#i should make a chart

[acoraxia]

At this point, I'm convinced that your narinder is actually just a seperate entity from you that you have no control over

He just does what he wants, and you can't do anything about it

he is he’s taking over the narrative help me guys help he’s right behind me—

HE CAN’T KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH THIS—

[prettyboykatsuki]

I'm like that one conspiracy meme trying to pin point your type and there is no obvious pattern like what do wyll, shadowheart, bakugo, that guy from rdr2, rin and isagi have in common ?

KFDJJGLDK

i joke about having a type often but i dont really. it's just like several categories with specific ticks.

man who could fix me(often paired with martyr complex and daddy issues): wyll. deku. charles smith rdr2. iwaizumi hajime

kind of normal guy but something deeply wrong with him: megumi. isagi.

brat with inferiority complex: bakugou. scaramouche. itoshi rin

princesses: shadowheart, ochako, molly o'shea,

slut (intentional and unintentional): gojo, atsumu, aomine, oliver,<- this one is most detrimental to me

dogboy: guy from rdr2, razor

i never really know who ill like from a media though. my type in men is either broadly men who can fix me and men i want to rip apart with my teeth. there's a venn diagram there with men i want to top being in the middle.

and then with women it's just any woman with some sort of overarching issue that makes her kind of high strung, jealous, or hyper-independent. even better if its all three

i think the overarching thing is abandonment or attachment issues probably

[spaceagesparkledust]

So I was watching The Tempation of Sarah Jane Smith Part 1 and

Sarah Jane 🤝 Tenth Doctor

Messing with fixed points in time only to have it backfire terribly

[tadpoles-yay]

Todays tadpiole,

The banded bullfrog/asian painted frog/digging frog/Malaysian bullfrog/common Asian frog/painted ballon frog or more commonly know as the chubby frog tadpole

These many named goobers are actually a personal favourite species of mine

And I own one

his (I think) name is Potato (I am aware that’s a basic name) but we mostly call him Guenouille which is French for fuog. There aren’t any typos in the previous sentence. I am serious.

hehe beeg boi colors

[ethory]

ethory is boy yuri whereas bennory is girl yaoi. you understand this

[tuesdayisfordancing]

Shuttlepod One 🤝 Precious Cargo 🤝 Dawn

[calciumcryptid]

Me reading characters with the most deranged thoughts about each other: Finally, dark romance how Satan intended.

[scruncheduppaper]

i cant take it anymore i cant do maths anymore

[boffix]

Why is Frye in her considerably less edgy phase lmao

Because Frye Splatoon is not the same character as Frye That Smokes. Frye That Smokes is taking her lunch break rn

[brodorokihousuke]

realized that my interest in a possession-related au might've come from the fact I just watched an exhaustive analysis of Faith: The Unholy Trinity, so I decided to drop everything and try to finnagle my current wip into looking like a screenshot from the game.

I didn't put a huge amount of effort into it, and I know a few ways i could make it more convincing... but it was a fun little aside in any case (& something i thought deserved its own post rather than being stuffed with the finished thing!)

[chiropteracupola]

"Oh, Fitzjames, I wouldn't dare lean on you... there's so much grease in your hair, I'd probably slide right off."

[@dxppercxdxver and I have been working very hard on ...the terror, but make it glee. yes this is a good use of our time.]

[cantgetworsethanthistbh]

im in the boat that f*ddlest*n (and f*dda*thor, but this is about the first ship) is just like billf*rd— better with intense stan bro tension. and stancest. but not in a fiddleford and stan are both projecting ford onto the other kind of way. i mean, fiddleford definitely is, he can't NOT do that when the guy has ford's face even as much as he tries not to see him and see stan for himself. but going off with how much stan visibly dislikes fiddleford in the show, i love f*ddlest*n in a scenario where stan is crazy jealous and bitter about the relationship fiddleford had with ford.

not of their romantic relationship either, he couldn't care less about that, what he and ford had wasn't normal for brothers anyway, and in any other case stan would be glad both him and ford can move on (cough).

no, what stan hates about fiddleford is how for a long time stan wasn't ford's best friend. fiddleford was. fiddleford was there for ford in college. fiddleford was smart and matched fords genius. fiddleford didnt see ford at all for his sixth finger, he loved ford for ford just like stan did, but he didn't hold ford back or "rode on his coattails". and stan knowing all that while he had nothing and no one? while stan was living in his car yearning for ford to forgive him, call him, offer they sail away together again? when stan misses his brother and could think of nothing but him, and wanted nothing more than to just see him for even a minute, while fiddleford had four years of living in the same room, laughing at the same jokes, be the brother in fords arms instead of his actual brother?

that hurts.

and stan only feels this way about fiddleford. even after finding out about b*llf*rd, he doesnt view bill as some sort of a threat when bill had to copy stan's own mannerisms to get ford on his side. bill is a manipulator, a conman, just like stan— fiddleford is genuine. whatever ford loved and saw in him was real. and ford willingly gave him the time that couldve gone to stan if he hadnt broken fords machine.

that makes it worse.

