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#maybe it’s just me but I don’t think two teens sneaking a kiss and getting a little touchy so quickly they could be in full view of everyone#merits church wide intervention and prison level security at future events#should they do that? no. is that how you get them to not do that? very much no#I’m tired of this! everybody be normal for once! talk to your kid and stop suggestion I failed massively you need an apology the kid is#wicked and going to hell and they all but need to be shackled to their chairs with a constant patrol#Overreaction much!! not something we should be dealing with three weeks later probably! a great way to create conflict and mess the kids up!#i make two tiny mistakes (miss this instance which the camera also missed and then tell a friend what the parent said because it hurt and I#get This. Nuclear Bomb
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hot take but I maybe think the whole ‘no reaction when seeing bodies of dead poc babies’ isn’t actually that people aren’t having a reaction. it’s hopelessness and overwhelm we’ve learned to mask and it looks like we don’t care. but most people do. they just feel stuck as if they don’t know how they can help. outrage requires novelty otherwise it literally becomes a mood disorder
#voices for the oppressed posted something which had a point but pissed me off because actually maybe let’s not compare deaths to each#other. maybe they can just all be tragedies and results of injustice. the same connected injustice. truly don’t see the point otherwise#no one should be implicitly told they’re overreacting?? our brains have systems to keep us safe or we’d all die from the hopelessness and#overload of empathy. and the thing about systemic oppression is it makes us numb. it means we can’t have outrage against every single#injustice because our brains literally can’t sustain it. that’s the reason why people are desensitised to brown babies dying. not because#they don’t care. I think you’ll find most people do. I think you’ll find most people are good and there’s just so many bad things to care#about. in the end we can’t physically prioritise everything. We have to attack the SYSTEMS (which is actually what my night class is on)#don’t let sideblog ariel tell you she doesn’t know what it’s about. she just got distracted singing wicked habit in a clever capsule bed#systemic oppression#black lives matter#brown lives matter#palestinian lives matter#none of which means white famous mens lives DONT matter
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like i really don’t wanna go into specifics because i do enjoy this person’s friendship but. it kinda hurts when you text me about a movie you’ve just seen and i make a note to check it out (and then do). but you refuse to like, even consider the new show i suggest because it “doesn’t really seem like something you’d like” based on the four tiktok clips you’ve seen. or because you think the lead actor’s ugly. etc etc
#please tell me if i’m overreacting#i think it’s just the outright dismissal that makes me feel like you really don’t care at all about any of my interests or opinions#and like. if you had a legitimate reason for refusing to engage it would be different#triggers and such. problematic people involved. etc#or even if you watched the first twenty minutes and decided it wasn’t for you#but i literally got a text this morning that was like. i will never watch [show you like] because i saw a tiktok and that guy’s ugly#and they were being serious. i know because it’s happened before#k.txt
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i’ve long since given up on the fantasy of an Accepting Family but i’m kind of tired of my mother pretending she’ll ‘try’ and support my transition only for her to turn around and tell me i’m making a mistake and i’m making her sad by doing it and also refusing to help me with even the tiniest things. i asked if she would drive me to my bloods appointment tomorrow because i don’t drive and i’m terrified of blood tests and i always faint afterwards so i don’t want to have to walk back home which takes over an hour. and she said no even though she’s not busy with anything else and it’s a short drive. she just doesn’t want to. and i’m not trying to act like a spoilt bitch who expects to get chauffeured everywhere but i would rather she stop pretending to be ‘trying’ when she doesn’t actually act like it at all
