let her believe said guy abandoned her, he's immensely flawed as an individual but he's really funny and has good intentions so. Problematic fave material

[juiceboxerr]

earlier i was thinking about all the different things that have brought me to realizing i'm aroace, and one moment that was the most obvious, in hindsight, was my senior year of hs. that was the only time i had a "crush" without someone else pointing out that i "liked" someone, but in reality i've never liked anyone in my life haha. the boy i picked in my senior year was one of my classmates, we became friends throughout the year and i never really put much thought into liking him besides the fact that he was nice and a really good friend, but also thoughts like "this is what people my age are supposed to feel, right?" would often cross my mind. i imagine what it would be like if we dated but it was never something that just crossed my mind, i had to make an effort to actively think about such scenarios. once i graduated and didn't see him anymore the feelings vanished almost immediately, and i didn't think twice about it, i simply thought that was what everyone else experienced because i never talked to anyone about it.

my first year in college is when i discovered aromantism, before then i only know that asexuality was a thing. at the time i was living in my dorm alone and spent weeks researching and having a lot of issues with coming to terms with myself and being aromantic. before then i had tried so many labels, i've identified as bi, gay, pan, and lesbian, but none of them ever stuck for too long. so when i found aromantic it was like someone hit me with a bus. it took me a few weeks more before i could even muster up the courage tell any of my friends, which in the end proved pointless because they still accept me no matter what. i still struggled for a while because all those "what if" scenarios and feeling like i'm missing out on a huge part of life by not being able to feel what everyone else feels, which isn't the case. i can live my life just as fully as anyone else, i don't need romance or sex to be content with myself and my life. i never realized until then that i always fantasized of living on my own for my whole life anyway. i wouldn't say i'm romance replused, as i still enjoy such things in media, but more of feeling vaguely uncomfortable with thinking about romance in reality in terms of myself.

being asexual was something that crossed my mind a few years ago, and identified with graysexual specifically for a while until i thought "nah, there's no evidence that i'm ace in the first place"; however, there was no evidence that i wasn't either. it took my longer to come to terms with being asexual the second time around because by then i had already realized i was aromantic, and i thought that i could at least be "normal" in the sexual area if i was aro. i came to realize that doesn't matter and being normal isn't really a thing anyway. sexual feelings and urges have always been something i never experienced for myself and i shied away from such topics, whether about me or anyone. i was always uncomfortable with sex scene on tv and and talking about such things in a non-joking manner, but i was okay with reading it so i thought that meant i couldn't be asexual (which was before i really researched). but now nothing of the sort really bothers me as long as it isn't directed at me in any form. as of now i think of myself in terms of a sex positive but personally sex repulsed asexual.

identifying as aroace might seem simple at face value because it's asexual aromantic, right? well yes, but for me it's more complicated than that. i am aroace but i resonate more with my aromantism, in a way that's complicated to explain. being asexual is a no-brainer for me, it's just an intrinsic part of who i am and it's not something i have to think about, there's never been another option. sex is also a topic that can be easily avoided, more so if you aren't in a romantic relationship, but dating and being in a romantic relationship are topics that are harder to get out of. so while my ace identity feels like it is just me, and it would be baffling to me for someone to ever think i'm allosexual, my aro identity is me in a different sense, in a way i haven't figured out how to say yet.

geez, i kinda went off on a rant there. this might not be helpful to anyone but on the off chance it is i like sharing my story. being aro, ace, or aroace isn't a linear thing, it can stay the same or change over time. you can identify with it now but maybe later you won't. no one can tell you what you can and cannot feel or identify with, you're the only person who can decide that for yourself.

[shy-forceghost]

omg, re: aroace jillian, yesss, i am like: (see below meme) w you over the hc, it’s galaxytier, always one of my favs

do you have any other aspec hcs for other wn characters? personally i like to hc camila & mother superion, and a good chunk of the ocs as ace and/or aro without realizing it, they just think god’s being super helpful and helping them avoid ‘temptation’ lmao

i also love aspec lilith hcs and alternate between aro sapphic jillian and aroace jillian, and alternate between aro bi lilith, ace bi lilith, aroace, or aroace bi lilith depending on the mood

and then i love ace, gray or demi ace beatrice & aro, demi aro or gray aro ava hcs

also love hcing em as qprs

Hahaha loved the meme. WN really uniting people out there right?

