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i yearn to post more about my dr however i have no idea/inspo of what to post.
#i fear this is not uncommon#dizzie speaks#reality shifting#shifting#shiftblr#shifting realities#shifters#shifting community#shifting blog#star wars shifting
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you post so many pieces like this, but your newest is the latest in the line of your vaschete art that rewrites my brain in the best possible way. I struggle a lot with shame and self loathing and neuroticism in general, and seeing in every expressive bit of gesture how much Vasco just... *sits* with Machete and loves him *while* he's upset. Loves the upset version of him and will be there loving him until he's ready to be calm and open again! this sounds hyperbolic but it literally makes it easier for me to love myself and be patient with myself when my nastier inner voices are really active. so thank you for your gay catholic dogs they are sincerely improving my life.
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#auuhh got a little emotional over this not gonna lie#I think it isn't very uncommon for people to fear that if they come across a little too difficult in a way or another#their close ones will get tired of them and leave#being patient and understanding is such an underrated quality in a person#answered#anonymous#big fan of the concept of trying to learn to be kinder to yourself
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"we cant have bi women calling themselves lesbians, thatll just make predatory men think they can get with lesbians!"
predatory men* already think that regardless of any information out there and have for a very long time. because theyre predatory and dont care about boundaries.
predatory men are also assuming they can get with women who identify as bi or both bi and lesbian. those women will still have the same assumptions thrown at them when they tell predatory guys theyre lesbians. just because they like some men** doesnt mean they like all, they are not any safer than you.
why are you blaming it on bi people and not the predators? you realize youre outright saying associating with bi people is putting you in more danger? dont you realize how fucked up that is?
bi people always have and always will call themselves lesbians. lesbian has always included them, and it was the common perception that lesbian included both mono- and bisexual people until lesbian separatists (aka radfems) used this exact rhetoric to make it seem like bisexual people are a danger to "real TRUE" lesbians for daring to associate with men. they labeled (and continue to label) bi people as traitors that cant be trusted.
tldr; you are being biphobic as hell, spreading radfem rhetoric, and you can kiss my fat bi lesbian ass.
*obviously by "predatory men" i mean men who are predators. im not saying all men are predatory because thats dumb bullshit.
**of course some people also use bi without being attracted to men, but for somewhat-brevitys sake im focusing just on the ones who are here.
#bi lesbian#bi#lesbian#bisexual#i am arospec ace and sex repulsed with very weird and very uncommon attraction#not to mention my attraction generally being fuzzy and confusing#just because the best way for me to label my specific identity doesnt fall neatly into one category#doesnt mean im putting people in danger jfc 🙄#stop attacking your fellow queers just bc theyre the easier target to let out your pain and fear on
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Echos From His Past: X'laenn Nunh "Aye, be careful out there! Yer ma'd have my tail if she found out I'd let ye play that close to the water." "But da, look what I can do!" "Alright catto, lets get ye home ta yer ma a'fore it gets too dark out."
X'vahl actually looks a lot like his dad. Nobody knows where he got the purple eye from though...
#This was *before* he got the fear of water hammered into him (probably only shortly before it though...)#His dad isn't *supposed* to favor any of his kids.... but he does. :)#One of the happier memories he has from his home.#I also like to headcanon that miqo'te might not enjoy when other people use cat metaphors to refer to them#but among other miqo'te it's not uncommon to hear them refer to each other in that way between friends and family.#like his dad called him 'catto' (like kiddo) and his mom called him 'kitten'.#The purple eye is a little piece of Azem that floated to the surface...#X'vahl Tia#X'laenn Nunh
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i've always adhered to the idea that termina isn't a real place but rather a representation of link himself. and it makes me unwell if i think about it too much. to be quite honest with you
#mm#talkin#definitely not an uncommon theory but it makes me soooooooooo crazy i need to go lie in a landfill for a bit#the main conflicts all relate to things link has had to deal with in oot. things that likely affect him deeply#you control time and yet you're constantly running out of it......everyone forgets you and your actions continuously#you change shape repeatedly against your will. your body is always foreign to you like it was after pulling the sword#you can't save everyone despite being the only person with the ability to do so - if only if only if only#even skull kid's struggle with being lonely and forgotten parallels link's after being sent back in time#it makes me SICK!! SICK I TELL YOU!!!#don't even get me started on the mortality stuff#the whole game is like. fear and uncertainty contrasted with silliness and hope#and i'm sitting here like hmmmm. i think i shall interpret this as a metaphor for link himself#his personality memories and fears taking physical shape perhaps#delightful game!! makes me feel normal
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1. why is it even an option to not try lol. like, yeah, I didn't feel like being awake any longer anyway and would prefer to stress out my already-stressed-out bf. goodnight, Saeran
2. bro.. you can't just get on top of me like that, looking like an actual angel, when I was just gassed and have no idea where I am... gonna make me lose consciousness again looking all pretty like that


