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stuckinapril · 3 months ago

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I complain about wanting male attention bc of my daddy issues and then when I get perceived in any sort of way by a man I’m like I’ve been doubly victimized …. This is the worst, most blasphemous thing to have ever happened to me ……. The nerve on you to think you can speak to me …………….

#Studying at a cafe rn and some dude turned around and looked me in the eye and was like “u smell good :)”#Bc id like walked ahead of his table to drop my drink in the trash #And at first I was like ummm what which I feel like should’ve given him the chance to course correct #This man doubles down and is like u smell good!!!!!#And I had to be like aw thanks :) but it was rly awkward bc I feel like that’s just not a natural way to start a conversation #So he had to j awkwardly turn around and I had to awkwardly go back to my biochem chapter #Also I’m wearing Love Don’t Be Shy by Kilian rn so ofc I smell good …..#tell me something I don’t KNOW …….#Anyway I rly don’t wanna be perceived rn

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tommykinard6 · 7 days ago

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This is me putting out a desperate plea for someone to write BuckTommy mpreg with Tommy instead.

Please. I’m begging someone to break up the monotony of my dash. I don’t have time to do it all myself.

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blushedfemmes · 7 days ago

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… :/

#i wish people would stop making well-intentioned positivity posts to support stone bottoms/pillow princesses that are just scolding ppl #for ‘not respecting our boundaries.’ like yeah it’s partly about boundaries but it’s way more about how sex and topping is viewed as labor #and therefore must be reciprocal to be moral. shit talking pillow princesses is so common in the queer community bc it is perceived to be #the MORAL stance. scolding ppl as if this is a purely interpersonal matter of ‘respecting boundaries’ is not shifting anything babes #sex is only labor when it’s sex work. if you think topping is a chore you shouldn’t be doing it. this is what we need to be saying to ppl #but anyways. i know these posts come from a good place but goddamn. why does the way i like to have sex need to be a ‘boundary’#shit like this makes me never wanna have sex again bc i genuinely don’t wanna hook up w someone who’s just trying to ‘respect my boundary’#i want to hook up with someone who actually wants to have sex with me!! the way i like to have sex!!! the fuck!!!!#delete later #ugh sorry im. in a mood 😣

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coolcarabiner · 1 year ago

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lesbians who are terfs will never make any sense to me crying about the supposed exclusivity of the “female experience” like my brother in christ she experienced an othered, lonely, confusing childhood where she was made to feel inadequate in her gender, sexuality, or both just the same as you and instead of letting this unify you against patriarchy you just enforce it on other people to maintain the sliver of “power” you think you have. how do u not see how dumb this is oh my god

#like trans women are hurt by the patriarchy they don’t benefit from it you fucking coconuts bc even if they were ‘men’ (they’re not)#they’d be men who cannot live up to the standards set by patriarchy!!!! this is feminism 101 yet some people run their mouths like it’s 1912 #like dude. she’s doing gender and sexuality in a way cishet society hates just like u are. please be fucking smart and realize attacking her #only hurts YOU and loses YOU the same bodily autonomy u wanna deny her for the sake of “’saving ur lesbian brethren’ or what the fuck ever #you’re hurting cis women trans women intersex people EVERYONE because you’re so obsessed w feeling special for being perceived as a woman #and then being harmed for it that you can’t even see that the women you hate so much experience the EXACT SAME SHIT. use ur brain!!!!!!#anyways sorry read some takes from some lesbians in LC and got way too heated. god bless u trans dykes i love u trans dykes #idk what to tag this so. ya #posts

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heart-of-the-morningstar · 5 months ago

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Thanks to @a-okay-rj for sending me this; evidently one of my fics broke containment 😅

#hazbin hotel #lucifer morningstar #tiktok #I DON’T WANNA BE PERCEIVED OUTSIDE OF OUR HOLY TUMBLR SITE

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trans-androgyne · 4 months ago

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The tme/tma binary is problematic because bioessentialism and gender essentialism is problematic.

The bioessentialism in its use includes assuming that everyone born with a vulva cannot experience transmisogyny in a meaningful way despite being presented with evidence otherwise. Sure it’s not all in the same way, not all trans women and transfems amab have all the same experiences either, but they can always specify something like “hey I’m an intersex trans woman who was afab but raised as a guy.”