Also thank you for this question and sorry in advance because you just opened my bottomless trunk of rants :D

god’s being super helpful and helping them avoid ‘temptation’ it's the ultimate catholic aroace girl experience (been there haha)

I also hc Camila as aspec, the scene when she says "how hot" Todd is just serves me to reassure the fact that nuns aren't blind haha, they can experience attraction (independently of gender, see my other hcs) but at the end they've taken the decision of remain celibate -or not- and that comes from their personal values/principles, regardless of attraction of any kind. * I think Camila doesn't overthink in terms of attraction because it isn't something that common for her, therefore not "that hard" for her to ignore it.

Mother Superion is one of those characters I don't feel we have enough info in order to hc her orientation, and I don't feel comfortable doing so when that happens. Honestly I see her as straight haha, one of the clearest examples of women who actually experience attraction but their love, faith, and desire for service were stronger. That happens and it's ok. Same case with Yasmine.

I'm more inclined by aroace Jillian (she never mentions romance or sexual attraction in any way), but I can see why some hc her as sapphic. In KTY's words "whatever goats your boat :D"

Yes for aspec sapphic Lilith as in "she might or might not be attracted to girls but doesn't mind, because she's just focused in other things".

And yeees! demi Bea for the win <3 There's actually an amazing fic that explores asexual Beatrice and how that happens alongside her being a lesbian (i.e. how both identities can go by hand and how religious trauma doesn't "cause" asexuality). I can't remember the name but it must be somewhere in my blog under the ace beatrice tag

I'm not entirely sure if I'll hc Ava as acespec or arospec. She actually seems -to me- like that one character of the complete opposite of the spectrum haha, either pan or bi.

*the conversation of attraction and religious women its is actually something I find deeply interesting. Having grown in a religious environment (read: being close with nuns haha) I can assure you that there's as much variety of orientations as in any other community. More than once a nun had told me that "they can find someone attractive, they just don't act about it ;)". Many had relationships before joining the church, one thing doesn't change the other.

I think that the idea that, historically, many many nuns have been queer (mostly sapphic and aspec) comes from the fact that from a very long time, religious life was the only "acceptable" role a woman couldn't take that didn't require her to marry a man. It was also a way to guarantee themselves certain grade of freedom and education, but that's a conversation for another time because this has already gotten too long and I'm digressing from your original question.

[anonofseasons]

What are the characters sexuality’s?

I've been wondering if anyone would ask this, although I also slightly feared getting this ask because I don't have full answers for everyone. I'll answer what I can though! Read-more for length, but I'll preface this by saying that spirits tend to be queer more than they're not.

Vivian: Gay. Graham: Gay. Shannon: Aro, Ace. I went into detail in a previous post, but he's sex/romance positive, he just has never had any attraction of any kind. As for arousal, he knows what it is, and he's not familiar with experiencing it himself. Sophie: I previously said bi, but I think pan is more accurate. (I use both terms for myself, forgive me.) She sees herself as bi, given who she's dated and married, but I'd argue pan is more likely. Oh, and she's someone who doesn't know this about herself yet, but... She'd thrive in a poly relationship. Rhett: Definitely pansexual. El: I'm not 100% sure for him. Aro spectrum seems likely. Maybe pan otherwise? He finds characters in books attractive more than he finds real people and spirits attractive. He also reads a lot of smut scenes in books (what Vivian doesn't know can't hurt him!). I bet he's a monsterfucker. It would not surprise me. Howie: Pan, and uh, his physical adulthood will be filled with overlapping relationships/encounters. You know that curiosity he has? Well. It applies to this too! Lots of kink experimentation, although he'll happily embrace being vanilla when he's done figuring out his preferences. Beau: Uhhhh... I can't spoil much, given what I have planned for the prologue, so I'm settling for, "Bee likes men." Also... Bee is kinky later. Phineas: Pan. Poor man has not had a relationship in a long, long time though... Also I should mention he will not date humans. Never has, never will. He doesn't hate humans, although he may not be their biggest fan sometimes. He can't deal with the short lifespans. Mir: They're into women. There are other characters, but I figure since Phineas and Mir are coming up and I've mentioned them a few times, I'd include them on this list. Plus I haven't thought over this much for them. Haha.

