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#lol im so bad at comforting people with words#like my friend just broke up with her bf and i just agree with her sayin she never wants to date again 😭😭#and i keep making jokes about me being a divorce child now#i would just like to give her a big hug#im a comfort hugger#break ups fuckin suck and they hurt but ive gone so cynical perhaps?
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Hey! i’m really into the dbch story and i was wondering if doc and xisuma ever tell bdubs the specifics of why etho lost his memories, cause if they do that is prime self blaming angst for bdubs
I’m inclined to believe they don’t. Actually (and maybe I should do a small comic for this so more people see it) I imagine, once a month or a few pass and they finally return etho to bdubs as reset, I imagine they are VERY serious about warning bdubs not to try to force Etho to re-deviate— they don’t go into specifics, but they probably tell bdubs that whatever happened had to do with something that was emotionally overwhelming, and that forcing him to redeviate/not letting it happen naturally could trigger the same error. They have no idea what could happen so bdubs needs to be very careful and let Etho find himself again on his own.
Whether or not bdubs gets impatient or can only go so long before he doubts it would be that bad if he tried pushing Etho in the right direction is another story.
But yeah. I don’t think Xisuma or Doc really… tell anyone that this happened. Etho’s error seemed like a very specific one-off scenario, so it’s not something the other hermits should be trying to avoid or be careful about happening to their own android friends, and the only thing telling people would do is make them worried about the situation. All they need to know is that etho was broken and that they need to be careful with him. I don’t agree with their decision to keep what happened to themselves but I understand it I think. Xisuma “i don’t want to worry the hermits” Void and Docm “eh this isn’t the first time I’ve replaced this arm, people won’t question it” 77
#that’s a lie actually I think xisuma ends up telling Cleo :>#but only because Cleo is very smart and I think they should be close in this au :]#but no she would clock Tired Overworked Existential Crisis Xisuma in an instant#Cleo calls them both idiots and gives them big hugs and tells them they need therapy. also that they’re welcome by her place anytime to talk#it’s very sweet and healing to me#this is where “all things end’’ on Xisuma’s playlist comes in actually#oh my god I got so off topic#BDUBS IS GOING TO FEEL GUILTY NO MATTER WHAT THOUGH#like okay. technically#the reason etho shut down is because he was freaking out that everything was his fault#(last life—not giving bdubs a heart— trying to win for bdubs and then losing— coming back to s8 feeling like he can’t face bdubs—>#ending up leaving him alone when the moon hit#and bdubs was hurt by these things. no doubt#but bdubs just wants his friend back and maybe he’s a little reckless about it#bdubs hides his emotions behind cartoonish frustration and complaining but he feels bad#he feels like he should be doing more to ‘save’ etho and bring him back even though he was to#told* he shouldn’t#dbhc ask#dbhc#dbhc bdubs#dbhc etho#dbhc doc#dbhc xisuma#ask#anon
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i think the most heartbreaking moment in childish things is winn and kara’s conversation at the docks bc like “no, you don’t really need me.” bit hurts me so much every time
#like winn genuinely believes that she and everyone else would be better off without him#and he just doesn’t believe kara when she says that she’s better off *because* of him#and then there’s that flicker of a moment at the end he hears her say that she wants to be there for him like he’s always been there for he#and it’s only for a moment that you can see in his face that he thinks that maybe just *maybe* that she feels the same way about him#that he isn’t alone and that he might have a chance#but he still just doesn’t believe in himself that he can do any good in the world because of what his father did#that he is terrified of getting too close to people and that if he explodes they’ll all be gone because of him#he wants to have friends and to be loved but doesn’t feel deserving of that#sorry i’m just in my winn schott feels rn#he’s just so special to me and i just want to give him a big hug#winn schott#jeremy jordan#supergirl#i’ve rewatched this episode too many times just ignore my ramblings
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the way the ericson group were at the outbreak just a bunch of troubled kids who made various mistakes or committed crimes and were judged by a system that punished and abandoned them instead of giving them the support and love they needed, are then nearly a decade later put into a situation where now they must judge a troubled child for the mistakes and crimes hes committed against them. and 5 to 3 vote them out 😭
#twdg#i love the way s4 connects back to lees whole 'murderer' thing back in s1 😭 guilt...atonement.....systems of punishment#i love thinking about s1>s4 themes and crying#anyway this is partially why i hate when i see the ericson cast reduced down to 'just some teens' its so much more than that#them being abandoned in a boarding school for troubled kids is SO IMPORTANT its not 'just some school'#anyway its also probably why theyre my favorite cast#theyre literally one of if not the most mature group of the series even while being a bunch of kids who make choices i dont agree with#because they actually love and care about each other. even when theyre mad. because theyre all they have left#i do think the vote was a fair way to handle it even tho i still ultimately find it cruel. they couldve talked it out#but this is still a story that needs conflict to resolve so is what it is#they would rather they leave than have to face their confused feelings. the most immature thing they do. but understandable#they did such a good job crafting that cast for clem GOD an entire ensemble built around her and aj....delicious#zombie/post apoc media about love and community my beloved 😭#sorry but get tf out of here with that 'humans are evil and everyone dies' lame ass bullshit we are nothing without community#the amount of love pouring out of s4 is like getting my ass kicked but then they give me a big hug and kiss after and send me on my way#s4 my absolute beloved i really love it more and more every time. so much to appreciate even with it the way it is#the themes bro the themes........ the connections between seasons 1 and 4 you are everything to me#it speaks
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I forgot how to draw her so practice doodlin' for Camilla.