The gender essentialism in its use includes assuming that everyone who identifies as a man cannot experience transmisogyny in a meaningful way despite being presented with evidence otherwise. Drag queens don’t get systemically targeted by transmisogyny even when there is legislation targeting their right to be in children’s and public spaces when they identify as men (cis or trans)? Are you certain? Because I’m not a drag queen and I’m not certain of that, so I can ask drag queens about it instead of assuming what their experiences are.

Julia Serano’s criticism of the tme/tma binary is that it’s use can consist of “boiling down people’s complex experiences with different types of sexism into ‘some people are privileged and some people are marginalized,’” and that’s my issue with it too.

#if someone calls themselves tma & specify something like #‘I’m a cis man but I’m consistently perceived like a trans woman & experience prejudice and discrimination as a result’#am I really qualified as someone who hasn’t lived that person’s life to say otherwise?#if someone calls themselves tma but when asked how so they say something like #‘oh I may be a cis man but one time I wore a dress & got mistaken for a trans woman & someone called me the T-slur :(‘#‘I don’t wear dresses a lot & it hasn’t happened since but I like the way tma sounds so I wanna use it’#most people would probably say. you don’t generally experience transmisogyny in that case so I’d rather #you stay out of the center of transmisogyny discussions bc they’re not about you & that’s what tma is intended for #again the transfems I know don’t think tma is a useful term either but I wanna address them respectfully #transmisogyny #tme/tma binary #mine #long post #intracommunity issues tag

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hplonesomeart · 19 days ago

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I’m pitifully late to properly celebrating the spooky season, but hey at least I’ve got some cool fanart to show now lol

#YEAAAA BILLIE BUST UP ART TIME WAHOOO #I’ve only drawn Barnaby a couple times before as rushed doodles #so this is a total upgrade from that for sure!!#I was watching LaurenZsides gameplay of Still Wakes the Deep while working on rendering this #…..yea that’s all the extra tidbits I feel like offering at the moment lol #do with that information what you will #Billie Bust Up is a great indie game in development tho and I recommend the soundtrack for any musical loving nerd #guys I promise I don’t have a specific villian archetype I latch onto whaaaat nooooo totally not #uh UH UHM no further questioning allowed! /j #billie bust up barnaby #barnaby the owl #Oscar Billie bust up #a million gruesome ways to die #art of Billie bust up #hmmm debating if I wanna be discreet in posting this or purposefully add lots of tags #that’s the thing with me—I’m aware of the various ways I can get this into public perception…but do I want to be perceived is the question #eh I’ll just let it sit here stangent for now lol #feeling a tad adventurous so mayhaps I’ll add more direct searchable tags later #hplonesome art

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mattscoquette · 5 months ago

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on todays episode of “what text am i gonna receive today from @55sturn that will make me bash my head into the wall”

#LIKE #WHAT IS UR ISSUEEEEE?????😭😭😭😭😭😭😭#i don’t wanna think about matt perceiving me at all #sturniolo triplets #matt sturniolo

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buddiesmutslut · 5 months ago

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PRESUMED DEAD EDDIE IS FINISHED & POSTED (in its entirety bc my brain is v weird) ON AO3 🎉🎉

@steadfastsaturnsrings (just wanted to let you know, bestie 🫶)

#911 abc #eddie diaz #evan buckley #buddie #christopher diaz #christopher diaz has two dads #buck is christopher’s other dad #ao3 #ao3 fanfic #911 fanfiction #shooting AU fic #Diaz parent bashing bc I LOATHE them lol #Ryliver if you wanna read this you can besties just pls don’t perceive ME lmfao

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reamed · 1 month ago

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one thing about me is that I will let you take photos of me but do NOT show me that shit

#txt #I’ve gotten better at letting ppl take pics or being in pics with others #especially my family like I kinda can see past feeling ugly in order to capture a special moment #but like don’t send it to me plz I don’t wanna perceive myself 😭😭😭

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person25 · 5 months ago

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It’s interesting to imagine random things that could’ve happened in the final timeline of tokyo revengers.

However my favorite thing that possibly happened is literally everybody questioning Takemichi’s outrageously high pain tolerance.

Like, he hasn’t lived a super hard life and doesn’t get beat up all that much (as far as they know anyway).

Until one day during a gang fight his arm gets broken (or something) and he doesn’t even flinch???

Suddenly everyone is like, what???

