#i just Do Not Get It

[rosetterer]

he has a sweet, hot pilot boyfriend and you're mad??!

[elisedonut]

ao3 writers stop tagging every member of the Weasley family when only some of them contribute to the story challenge (impossible)

[jamminvroomvroom]

what really fucking irks me about people plagiarising (yes, fucking plagiarising! that’s what it is!) works that us writers pour our time and heart into is the shitty notes like “all work is credited! let me know if you want it taken down” as if they’re doing us a favour.

do. not. steal. people’s. work! it’s not rocket science. i don’t want your credit! it means nothing to me without my permission!

[merkerlerspeaks]

How is "you should only want to look at your partner" such a hard concept to understand?

Yes I know sometimes people can still be attracted to people outside of their relationship.

- Do not indulge in the attraction and at least make attempts to distract your mind if thoughts DO enter it.

Yes I know it can be difficult

- Just because something is hard does not mean you should not do it.

If you want to think about someone else, indulge in thoughts about or look at someone else, you are not exclusive to your partner at heart.

Even if you're attracted to other people, why do you WANT to indulge in thoughts or imagery outside of the person you're supposed to love?

This is a part of love. Even if you feel attracted to someone else, you have chosen one person. Don't be selfish - stay loyal to your love both physically and at heart.

If thoughts of someone else enter, look away, distract your mind, at least try to replace the images in your head with the person you've promised monogamy.

"Look but dont touch" is pointless. Because even if you're not touching, looking is still indulging in someone else.

Its even okay to recognize that someone is attractive, pretty, handsome, good-looking, all that is FINE. But not only should it not go past that out of love and respect for your partner....

But those people do not deserve to be unnecessarily sexualized by people they dont even have an interest in that way just because they're pretty.

[ghostcrows]

Are people ever going to stop pointing out that I look nervous or scared or asking me if I'm ok when I'm just existing 😭. What am I supposed to say. Who is this question for.

[thedeafprophet]

I really....don't like the rubberies and that area of lore. I don't... dislike it, i guess? It just really doesn't interest me like. At all. I do not get the appeal.

I'm just here like 😐👍 okay when it comes up

(And I provably won't engage with it on lore posts because, again, I find it boring)

[christiangeistdorfer]

Henri Toivonen and Neil Wilson celebrating their win for Lancia at the 1985 Lombard RAC Rally

"When we were up at the end of RAC rally, and Henri and I were standing on the car, celebrating, he said to me ‘I so needed this win, it was so important to my career.’ And I said to him, ‘I think it’ll be easy for now on for you’” - Neil Wilson

[daydreamerwonderkid]

Y'all are really all for "supporting women's wrongs" until the very second they do something that no one would bat an eyelash at if their male counterparts pulled the same exact bullshit.

[carolperkinsexgirlfriend]

I do NOT get people who straight-up don't like one of the kids. Like having favorites, sure!!! (Max Mayfield who can do no wrong <3), but they are all maladjusted weirdo children with pinchable cheeks, you're telling me you DON'T love them all????

[fcb-mv33]

How people can write Max as this asshole who doesn’t treat a certain driver good and all the drivers dislike him is literally mind blowing to me.

It just proves you have never watched any sort of interaction with Max and other drivers, when you can tell he is so supportive and happy. Post race Max even if he had a bad weekend will still congratulate the others…

Just don’t fucking write Max if all you are going to do is make up bullshit about it and spread your negative bullshit to uplift your own driver.

[cannibalrotmeat]

Why are people mad about fursonas having nipples now? Since when is that problematic?

Oh no!! Your fursona has animal nipples, that means you must be sexualizing animals!! The fuck??

People know nudity and bodies aren’t inherently sexual right?

Idk just bothers me that people are accusing people of having a fetish or being a paraphile because of anatomy they give their OCs that isn’t even intended in a sexual manner. I usually use it in the context of body horror or artistic nudity, and apparently that doesn’t matter and I’m immoral and bad for drawing nipples on a humanoid weasel monster with no mouth and wings on the side of its head.

Or the fursona with multiple sets of top surgery scars, like let me be funny, god damn!!

[scalpelsister]

not to sound like an obnoxious cunt but how does anyone get notes on this website

[chaoticbooklesbian]

Legit, I do not understand people who cheat on their partners/spouses. Like. It is easier NOT to have sex than TO have sex, I do it every fucking day. The series of decisions involved in cheating on someone is astonishing, and the fact that people can get to every. single. one. and decide that the best decision is to cheat? Baffles me. How??? How do you not stop and go "hey, maybe I shouldn't betray the trust of one of the most important people in my life" at ANY point?

(Side note, this is also why I hate cheating storylines. It's unnecessary most of the time, there are other ways to demonstrate a lapse in judgement or a betrayal, and also, IT'S SO EASY NOT TO CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER!!!)

[chipthekeeper]

love my coworker and i bonding over not getting t*ylor sw*ft

[puppyeared]

filipina miku!! my mom helped me with her outfit ^_^

[goldensunset]

advice i think we should tell children is that when adults say stuff like ‘now that i’m an adult i get really excited about stuff like coffee tables and bathrooms and rugs etc’ they don’t mean ‘and now i don’t care about blorbo and squimbus from my childhood tv shows anymore’ bc your average adult still loves all the same pop culture stuff they always did; they just have a greater appreciation for the mundane as well. growing up just means you can enjoy life twice as much now. you can get really excited about a new stuffed animal AND about a new kitchen sponge. peace and love