[xx-obliviousfantasy-xx]

My pipeline was pretty basic. Nothing serious

It was like "Haha I'm cishet but online I'm androgenous bc I think it would be funny to make ppl confused about my gender while staying safe online 👍." (I didn't know what transgender was or being gay outside of knowing it was an insult) (some kids may have clocked I was gay before I did tho bc of the frequent use of it towards me. Crazy)

To "Haha I'm gonna roleplay as being gay for the plot" (I still dunno what being gay is rlly.)

"wait...wait no wait I actually...like this girl outside of roleplay. Am I...gay????" (I end up believing I may be a lesbian.)

"Oh wait no...wait...AM I BI? NO WAIT AM I PAN?" (I AM STILL NOT TELLING PPL MY GENDER.)

"Wait... something... something is weird about me...am I ace? Also I'm bi now" (I very briefly take on the lithromantic label after I gave it to the same trans guy character.)

"WOAH WAIT MY FRIEND FROM SCHOOL WHO INTRODUCED ME TO THE CONCEPT OF THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY IS TRANS? THATS SO COOL w a i t...am I..? Nah" (Questioning to not)

(Important note, I made a character who's a trans guy and fixated on him hard for several years and roleplayed as him a lot. I felt very connected to him for some reason.)

"Wait no I can't be ace haha. Also I'm pan now"

"WAIT MY PARTNER IS NONBINARY?!! THATS CRAZY!!! ...Am I also non-binary?? Haha nah. Can't be."

"Wait...no I'm definitely ace...but...also I think I'm bi??? Again?"

"...I think I'm aroace guys. NAAAAH. Nah nah. Just ace!!" (I've started wearing multiple bras to compress my boobs and I hide myself in hoodies and baggy pants when possible bc #1 I'm ashamed of my body for multiple reasons. But #2 I'm also trying to see if I feel any better from it.)

"OH MY GOD...GUYS I THINK IM TRANS!!! WAIT... OH...OH MY GOD. ???" (I switch from they/them pronouns to he/him to he/they :D Still weird about neopronouns unfortunately) (I say I'm Nonbinary, Genderfluid, Demigender, Neutrois. I settle on Agender.)

[Fast forward flopping between bi/pan labels and firmly cemented in my asexuality and embarrassing Kalvin Garrah years]

"Haha am I Nonbinary? ...nah" (Literally my nonbinary teacher had most definitely clocked me but I'm in denial) (I've literally made a nonbinary character who I continue to write about constantly and even have them come out to characters modeled after my friends.)

[It's a year later. We've now hit the pandemic.]

"...Guys I think I'm aro...no I'm not...yes I am. No???? I'm confused WAIT AM I NOT ACE EITHER? No actually I definitely am. I might be a lesbian tho. No NVM." (like 3 years. Straight) (Specifically Demi-Ace to GrayAce pipeline. Malisian is also a label I take.)

"HAHA IM QUEER AND NOTHING MATTERS!!!" (I stop thinking about it too much.)

Literally 19 days ago: *WAKES UP IN A COLD SWEAT* "I might be demiromantic guys." *goes back to sleep*

Now: "WHEEEEEEEEE!!!!! I'M QUEER" (I still don't think about it as much anymore. I use a variety of pronouns. I am probably aspec. Definitely genderqueer.)

LGBTQ+ folk what was your gender/sexuality pipeline?

[evergreenwitch]

I think I should make a 'State of the Gender' post - because I bet its going to be interesting to look back on in a couple of years hahaha

Or it might be completely unchanged and this sort of boring - but I kind of doubt it, my gender identity as of right now feels kind of liminal in many ways.

