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I feel for the Izzy fans, I really do. It sucks to have your favorite character killed off, especially when you feel like their death serves no narrative purpose. It genuinely hurts to lose a character that you identify closely with, and it's okay to be sad and grieve. The character might not be real, but the grief is. Let people mourn. Don't be rude to the ones who are just being sad in their little corners of the internet, yeah?
That said.
Some of the stuff I've seen in the OFMD fandom today? Worst shit I've seen in a fandom that I love and care about, and grief is no excuse. I know I'm a no one in this fandom and I'm mostly typing into a void, but I've got to get some things out:
The show doesn't deserve to be canceled. None of the creators, producers, or writers deserve to be canceled. Nothing queerphobic, homophobic, or ableist happened.
Izzy's death was not an insult or a cruelty or a targeted attack.
David Jenkins and the rest of the writers did not gaslight and abuse anyone (yeah, those are take I've seen).
It wasn't "objectively" a cheap or meaningless or badly-written death. You can hate it and that's okay, but that's still subjective!
Izzy was not the main character or the "heart" of the show. The heart of the show -- the show itself -- is Ed and Stede's relationship. We have been told as much.
"Ed hasn't faced any consequences for his actions." He has though? He didn't gaslight girlboss his way back into everyone's hearts. Izzy is not Ed's hapless and helpless victim. He was almost beaten to death and ran around in a penitence onesie with a catbell on; I think those were consequences.
"How do you feel when gay characters are randomly killed off to help a straight couple progress their narrative? Not good, huh? That's how disabled fans feel." It's okay to feel that way, but don't make any sweeping assumptions about disabled fans. I'm disabled and I'm gonna say that's not what happened here.
"How dare you kill off this character who's abused, flawed, suicidal, disabled, and queer!" Ed is still right over there, yeah? Check, check, check, check, and check. (Little note: I've seen a lot of "he's not disabled!" Even if you don't buy the kneebrace ((Ed Teach with bad joints is so important to me, shhh)), what about invisible disabilities? What about mental health issues? I'm not here to diagnose a fictional character, but it's clear to me that Ed has mental health problems that dramatically impact his life.)
"It's sick that Izzy died in the arms of his abuser apologizing to him." I don't even know where to start with this one, but I get the feeling that some parts of the fandom only consider physical abuse valid. Mental, verbal, and emotional abuse are pretty fucking damaging and I think it's sick that some folks think they aren't actually abuse.
People who enjoyed the last episode of season two aren't media illiterate. People who love Gentlebeard aren't abusive narcissists.
I just.
I really, truly feel for Izzy fans for I too have lost a blorbo. I'm giving a huge hug to the Izzy enjoyers who aren't out there making threats and calling everyone abusers and being outright hostile to anyone who had the nerve to enjoy this season. Like, I genuinely hope you guys are doing okay, and if you need an ear, I'm game.
#ofmd#ofmd s2 spoilers#cw: abuse#tw: abuse#i'm just frustrated and sad#fandom critical#day two: still bad#but i've seen some very cool izzy fans out there talking down their friends#as well as some kind and patient words from neutral parties#this fandom is still mostly good and kind#day three: i think we're doing better!#day four: backsliding :(#me typing things
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Pinkie Pie moodboard
Requested by: @moonmoonthecrabking <3
x x x x 🎉 x x x x
#frog's boards#moodboard#mlp#my little pony#pinkie pie#mlp g4#pink aesthetic#party aesthetic#pink yellow and blue#i'm so cursed with the neutrals#this request was a blessing#i love how happy and bright it is
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I will say if people are going to dislike Peggy for taking priority over/replacing Steve's comic book canon relationships, such as with Sharon, I also do think they should acknowledge the same about Bucky.
