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Hi gang
I see were talking about Jonathan Piss ass ToiletJon again
And as someone who was fucking THERE, WORKING FOR HIM WHEN EVERYTHING DROPPED
Oh my FUCKING GOD AM I SO PISSED OFF.
Welcome to my rant/vent
Mutuals look away Im sorry
Tw// for grooming and manipulation. General gross things in that area
Also Jinbop.
First of all Ashlie and Jon did was gross, but where Jon failed at literally everything Ashlie succeeded.
When the news dropped of what happened in 2017 Jon made a fucking video of him crying like a little man child, and then pressed charges (also doxxed himself like an idiot) WHICH IS INSANE BEHAVIOR. Even in his written respone he was only making excuses.
At that time I was in very close connection with him, I was on his build team, I played multiple games with him. He would come into vc and hang out with us for several hours, you could consider us friend maybe! I wouldnt.
But I was at the very least in a lot of personal servers.
So when things dropped I knew almost all of the behind the scenes BULLSHIT that was happening. How everyone waited for it to blow over and stuck by him. (I got kicked out of servers too cause people knew i was against him but I was still told everything by friends who were still in there)
Then February happened. And so much more, much worse things got exposed. From only his end. I won't mention who was involved, out of privacy reasons and because I dont want to drag them into this. But holy shit dude everyone left him after that. It was over, his gross behavior with minors (included me now that i think about, sir why are you calling me and my friends cute we are 15-) His awful and manipulative behavior with people he finds useful, how he treats his teams
. He never credited anything, I made his goddamn Dimensions s2 designs, Eddie made the skins. Only Eddie was mentioned, once on a stream.
Eddie also made designs and skins for Rosethorn, and got credited in video no less.
Its not that hard and yet!
The main point is
He was still acting in 2020, the incident was in 2017. And he was acting like this, in late 2020. Into 2021.
I wanted him to get better. I really did, I had been hyperfixated on this group of people for years it hurt a lot.
But its been almost three years and he infact has stayed the same!
He is a grown ass man acting like a toddler on a public twitter account, what makes this man some one to respect in any sort of way.
Theres so much more shit I know about this man, that I can't fucking say because of the people involved not giving me permission too. And I respect that. Thats their story to tell.
Now ashlie on the other hand.
Ashlie made a concise apology and owned up to her actions, shit she made sure not to happen again. She went to fucking therapy, she broke off that relationship first and has made so much effort to distance herself from that and apologize everyday of her life.
She went to therapy after breaking things off, and she went again after the callout just to double fucking check she wasnt a horrible person.
She initially handled everything that happened in 2017 in private, like youre supposed to do. Not have a public twitter meltdown. And in late 2020 still handled mostly everything privately. She wrote out a full explanation and apology that is still very visible on her yt channel, not her twt her full 100k subscriber yt channel
I THINK, THATS GROWTH and she should be respected for that. She's actively changed as a person from the 20yr that made mistakes
And what's crazy is that Max and Ross still make youtube videos with her.
Max and Ross, YKNOW. The people who made sure fucking Jinbop got arrested and stomp Sky's name into the fucking ground for the shit that Sky did. I 100% trust those two to make a decision about a person in their circle when theyre doing some FUCKED SHIT.
IN FACT, THEY DID DROP ASHLIE WHEN THE ALLEGATIONS CAME OUT. SHE WAS IMMEDIATELY KICKED OUT OF EVERYTHING INVOLVING THEM
And they came back. They came back and started making new things and videos with her, Ross is an active participant in almost all of her videos.
I think that speaks wonders about her.
Don't drag her name through the ground I respect that woman and all of her endeavors in the future, she has more than made up for the fact.
Jon is still an awful person, and I dont think he will ever change. He's had more than ample time to and acts like whinny child on Twitter. Actively tries to pull nostalgia bait on his dying yt channel and mocks his ex "friends'" work. I want him gone from the youtube sphere and to get an actual life.
