#i dont rly think i Want the direct reply from ppl but as weird as it is i am just really yearning to scream it from the rooftops
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n0phalt · 1 year ago
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people found this which is kind of funny but also kind of keeps reminding me that the thing Happened even though my brain has since blocked it out so. mixed bag
i love the grind i love experiencing something devastatingly life altering and getting home just in time to scarf down One meal for the day and sleep immediately so i can get up in time to do the last few days of job that makes me frustrated and guilty inherently. guy in corner meme ‘they dont know i witnessed the horrors yesterday’ with name tag that says ‘im sooooooo normal’
#genuinely no issue btw im just going OH HAHA people#signing my name at the bottom of document saying ‘venting on a side acc is public and u always do it with some sense that people will see’#it is not just a slightly more cathartic notes app#anyways cw more venting im doing it in the tags to be secret hush hush#i would use the Vent Channel but#i dont rly think i Want the direct reply from ppl but as weird as it is i am just really yearning to scream it from the rooftops#bc everything has been absurdly normal since and it doesnt feel right#but its not un-right enough to make it worth directly taking someones time#anyways enough of that#everything is too normal! im fine generally and maybe anxious around certain intersections#but managably anxious#my brain and the world have shaken hands and said ‘this didnt happen. forget about it’. and im not suffering! but it feels fucked up!#i know its normal and probably good to have it fade that fast but it feels like this entire thing imploded in on itself until it just.#stopped having happened. the opp report hasnt updated. theres no. proof it happened. theres no change and it feels like there should be#and its making me mad because as much as my brain has firewalled the memory i feel like i owe it to those poor fucking souls to take some#meaningful permemnant message from it because i did in the moment and now its gone and i feel like. i saw the world and now i cant. i WANTED#it to stick. it was fucking important#and i feel like its put me on edge just enough that im like. exhausted a lot. and i feel bad about not providing aside from work and that#i want to explain or excuse but i cant because it never happened and also to actually dig in to it would be wildly inappropriate#in any setting aside from with close friends who i ask thoroughly for permission#so im vaguing on my side acc in hash tags#idk. its making me mad ig#i hope the reports update soon because i want to know what happened#i cant believe it fucking happened actually. jesus
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6ad6ro · 5 years ago
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how do u make friends and become a "personality" on tumblr? i dont mean being tumblr famous, im just pretty lonely. asking u since u seem to have a few
oh gosh i’m surprised you think of me as havin friends n bein a tumblr personality! that’s kinda a compliment so ty! tho lol i might not be as popular as u think tbh? tho i guess i have an okay number of followers and the ppl i’m close to on here are SO AWESOME n i love them? BUT OKAY! i’ll tell u how i went about makin friends on tumblr! btw don’t be afraid to dm me like i’ll be your friend! i’m super shy but like rly friendly so?? ANYWAYS here’s what i did:1. be yourself even if you think ppl won’t like you. you rly shouldn’t care about the ppl who don’t like u bc they’d prob never like you? and being urself helps you feel good about yourself and is REALLY attractive to ppl who might end up following you. be real. it’s your blog, so don’t, for example, let some mean anon tell u how to run your blog.2. that doesn’t mean being insensitive tho! i’m constantly tryin to be as fuckin nice as i can within reason. and oh yeah tag stuff like “flashing” or “nsfw” or “gore” etc even if you use custom tags (i use “h” for nsfw bc i don’t wanna get flagged lol). and don’t repost stuff on here without direct permission. it’s like stealing. and don’t delete captions off of original art (but u can remove a rebloggers captions all day).3. post your own “content” whether it be text posts or pictures u took or art u make or edits or finds off other sites! even if u think it’s too dumb, i promise u there’ll be a buncha ppl who will like it. i thought my gifs were trash and then one day one wound up on tumblr’s “radar’ (or whatev it used to be called). MAKE SURE U TAG YOUR POSTS. it’s fine to not tag reblogs unless they’re something ppl are sensitive about (flashing,gore). it’s fine to just reblog other’s stuff btw like ppl still love blogs like that (that’s most of tumblr tbh).4. your follower count doesn’t matter. the number of notes on posts you make don’t matter. it’s so easy to fall into viewing those numbers as a sign of “how cool u are/how much ppl like you”. don’t start posting things u don’t care about just bc u notice ppl like it. just be yourself. ppl will come anyways.5. talk to people. write little comments on ppls posts. respond to ppl. take the risk and direct message someone (be considerate tho. like if u have a crush on someone don’t open with “i wanna fuck u” lol). if you want friends, be friendly.6. THIS IS IMPORTANT THO. tumblr is easily the shyest community i’ve ever encountered. and this is coming from someone who has agoraphobia (or rather a fear of people). even if someone follows you back and likes all your posts… they might not respond to you. THAT DOESN’T MEAN THEY HATE U OR DON’T CARE. a lot of them just… can’t? ur msg very easily made them really happy. sometimes ppl like that just need time. i won’t lie, of the hundreds of ppl i’ve tried to start conv with? maybe only 10% of them even replied. if you’re like me the voice in ur head will tell you “oh they hate you you weirded them out ur awful”. ignore that dumbass voice. that 10% who responded? or responded later? are some of my best friends on here. IT’S ABSOLUTELY WORTH IT.take the risk. talk to people. rejection can hurt, but it’s just like a little scratch compared to the gushing wound we cause ourselves by not trying. see, look at this stupid long unintelligible post i just wrote. and i somehow still have a bunch of friends and followers? i’m a huge idiot, but turns out that everybody else is too thank god. so just be yourself and have fun!oh and it takes time btw. like i’ve been active on here since 2012 lol. give people time to find u and respond to you. hope it helped even if it was just a little!
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