MCU Bucky has a completely made up for the movies relationship with Steve just the same as Peggy does. In the comics, Bucky is 4-6 years younger than Steve and considered his little brother/Steve's sometimes even his father figure with whom he has a rocky relationship with later on, his childhood friend that MCU Bucky's relationship mirrors was Arnie Roth and the homoerotic undertones were with Tony (who he literally marries in a hetero variant of Civil War). I feel like the people who's only reasoning for hating her is that "she isn't even his comic book love interest" and "they've made him obsessed with her/made his entire reason for being about her" are straight up just being misogynistic and hypocritical because those reasonings also apply to MCU Bucky.
I don't mean people who dislike her for other reasons, that's a whole different discussion that I'm not going into. That's a whole new sentence. I strictly mean people who ONLY hate her for all the same reasons they think Bucky should be Steve's entire world. Don't hate Peggy because the MCU did with her what you do with Bucky.
#steve rogers#peggy carter#bucky barnes#to be absolutely clear here i don't ship steve with either of them#i'm a neutral party with the romantic ships here#i'm just getting sick of seeing essay length posts about all the reasons mcu peggy is bad and it's all shit that applies to mcu bucky too#anti mcu fandom#mcu peggy and mcu bucky have equally DIFFERENT dynamics with mcu steve than their comic counterparts#if that's your only argument its exhausting and baseless and pure misogyny
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black mask is decidedly mid, i think
#that's it that's the post#and i don't mean character i just mean his appearance#post coming to you bc i was just thinking about lu's underworld shenanigans#and. well. y'know. she's had to work with sionis every now and then. scarlett's a neutral party. that's just her job. BUT LIKE#I'M SORRY SIONIS GOT NOTHING GOING FOR HIM IN THE LOOKS DEPARTMENT#THAT SUIT IS THE BEST THING HE'S GOT#i'm going crazy send help#❮❮ * late nights & caffeine. (out.)#tbd.#i need sleep
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kavinsky's death is actually the closing arc in a great tragedy to me bc his actions throughout the story are mostly just him practically begging for someone to be on his side, to care about him, to even just look at him. his father tried to kill him, his mother is completely uninterested. he can dream himself as many people as he wants, but they will only ever think of him because he made them to do so. the dream pack are just physical manifestations of his desire to not be alone in the world, to have someone, anyone, connected to him. he so desperately tries to draw some sort of emotion out of ronan, good bad or ugly, because the intense similarities they share mean that he's the only person who might be willing to look long enough to see him. and when it doesn't work, when he realizes it can't, that this world is not for him and he is not going to be a part of it in a way that involves anyone else, he decides that everyone is going to look at least this once. they will all see the finale if nothing else. genuinely doomed from the start. and how truly devastating that is in comparison to the core group the story focuses on, characters that even at their lowest and darkest and meanest and absolute worst have others there with them. characters that always have someone looking for them. dying is a boring side of a life that has nothing inside of it.
#4th of July got me this year girls (gender neutral)#also I'm contractually obligated to mention that he was so so funny#a few of his strengths:#1. hilarious#2. leader of ronsey nation#3. thrower of parties that involve fun for the whole family (minus the dream battle and suicide that one time)#but actually tho why do I feel like they mentioned like. families going to those parties.#anyways I'm getting SOOOOOO off track#did someone say trc famous adjective lonesome#and when u think abt the fact one of his worst acts was taking Matthew.... someone he KNEW ronan cared about above all#ohhhhh OWWWWW#like yeah obviously that was terrible and evil of him I'm not saying he's innocent or even nessecarily good#I'm just saying that he's fucking tragic#like so desperate for someone to look that he doesn't even care what he has to do to make it happen#this took me like 1.5 hrs to write btw I had so many things I wanted to say but it's almost midnight and I want to post it on His Day#the raven cycle#joseph kavinsky#the dream theives#kavinsky#trc kavinsky
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sanya but neutral fly chao. I guess
#yurabox#sonic the hedgehog#i guess#chao#fuck it.. main tag#pafl#parties are for losers#sanya kazarina#i'm not sure if sanya would realistically be a neutral/fly chao i just drew her like that#i barely cleaned the sketches forgive me....#sketch#throwing this into tumblr like a grenade#a queue for you#posting this on twt too because i feel bold
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navigating 911 and its fandom as someone who's not too invested in the buddie or bucktommy of it all is quite the experience
#911 abc#I definitely would consider myself a buddie shipper but also...they're not that high up my list of priorities#is this me asking for more neutral third parties to follow me???#potentially#also this isnt a dig at ppl invested in canon bi buck or potential gay eddie#bc I'm rooting for you guys#its just not the lens by which I view the show#n e ways I have both ships blocked bc you guys take up half the henren and madney tags lmao#said with peace and love...for now
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your hands have always held their own
Heist!Mark x reader | Words: 1,063 | read on AO3
Heist!Mark finally asks his partner in crime out on that date.