3. actual jumpscare. I usually love horror, but V you gotta give us a content warning for that kind of thing. Jesus
4. undoubtedly highly important information that V and his dark web hacker-for-hire can weaponize against us


I bet Rika saw him practicing his villain repertoire and rolled her eyes into the back of her skull. V also said Rika smelled like manure, and she said she's bored by having only him as company. love how these two actually want nothing to do with each other but insist on ruining each other's lives anyway


I might really have to attack this man. not even for the reasons most players would, either, but because if he wants crazy, I am more than happy to oblige given the current circumstances. maybe then he'll realize what's good for him. but since he's a pacifist: it's because you need therapy. there. now go put that secretly-loaded bank account to good use, love yourself, and get out of here before something truly awful happens. like, idk, going to prison


Chairman Han route when. everyone's like "where's the Vanderwood route at" but by the time we get more content, like a reboot, we'll be looking at Jumin's dad a different kinda way. we can fix him if we try hard enough


not a misunderstanding. I am unfortunately in love with you, just as I am with Saeran, which is why this AE pains me more than most. I even - like the unfaithful player that I am - told you that I liked you back in a previous call and didn't tell you off for being weird. let's not play coy now.
there's probably an uncomfortable and confusing tension in the house due to our shamelessness, and we should all - Rika included - just accept it before things get actually uncomfortable and confusing on day 3
#i guess this is more like days 1-2.5#lb#mysme spoilers#long post#rika#v#saeran#his stickers#especially the giggle one#are so cute that i gotta take .5 seconds to recover whenever he uses them#it almost gives me that same (concerning) reaction you sometimes get from things like kittens opening their eyes for the first time#where your inner violent caveman instinct takes over and you scare yourself bc you kinda wanna squeeze it#i googled this and it is a thing#it's called 'cute aggression'#i feared it was uncommon and that there was smth seriously wrong with me#there might still be BUT i am not alone in this particular reaction#do people exist on tumblr on tuesday nights? my dash is dead. well no harm can come from speaking into the ether i suppose#if anyone actually read all this you get a huge gold star lol#rip me when v lowkey comes onto you and says he was interested in you... as if the love triangle elsewhere wasn't torturous enough#i feel like most players didn't care here bc they hate him lol but i don't#and with his route and poor ray#and now you're gonna do this to me-#unethical#also.. @ saeran.. i am so sorry for being disloyal in a call#i didn't mean it baby pls take me back
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Fuck whatever terfs and transphobes are treating the term 'socialization' as if it's evidence for bioessentialism or whatever as if it isn't literally the exact opposite, fuck them for taking a useful term we should be aware of and poisoning it so now people think whoever uses it is a piece of shit.
#its a real thing and a useful term to know and it literally means#'certain behavioral traits being associated with certain sexes isnt the result of biological differences but rather#subtle ways each of us were 'trained' to conform to our agab our entire lives'#its literally saying 'see gender is just social shit and is not biological'#and also hey lets all be aware of this and deconstruct it. even cis people#cuz shit i have cis guy friends who i can tell are still reluctant to do shit for fear of being seen as feminine#even though theyre gay or whatever#and on the more extreme [but still very normal and not uncommon at all] end this shit can be seriously damaging#like the idea that 'men' need to bottle their emotions#but like. i didnt get offended when my anthro prof teaching a gender anthro class told me 'thats your female socialization telling you#to not value yourself!“#because she wasnt calling me a woman. she was reminding me of a dumb thing society taught me that i should deconstruct