#for my beloved mutuals who dont know a clue about this please look away#theres a clown on out block an Im mad about it#rant#tw grooming#eddie gave me perm to talk about things#i was there man#dont speak the sacred texts to me i was there when it was written#i dont want this on my tumblr but I have been quiet about everything for so long#i dont like stirring drama#but here I am#i am at my limit
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flint getting themselves into trouble cuz its funny
#toontown#toontown corporate clash#ttcc#flint bonpyre#firestarter#cosmo kuiper#plutocrat#cosmo & flint#benjamin biggs#bellringer#gossip squad#strawglicks art gallery#tw alcohol#i made the first two a couple days apart without realizing how extremely similar they are . oh well LMAO#anyway firestarter refers to someone who causes trouble everywhere they go#i dont think its ALWAYS intentional. but i also believe flint stirs the pot sometimes .. after all they like drama#just not the confrontation that comes with it
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honestly just gonna start blocking anyone who goes into the #buddie tag with some high & mighty post about ship discourse. you really think a rant is gonna convert people to your mindset as all it does is come off as condescending & patronizing, when there's also already dozens of identical posts just like it?
#im tired of talking/seeing ship discourse :/ i just wanna enjoy my little source of escapism from reality#you have a much better use of your time just liking what you like and blocking who & what you dont#also at this point i think a lot of bad faith actors are using the anon feature to stir up anti buddie drama#not gonna act like there are aggressive buddies out there but im at least seeing some people responding to anons like 'this isnt serious'#buddie#tommy stans are making me so anti bucktommy tbh
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im happy my post is garnering discussion but honestly i wasnt around for 2018-2021 fandom on tumblr and i was mainly talking about how its kind of silly to get mad at people for portraying colonizer countries as mean, or calling it demonization and stuff. like its okay not to like personally portraying ur fav characters as mean or part of the state, but getting irritated at the fact that it exists or is popular imo kind of misses the fact that this… is the state and nation personification fandom. and its hard to say its not canon when canon did once portray the characters in uniform and at times involved in their state activities… like the early strips discussing western imperialism in china is literally ‘china being bullied by the allies’ ‘france wanting to grope china’ ‘china being treated like a maid’ etc etc like they were very much. the state LOL also china and japan’s canon relationship, as much as I have my issues with it, has an entire thing about china being stabbed by japan… i do feel like hetalia started out as a history nerd’s history exploration that blended humour with ‘what i find cute’ with satire etc etc, which inevitably involves illustrating the personifications as vessels of state and culture, and although the modern strips have deviated quite a bit… well, different people will approach this series for different reasons, right? Whether its serious or comedic content showing the characters as mean or imperialist or unpleasant, it’s not something that deviates too far from canon (if we take all canon eras into consideration) nor is it surprising given how history laden the topic is.
#diary#hetalia#hater tag#also have some issues with some things being called drama…#like i know some of u think of me and some others as drama stirring little devils#honestly i dont enjoy drama that much but ill become upset when i see things that i see as racist or insensitive…#because im of the opinion that this fandom requires extra sensitivity given the subject matter.#let people have fun#but#also be careful yk? i guess for me personally im always trying to be careful#when im out of my depth i try to talk to ppl with better understanding while doing my own research#and if ive written or expressed antyhing bad (which i certainly have even on this blog many times before)#i try to change my stances with new info… and like#this is important to me and its important for me to read ppls thoughts bc.#i know what its like to be treated racistly and dismissed. or to have things and history precious to me twisted#but anyways rambling aside… i guess what i want to say is i understand it seems annoying but#if you post something insensitive… and someone gets upset… then thats just how it is. hetalia is sensitive#again ive definitely posted bad insensitive things. ive been told im acting out of line.#and it sucks. but… sometimes you have to understand ur own irritation doesnt outweigh the hurt#and listen a little#sometimes i like things that i then find are insensitive or cruel. and id rather not engage with it than dismiss peoples hurt… or something#honestly i keep most of my whining private i promise JLKFHDJGLKFH BC FOR THE MOST PART I THINK I CAN TELL THE DIFF BETWEEN#when i have a real issue and when im just nitpicking#so i keep my more petty whining or basic stuff private#but if i see something egregious then i dont want to be quiet#and if a friend of mine (esp if theyre a kid) is upset or hurt by racism I dont want to be quiet
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”Characters that deserved better” and it’s just tagged with a bunch of fascist (male) characters…
And half of them, canonically, do not deserve better. They deserved worse.
now if I go add Snape-
no, they won’t like that one
#such a crazy world we live in#gotta love and hate the fandom sometimes#i dont even like snape but#every time i see a post like that I get the urge to tag him too#just to stir some drama#😭#no shade tho#you do you and like whoever#i too find questionable characters interesting#harry potter#harry potter fandom#marauders fanfiction#hp marauders#marauders#also at least add some women
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maybe diaperposting more will get people to unfollow me here..