#i really did not want to walk to this blood test thing. or go on my own#it’s making me feel sick just thinking about it and i would feel so much better if i didn’t have to walk / go alone#and what annoys me is that she’d completely understand if it wasn’t to do with transitioning#but she keeps saying that i’m doing this to myself and it’s my choice that i don’t need to make so i can’t complain#i know it’s just a blood test and i’m overreacting i just really really hate them and they always go Really badly#i hate doing all this shit on my own. i find it all so intimidating and overwhelming
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#I don’t know where to talk about this so here I am ahhhhhhh anyway I’m worried that he doesn’t#want to talk to me anymore/ which is hopefully me being overreactive#and I don’t think I came off clingy at all I really hope I didn’t and I haven’t been texting him a tremendous amount also because#I’ve been waiting for him to text me back sometimes?#and idk maybe he was busy yesterday and doing things but hhhhhhh god#I hate being nervewracked by this stuff especially after feeling SO happy and grateful#and just like overwhelmed with emotions#the last text was a question I sent last night and nothing now and yet I’m a total loser#he deleted/hid his bumble profile so that’s a good thing right? because he’s not interested in anyone else#but I’m paranoid about a crash after that high about not being able to have good things#and I just need the reassurance that it’s okay and he does like me#because he’s flying away soon I think next weekend and he was the one who said we should hang out again#before he leaves#anyway this is what the inside of my head looks like right now. sad and nervous and anxious and needy and unsure#personal
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sheriff sam getting misgendered in good morning nightvale moodboard
#it was only one time but imo#using he/him even once on a character who has ALWAYS used they/them and is ALSO played by a trans woman#is always too many times#and i probably wouldn’t have made this post if the other two had like. actually corrected her? but they didn’t#gmnv is interesting sometimes but for the most part it was just frustrating#this isn’t like a call to action or anything don’t harass anybody it’s just really frustrating to see not only from the fandom but from#actual cast members as well#and this is mostly just a means to get my energy abt this out!!#i could be overreacting but i’ve been thinking about this for days and it’s just. grrr#i didn’t even listen to all the episodes so i don’t even actually know if it was only one time#okay i’ve been rambling in these tags for far too long bye bye#wtnv#horsetalk
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HI TUMBLRR it’s me
#I ate ramen just now it was soooo god I think ramen is just it just is better after 10pm#im right#ughhh ok that actually reminded me earlier my classmate was making an Asian people eat dogs joke like he put on this awful accent and he wa#all like ‘dog tastes so good with rice’ and then he did other stuff too#but what really made me upset is that someone who I thought was my friend found it really humorous! wow okay!#I know it’s not really a big deal but im still kind of sad like I’ve lost all my respect for you now#anddd they were my only friend in the class so now I’m stuck there for the rest of the semester I guess . I mean I’ll still be nice to them#but I just don’t think I can bring myself to like them anymore sorryyy . not really . but kind of#idk if I’m overreacting . in elementary school though people would make jokes actually about me eating dog and it always made me really sad#but I never held it against them cause we were children#but now I feel like you’re old enough to know what you’re laughing at..#wow ok this really derived away from me being on tumblr and having just ate the worlds best ramen#well . not really I mean it was good but I’m allergic to normal noodles and I need to eat rice noodles and they’re not bad I just don’t lik#them as much Lol#I feel like my actual posts say nothing but if anyone ever reads the tags they probably know everything about me..