Ok for context - I've more or less always identified as a cis woman. I was a ~quirky girl~ as a kid; occasionally attempt to lean in to the tom boy thing, but that was definitely more of a 'not like other girls' thing then a 'pro masculinity' thing, and also I was bad at it hahaha - catch 10 year old me saying things like 'im a tom boy but I love dresses and makeup' sort of big ann of green gables vibes (ie it was the ADHD/autism weirdness not really gender weirdness)

Cut forward to.... Idk I guess in high school I realized I was bisexual and didn't really come out so much as stopped telling people I was straight (not that I had done that much prior)... I did spend a bit of time considering my gender but settled on 'no issues, carry on'

By the end of college I think was when I settled on 'Woman For Political Reasons' - or that is to say Agender cis woman: I realized I just don't get gender? It's not a significant factor for me in like any way - I started IDing more as pansexual then bisexual, etc. Being a woman was still sort of significant to me but for purely social reasons - volunteering with Girl Scouts was important to me, I was getting a degree in a heavily male dominated field.... It felt important that I continue to be an unambiguous example of 'woman-hood', but I was beginning to realize I don't really grok gender. I also started firmly IDing as autistic at this point lol

It's been roughly a decade since then and nothing too significant has changed wrt my interior gender, externally a lot has changed! - I've gotten married, I've learned a lot more about trans perspectives on gender and ace perspectives on sexuality, I started playing roller derby......

I currently identify as somewhere on the aro/ace spectrum (specific labels TBD for like 8 years now I'm not in a hurry to pin that down haha) somewhere in the bi/pan/omni sort of sexuality cloud of labels (again I don't really give a fuck about the specifics) and still in that cisish female, Agender woman, demigirl** sort of gender space - firmly She/They pronouns.

Derby has really made me think a lot about it - I definitely am not a woman the same way people who definitely are women are women.... But I feel like I *do* belong in spaces that are exclusively for women... Yea Agender woman continues to be the most accurate term, but I'm not really satisfied with it, you know?

** I have issues with demi girl mostly because while I sort of feel a lukewarm acceptance/begrudging fondness for 'woman'/'lady' I feel a deep fundemental sense of wrongness about being considered a 'girl'. Various compound phrases are fine - 'girlfriend' doesn't really bother me, 'adjective Girl' is.... Probably more or less fine (tech girl, derby girl).... But being called just generically a 'girl' is bothersome...... Might be part of why I was so insistent on 'tomboy' as a kid now that I think about it....

[werealrainbow]

Heya! We're Rainbow or Colors a subsystem of 14 members, for both our privacy and theirs we won't be sharing the main systems account though. Our collective pronouns are they/color/rainbow/🌈/it! We're basically just humanized versions of colors haha. We are in the agere petre and nonsexual power exchange communities so yea, when talking about power exchanges will always put sfw in front of terms like sub or Dom cuz they are so s*xualized. Also we're bodily a minor!!!

Member Intros!

Black, He/Xe/It Bisexual Panromantic Ambiamorous transguy I like cats, coffee and ice cream am an age slider and am 15-19 years, am a caregiver and owner as well as sfw dom

Grey, They/Per/Ze Hihi I'm grey you can spell my name with an e or a I don't really care hehe, I'm a non-binary omniromantic lesbian and either ambi or poly but not sure yet, I love reptiles, reading, and gardening, my age is 17 years and I'm a petre flip leaning towards regressor, my regressed pet is a kitten however I pet dream as a bunny too, I'm a sfw switch and lean sub

White, She/Bun/Angel please, I'm asexual greyromantic polyromantic polyamorous, I guess I like tea, plushies, and bunnies, I'm a age slider too 15-17 so ye, I'm a little and my age is 2-7 years, also a sfw sub!

Brown, She/He/Xe/Ey hey I'm brown I'm bigender bisexual and cupioromantic polyam, I like to cook write and am a pretty chill person overall, Im 16 years old, I'm a agere flip and lean towards cg however when I do regress im 4-8, Sfw switch dom lean

Red, He/Flame/Burn/🔥 Yoo red here, I'm a gay ambiamorous xenoboy, I don't really know what to put i like dogs and music I guess lolz, 14 years ma dudes, I am a caregiver and owner as well as a sfw dom so yeee

Orange, They/Them Enby and Pan Poly, I like crystals, YouTube, and fluffy stuff, I'm 14 too and am a flip in both communities and don't lean either way, my little age is 3-6 and my pets are puppy calf and fox, sfw switch again no lean

Yellow, She/It lesbian ambiamorous transgal, I like collecting stuff and sewing, 17 years old, petre to a puppy and bunny, sfw sub hehehe

Green, They/He/Per Demiboy polysexual polyam, I like video games, YouTube, and just chilling out at home, I'm 15 years, agere flip little lean 1-5 years, sfw switch sub lean