#wishy speaks#not to a large extent mind u#or anything particularly kinky#more like in a casual / regression context?#itd be particularly bold of me to post abt agere gear with an antikink dni banner#but i dont intend on stirring up drama or putting more attention on myself#quite the opposite really#how much longer until i just start randomly blocking non mutual followers lmaooo#i dont wanna remake.. i dont wanna lose all my posts here
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hey i dont know why she is saying i people think i "#owned" her with my post or whatever, no one has told me that, but if its because any of you have sent her anything hateful i will cry. im going to assume she somehow came to that conclusion on her own, but for the love of god leave her alone
#and no its not legally wrong nor threatening to say ''i will probably see if you block evade me''#she is far more capable of fucking over and doxxing me than i am capable of doing that to her and i have no intention of any of that#i just dont want block evasion#she started public shit stirring and i responded the immature way Knowingly but i would like it if people did not contribute further#and to the anon who let me know: you do not have to do that. you shouldnt be looking at her blog for drama fodder#even if shes posting it like that
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Why does it feel like nowadays you have to have some sort of intense background check by some hidden council in order to be allowed in some maps? Not by skill but by opinions politically or not. (Even though that doesn’t usually matter??)
A lot of decisions are also usually face-value assumptions of others which is really rude.
I’ve seen participants say they’re uncomfortable with others but they haven’t even met each other or talked..? So it’s more like they don’t like them and want them out of the map. Even if the first complainer is problematic themselves.
so really it’s a race to who can be uncomfortable with the other first and “inform” the host first.
it’s like a territory dispute nowadays. Map drama is weird. Is it possible that people somehow followed the books clan life style so seriously? Lol.
i mean...i doubt people want to unknowingly work with a fascist or something
#i dont like the way this is worded#and the fact that you're saying this when#warriors is largely full of ppl with the most shitty beliefs#that even means they have awful political views#we have literal nazis in this fandom jsyk#like yes ppl should justhave fun with maps#but to say theyre wrong or trying to stir drama for merely...#not wanting to associate with a terrible person is. weird#theres nothing wrong w tht unless#its being used to spread false info#but someone merely warning a host that this person is racist isnt..bad#like what do you really mean when you say this#i hope youre normal#confession#text#anonymous
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Tbh dre made tweets before the long one like the very passive aggressive "great minds think alike or something" and saying he was going to fight q (inb4 "IT WAS A JOKE" if q not saying shit was enabling drama I think that also counts as enabling drama lmao)
The thing is, those tweets were so clearly Dream trying his best to dismiss the hate and trying to make both his fans and Quackity fans calm down, specially since the norm with dtkq at the time were light hearted jabs like that
(Actually, honestly considering all that happen I think Dream was taking it very well? I mean, yeah it would of course have been better if they had talked it out and figured out how to do these two servers that were similar without stepping on each other toes, but if there were people showing up at mine and my friends house and a person who I thought was my friend suddenly started ignoring me I would react much much worse then just making some light hearted jabs at them on twt)
Edit: wait actually what does "inb4" mean
#discourse#if the jabs were dre stirring up drama wouldn't the situation have blown up way before he made the post about him/his family being stalked?#also I wouldn't call Q's silence as stirring up drama#did it make his fans feel like they had a pass since he wasn't condemning their actions? yeah#but after we found out that Dre was in legit danger it stopped feeling like drama to me and got worse#like idk how to describe it but I feel what Q did (or in this case. didnt do) its worse then drama#idk idk#maybe thats why I get so annoyed at how other CCs talk about it because they think its just drama over the server and forget the important#like dre got CONTACTED BY THE FBI. there were people SHOWING UP AT HIS HOUSE AND PUTTING TRACKERS ON HIS PARENTS CAR#i really wasn't planning on talking about this again i just got sad about missing Q yesterday and started thinking about it again#bleh >:'P#quackity neg#quackity situation#controversy#the voices#.... can i make a post about how I feel this type of behavior is dangerous to Q's own fandom?#i dont think I have space in the tags for it....#idk if you guys even want to hear me#but idk its a think you need to communicate with him about because it clearly could become a huge problem in the future#(and has from what i saw in that one racism situation)#actually anon if you think what dre did was bad then whats your opinion on T0mmy's video??#'cause he did much much worse with way less tact#from the pit in the backyard
