#i hate my stupid little brain

[lexilikescats]

there is something wrong with me.

there is something wrong with me.

there is something wrong with me

THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME

[that-was-anticlimactic]

questioning as a love language,,, asking what the song is called, what they love about something, what the rules of a sport are,,, asking self-explanatory questions because you want to show you care, asking (maybe excessive) questions because you care so much and don’t want to do it wrong or mess it up,,,

[cultishkei]

I cant explain it but. Shin Soukoku are gay son and thot daughter.

[staralite]

I’m gonna be honest I want to be more active in the fandom and I wanna join more discord servers. My social anxiety is just really bad. I’m actually not that use to talking to people online lol. I’m on vacation now but when I get back home I’m forcing myself to join this one discord server I’ve been wanting to join for a bit but was all like “ahhh no talking to people scary” I kinda just want friends lol

[verved]

i hate wanting to think about The Media and my brain doesn't work and i can't have any thoughts waaaaa

[ratinthevoid]

why did i believe i can ever come out to her

[orion-thorngage]

me getting depressed about my three thousand word essay : man I really need to do this or I will get more stressed

Also Me: TIME TO WATCH BLUEY AND THE MAGNUS ARCHIVES WHILST PLAYING STARDEW VALLEY, ESSAY WHAT? ESSAY WHO?

[athousandblessings]

A dumb me problem

Taking a mini break bc it turns out there's a difference between when I'm "meh" about a snzblr fav and when I really really REALLY don't like it, and I'm getting out of proportion hatefeels about myself about it, and like 90 percent of my feed is hazbin rn so uh.....think I'll take a lil walk in the woods or something. Sorry guys, idk why I can't be normal about this ONE fandom in particular. 😭

[phantasma-mirror]

It's the STUPIDEST reason in the world too like ???? Can we stop. Can we PLEASE stop.

like the amount of energy I put towards fucking. Mourning relationships is so bad. It's so fucking bad!! It's taking a physical toll on me to the point where I'll puke if I think about it too long and that's so bad!! And yet I do not think I'm capable of not submerging myself in what-ifs and impossible scenarios. bitches are so desperate for attention that they'll cling to the most bare bones interactions and hope to pray to God that miraculously things will be okay again and I'm bitches!! what is my DEAL! I hate me fr!!

[stupid-elf]

Okay dandy, what is "it's not about the bread"? I recognized everything else

Ah! It's not about the bread is a phrase fairly common in marriage counseling/relationship advice circles. It comes from a popular anecdote of a husband in counseling saying his wife is always blowing up at him about petty things, like buying the wrong brand of bread. The therapist asks the wife why she's upset about the bread, and she says it's because he is chronically inattentive to her and their collective needs so she ends up carrying the slack. It's not about the bread: It's about what's manifesting through the bread

Humans are not rational creatures, we're rationalizing. It takes a lot of self awareness to be in one's own head and go "oh. I'm not upset about the bread, I'm mad because this is the third time this week and the twentieth time this month I have to come up with a new dinner plan because this idiot fucked up." However, it takes much less awareness to look at one's partner and go "hm. That was an outsized reaction. Something larger than what set this off is probably going on."

Once you've realized there's something going on, partners can begin working towards a solution. You have to pull back the rug to find what's been swept under it.

Emotions all have causes. Sometimes they're bigger than they seem like they should be, and sometimes the cause is buried deep in the unconscious parts of the brain, but there's always a reason. Part of loving someone is trying to understand them, and part of understanding them is sussing out when it's about the bread... And when you should maybe start writing a more detailed grocery list

[abijahfowler]

i love 2 think that abijah knows how to be fancy and act like an upperclass socialite because he is an EXCELLENT con man but that in reality back in london he was a poor street rat common criminal who just so happened to meet the right (“right?”) group of men willing to hire him for help on their shady business adventure into colonizing the east because he is very adaptable, relatively well educated (or at least intelligent and able to pick up on information fast) and that he is just really.. really good at what he does (being a crimnimal)

i love thinking of him having knowledge on how to dance the minuet like he was ever frequently in high class ballrooms because he had to learn it to blend in to case a joint

[quaranmine]

one of the things that always made me smile a little while reading project hail mary was whenever ryland would say something about mixing units between metric and customary due to being an american scientist. because quite frankly in my experience of also being american trained in science. i'm far more comfortable working in feet and inches and miles and pounds (which i resent) than their metric equivalents but theres also so much knowledge where i Only know the metric equivalents and can't imagine it otherwise LOL. what a strange little space it occupies in your brain. what if i had to deal with blood lead levels by....idk, ounce per fluid ounce instead of μg/dL? nightmare country

[munamania]

ok im a really chill and normal person and i get over things and am well adjusted but take a walk with me here. just give me my time to complain when im not in the absolute fucking trenches. and yes i believe i suffered more than those in trench warfare. it was literally a lesbian situationship with a bistraight girl come on. just. magenta choppy shag with the roots coming in. camo cargo pants black t shirt with red lettering and striped long sleeve (sign someone likes music. confirmed). lip ring big black stud earrings and nails. red docs. i think lesbians should be allowed to kill one dyke baiter in their lifetime idc

[dilleater]

getting covid twice in a year has turned me into such a terribly anxious paranoid person it's driving me CRZAZY!!!!!

[yutadori]

sometimes you just need to hit your head against a wall at school and move on

[salthien]

Sometimes I'm like "man I should make a sideblog just for art" but then I remember how fucking frustrating managing one single active sideblog is already and end up second guessing myself out of it