It was early evening and you and your heist partner sat nearly shoulder to shoulder in your shared living room. The sun hung low, just barely brushing its rays against the clouds, tinging their edges amber and yellow.
Recently, there had been a lot more of these calm afternoons where you would sit together, discussing everything and nothing, perhaps watching TV or whatever videos took both your fancy; sometimes you simply watched the sky until you felt sleepy. Occasionally one of his hands might come up to play idly with your hair (a more affectionate gesture than either of you had ever previously initiated, but you didn't really mind, and neither of you mentioned it).
'This next heist…’ he started, ‘it's supposed to set us up, pretty much for life. And it got me thinking—'
'That's dangerous,' you interrupted.
'Yeah, maybe for you,' he quipped back, eyebrows raised mockingly, but there was no malice in his voice.
'Anyway,' he continued, voice softening. 'I was thinking about the future and stuff. Like, what do we do after this? And as nice as it would be to be able to relax and just enjoy the rest of our lives without worrying about the next spot to rob, I think I would kind of miss doing these jobs with you.'
That got your full attention. He wasn't quite meeting your eyes — instead, a loose strand on his clothes was apparently very interesting — but something about his words and the gentle sincerity with which he'd spoken them took you a little off-guard.
‘...I hadn't really thought much about it. About what happens after.’ And it was true, you hadn't; nothing past the first few wild, exciting dreams that sprung to mind when reading the amount of money the pair of you were being offered for this particular artefact. No real, solid plans.
‘I think I'd miss it too,’ you continued quietly. ‘But I mean, who's to say we can't do a couple more every once in a while, just for the fun of it, y'know? We don't even have to go after anything that valuable. More like just… for old times’ sake.’ You caught his gaze and he smiled, a little fond and a little hopeful, dark eyes twinkling.
‘Yeah, cool… So, uhm,’ he averted his gaze again and you couldn't help but find his uncharacteristic hesitance and bashfulness adorable, wondering what was on his mind that was making him act this awkward.
‘So I was wondering, once this heist is over, if you'd maybe wanna go out sometime?’
‘Sure, is that it?’ you question, oblivious. (Or maybe not wanting to get ahead of yourself. Surely there's no way he meant it like that.)
Your crime partner’s head perked up, eyes wide and looking directly into yours, as if searching for something.
‘Really?’
‘Umm, yeah?’ you say, incredulous. ‘What's got you so nervous? And… surprised? We go out together all the time.’
‘No, buddy, you don't get it…’ he said, sat looking a little like a kicked puppy. The look of disappointment that crossed his face broke your heart and instantly made you regret your words.
His hands returned to fidgeting and oh, you wanted to take those hands in yours and ease the nerves from his palms, thread his fingers through your own, press your lips to his knuckles.
Mark sighed. One of his hands came to rest on his knee while the other carded through his hair. You found yourself wanting to do the same.
‘Listen…’ he began again, eyes downcast while his hand came to rest in his lap. ‘We've been friends for what feels like ages now, working together for even longer. I know we butt heads at times, I can be an idiot and you can get on my nerves but-’ Finally his eyes met yours, and the affection in them made your breath catch in your throat.
