#i want jjong

[speakofcompersion]

For jjong month ♡ part [1/4]

[ohmuqueen]

151025 SHINee World IV in Shanghai

[jonghyunluvr]

early days jjong surrounded by rumors of being a player who goes around breaking girls hearts SDGJJFDGFGKJ the same man who would probably scream and giggle over a good morning text from his crush that's a hopeless romantic THROUGH AND THROUGH he literally has the word ROMANTICIST tattooed on him ASFGJLHRRJKGSJ

[deja-yu]

Request - Ateez with a S/O who has a physical illness.

Note: I am not good at writing lists (reaction fics?) like this or am just I think a little too analytical. I hope it's somewhat something anon will like.

Type 1: 

I think some of the members might be a little overbearing, which depending on you can be good or bad? I think these members specifically might worry a lot and treat you like fragile glass early on in your relationship (regardless if you're dating or just friends). Babying you a little too much? “No, don’t do that, what if you get hurt?” when you make yourself some tea kind of vibes. And you would have to talk about it with them IF it would become too much for you. Talk to them about it and they’d become a bit more relaxed, might take some time. If you would have a bad day or have something more serious going on, like issues that require a lot of doctor visits, not getting the right meds, etc. They’d be all over you again, but over time it wouldn’t be as overbearing as they learn or “fine-tune” the way they care for you. The two of you would get through these bumps a lot easier over time in terms of how you support each other. 

For Hwa I get the feeling he just worries a lot which is why he might baby you. He is a very understanding and thoughtful person so I think him being overbearing would also come from not knowing how to handle it otherwise? He’d be reading up on articles and threads on how to support his partner/friend and on how your illness affects you. I think the babying would stop over time as he learns what you want/need from him by asking you directly and from reading up on it.

San is a little bit of a hard one to place, but I do think he would be a little overbearing. He would also try to be tough for you. He is a very sweet guy though and he wouldn’t last long and probably start crying at some point feeling a little lost on how to be the right “man” for you, somewhat also hiding any of his own issues to again try to protect you. But he doesn’t need to be perfect, once you tell him that he doesn’t need to hide his worries, work on communication a little, he’d become more relaxed. He starts asking you when you need help instead of taking all your tasks from your hands. 

Yunho… I do think he is a little hard to place?? In between being like easy-going but also worrying a little too much at times. I just think he has the tendency to do things for others in general, not noticing that with you he does it too much. You get up to get water? Too late he is already in the kitchen, “Sit down, I’ll get it”. You groan after waking up with more pain than usual and he is running through the house to get whatever he thinks will help “Heat pad?? Do you want soup?” His heart would just skip a small beat every time worry creeps into his head. When you tell him to calm down he sits with big puppy eyes. You would need to tell him when he gets too overbearing and he will listen, after a while he gets more accustomed to how to help you properly. 

Type 2:

For these members I think they would be a bit more ‘neutral’ when it comes to knowing about your illness. Quick to adjust when they find out about things that are a bit harder for you or if you’d rather stay in bed all day it would be easy for them to go with the flow and not make it a big deal. I don’t know how to properly put it in words, they’d just be quick to learn how to help you when needed but not overstep on babying you. If there are issues they’d have clammy hands while trying to hide their worries from you to try and support you. So I think their fault would be in trying to stay “tough” for you and not voice their worries or hide their feelings in general. That would also require a little talk, otherwise they don’t talk to you about their worries in regards to your health they would try to “protect you more” over time.  

Hongjoong and Mingi I think both would try and become like your ‘solid rock to lean on’. Hongjoong will probably have tendencies to rant when he gets worried which makes it a little easier to discuss earlier on that he doesn’t need to be stone-faced to support you and he is allowed to show his worries. He becomes more clingy after discussing as he shows his softie side a lot more, falling better in tune with your needs. Still he will always be there when you need a solid shoulder to lean on but he gets better at communicating with you about any issues you face due to your illness. 

Mingi is a very logical person, I think he would read up online about your illness and maybe get too focussed on whatever he reads there? Everyone deals with things differently so what he reads might not be what you need/want. He also would be tough and maybe try not to show any worries (weakness?) to not add onto your burdens. It might become an issue between you two and that will probably cause him to share he doesn’t really know what he is doing. Finally allowing you to talk about things and work things out so you can understand each other better in the future. 