Teal, She/It/Thing ace lesbian and polyamorous, I like tea, witchy things, and animals, I am a 13 year old and both age regressor and pet regressor, my little age is 1-4 and pets are bunny kitty and mouse, I am a sfw sub

Blue, She/He/They/Ae/Per Genderfluid Abrosexual omniromantic and ambiamorous, despite being the calmest color I gots me insomnia, I like fluffy pillows, sweaters, and iced coffee, I'm a age slider and am 13-16 years, cg and owner sfw dom

Indigo, Xe/Xem agender bean and pan aro lol I am romance favorable and dont mind the idea of a romantic relationship so yea, I like the cold, waffles, and dolphins oddly specific I know, anyway 17 years, caregiver owner sfw dom

Purple, She/Cat/Mew/Meow catgender bisexual ambiamorous,I love food animals and rocks so yeee, I'm 16 and a petre flip no lean, my pets are a wolf and fox, I'm a sfw switch sub lean

Magenta, He/It Just a pansexual polyamoraus dude, I like computers, knitting and sewing, I'm 15 years old and a age regressor between 3-5 years, sfw sub baby

Pink, She/Soft/Sweet/Plush lesbian poly neogirl I like soft stuff, puppies, and cuddles, 13 years, agere and petre 2-3 and a kitten, fox, calf or bunny, sfw sub

Dni

Ageplayers or supporters

Petplayers or supporters

Nsfw/Kink blogs

Think all power exchanges are bdsm

Antikin

Cringe culture/flop blogs

"anyone can interact"

Blank blogs

Over 25(bodily)

Anti endo/tulpa

Proshippers

Please Interact

Systems/Plurals

Otherkin/Therians (Especially Colorkin!)

Age regressors

Pet regressors

Sfw power exchanges

[nekojetto]

I adore all the headcanons you have for different characters! ❤️💖💖 I wanted to know what some of your favorite headcanons are. (Of any character you like!! I saw some Hannibal 👀) 💖💖 ✨

WAH! I'm happy someone like my silly idea!! xD

Hum... I'm not super original... I'm ace... So I headcanon 90% of my favorite characters as Ace! xDDD And Aro if I don't ship them x)

/!/ Bad english again x,) I try my best!

Huhu! I'll try one headcanon by character I like! (not all of course and in no special order)

Rengoku Kyojuro: Aro/ace He adopts every single person he like even if he know you for 5min /o/

Otto Octavius: Pan/ace He's super good for hug. But he's actually too shy to hug everyone he likes.

Norman Osborn: Pan/Ace/trans He's super athletic ppl. Even before the goblin incident he does a lot of fight sport. So he can broke you with one hand even without the serum haha.

Hunter: Aro/ace He's albinos. That's why I draw him with white eyelashs. So he HATE the sun. Even during summer he cover his skin a lot.

Lilith: Aro/ace I think the "mom Lilith" Headcanon is my fav one but... She likes sewing. So she made a lot of clothes and plush for lil Hunter. He loves this gift even if she's not really good at sew.

Onigawara Tenga: Ace/pan These teeth are sharp because of a lot of figth with bad ending.

Hannigram: Bi / idk if they're ace or not? Will doesn't have nightmare when he sleep with Hanni huhu. And Hannibal talk in french for flurting with Will but it doesn't work on him at all. (but actually a lot because Will is Dorksexual /o/)

Josuyasu: Ace/pan (Josuke: nogender) Josuke show a lot of feminin stuff to Oku so now they wearing nail art and both use make up.

Faramir: Bi / No gender He try to be cold and bossy with his ranger, but he can't. So everyone respect him because he's super kind and patient.