The sun was setting by now, casting a gorgeous orange glow through the room and over his features. It made his eyes appear almost golden, and it suddenly occurred to you that no shiny trinket you could steal could ever possibly be worth more than the look those eyes were giving you in this moment. You internally cringed at the thought, but you couldn't deny it was true.
‘You're really important to me,’ he said earnestly. ‘I don't always agree with you but I always trust your judgement. I probably trust you more than anyone else, to be honest. You're my best friend, and maybe I'm wrong, but I think there could be something else here? And I wanna try being more? If that's okay with you.’
‘You mean-’
‘Yeah.’ He took your hand, said your name, foregoing any of his nicknames for you. ‘I love you — I always have, as a friend, but I think I have feelings for you. So, if you reciprocate even a little, let me take you out. On a real date. And if things don't work out,’ (you didn't miss the small flicker of something sad as he added that part) ‘well, we can still work together. And we'll still be friends, right?’ he asked hopefully.
You could feel your heart thrumming wildly, from his words, the intensity of his gaze and the warmth radiating from his hand to yours.
You took his other hand, the one still atop his knee, and replied softly: ‘I'd really love that, actually. To go on a date with you, I mean.’
The smile he gave you was genuine, unlike the typical cocky. It was wide and crinkled the skin beneath his eyes. You briefly wondered whether he could feel your racing pulse through your intertwined hands.
‘Then it's agreed. After the heist.’
‘After the heist,’ you promised.
Inevitably, you would run into problems and possibly danger in your next heist, as you usually did, but you trusted Mark, and you knew you could count on him when push came to shove. You knew that you would follow him anywhere, and the two of you had a better chance of conquering any obstacles you faced if you were together, as you always had.
The sun dipped beneath the clouds, the room was warm, and things felt comfortably the same and yet like this was a turning point for the pair of you.
You were sure this heist would be one to remember.
#(title is from Violet by Wild Party)#gender neutral reader#gender neutral y/n#I love them the sillies#this is straight up the softest of fluff#I got embarrassed and cringed writing this but I hope it's worth putting out there and someone else will enjoy it#there is NOT enough heist mark content#like what there is in terms of fics is SO GOOD don't get me wrong there's just not a lot#so I hope I can make some decent contributions for the heist stans out there lolol#it's always yancy this and illinois that and I love them too BUT HEIST MARK IS RIGHT THERE??#HE SPECIFICALLY BRINGS UP THAT YOU HAD PREVIOUSLY ESTABLISHED TO GO ON A DATE? WHY IS MY BOY SO OVERLOOKED#MAKE IT MAKE SENSE#I love this man... sorta underrated ego ngl#maybe bc he gets dumped in with actor which is valid and understandable tbh but like.. he's his own character too :(#sorry I'm very passionate#I'm just a sucker for friends to lovers basically#ahwm#a heist with markiplier#markiplier egos#markiplier cu#heist mark#heist!mark#heist mark x y/n#heist mark x reader#mark iplier#amee writes#partners in crime
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SUPER DARK TIMES (2017) DIR KEVIN PHILLIPS
#tragically had to skip the 'are you afraid of me' exchange i love at the start bc. this scene is Long#super dark times#josh templeton#zach taylor#sam edits#btw i'm firmly in the 'Josh didn't kill John' camp. bc to me THIS scene is the point that... makes the most sense as Josh's breaking point/#'villain turn' if that's what you'd want to call it. because this is really when Josh... sort of 'officially' loses Zach. from early on in#the movie it becomes clear how much Zach is like... an anchor for him—the way Josh is just fucking *chanting* his name in distress during#the Daryl accident. The way Josh begs Zach to believe him that it was an accident. The way Josh turns to Zach for answers/clarity/direction#Like even if we want to take a cynical approach and think of it as Josh just latching onto Zach in the Daryl situation because he was There#rather than that being an established thing w/ them... in the aftermath of that same incident Josh is still looking to/depending on him!