#if someone has already talked abt this tag them or something #i promise i didn’t know🙏#but i have so so so many thoughts regarding the final timeline and how people (who don’t know abt the time leaping) perceive takemichi #so ask if you wanna know more🤷‍♀️#hanagaki takemichi #tokyo revengers takemichi #tokyo revengers #tokrev

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jemmo · 7 months ago

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i didnt watch unknown as it was airing bc i knew it would consume me so i decided to binge it all today. i was correct. it has consumed me.

#i am so unwell #and the thing is there is no specific moment or ep i can point to or rewatch to get out out of my system #there is something about the all consuming atmosphere of the show that’s so dense and heavy it’s impossible to escape it I don’t know how #and i find it incredible how they managed to established that atmosphere and built it so well and reached these peaks of emotion that you’d #think would break all that tension but it just returns 10-fold #like this is how you do storytelling this is how you plot a 12 episode drama #bc you get the peak in ep 6 that is the crux of the story getting revealed but you’re only halfway #there’s still so much story to go and they show all of it #they show that this is a thing that takes time and thought and it perfectly demonstrates how stuck in his ways wei qian is #and i find it incredible how both the actors were able to convey the passing of time and their growing up through their performance you can #really feel how wei yuan matures and how what’s perceived as this childish crush or obsession never leaves bc it was never that it was #always more serious and concrete but in his maturity he can show that #and there’s something so crushing about watching wei qian i swear i choked up so many times watching this show bc they both got to me so bad #but wei qian’s story and his outlook on life is so universal and so true to that older brother role that so many people have #i am rambling so bad i just wanna like… exist in the vibe of this show forever #bc the heaviness of it makes you feel the weight lift in the moments of joy it’s beautiful #unknown

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soullessjack · 6 months ago

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i think perhaps another layer of autism in jacks character is that he’s fine with being different, but is always upset to be treated or perceived differently.

#i want to make this longer but I’m tired and i wanna finish my drawing #does this make a SMIDGE of sense #cal.txt #spn #supernatural #jack kline #autistic jack kline #autism experiences #autistic coded character #like he outwardly defines his identity as the son of Lucifer/a hunter/a Winchester #he’s often prideful of his powers & strengths but instantly ashamed if they’re perceived as weird or wrong #sam dean & cas are basically a support system for him in the same way as many other autistic support systems #they’re consistently accepting of him as he is—even when dean didn’t necessarily like him he still just took jacks mannerisms as they were #or the fact that jack decided to be that age right from the womb? they’re like ‘okay sure whatever that’s his own thing’#the offered reassurances that he’s not any less of a person bc of his difference #that they’re all weird in their own ways and it just doesn’t matter #he can accept that he’s not fully human and his father is the Supreme Agent Of All Evil #this is about don’t go into the woods btw. that episode is like Peak autism but in a bad painful curl up and rotting way #re the original script: ‘he’s back to being the oddball again’#read: he doesn’t LIKE being the oddball #he knows that he’s fundamentally different and not normal and he can accept that #i mean his state of demigodhood is basically like being born with bad eyesight #it’s like the difference between being used to and accepting of bad eyesight vs being called four eyes #is that a good analogy idk . I’m tired and low on food

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sambuchito · 1 year ago

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Seeing how men go trough life passively not aware how much the patriarchy benefits them and being coddled well into adulthood and not being able to complain lest you be considered a bitter cunt who’s making it up makes me insane actually

#seeing even pretty progressive men not challenge this narrative makes me wanna kill someone #I’m envious of male being considered the default and women be perceived as difficult or dramatic like ik sorry I don’t like rape jokes #and don’t even get me started on the work aspect. guys will not put effort and still be considered along women who excell. bro kys! :)#radfems and terfs don’t even fucking look at this post #mine

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kangarooqueen · 2 months ago

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Me to my sister as a trans man

#trans #transgender #ftm #straight #I don’t wanna be perceived as straight #but it is what it is #I’m queer god damnit

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detective-piplup · 3 months ago

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I don't know what's going on and you don't have to share, but take some golden stars and other pins and stuff from one of my Pinterest boards

thank you thank you, I will be posting my favourites bc there are some gems in here

#answered ask #as for what’s going on: weird mix of super high energy but geared entirely towards self destruction #for no perceivable reason other than for the past like. uh. 5 hours it’s been very unpleasant to have my mind and a top floor flat #I don’t wanna talk too much about it mainly just bc I don’t want to force my issues on anyone but yeah 👍 brain is braining

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