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[huellitaa]

argue w urself! 💬🐧

🎀💭 𓂃 ࣪˖ just to preface:

i do not mean this in a negative sense!! this post is just 4 the argumentative people who always need to be right to use that in a helpful way ♡

obviously this probably won't work for everyone, so take it with a pinch of salt. just a little thing i like to do to satisfy my craving for victory!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

as a PROFESSIONAL at arguing and making sure i come out right and on top, as usual, i have found myself utilising this to my own benefit more and more as of late.

cancelling out the bad thoughts with good ones is not a new phenomenon, and neither is getting into a sort of conversation with yourself whilst performing said cancellation. but they still stand as some of the most effective methods of mindset shifts, and we'll be making use of that in this method.

the only difference with this tactic is that you have intention and victory. which for people like me, who always need to be right and win every argument ever, can be super fun and super effective!

🐈‍⬛️👛𓂃 ࣪˖ so... what does that mean?

this means that whenever you find yourself thinking something negatively, whether it be about yourself, another person, or just something the ideal version of you wouldn't be thinking about, you fight back!

you argue, mentally, in a semi civil yet strategic manner in ur head, until you get the outcome you want; proving that thought wrong. that is the goal. eliminating it entirely. it is not what you want, so you allow yourself, the ideal version of you, to get rid of what doesn't align with you. if this can happen physically, then it can happen mentally too, with your mindset instead!

think of it as a sort of cleansing. dont consider this thought hostile or an enemy, consider it something lost and needing help. because that's what it is. don't be cruel to it. be cool and collected and smart and strategic and argue until you get the outcome you want. plus, its great practise if you get into any real arguments too! (just in case ♡)

all my love! 🎀💬🐈‍⬛️🫶🏻🩷