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Everytime an Idia Shroud fan joins a Twist server an angel loses its wings
#.personal rambles#I dont like Ignihyde and I dont like Idia or Ortho but like#most every idia fan Ive ever met just radiates 2015 dangan ronpa kinnie energy#always trying 2 stir up drama and shit...like baby you are in your twenties lets be real here
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Grgh
#i dont rlly wanna tell anyone why i stopped talking to the friend i used to match with cause#i dont want them to end up lonely and friendless i dont wanna stir drama#it was more just . personal#i wasnt the nicest to them either they werent the only problem#but like a lot of my friends are friends with them And that doesnt make me upset i dont want them cancelled
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All fandoms have bad people in it, if you say your fandom doesn't, you are one of those people
I'm saying this as someone whos in multiple fandoms, no matter how many nice people I see and talk with, there will be toxic assholes in that fandom.
#Fandom#im going to say this agian#you cant control whos in a fandom but you can control who in a fandom you interact with#Rant#short rant#i would do a longer more in depth talk if i wanted but i think its better short and sweet#its better to look for people who you want to be friends with in a fandom#plus fighting with someone who you hate in a fandom will just stir up drama and make it even worse#just stay away from things you dont like!!!!#also if someone has a dni list and they interact with you if your apart of something the have dni-ed or whatever its called#Block em'!
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My favorite tags on the sexywoman polls so far
Bonus:
#tell me if you dont want me to includ your tags/replies btw ill take them off#tumblr sexywoman#tumblr sexywoman poll#polls#genuinely this is the kind of drama i wanted to stir >:3c#hope it ramps up in the next few rounds!#but ye like this is just for fun but ppl taste in characters is strictly their own business#it doesnt say anything about anyone if your favorite character loses#this is a very small sample size after all only a few of these polls reach over a hundred votes#i had to remove a reply earlier bc someone was complaining the morality of tumblr users have declined#bc ppl voted ianthe over malfina and this is bad bc apparently the book is 'problematic' which#i plan on reading the books and making my own judgement but ppl whose opinions i respect have praised them#which is neither here nor there i dont know the character except for tumblr osmosis bc im not part of the fandom#but like. chill please#if you wanna criticize a franchise for its problematic elements do it on your own post#and not in my poll of caricatures of popular characters who have been memed to death and back#to the point that theyre not even like. what theyre like in canon anymore#shut up pandora
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my friends got me to play ESO again. its... been kind of an emotional day for me. reliving a lot of memories. trying to decide how to resume playing, encountering reminders of the guild and people I thought were my friends at every turn.
I just feel kinda empty, kinda raw. this is my first time playing in... probably over 2 years so you'd think I'd be over it by now but. I'm just glad my friends have been so patient and supportive as I work through things. at the same time, I feel so awkward and just. not great because I am kinda struggling and I don't want to mess with their vibe ? like. I don't want to bring them down with my trauma again. even if its an experience we all shared, I feel so. annoying. dealing with it. like I shouldn't be dealing with it anymore, but I know its something I have to work through.
anyway. probably not gonna be here much this week, what with my playing ESO again (and the emotional stress its causing me lmao) and turning my final project in. will mostly be mobile I think.
if you play ESO you should add me: puffinshark and if you want to hangout add me on discord: sealsnoot
sending everyone love and good vibes <3
#《 ° puffin.exe 》 im a puffin ! i dont do much#° personal !#one of my friend keeps bringing up the guild and i know theyre only doing it to like. make me feel better. but its just. stirring the pot.#the pot being my anxiety lmao and like. i dont want drama with them again. i dont want to gossip about them.#like i dont want to think about them at all or acknowledge they exist and her bringing them up is. hard on me.#idk how to politely tell her i dont want to talk about the guild#at the same time. a part of me WANTS to talk about the guild. idk why but i do.