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like ngl ive become accustomed to this level of disregard from the rest of the lgbt community, especially considering how misogynistic parts of the community can be (not all obviously but some). but seeing a fellow bi be so fucking dismissive and hostile towards bi women who are dv survivors is....... really fucking disheartening
#esp when like this is a fear ive spoken w other bi survivors about and its fairly common as an anxiety#not everyone but. its not uncommon either#idk i guess we dont count to this community tho whatever#its fine#my posts
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A: real life is like survival horror video games B: how? A: I get lost. A: I am scared A: Sometimes, there's puzzles.
#uncommon quote#incorrect quote#source: i think its from a tumblr post but I! CANNOT FIND IT! HELP ME!#mood: fear
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oooh i get it now the paranoid thoughts are forever
#like in hs#certain online interactions w/ diff ppl from the friends grp immediate or extended#wld make me feel so sus tht they were 'plotting' abt me?#not necessarily against me#but just like discussing me together or shit#rarely wld i fear like specific negative things#at most just like the whole friendship being like fake?#n just now even tho i dont actually tlk to these ppl again#n im almost sure they dont even tlk to each other either#two ppl liked my story on insta which is uncommon for both of them#n it's giv8ng me sus#what are they up to#?????#😭#im slowly removing ppl#i mean most of these ppl i dont hv any bad beef with or anything#n i saw some at uni n they were nice still#but god the paranoia n desire for no one from my past#to hv access to me present ugh#cloud nonsense
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anxiety logic is a weird thing.
i have this problem where if i’m lying in bed in the evening and hear a helicopter or a plane flying relatively low outside i will be convinced it’s an air attack and the only thing that works is to wait it out until the sound is gone.
and that’s one of the reasons i want to move out of the city centre. because why would an air attack be on a village instead of a big city?
like logically speaking there shouldn’t even be an air attack in the first place, we’re not at war. but that logic doesn’t work for me. the completely made-up hypothesis, however, that air attacks wouldn’t be on the outskirts of the city? that logic works
#own post#like. if i’m afraid to die in my sleep (not an uncommon reason for anxiety attacks for me) it sometimes helps to send a message#to a friend telling her I love her. somehow I don’t think I will die then. like. i don’t know why#if I speak my fear out loud to someone I believe it less likely to be true. not because I reflect on it though and realise how unrealistic#it is#but because I think it’s so unlikely that whatever my anxiety is will come true if I called it before. like that doesn’t happen#you never hear of someone losing their hand and that their last words before unprompted were ‘’i’m afraid to lose my hands’’#idk….. just. anxiety logic#weird. and yet I’m somehow grateful for it#it’s better than no logic
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Gave a guy already at my gaming table lot of magic mushrooms and they transed her gender WIN
Add more girls to your gaming table with this one weird trick
#if it’s not obvious no I do not believe psychedelics can alter someone’s gender identity or sexuality#but they do remove self judgement and fears around these things and make the person aware of things they’re repressing so it’s not uncommon#alda’s posts
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I mean, it's not even megafauna and look at how big this deer is compared to my mom's old mini cooper. For reference I'm 5'1 and I'm about as tall as that car and the tractor tire in the background. That deer is solidly at least 4 feet tall and could look me in the eye and could wreck a car if it got hit do you really think you wanna mess with a MOOSE