#fe fates#camilla#hello i love her and appreciate her and i think her hugs would kill me#my body would be shattered by a strong woman giving a hug she is too strong i love her#she is great ok i think shes great and also shes super pretty hhhhhrgh#i love how beefy she is shes just a tall gal with big biceps and swinging a giant axe and riding a wyvern#and yet walks elegantly on heels its a wonderful design im sorry#like not the actual armor please dont think im excusing her lingerie armor at all im not#im just saying i think its really cool to have beefy big sis on a dragon but also in heels#her armor is atrocious though and she deserves better - like idk give her some pants for starters
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They were reunited last night (இ﹏இ`。)
#basdraws#oc#rinsla vizsla#nosran vizsla#this was after they hugged and it was all very emotional and sweet#and his entrance was SO BADASS#dawg rocked up with the axe of mandalor the ultimate and the stolen darksaber like#hi#big boy incredibly badass also gentle giant#and their crystals are a pair that sing to eachother thru the force when theyre together#now rinny is baby just following her big brother around like small child and giving him the whatever you say big baby brown eyes treatment#she adores him and she would skin people alive for him#NEXT SESSIONS THE BIG FIGHT AGAINST THE SITH-BOLSTERED TRAITOR MANDALORIAN FORCES#mandalorian#mandalorian oc#tognath#tognath oc#sw5e#star wars#star wars oc#ttrpg#im hollering she finally has her brother back#now the real fun begins#(character development)#i mean honestly just look at Nosran#he is such a handsome lad#lowkey twirling my hair and kicking my feet at my own ocs sibling
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I've been thinking a lot about how Rook's reunion with his former mentor, Zara, is going to go, and since I can't predict what the DM is going to have her do or say, I can only dwell on what I know is going to happen. Which happens to include taking off the illusion ring that's been hiding his injuries from her. So have a snippet of the description I have planned for that moment:
tw for description of (mostly healed) injuries
He hesitates, twisting a ring on his finger. Looking at it more closely, she can tell it’s very finely crafted, and must have been very expensive. A large emerald is set into the band. Rook sighs, and pulls the ring off his finger in one quick motion. Immediately she’s struck by the difference in his appearance as the illusion melts away. He looks awful. His warm, healthy skin fades to a dull and sickly grey. There’s huge bags under his deeply sunken eyes, and his cheeks are hollowed, as though they have been carved out by an overeager sculptor. He looks like he’s recently risen from the grave. While he was thin before, now she can see his ribs under the skin, and his collarbones are exaggeratedly pronounce. Thin white lines left by dozens upon dozens of recently healed cuts are scattered across his body. On top of that, faded bruises cover most of his visible skin, a mottled mosaic of purple and yellow. They’re clearly days, maybe weeks old, and she can only begin to imagine what they must have looked like when fresh. Bandages are barely visible under his shirt, wrapping around his back, hinting at even more injuries.