Haha that's all for now! Maybe I add some later xD

[gaylienstage]

gender identity? don't know, don't really want to care. i'm just jo, that's all that should matter but occasionally i end up thinking about it before deciding it's future me's problem

romantic orientation? haha. oh my god where do i start. i don't think i necessarily care about the gender of who i date, does that make me bi? or pan? but if i don't really care, and if my understanding of romantic attraction is so vague that my allo friends thought i was arospec before i did, does that make me aro? the aromantic label itself doesn't feel right, but arospec sounds too vague. like. i don't think i experience romantic attraction, or at least not in the way my allo friends do, but how do i know if i've never experienced it??? have i ever had crushes??? or is it just my history of latching onto people and forming dependency issues??? have i experienced romantic attraction and just was not aware??? but like surely i'd know if i had??? what the fuck is up???????

asexuality though? took one look at that bad boy and knew that he and i were one in the same and never looked back!! asexuality is my fucking bestie!!

shoutout to asexuality for being the only part of my identity that doesn't send me into a spiraling crisis of questioning every time i think about it

[comic-the-adventurer]

My& friend wanted pan James and I& needed a flyer for him anyway lol. Requests open btw ^-^

About the first one: I& wanted to make an ace/aro flyer, but also have to be witty and eye-catching since these are pride posters after all... so that was the best I& could think of, haha.

Also, the first one is made someone, but I'm& too shy to tag them- maybe later-

[lastknownstatus-alive]

Hey I just got through your blog and I love your art ! I wanted to say an "especially [those]" but then I realized that all your art were my fave 💞. Also I saw your gayace Leo and aroace Donnie and it made me rethinks of my headcanons for them. Like before I just headcanoned Leo as aroace because self-projection lol and didn't really think about the other but seeing your aro Donnie I just went : "wait what if Leo was alloace and Donnie was aroallo ?" and now you can pry gay ace Leo and pan aro Donnie from my cold dead hands. So double thank you !!! (for making and sharing your art freely and the inspiration for the headcanons 💜💚😁😊😄💙💛)

AWW THANK YOU!!! i'm glad my fanart inspired these headcanons haha, i really just draw whatever makes me happy and that means a lot of my art is motivated by a "screw it i'm doing it myself" attitude if i don't see a concept i like very often lmao. so to see other people enjoying my v specific headcanons and interests just, dunno, surprises me and also makes me really happy too

aroallo donnie is SPLENDID and i'm glad you see leo as gay ace too! i like seeing aspec headcanons for the middle siblings especially lol

[acespec-ed]

Hey, just had a thought and wanted to get it out somewhere!

People like to joke about All or Nothing, the planned show about the pansexual and asexual roommates, and there's the oft-proposed "twist" where the pan person is shy and introverted and the ace is super outgoing. But consider this other twist - the pan person isn't actually pan at all, but ace with a really high libido who's never considered the possibility, and gets to explore/discover that part of them. I have no idea if it would be any good to watch, but it sure could be one way of exploring ace identities, right?

I was just thinking, one of my close friends thought he was bi for the longest time because of his libido (even without feeling any sexual attraction), kind of like how I thought I couldn't be ace because I felt romantic attraction and didn't know that was seperate. People do seem to enjoy lumping aces, aros and people with no libido together, probably because they don't know any better. And I've got these brain cells going, yknow?

(it's 3am and i'm tired hopefully i'm getting myself across right haha)

It's late here too and I'm also tired and don't know how to respond to this other than, I am down for any ace/aro stories/shows/movies that don't make us look bad! Someone get right on it.

[bluub]

Happy pride month! No drawing, but I come bearing sexuality headcanons for the OCs I've shown so far!

I have... so many OCs I haven't shown.

BUT ANYWAY!!!!

So, Hyacinth (she/her) is demi and bi

Astaroth (he/him, they/them, he doesn’t really care) is pan

December (he/him) is demi and hetero

Cod (she/her) is pan

Wormwood (he/him) is aro/ace, mostly because he doesn't really actually know what being in a relationship IS

Forneus (he/him) is pan

Abaddon (he/him, they/them) is bi

Emeryk (he/him) is bi with a preference for guys

Gressil (any) is pan with a preference for... married people

Beelzebub (he/him) is hetero

Lucifer (he/him) is bi

Keiran/Hell (he/him) is technically pansexual but the only person he's ever actually loved is Adin/Heaven

Aaaand lastly is Paris/Purgatory, even tho she was only in one sketch, (she/her, they/them) is aroace!

I hope to show a lot more of my OCs soon, like completing series' of OCs on here, since many are from one series or another. December, for instance, is almost directly related to Hetalia, though the AU he's from has branched off a bit from there. There are a bunch more OCs also from this AU that I have made (not to mention any family and relationships that they have!!) But then there's also the thing that Astaroth, Gressil, Bee, Lucifer, Keiran, Wormwood, Forneus, Abaddon- Just most of these guys are from, and I'm sure you can guess what that is haha. Then there's Hyacinth who... is weird. And Cod, who is... an Among Us OC taken too far. There's a lot of lil guys I want to show, even if nobody sees them.