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i think i will confront these ppl next time
#the next time these 'friends' bring up my ex#whether its in a joking manner to make fun of them now or to ask what happened#i will confront them#its been over a year!!!#idc!!!!#i genuinely do not care!!!#and i dont wanna talk ab them!!#not in a way thats like#'im so sad and im not over it and i dont wanna talk abt it'#but more so:#'i dont want to keep living in relation to this person and i think its time for yall to let this narrative go'#because i have!#and they havent!! clearly!!!!!!!#maybe its bc i dont get their humor#:/#but who brings up other ppls exes ???#and i dont want to know their movements#i care 0 amount about what theyre doing now#dont tell me that you saw them at the grocery store#who cares!!!!!#and I AM upset about this not because i havent gotten over this ex#but rather because im tired of these friends asking and talking to be about him and pitying me#its been A YEAR#and even longer than that actually!!!!!1#i actually think i dont want to be closer frineds with these ppl#beacuse to me it feels like they just want to stir up drama from the past and bring it up like its necessary to the person i am today#give. it. up!!!!!!!!#.evature#i talked to my really close friend abt it and she was like#yeah they suck and you should tell them not to bring him up
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hiii 🍓🔪🦷🐚 and 🧩 (for the drama 💅)
✨ writer’s truth or dare! ✨
hi there nonnie !!! tysm for the ask!! i am so sorry for the late response but i hope that u see this and enjoy !! <3<3
🍓 ⇢ how did you get into writing fanfiction?
i have no idea anymore tbh lol. i can tell u that the first fic i ever wrote was an episode tag for the mentalist, and that i was probably was somewhere between the ages of 12 and 15???? but i don't remember the specifics that got me into it. i started reading fic (also for the mentalist) when i was like, 11, so, probably because after a year or two i convinced myself to just give it a shot and the rest was history. at the end of the day, though, it probably just comes down to an uncontrollable urge to put that blorbo into a situation!!
🔪 ⇢ what's the weirdest topic you researched for a writing project?
not for a fanfic, but i had to know SO MUCH about a limited model run of a special drag racing car that ford made in the early 1960s (only a few hundred made, very rare, etc etc) due to a personal writing project i started and then kind of abandoned when i was like, 16 lol. i used to know the production run numbers and engine size and the paint colors and everything by memory. it was ridiculous.
🦷 ⇢ share some personal wisdom or a life hack you swear on
if you love something, do it. even if you fear you won't do it well- if you love something enough, you love it enough to do it shitty. that's so much better than not doing it at all. learning to let go of my incredibly creativity-freezing perfectionism is an ongoing task that i am not even halfway thru, so trust me when i say i know how tough that rly is. but you always regret the things you didn't try more than the things you did.
🐚 ⇢ do you like or dislike surprises?
aaaaaah do we still mean in writing lol? or irl? i like a surprise twist or turn in writing quite a lot! i also love foreshadowing and being chased down by the narrative. there's no perfect right answer! as for irl, it depends, but i don't like to get scared or to have plans suddenly changed at the last minute. if it's a surprise outside of those circumstances, then yes, i do!
🧩 ⇢ what will make you click away from a fanfiction immediately?
for me it's either poor formatting (i.e. no paragraph breaks, no quotations, no commas, that kind of thing), or (and i hope this doesn't come off rude in any way bc i know we all make different choices stylistically and are all always learning and growing too!), and this might just be a me thing, but if the pov is from like. a god-mode position where the third person narrative knows what every character is thinking at the same time and it's not just switching povs or like. one character's prediction of another's pov. but like. idk what that is called. it just kind of breaks my immersion to the story i think, so i don't tend to vibe with it!
again, thank u so much anon !!! i hope u have a lovely day !! <3 tysm for stopping by my blog and taking time to send in an ask aaaa!
#star unasks#Anonymous#i hope u do see this im sorry it was so late !!!!!#lol but i hope i dont stir up ~drama~ on the last one#i feel like everyone has those weird pet peeves when it comes to formatting or style etc etc
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