#morrigan.text#my writing#dnd writing#oc: Rook#oc: Zara#Poor Zara.#she's gonna feel so fucking guilty about everything that's happened to him in the last 3 years even though it's not her fault.#yes she pissed off Wolf but she had no way of knowing Wolf would go after Rook instead of her.#(I don't even know what she did to piss off Wolf. That's the Big Reveal that's going to happen when Rook sees her again.)#but yeah. Seeing him like this and knowing/thinking that it's because of her actions... it's going to destroy her and that kills me.#I don't know what she did but I *do* know that she never intended for Rook to get hurt. She loves him too much for that.#but Rook could never blame her for anything. He'd forgive her just about anything. And that will probably only make her feel worse.#Rook and his mentors will never ever fail to fuck me up big time.#his undying devotion and naive faith in them which is such a stark contrast to his usual distrust of people.#and it gets him hurt every time even though the don't *mean* to hurt him. But Sigmar's case was definitely much more malicious than Zara's.#this reunion is going to be such a huge turning point for Rook's character and his personal development as a character.#well really it's a combination of things all happening at once that are going to be the turning point.#1) the fact that the party rescued him from Wolf which has literally no other explanation than that they love him and care about him.#2) seeing Zara again and finally getting that closure that he never got three years ago plus being to reestablish the most important#relationship in his entire life. Plus she's just a good influence on him all-around a much-needed source of support after Sigmar's betrayal#3) getting gifted the Tide Breaker (Zara's old ship) and having to learn some responsibility for once in his life will be very good for him#and I guess you could also say that 4) my temporary character Val talking some sense into him has something to do with it lmao.#but we'll see how this all plays out bc while I know these things are going to happen they technically haven't happened yet.#I'm not gonna RP the conversation between Rook and Val bc it would just be me talking to myself for a long time but I am gonna write it up#when we get to that point so I can show it to the DM so he knows what they talked about. Plus it will be a very fun exercise bc Val was#literally designed to be Rook's opposite in just about every way. They're very wise and responsible and Rook is a reckless idiot.#(but I love him anyways.)#So it's gonna be fun to balance writing both of them in the same conversation.#anyways. these tags are SO FUCKING LONG already. If you read this far I'm giving you your favorite dessert and a hug if you want it.#and also pledging you my undying allegiance for life. <3
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Things about yesterday’s episode that also made me insane but I was too distracted by Sabito and Baby Giyuu to freak out about :
How endearing is it that when directly asked, Tanjiro (known walking Antidepressant) is uncertain of his ability to cheer someone up. Like little buddy. You looked at Genya the right way for 4 seconds and it fixed his whole shit. You’ll be fine
Him waiting outside Giyuu’s house and just not giving up on him. Giyuu being so unfamiliar with kindness he straight up thought he heard Tanjiro wrong when he said he was coming in
Tanjiro sitting damn near knee-to-knee with him. Giyuu staring at his knees like *internally* personal space personal space personal sp
SHINOBUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
Honestly I was never huge on her character and felt kinda like I was forcing myself to like her because she’s a rare female character in the show but I always liked Mitsuri better
UNTIL I SAW THAT EYE TWITCH. LIKE OK MISS GIRL WE ALL NEED A LOBOTOMY SOMETIMES 💖
But fr the potential for some female rage here is off the CHARTS. Sanemi please grab her by the shoulders like ‘ARENT YOU TIRED OF BEING NICE? DONT YOU JUST WANNA GO APESHIT?
#kny#kny s4#Also speaking of personal space#I really am gonna need Giyuu and Nezuko to have some interactions#however unaware tanjiro is of social convention. never letting it trump just being earnest and kind#Nezuko doesn’t give a fuck about being polite AT. ALL.#if she were there you KNOW she’d IMMEDIATELY throw her arms around his waist#big fat hug#and Giyuu would be so surprised he’d like raise his arms up to avoid touching her#like ‘um um um it’s touching me tanjiro what do I do what does this mean’#tanjiro is like aww she just loves you that’s all#Giyuu *tearing up* hm. good to know. now get the fuck out of my house#the Kamados do not listen and I love them for it#PLEASE. HIM SMILING. HIM FREELY ASKING TANJIRO QUESTIONS. TALKING. LIKE ITS NOTHING#TANJIRO FIXED HIMMMMMMMMM#AAAAAA
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finished the new archon quest
#omfg i never thought an archon quest would be able to top sumeru but genshin proved me wrong#and i am glad it did fr bc that was the best archon quest i've ever experienced#i AM SAD#IDK WHAT TO FEEL#it was absolute perfection and i have no words!!!#furina has my whole heart i love her soooooooooo much#i might just have to pull for her fr bc i absolutely adored her and i admire her tenacity and willpower#to be able to play a fckn role for 500 years without shitting herself... i applaud and commend she deserves all the happiness in the world#i loved it so much i'm upset i wasn't able to get neuvillete#i love furina so much like yall pls understand i want to give her a big fat hug fr#the way the events played out perfectly to reveal this grand storyline#i love how it was just so satisfying. all the questions answered (fontaine lore) and the climax#+ buildup was absolutely gorgeous#focalors is a badass i love her so much#i love this archon quest sm bro i will NEVER shut up abt jt#genshin impact#archon quest 4.2#genshin impact 4.2#furina#focalors#nuevillette#navia#traveler#childe#archon quest