#I use tumblr to complain half the time loll and I used to post my drawings more but I haven’t made any good drawings recently😭😭😭BUT WAIT!#i have a comic I’ll post in October we’ll see how far I am in it by then…#im like . halfway done with chapter oneeeee so maybe like I’ll post all of chapter one on hallowern.. how does that sound… cause actually#for those of you who don’t know my story has ghosts in it#im like trying to keep it a little silly right now but the tone might shifftttt idk!!!!! we’ll seeeeeeee cause actually I have NOT worked#out the entire plot.. just like. most of it.#but I keep having ideas like midway through ughhh it’s an endless cycle!!!!!#like Francis . she used to be a random character who shows up once but then I was like . wait no! anjali should have ghost friends! and tha#that’s how Francis came to be#and actually today I kind of finalized her design^_^ albeit in my math notebook lol
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AAAH I have a mutual who’s 18 and he sorta kinda is flirting with this one guy who is a minor as a joke of course ( to which a concerned anon said that it’s weird ) but I can’t help but flashback to er*s
#granted the er*s situation was thoroughly complex and the reason she did those things was her copism with not being able to pull ( LLLLLLL )#and ik that guy doesn’t mean any harm etc etc he’s not messed up like some ppl#BUT I DUNNO STILL#sobbing#they’re pretty sweet so#hes*#OH AND HES IRAQI TOO I LEGIT COULDNT BELIEVE THAT#dora daily#lowkey kinda sorta sad that a whole anon was more concerned than ppl i knew and who knew my age#and freely saw it happen so readily#and everyone else on that blog#genuinely and utterly disappointed#it’s always protect minors until the minors need protecting goddamn#this is especially directed at rhy yeah I’m not censoring that#🤷♀️#too busy simping over minor characters who don’t have a time skip in canon and aging them up then complaining about it when ppl call out#the brain deadery of that behaviour#girl pls#you did not care about minors from the beginning literally bye#e[redacted] literally ruined my brain chemistry to say the least I will never go into how what she did absolutely muddled my brain never#told anyone and I don’t think I can ever tell someone ever#not to mention practically hyperventilating being unable to breath literally going into madness and ppl think that I’m overreacting and#telling me to shut up about it and blaming me for the situation as if I wanted any of this#lmaolmaolmao#all that and I was expected to do uni girl byeeee I need a good century to recover at least ☠️#the only thing I DID want is friends but clearly that was a hard ask when ppl can get friends just by existing on this god forsaken app#atp I don’t even know what to say literally just wth#yall say mdni with your dumbass banners and decorate it like something special when yall are the ones to keep from minors you disgusting#wastes of clean oxygen 😭 mdni my foot gross ass adults should’ve never trusted them#the way I’d give them therapy to their complex traumas ☠️ imagine relying on a minor for therapy
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what do you think it’d take to get the irls to they/them me consistently
#i am SO FUCKING TIRED of she/her i am going to SCREAM#under usual circumstances i am an all pronouns no preference kinda guy!#HOWEVER! with the addition of the recent Anger! my patience grows thin! they/them or perish!#i just think it’s fucking boring that all i ever get is she/her even from other queer folks#like come onnnnnnn you are so lame for that. switch it up sometimes#props to the irls who he/she me in the same sentence. mal adya ily. other people who’ve also done that ily-#-but those two are the only ones i can think of bc it is 1 in the fucking am#aaaaaanyways all this to say if you consider us close and you consistently she/her me we are not as close as you fucking think#(<- don’t take this seriously it’s 1 am i’m overreacting. we are still close. but please for the love of god STOP EXCLUSIVELY USING SHE/HER)#i use multiple sets of pronouns for a FUCKING REASON it’s not for FUN (it’s kinda for fun) it’s for my SANITY#three o clock speaks#y’all i’m delirious i hate being awake for this long. but i do not wanna sleep
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imagine if my medication worked to stabilize my bipolar disorder.