#Josh self isolates at first... but after they talk & Zach tells him they shouldn't act weird Josh goes back to school. (yes#he lashes out there because He's Dealing With The Crushing Guilt but *all* of 'em are acting off then—Charlie specifically calls attention#to the idea they all probably are) Josh goes to the party just like Zach said they should and is *visibly confused* when Zach seems mad to#see him there. He goes to Zach's house to talk and you can SEE how caught off guard he is by what Zach says. Even though the script version#of this scene is VERY different from the final version I do think this one bit of description from it is... insightful: 'Josh seems sincere#almost vulnerable. But Zach is too focused to see it.' LIKE in this scene Zach is already convinced Josh has lost it! He's trying to act#more neutral about it (claiming they could just 'draw a line') but we saw his phone call with Charlie. Because of his own guilt-fueled#paranoia—something shown pretty clearly through the assorted dream sequences and like tht scene of him walking in the hall hearing people#gossip about Daryl—it seems like everything lines up too well! that '*of course* it's Josh and what if it's *been* Josh all along and well#then the role *I* played in the situation really isn't *my* fault because it was all *Josh* and...' etc. even if that's more subconscious#But like... this scene is really when it hits Josh! from the moment he asks if Zach's afraid of him now like... there's a shift. although#Zach says he isn't... i mean he fucking stumbles on the word 'afraid' (like... he hangs on the 'f' sound a moment too long to sound natural#its very subtle but like Noticeable). But Josh sees right through him. Zach doesn't trust him anymore. Zach thinks he's the bad guy. the#monster. Josh feeling like he lost the last person he had in his corner feels like the most realistic thing to... push him over the#edge. like that's a compelling tragedy to me—the idea that these two poorly coping with the Daryl situation in these separated ways where#they *aren't* talking/communicating ends up CREATING the feedback loop that makes everything get worse and worse.#But for that to be the case... it wouldn't make sense for Josh to have just randomly killed John before this scene. I think it's a more#interesting story if certain things really ARE just coincidences but it's that Zach's paranoia won't let him see that 🤷
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I don't know Drift's character very well so I don't feel confident doing this myself, but are any of my followers interested in Drift/Pharma or Pharma/Drift/Ratchet and willing to give it their best shot to describe how that might work out (positively)? Doesn't have to be art or a fic or something, could just be a meta or rambling in my notes theorizing about it
#squiggposting#i'm referencing that post from earlier saying 'this ship war couldve been solved by a threesome'#idk much about poly relationships but honestly i feel like drift would be the one holding them together#he's kind of the mediator b/t pharma and ratchet's unresolved issues with each other#and i feel like during times where emotions run high he would be a little. safer. for pharma to be intimate with#i mean it's a polycule so they'd all be with each other together but like. i think even in a committed relationship#pharma has certain neuroses and baggage with ratchet where they probably have to separate in order to not blow up at each other#whereas drift is more or less a neutral party who sees both perspectives#and from pharma's perspective he doesn't really have any particular attachments or baggage or preconceptions of him#so in a way drift would provide a 'starting fresh and new' sort of romance#whereas ratchet would be more of the old flame/ex who pharma got back together with#it'd be quite the polycule like. holy mother of relationship therapy#but i feel like in the right situation it could work
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#diane lockhart#will gardner#the good wife#alicia florrick#kalinda sharma#//#sine's edits#world's most dramatic legal throuple. like yeah ok will is in his 'i'm fucking alicia' era but have you seen him in s5 where kalinda#was the hurt yet neutral party?
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white man experiences racism for the first time. sad!