If there was one animal literacy thing I could change with a wave of a wand, it would be increasing people's understanding of how dangerous megafauna are. I think that in the US (and probably other Western countries too), we're so removed from wildlife and even large domesticated animals that people really have no perspective on how much a big animal can fuck you up. Even if they're "gentle."
This is a discussion going on on Twitter, too, the last few days: there was a thing where an Iditarod musher shot a moose to protect their team, and a lot of people are confused as to why that needed to happen. Apparently this moose had been hanging around the course for quite a while and was becoming quite dangerous to the sled dog teams. Moose are territorial and not to be fucked with. Everyone from Alaska or areas with moose are like "yup, that's just reality."
Same thing with the bison birth I watched last year. Folk really thought the staff should be in the habitat on the ground with the bison herd, helping with the birth. Sure, that's what we do with cows if we have to, but... bison are definitely not cows and, again, will squish you.
People tend to get it more with the predators. Few people will argue that a cougar or an alligator or a bear isn't dangerous. I think people kinda go both ways on wild pigs / boars depending on their experience. But herbivores or things that don't look traditionally pointy... it just kinda doesn't click.
Any large animal is probably stronger than you think and more likely to hurt you than you realize. Be it a dolphin, an elk, a sea lion, or even an emperor penguin... just don't go near them, buds.
#animals#deer#a healthy fear and respect for nature is good I think#I mean my car nearly got attacked by a large GOOSE yesterday#animals can and will mess you up#and you should not attempt to cross them unless you know EXACTLY what you're getting into#and even then it's still often not that smart#'in the US we're removed from wildlife and large domestic animals' speak for yourself this deer was in my yard#and it's a common sight to see them wandering through our fields#our NEIGHBORS FEED THEM#but I live in the country so deer cows horses pigs etc are not uncommon sights around here
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im going 2 get my passport photo taken tomorrow but i have a bald spot in my eyebrow from where i nervously . pulled the hair out a lil maybe and it looks so bad

#theyre already so uneven#unfortunately this isnt an uncommon accurance and the last time years ago the hair never came back n i have a permanent slit#i tried dyeing over it hoping any little hairs there would take it but it didnt work#its right at the top too it looks so funky#i also forgot the dye on too long for ghe colour my hair is currently so instead of matching my Old black hair im just#here w dark brown eyebrows and ginger > faded green (yellow) hair#i am a mess HHJAJA..........#i could shave down and flatten them more i did do that once but i fear it looks too feminine n out of place on me#o well i probably wont#its time 4 me to shower
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#I really do not know how to finish a creative project when I am as Extremely Mentally Ill as I am#the problem is that it's not...one thing? it's not one fear it's not even one illness.#it's this really fucked-up complex web of...multiple disorders with multiple ways of manifestation. which isn't inherently like.#insurmountable or impossible to work through it's just that going 'do this tactic for this one symptom of this one disorder'#isn't going to fix the problem. you gotta do other things in conjunction with that and you gotta do them all at the same time and#I DON'T KNOW WHAT COMBINATION OF THINGS NEEDS TO HAPPEN#and then I feel bad because yeah okay I have this debilitating condition that makes everything hard and is incredibly painful to#deal with but also like 'lol some people have REAL problems why am *I* having such a bad time'#which I would never say about literally ANYONE ELSE just me. because I suck specifically. or something.#In the Vents#disorder diaries#sometimes I even wish that something worse had happened to me. because then I might be '''''justified''''' in having such a hard time#which is...I know that's not that uncommon but I DO wish it wasn't a thought I consistently have to contend with
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your… your name is anika? Mine is too, but with 2 n’s
doesn't count if you pronounce it ann-ika btw its ah-nikas only in here
#look anika's talking!#sorry anon but also I fear it truly is not that uncommon a name I've met at least 6 ann-ikas and ah-nikas in person#answering an ask#anon
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