#pi's personal#delete later#i WOULD be Worse without it like ping ponging up and down and suicidal 90% of the time instead of 20%#but i can dream of a world where the smallest thing doesn’t suddenly trigger a hairpin transition into a depressive episode.#that would be nice.#and it always is The Smallest Most Insignificant Things that trigger it#making me seem like a huge bitch and the world’s worst person#aw you’re sobbing hysterically because you couldn’t find parking in a downtown parking garage on a friday evening? literally anybody else#would just suck it up. nobody else would do that#now this is something i should be bringing up in therapy and not talking about to my 1000+ tumblr followers BUT#i have a theory that it’s always a straw that breaks the camel’s back situation.#things build up and i don’t feel like i’m really struggling that much with things or bottling them up but i Am. and then i hit a seemingly#arbitrary tipping point and it all comes combusting out like a shrapnel explosion#the fun thing about it is that because it seems so arbitrary i drive people away from me#because they think i’m severely overreacting to something very small#and also that i’m a Huge Fucking Bitch. just the worst kind of mean annoying lashing out person#everyyyyyything has to be about me. i always make it about me. i always cause a scene.#and rightfully so nobody then wants to be around me. or to take my side in a conflict.#because i am quite literally The Problem.#and it’s like i can’t even help it. it’s like i can’t control it. i just go into a state of Shutdown Overwhelm and suddenly things are#Too Much and i lash out at anything i can because it all goes spilling outward.#and THAT is why nobody who knows me well enough wants to be around me
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i actually hate this whole AI voice cloning thing. even when people are ‘just’ using it for funny jokes w/ famous people— making their voice say things they obviously never said/never will say— it still gives me a really really bad feeling, just like deepfakes/AI face replacement does. and the more these AI models are used and learn, the harder it becomes to tell what’s real and what isn’t
#i don’t think i’m overthinking it or overreacting#there’s something so wrong about all of it#and people definitely use it maliciously#i don’t think it’s the same as like. voice synthesiser programs like vocaloid or text to speech#the goal of these new AI voices is to sound as realistic and close to the original as possible without any true effort on the user’s part#to attempt a near perfect copy of someone’s natural speaking voice#★
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I’m just a grumpy old Two-Stater, but…
You see, the thing is, when I see University Protestors chant “Globalize the Intifada”, when I see them yell at Jewish students (their fellow members of the student body, no less) to “go back to Poland”, when I see them carry signs and make chants that invoke the Final Solution, when I see them drape themselves in the flags of Hezbollah or Hamas, when I see them refer to Hamas as “the resistance”, when I see them praise the Houthis for their “blockade of Israel” (when all that really happened was the indiscriminate firing of missiles at random civilian shipping belonging to other unrelated countries, and also a major ecological disaster), when I see them express support or sympathy or apology for these and other IRGC-backed terror organizations, when I see them engage in 10/7 denialism or even soft Holocaust denialism, when I see them claim that any Israeli civilian is a legitimate target for violent “decolonization”, when I see them imply that the only acceptable solution to the conflict is one that involves the expulsion of all Israeli Jews from the southern Levant…
I’m just forced to make a snap judgement as to whether these people are:
A) Actually Genuinely Evil, or
B) Severely misguided, under-informed people who are experiencing genuine (and correct!) horror at watching constant needless and horrific slaughter play out on every available source of information they have, and are responding to this horror the only way they know how, by gathering en masse and screaming at the only source of authority they have access to: their school administrations. Because that’s just what people in their social groups do in response to genuine and heartfelt outrage, and they just wind up going along with the antisemitic crap because of the “wisdom of the crowd” effect and because they don’t know any better.
And, to me, even after months of this, option B) still seems not only more likely to be actually correct, but also far more charitable.
But the thing is, when called out for all of that, they always double down. They equivocate and deflect and hide behind claiming that the above examples are all just “anti Zionism not antisemitism”, and they dismiss and demean the perspectives and fears of Jewish people and those of us who stick up for them.
And all of that just really makes me start to wonder about option A) after all.
#I still don’t think they’re evil#and I know the people who do all this stuff may very well be a minority among all campus protestors#But if that’s the case the “majority” still don’t seem very interested in distancing themselves from or freezing out the vocal antisemitics#And you just know that most of the people described above are white and from middle- to upper-class backgrounds#and didn’t know anything about or care about the I/P conflict until the horror of 10/7 and Israel’s horrific overreaction of a response#made it the Only Important Issue in all their social circles#Oh and lest we forget they gain social clout and internet brownie-points for reacting in this way#but I’m trying to be charitable here so I guess I’ll consider that an ancillary benefit and not their primary motivating factor
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Atiny twitter is infighting over woosan shippers and I get it but fans need to stop being hypocritical and decide if they are actually against rp shipping or if they just hate woosan
San got an umbrella on his new custom in ears and people started getting mad at anybody who mentioned woosan but you could say SH and HJ are fucking and people would think it’s funny and cool to say
#ateez#woosan#discourse#I just think at this point people are overreacting every time somebody mentiones woosan#if San didn’t want it to be associated with woosan he wouldn’t get an umbrella??#the double standards are weird to me considering most ateez fan content#is based on relationship dynamics between members#and shipping is rampant in this fandom with ALL members#they all literally have designated pairs#but for some reason just mentioning woosan is going too far?#when woosan are pretty ok with that stuff and it seems like they don’t mind it too much#im saying this from the perspective of a person who isn’t a shipper but who sees the hypocrisy in the fandom#like maybe he did get the umbrella for wooyoung because they’re close#what’s wrong with that?