#Every time I instinctively select Astarion to lead the party and try to talk to someone and they say I smell like shit and to fuck off#im kinda like. good. put him in his place. this is lae'zel's turf#bg3#aslo when he stands directly in the sunlight he hurts my eyes ALDKJSLGK#Also I have a mod that removes the girls' makeup so that's why my kar and lae look prettier than your games' does#ugh I cowered away from wyll art and sc with horns for so long because i thought it was act iii spoilers#but it turns out it's a good thing that happens five minutes in that usually everyone does because it's good#and I'm the only person on earth who fucked up and lost karlach bc I saved a child from being murdered in cold blood#which started a battle in the grove#so to be in character i had wyll kill karlach because i couldn't recruit her but i found her head in a chest and can't play that save anymo#after starting this second playthrough as astarion and becoming friends with karlach#and how she is so kind and loving and affectionate even though she feels no approval towards astarion#literally the other two are high approval but karlach is stuck firmly at neutral or fair#but she still talks to me like a friend and that makes me cry and i killed her in cold blood before i even knew her and i didn't mean to#sorry i hope i get meds that makes me care about humans as much as i care about characters :(
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Just a reminder that a vote for no one is a vote for the opposition
#Get real#You can't be neutral on this#We're not looking for an ally#We're trying to keep Republicans out#Ebcause you can belly ache about how Democrats are just as bad or how they don't do anything all you want#They're not the ones killing us in the streets#Voting blue in the 2024 election is so important you don't understand#My family is getting passports and considering skipping the country if the election goes wrong and there are a TON#Of reasons why we don't want to do that.#I'm fucking begging you#Vote blue no matter who#Even if it's Joe#Voting third party is a waste of time. It just makes the chances of winning smaller#us politics
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you guys know stuff can just be neutral right. like it doesn't have to be good or bad it can just Be ykwim like sometimes an experience is Weird but that doesn't necessarily imply that it was good or bad sometimes things are just so unfamiliar that the sheer novelty overrides having an opinion about it. sometimes you hear someone's died, but it's no one you knew or would ever know and it's so many degrees of separation from the source that they have no emotional investment in it either and that's not automatically a tragedy OR a relief it's just a statement of fact.
sometimes stuff just Is. and it's okay that it is.
#i often preface statements or questions with 'this is morally neutral'#especially when I'm using words like 'manipulate'#because the default assumption of that word is negative but sometimes I just mean it as cause and effect#I know a lot of people ask questions that have An Answer and if you say the wrong one you are bad#the classic like how does my ass look in these jeans or do you think [third party] is attractive#or even where do you want to have dinner but we will end up at a specific place regardless#anyway so many people do that but they spoil the questions for like decent normal curious people#sometimes I feel like I have to be like i am not emotionally invested in a particular answer#sometimes you feel the exact same about every choice and it's genuinely about what's true#a lot of people don't really care about what's true though
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Denam is slowly going insane from survivor's guilt and meanwhile Catiua's going insane because Denam keeps throwing himself into harm's way for the sake of strangers and I'm feeling really normal about it
#tactics ogre#THEY'RE BOTH LOSING THEIR MINDS AND THEY BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER A LOT AND I THINK THEY'RE NEAT#when knight and mage dudes asked me to save cistina naturally I replied with a bright and cheerful 'sure! :)'#but I do feel a little bad bc catiua's definitely Not Having A Good Time#I'm kind of guessing that she'll split off from my party if I don't choose neutral route?#I looked up how to recruit some characters so I vaguely know what happens at that branching point#but I haven't found out for sure what Catiua will do either way#space-spring liveblogging#psp version#chaos route#ogre battle series
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#there should be an option to hang out/go partying on halloween but not wear a costume because you just literally don't have any interest#in wearing a costume#and in that option there should be a whole world of people who say nothing about it and do not care#and don't make you feel joyless and annoying for not wanting to wear a costume#why did we invent a holiday where the barrier of entry is to do work and spend money in order to be Extra Looked At#forgive me but literally nothing sounds less fun than a regular night out with the addition of like#a hundred interactions where someone looks closely at you and says what are you#and you repeat the same phrase or word to every one of them#like the reason i wear neutral colors and basic shapes at all times is because i have Zero interest#in fact Negative Interest#in people staring at what I'm wearing and formulating opinions about it#ppl are so lame when i tell them i don't care for halloween too#they're like omg u just don't like being perceived 🤪🤪 big mood hehe#and i'm like no i actually don't care for anyone perceiving or being perceived in this context#it is just generally lame and makes social interactions eighty percent more awkward
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