so in some scenario he and fiddleford get to meet and get together... like fiddleford is one of his "clients" or an au where they work together to get ford back, or a mystery trio, and stan realizes fiddleford feels some sort of way about him?

stan jumps on it, not to project ford onto fiddleford or anything. but just to unload all his bitterness onto him. he's not even jealous of the guy— he's just such a stark reminder of how much stan fucked everything up. he hates himself, but if fiddleford likes it then he can fucking have it.

of course it doesnt work, he never gets over that bitterness. and when ford, who is jealous and possesive about stan as a lover finds out about it? yeah, best believe that poor little hillbilly is gonna need another wave of memory wipes

that's my f*ddlest*n tbh

[skierisa]

ninjago 90s au again!

this time kai and nya school dance outfits. i i didn't follow the season 8 redesigns because i associate that with their late teens to early twenties, so i used the old ones for kai and nya (but i do mix designs, like, i give jay curly hair and to cole dreads inspired by his redesign hair 'cause it suits them well)

[calware]

they should invent QPRs but for rivalries

[pinbones]

There's two types of people who use transandrophobia to decribe transmascs' and trans mens' experiences:

- Simply specificity, language used to hone in on a specific way being trans affects people who just happen to be men

- As both the above and as a springboard to discuss how societal misogyny, radical feminism, gender stereotypes, and bioessentalism affect all people who can be pecieved as men or masculine by others, and how bigotries compound in meaningful ways with stereotypes and bigotry surrounding maleness and manhood

Like. Half of you are saying "maleness is a hollow experience which is standard, and exists in opposition to gendered oppression, and transandrophobia is therefore when dudes experience misogyny and transphobia"

and half of you are saying "Being percieved and/or transitioning towards male uniquely affects how I am treated, because, for example, how people perceive my blackness or mental illness or kinkiness or femininity is compounded with my manhood in ways that don't usually happen to gender conforming cisperi women"

Which are two fundamentally different approaches to transandrophobia as a concept. One suggests that maleness is a simple downy layer of privilege that coats a person through their male life, and the other acknowledges that a man (or somebody perceived as masculine/male) can experience oppression in ways that those NOT perceived male may not.

Only one of these interpretations is intersectional. Black individuals who are policed more hashly when interpreted as masc know they are risking dangerous experiences when transitioning to male, as has been discussed before on here (to no avail). Male or percieved male people with personality disorders are treated as more dangerous than women with similar symptoms, and are sometiems diagnosed with different disorders entirely based on percieved gender differences. This affects transmascs too, especially considering the already dire state of queerness in psychiatric institutions. Being a male birthing parent is a whole shitshow of transphobia because men are not supposed to give birth, and transmascs are lucky to access related healthcare at all, let alone access it without being ceaselessly misgendered and treated as a stigmatised 'other' to deleterious affects on parent and baby. These are just a few examples, there are many more ways maleness can screw a person over. And that's not to say that female privilege is a thing instead of male privilege, but rather to emphasise that men are not supposed to be minorities. Men are not supposed to be assaulted, men are not supposed to be outliers, men are absolutely not supposed to be trans.

When a man is autistic, he's not just autistic, he's an autistic male, and that makes him more likely to be killed by cops (especially if black). When someone says "you claim you're not ableist but you're scared of the homeless x on a bus talking to xself", they always say the person is a man, because that sounds more significant (and cops think so too). Consider when a person's rape/abuse is considered to not be all that serious due to the victim being male, or when a man's attraction is considered to be more exploitative than a woman's, or when a fat man is considered more creepy/sexist than a thin man or a fat woman. Consider why so many caricatures of evil and creepiness are men with deformities. Consider the fact that men's bathrooms don't have baby changing tables, and that a man may get less support from others after their child's death than the mother might. Maleness can negatively compound with things like minority status, vulnerability, aggression, sexuality, etc. in ways that screw that person over, both in social spaces (such as queer communities that dislike/distrust maleness and masculinity, or how isolation affects men harder), and in more tangible ways, like their rates of suicide and being murdered.

There are tangible ways in which transitioning to male can negatively affect a person's life even if you remove (hypothetically, not really possible) the transphobia element, and these also constitute as worthwhile topics of discussion. If you think maleness is the lack of gendered oppression, then you're not intersectional in your feminism at all. If your life as a male is genuinely sunshine and rainbows (apart from the transphobia if trans), then good for you, genuinely that's great, but not everyone lives in a radfem fantasy world.

Being unable to tell the difference between men talking about mens issues/liberation, and right wingers talking about oppressing women more, isn't feminist. It's ignorant and antifeminist. (MRAs don't care about actual mens lib, and are actively worsening it because they are sexist and opposed to gender lib. You guys know that, right? That male and female liberation aren't oppositional or binary, but the same gender liberation that is entirely oppositional to patriarchy?)

These men and mascs talking about issues facing men aren't ignorant womanhaters who deny misogyny and want ultraprivileged men to be coddled, they are good faith members of your community with experiences just as varied and valid as yours. Treat them like it.

[oolong-strawbby]

💕🖤 gfs