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#rsd attack :{#i just wanna write something good enough to get someone else talking. idk what im doing wrong#and i know nobody is obliged to do that and im being entitled. i haven’t even written for things my friends actually know in forever#i just can’t get myself to fixate on something that’ll get a response. im there to write things like that but ive just lost all motivation#this is why online friendships are so hard i don’t have any energy to talk normally i just want to like be there#i want the online equivalent of laying in someone’s lap like you’re there but you can be quiet and just be with the person#idk. its my fault anyway im the one not reaching out#im the one being a bad friend i just like I have a pit in my stomach when I think about interacting#and I know that’s so stupid I know im overreacting and I always have fun#I just wanna write something good again. I just want a magnum opus and then I can lay down and let whatever happens to me happen#…idk. it wasn’t supposed to be but maybe last night’s writing was a little projection
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sooo done with all this fitz hate
#fitz could’ve gotten really mad at the sokeefe kiss but no he told sophie how he was feeling and they talked it out like mature people#but apparently he’s not allowed to feel sad at all that his ex kissed someone else?? who doesn’t feel at least a little bit hurt over that#also i think he was expecting that sophie would get back together with him once she was ready so the kiss was like being broken#up with a second time but this time for good#also i GUARANTEE YOU if fitz’s and keefe’s positions in sophie’s love life were reversed they’d react to sophie dating the other pretty#much exactly the same as the other did#fitz isn’t overreacting. it’s different circumstances#there’s a difference between your crush dating someone else and your ex that you though was going to date you again when she was ready to#kissing someone else#ALSO fitz constantly reminds sophie they’re cognates because he’s been raised in an environment where he’s told that he as a#person doesnt matter‚ just his talents and abilities and what he can do#and he thinks if sophie forgets that they’re cognates she wont care about him anymore. he thinks his cognate status is the only reason#sophie cares about him. and if he can’t offer that‚ what can he offer?#blame elven society and the vacker legacy and the pedestal he was placed on before he was even born. but don’t blame him#kotlc spoilers#stellarlune spoilers#rant in tags#kinda#kotlc#fitz vacker
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Some venting in the tags because sometimes it’s easier to vent into the void than talk to my therapist 🙂 Although I should probably make an appointment and bring this up with her. Don’t mind me being depressed for a minute 😂 Carry on with your whoring and other shenanigans
#I’m so deeply depressed that it’s not even funny anymore 🙂#Even with all the help I’m getting with therapy and how wonderful my parents are in letting me know that they’re here for me and will help#me no matter what I’m still so fucking depressed and bordering falling into a deep dark fucking hole 🙂#And I feel so guilty because with all this help and love? I surely shouldn’t be feeling like this?#It just fucking sucks and I literally just want to disappear into a fucking cabin in the woods away from all the bullshit#that’s making me so depressed and miserable.#This is kind of dark but I don’t want to live but at the same time I don’t want to die(?)#Idk I find pleasure and joy sometimes in the small things but at the same time I just don’t feel any real joy or light deep inside me.#It kind of feels fake? Forced maybe? This joy I sometimes get. Because I think I just feel empty mostly.#Like there is no real life in me or something. I always think I’m overreacting or being dramatic but this is literally how I feel.#I’ve been trying to suppress this for so long and act like everything fine but I don’t have the strength for that anymore tbh.#So idk? Am I actually depressed or just overreacting? I should probably be asking my therapist this and not the Tumblr void 😂#and I’m sending a little hug and strength out into the dark void of anyone needs it 🫂
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