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drawing them kissing is a very special type of therapy for me and i don't know why
#rain world#rw lifeline#rw lilypad#rw#no significant harassment#looks to the moon#i keep imagining that after a while nsh stops being super rowdy n over the top to “impress” her#n instead of him flaring up n getting all flustered in her company (he absolutely still would just not CONSTANTLY)#he relaxes when shes around n it calms his nerves#and also hed probably make a lot of bad flirts at her and AUURRRGG IT WOUDL BE SO SUPER CUTE.#and also i think the way they hug compliments each other cus i imagine moon likes to give big embraces over the shoulders#and nsh prefers giving low hugs without too much squeeze#but he would defo hold her tighter if he wanted her to stay in his arms me thinks . giggles#my brain hasnt shut up about them whatsoever i need what they have NOOWWW#sorry for rambling in the tags a lot im insane
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Two moods
1) queer queer queer
2) BIG METAL PROTECT TINY THING
#they over lap sometimes#sometimes the big metal destroy to protect#sometime it just vibing in the picture with implied violence#sometimes the metal covered queers who will be kissing#once the stabbing is out of their systems#when your so sleepy you can’t draw the ideas in your head so you make a sketch that you Pray makes sense to tomorrow me#anyway back to music while I get ready for sleep#guys I have the best baby sister#she wants to give me hugs so much#and asks where I am all the time#and thinks anyone with long wavy hair is me#I would kill for her#normally I don’t wanna hurt but if you hurt any of my siblings you’re fucking dead#a kid was mean to one of my sisters and I had to tame the beast that wanted to pick him up and throw him#like no she can handle this and be mature don’t be a freak who gets sent to jail#I also think the kid will grow up too but like#there’s moments of a beast
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i had the day off so i spent like five hours doing budgeting. jesus fuck why is everything so expensive
#i'd need to make over double of what i'm making now to be able to live on my own#either a.) without a car + with a roommate somewhere near the city#which means i'd have to learn to use the public transport here. i've looked into it and none of the bus lines go beyond a very limited part#of the metro area so i'd need to find work somewhere within there.#or b.) with a car + renting on my own somewhere further out. the commute would be ass and the car maintenance even assier#thing is i really‚ really need to figure this out because i NEED to get out of this house for good#after i graduate i cannot land back in here.#there's this really cute girl i met at the club last month and we've been talking a lot and i'd love to be with her and i know she would to#but she's trans and my parents would legit throw me out of the house if they found out#and she doesn't deserve to be hidden‚ y'know? i want to be able to tell everyone i know and care about about us#but i just can't do that right now. and i hate the thought of missing out on relationships and stifling myself like this out of fear#i talk a big game sometimes but i'm TERRIFIED of the people and the things i've noticed i'm attracted and drawn to#because i know what my parents say about 'those' people. i've heard every mean-spirited‚ downright disgusted thing they've said#and for all the smiles and the hugs my family throws my way i know what they are. i've seen the treatment they give queer family members.#i have an uncle who didn't speak to his daughter for almost a decade when she came out as a lesbian#it was only a couple years ago that they started to reconnect and she can't even bring her partner to family gatherings because it makes#people 'uncomfortable'#i'm sorry i'm rambling at this point but i just wish things would get a little easier. instead i feel all this pressure and everything#getting harder#nothing left to do except put on my big boy pants i guess#sansgwilie
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20. How do they comfort each other when one of them is upset? Is this method of comfort effective? and 26. What sacrifices do they make for each other for Arianwen and Zevran?
Have a lovely day ^^
Hey!! and thank you for the ask c: I hope you also have a beautiful day. <3
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20. How do they comfort each other when one of them is upset? Is this method of comfort effective?
Ooh so, I think they both tend to offer physical comfort first, actually. This works well for when they're upset, but not well when either of them is angry (Wen Does Not like to be touched when she's mad, but she finds pressure really comforting when she's upset, for example). I think part of this is that, for Zev, physical affection makes the most sense. It was sort of the first language he learned, in a way, so that's what he understands best and most easily.