Type 3:

Lastly, they would be somewhere in between. I think they’d talk about it more. Establish earlier on if there is something you need them to do for you or when to step in to help you at the right times. They’d hold your hand during doctor visits and take you home with a little extra care because yes they are worried but they would voice their worries and talk to you. Maybe there needs to be some changes to your routine to better fit your current issues and “Hey, this is a little scary you are okay right?” because it’s hard to see someone you love suffer and not be able to take it away. 

Yeosang seems like he would just ask you questions when he has them. It means he knows your needs and I think he would still go online and maybe read some different threads but in general he just talks to you a lot. He might be quick to take tasks out of your hands when it is regarding physical things, he carries in the groceries and when you’re handed heavy things he takes them instead. (Jongho who does the same but would actually glare at whichever person tried handing you a 6-pack of your favourite drink). Yeo just seems very easy going to me, like of course he isn’t perfect but it would be like second nature to the both of you to bring anything issues up and they would be solved quickly. 

Jongho who I do also see being a little of ‘I’m a tough man, I don’t talk about my emotions’ kind of guy. And I am probably a little blinded by favouritism but I do think he would go online and read threads about others in similar situations and realise he needs to be more open with you and himself. I think he would be good at communicating and not crossing into babying /overprotecting when he helps you. Like I said before I do think he’d glare at people who might unintentionally give you physical work. 

Lastly, our little Wooyoung, he gives me a bit of everything. He is a really caring person so he might overstep and be overbearing. Woo also seems like he would try and be strong so he doesn’t burden his partner. However he also is good at communicating so I think that would stop him from actually going overboard with how he cares for you in either of the previous directions. Similar to Yeosang, it would be easy to talk with him and there wouldn’t be long bubbling undiscussed issues. He might worry a lot though and need some reassurance now and then. 

[applejongho]

MY PULLS and also some I bought 🥹🥹🥹

[smushedmuffin]

there are some people who i wish i could tell how much of an impact they had on me, but theyll never know how much they have comforted me

[seilon]

like i was never into 1D and liam seemed like a very troubled guy to put it kindly but just. it’s only every so often you hear about such a young celebrity dying so abruptly. and I fully understand the distress of adults who were super into 1D as kids over this because that point in time was really not that long ago and yeah just. feels a bit surreal

[whatwouldjinkido]

everyday i debate not dying my hair like either one of them …….

[blessyouhawkeye]

i can't believe that it's almost been six years without jonghyun because it doesn't feel like it at all. i still miss him just as much.

[lazzledazzler]

how do i convince my mom to let me adopt four more cats—

[chwejongho-archive]

❄️your winter gift has arrived, @applejongho!❄️

a series of gifts for mutuals through december!

[speakofcompersion]

For jjong month ♡ part [2/4] ~happy birthday edition~

[ohmuqueen]

x

[leatherbookmark]

zero:fever part 3 diary ver (scans by dearmingki @ tt)

[faceglitchsworld]

i think despite the constant bad luck the two had the fact that they were so earnest was super endearing to me! also the slice of life vibes reminded me of the cartoons id watch growing up, i may be bit biased...either way i found them so cute together and when yhe last episode ended it felt too soonnnn i wanna see more !!

The slice of life aspect is probably the main reason why I decided to give it a chance and I'm glad they handled the plot so well in this aspect 😭

I think the director managed to give us the impression to be there with them, living the school life and feeling the first crush on your best friend. The actors, even the ones who played the minor characters (I've fallen in love with Leo Matsumoto, he handled Hosaka P E R F E C T L Y) were wonderful I've got curios on their next projects too (Wait for me Kentaro, I going to watch your historical drama 😭)

And yeah, I got the feeling, the series was short but the reason is because it's a manga adaptation...a very faithful one.

And since the source material is still on going and they didn't wanted to add any original plot points, they ended the series soon. It was a satisfying ending ngl, but you surely get left with wanting more to see.

I hope that we'll get a second season soon tbh, but we need to see if there's enough material to adapt 😅

[jjongslight]

I have an apology to make to the person who was trying to explain to me how being a blinger first and foremost made it very hard to continue following up with SHINee. I had gotten mad saying everyone was having a hard time with Jjong missing and he was all our bias in some way.

I was butthurt feeling like having another bias than Jjong meant that my love for Jjong wasn't recognized as much.

Even though I still love Jjong like no other, I get it now. Jinki's absence over almost a year until now (except the few photos we had at some point), made me understand how much hold this man has on my heart. SHINee content and related stuff lost their colour, their vibrancy to me. My sun wasn't there and all I could see was gray.

I get it now. And I am sorry.