So, I hope I get the chance to share!

Anyway, i went off on a bit of a tangent there, but happy pride month everyone!!

[linkedsoul]

Hi! Sorry, I also realised I misgendered them in the ask just after I sent it :,) (Mild spoilers:) But I just finished the book in one sitting!! I laughed, I cried it was just perfect, also halfway through I had to stop bc I had a revelation abt my gender too lol. Seriously it was so sweet and genuine 5/5 Minh struggling with their heritage and gender/sexuality was so relatable! Also Cass' poetry was so great!! Now I'm very curious abt their whole friend group though :D Idk where Minh fits but reading the discord thing at the forst chapter all I could think abt was the "every friend group has: a bimbo, a mean bisexual, a token straight, an astrology bitch etc meme xdd

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR REVIEW I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ALREADY FINISHED IT AJDOEZKFORKG IT MADE ME VERY HAPPY AAAAAH

I'm so glad you found Minh's struggle with their heritage and queerness relatable because AJFOEZKG that kind of thing can be complicated and the scenes related to that were some of my favorites to write. There is One Scene that made me cry when I reread it haha. I'm so glad it speaks to other people! <3 My goal is accomplished!

AND CONGRATS (I say congrats, but I hope that was a good revelation???) ON THE GENDER REVELATIONS, THESE CAN HAPPEN AT THE MOST UNEXPECTED MOMENTS

all in all your ask really made me so happy ajidekjri I'm sorry for the rambling!!!

to finish off this reply, here is what Minh and Cass's friend group is like according to the Meme:

Bimbo: Leslie

Mean lesbian: Selma

Even meaner bisexual: Cass

(had to invert the two because Selma can't be "meaner" than Cass she's also sassy but a sweetheart)

She/they: Fatou

He/they: Minh, if you consider that they don't always feel comfortable outing themselves as non-binary to others bc it's not always safe, esp in France where the language is very gendered and gender neutral pronouns are very new (Minh can take "he/him" from strangers and randos; but not from people who know that they use "they/them"!)

Token straight: Louis

Astrology bitch: Ousmane

Short king: Cass (as Apollo)

A few more facts:

Fatou, Ousmane, Leslie and Cass are bi, Minh is pan, Selma is a lesbian and Louis is ye token straight. Fatou is a demigirl, Ousmane and Selma are aspec and I think someone in the group is on the aro spectrum but idk who yet. They're all in Humanities and most of them are in languages (I think languages and history?), except Cass who is a law student. Ousmane and Fatou were already good friends in high school, just like Selma, Leslie and Minh. Louis is a bit of a himbo. He's the Tol that teases Cass because she's Smol. I tend to think they're the friend group that befriended each other at the beginning of uni and then just... gradually realized they were all queer. Louis is the only straight one standing but who knows, maybe in a few years he'll realize that he's the one on the aro spectrum and he's not as alloromantic as he thought. They're frankly a fun bunch and writing their discord convs was one of the most hilarious things ever!

(also I'm def planning on writing a biracial wlw in a future romance some day... dunno when but I want to! (maybe another Tet Holiday romance?)

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to your vent (you don't have to respond but I hope it helps you to know you're not alone : I'm on the aro axe spectrum and it's a pain. People pushed me to come out earlier than I was ready, back when I identified as pan. Now, when meeting new people I just say I'm aroace when it's relevant and with other people I don't even bother because they wouldn't get it.

It's not even aro and Ace but microlabels on that spectrum. I'm too tired to explain my gender my attractions etc every time it comes up. As well as how I'm polyamorous despite that.

Sometimes it's better to save your energy when you know it's just kinda of wasted anyway. Save your energy and put it into self care, into comforting and affirming resources.

I'm also genderqueer and barely ever suffer from dysphoria but I did have the luck to be able to enforce a "new" name. But the "haha, not my child but mY DAUGHTER" kills my mood every time. Like mom cfc how often need I explain I don't do gender like that lol

I hope you'll be fine and have your safe spaces to retreat to where you feel more validated and comforted

Thank u 😊