Words are harder for both of them, but definitely something they would try if physical contact doesn't work. Again, this is more effective when either of them is upset rather than angry. Wen thinks in a very linear manner, so laying out facts actually works pretty well to bring her down from the worst of it ("There was nothing you could have done because you weren't here to do something. The people responsible are dead," etc.) whereas I think Zev responds better to words of comfort ("It shouldn't have happened, but I'm here now and I'm not leaving," etc.) even if it takes him a while to admit it.
26. What sacrifices do they make for each other?
Oooh. This is maybe more abstract than the question intended but:
The greatest sacrifice Wen makes for Zevran is the largest portion of her anger. At some point, she recognizes that she can't love him and despise the world, so she makes the conscious decision to let some of it go. (Not all of it. I don't think she's capable of that. But most of her desperation for revenge---that's something she sets aside so she has space for him in her heart instead.)
The biggest sacrifice Zev makes for her is staying. Not because it's a sacrifice to be in her company, but because running and distance have become the default for him and choosing to stay is so, so much harder.
But I think, most importantly for the two of them, they make space for each other every day on purpose. I think this is what they need more than anything: someone to look at them and say "this is for you and will always be yours and no matter what distance or time passes between us, my arms will be open for you, even when it scares me." And I think that's something that would feel very vulnerable and frightening to both of them, though it is also so worth it.
#i mean tbc they would also kill and die for each other but like. killing is so not a big deal to either of them. that's not even a sacrifice#that's just a tuesday#vulnerability is a much bigger sacrifice by far#wen entirely wrapped around zev sitting in his lap: that shouldn't have happened to you and you didn't deserve it. how can i hug you more?#i think she gives the impression that she hates to be touched but it's actually the opposite. that's what scares her i think#and what makes him being around so important to her#oc ask response#ask response#arianwen tabris#thank you again!! <3 i lub them
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Ocs can be so special and not reflective of yourself in any way
#Listen to my problems#just remembered that yancy has night terrors well into adulthood and he lives alone in a big house because his parents didnt want to move to#central city with him. and he doesnt sleep until he has to he stays awake in his kitchen drinking beer and crying sometimes just because#and when veronica moved in she would sleep on the sofa and take care of him at night ... (veronica has nightmares sometimes too...)#she had a major freakout about her missing eye and shes still steeped in paranoia that theyre gonna find her (unspecified they)#she doesnt like touching people much but she hugs him and only him and lets him give her silly nicknames .. x#and sol .. then sol came home with yancy ... and sol came into yancys room (yancy likes him a lot ...) and they would hold each other at#night simply because theyre both warm bodies#yancy doesnt know that hes just a machine .. sol was so much more to him. before he was gears and wires he was yancys friend ...#yancy is Callous about the wires. he forgets sometimes he loves machines but more than that he loves sol ... you see .... he is a cool#machine but theyre best friends they like each other ..#hes yancys bodyguard he takes care of him throughout the day and throughout the night#person by person yancys big house starts to fill up ..#just realised something funny. sol and grace are from the same hitman agency. sol choked yancy out and tried to break his neck before he#hired him and grace was invited to come over by sol and as soon as she stepped into the house she was chased around with a knife by veronica#like both of them tried to kill their special one thats really funny#i say special one because sol is yancys special one but grace and vero are literally just girlfriends who have sex
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Sometimes it's the little things that make you realise you are the least favourite child
#personal#late night ramblings of a yeller belly#it doesnt have to be a big thing#it can be something trivial like a parent using a mug from your sibling and not one you got them#it sounds ridiculous i know#and it's probably a “i just prefer this normal mug to that big one” or “idk im doing this” thing#and I'm probably just overthinking as usual#but when i think about it yeah my brother probably is the favourite child#as least with my dad's side of the family#me and my gran gotta stick together#god i miss my mum#i would do anything to hug her again#i am now 30 and she isnt here to meet my bf or see me move into my first home#she wont meet her granddaughter#if i get married she wont be there#she wont be there when/if i go dress shopping#if i have kids she wont meet them or be there with me when i give birth#i see people on facebook etc sharing these moments with their mum and it hurts that i will never get that#if you're still with me im sorry for rambling#i just needed to get it out there#and its coming up to the anniversary of her death so i feel shitty
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Am I sad about a dragon riding princess with her dragon and a 350 year old formidable witch, the personification of Death itself and their adorable child? Yes. Do I know why? Maybe.
#i feel like if i could just meet these characters#i would give them a hug#a big tight hug#filled with all admiration#rio in her green witch form of course#i just feel so sad about them
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